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Why aren't more gay male bestsellers written by gay men? (And does it matter?)

Are gay male stories only marketable when written by women?

With the massive popularity of stories like Love, Simon and Heartstopper, critiques have popped up about them being written by women – especially straight women. The critiques on straight women writing queer stories became so loud that some authors have felt pressured to identify their sexualities publicly — sometimes before they'd even processed their sexualities for themselves.

Author and YouTuber Savy Writes Books launched a recent conversation about the topic on Threads with her own "Pride month hot take."

"The 'straight women are dominating MM [male-on-male] fiction!!' is a moral panic rooted in misogyny," she wrote. "Let's look at some examples, all of authors I LOVE. Hank Green was still publicly identifying as straight when he wrote his FF [female-on-female] series (which I loved), and nobody ever got mad at him for being a straight man writing FF with a bisexual FMC [female main character]. Nobody demanded he come out of the closet, and he got to do so on his own terms, when he was ready."

She gave the examples of Becky Albertalli, Casey McQuiston, and Alice Oseman, who wrote Love, Simon, Red White and Royal Blue, and Heartstopper, respectively. "All these authors were presumed to be cishet women, then were harassed for writing MM fiction, harassed to the point of feeling pressured to out themselves. That is not safe or okay."

Men continue to dominate the film industry, even when it comes to female-centered films. "Men lead the exploitative lesbian porn industry, creating it for a straight male gaze," she says. Ultimately, she's calling for readers to stop policing authors' sexualities and just enjoy the book.

"My point is, stop wasting time speculating which authors might be cishet women and just read some queer books. You never know who is straight or who is cis. You never know what someone might be questioning. There is LITERALLY no way for you to know that about an author. And accept that some of this stems from James Somerton style queer misogyny. Because it does. Signed, A very queer woman who writes FF, MM, and more.

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by Anonymousreply 12May 31, 2025 12:37 AM

We are too busy with our poppers and poopers

by Anonymousreply 1May 30, 2025 7:53 PM

Put another way, women buy more books than men, so their tastes have an outsized influence on general fiction bestseller lists, which in turn influences what gets published. Which is one more reason why corporate media consolidation kills creativity.

by Anonymousreply 2May 30, 2025 7:57 PM

Gay men aren't the audience. 40% of population of straight women > 1-2% gay men.

by Anonymousreply 3May 30, 2025 8:15 PM

A lot of gay-themed fiction by women is pretty girly, but then so is much of gay YA written by gay men. Because, as r3 says, that’s the main audience, girls and women.

by Anonymousreply 4May 30, 2025 8:43 PM

At a guess, slash fiction fandom, which is almost entirely composed of girls/women, probably serves as a training ground for and pipeline to published writing in this genre. I don't think that many gay male writers are cutting their teeth on Harry Potter/Draco Malfoy or Dean Winchester/Castiel stories.

by Anonymousreply 5May 30, 2025 10:16 PM

I find YA gay fiction written by women to be more like fantasy than reality. But that's probably what people want. (I don't mean literal fantasy. I mean it's a fantasy of what real-life young adult gay life is like, or should be like.)

by Anonymousreply 6May 30, 2025 10:27 PM

Gay men are too busy actually fucking to write fiction about it.

by Anonymousreply 7May 30, 2025 10:47 PM

Gay fiction written by women often feels like they took a male/female plot from a romance novel and just put the bottom in the woman's role

by Anonymousreply 8May 30, 2025 11:02 PM

Don’t forget about the prostate!

by Anonymousreply 9May 30, 2025 11:31 PM

In what concerns fiction, i find perfectly legitimate for people to write whatever they want and make up whatever they want. Which isn’t t say this sort of fiction isn’t more sanitized than the ones that could be written by gay men and more acceptable to the masses. But this is preferable than when i was growing up and this sort of thing simply didnt exist.

by Anonymousreply 10May 31, 2025 12:21 AM

When I was a teen I remember running across Gordon Merrick's books, which had hot man-on-man sex but also every character calling each other "darling" constantly and otherwise adopting the mannerisms of Zsa Zsa Gabor.

by Anonymousreply 11May 31, 2025 12:26 AM

[quote]"All these authors were presumed to be cishet women...."

Oh, NOES! Anything but "cishet women"!!!

No matter how many times they scream that "cis is not a slur", WE SEE YOU!

by Anonymousreply 12May 31, 2025 12:37 AM
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