My poor sister

It is not easy to hide MAGA tendencies.

"His condemnation of Trump definitely has a “methinks thou dost protest too much” air about it. He’s absolutely still 1000% a Trump hater,"

Get a life.

Your sister must be hot! Are you just jealous and trying to start trouble?

How does a post show up in a search if it’s gone? Is that really a thing?

But if they do and you’re sure it’s him, what are you waiting for? Tell her but before you do at least make a screen grab or take a photo of the search results page showing him. If you’re SURE it’s him. And if you’re SURE she’d want to know, or care.

Try framing it as the guy is a LIAR rather than he’s a MAGAT.

Yeah the sister must be still bringing the heat in the sheets at 60 to land a third husband.

But, no wonder she's on her third marriage, she's got meddling family members who don't know the meaning of MYOB.

-Infinity

If OPs post is for real he is not meddling. Anyone who hates Trump and would not want a Trumper for a partner would want to know. Why wouldn’t they? Sooner or later they’re gonna slip up. Especially if the Trump hater is a woman and the Trump lover is a man.

Omg are people here so limited that they think people don’t get married over again, or late in life?

Or that you have to be attractive/hot to do so? Jesus.

My sister is 63 and she’s not a 21 year old babe. Her husband is 64. And they got married. SHOCK HORROR!

Is she rich? I guess it doesn't matter. I know a guy who is a gold digger for girls on disability that have pain pill prescriptions

No she’s not at all rich, I’m the one who made money of my siblings. My sister worked in publishing and then became a teacher.

He makes more than she does. He’s a traveling sales rep and makes decent but not spectacular money.

If this is for real… leave it alone . Maybe he decided to start over. They seem happy enough as a couple.

You only found some shit because you went looking for some shit. Keep that in mind.

R11 is right, don’t say anything (always wise advice). Right now Trumpers and extreme righters are on a rampage and no longer have any shame to declare it, so maybe he changed his mind or his smart enough to see your sister wouldn’t like it.

Only reason to say anything was if it was a scam to lure her and her money but apparently this is not the case.

If he was that deep into MAGA he’s not starting over. He’s deceiving her. He’s a MAGA. They’re insane. If you loved your sister would you want her with a Nazi? Or even a former Nazi?

^Is not his

OP's sister is a real fire cracker in the bedroom to hook three victims! Her speciality is number 17, the spread eagle...

The complete ignorance/jealousy of heterosexual relationships here is hilarious. "Some lady got married! She must be a huge slut for a guy to want her!"

Stay class, DL.

"I saw OP's sister and her husband in the closet making babies and one of the babies looked at me."

Not just that, R16, but also the “so what if he’s a lying MAGA, that’s his business” attitude is very strange to say the least.

If this is true....

OP, does your sister have money? You might suggest being careful since it's her third go around.. Otherwise, stay out of it! You'll end up being the skunk at the garden party.

R19, she has a little bit, and an old, very nice house. However, she has made it clear she’s leaving her house (an 18th century home in the berkshires) with some of the original structure still intact) to her adult son from her first marriage.

See, my thinking isn’t at all that he’s manipulating her to get at material things. My suspicion is he wanted to be with her and so cauterized his maga past.

But it worries me — I think when you hide who you really are, it builds up pressure and that eventually explodes.

I love a good biography and after having read dozens… it’s clear that, sometimes, people do change and sometimes they go through distinct life phases. I was single for two decades and used to co-host sex parties! Now I’m married and domestic.

Why are so many here determined to tear this happy woman's life apart and have her be alone in her 70s and 80s?

Agreed R22. OP’s interests seem to be snooping, armchair psychoanalyzing, and seeking justification for trying to cause problems in an apparently happy marriage.

Why are so many here determined to enable this lying MAGAT into deceiving his Trump-hating wife?

We should all now be on our knees praying that more people who posted pro-Trump messages in the past now delete them and start speaking to others condeming him.

Why are so many here unable to even consider, if not redemption, at least a change of heart?

And that it is none of OP’s business. This is his sister, not his 14 year old daughter.

Miami is nice so I’ll say it THRICE!

[quote] But I searched him and found several social media accounts and on more than one he’s total MAGA crazy. But when you click on those posts it say’s post deleted or reply deleted, or the post is just gone, doesn’t load.

This makes no sense to me, OP.

MAGAs don't change. That's why, R26. Just take a look at all the news stories about the MAGAts who were screwed over by Trump's policies yet they still defend him.

One isn't gonna change because he married somebody LOL. He just removed some of the evidence. He didn't change. Sooner or later and probably sooner he'll slip up. Because MAGAs cannot help themselves.

Op do you and your sister have money? If not let her be happy. Probably some good dick. Who knows he might have multiple personalities.

OP, having made up his story, has now fled the thread.

Sure looks that way.

Sorry, but my practice doesn't provide family counseling services.

[quote]How does a post show up in a search if it’s gone? Is that really a thing?

[quote]This makes no sense to me, OP.

R4 and R28, yes, it's a thing. I often encounter matches to a Google search but the results no longer correspond to the correct link. It makes a very precise match, but the suggested links to to places other than what's indicated on the search results list. The links-results are mismatched because of changes made to those reader comments or links to news stories, etc. Eventually it's gets righted, but there can be a long time gap.

But for all of that, I'm inclined to side with R31. It's a perfect storm thread to blur the lines of tendencies toward MYOB or "you must intervene.". Just enough detail. And it's his only thread on DL. Well done, OP

[Quote] OP’s interests seem to be snooping, armchair psychoanalyzing, and seeking justification for trying to cause problems in an apparently happy marriage.

Sorry, we aren’t all bitter solitary queens like you. Some of us actually worry for our siblings and want to make sure they’re safe and happy.

R34 So what do you think OP searched (if this is even a true story, which I doubt)? HIs brother in law's name? It's confusing.

[Quote] OP, having made up his story, has now fled the thread.

Sorry, I’m not an eldergay housebound by his morbid obesity. Before replying, try to remember a time you didn’t need the mobility cart, and had more to your life than reading this forum every waking moment.

A time before you were posting 100 replies to “words only eldergays remember.”

R37 So sowwy I hurt your feewings.

I assume, R36. Searching even very unusual names in unique combinations can generate a lot of hits that are not. Adding "Canton, Ohio" to the search, where it ought to narrow the results in the extreme, can sometimes make the results coarser. Google search doesn't have the precision it once dis, and it's now rather bad for proper names.

If shes happy thats all that matters. Ive done the Right thing over the years and its never been good for anyone. They stay together and hate you.

She'll find out, eventually.

[quote]R21 I was single for two decades and used to co-host sex parties! Now I’m married and domestic.

Has your spouse been told?

I want to tell your spouse!

[quote]R22 Why are so many here determined to tear this happy woman's life apart and have her be alone in her 70s and 80s?

Because the lying husband is probably planning to KILL her. Some insurance scam, perhaps.

Tell him you think Ashli Babbet's family deserves more than $5 million and it is a shame the govt. didn't offer $25 million and see if he agrees or not.

I wouldn't say what I thought they deserved. I'd just ask what he thought about the government shelling out a ton of money to them when congress is busy slashing Medicaid and SNAP or something like that.

Stop giving MAGAts so much credit as if they're playing 4D chess. Saying they hate Trump to lure in a lonely divorcee only to spring their real opinions when they're stuck in a marriage.

I know it never happens on DL, but sometimes people change their minds, find out they didn't know the whole story and see the errors of their ways. Trump has crossed the line for many people over the years at many different points.