The Times Social Q's wants to know: Is It OK to Let Our Teenage Son "Hang Out" in His Room With His Boyfriend?

Your son is sucking cock

His mother must be so proud.

Because here she is saying so!

[quote]his emotional readiness for physical intimacy

He's a teenage boy; emotional readiness isn't a factor. Most men don't bring emotions into sex.

As a teenage boy, all I wanted to do was HAVE sex.

These days, parents should be THRILLED if their teenage sons are having sex. Anything that veers them off the path to becoming an incel monster.

Does the incel thing apply to homos? I'm sure there are gay incels, but the frequency with which this happens must be lower than the straight community for several reasons ranging from the fact that young gay boys have to be more socially conscious (to simply survive) to the access to equally-willing peers. That said, yes, I agree that in today's fucked-up world parents should be thrilled when their teenage sons do normal teenage boy things, If we had any form of how-to parent education, it would have to include instruction to monitor that your child is not turning into a MAGAt, err, I mean incel. (And now you know why we do not teach people how to parent, at all.)

The son and his boyfriend are making bank as Mr. Pfister and Goopy Gape Guy on Chaturbate.

It's disrespectful period to fuck with your parents in the house.

Boys don’t have periods.

[quote]It's disrespectful period to fuck with your parents in the house.

Just go out into the backyard with that kind of thing.

Well if you're going to fuck in your parents' house, have the decency to wash the bedsheets yourself.

It means never having to wash dirty cum rags.

It's so much hotter and creates better memories when your parents dont know, and i diidn't perfect silent orgasam at 16 to have it all have been for nothing in a world where parents now get to know. Seriously, my faint early sex memories always involve trying not to get caught by my parents, a couple of rooms away as I'm rapidly becoming a horn dog with my boyfriend and disappointment always ensued on some level...

"And your comment about his quiet bedroom makes me wonder if you even know whether your son is having sex"

This is ridiculously stupid of the Times. Two gay teenage boys in a relationship spending time alone in a bedroom are having sex during at least some of that time. Not up for debate.

I don't think Jr H S boys should have sex in the bedroom of one of them when his parents are home. That is 13, 14 years old! I would tell them to wait for high school. And I would be ok if they really need to do it at 12 or 14 but they should wait to be alone in the house. Or they should do it in their treehouse, or in the woods, or the barn, or whatever. It's just a bit too cosy and accepting for 13 and 14 year old teens to fuck in their bedroom while mom and pop are sitting watching TV. Call me old fashioned.

Um, I was restrained from visiting friends over night because of this..

It’s suppose to be an early sign of sexual abuses. I don’t have memories.

r15 he's not in junior high. He probably 16 or 17.

This thread is making me HORNY.

Mother of the year.

Uh, his boyfriend can’t get knocked up. That’s why boys and girls together in a bedroom is not the same thing. What a dumbass.

What young person wants to have sex in the same house with their parents at home?

[quote] Does the incel thing apply to homos?

No. Men will fuck anything.

[quote]"And your comment about his quiet bedroom makes me wonder if you even know whether your son is having sex"

It makes ME think her son is doing his best to ensure the parents DON'T have to know for sure. He's a nicely brought up boy who doesn't want to broadcast that he's having more fun than they are.

R21 I’ve done it, if not a for combination of necessity and slight thrill of doing it in my childhood bedroom in my early 20s. Unfortunately not with a man, but was satisfying at the time.

Dad seems to be pissed that he can’t jerk off to his son fucking a girl in his bedroom.

Oh thanks - junior in high school, not junior high school. That makes more sense. I hope those teens are into gaping and dildo play. Have at it, boys!

Mom's fine with it until she can't bleach the santorum out of the sheets

If the husband doesn't like it maybe he can spring for once weekly hotel rooms.

Where the fuck are they supposed to go?

What happened to the grand tradition of fucking in your backseat parked at an overlook?

R21, I did it only at night with someone sleeping over, but my room was on our third floor and we had privacy.

Between ages 15 and 18, I was as discreet as I could be but nothing was coming between me and having as much sex as I could have. I did not offend anyone in the house, unlike my younger brother who loudly deflowered his girlfriend in his room over the room where my parents were sitting. Or my sister climbing the wall to HER third floor room after spending the night with her boyfriend and having my father get a gun because he thought we had a cat burglar.

R5, indeed, have him start sucking cocks in the rest stop john, anything is better than becoming a fucking incel monster

[quote] Or my sister climbing the wall to HER third floor room after spending the night with her boyfriend and having my father get a gun because he thought we had a cat burglar.

Did he put the gun away when he found out the truth, or not?

My friend and I were blowing each other all over the place for years. My room, his room, behind my garage, in the woods behind his house, in the den at his house, etc. I’m amazed we never got caught. It started in 8th grade and continued until the summer after we graduated when I went off to college and he joined the army.

Looking back, surely someone in our families knew. I don’t think we were always very careful.

Talk to him about condoms, PReP and other safer sex methods and take him to a sex ed counselor.

Then get out of the way. Teens are gonna fuck somewhere and it may as well be in the safety of your house and not in the alleyway.

If my parents forbade me to have my boyfriend in my bedroom, I would ask them if they prefer we hang out in a public place like a park or library bathroom. It seems infinitely safer for them to be at home rather than some place they could potentially be arrested or joined by old men trying to get in on twink action. Come on parents...think!

[quote] Talk to him about condoms, PReP and other safer sex methods and take him to a sex ed counselor.

Mary, what century is this?

What they were doing and how to stop it.

We had a boat…worked for me.

It's ridiculous that a parent's only concern is pregnancy.

Sexually transmitted diseases are an issue, especially and including HIV. Additionally, with so many children whining ANXIETY, it behooves a parent to consider the emotional and psychological issues of engaging in sex as a teen. The question of whether the kid is mature enough to have sex should be considered.

Finally, there are age of consent laws. Consent varies by state, as well as relative ages of the participants. While these parents may not have an issue, the other kid's parents may be homophobic religious nutbags who might be more than happy to press charges for statutory rape.

Can you be liable for statutory rape if you're the same age as the complainant? Rape rape, sure, but statutory?

R40 They vary significantly by state, and most states have “Romeo & Juliet” laws that protect icky shoulder cases like when two 17 year olds are having sex and then one of them turns 18.

R41 I have often wondered about that. I live in California. The age of concent is 18 and there have never been any Romeo & Juliet laws here. Technically, any couple (gay or straight) could suddenly have one party guilty of statutory rape after celebrating their 18th birthday. I've never heard of such a case being prosecuted, though.

The reality is, it would be nearly impossible to prevent two teenage gay boys from having sex. A girl may put a halt to things, but good luck with that if they are both boys. You would literally have to lock them away from each other. That's particularly true if they've already been sexually active. No way that Genie is going back in the bottle!

R42 Gotta love the two 17yo’s who start fucking at just before midnight on the guy’s birthday. He enters perfectly legally. Then at the stroke of midnight, his inserted dick turns into rape just as he shoots his load.

I volunteer to be DA to prosecute that case.

Depending on the jurisdiction, even if both people are under age, either or both could be charged with statutory rape, especially in places without Romeo and Juliet laws.

While rare, in California since there are no R&J laws, if both guys are 17, both could be charged with statutory since neither is able to consent as minors.

R36 it’s a century where there’s drug resistant gonorrhea. Welcome to it!