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The psychology of a guy cumming on your face

Why is it so hot? There has to be something behind it psychologically, but what?

by Anonymousreply 38May 30, 2025 7:21 PM

It's about the submission/surrender. The face is a very vulnerable part of the body. Allowing a man to cum all over your face is just short of allowing him to cum in your mouth (and swallowing).

by Anonymousreply 1May 24, 2025 2:31 AM

It's not hot. It's only irrefutable proof to him and you that he can now be dismissed because he came.

by Anonymousreply 2May 24, 2025 2:46 AM

Some guys like to be degraded a bit, and having a guy shoot his spunk all over your face shows you for the whore you really are.

by Anonymousreply 3May 24, 2025 3:18 AM

What R3 said. Shooting on your face = he made you his bitch.

by Anonymousreply 4May 24, 2025 3:25 AM

You see it, feel it.... it is literally in your face. It's earthy, raw, intimate... a feeling of abandon. I love it.

by Anonymousreply 5May 24, 2025 3:41 AM

I think it's very primal.

by Anonymousreply 6May 24, 2025 3:41 AM

Because he’s there and you like him.

by Anonymousreply 7May 24, 2025 4:03 AM

I just like the way jt feels.

by Anonymousreply 8May 24, 2025 4:05 AM

Opinions of the old adage “It is more blessed to give than to receive?”

by Anonymousreply 9May 24, 2025 5:10 AM

Depends how loud he is.

by Anonymousreply 10May 24, 2025 5:41 AM

There's also the mindset of cumming inside the mouth. One of my exes had that compulsion and need for me to accept his cum on my face. Ultimately he wanted me to swallow his cum each time, but I would do it occasionally, not regularly. It's very primal. There's also the dynamic of the top and bottom, where the bottom controls how far he's willing to go.

by Anonymousreply 11May 24, 2025 7:35 PM

I smell a prospective thesis here!

by Anonymousreply 12May 24, 2025 8:43 PM

Freedom to express yourself.

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by Anonymousreply 13May 24, 2025 8:50 PM

[quote] I think it's very primal.

^^This!! It was always one of my favorite things, under the duvet. Especially if the guy they bent down and kissed and licked his load off my face.

by Anonymousreply 14May 24, 2025 9:30 PM

It’s not

by Anonymousreply 15May 24, 2025 9:39 PM

I can't get enough of it. I love the warmth and with some guys, feeling the force of it.

by Anonymousreply 16May 24, 2025 9:46 PM

I think it's super hot when a guy cums on your face and then treats you like the worst whore whoever whored afterwards. He won't come near you until you've washed your face and brushed your teeth. There was this guy I was hooking up with before the pandemic who would text me at 3 AM, I want to use you. He would fuck me, bust on my face, linger a bit, then leave. It was so hot. Primal is the right word.

by Anonymousreply 17May 24, 2025 9:52 PM

Playful domination and degradation are top notch. The mean, insulting and humiliating types can show themselves to the door.

by Anonymousreply 18May 24, 2025 9:56 PM

Forget any psychology malarkey, some guys just like hot sperm shooting on their faces. I’ve one loving it, he massages sperm as a facial. Gotta say his face is flawless!

by Anonymousreply 19May 24, 2025 10:00 PM

I always hated it. It doesnt feel good to me so I rarely have allowed it. Like Coco Peru said,when it gets in your eyes it BURNS ! I also hate eating ass but love mine eaten . Not to say I wont munch on a good butt but it better be whistle clean.

by Anonymousreply 20May 24, 2025 10:00 PM

I've never done it or had it done to me, but I find it a huge turn-on in porn. I don't think I'd enjoy it IRL.

by Anonymousreply 21May 24, 2025 10:16 PM

Honestly, I’ve always thought it was funny.

by Anonymousreply 22May 24, 2025 10:20 PM

Analyzing it takes away the hotness. Defeats it's own purpose.

by Anonymousreply 23May 24, 2025 10:26 PM

It can be hot but I honestly would rather swallow a guy's load than get a facial. More satisfying for him and I get off on it more. Getting a bunch of cum on your face is a mess.

by Anonymousreply 24May 24, 2025 10:43 PM

Sounds like an absurd waste of calories. It's like rubbing roasted parakeet (or any delicious meal) all over your face.

by Anonymousreply 25May 24, 2025 10:48 PM

I'll bet it's a good moisturizer.

by Anonymousreply 26May 24, 2025 11:14 PM

Don't know about moisturizer, but it tightens the skin nicely and minimizes wrinkles and fine lines.

by Anonymousreply 27May 24, 2025 11:23 PM

Only about 1% of semen is contains actual sperm cells. It's mostly made up of water, fructose, and minerals like zinc, magnesium, and calcium. I don't know if there's any legitimate benefits to the skin aside from the zinc, maybe (and that's a big maybe). The zinc content in cum is why it leaves that tingling/slightly numb sensation on your tongue. If you've ever had a zinc lozenge before, it has a similar effect.

by Anonymousreply 28May 24, 2025 11:24 PM

It's the best part of a love-makin' session.

by Anonymousreply 29May 24, 2025 11:50 PM

Meh... overrated...amateur ...

by Anonymousreply 30May 25, 2025 12:05 AM
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by Anonymousreply 31May 25, 2025 7:34 AM

Any method of shooting a forceful cum load is hot. On to my face, into my open begging mouth, direct down my throat, on body, on my ass, up my ass, up and over his head, hit the wall, hit the ceiling, into his own mouth, onto his own face. Whatever.

A dribbler having to physically smear a mediocre or small load around my face, to mimic any sort of dominance, is kind of laughable, but I'm polite enough to fake excitement.

by Anonymousreply 32May 25, 2025 10:01 AM

Sigh. I need someone to refresh my memory so I can comment intelligently here...

by Anonymousreply 33May 27, 2025 1:43 AM

Beats the shit out of having the shit beat out of your face

by Anonymousreply 34May 27, 2025 12:58 PM

I never really got it, but I had a hawt bf who loved it so of course I obliged.

by Anonymousreply 35May 27, 2025 10:51 PM

I asked a guy to do it just so I could see what it was like.

It was warm. Briefly.

That's about it.

by Anonymousreply 36May 28, 2025 12:00 AM
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by Anonymousreply 37May 28, 2025 8:13 AM

Make sure you have a good dry cleaner!

by Anonymousreply 38May 30, 2025 7:21 PM
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