Have you ever seen a celebrity at a gay bar, bathhouse, or cruising area?
Any stories?
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Have you ever seen a celebrity at a gay bar, bathhouse, or cruising area?
Any stories?
by Anonymous | reply 224 | June 28, 2025 6:13 AM |
Kevin Kline checked-in just ahead of me at the WSC once.
Aiden Shaw and Dawson(!) there at various times.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | May 22, 2025 11:28 PM |
Carrot Top has kinda morphed into a Hot Mess.
But there were a few years just after he had put on some serious muscle when he looked pretty studly naked. I first ran into him in a dark sex club, hair back, baseball cap low, trying to be DL, but I knew right away it was him. We messed around quite a bit. His d*ck is big n thick and he loved suckin bone.
Fast forward a few years and he shows up at another dark sex club in Vegas, still jacked as f*ck, but this time had no qualms being quite the pig on his knees for not only me but another sexy twink boy that showed up. There weren't many in the club that afternoon, but still I was shocked he was that brazen just a couple miles from his show at Luxor.
by Anonymous | reply 2 | May 22, 2025 11:39 PM |
I also used to see Carrot Top at the gay clubs in Orlando. He'd always have en entourage of twinks fluttering around him.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | May 22, 2025 11:52 PM |
Was Carrot Top a Carrot Bottom?
by Anonymous | reply 4 | May 22, 2025 11:53 PM |
I used to talk to Barry Manilow in the back room at Uncle Charlie’s on Third Avenue back in the’70s.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | May 22, 2025 11:58 PM |
I was walking down a hallway at the 8709 bath house in the 80s when a door opened and the queen in back of me shrieked, "Oh my GOD it's TAB HUNTER!!! The door immediately slammed shut.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | May 23, 2025 12:12 AM |
Buck would never have visited a bathhouse.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | May 23, 2025 12:17 AM |
Met Keith Strickland from B-52's at Bourbon Street Pub in Key West. He lives down there part-time. His partner was annoyed. Really handsome and so very sweet.
Spoke with doorman - said that Kenny Chesney used to come in there but he moved out of Key West quickly due to all the fans dropping by his house.
My brother (who is also gay) was doing clean-up after a gay bar close he worked in, and Andy Bell came in and gave him a big kiss on the lips. (Andy was at another bar and heard that my brother was a massive fan - and he really was - so Andy stopped by to meet him). I always thought that was really kind.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | May 23, 2025 12:27 AM |
Famous author and maitre d' (now owner) used to hang out afternoons at the WSC.
by Anonymous | reply 9 | May 23, 2025 12:37 AM |
Charles Dickens, R9?
by Anonymous | reply 10 | May 23, 2025 12:41 AM |
Bains de l'Est Genève Rupert Everett a couple times. Richard Branson in real saunas, not gay sauna. But nude, fit and nice cock.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | May 23, 2025 12:51 AM |
R1 Kevin Kline? I knew him casually many years ago. I heavily doubt your claim.
Not that I think you're lying, I just think you might have mistaken someone who looked like him. (many Kevin Dobson gay rumors were probably attributed to a very gay acquaintance of mine who looked very much like him).
Unless maybe he just wanted to steam and didn't care if it was a gay bathhouse.
i don't think I've even seen any DL posts about him in all these years.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | May 23, 2025 1:04 AM |
R1 here. I was standing behind him at the glass window. I could see his ID. He turned and looked right at me as he headed right to enter door to the towel area. He was there. I was there.
There was no working steam room at the WSC—lol too funny
by Anonymous | reply 13 | May 23, 2025 1:14 AM |
And that wasn’t the last time I saw him in the club that day.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | May 23, 2025 1:16 AM |
Matthew Broderick in the early 2000s, sitting alone at a small piano bar on 9th Ave / 40 something street, in Hells Kitchen. He looked good, and figured he was taken care of himself in preparation for "The Producers", which opened on Broadway around that time. Saw him and SJP 20 years later in the Hamptons, and he looked like a wart hog.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | May 23, 2025 1:16 AM |
For the benefit of those of us who don't live in (presumably) NYC:
[quote] WSC
???
by Anonymous | reply 16 | May 23, 2025 3:13 AM |
Thanks, R17.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | May 23, 2025 3:20 AM |
I've written about this before a few times but I saw Kevin Spirtas at a Korean Spa in New York. He was on "Days of Our Lives" for a long time. He may still be for all I know. He's an out actor and he was there with a younger friend. I chatted with him for a bit but didn't let on that I knew who he was. He looked very nice naked...above average length, trimmed pubes, but still plenty visible. (I absolutely loathe fully shaved men.)
by Anonymous | reply 19 | May 23, 2025 12:10 PM |
Wanda Sykes at a gay bar in Philly
by Anonymous | reply 20 | May 23, 2025 1:07 PM |
Back in the late 90s when I was a cute young twink a shitfaced and slurring Nathan Lane tried to pick me up at the old Works bar on the UWS. I politely declined. He was so wasted and so gross.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | May 23, 2025 1:10 PM |
Maybe Kevin Kline was doing research for "In and Out."
by Anonymous | reply 22 | May 23, 2025 1:19 PM |
R5 is your name Lola ?
by Anonymous | reply 23 | May 23, 2025 1:30 PM |
I grope guys at the gym as research for The John Travolta Story
by Anonymous | reply 24 | May 23, 2025 2:13 PM |
R21 - I remember your posts about that encouter. He was a bit of a nasty drunk, wasn't he?
by Anonymous | reply 25 | May 23, 2025 3:05 PM |
Paul Lynde had a hustler/boyfriend named Pablo who was gorgeous and sweet. They were together for a while. I used to see them dancing at the old Limelight (not the church) long ago. Pablo and I became fwb and he would complain about how nasty Lynde would get when he drank, which was all the time.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | May 23, 2025 4:11 PM |
R21- I went to the Works on the Upper West Side back in the late to mid 1990's when I lived in NYC. That bar back then had a high percentage of good looking- pretty boys, preppie guys and yuppie guys. I was cruised by many of them but went home with none of them because I was too shy to talk to anyone.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | May 23, 2025 4:21 PM |
Lynde was an ex fatty, maybe that's why he was so snarky?
"Lynde suffered from weight problems, weighing 250 lb (110 kg) when he graduated from high school. He was honored by Weight Watchers in 1977."
by Anonymous | reply 28 | May 23, 2025 4:24 PM |
Queen Latifah at a gay (male) strip bar in Toronto.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | May 23, 2025 4:26 PM |
I keep thinking this is George Platt Lynes. Get classier DL!
by Anonymous | reply 30 | May 23, 2025 4:26 PM |
Kevin Kline was on the down low?
And in the West Side Club????
I do believe Dawson.
WSC was so nasty, I wonder whether those who occupy that space now on in the 10th floor know what was going on ...
by Anonymous | reply 31 | May 23, 2025 4:27 PM |
Dolly
by Anonymous | reply 32 | May 23, 2025 4:30 PM |
R15 here again. I also have a Nathan Lane sighting.
Again, in the early 2000s at the iconic "Rose's Turn" - piano bar/cabaret on Grove Street, W. Village.
Quiet night. I walked downstairs to get a drink and noticed a guy with his head on the bar, arms sprawled out, and next to him, a backpack overflowing with scripts, sheet music, etc. I sat two seats away from him, looked at the bartender, and we silently chuckled. Guy awakes, and I see it's Lane. Wasted. Mumbling nonsense, swerving, loud.... a complete mess. I'm certain he was also in rehearsal for The Producers. I said hello, to no avail. Nothing registered. Sadly, Rose's Turn closed in 2007. Ironically, that was the time La Lupone was on Broadway in Gypsy doing her own Rose's Turn.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | May 23, 2025 4:33 PM |
Back in 2003 I remember seeing Cynthia Nixon going private room to private room looking for signatures against the Iraq War,
People were shouting "Fuck off Miranda, we want Samantha!"
by Anonymous | reply 34 | May 23, 2025 4:36 PM |
R31. Why the 10th floor?
The club was on the 2nd floor.
by Anonymous | reply 35 | May 23, 2025 4:36 PM |
R27 And what does your sad sack story have to do with celebrity sightings?
by Anonymous | reply 36 | May 23, 2025 4:37 PM |
Dick Van Patten cruising me at an adult book store in Las Vegas. 8 would not have been enough.
by Anonymous | reply 37 | May 23, 2025 4:38 PM |
r25 I only chatted with him briefly but he wasn't nasty, he was polite enough and he was so shitfaced he was slurring and glassy eyed. He was clearly interested in me but there was no way, even if he'd been sober. He was just gross. This was at the bar, I turned and went back to my friends elsewhere in the room.
by Anonymous | reply 38 | May 23, 2025 4:39 PM |
WSC was definitely not on the second floor. You had to take an elevator up. I was the 10th floor if I remember correctly but it was on W20 street, so maybe I am mixing things up.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | May 23, 2025 4:40 PM |
r27 you should've been more outgoing, there were lots of cute guys at the Works back then. I had lots of good times there.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | May 23, 2025 4:40 PM |
R39 you’re just plain wrong. Stop! It was on the 2nd floor. You had to walk up—the elevator did not stop at the club.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | May 23, 2025 4:50 PM |
I had no idea about Carrot Top. Does he bring props?
by Anonymous | reply 42 | May 23, 2025 6:10 PM |
R38 - I think we've all met that type. The regular who sits at the bar, shitfaced, hitting on everyone who steps up for a drink.
by Anonymous | reply 43 | May 23, 2025 6:14 PM |
Dick Van Patten was gay?
by Anonymous | reply 44 | May 23, 2025 8:30 PM |
Was Joyce Van Patten a dyke?
by Anonymous | reply 45 | May 23, 2025 8:42 PM |
Patton Oswalt was in a gay sauna?
by Anonymous | reply 46 | May 23, 2025 8:49 PM |
He was a bit light in the loafers.
by Anonymous | reply 48 | May 23, 2025 8:54 PM |
R12 = Phoebe Cates
by Anonymous | reply 49 | May 23, 2025 8:54 PM |
R12 here, lol.
Knowing what I think I know, I still find it hard to believe. (I also remember him being a bit of a pussy hound, and those usually don't mix).
But R1 seems pretty certain so I will not doubt his claim.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | May 24, 2025 4:31 AM |
He pings to me
by Anonymous | reply 51 | May 24, 2025 6:33 AM |
I thought he and Rex Smith (in the years ago [italic] Pirates [/italic] had real “chemistry.” on stage.
by Anonymous | reply 52 | May 24, 2025 9:32 AM |
Have heard quite a few stories about Nathan Lane being blind drunk in gay bars
by Anonymous | reply 53 | May 24, 2025 11:24 PM |
Lots of porn stars, like the late Wilfried Knight and Tom Chase.
I saw Dan Savage and his husband the swimsuit model Terry Miller many times at STAG PDX when I used to hang out there.
by Anonymous | reply 54 | May 24, 2025 11:30 PM |
Human Swedish meatball Terry Miller?
by Anonymous | reply 55 | May 24, 2025 11:32 PM |
Edward Albee once in a bar in the Village in the early 90s. He was very nicely built.
by Anonymous | reply 56 | May 24, 2025 11:33 PM |
Bespoke candle and artisanal SUPER GAY opera shawl Terry Miller. Vacuum pumped cock and nips to rival Thierry Mugler Terry Miller?
by Anonymous | reply 57 | May 24, 2025 11:34 PM |
r55/r57: the one and the same. He's quite well built, but he's also pretty short. (Dan Savage is not a tall man, but he's taller than Terry, and he has HUGE arms.) Terry always wore tacky new colorful cheap shirts, which I assumed were from the "Mr. Turk" line he modeled for.
by Anonymous | reply 58 | May 24, 2025 11:39 PM |
Any East Side Club stories? I think you took the elevator to the 10th floor.
by Anonymous | reply 59 | May 24, 2025 11:51 PM |
R58 or AliExpress.
by Anonymous | reply 60 | May 24, 2025 11:52 PM |
I heard my huge cocked pale Ukrainian ex boyfriend got fat and would spread out over a cot in one of those dingy ESC cubbies and hoover loads down his gullet and up his butt with such voraciousness he was nicknamed Jabba in Rut.
by Anonymous | reply 61 | May 24, 2025 11:55 PM |
R59. Plenty of Hasidim
by Anonymous | reply 62 | May 25, 2025 12:11 AM |
R44 Robin Morgan, Dagmar on 1950s series "Mama" is out - Dick Van Patten played her brother, Nels. Papa, Judson Laire wasn't out. Mama played by Peggy Wood was married to a man.
by Anonymous | reply 63 | May 25, 2025 12:45 AM |
East Side Club, located at 256 East 56th Street between 2nd Ave & 3rd Ave , 3 Floors of rooms, enter by Elevator (which was finally replaced) to the 6th Floor.
by Anonymous | reply 64 | May 25, 2025 12:49 AM |
R59 New York's ESC on E56th St. is on the 6th floor which is the top floor. Peter Allen was supposed to be a regular back in the day which is easy to believable
by Anonymous | reply 65 | May 25, 2025 12:49 AM |
Oh right. My torrid tale at R61 was at the WSC not the ESC. The WSC was a filthy pit of sluts, and I occasionally enjoyed it. ESC was a clear, chilly, calm setting of tepid action.
by Anonymous | reply 66 | May 25, 2025 1:29 AM |
My brother took a piss next to Kevin Back when he was at a racetrack.
by Anonymous | reply 67 | May 25, 2025 2:21 AM |
Speaking of ESC, decades ago, you’d get a coupon each time you’d go. 10 coupons got you free entry. A few years back, I was cleaning out a closet and I found a bunch of coupons from years ago!
Boy, was I a slut!
by Anonymous | reply 68 | May 25, 2025 2:37 AM |
I once saw a goofy guy who used to be a reporter for NY1, the cable news channel, at the East Side Club,
by Anonymous | reply 69 | May 25, 2025 2:38 AM |
I was always so high when I went to the WSC that I forgot which floor it was on.
by Anonymous | reply 70 | May 25, 2025 2:51 AM |
The West Side Club was a Vile Pit of Sluttery.
by Anonymous | reply 71 | May 25, 2025 2:54 AM |
r68 A Frequent Fucker Club?
by Anonymous | reply 72 | May 25, 2025 1:18 PM |
I had sex with a muscle guy at the WSC who later told me he was one of Clinton’s LGBT advisers and was now in a drag acapella group
by Anonymous | reply 73 | May 25, 2025 1:25 PM |
Easy to figure out with ChatGPT, R73
by Anonymous | reply 74 | May 25, 2025 2:59 PM |
by Anonymous | reply 75 | May 25, 2025 3:49 PM |
Not a sighting, but a fun story to share -
Years ago (early 2000s), when I went to NYC regularly on business, I would hire this same escort through an agency to come to my hotel. Incredibly sexy Haitian guy, handsome, friendly and oh, so much fun ! I'd book for 90 minutes.
One day, at the end of my appointment, we were lying on the bed naked relaxed and talking - he had no other appointments assigned to him for the afternoon (I was a late morning appointment) and I invited him to go to lunch with me that day. He was thrilled and accepted. He told me if his agency called, he was not going to take any appointments for the next few hours so we could have a relaxing summer lunch. However, he gets a call from the agency and he responds, "Who's requesting me ? Yes, yes, I'll take it. Where is he ? Tell him I'll be there in fifteen minutes. Thanks!"
He hurriedly got dressed, and apologized with his change of plans - he had to accept because this guy was an 'easy bottom' and tipped the agency rate (which was $200 at the time, the escort kept half - so he would walk away with $300 for less than an hour's work. Then he said, 'Can you keep a secret ? Want to know who it is ?" Then tells me it was Matthew B.
He was staying at the hotel across the street (he never had escorts go to his home), has booked with this escort ('Eugene') many times before, and does the same routine - performs oral on Eugene to get him hard, then lays on the bed ass up, so Eugene can fuck him. Then they'd hit the shower together and soap each other up while he jerked off MB. (Eugene had dreads in a pony tail - MB would ask him to undo the pony tail as he liked the dreads loose and long. ) Done in 45 minutes or less.
By 2005/06 the agency closed and everything turned to independent escorts on 'Backpage', etc. I never found an ad for him, so not sure if he quit the business. He'd be in his 50s now - I'd love to meet up with him.
by Anonymous | reply 76 | May 25, 2025 5:41 PM |
Those “going rates” are fiction. Not in the 21st c. Especially through an “agency.” As if you needed an agency, even then.
by Anonymous | reply 77 | May 25, 2025 5:45 PM |
Tom Selleck in every Gay bathhouse in LA, SF, Chicago, Wash DC from 1979 until 1987.
Also, in Philly in the tomcat theatre across from Danny's on 13th st in Philly.
by Anonymous | reply 78 | May 25, 2025 6:02 PM |
C. Thomas Howe at the bathhouse, circa 1990. One of my first sexual encounters ever was with porn star Christopher Lance from Dynastud.
by Anonymous | reply 79 | May 25, 2025 6:11 PM |
R36- To illicit some datalounge sympathy for my 1995 sad sak self who's still wistful about all of those slim good looking straight acting yuppie, preppie and pretty boys who were so interested in me back then- as I said on another thread-Today if I walked into a gay bar COMPLETELY NAKED I would still be invisible. Oh well.
by Anonymous | reply 80 | May 25, 2025 6:12 PM |
Can I elicit your stuff?
by Anonymous | reply 81 | May 25, 2025 6:16 PM |
[quote] [R36]- To illicit some datalounge sympathy for my 1995 sad sak self who's still wistful about all of those slim good looking straight acting yuppie, preppie and pretty boys who were so interested in me back then- as I said on another thread-Today if I walked into a gay bar COMPLETELY NAKED I would still be invisible. Oh well.
You should have spent those thirty years learning how to spell "elicit."
by Anonymous | reply 82 | May 25, 2025 6:20 PM |
r76 A rent boy chose "Eugene" as his 'stage' name?
by Anonymous | reply 83 | May 25, 2025 6:22 PM |
[quote]Those “going rates” are fiction. Not in the 21st c. Especially through an “agency.” As if you needed an agency, even then.
Escort agencies were still very much a thing in the early 2000s, I had two male friends who worked for one. They kept trying to get me to join up because I have a BIG DICK but I wasn't interested. They told me because of my BIG DICK and my "preppy looks" I would be very sought after.
by Anonymous | reply 84 | May 25, 2025 6:26 PM |
[quote]You should have spent those thirty years learning how to spell "elicit."
Are you my cunt third grade teacher? I thought your cunt ass would be dead by now.
by Anonymous | reply 85 | May 25, 2025 6:27 PM |
R77 WTF are you talking about out of your ass today ?
There were agencies back then listed in the Yellow Pages (found in every hotel). I used to book via 'Manhattan Guys' who served up the best guys around (many were students or trying to break out into acting and didn't want to be a waiter or bartender). This was before Backpage, Rentmen, Rentboys, etc. took off on the internet. The agency would charge (on average) $200 and split it with the guy. 20+ years later, the average rate is double that in Manhattan (though some still charge $300-$350), no more agencies, and the escort pockets the whole thing.
R83 I don't know if he personally chose it, if it was his birth name, or if the agency gave it to him when he was hired - but that was the name he went by. What difference does it make ? (I didn't hire him for his name).
by Anonymous | reply 86 | May 25, 2025 6:27 PM |
r76 was it Matthew Broderick?
by Anonymous | reply 87 | May 25, 2025 6:30 PM |
Tom Selleck cruised me in LA about 15 yrs ago. He’s so good looking in person. I shoulda went for it.
by Anonymous | reply 88 | May 25, 2025 6:34 PM |
I know someone who had sex with Selleck—just oral— but not sure to believe that he was a bathhouse regular
by Anonymous | reply 89 | May 25, 2025 6:39 PM |
Tony Perkins would show up now and then at gay gatherings - like WeHo Pride etc, with a yellow hanky in his right pocket (ie, he liked to drink it and get pissed on).
by Anonymous | reply 90 | May 25, 2025 6:40 PM |
The late David Ehrenstein claimed he used to see Selleck getting busy with guys in the steamroom
by Anonymous | reply 91 | May 25, 2025 6:51 PM |
He claimed a lot of things
by Anonymous | reply 92 | May 25, 2025 8:24 PM |
R79, tell us more about Christopher Lance.
by Anonymous | reply 93 | May 25, 2025 10:10 PM |
We've all heard of Travolta's spa escapades, so I had to laugh when I visited a northern NJ spa, Star Spa, near the GW bridge/NYC, and saw a pic of Travolta with the staff. He must have visited. It was a Korean spa, but very cruise with white guys. Closed during COVID.
by Anonymous | reply 94 | May 25, 2025 10:50 PM |
[quote]MB would ask him to undo the pony tail
Must there ALWAYS be an equine reference?
by Anonymous | reply 95 | May 25, 2025 11:11 PM |
R79
C, Thomas Howell? Please elaborate.
by Anonymous | reply 96 | May 25, 2025 11:50 PM |
^^^I always liked C. Thomas Howell, how was he in bed!!
by Anonymous | reply 97 | May 26, 2025 1:51 AM |
I also chatted with Nathan Lane at Works. He must have lived nearby. He was kind of sullen but not drunk. It was 1983.
by Anonymous | reply 98 | May 26, 2025 2:08 AM |
Frank Sinatra and Dean Martin were so silly together swinging their big Italian intact cocks at the bathhouse in Palm Springs in the '70s.
by Anonymous | reply 99 | May 26, 2025 2:22 AM |
Travolta at the Harrisburg YMCA - very cruisy. He was there when they were filming Numbers.
by Anonymous | reply 100 | May 26, 2025 2:32 AM |
Michael Bergin was famously spotted at the Steamworks in Chicago in the 1990s.
by Anonymous | reply 101 | May 26, 2025 2:38 AM |
I guess it really was fun to stay at the YMCA!
by Anonymous | reply 102 | May 26, 2025 2:38 AM |
[quote] He claimed a lot of things
Remember: Lena Horne never had a sexual experience with another woman.
David just [italic]knew.[/italic]
by Anonymous | reply 103 | May 26, 2025 2:49 AM |
R93 He grew up the Baltimore area and his real name was Lance Christopher something.
R96 R97 I was in the room across from his. Didn't hook up.
by Anonymous | reply 104 | May 26, 2025 3:10 PM |
I meant tell us more about having sex with Christopher Lance
by Anonymous | reply 105 | May 26, 2025 4:20 PM |
reading skills
by Anonymous | reply 106 | May 26, 2025 4:33 PM |
I can second r94's Travolta story. I used to giggle every time I saw it there!
by Anonymous | reply 107 | May 26, 2025 4:41 PM |
R101, Michael Bergin, the ex boyfriend of the DL Bête Noire?
Please tell me he also hooked up with JFK Jr. Please!
by Anonymous | reply 108 | May 26, 2025 5:04 PM |
My only celebrity sighting in a gay bar was Billy Bean. He was a special guest for Pride festivities a few years after he came out, not just randomly clubbing.
My first boyfriend had a better story about dancing with Katerina Witt at a gay bar in New Orleans. Apparently she was a lot of fun, and was there tagging along with Brian Boitano (with whom he did NOT dance).
by Anonymous | reply 109 | May 26, 2025 8:31 PM |
Ewww— Brian I mean
by Anonymous | reply 110 | May 26, 2025 8:33 PM |
Edward Albee once sat and watched my husband slurp multiple loads in the smaller front room at Les Hommes on 80th street.
by Anonymous | reply 111 | May 27, 2025 3:20 PM |
Not his, I hope.
by Anonymous | reply 112 | May 27, 2025 3:29 PM |
R111= Sarah Jessica Parker
by Anonymous | reply 113 | May 27, 2025 4:44 PM |
Maybe he was prepping for Lion King this time, r15 .
by Anonymous | reply 114 | May 27, 2025 4:46 PM |
[quote] Edward Albee once sat and watched my husband slurp multiple loads in the smaller front room at Les Hommes on 80th street.
Such memories! I hope he writes it up and preserves it in a scrapbook for your grandchildren.
by Anonymous | reply 115 | May 27, 2025 4:50 PM |
[quote] Kevin Kline checked-in just ahead of me at the WSC once.
The what?
by Anonymous | reply 116 | May 27, 2025 5:01 PM |
West Side Club.
by Anonymous | reply 117 | May 27, 2025 5:03 PM |
Michael McDonald from MadTV at the Midnight Sun in SF back during the height of his fame. He breezed in with an entourage and acted very aloof. Also saw Ross Matthews there last year during Pride. Super friendly and very gracious to everyone who said "hi" to him.
Also at the Midnight Sun, Charles Busch tried to pick me up once around 2003-2004. That was back when the Sun was THE place to go in the Castro. It was wall-to-wall people there and they used to play music videos interspersed with comedy videos and film clips. They were playing a clip from "Die, Mommie, Die," and this guy who looked like he had recently had plastic surgery that was still settling started chatting me up. He asked me if they showed clips from that movie a lot, and I said I didn't know. He kept moving close to me and "accidentally" rubbing up against me, apologizing and saying, "Oh, it's so crowded in here. I don't mean to keep rubbing up against you." He was kind of creeping me out, so I left. It wasn't until I was halfway home that I realized it was Charles Busch.
by Anonymous | reply 118 | May 27, 2025 5:22 PM |
How many times are people going to ask the same question?
West Side Club: the formerly famous and long-standing bathhouse on W. 20th Street. NOT the tennis club in Forest Hills.
by Anonymous | reply 119 | May 27, 2025 5:36 PM |
🥳👍🤢.
by Anonymous | reply 120 | May 27, 2025 6:49 PM |
Speaking of Tom Selleck, let’s remember that before there were the men of Baywatch, there was Mr. Selleck.
by Anonymous | reply 121 | May 27, 2025 7:04 PM |
Before that rag, there’s Mr. Katherine Ross + Parker Stevenson.
by Anonymous | reply 122 | May 27, 2025 7:26 PM |
[R89]: I met 2 different guys who swore they’d had sex with Selleck. Each said he had allowed them to perform oral on him, but he wasn’t reciprocal.
by Anonymous | reply 123 | May 27, 2025 7:43 PM |
So gay-adjacent ;)
by Anonymous | reply 124 | May 27, 2025 7:44 PM |
No cruisy park or rest stop sightings?
by Anonymous | reply 125 | May 27, 2025 7:47 PM |
[R111]: I saw Albee at Les Hommes at least twice back in the early 80’s. Though I found him attractive, he wasn’t interested; so I didn’t bother to approach him.
by Anonymous | reply 126 | May 27, 2025 7:48 PM |
Pussy!
by Anonymous | reply 127 | May 27, 2025 7:52 PM |
Knew a guy who swore he slept with Selleck when he was doing toothpaste commercials but nobody believed him. He wasn't a looker. Now I'm wondering if that bastard actually did him.
by Anonymous | reply 128 | May 27, 2025 9:24 PM |
Every clone on the 70s looks like Selleck.
by Anonymous | reply 129 | May 27, 2025 10:59 PM |
Not exactly on point, but a good story. In the 1970s my Ivy League university had a pretty notorious steam room in the men's locker room. I recognized a deeply closeted (and anti-gay) state senator there several times, furtively looking around. (He wasn't hot or I would have hit it.) Finally one day I said, hi Senator, how are you today?
Never saw that old queen again.
by Anonymous | reply 130 | May 27, 2025 11:35 PM |
Author Michael Cunningham was a regular steam room denizen at the Equinox on Greenwich Ave.
by Anonymous | reply 131 | May 27, 2025 11:37 PM |
I saw Chris Connelly standing by himself at Mickey's in WeHo about 10 years ago. He looked ill-at-ease.
by Anonymous | reply 132 | May 27, 2025 11:39 PM |
^That man always looks ill-at-ease. He smiles like someone who let out a silent fart and is hoping nobody calls him out.
by Anonymous | reply 133 | May 27, 2025 11:55 PM |
Miss Lindz R130?
by Anonymous | reply 134 | May 28, 2025 12:02 AM |
R130 you can just say what school it was..,you’ll live.
by Anonymous | reply 135 | May 28, 2025 12:35 AM |
R132 Chris Connelly died of “lung cancer” in the late ‘80s at the age of 47.
In the 1980s and 90s “Cancer” took too many young men who were artistically inclined.
by Anonymous | reply 136 | May 28, 2025 3:35 AM |
[quote]Celebrity gay bar or bathhouse sightings
Margo Channing
by Anonymous | reply 137 | May 28, 2025 3:40 AM |
Nph when he was just starting stark raving mad (sfv of Los Angeles)
by Anonymous | reply 138 | May 28, 2025 5:00 AM |
I knew a Chris Connelly from NE Philly and from Upper Roxborough (in Philly).
by Anonymous | reply 140 | May 28, 2025 2:40 PM |
Sorry—no one cares. Someone playing Phillywhore is a total bigot on other threads. Go away.
by Anonymous | reply 141 | May 28, 2025 3:15 PM |
R130, I wish people would do the same to all the closeted, antigay politicians out there (you know there are a bunch of them)
by Anonymous | reply 142 | May 29, 2025 6:43 PM |
Robert Reed at a bathhouse in Hollywood in 1978. total bottom.
by Anonymous | reply 143 | June 16, 2025 1:09 PM |
R7- BJ - I can only imagine what a BITCH you would be towards Conrad if he turned out to be a homo.
by Anonymous | reply 144 | June 20, 2025 3:35 AM |
Turned? Oh, my sides
by Anonymous | reply 145 | June 20, 2025 3:38 AM |
There’s no piano bar on 9th Ave
by Anonymous | reply 146 | June 20, 2025 3:44 AM |
The elevator was at the East Side Club
by Anonymous | reply 147 | June 20, 2025 3:52 AM |
I can hear every word you cunt bitches are saying
by Anonymous | reply 148 | June 20, 2025 4:02 AM |
R146 and at 40th? Could you imagine? lol
by Anonymous | reply 149 | June 20, 2025 4:10 AM |
R147
Thanks for chiming in…so late. We are done re WSC v ESC.
by Anonymous | reply 150 | June 20, 2025 4:11 AM |
I auditioned for Selleck once. He’s a giant. A big presence. Totally makes sense why he’s a star.
by Anonymous | reply 151 | June 20, 2025 4:36 AM |
I’m so jealous of those who got cruised by Nathan. I wanted him so badly and he just wasn’t interested.
On separate occasions, I shared a hot tub with Wentworth Miller and Gerard Butler. Those weren’t bathhouses though. I did see a local news anchor at Flex in LA. He wanted me to do drugs with him and he wanted to take pictures of me naked. I passed.
I’m surprised no one shared seeing me!! I’ve been around.
by Anonymous | reply 152 | June 20, 2025 5:40 AM |
Nathan Lane?
by Anonymous | reply 153 | June 20, 2025 5:56 AM |
R1 What's the WSC?
by Anonymous | reply 154 | June 20, 2025 6:08 AM |
West Side Club.
Yes, Nathan Lane.
by Anonymous | reply 155 | June 20, 2025 8:25 AM |
R152 Did Gerard Butler want chem-sex again?
by Anonymous | reply 156 | June 20, 2025 9:11 AM |
It was LA, so no. It was PNP. ;)
by Anonymous | reply 157 | June 20, 2025 9:29 AM |
152/156 - Yay! I like it when you're on a thread. :-)
Have YOU no other celeb sightings?
by Anonymous | reply 158 | June 20, 2025 9:34 AM |
^^^ oops, I meant R152
by Anonymous | reply 159 | June 20, 2025 9:36 AM |
At his peak beauty, Jeff Stryker at Boston’s Safari Club after making a few rounds at local night clubs.
I was leaving the sex club and he was going in with his entourage up through the freight entry. He seemed interested but I had gotten blown several times that night and couldn’t be bothered to go back. I also had NO desire to have to wear diapers in my old age (and at 54, don’t have to.)
by Anonymous | reply 160 | June 20, 2025 10:55 AM |
R159 "no offense R156".
None taken. I saw Cher in a wig once staring into a coffee shop before I shouted and pointed "it's Cher!" as she ran off.
That counts, right?
by Anonymous | reply 161 | June 20, 2025 11:14 AM |
Even for DL, the level of delusional fantasy is a bit over the top.
by Anonymous | reply 162 | June 20, 2025 11:17 AM |
[quote]R152 I’m so jealous of those who got cruised by Nathan. I wanted him so badly and he just wasn’t interested.
Nathan Lane drunkenly kissed me on the street one night in the late 80s and invited me to his place. We had left a party at the same time and went for another drink together.
I was torn because he’s very funny of course and all stars (he had kind of broken through with The Lisbon Traviata) are magnetic. At least to me. I was divided while kissing him, because I was always wanting a more famous person to validate me, somehow, and maybe usher me up into a more elevated life… and yet while he was a good, driven kisser, I also wasn’t truly turned on by him, physically. The same thing had happened with Christoper Durang - I loved loved loved talking with him and he made me laugh and I admired his work so much, but when the chips were down and he invited me to his hotel I just wasn’t aroused by picturing him in bed.
So, C List Actor (music swells) I wish I could have given you MY brief place in Mr. Lane’s arms that night, under the stars. For you would have been kinder to him than I. You would have grabbed his tough little ears with sincerity, I am sure of it, and wrestled him to the pavement, to roll, roll, roll together right into some nice, soft shrubbery. Or maybe the park. And maybe today you two would still be together.
That is how I shall think of you.
by Anonymous | reply 163 | June 20, 2025 11:21 AM |
r144 Conrad never would have TOLD me if he was a homo.
by Anonymous | reply 164 | June 20, 2025 11:31 AM |
Cyndi Lauper at the Rainbow Cattle Company in Guerneville CA (Russian River) in the 1990s. She must've done a show at LBC and someone took her to the River. She bummed a cigarette from me for a friend. Tiny woman.
by Anonymous | reply 165 | June 20, 2025 11:36 AM |
[quote] R164 Conrad never would have TOLD me if he was a homo.
Your precious Conrad actor never married, Beth.
Live with it!
by Anonymous | reply 166 | June 20, 2025 11:40 AM |
That's actually the guy who played Buck, r166. But thanks for bringing him up. We don't see him often enough.
by Anonymous | reply 167 | June 20, 2025 11:41 AM |
It. Would. Appear. You are RIGHT ! !
by Anonymous | reply 168 | June 20, 2025 11:50 AM |
R160 pity you've had such a puny, maiden auntie "sex life". Worse, you're stupid to believe one fuck by a hung man would put you in diapers for life. Sad. You're just very very sad.
by Anonymous | reply 169 | June 20, 2025 6:47 PM |
Ouch…just the tip, pls.
by Anonymous | reply 170 | June 20, 2025 6:49 PM |
r169 - A hole you could park an 18-wheeler in.
CUMDUMP WHORE
by Anonymous | reply 171 | June 20, 2025 7:22 PM |
[quote]I can hear every word you cunt bitches are saying [quote]—Spirit of D. Ehrenstein
Yes, no doubt Satan has every mention piped in especially for you as part of the experience!
by Anonymous | reply 172 | June 21, 2025 12:03 AM |
[quote]No cruisy park or rest stop sightings?
In SF there's a one block area off 18th & Collingwood that's known for cruising. Late at night it looks like night of the living dead with tweaker zombies and closing time drunks stumbling around. One night I saw Deion Sanders strolling the block. He stood out because he looked handsome and healthy and sober. And a little uncomfortable.
by Anonymous | reply 173 | June 22, 2025 8:05 PM |
^^^I wouldn't be shocked about that; Deion had a"down-low reputation" when he played for the 49ers& the Cowboys^^^
very indiscreet football player.
by Anonymous | reply 174 | June 22, 2025 8:42 PM |
Apparently p.diddy went to bathhouses! He loves to suck cock!
by Anonymous | reply 175 | June 22, 2025 9:01 PM |
r174 You actually believed that story?
by Anonymous | reply 176 | June 22, 2025 9:03 PM |
Nothing shocked me about professional athletes, the ones I met always wanted their dick sucked, Fuck-get fucked and dress-up. I "met" lots of athletes when I was involved in the "financial assets seminars" in the NFL, NBA and MLB, NHL early in my finance career. Lots of athletes.
I lived in the old Four Seasons Hotel on Logan Square for years when condo was getting re-built in the 90s. I told you before, I met lots of nice and not so nice celebrities-athletes.
by Anonymous | reply 177 | June 22, 2025 9:16 PM |
In the early 2000s, Danny Bonaduce and his girlfriend (or whatever she wants the time) would shop for porn and toys at DANNY’S and some other place on Juniper Street - not sure the name of it. The place on Juniper had video booths and Danny’s may have as well.
by Anonymous | reply 178 | June 22, 2025 9:25 PM |
* whatever she was at the time
by Anonymous | reply 179 | June 22, 2025 9:25 PM |
To R178-scorpio's bookstore on Juniper St-across from the old Key West Gay club
by Anonymous | reply 180 | June 22, 2025 9:35 PM |
Yes, r180. The shittiest adult store in history.
by Anonymous | reply 181 | June 22, 2025 9:37 PM |
I think some of you would be shocked by the amount of hot, "straight" dick that drag queens can pull. There's a lot of dudes out there who gladly let a crazy queen in drag blow them.
by Anonymous | reply 182 | June 22, 2025 9:44 PM |
A friend of mine just posted about seeing Nicholas Hoult making out with a hot daddy in an NYC gay bar a few years ago post "Skins" but pre-Marvel so I guess it was circa 2010.
by Anonymous | reply 183 | June 22, 2025 9:47 PM |
SJ r183
by Anonymous | reply 184 | June 22, 2025 9:49 PM |
R184
Society of Jesus?!?!?
by Anonymous | reply 185 | June 22, 2025 10:26 PM |
A friend of mine said his older partner would see Ben Gazzara picking up guys under the El train in old New York.
by Anonymous | reply 186 | June 22, 2025 10:44 PM |
r185 Sure Jan
by Anonymous | reply 187 | June 22, 2025 10:54 PM |
[quote]R186 A friend of mine said his older partner would see Ben Gazzara picking up guys under the El train in old New York.
You know, this kind of makes sense in that he had a long affair with the aged Audrey Hepburn near the end of their careers, when they made two movies together.
Was any truly str8 man ever attracted to that anorexic bag of bones?
by Anonymous | reply 188 | June 22, 2025 10:54 PM |
R186- The IRONY
In An Early Frost he's disgusted by his son's homosexuality and the fact that he has sex with men yet in real life Aiden Quinn was totally straight and Gazarra was apparently a connoisseur of COCK.
by Anonymous | reply 189 | June 23, 2025 4:27 AM |
R189 Irony? It's called great acting. It doesn't mean he was playing himself. He fully understood the part.
by Anonymous | reply 190 | June 23, 2025 5:17 AM |
R188 It wasn't Ben Gazzara, it was someone who looked like Ben Gazzara!
by Anonymous | reply 191 | June 23, 2025 2:50 PM |
I feel like half the men in NYC look like Ben Gazzara so I have my doubts about that particular claim.
by Anonymous | reply 192 | June 23, 2025 3:03 PM |
R186 here. I just asked my friend and he verified the story. This is what else he shared:
“Definitely Ben Gazzara. My partner (name redacted) told me that. He had this friend whose name I can’t remember- an artist who made extra cash by being a chauffeur to the rich and famous. This guy (African American) had a sexual relationship with James Dean when Dean was in NYC studying acting with Lee Strasberg- he told (my partner) that JD was uncut and not particularly clean “down there.” He also said that he drove the Duke of Windsor and Wallis Simpson around when they were in NYC- apparently the Duke wore face powder and Mrs. Simpson referred to him as “the old cocksucker.” “
by Anonymous | reply 193 | June 23, 2025 3:24 PM |
[quote] This guy (African American) had a sexual relationship with James Dean
Thank you.
Without that specific detail none of what you posted would have made any sense whatsoever.
by Anonymous | reply 194 | June 23, 2025 3:30 PM |
I don’t know, R194. I think it adds an interesting take on James Dean.
by Anonymous | reply 195 | June 23, 2025 3:38 PM |
I agree R195.
by Anonymous | reply 196 | June 23, 2025 4:16 PM |
The ESTs in this post are a bit much.
by Anonymous | reply 197 | June 23, 2025 4:20 PM |
I guess celebrities don't go to bathhouses or even gay bars for that matter.
by Anonymous | reply 198 | June 23, 2025 6:11 PM |
Ben Gazarra was a hot piece back in the day.
I bet he got lots of good cock.
by Anonymous | reply 199 | June 23, 2025 6:54 PM |
At least I never married one
by Anonymous | reply 200 | June 23, 2025 7:01 PM |
Chewy! Nips!
by Anonymous | reply 201 | June 23, 2025 8:48 PM |
[quote]R197 The ESTs in this post are a bit much.
[italic]Nathan Lane really did kiss me… while he was in a possible alcoholic blackout!
by Anonymous | reply 202 | June 23, 2025 8:58 PM |
And I liked it! 😵💫
That’s the giveaway!
by Anonymous | reply 203 | June 23, 2025 9:06 PM |
A lot of interesting stories here. An enjoyable read even though it can’t all be true… can it?
by Anonymous | reply 204 | June 23, 2025 9:13 PM |
I don’t believe Ben was cruising the El tracks. He would have gone to the piers like any other self-respecting cocksucker in hiding.
by Anonymous | reply 205 | June 23, 2025 9:29 PM |
James Dean did indeed have a black friend, a good looking actor who got weed for him and subbed for him in one of his early plays. His name was Bill Gunn and Dean took this photo of him.
by Anonymous | reply 206 | June 23, 2025 9:52 PM |
Well that proves everything!
by Anonymous | reply 207 | June 23, 2025 9:55 PM |
by Anonymous | reply 208 | June 23, 2025 9:57 PM |
Was there a bathhouse in that office tower?
by Anonymous | reply 209 | June 23, 2025 9:58 PM |
P. Diddy absolutely went to bathhouses. According to his bodyguard, info came about during the trial
by Anonymous | reply 210 | June 23, 2025 11:32 PM |
Entourages don’t usually work in a bathhouse scenario.
by Anonymous | reply 211 | June 23, 2025 11:37 PM |
Oh dear - I am very much in the wrong thread!
by Anonymous | reply 212 | June 24, 2025 12:14 AM |
It's been said a million times that Barack Obama and Rahm Emanuel were found fucking at a bathhouse in Chicago.
Sensational story but untrue. There was a tall black guy who did go there a lot in the early-mid 2000's (a few years before Obama's campaign) and he sorta kinda vaguely could be mistaken for Obama....but I saw him a few times at a nearby ABS and think he looked more like a tall Bryant Gumbel or that dude they found who was panhandling on the road but had been a radio personality and had an amazing voice.
Also, the supposed bathhouse (Man's Country) was truly foul. Beyond description.
That rumor was invented by an unwell queen who was trying to "swift boat" Obama's campaign.
by Anonymous | reply 213 | June 24, 2025 12:31 AM |
But yet you choose to repeat in detail. Ok then.
by Anonymous | reply 214 | June 24, 2025 12:33 AM |
Scott Caan
by Anonymous | reply 215 | June 24, 2025 12:52 AM |
[Quote] That rumor was invented by an unwell queen who was trying to "swift boat" Obama's campaign.
There’s no evidence of course because the FBI took it all!
by Anonymous | reply 216 | June 24, 2025 12:59 AM |
I heard he preferred Man’s Country RIP.
by Anonymous | reply 217 | June 24, 2025 1:01 AM |
[quote] Scott Caan
R215 Just a friendly reminder that details are important for this particular thread.
Where?
When?
What happened?
by Anonymous | reply 218 | June 24, 2025 1:07 AM |
This thread has made me sad in that, in retrosect, I don't think I ever slept with a true celebrity.
I worked as a drag queen fortune teller for a while and one party I was hired for was at a beach restaurant in Venice... and when I went outside for a smoke break a plastic-faced Mickey Rourke was trying to chat up two teenage girls. They drifted away and we were left alone.
(crickets)
He did NOT shift his attentions to me.
by Anonymous | reply 219 | June 24, 2025 2:25 AM |
I wonder why
by Anonymous | reply 220 | June 24, 2025 2:45 AM |
Richard Gere at the North Hollywood Spa.
by Anonymous | reply 221 | June 24, 2025 4:13 AM |
Yea sure
by Anonymous | reply 222 | June 24, 2025 4:16 AM |
Ben Gazzarra as Cadet Staff Sergeant Jocko De Paris
by Anonymous | reply 223 | June 24, 2025 4:20 AM |
R222 Ask around.
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