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Gay Men: What WON'T you do on the first date?

Tell us your first date don'ts unless the menu is wide open.

by Anonymousreply 48May 17, 2025 11:16 PM

Rim.

by Anonymousreply 1May 17, 2025 3:35 AM

I would do anything for love...but I won't do THAT

by Anonymousreply 2May 17, 2025 3:37 AM

There's nothing I won't do on a first date.

I'm not a female, so I can do whatever I want.

I'm not "protecting" my virginity or my "reputation," so what the fuck do I care?

If it's just talking or if it's rough sex, there's really no difference to me.

Whatever happens, happens.

by Anonymousreply 3May 17, 2025 3:59 AM

Ask them to cum on my face. I also wouldn't sniff their armpits.

by Anonymousreply 4May 17, 2025 5:48 AM

Tell my name.

by Anonymousreply 5May 17, 2025 5:50 AM

I'm a grown man, so I do whatever I want on a date. I think it's stupid to make hard and fast rules about dos and don'ts. I go with the flow. If we both want to get physical, we do it.

by Anonymousreply 6May 17, 2025 5:51 AM

Prostate massage. A guy needs to prepare.

by Anonymousreply 7May 17, 2025 5:52 AM

Let them cum in me.

by Anonymousreply 8May 17, 2025 5:52 AM

Reveal anything emotionally.

by Anonymousreply 9May 17, 2025 6:00 AM

R8 Yeah, no. I don’t care who it is. Odds are they have a looser filter than I do. I’ll cover myself gladly.

by Anonymousreply 10May 17, 2025 6:01 AM

Go ALL THE WAY

by Anonymousreply 11May 17, 2025 6:02 AM

Second base!

by Anonymousreply 12May 17, 2025 6:05 AM

Oh JFC how gay men have fallen that such a question can even be asked. Shove your phony morality up your arse.

First date lol. What are you - a teenaged girl? 🤣

by Anonymousreply 13May 17, 2025 6:11 AM

Call him daddy!

by Anonymousreply 14May 17, 2025 6:35 AM

I keep trying to get pregnant. So no blowjobs. Either cum in my bussy or don't cum at all.

by Anonymousreply 15May 17, 2025 7:18 AM

Show signs of vulnerability.

by Anonymousreply 16May 17, 2025 9:01 AM

[quote]What WON'T you do on the first date?

Pick up the check. That’s a top’s job.

by Anonymousreply 17May 17, 2025 9:25 AM

Windows. I don't do windows.

by Anonymousreply 18May 17, 2025 12:26 PM

Scat

Animals

Blood

Women

Kids

by Anonymousreply 19May 17, 2025 12:40 PM

Ovulate.

by Anonymousreply 20May 17, 2025 12:59 PM

Give a present.

by Anonymousreply 21May 17, 2025 12:59 PM

I won’t go for dinner. Don’t even try asking or offering to pay. It’s straight to the sex for me!

by Anonymousreply 22May 17, 2025 1:02 PM

R22 is a hooker.

by Anonymousreply 23May 17, 2025 2:12 PM

Leave the cat on the dresser

by Anonymousreply 24May 17, 2025 2:17 PM

Ha! Should be cash! But I might actually leave the cat on the dresser

by Anonymousreply 25May 17, 2025 2:18 PM

R 11, please, baby, go all the way.

by Anonymousreply 26May 17, 2025 2:20 PM

50 loads. Not on a first date!

by Anonymousreply 27May 17, 2025 2:21 PM

When I started this thread I meant things like, not go to a chain restaurant or order the most expensive thing on the menu or go for a walk in the park. I'm shocked that you all turned it into sex stuff.

by Anonymousreply 28May 17, 2025 2:38 PM

bullshit, OP. but i'm here for your bullshit.

by Anonymousreply 29May 17, 2025 2:41 PM

[quote]Leave the cat on the dresser

Hard decision, isn't it? Most housecats are so adorable you want to take them home with you. 🐈‍⬛🐈🐱

LOL

by Anonymousreply 30May 17, 2025 2:44 PM

Some dogs too but my apartment complex has a no doggie policy.

by Anonymousreply 31May 17, 2025 2:49 PM

I’d never play Yahtzee on the first date, Rose.

by Anonymousreply 32May 17, 2025 2:53 PM

DP

That’s definitely a 2nd date consideration.

by Anonymousreply 33May 17, 2025 3:02 PM

Make plans for a second one if I don’t get what I want the first time.

by Anonymousreply 34May 17, 2025 3:09 PM

If I don't get sex on the first date, there won't be a second date.

by Anonymousreply 35May 17, 2025 3:10 PM

[quote]DP

DP is on the table based on the restaurant choice.

by Anonymousreply 36May 17, 2025 3:19 PM

No kissing. Butt sex, yes. Kissing, no.

by Anonymousreply 37May 17, 2025 3:23 PM

These days, I'm not sleeping over until I am more certain you're not a psycho killer.

by Anonymousreply 38May 17, 2025 3:34 PM

A Republican.

by Anonymousreply 39May 17, 2025 3:37 PM

I made it very clear to My Peter that I don’t put out on the first date! I made him wait for WEEKS until he got to visit the Promised Land!

by Anonymousreply 40May 17, 2025 3:41 PM

R35 hit the nail right on the head. Dammed if you do,dammed if you dont . The few times I didnt they never called,the many times I did,they never called !

by Anonymousreply 41May 17, 2025 3:56 PM

Public Transportation

by Anonymousreply 42May 17, 2025 5:02 PM

OP

by Anonymousreply 43May 17, 2025 5:21 PM

Fist

by Anonymousreply 44May 17, 2025 5:39 PM

[quote] Fist

Stop lying, Lindseybelle!

by Anonymousreply 45May 17, 2025 8:37 PM

Go to a second location.

by Anonymousreply 46May 17, 2025 9:45 PM

Date? Gay men date? Where are they?

by Anonymousreply 47May 17, 2025 11:09 PM

Not in Flyoverstan, they prefer truck stops.

by Anonymousreply 48May 17, 2025 11:16 PM
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