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How Often Do You Masturbate

I don’t masturbate on a schedule but I would say I masturbate three or four times a week. I am 59 years old and I would also say that I don’t have a low sex drive nor a high sex drive but a medium sex drive.

by Anonymousreply 53May 14, 2025 3:19 AM

Daily

by Anonymousreply 1May 12, 2025 12:58 PM

Like any healthy male, on the regular.

by Anonymousreply 2May 12, 2025 1:21 PM

Daily. Often twice.

by Anonymousreply 3May 12, 2025 1:28 PM

Into my 40s I was a 4 load a day man. Once before I got out of bed to start my day, a second time in a private bathroom at work or school, when I came home to relax after a long day and again before going to bed. It tiered off as I got older.. I had gone 6 days without jerking off, that was 24 missed loads built up. I thought my head was going to fly off and I think my toes actually curled. The most intense orgasm of my life. After i deliberately cut back sometime going a few days between sessions. No, maybe no more than two or three times a week. That keeps me sane, and it’s intense.

by Anonymousreply 4May 12, 2025 1:39 PM

Usually 2-4 times day, and often they come in doubles.

by Anonymousreply 5May 12, 2025 1:40 PM

When I was 22 I was sick with the flu and didn't cum for 6 days. When I finally felt better I jerked off and it was the most intense orgasm of my life, it felt insane.

by Anonymousreply 6May 12, 2025 2:59 PM

I'm OP's age and it's more like an average couple of times a week, down from 3-4. But the schedule has become erratic; I can go a week or more without, then a few days jerking off every day, then that takes care of the next week or so, and so on.

by Anonymousreply 7May 12, 2025 3:07 PM

daily

by Anonymousreply 8May 12, 2025 3:12 PM

R5- You sound like you have a HIGH sex drive.

How old are you?

Even when I was 16 I never masturbated four times a day. I masturbated once every day.

by Anonymousreply 9May 12, 2025 3:54 PM

R9 I’m 36. I do have a high libido, but I’m single and just take of business myself normally.

by Anonymousreply 10May 12, 2025 5:04 PM

I'm sixty, and until recently, I was a two-times-a-week guy. Now I'm on some meds that make it more difficult to orgasm. So I'm jerking it more often (probably trying it four or five times a week) just hoping to get to one orgasm per week. They say you need to keep doing it to keep everything in good working order, so I don't want to go any less frequent than that.

by Anonymousreply 11May 12, 2025 5:15 PM

It's funny - I always feel great after doing it (or hooking up - whichever), but don't do either frequently.

I get busy and am too tired at night to deal with the cleanup, so just go to sleep.

by Anonymousreply 12May 12, 2025 5:24 PM

It depends on my day. Lazy day at home = up to five times (which happens maybe 3-4 times/month). Most days, 1-2 times (morning and evening).

I'm 41.

by Anonymousreply 13May 12, 2025 5:28 PM

3-4 times a week. I used to be reliably daily, some times twice a day, but I'm old now and with an enlarged prostate. Not that "horny" these days but it's still a lovely way to pass the time and relax before bed.

by Anonymousreply 14May 12, 2025 5:28 PM

Whenever the mood strikes, multiple times a week. I’m 58.

I realised about 5 or 6 months ago, I seem to have anorgasmia so at the moment I ejaculate but I don’t experience orgasm. I have all the stimulation and sensation leading up to it, I can edge towards orgasm but I just don’t experience it. Based on the research I’ve done, it’s probably due to stress; I’ve been dealing with a lot of uncertainty the last 10 months so it might be related to that. I’m not making too much of it at the moment, I’m actively working to deal with and improve my circumstances so I’ll wait and see if it changes then. It does vary a bit. I’m thinking it might change as well if I have a sexual partner.

by Anonymousreply 15May 12, 2025 5:30 PM

I'm autistic so I jerk off on seasonally adjusted schedules. My doctor advised 10 days a month to ejaculate semen. Some weeks I go to the bathhouse where I accept compliments on my beautiful penis and show no interest in the anonymous men who serve it. I don't get humans so don't find them sexy so usually I think of my minerals collection and flag semaphore.

by Anonymousreply 16May 12, 2025 5:30 PM

I'll suck your beautiful penis, R16. You don't need to show any interest in me, I just love sucking beautiful penises.

by Anonymousreply 17May 12, 2025 5:36 PM

I have sex with people.

by Anonymousreply 18May 12, 2025 6:53 PM

[quote] My doctor advised 10 days a month to ejaculate semen.

Your doctor needs to be reported.

by Anonymousreply 19May 12, 2025 6:54 PM

Once or twice a week, usually. I lose interest, plus it takes me a while to cum, so sometimes it feels like a chore.

by Anonymousreply 20May 12, 2025 7:19 PM

At least twice a day

by Anonymousreply 21May 13, 2025 1:02 AM

[Quote] They say you need to keep doing it to keep everything in good working order,

Yes, I also do it reluctantly, and purely for health purposes.

by Anonymousreply 22May 13, 2025 1:07 AM

R18 people? Are you omnisexual?

by Anonymousreply 23May 13, 2025 1:09 AM

This topic beats them all.

by Anonymousreply 24May 13, 2025 1:09 AM

Daily. Sometimes more.

by Anonymousreply 25May 13, 2025 1:12 AM

How many use two hands rather than one?

by Anonymousreply 26May 13, 2025 1:15 AM

Farmer sez: "Beat my meat on my tractor seat. Doo-dah Doo-dah. Hands got tired so I beat it with my feet! Oh-de-doo-dah-day!"

by Anonymousreply 27May 13, 2025 1:20 AM

About ten times a year.

Those are the days I don't have sex with another person.

by Anonymousreply 28May 13, 2025 1:36 AM

With my very busy schedule of accommodating gentleman callers, I’d say rarely.

by Anonymousreply 29May 13, 2025 1:42 AM

Daily, to promote prostate health.

by Anonymousreply 30May 13, 2025 1:47 AM

Once a week.

by Anonymousreply 31May 13, 2025 2:06 AM

You know, most people who masturbate also have sex with other people.

And people who claim they don't masturbate are almost always lying.

And people who [italic]can't[/italic] have sex, because of illness/disablility, age, lookism or other reasons, deserve to enjoy their bodies and orgasms. Everyone deserves to experience pleasure if they desire it.

by Anonymousreply 32May 13, 2025 2:09 AM

2-3 times a week, down from daily. Same age as OP.

Part of it is that I don't pop diamond-cutter boners any more or shoot huge loads.

by Anonymousreply 33May 13, 2025 2:16 AM

4-5 times a week. Almost 60.

by Anonymousreply 34May 13, 2025 2:44 AM

[quote]Part of it is that I don't pop diamond-cutter boners any more or shoot huge loads.

Neither do I, but it doesn't stop me.

by Anonymousreply 35May 13, 2025 2:51 AM

At least once a day. Sometimes two or three times a day

I work at home and often take a break from work with a good jerk off session.

And then every night as I’m going to bed

by Anonymousreply 36May 13, 2025 2:56 AM

R36- You have a VERY high sex drive it sounds like.

By the way I just masturbated to a video from a site called Ericdeman.com.

Someone took video of a completely naked guy ( on drugs most likely) somewhere in Baltimore Maryland in front of a crowd of people. He's cute too.

by Anonymousreply 37May 13, 2025 3:39 AM

According to the Gregorian, Sumerian of Jewish calendar, OP!!? It can make a real difference! 😍

by Anonymousreply 38May 13, 2025 3:44 AM

At least 17 times a day. Usually 30 times a day on weekends. I also have sex with 9 different people daily. My dick can puncture steel. I am 212 years old.

by Anonymousreply 39May 13, 2025 3:52 AM

From a few times a day to never. It died.

by Anonymousreply 40May 13, 2025 4:11 AM

[quote]I am 212 years old.

I'm sure you can easily pass for 30.

by Anonymousreply 41May 13, 2025 4:28 AM

I'm 62, and jerk off most days. Sometimes twice a day -sometimes I skip a day if I'm tired. In all those years I never needed lube, but now I'm using several times a week to spice things up a bit. I almost always jack off to written pron. Movies are nice, but I get more into the story and the fantasy if it's written down.

by Anonymousreply 42May 13, 2025 4:49 AM

r42 me too, re: the written pron

by Anonymousreply 43May 13, 2025 3:49 PM

R42- I am left handed so naturally for MANY years I masturbated with my left hand but several years ago I started masturbating with my right hand. It was kinda hot and I've been doing it that way every since. I just masturbated this morning- since we are on the subject.

by Anonymousreply 44May 13, 2025 4:41 PM

Masturbating with the other hand is soooo hot. It feels like cheating!

by Anonymousreply 45May 13, 2025 4:56 PM

3 times a week - Wednesday, Friday and Sunday.

Yes, I am a planner

I recently had my testosterone tested - it's 927 (high end)

by Anonymousreply 46May 13, 2025 5:24 PM

R16 "I don't get humans so don't find them sexy so usually I think of my minerals collection and flag semaphore."

Don't you go changing now!

by Anonymousreply 47May 13, 2025 5:31 PM

Interesting, R44/OP—I'm right-handed but have always jerked off with my left hand. Doing it with my right feels kind of kinky.

by Anonymousreply 48May 13, 2025 6:09 PM

I’m left handed and sometimes I also put my right hand on top of my left hand when I do the deed.

by Anonymousreply 49May 13, 2025 9:27 PM

As I type this!

by Anonymousreply 50May 13, 2025 9:38 PM

I've always been ambidextrous in wanking. never realised most people are not until my 20s.

by Anonymousreply 51May 13, 2025 9:42 PM

TMI, OP.

by Anonymousreply 52May 13, 2025 10:19 PM

Besides switching hands, try using both at once and experiment with different motions. Also, turn your hand the other way, spread your fingers,work the shaft with one hand and the head with the other... mix it up! It's supposed to be fun.

by Anonymousreply 53May 14, 2025 3:19 AM
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