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Actor/Writer Brian Jordan Alvarez

Has anyone here ever met him, and did you see any signs of the things he's been accused of (stalking and sexual assault)?

by Anonymousreply 120May 18, 2025 7:14 AM

Super sexy. Great ass

by Anonymousreply 1April 4, 2025 6:02 PM

Agreed. Sexy as hell. Don’t know anything obviously about the stalking etc.

by Anonymousreply 2April 4, 2025 6:20 PM

Sexy as hell. I have a couple of photos of him shaving while shirtless that I find quite enjoyable. He's always seemed pretty chill.

by Anonymousreply 3April 4, 2025 6:23 PM

Wikipedia lists the various accusations against him over the years including the 2024 incident with his costar from The Gay and Wondrous Life of Caleb Gallo co-star Jon Ebeling.

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by Anonymousreply 4April 4, 2025 7:23 PM

He made a costar go down on him. Pity it wasn’t me

by Anonymousreply 5April 4, 2025 7:26 PM

Yes, R5, but was it for a really great role?

by Anonymousreply 6April 4, 2025 8:04 PM

He's admitted to everything, so they're not just accusations.

Regarding the blow job, his lawyer first claimed that Alvarez assumed he had consent because they'd do sexual stuff in the past. Then, once they realised that was a bullshit claim, they changed that to claiming Ebeling specifically gave consent before the shoot.

And he admitted to stalking and harassing a guy while in college.

by Anonymousreply 7April 4, 2025 8:15 PM

I attended a naked gay sex party where BJA also attended. I acknowledged him; he did the same. It was a fun gathering.

by Anonymousreply 8April 4, 2025 8:45 PM

I don’t know her.

by Anonymousreply 9April 4, 2025 8:49 PM

Yes. Extremely creepy. Reminds me of your garden-variety psychopath. You just know that something is off. I didn’t know about the allegations until later but in retrospect it made a lot of sense. He gave me such a creepy vibe.

by Anonymousreply 10April 4, 2025 8:58 PM

R8, no blowjobs ?

by Anonymousreply 11April 4, 2025 10:40 PM

Who has had him?

by Anonymousreply 12April 4, 2025 10:42 PM

I have. He fucked me good.

I can’t imagine anyone complaining about getting a blowjob for him. He’s got a mouth like warm velvet.

by Anonymousreply 13April 4, 2025 10:49 PM

He seems verse

by Anonymousreply 14April 5, 2025 5:01 AM

I’ve followed him through social media for years. He comes across as a hard working, clever guy, who’s out and proud. He came up through the whole LA gay comic scene, with insta videos that were snappy and fun. I love him. Saying that, I don’t know much of the accusations other than the above posts. Meh, I’m still good with him.

by Anonymousreply 15April 5, 2025 5:13 AM

He was willing to make a film with an unsimulated erection, so I guess he assumed that everyone else around him would be as comfortable crossing those lines. Seems dumb to throw it all away just to get the thrill of fellating another actor under a blanket without his consent. If he does get canceled, he should start an OnlyFans. I'd join.

by Anonymousreply 16April 5, 2025 5:19 AM

^ What’s the film with the unsimulated erection and does the erection belong to BJA?

by Anonymousreply 17April 5, 2025 5:25 AM

He's gay?!

by Anonymousreply 18April 5, 2025 6:01 AM

r17 - don't recall the name, but yes it was him, in a shower scene, gooning and showing of a near full erection.

by Anonymousreply 19April 5, 2025 6:40 AM

He was one of my fave go-go boys in LA -- damn sexy despite not being classically handsome and more than happy to let you cop a feel -- so I think he's just got a very sex-positive worldview. I saw him do a staged reading where it was clear he's really talented, too, so his success doesn't surprise me.

by Anonymousreply 20April 5, 2025 6:51 AM

What actually happens when gay guys see other gay guys and straight people aren't around

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by Anonymousreply 21April 5, 2025 6:57 AM

He’s talented and all of his friends said he was the most talented of the group. He was always working on projects, always moving forward. That’s why so many people hitched their wagon to him - and he has brought MANY of them with him on The English teacher.

The guy making the claims isn’t on The English teacher and although the accusations are true, they seemed more like sour grapes than anything. BJA seems to be another gay for whom straight boys are his weakness.

BUT he’s not being canceled. He was about to be, but English Teacher has been renewed for a second season - thank god, #metoo is over.

by Anonymousreply 22April 5, 2025 7:03 AM

Let’s not rehash this weak tea again.

BJA is very talented, English Teacher was one of the best things on tv last year and I’m looking forward to Season 2.

by Anonymousreply 23April 5, 2025 7:27 AM

English Teacher is great and, as it's been renewed for a second season, I assume he's OK for now anyway.

by Anonymousreply 24April 5, 2025 7:48 AM

I am happy for him

by Anonymousreply 25April 5, 2025 2:00 PM

The last discussion about this

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by Anonymousreply 26April 5, 2025 2:05 PM

He’s very cute

by Anonymousreply 27April 8, 2025 1:49 AM

He has Elmo's beady eyes, no thanks.

by Anonymousreply 28April 8, 2025 2:37 AM

I like the smile

by Anonymousreply 29April 14, 2025 4:22 PM

I saw. him go go dancing and thought he was really average guy sexy. Actually he has a great body and big package. I tipped him a couple times over a few weeks then he said he hello, buy me drink so I did. He offered sex work so I hired him. He was really hot and creative but one of the cos plays crossed the line from just playing in my opinion. Modesty prevents my spilling the details, It was really exiting and I came 2 times but he didn't respect my boundaries. I never hired him again but ran into him at several sex parties. We double penetrated a guy without asking this bottom if he was OK for that. BJA's big thick cock was super exciting rubbing against mine in this shop bottoms big hole. Then BJA suddenly pulled out and shot in my face. I was shocked. He purred, now clean my dick, you old perve. So I obeyed. But had I consented. Nevertheless he shot huge loads that were super fasty, so I made a point to hook up with him at orgies. A couple more times, he broke I dunno, the expected decorum of the moment. But I'm a big boy and I really like him, so I said nothing .

Now, these harrowing events as described, the heartbreaking accusations. It's just too much for my nerves.

by Anonymousreply 30April 14, 2025 5:46 PM

[quote]Modesty prevents my spilling the details

[quote]We double penetrated a guy without asking this bottom if he was OK for that. BJA's big thick cock was super exciting rubbing against mine in this shop bottoms big hole.

love it...

by Anonymousreply 31April 14, 2025 5:52 PM

That sounds fascinating

by Anonymousreply 32April 14, 2025 8:52 PM

His character ruined the W&G reboot.

by Anonymousreply 33April 14, 2025 9:03 PM

r33 = Debra Messing

by Anonymousreply 34April 15, 2025 1:13 AM

R30. Brian Jordan Alvarez's dick is very average. He does not have a big dick. I attended a gay sex party in which he was also there. I saw him naked, even played with his cock a bit--just being friendly. His dick was fine, but it was probably right around 5 inches or so, maybe slightly a bit longer but no more.

by Anonymousreply 35April 15, 2025 4:38 AM

r35 - you know he's shown a near full on hardon on film, right, so we can just verify this ourselves. That isn't 5". I swear, half you posters just live in your own fantasy worlds making shit up and assuming we're all saps falling for it.

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by Anonymousreply 36April 15, 2025 6:03 AM

Your move, R35. R36 came with receipts; that's not a doctored photo.

by Anonymousreply 37April 15, 2025 6:30 AM

He’s 4’7” tall. 5” would look huge!

by Anonymousreply 38April 15, 2025 6:41 AM

He's 5'7" (listed as such and he looks it). Even if he were like 5'5", that dick looks well above 5 inches.

by Anonymousreply 39April 15, 2025 6:56 AM

I love the scene in "Everything is Free" where his taller dark-haired friend commands him to "Suck my dick!".

by Anonymousreply 40April 15, 2025 12:42 PM

I’d suck it

by Anonymousreply 41April 15, 2025 1:09 PM

I told you guys his big dick felt great sliding on mine when we DPd that shop bottom. His load is sweet. But I dunno. Had I consented to a hot actor splooging my face at this orgy? I wonder. There have been just too many story. He simply crosses the line. Friends of mine, a couple, invited BJA over for a 3way. My friends are open-minded libertines. Apparently Brian took libertinage to a whole new level. He tied them both up and fucked and creampied one guy. He made the boyfriend felch out his load from the partner's ass and then transfer the load to mouth of the guy who was creampied. Then that guy had to eat out his boyfriend using Brians load as lube. So Brian then creampied the other one. I mean it sounds complicated. They were thrilled at the moment, shaking with excitement. Later the regrets began. The self-incrimination. Had they really consented to be turned into a human centipede cum dumpster?

by Anonymousreply 42April 15, 2025 3:38 PM

R42 = SFO Cinnabon employee.

by Anonymousreply 43April 15, 2025 3:53 PM

Sounds like you were high as a kite

by Anonymousreply 44April 15, 2025 4:30 PM

fugly, fey, and a really bad actor.

by Anonymousreply 45April 15, 2025 4:38 PM

Sexy, sweet, a real treat

by Anonymousreply 46April 15, 2025 5:08 PM

R36 R37. Among many guys at the sex party I attended, BJA was there as well. I saw BJA naked and played with his dick. His hard cock is between 5-6 inches. No way is he 7 inches. I had it in my hand.

by Anonymousreply 47April 15, 2025 10:32 PM

Why the insistence on repeating these silly, easily debunked lies, R35, R47? You got caught making up a bit of salacious fan fiction on a moderately popular messageboard for elderly gay men just for shits and giggles. It's okay, we're not going to condemn you to permanent primetime, just own that you got caught making shit up and move on.

by Anonymousreply 48April 16, 2025 12:32 AM

I liked his web series Caleb Gallo .A lot of that had to do with the divine Freckles though ! I always thought him cute,but I never thought of him sexy . Id like to be his friend but I wouldnt want to fuck him.

by Anonymousreply 49April 16, 2025 3:07 AM

He has a great ass, too. Nice swinger, too. Vers?

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by Anonymousreply 50April 16, 2025 4:58 AM

R49 that’s the series where he orally raped his straight male costar under a blanket.

by Anonymousreply 51April 16, 2025 1:30 PM

So what R51 ? Who hasnt been orally raped ? Or committed a little oral raping ?

by Anonymousreply 52April 16, 2025 5:58 PM

Who has NOT had him?

by Anonymousreply 53April 16, 2025 6:57 PM

I would like to have sex with him.

by Anonymousreply 54April 16, 2025 6:58 PM

Me too, even if he’s a randy whore

by Anonymousreply 55April 18, 2025 12:58 PM

Wouldn't it be "me too" precisely BECAUSE he's a randy whore?

by Anonymousreply 56April 19, 2025 10:46 PM

Indeed

by Anonymousreply 57April 20, 2025 12:11 AM

[quote]He made the boyfriend felch out his load from the partner's ass and then transfer the load to mouth of the guy who was creampied. Then that guy had to eat out his boyfriend using Brians load as lube.

How did he make all this happen ? Did he use a gun ? A knife ? A tazer ? What weapon did he use on them that allowed him to 'make' things happen ?

by Anonymousreply 58April 20, 2025 12:14 AM

r58 charisma and those spells that actors can cast.

by Anonymousreply 59April 20, 2025 4:41 AM

Is “oral rape” really a thing? Really…?

by Anonymousreply 60April 20, 2025 9:43 AM

Of course not r60

by Anonymousreply 61April 20, 2025 10:52 AM

[quote]Is “oral rape” really a thing? Really…?

I saw a horror movie the other night with a sex scene in it where the guy is eating out the woman. Obviously she was likely wearing some kind of barrier between her body and the actor. Now imagine if the actor took it upon himself to rip off that barrier and actually penetrate her with his tongue. Aside from the professional violation involved, would that not be considered rape? At least I would think so if the actress wanted to file a complaint and/or press charges.

by Anonymousreply 62April 20, 2025 11:49 AM

It’s sex crime

by Anonymousreply 63April 20, 2025 12:19 PM

R62 penetration is the significant word here. Rape involves penetration. A blowjob is not penetration if the victim is being sucked. This is fairly straightforward stuff.

by Anonymousreply 64April 20, 2025 2:02 PM

You mean on datalounge r64 or in general? Because rape is hardly JUST penetration.

by Anonymousreply 65April 20, 2025 2:07 PM

[quote] The revised UCR definition of rape is: penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim.

R65

by Anonymousreply 66April 20, 2025 2:14 PM

That is interesting r66, statutory rape is any kind of sexual activity. And also with that definition, women CANNOT rape men. I guess everything else outside of that definition would be considered Sexual Assault. Are the penalties just as harsh for sexual assault as they are for rape? If not, that would be pretty sexist.

by Anonymousreply 67April 20, 2025 2:31 PM

pretty much

by Anonymousreply 68April 20, 2025 2:32 PM

R67 yes a woman could rape a man by that definition with a foreign object. Read it again. Nothing sexist about it, but I understand where you’re going with that comment loud and clear, manosphere vibes haha.

Penalties obviously change by country and jurisdiction, and severity of the crimes. Do you think there is one set penalty or something? You seem like you’re rushing through your comments without thinking them through.

by Anonymousreply 69April 20, 2025 2:38 PM

I am rushing through my comments R69 because ultimately I don't fucking care.

by Anonymousreply 70April 20, 2025 2:43 PM

R70 sure you don’t.

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by Anonymousreply 71April 20, 2025 2:47 PM

No, I really don't, to be honest R70. I have never been raped. I don't plan to rape anyone. I believe what you say. There is no manosphere here. I don't even know what that is. I know you feel you caught a live one on DL to argue with. I could tell by your tone in R69. It's like you got a tug on the fishing line you've been sitting at all day with the way you read SO much into my comments. But I have no fight, because like I said, I don't care. You are so right. I was wrong and I rushed through my comments.

by Anonymousreply 72April 20, 2025 2:52 PM

R72 idk what you’re talking about. It’s morning, and we’ve been in a short back and forth. You’re pissed bc I corrected you, it’s no big deal. I don’t need to know if you’re planning to rape anyone or not, frankly quite a weird response to make. Mind yourself ;)

by Anonymousreply 73April 20, 2025 2:58 PM

R73, it is 5pm where I am, hardly morning. And I am not pissed. I said you were right. And you are.

by Anonymousreply 74April 20, 2025 3:01 PM

He’s a putz, R3. I see no sex appeal. He looks like a half Latino marshmallow that sheds some extra pounds whenever he goes on a drug binge.

by Anonymousreply 75April 20, 2025 3:05 PM

R74 obviously I meant it’s morning where I am, how tf would I know your time zone. I think we can cut the back and forth here.

by Anonymousreply 76April 20, 2025 3:05 PM

I haven't followed him closely. But he looks like the type that grew up downplaying his latin background but takes full advantage of it now as permission to play up Latino stereotypes and do funny accents.

by Anonymousreply 77April 20, 2025 3:10 PM

I'd hang out with him if he was into the elder gays. He just can't use that ridiculous accent from W&G

by Anonymousreply 78April 20, 2025 3:59 PM

[quote]penetration is the significant word here. Rape involves penetration.

Apparently, that's A-Okay with the majority of voters in our last Presidential election. A court found him guilty of raping E. Jean Carroll in a dressing room with his fingers ? No problem - let's give him another term.

Bottom line - BJA can probably be our next MAGA candidate.

by Anonymousreply 79April 20, 2025 4:32 PM

R75 I agree 100%. I'm not seeing any 'sex appeal' or 'cute guy' in him. He has an odd-shaped chin and jowls. Not good looking at all to me. His chest / torso is pretty good, but his dick seems unimpressive.

I went through the first season of 'English Teacher' last night, and thought it was just OK - not the great comedy some on here are proclaiming. But taste is different with everyone.

by Anonymousreply 80April 20, 2025 4:39 PM

everybody wants to rule the world

by Anonymousreply 81April 20, 2025 4:52 PM

One would think if you didn’t want your dick in someone’s mouth you could remove it.

by Anonymousreply 82April 20, 2025 5:32 PM

He’s sort of cute but his over confidence is what makes him attractive.

by Anonymousreply 83April 20, 2025 5:57 PM

the confidence is what makes him cute

by Anonymousreply 84April 20, 2025 5:59 PM

It's a very gray area R82. Brian did it during a take while the camera's were rolling. So the actor is suppose to do his job and continue acting while this is going on. He basically said he was in shock and didn't know what to do. But it's all very odd, because they were basically re-enacting something that DID happen in real life where Brian sucked off this exact straight actor after getting drunk with him. The actor was dating Brian's female best friend who was on the show as well. I think he was afraid of losing his job. This was Brian's show. He also really didn't say much about it until the success of English Teacher, although he had called Brian a predator after that.

by Anonymousreply 85April 20, 2025 6:29 PM

BJA is besties with Blake Lively, that is all you need to know

by Anonymousreply 86April 20, 2025 6:38 PM

R86, he is so Hollywood, I am sure that friendship is on the back burner at the moment. Do you think these people actually have friendships?

by Anonymousreply 87April 20, 2025 6:45 PM

[quote] He made the boyfriend felch out his load from the partner's ass and then transfer the load to mouth of the guy who was creampied. Then that guy had to eat out his boyfriend using Brians load as lube.

How vivid.

by Anonymousreply 88April 20, 2025 6:45 PM

Sex seems so complicated nowadays.

by Anonymousreply 89April 20, 2025 6:49 PM

He comes across as sociopathic.

He does have a nice body, but his face is pretty busted.

by Anonymousreply 90April 20, 2025 6:53 PM

[Quote] He made the boyfriend felch out his load from the partner's ass and then transfer the load to mouth of the guy who was creampied. Then that guy had to eat out his boyfriend using Brians load as lube.

That’s at least 3 loads being mentioned there

by Anonymousreply 91April 20, 2025 7:14 PM

My favorite detail from his wikipedia page:

[quote] He almost didn't graduate college due to alcohol and drug use and got sober because "he was scared not knowing if he was going to be as successful as he knew he wanted to be."

by Anonymousreply 92April 20, 2025 8:03 PM

A shame he's mutilated.

by Anonymousreply 93April 20, 2025 8:57 PM

Shameless

by Anonymousreply 94April 20, 2025 9:35 PM

He sounds disgusting.

by Anonymousreply 95April 20, 2025 9:49 PM

He's on the short side for an actor: 5' 8".

by Anonymousreply 96April 20, 2025 11:31 PM

[quote] Brian did it during a take while the camera's were rolling. So the actor is suppose to do his job and continue acting while this is going on. He basically said he was in shock and didn't know what to do... I think he was afraid of losing his job.

Yes, the actor is suppose to do his job - not be sexually assaulted while doing it. There was plenty the actor could've done while being assaulted and the cameras were rolling - starting with yelling 'CUT !' and pushing Brian away and letting everyone on the set know exactly what was going on under the sheets. Some jobs are worth losing - especially when rape and sexual assault is involved.

by Anonymousreply 97April 20, 2025 11:55 PM

An actor seems like a whore

by Anonymousreply 98April 21, 2025 12:16 AM

[quote] There was plenty the actor could've done while being assaulted and the cameras were rolling - starting with yelling 'CUT !' and pushing Brian away and letting everyone on the set know exactly what was going on under the sheets. Some jobs are worth losing - especially when rape and sexual assault is involved.

So you're saying the assault victim was at fault?

Wouldn't the assault be the assaulter's fault?

by Anonymousreply 99April 21, 2025 12:25 AM

[quote]So you're saying the assault victim was at fault?

I said nothing of the kind. Your reading comprehension needs work.

[quote]Wouldn't the assault be the assaulter's fault?

You really need to ask that question ?

by Anonymousreply 100April 21, 2025 12:36 AM

You did seem to be saying the victim should ahve spoken up while being assaulted, in which case you were at least partially putting blame on him.

by Anonymousreply 101April 21, 2025 12:38 AM

They should kiss and make up, on camera for us

by Anonymousreply 102April 21, 2025 12:40 AM

Have any of you SEEN the guy claiming rape ? Hes beyond ordinary and looks like he stinks down there . That being said it is a rather sleazy thing to do to someone and I really dont doubt Miss Alvarez did it . Sexually adventurous is one thing ,acting like that on a set screams filthy slag behind a dumpster .

by Anonymousreply 103April 21, 2025 3:39 AM

R97 he did speak up after and that’s probably why he is the only one of his acting friend group not on a hit NBC show that just got renewed, earning at least 35000 an episode. Everyone else is. So in that split moment of shock, those are the types of things that go through your head when being assaulted. Is this really happening? Should I say something? Will I ruin my career if I do? It’s not a big deal. Don’t say anything. Wow this is really fucked up. I really need this job. I can’t piss off Brian, I’ll never work again. It’s not a big deal, you’re being a baby…. Just suck it up. What a fucking asshole. I should have said something.

by Anonymousreply 104April 21, 2025 6:23 AM

English Teacher was technically proficient but completely forgettable.

by Anonymousreply 105April 21, 2025 6:28 AM

R85, please. That web series that cost $10 to make and I’m sure none of the actors got paid for? I’m sure it would’ve been fine to ruin the take to keep one’s self from being violated, if that were the case.

This guy has been trying to capitalise on this for years out of professional jealousy. He should just go away now. Start a Dylan Farrow fan club or something.

by Anonymousreply 106April 21, 2025 8:33 AM

[quote]You did seem to be saying the victim should ahve spoken up while being assaulted, in which case you were at least partially putting blame on him.

"Seem to be saying" and what was actually said are two different things. "Seem to be saying" is arbitrary - it's solely up to one's interpretation (in this case, yours).

What was actually said by me in my post is different than your interpretation.

by Anonymousreply 107April 21, 2025 12:18 PM

I’m saying that he’s got a hot ass

by Anonymousreply 108April 21, 2025 12:25 PM

Hi, Brian (r106)!

by Anonymousreply 109April 21, 2025 11:13 PM

I would actually pay him to spend a night with him.

by Anonymousreply 110April 21, 2025 11:18 PM

I'm sure that dream could be realized, r110, depending on how his career goes, and how much money you're willing to offer.

by Anonymousreply 111April 21, 2025 11:24 PM

He’s a hot slut

by Anonymousreply 112April 22, 2025 11:46 AM

I believe he’s still available for that kind of service, R110.

by Anonymousreply 113April 22, 2025 11:53 AM

maybe just three hot hours. He probably doesn't shut up so after the fun and games, show him the door.

by Anonymousreply 114April 22, 2025 12:41 PM

I bet he gives it away

by Anonymousreply 115April 22, 2025 12:42 PM

It's weird, because I find him short and kind of ugly despite the nice body, and everything I read about it makes me convinced he's a sociopathic narcissist... but I also oddly find him hot.

I'd definitely enjoy being degraded by him, and I'm sure he's an expert at it. He comes across as a sadistic alpha, despite his height.

by Anonymousreply 116April 23, 2025 3:31 AM

Short king energy

by Anonymousreply 117April 23, 2025 11:51 AM

He reminds me of Jimmy Fallon. They both have huge... egos.

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by Anonymousreply 118May 18, 2025 1:46 AM

I have no problem with that - on the screen

by Anonymousreply 119May 18, 2025 2:21 AM

Huge ego is what you need to be a star - especially when entering a career where it takes quite a beating on the daily.

by Anonymousreply 120May 18, 2025 7:14 AM
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