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Men in women’s lingerie… do you like it?

It seems to be popular these days and a lot of tops find it sexy these days. I guess the blurring of lines is popular these days.

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by Anonymousreply 145April 30, 2025 2:19 AM

Oh god no

by Anonymousreply 1March 5, 2025 9:47 PM

I think you should say "these days" more, OP.

by Anonymousreply 2March 5, 2025 9:48 PM

Nice cock!

by Anonymousreply 3March 5, 2025 9:50 PM

Men in lingerie, panties, panty house with garters - all such things are dick wilters.

by Anonymousreply 4March 5, 2025 9:51 PM

Is that Trent?

by Anonymousreply 5March 5, 2025 9:51 PM

Can be hot.

by Anonymousreply 6March 5, 2025 9:52 PM

no, total turn off

by Anonymousreply 7March 5, 2025 9:54 PM

It depends on the man. On him, yes. I don't enjoy it particularly, however if it makes them super horny and revved up, I'm in full support.

by Anonymousreply 8March 5, 2025 9:54 PM

Who is this?

by Anonymousreply 9March 5, 2025 9:55 PM

NO!!

by Anonymousreply 10March 5, 2025 9:58 PM
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by Anonymousreply 11March 5, 2025 10:08 PM

No, I like men who dress, or undress, like men.

by Anonymousreply 12March 5, 2025 10:10 PM

Dear Lord in Heaven!

by Anonymousreply 13March 5, 2025 10:12 PM

Without the bra, r11 would be so hot.

by Anonymousreply 14March 5, 2025 10:16 PM

I was able to finally get past the lingerie but then the hideous tattoos.

NO WAY - EWWW. All of it!

by Anonymousreply 15March 5, 2025 10:17 PM

No.

by Anonymousreply 16March 5, 2025 10:18 PM

No way, Jose. There's no quicker turn-off than a man presenting in feminine attire and acting coquettish. Sorry.

by Anonymousreply 17March 5, 2025 10:18 PM

^He doesn't appear to be coquettish at all. One can easily imagine him taking the exact same poses in gym attire.

by Anonymousreply 18March 5, 2025 10:24 PM

🤮

by Anonymousreply 19March 5, 2025 10:25 PM

R18, still a dick-wilter for me. If I wanted someone who wears a corset or bras and panties, I'd go for a woman.

by Anonymousreply 20March 5, 2025 10:26 PM

It surprises me how little it bothers me, but no, it's not a turn on.

by Anonymousreply 21March 5, 2025 10:28 PM

Hate them more than cock rings and that's saying something.

by Anonymousreply 22March 5, 2025 10:33 PM

Lot of stiffs on this thread. Live a little.

by Anonymousreply 23March 5, 2025 10:53 PM

As a top, If I’m with a bottom who wants to wear pantyhose every once in a while, that’s fine by me. But if you’re a bottom, seeing a top in a garter is probably a massive turnoff. Hence the responses in this thread: these are all bottoms who don’t want to see their manly men crossing gender barriers.

by Anonymousreply 24March 5, 2025 10:53 PM

No. FWIW I don't really like women in all that crap either.

by Anonymousreply 25March 5, 2025 10:54 PM

🤮

by Anonymousreply 26March 5, 2025 10:55 PM

No, and more and more guys I am with do it. NO, just no.

by Anonymousreply 27March 5, 2025 11:00 PM

I imagine that only bisexual men and closeted straight men are into this. I see very few gay men going for this... ambience.

by Anonymousreply 28March 5, 2025 11:01 PM

Is that a so called foreskin?

by Anonymousreply 29March 5, 2025 11:08 PM

I liked this! But, in real life, no.

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by Anonymousreply 30March 5, 2025 11:09 PM

[quote] Lot of stiffs on this thread

So to speak.

by Anonymousreply 31March 5, 2025 11:13 PM

[quote] Lot of stiffs on this thread.

But way more flaccids.

by Anonymousreply 32March 5, 2025 11:14 PM

Jeez... all he needs is a pair of fluffy slut slides and the outfits are complete.

by Anonymousreply 33March 5, 2025 11:15 PM

Do straight women enjoy seeing men in women's lingerie? Just curious.

by Anonymousreply 34March 5, 2025 11:21 PM

I toyed with the idea of a garter and pistol tattoo on my thigh, but ultimately decided on a sliced onion half with flames on my armpit.

by Anonymousreply 35March 5, 2025 11:26 PM

R35, shoulda gone with the crotch tilapia tattoo!

by Anonymousreply 36March 5, 2025 11:27 PM

r34, absolutely not. It's like watching the blond guy in Rocky Horror Picture Show in the final musical act.

by Anonymousreply 37March 5, 2025 11:29 PM

I think only closeted bisexual men like this stuff. Same with Chicks with Dicks porn.

by Anonymousreply 38March 5, 2025 11:31 PM

R34 of course some straight women like it. Jesus are you all just broken out of the convent?

by Anonymousreply 39March 5, 2025 11:35 PM

I think it's the selfie that's the real turnoff.

by Anonymousreply 40March 5, 2025 11:37 PM

99% of the time - No - with a capital F.

But - there are those few pics of a stud in ONE thing feminine - and the juxtaposition of the masculine and feminine can be attractive.

No fucking BRAS or bustiers though - gawd.

by Anonymousreply 41March 5, 2025 11:38 PM
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by Anonymousreply 42March 5, 2025 11:39 PM
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by Anonymousreply 43March 5, 2025 11:41 PM

R41 here - one more thought - whenever I go on subreddits of bisexual men or similar guys 'questioning' or curious, their pics always start off just like regular men.

Then, if you go through their post history, once they accept they're bisexual - HERE COMES THE WOMEN'S LINGERIE!

So many of these straight guys cannot fathom 2 regular men being together - one must be the feminine looking and acting and wear the appropriate attire. It's such a dick wilter and so wrong.

I've seen it 100 times. I don't get it - those straight men are SO brainwashed. That's what grosses me out about it - is this 'getting in touch with their gay/feminine side'?

I don't know of any gay men who want to wear women's underwear. Ever.

by Anonymousreply 44March 5, 2025 11:42 PM

Which one is the woman in the relationship?

by Anonymousreply 45March 5, 2025 11:43 PM
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by Anonymousreply 46March 5, 2025 11:44 PM

[quote] the juxtaposition of the masculine and feminine can be attractive.

Which famous men do you think have or can pull this off?

by Anonymousreply 47March 5, 2025 11:45 PM

R43, oh yeah, Muslim men would be into it, too. They are their own special category.

by Anonymousreply 48March 5, 2025 11:46 PM

The guy in OP isn’t trying to look feminine though. He’s just wearing the items, which might as well be gender neutral the way he wears them.

Most men can’t pull these off in the same way.

by Anonymousreply 49March 5, 2025 11:48 PM

R49, just no. It's not a turn-on. At all.

by Anonymousreply 50March 5, 2025 11:49 PM

Is this a Mormon married couple trend?

by Anonymousreply 51March 5, 2025 11:50 PM

It's a Mike and Karen Pence trend, R51.

by Anonymousreply 52March 5, 2025 11:51 PM

Ick.

by Anonymousreply 53March 5, 2025 11:53 PM

There’s a whole market for it. Some men can only fuck a man if the man is dressed in feminine attire. I guess they’re sexually confused men who like that blurry line

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by Anonymousreply 54March 5, 2025 11:56 PM

R54, yeah. They likely have wives.

by Anonymousreply 55March 5, 2025 11:57 PM

Men in tights - that's been around for millennia and it's still hot.

by Anonymousreply 56March 5, 2025 11:58 PM

If I were hung like the man in OP's photo, I would fucking wear whatever I wanted whenever, wherever.

by Anonymousreply 57March 5, 2025 11:59 PM

Can’t they come up with a manlier version of this?

by Anonymousreply 58March 5, 2025 11:59 PM
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by Anonymousreply 59March 5, 2025 11:59 PM

R59, aww, reminds me of a First Communion dress!

by Anonymousreply 60March 6, 2025 12:01 AM
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by Anonymousreply 61March 6, 2025 12:02 AM

OP, are you a crossdresser?

by Anonymousreply 62March 6, 2025 12:03 AM
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by Anonymousreply 63March 6, 2025 12:05 AM

R62 no. Not at all.

by Anonymousreply 64March 6, 2025 12:05 AM

No. Send it back.

by Anonymousreply 65March 6, 2025 12:06 AM

R62, are you bisexual/flexible?

by Anonymousreply 66March 6, 2025 12:08 AM

It's a Pennsylvania/Ohio thing

by Anonymousreply 67March 6, 2025 12:09 AM

Heterosexual Tim Scott with Lady Lindzebelle

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by Anonymousreply 68March 6, 2025 12:15 AM

R20 I doubt you could get anyone without paying for it, with that personality.

by Anonymousreply 69March 6, 2025 12:25 AM

No. No.

by Anonymousreply 70March 6, 2025 12:34 AM

Fuck yes!

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by Anonymousreply 71March 6, 2025 12:38 AM

Si si chica

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by Anonymousreply 72March 6, 2025 12:39 AM

Our new one-piece foundation garment zips up the back and no bones!

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by Anonymousreply 73March 6, 2025 12:46 AM

R69 likes to wear bras and panties, apparently. And he has to pay for men to fuck him in it, because gay men don't go for that.

Truth hurts R69?

Watch your mouth - what R20 said was just fine.

by Anonymousreply 74March 6, 2025 12:46 AM

It can be hot if the dude is built with a fat ass. It’s hard to explain. I know I’m weird.

by Anonymousreply 75March 6, 2025 1:31 AM

[quote] It can be hot if the dude is built with a fat ass

Examples of men who who could pull off that look please.

by Anonymousreply 76March 6, 2025 1:39 AM

R75 it’s a matter of opinion

by Anonymousreply 77March 6, 2025 1:39 AM

this is all thanks to the non binary bullshit, this fad will soon be over with the wave of conservative homophobia targeted to effeminate men.

by Anonymousreply 78March 6, 2025 1:44 AM

It can if they look as hot as the guy in the OPs pic

by Anonymousreply 79March 6, 2025 1:48 AM

R69, I manage quite well.

And without bras, panties, or bitch-tits.

by Anonymousreply 80March 6, 2025 1:49 AM

R78 or just a lot of confused men who like fucking dudes who dress in feminine clothing because it’s feminine like a woman. A lot of these guys wear things or g strings and keep the front covered as the man eats and fucks their “pussy”

by Anonymousreply 81March 6, 2025 1:52 AM

It's really no big deal, I grew up with two older brothers and two older sisters and we all shared briefs, whatever was in the clean laundry bin was free to use.

by Anonymousreply 82March 6, 2025 2:37 AM

Pity the guy at OP and R11 is pictured from the front rather than the rear.

by Anonymousreply 83March 6, 2025 2:42 AM

No, but he’s attractive

by Anonymousreply 84March 6, 2025 2:47 AM

R82, did you really wear your sister's panties?

by Anonymousreply 85March 6, 2025 3:10 PM
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by Anonymousreply 86March 6, 2025 3:15 PM

R86, gross.

by Anonymousreply 87March 6, 2025 3:16 PM

That's hot R86!

by Anonymousreply 88March 6, 2025 3:22 PM
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by Anonymousreply 89March 7, 2025 9:17 PM

R89 that’s not women’s lingerie it’s a man in a thong?

by Anonymousreply 90March 7, 2025 9:42 PM

No no no

by Anonymousreply 91March 7, 2025 10:05 PM

Hard “No!”

by Anonymousreply 92March 7, 2025 10:38 PM

Ah, I think these thirsty bottoms are so hot. A no to the bra tops for sure, but a man feeling all sexy and needing a hard ride in lace is so fine.

by Anonymousreply 93March 7, 2025 10:52 PM

I'm a huge fan of it!

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by Anonymousreply 94March 7, 2025 10:52 PM

It's all about context and personal styling. You can't just stuff a woman into any old piece of lingerie and get a good result, and the same goes for anyone else.. Tim Curry's Dr. Frank N. Furter became a pansexual icon because he looked GREAT in every scene. Hair, makeup, costumes, accessories were all carefully chosen to suit his assets. While, as mentioned above, Peter Hinwood, a far more conventionally hot individual than Curry, who looked so sweet and sexy in his gold lame boxing trunks and boots, looked awkward in his Floor Show outfit because he was meant to.

This video about making a gown for Ncuti Gatwe to wear in what I assume is a fantasy sequence in "The Importance of Being Earnest" illustrates what I'm trying to say. It's not about looking masculine or feminine, it's about functionally, actually looking good for the occasion.

by Anonymousreply 95March 7, 2025 10:55 PM

The Ncuti dress

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by Anonymousreply 96March 7, 2025 10:56 PM

Lingerie is a boner killer. Just like the FemSissy guys. No thank you. I'm not that desperate.

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by Anonymousreply 97March 7, 2025 11:03 PM

Caitlyn

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by Anonymousreply 98March 13, 2025 2:24 AM

It’s wrong! Shockingly wrong!

by Anonymousreply 99March 13, 2025 4:01 AM

Get a life

by Anonymousreply 100March 13, 2025 4:17 AM

So sexy

by Anonymousreply 101April 25, 2025 12:34 AM

Fetishists are boring to non-fetishists.

Pass.

by Anonymousreply 102April 25, 2025 12:57 AM

I hook up with this guy who wears his wife's panties. He's so fucking sexy I overlook it, but I rip them off him anyway. If it turns him on, so be it.

by Anonymousreply 103April 25, 2025 12:58 AM

No, but I wouldn’t kick him out of bed

by Anonymousreply 104April 25, 2025 1:39 AM

[quote]Men in women’s lingerie… do you like it?

Let's not give Walter Goggins any ideas.

by Anonymousreply 105April 25, 2025 1:41 AM

Anybody know who that is in OP's and R11's pics?

by Anonymousreply 106April 25, 2025 8:14 AM

To be honest I never understood how straight men liked seeing woman in lingerie, that's how gay I am. It's almost like a socially acceptable straight fetish that no one even thinks of it that way.

by Anonymousreply 107April 25, 2025 8:20 AM

Feminine guys can be hot, but cross-dressing never is.

by Anonymousreply 108April 25, 2025 9:22 AM

Verse here but no i dont like it. Ive had a few hot guys who ive been interested in, send a pic in womens lacy undies and its so disappointing. They say they dont have to wear it, but the moments passed. But ive no problem what anyone does once its consenting.

by Anonymousreply 109April 25, 2025 10:03 AM

The Oscar de la Hoya pics were kind of hot, just because it was so completely far away from his public persona. And also a fishnet bodysuit isn't quite as feminine as the lacy shit. It looked good on him.

by Anonymousreply 110April 25, 2025 10:51 AM

Who is the guy who n OP’s pic?

by Anonymousreply 111April 25, 2025 12:06 PM

I have a few fetishes but this ain’t one. Neither is the diaper scene.

by Anonymousreply 112April 25, 2025 12:19 PM

It starts out innocent enough. A little dress up. Then you really find your inner you then it goes……

by Anonymousreply 113April 25, 2025 12:25 PM

While I usually prefer masculine men, a hot twink can look great in lingerie (like OF whore @angelicboyo18x).

OP's guy is too muscular for lingerie, in my opinion.

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by Anonymousreply 114April 25, 2025 12:27 PM

Not really my thing but if a guy is hot, I'm OK with it as R8 says - "I don't enjoy it particularly, however if it makes them super horny and revved up, I'm in full support." Given that I like fem leaning guys I do encounter it every so often

by Anonymousreply 115April 25, 2025 12:56 PM

[quote] Feminine guys can be hot, but cross-dressing never is.

Agreed. I've seen guys who are hot but then I see them in drag or in women's clothing and I feel like I can never find them attractive ever again.

by Anonymousreply 116April 25, 2025 1:40 PM

I find it hot when there's a juxtaposition and union between femininity and masculinity--an attractive and intrinsically masculine guy wearing female lingerie with confidence. But otherwise no.

by Anonymousreply 117April 25, 2025 1:46 PM

Makes him look like he has a handle.

by Anonymousreply 118April 25, 2025 2:54 PM

To each their own but it is the complete opposite of what I like. Doesn't make it wrong, though.

by Anonymousreply 119April 25, 2025 2:58 PM

An old Dutch proverb

If you are going to fuck someone in the ass who is wearing women’s clothes why would you care if they also have a dick or a pussy

by Anonymousreply 120April 25, 2025 3:00 PM

I like women very much and the majority of my close friends are women. I can also appreciate when a women is attractive. The problem is that I have absolutely no sexual or romantic attraction to them at all. Feminine guys...fine, but dressing as a woman is a complete and total turn off. That's just me. I'm sure there are some guys that might be into it and that is fine. For me it is an absolute NO. Seeing a "chick with a dick" is something that I actually find repulsive.

by Anonymousreply 121April 25, 2025 3:15 PM

[quote] If it turns him on, so be it.

So be it…Jedi.

by Anonymousreply 122April 25, 2025 5:18 PM

Yeah, total turn off. And I just opted out of a local gay bar trying to drum up business with the leather crowd advertising Leather and Lace night. I predict it will fail. Most leather guys are not into that at all. I am sure there will be a plethora of twinks in lace though.

by Anonymousreply 123April 25, 2025 8:37 PM

Does he have a GoFuckMe?

by Anonymousreply 124April 25, 2025 8:40 PM

I found out who the guy is in OP's pic for those who want to know.

Al Warrell - also known as "The Sexy PT".

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by Anonymousreply 125April 26, 2025 8:43 AM

His Instagram:

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by Anonymousreply 126April 26, 2025 8:44 AM

that's a fine hose

by Anonymousreply 127April 26, 2025 10:03 AM

Real men don’t sit around discussing sex with men who dress to look like women for men who claim they don’t want to have sex with women.

Real men, like Donald, spend the day complaining and wondering why Deions kid was not drafted.

Worry from the man that destroyed a once thriving professional football league all by himself.

by Anonymousreply 128April 26, 2025 10:24 AM

R128 is channeling a Sarah Palin word salad.

by Anonymousreply 129April 26, 2025 10:46 AM

Thank you, r125/r126.

by Anonymousreply 130April 26, 2025 2:14 PM

You're welcome R130.

by Anonymousreply 131April 26, 2025 2:20 PM

Three years ago, I would've said, "Nope. No thanks."

But I kind of like it now, especially if he's got a nice dick.

by Anonymousreply 132April 28, 2025 12:22 AM

I may like it if the guy has a great ass.

by Anonymousreply 133April 28, 2025 3:36 AM

Only if they are uber butch

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by Anonymousreply 134April 28, 2025 4:03 AM

It's really only hot on VERY masculine men like the guy in OP's photo. It's the juxtaposition between the masculine and the femme.

by Anonymousreply 135April 28, 2025 4:32 AM

Who's that, R134? He's giving 90s Henry Thomas

by Anonymousreply 136April 28, 2025 7:27 AM

Manos

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by Anonymousreply 137April 29, 2025 4:18 PM

sometimes

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by Anonymousreply 138April 29, 2025 4:41 PM

NAMES, NAMES! I need NAMES!

by Anonymousreply 139April 29, 2025 5:08 PM

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by Anonymousreply 140April 29, 2025 5:16 PM

Yeah....it proves my theory that hot people can wear ANYTHING and still look hot.

If you're average/ordinary it looks dumb.

by Anonymousreply 141April 29, 2025 10:15 PM

I once wore a black lace maternity peignoir to get some dick. It was well worth it . So no,it wouldnt bother me at all if a guy wore lingerie .

by Anonymousreply 142April 30, 2025 1:00 AM

“I wanna look pretty, but I’ll still kick your ass!”

by Anonymousreply 143April 30, 2025 1:17 AM

r83, the guy at r42 may be the r11/OP guy. Can't see his face, though, so not sure.

by Anonymousreply 144April 30, 2025 2:14 AM

I mean, the OP guy is hot with a huge cock, so I can overlook it.

But, no, I don't like it.

by Anonymousreply 145April 30, 2025 2:19 AM
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