Ben Barnes XXXV - Bangin' The Younger Years. AGAIN. *sigh*

Is Ben white?

The Paul McCartney shirt in his new spoof video for his gf Aubrey. They went to that concert with his mom when she went to london over the holidays for the girlies catching up. Skeletor is right on, just skin and bones and zero personality from her. Benny mate, could you be more obvious that you read these threads.

R2 It's a new emojigate! Now this is getting good lol

R1 Hello again! Nice to see you - it’s like old times

R2 Ahh Benny’s little subliminal messages to his trolls and and fangirls! This could be Ben donning the character he’s playing - part of his costume, like the earphones. We know he doesn’t use them. So this is ‘Not Benny’ talking about ‘Real Benny’s’ new album. Or he could be disappearing into his Leo stubborn side again - he’ll do whatever he wants and f*ck the consequences.

This man wants to be Hozier so bad, he mentions him more than he does his girlfriend of almost a year.

Remember what happened after his lion roar in the fields? He did that to troll the trolls who brought up the emojis of the lion and fairy him and jules used. After that so many people became completely disinterested he left socials for months and his career suffered for it. The trolling the trolls doesn’t work and will bring more hate to his gf, which I guess would matter to her if she actually had a career.

The Cleland momma is still commenting on his posts (and being ignored ofc). She’s so desperate.

This time, the Ho tapped his post within minutes! Cleland has not, so the liking and posting ban must still be in place. How irritating for a wannabe attention seeker! Her ‘Close Friends’ however must be bored to death of her posting her whole Xmas Album photos to them.

R7 her mom is a desperate mess. You know JH is sitting there liking his post knowing she is so much better than this failed singer/interior designer/teenage lookalike/unemployed secret. JH and her family are crazy so that is saying something. JH must have got bored while trying to make brooks engagement about herself. There are so many woman in LA or in his industry and he picks the worst ones.

I understand Ben may be up for a Latin Grammy for his new music.

R7 Breaking. Fucking. News. Skeletor finally liked the post tonight. For the first time in weeks. He finally gave his Deeply Obedient Little TradWife permission to like one of his posts. Of course he still made her wait alllllllllllllll day to like it thinking they'd be able to hide it after all this time. Or maybe Skeletor just now got wind that The Ho liked it immediately, and she *KNOWS* how very much Benny is still absolutely OBSESSED with his Blackface Fairy. I demand hair pulling and mud wrestling between them. Where Skeletor will obviously break in half at the gust of wind from a missed punch and utter lack of any substance between those ears!

But of course, think about what this means! Ben *KNOWS* in his heart of hearts that she killed his chances of being a rockstar with a successful tour. He *KNOWS* this tour is going to be a complete failure. And he *KNOWS* she's the cause because his fans started leaving him once she came out. He *KNOWS* that. But he insisted on DENYING her to his fans for this long so that he could *try* in vain to sell more tickets. And now that he knows he can't he's allowing her to *belatedly* like an instagram post.

BECAUSE BEN HAS ABSOLUTELY NO RESPECT FOR HIS FANS AS HUMAN BEINGS, THEY ARE *ONLY* POTENTIAL DOLLAR SIGNS TO HIM. And now that he knows he can't get any more of their money. . . .

Oh this just got so much more delicious!! Happy fucking new year everyone.

R10 He hasn’t been very good at hiding her tho has he? Not with her dropping her vacay photos twice. And not just 1 or 2 pix either.

I still feel like that was a calculated move on his part; it killed two birds with one stone. Stopped the current girlie from pestering him about posting pix, and he also hoped JHo would figure out that he wasn’t on his own.

The fans were upset about it? Tough! He does what he wants,

And he really *doesn’t* care, even if those pix of hers were the biggest buzzkill ever. There’s nothing been said openly about it so he thinks he’s got away with it - but he hasn’t. Wearing that T in his clip yesterday was a big FU to the fans too, and they know it. Well played Benny, you’ve f**ked up royally - again.

What if Ben just got a new tour shirt from that concert and thought oh I’ll wear this because I’m going on tour. Not even thinking about Aubrey.

Him and Aubrey aren’t together, just friends, as a thank you for doing free work for his music video when she was in town for a couple days they did things. Just like Peyton list for years, taking her to premieres and what not. The concert and play Aubrey is wearing the same outfit and maybe she helped him pick out that boring beige Hugo boss shirt for the interview no one watched. We have no proof he was with her at soho farmhouse and coral said she might also be a member of soho house as she comes from money although you could never tell by her zara outfits. The thought of him fucking Aubrey in the same bed jules slept in naked for her birthday is another level, mother Barnes needs a session with her son on that one.

Aubrey and mom will probably be at the LA shows, maybe the fans can look out for her at the other ones and not buy his merch since he really doesn’t care about them. He wonders why the women he loves get hate, well besides jules blackface it’s because he hides them. He acts ashamed and then expects his fans to respect them when he doesn’t even respect them. He is not that famous, saying this is my partner is just an adult thing he can do. Especially if Aubrey was wearing his clothes back in jan 2024 which makes now a year of hiding. Pathetic.

Yes this tour will be a joke, he knows this is the death rattle of a career that was so promising back during westworld days. Shame.

Hate right before the world tour, self sabotage at it’s finest

He really wore that shirt to then promote his own merch which is ugly and really is out here saying fuck my girlfriend buy my shit. Julianne the Ho taught our little Benny boy well with that influencer grift. Fuck the people you care about, let them get hate, as long as you make money.

Tickets for his first show are going for $35 right now, that is bleak

R15 That was the original standing tickets price. The limited vip ones were over £/$100.

No is doing that but thanks for pointing out something that is stupid and useless. He can’t even sell out a show with that low of a ticket price, like people are going to get limited vip tickets for a selfie with him on a phone. Please fuck off with that.

Tickets for the House of Blues show are buy one get one free. Yikes

R5 Well it is at least possible you might actually be on to something? Friend just pointed out that in today's video, when it is a video of actual Ben performing, he has his new giant Christmas ring on. In yesterday's video with Ben playing characters, he's not wearing rings, but is wearing the bracelet and watch. In the infamous t-shirt video where he's playing a character (without Ben's usual wireless earbuds like you said), again he has the watch and bracelet, but no rings. Are we to believe they rented that rehearsal space for multiple days and that's why rings are missing sometimes? Is it a weird sign of sorts of something else? It's just a weird little layer to add to Benny's attempts at being a big boy. Or whatever this is.

R18 I thought you were making a joke. Really, I thought you were just making it up as an excuse to get us to laugh at him.

You weren't fucking kidding. The show that opens his life long dream rockstar world tour. . . had to offer a BOGO to get people in the door. FFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUCCCKKKKKKKKK..

He does have the pinky ring on while wearing the Paul McCartney t-shirt

Aubrey skeletor Cleland really tanked all that momentum for Benny. Yes it was her stories of everywhere they went together in London and her mom commenting on his posts (cringe), but also there is the fan pic of the play and the concert video where he knew he was fucked. Hope she enjoyed meeting the parents, now they can’t even give away tickets to his show. Benny remember JH did all this, your games with her made your fans distrust you and your choices, now they aren’t really spending their money like before. He really did dig his own grave, it’s been glorious to witness.

R20 Oh you're absolutely right, missed that apparently several times, but finally managed to pause at just the right moment, my bad. Definitely missing the giant Christmas ring though. And still weird to change things up like that at all. Outfits because you're selling the merch, obviously. But removing rings possibly one at a time? *shrug*

R21 Skeletor is also now going the route (three days in a row now!!!) of greatly delaying liking his posts so as to not draw attention. Remind me, where have we seen that EXACT maneuver before? Wonder if Ben originally told The Ho to do that and now he's also taught his Obedient TradWife to follow in her deeply worn footsteps. And the gaslighting cycle continues!

Now just imagine if he taught her as part of his pillow talk when they fucked in The Ho's old bed in Soho!!!

Can’t wait for the hard launch of his relationship at the album release party in LA right before he goes on his world tour where he wants the fan girls who think they have a shot with him to buy his stuff. He could have waited to bring Aubrey home until February, he is playing in London on Valentine’s Day I think. Then he would have made his money, no one would have suspected anything because for a year no one cares about her anyway. She could have done a whole post, making herself relevant about tour life with him and how she is beloved and loved out loud and live, laugh, love and totally not the side chick while he was sending hidden messages to other woman on his socials.

In seriousness I do think Christmas was just a fuck you to JH while she was single and alone, considering he went to all the places jules went for her birthday trip with Aubrey. It isn’t a serious thing, she was used so Benny could say hey Jules I got someone and you don’t.

Checked out Ms Cleland’s IG highlights, just in case she tried to pull a sneaky move (like with the Pinterest “BB but renamed to Home but still not shared with BB’ folder) - by posting all of her Xmas snaps in a misnamed highlights folder, for example.

She’s only got 2 highlights. One with an artist’s palette - it features some kind of draft or sketch or something. So fair enough.

And then there’s one called… Singin

Yeah, that is not a typo. She’s seriously called it that. Heavens above, is this woman really, truly 31? Or is this her trying to masquerade as a 20yo and be all hip & trendy?

OK Ms Cleland, we know you’ve found us here before - take note, it really is time for a highlight name change.

Does anyone even watch the highlights anymore? For me it was the pajama ad with her friend and the hair bows that really made me think oh this woman is not a serious woman. This is the image she is putting out, that of a stunted 31 year old obviously. Maybe that is what Benny boy likes, that she is a child, he can then feel powerful because she doesn’t intimidate him or challenge him in any capacity.

Anyone see the blind item about Julianne hough and the golden globes? They called her desperate and that she was trying to sleep with the head of Netflix at the after party she went to and that it was uncomfortable to watch. She has been advertising how single she is for weeks now and has never had any class. If Bens ticket prices weren’t embarrassing enough, his ex is embarrassing herself with huge industry folk. His name linked to her is just confirmation to not take him seriously either. No wonder WME dropped both of them. You are the company you keep.

I've been saying it for a while now, but for those of you who like pretty pretty pictures, enjoy your little hearts out, and eternal thanks for friends. Feels greatly appropriate to post this on BOGO ticket world tour opening night!

This displays the IG analytics for Ben's followers. You see the count drop precipitously into the red by thousands of followers on October 23rd. Looking back, that's when little Benny thought it was a good idea to post his gyrating naked in bed singing video. And clearly that requires no follow up commentary from me! But according to my friend, the followers turn up dramatically into the blue on November 2nd. The day after Ben released Beloved. Like it or not, he got thousands of new followers from releasing that song, and the count continued growing by tens of thousands, look at all those blue lines.

The final three tiny blue lines before it permanently turns back into the red begin November 24th. And if you look at the previous thread, we first mentioned that Ben was dating Skeletor only a couple days prior. I don't know if the rumor started anywhere else also, but it easily could have taken a few days to make it's way through the internet into the wider Bennyverse. Was that the cause? (Yes) Or was it merely an unbelievable coincidence and everyone just hated his (surprisingly lovely) cover of Defying Gravity and a teaser post that he would eventually release Nevermind. Clearly and demonstrably, people loved Beloved off his new album, but they hated a teaser of the second single??? But then again, those red lines get longer and longer towards the end of this time frame, and that starts late December. And I don't know, what was going on with Benny late December? Was he seen out anywhere??

And bottom line, according to the analytics, just before he released Beloved and got that huge jump in followers, his count stood at 2,069,500 ish. Apparently right now, it's below 2,071,000. Just 1500ish followers left and Skeletor's revealed Obediently Attached To His Hip presence in his life will have lost him ***ALL*** the following he gained from releasing his first single, literally just in time for the official release of the full album as he exhaustedly begins his life long dream rockstar world tour.

When I say this useless empty-headed little girl is a literal curse on his life. . . . Fuck.

Shit, Ben's house might burn down.

R28 Was just seeing this. Maybe I was onto something when I mentioned him now being cursed? Or karma has decided 2025 will be the year to make Ben its bitch cause damn that really sucks.

[quote] Shit, Ben's house might burn down.

Does Ben live in East LA?

Look up what JH is doing she lives right down the street from Ben and you know she is going to milk whatever attention she can get if her house burns down. Probably will be an interpretive dance in the ashes.

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The crowd at that first show looked super bleak. All of 30 people, can’t wait to see the five people in the rest of the country who doesn’t know or care who this man is. Is his house ok? He is not in Malibu, Benny can’t afford that.

Found a video of the concert and watched/listened. Context - This "review" has nothing to do with whether or not a fan did/could enjoy it, that's a personal, individual thing and no business of mine. Obviously not literally, but I'm writing this more akin to a reviewer doing write ups for local concerts. And in my head I'm doing comparisons to his The Troubadour concert from last year that I actually really surprisingly enjoyed once I saw the whole thing. Okay, with that..

It's really hard to say what *exactly* I heard/saw. He did begin the concert by saying that he got a call from his neighbor 30 prior to taking the stage saying they just evacuated and they hoped his house didn't burn down. Cause Jesus I'm REALLY starting to believe this guy is genuinely cursed/karma's comin'. He was audibly shaken many, many times as he spoke, but then he was also very obviously masking it for his performance. He got extra emotional referencing the fires introducing the breakup duet because he sang it last with Hunter Elizabeth who just lost her house to the fires. And that's all absolutely understandable and I do not fault him one bit for any of that whatsoever.

There were enjoyable parts. He cracked jokes that made me chuckle. He put on his charming personality performer mask and interacted with the audience in ways I'm certain they enjoyed. I know I enjoyed the multiple appearances of his gay as fuck lisp voice that definitely brought people here to DL in the first place. The song where all the musicians traded instruments live as the song continued was fun and cool. Definitely some real bright spots throughout the night.

But also, there were A LOT of mistakes and hiccups throughout the night. Some were technical and from the venue (mikes didn't work, he kept having to provide live instructions to the crew to fix sound levels or whatever, etc.), but then the rest were apparently him. He stopped and restarted songs saying he just messed up. Sometimes he was too far into songs so when he came in at the incorrect place he'd just stop singing, wait, then come in properly re-singing the exact same six notes he'd just done. His ability to match pitch throughout the night was, let's go with not always great and more like the bad old days when I was begging him to stop jazzifying every note and learn vocal control. I'm not 100% positive, but he may have messed up lyrics. He did do a perfectly adequate job of brushing them off and getting through it, but man were there a lot of mistakes. But despite the mask and genuinely attempting a proper performance, he was undeniably shaken/emotional/whatever else the whole time and mentioned that he was actually far less nervous than he thought he would be. Again, don't fault him at all if that's the only thing that contributed to all the mistakes, but then there's no way for me to determine if any of it was nerves or lack of enough preparation/rehearsal (or sleep, cause damn those tv interviews he did *before* the fires were, again let's go with low energy and subdued), or being completely overwhelmed given how astronomical of an undertaking this is. But bottom line, even though it may not have been all his fault cause real life got in the way, it was an inescapably and undeniably inauspicious start to his life long dream music tour, and my mind is fully open to the possibility that curses may be real. Cause Ben is definitely under one right now.

R34 Adding on to say, it doesn't help my thinking it wasn't all fire worries when got up very early for him, but then he's apparently staying up really really late to post about his potential Friday concert. Was he awake the whole entire time trying to coordinate/confirm with the venue for Friday? Cause otherwise, he is 43 years old, middle aged, and goddamn well better pace himself considering this was the first night for the next two months that includes tons and tons of travel and an hour and a half performance every other night. Yes he doesn't have one today (or maybe even Friday), and maybe this was only an opening night party time event, but godDAMN it Benny if it wasn't anxiety over the fire preventing you from sleeping when you just randomly decided to post about Friday since you couldn't sleep late into the night, grow up, accept your advanced age, and PACE YOURSELF! *sigh* Why is he so unbelievably immature all the fucking time. *SIGH*

(Also one more observation I forgot, he said he's releasing either the single or the video of his break up song. . . on Valentine's Day. And then tried to brush off the audience's reaction by shrugging and claiming "there's no rules." Because either he's fully embraced his turn towards saying fuck you to fans and anyone listening to his music, or. . . what the fuck are we supposed to take from that exactly?!?!?!?!?)

I don’t know who any of these morons are and don’t care to. And that includes the OP.

I suspect Ben will be urging people to donate to the California Wildlife Relief Fund of the Latino Community Flundation.

[quote] his gay as fuck lisp voice that definitely brought people here to DL in the first place.

I'll drink to that.

Lisp may voice? Can you share the link or time stamp or something

So what I’m gathering is a break up song on valentines could mean skeletor is not a thing and hopefully never was. Maybe she put that nail in the coffin when he showed how uncommitted he was, right before a giant fire, and right before his world tour. Mistakes on the first show shouldn’t be happening, he should have his shit together with his band if he is charging people money for a show. As he knows people are struggling and a concert is a luxury, shame on him for that. Now the album release is cancelled you guys, his dreams are falling apart before us. I’m here for it.

Obviously completely understand why, but now he's cancelled-for-now his Big Hometown Album Launch Party Concert that was supposed to really officially kick things off for him (no offense to San Diego, but you know it).

Nah man, he's officially cursed and the odds are (n)ever in his favor. Everything's either going wrong, or about to go wrong for him right now.

R35 R40 I’m of the opinion that this is Benny’s cack-handed way of breaking up with Cleland. She needs to move on to her next target as he’s already moved on from her.

R42 Well I have to point out, the McCartney concert video. What are the chances that someone would be recording the screen at that EXACT moment, and that someone (else??) would recognize Ben, and that he and Skeletor would behave EXACTLY in the absolute polar opposite way they each did on screen for EVERYONE to see, and that some person would manage to get the video to BBF. What are the chances of that happening?!? And yet, it absolutely *did* happen. Still think Ben isn't cursed and karma isn't meting out its comeuppance? Just another coincidence that bad proverbial juju seems to follow related to her?

Even if it's just out of an abundance of caution considering, if he did break it off with her and start making more grown up choices, at this point it would probably be the smartest thing he's ever done in his life. Admittedly an incredibly low bar, but still at least one in the win column.

I can't tell if this is fact or fiction. A fan posted a story from the HoB show last night and despite the odd contradictory wording, she claims her and her friend had VIP meet and greet tickets and they were "canceled" last minute.

Would he really single out two people and cancel their VIP tickets? Are they possibly problematic fans he may have had issues with and didn't want to meet them? Or do you think this is a delulu fan making shit up for attention and drama?

Quote from story post: "Thank you for being so humble and kind to take a photo with me at thezoesparks after the at benbarnes concert. ... Wish we had a little more time to chat before the show like some of the other VIP members who got to talk and take photos with Ben and his bandmates before the show. I know there was no meet and greet for this concert. And, for some reason our VIP was canceled last minute. A little disappointing ... "

The universe really said we will almost burn your house down, like literally, if you continue with this little girl. To the point he had to cancel the shows and parties she would be at that they would have had the chance to hard launch. Now if she was a boss, which she isn’t she would own and post up for her man. She is afraid and glad she is gone hopefully, she brought nothing good. Lost him money, lost him bodies at these shows, her soft launch brought nothing but strife.

Take me to the moon and he did take Aubrey home

All I hear is songs for Julianne 2.0

R47 Where The Pining Gets In

Keeps leaking thru.

One thing is for sure, his recent disposable ‘dates’ won’t be inspiring any of that kinda gushing.

Skeletor is definitely out. She can’t even congratulate her bf the day of his album release? She can’t even say I’m proud of you and of our relationship? Even after meeting his parents in December! Especially when he isn’t feeling well and cancelled his live and he had to cancel his shows and release party. She is so insecure she can’t even support him. Wow, even JH said she was proud of him the last go around years ago.

R49 Hmmmmm, well she was posting up a storm about them and their relationship vacay, and unbelievably and unabashedly OVERLY excited to see their apparently dating faces on display for everyone to see at the concert, so is it that she's insecure?

Or is it just Benny who's completely insecure and absolutely ashamed and entirely not proud of her, and he knows she'll wind up making him feel so much WORSE if she comes out of her hidey-hole, so he's demanded she remain deep in the shadows of irrelevance where she belongs.

Who can say really?

I don’t think Ben has that much power and is that manipulative honestly. He is far too self absorbed and vain and selfish. I think she posted their vaca after a year of her wearing his clothes and no one noticing, this thread was created hating her because she really has nothing going on, then Benny dropped her because it is affecting his money and in her insecurity she is hiding. A bad bitch wouldn’t hide. A bad bitch would not even give a fuck about anyone’s opinion. So yes insecure is the exact word.

If Benny loved her enough to meet mom and dad for the second time perhaps since the parents were in LA when he was recording, then in his era of showing who he really is he would be an adult and be proud to be with her. He will praise everyone but her, his pals and his buddies and even fucking Hozier. He loves Hozier more than anyone at this point.

It’s pretty obvious now that album is literally about the Ho, I think he just wanted a sugar mama who would take him on vacations and give him free theater tickets with other celebrities and free townhouse stays. I don’t believe he started writing during the second season of shadow and bone or that the one song is about anxiety. This started in 2020 and three new hearts literally references their three paparazzi walks, she was married during that first one by the way. We know hozier, his real obsession, writes songs that seem about love and are actually about literature. Benny you’re not that good. The ritual song feels like he googled words that rhyme. Painful to listen to.

He posted the live! Who posts the live?! The real celebrities just go live and then the fans record it and they post it. I didn’t watch any of it and I will not, but I can only imagine he is just talking about how great he is the entire time while staring at the chat. His ego is insufferable, no wonder he is alone. The old man in the club doing cocaine, that is who he is.

Did he have "a" live?

[quote]I don’t believe he started writing during the second season of shadow and bone or that the one song is about anxiety.

R52 2022 makes perfect sense to me considering that's the year (well it likely started end of 2021 ish) he and The Ho rekindled their relationship again. She started promoting the hell out of his EP late 2021. That Christmas was the year he had to spend alllll day untagging himself from pics of his blackface fairy, then for new years 2022 he left for Budapest and she left for NY to do her Broadway play (and btw, remind me what jobs Skeletor has EVER had in her life LOL!!!!!). After Budapest he immediately moved on to The Critic in England and then also that cameo in black mirror. And considering the post he made about the critic and all the sexy sexy selfies he took, you can bet your ass he took them for her benefit and their long distance relationship. Then when he was finally done filming he brought his family to LA in July if I remember correctly, and then finally in August he cut his hair really short like The Ho prefers and he went to see her in NYC where their paparazzi pics got him labeled The Brunette Man In White and Julianne Hough's sentient vibrator. BECAUSE NO ONE ANYWHERE KNEW WHO HE WAS!!!

And then he didn't work again for over two years!! And now his new girlfriend coming out has destroyed all the momentum he started gaining back releasing Beloved. And karma and curses just haven't stopped coming for his ass yet, so I'm going to say he's not going to work again for AT LEAST another two years after this latest current girlfriend stunt debacle because he never ever ever learns any lessons and STILL feels entitled to having it all, even though God fate and the universe are all desperately trying to knock some goddamn fucking sense into him right now to make better choices. Everybody get your Cameo requests ready cause that's all Benny and Skeletor are ever going to be good for.

R55 Sorry, adding on cause I forgot the second part that I quoted. In his live he confirmed Yet. Again. that he intended for there to be a through line and mirroring between 11:11 's stars align and Nevermind's I got left behind lyrics. He confirmed the connection in the relationship songs (cause apparently he thinks his fans are too stupid to notice his obvious lies??).

Nevermind is about a relationship's traumatizing end, and he hired his current girlfriend to play the girlfriend that leaves him behind in the video. He can try to deny that along with her all he wants, but everybody with a functioning brain knows.

And he was playing Tiny Dancer on the piano during the filming of the critic. I remember seeing that video somewhere.

Things are getting hot on Discord!

Do you know broken a man has to be, how low his self-esteem has to be to fall for someone like her? And then to chase and chase and chase and come back to her over and over and over again without learning from their mistakes? It's the emotional stunting and lack of self-awareness and points that need healing. And she's all about that mystical bullshit which talks about all of that so neither one of them have learned absolutely anything. He wasted so much time with her when he wants to settle down and have kids. I mean what is this woman doing that had him so mind fucked because nobody's pussy is that good.

Discord?

R60 I thought we were the only ones talking about this pathetic old man. Jules played him every step of the way. She just wanted to make brooks jealous and Ben was her play thing. I’m sure Ben has done the same thing to woman so there is his lesson in how that feels. I really think he liked her lifestyle more than her. Her crazy is covered in glitter, but it’s manic and toxic all the same. Brooks was super rich, JH would never have taken Benny seriously, she wants a Netflix executive or a billionaire. That is what she is hunting right now and making a fool of herself in LA. I think the saddest thing is he did this for four almost five years. It is forever documented in his vanity project. I feel bad for him that this is how he operates at his big age. The evidence is on the wall. It has always been the blackface wearing reality star grifter. If it isn’t Ben should grow a pair and say that on his tour because he will continue to fail if he doesn’t.

Can Ben be justly accused of donning brownface?

R62 Unquestionably yes.

Ben did brownface for a movie. He was under contract to do that. JH did blackface for fun for Halloween and then paraded in front of the paparazzi not even trying to hide it. It wasn’t until she went to a party that people made her wash it off. Racism for work or for fun? Still bad all around, they deserve each other.

[quote] Ben did brownface for a movie.

Several movies if I'm not mistaken. It's almost as if it's his trademark now.

For the girlies who don’t get why his songs are all about pinning and waiting for her to choose him and then having to hide their love is because JH was very much married when they started this whole thing. Rumors about them sleeping together for years was out there, but who knows. Brooks was in another state during lockdown, so they were having an affair. In the press it was very much they are friends because she was launching Kinrgy, brooks invested in that company by the way, they didn’t want the home wrecking allegations to hurt her business. Shadow and Bone was coming out as well so Ben didn’t need scandal.

Then they were also waiting for her divorce to finalize which took years, but they still went on couple vacations with Shaun and Nina and he supported her at events. She was openly dating other people as well, so many at least seven she called the paparazzi for. Even in NY before and after he saw her she was with other men. Ben was not the only option for her. He broke it off once before, she posted a crying video about it and then deleted it. Runner and chaser, on and off, twinflames baby.

This was the time he was writing all these songs, people started really hating because of all the racism from this woman and then they became very secretive. People magazine ran them in NY and there was only hate for them being together. Then obviously jules didn’t pick him, he wrote the break up songs, and then started trying on different versions of the same woman like someone who can’t decide what jacket to wear. Took Aubrey to London as a fuck you to JH imo. Here we are, he is a loser. Hozier would never.

So when Benny says who his influences are for his musical style and he says mostly white men because he knows he can’t say he really wants to be ripping off black artists. I mean Hozier has black influences all over his music. Typical Brit white man, always stealing the culture thinking he is a fucking genius. Of course his muse is a blonde, white, rich racist. Not surprised

Did anyone else see the drama over on Pinterest? Apparently some trolls decided to go onto AC’s pins and made some nasty comments on them. So now she’s changed the account name to just her first name and - unsurprisingly - has set it to private.

And as a consequence of that, any folders of BB’s she added herself to are also not visible now. Well done on forcing that outcome, ya morons!

Didn’t it cross your minds there might be consequences?! You already knew she’d turned off tagging after a couple of troll posts, so no way would she just delete the nasties and leave the account up. So thank you very much for that!!

R68 PS I don’t actually know if the Pinterest trolls are on here - it’s just a rhetorical question for you, dear Readers.

It's always, always the unhinged Ben fan fraus who ruin the sport for us haters who are just trying to enjoy watching the train wreck. Daft cunts.

Fucking twats ruin everything. Just leave her alone and talk shit behind her back like a normal person. I feel bad for anyone who pays money to see him, does he purposely sing off key? Does he not have any pitch? These clips every song he is off key and it sounds bad. Does his band not tell him to be on pitch? Yes men around him.

To the Eastern European putting this thread on her Instagram trying to stand up for Aubrey, you should stop. Your kid is on your gram. What is wrong with you? Also it’s Pinterest for fucks sake. Who cares about this womans Pinterest and her decorating Bens ugly home. This man thinks he is so famous because of like two trolls. No one knows who he is. There are seriously four people here. To think Aubrey is a victim and Ben is so relevant she has to private things, how stupid. Both of them will be unemployed in a month, they are fucking losers. Aubrey tell your mom to calm down and you won’t get clout from this, you should stop. It’s embarrassing D list celebrity behavior.

Both untagged around the same time from the daisy troll and the other one. Typical Benny behavior. Coral we need your expertise. You have all the receipts.

Anyone have proof the trolls even exist? I don’t buy it. The views on YouTube on his last video are the lowest out of all his videos, a 1000 something views on the interviews he did before the tour started, he really is not getting attention right now. How convenient his gf is tagged giving the same concert shirt that started this thread to a “friend” and being tagged because she knows people are looking at her tags. Now she went private on a random thing because of hate? How do we know she isn’t creating this so Ben can get attention? These games are why Ben gets hate, this man continues to just dig that grave deeper and deeper. hozier gf had real hate on her socials and he had to come out and say stop it which resulted in the gf getting all these article writes up about her. So I can see them trying to recreate that so his and her name get attention, don’t give it to them. Once again pathetic!!!

There are screenshots of the trolling behavior out

We still don’t know if they are real,, she could be the troll. You can’t be that dumb

Where is Benny boy defending his lady? They both gonna hide forever and have his face be exactly like the video above. This would be far more entertaining if they were actually influential. A vanity project and Aubrey just seems to be existing off daddy’s money are really not it.

R77 And did you see the troll tags yesterday? It would seem Skeletor's just absolute bestie up in Portland has taken it upon herself to start trolling everyone and brought Skeletor into it after tagging was turned back on. And Bestie, possibly with the help of Skeltor (???), made lots of little girl friendship bracelets for Benny. They literally say "I (heart emoji) Ben" on them. Can you possibly get any more childish? This is far worse than coquettish prancing and posing with bows in your hair. This is literally the behavior of pubescent children.

I'm only a couple years older than Ben, and she is literally an insult to my intelligence. And this is what Ben Barnes is attracted to. This empty headed bimbo of an immature out of work child is what Ben mid-life crisis Barnes is attracted to.

And now you understand why he never gets any work.

I’m taking his new post from him as a fuck Aubrey I don’t give a fuck about how people hurt her and oh here are pictures of myself. Just like the Ho it all comes back to him and him only.

Sad this stunted woman is trying to get clout off Ben who really is unknown. He is loosing so much respect because of her actions. Who would take him seriously when his partner is making friendship bracelets with his name on them. Did she forget he is 43? A studio executive is never going to see him as a leading man when his gf is a fan girl. I thought three years ago his decisions were bad, Jesus this is rock bottom. Mid life crisis, cry for help type of shit. Really sad, just really not cool rockstar at all, just cringe and sad.

[quote] made lots of little girl friendship bracelets.... Can you possibly get any more childish?

You'll be hearing from my lawyers, bitch!!

At least Taylor became a billionaire off that game.

Crazy how Aubrey is going with her friends to the show tonight and all this drama just suddenly happens. Aubrey and friends we see you.

Are they really going to try and exchange them with people? Is Ben going to wear one? The cringe!! It’s so bad, no wonder JH really said no. This is her replacement? A child. He went from manic fairy blackface (one time) influencer, to nepo baby. He took her home to the mom and dad the therapists and intellectuals?! Can you imagine what mommy and daddy Barnes must be thinking right now? This woman is who he is taking seriously and bringing home, still hiding and not confirming any type of relationship, but still. Wow, wow, wow, wow. I can barely handle the shock of the friendship bracelet of I love Ben by a grown ass woman. Aubrey hide sweetie, hide more. You are not looking great, it’s bad, really just stop.

may be her friends or fam be live streaming tonight

R78 Further update, as according to reports, apparently Skeletor's friend has literally turned her IG account into a honey pot after making it public again a couple days ago. She's blocking possibly literally everyone she can find who comes to her page! If you try to follow her, you're blocked. If you *view* *her* *stories*, you're blocked. She's literally posting things to make you look so that she can block you. Possibly literally EVERYONE she doesn't already know! Her account *was* *private*. She just made it public again specifically for this purpose.

Desperate for attention by blatantly showing Skeletor and Benny off, then turns fucking psychotic when she gets the attention she was absolutely trolling and begging for! Run Benny, RUN. These. Are. Not. Good. People.

Interesting how skeletors best friend and the best friend husband, Em and Matt Lewis, both post the same pic as hammy on their stories that Ben posted on his story, but ben did not tag any of them. The husband and bf have Aubrey and Ben tagged. You can view public accounts anonymously btw. These people are the lowest of the low. Anyone see Skeletor at the show? Since they wanted everyone to know they were going to be there. This is all on Benny boy, he makes all these decisions. This is why his fans turned against him.

Why does he pick people with zero class? There was no need for a honey pot, unless they just wanted attention. Considering Ben is very private, what a violation for your gf to drum up all this up with the fake hate and have her bestie tell people you are associated with this show just to block people. Aubrey you want to be a public figure welcome to the territory, people are going to talk about you. This again hurts Ben. That is all she has ever done since we all discovered who this woman was.

R85 Yeah - they’re all just looking for attention. Cleland didn’t get any from hanging out with Glen Powell, but somehow thinks she’s gonna get some from being with Barnes. Lol. Get real, little girl.

R84 Did anyone see her, you ask? Only the whole damn audience.

He replaced Monica Martin with Ms Cleland in the duet. Introduced as a ‘local talent who was on American Idol’ 🤣

And that was it. Not a word more. Then it was ‘duet as usual’.

Talent, huh? 😏

R85 Best thing to do with these people including Ben Barnes is ignore them. Don’t give them what they crave.

How pathetic she did all this to be a musical guest. I was distracted in these clips by the boy band pose in the beginning with the hand out and the poop color monochromatic outfit. Yes fuck these nobody people, they can take their fifteen minutes and fuck off.

Local talent who was on American idol a decade ago! That is almost as good as brunette man in white. He couldn’t even say the amazing woman who was in my music video or who I care about? If she wasn’t such an attention whore I would feel bad for her, Ben is embarrassing her enough.

Did her mom take that video? girl is also pitchy. Love how the fans are completely ignoring Aubrey’s presence and so is Ben that she has to post a video on her account so people see it. The cringe!!! Hard launch and no one gives a fuck. Maybe don’t play games with the fans and you will actually get support. Do they not understand how this all works? The slow burn to irrelevancy I never thought would be this enjoyable to watch.

R91 What is that sound??

Oh… it’s the tumbleweed blowing through AC’s tags.

Interest value… zilch. I’m pleased to say.

R92 I find all of this absolutely hilarious. Not one Benny boy fan shared her ground breaking performance. Her bestie and a random video she posted on her stories are all we get of the two love birds singing off key at one another and competing to drown the other one out. She tagged herself in that.

Benny boy himself would rather share a fan made picture of his face than her. She really thought she was doing something with that Pinterest. JH girl how happy are you? You really won you crazy bitch? With your ass out dance moves and your failed book and your crazy white woman antics and the oops I did racism, you won. Kind of miss your manic episodes. Is Ben starting to get it that he isn’t as in demand as he thought he was while he was sitting in LA. It’s so funny.

R93 What is that sound?

Oh…. it’s the tumbleweed blowing through some rather empty concert halls in various places in North America.

Daily ticket link post … ✔️

Don’t forget that all Ben could do in terms of acknowledging Aubrey is post a picture of himself that she took while they were in London together. He is truly loving out loud. Those tickets have mostly been $35 day of and they still aren’t selling.

The hug was cringe

R95 Not even that!

That’s Seattle in the photo 😂

This man really can’t sing. Aubrey was also all over the place for a local singer who did American idol. Yes the hug was cringe and the entire thing I saw her infatuated and him wanking off on stage to himself. Every clip, every song he is off key and sometimes off beat entirely. A shag from Aubrey has him thinking he is Elton john. The hubris that this man has the past couple days reminds me of a cover band. Playing pretend, he really thinks he is the best. The singing is not good added with the boy band moves is not attractive. I can’t watch it anymore so let me if he proposes or something. Gonna go focus on actual talented people.

You might post on pawboost.com and other lost and found sites.

Did no one tell Skeletor it is the most cringe thing to post your own work. She is watching herself? Post a trailer for the show you are in, but the scenes themselves. That is D list behavior once again. She is mad Benny’s fans don’t care about her and she gained nothing from talking shit here and with her friend playing all those games. Ben has never claimed her ever, didn’t even put her in the little tour highlights. I think they have always been friends, she probably sucked his dick, she is clout chasing celebrity fucker that is clear.

Need someone to do some sleuthing, but is Benny a Jesus freak now? Some Jesus worshippers tagged him in their Seattle post in the same spot that pic he posted was and that was also Aubrey’s sing along and she is all about Jesus. Is Benny in the cult of Christianity? Did we miss this? Isn’t his mother Jewish and don’t they have different views on the whole Jesus thing? Did Aubrey just invite her church group to the show, which omg can this woman be less interesting.

R100 It's just all a big coincidence that she turned tagging back on just in time for her big (re)debut on stage with Benny and her cameo performance in that show I've never heard of that she's broadcasting right now. Apparently her agent was at the Portland show to promote her too.

Benny isn't promoting the Portland show however. He's shared clips of everything BUT Portland. And he's definitely not sharing or promoting her. Not in any way whatsoever. Not. At. All.

Poor dear, all that obedient, devotional, HUMILIATING TradWife work for absolutely NOTHING. LOL!

Aubrey is really a dumb twat. It is Martin Luther King day in the states and she is a black woman and posts nothing about that. She can post seconds of a scene she is in of her saying one word, but as a black woman in the new Trump regime she has no awareness how to use her platform at all. It’s not all about vapid self promotion darling, having some character and integrity matters. Especially when you want to be a famous singer and actor at your grown age. Benny did post something. At least in the past Jules pretended she cared, she screwed up almost everytime and had to apologize and listen and learn, but at least there was some effort.

Someone mentioned the last time this happened, when these treads went quite and the haters stopped caring, he didn’t work for 2 years. This time it will be longer. Aubrey started this whole thing trying to make something seem like something it wasn’t.

Aubrey who?

Shall we bet on how many of each item Benny will be wearing this evening? … thermals, t-shirts, jumpers, trousers, hats, coats, scarves and gloves.

It is fucking FREEZING in Minneapolis! Lol ☃️❄️

Aubrey cleland, Skeletor, the whole thread is about her and love how these comments are trying to redirect. Em pierce her bestie is that you again? We aren’t as stupid as you lot, the thing that is happening now is no one gives a fuck about Ben’s clothing or his girlfriend. Which means no support, which means no more money for your boyfriend. Catch up, this is it. These threads have died, along with Bens relevancy.

R105 If he starts singing nothing but falsetto we can also take bets on just how far his genitals have retreated to stay warm. And I'm sure there will be innumerable young girls in the audience that will volunteer to make the official measurement for us.

Coral!! Benny boy is reading your shit girl!! Brunette man in white, he is obsessed, every word is taken in. His post about the fire right after you posted that!!! Girl, proud of you. You have all the receipts.

Did this bitch really just say that his early forties, going through the pandemic, was the first time in his whole life that he faced any hardship? Did I understand him correctly, or did I miss something? Did he think it made it better in some way that he acknowledged his luck in that department? Did that make it acceptable to flaunt that in people's faces then?

The putrid scent of extreme, fucking oblivious privilege is STRONG with this one.

Favor for a friend who always does me solids. If anyone out there is looking for the link!

I peeked at the Discord once. Too many people were being nice-ish to Benny. I prefer this vile pit of trollery, thank you.

R111 And who keep coming on here to drop links. How kind.

At the risk of inciting wrath from the Ben Barnes crowd - why do we have XXXV threads on this guy? From my read-through of this thread (sorry I don’t have time for the previous XXXIV) he seems like a straight(?), C-list actor/singer. What are we all so excited about? Can anyone summarize? A quick google search didn’t yield much.

I can only think there is still debate whether he’s really straight. Is he bi or gay? He’s not saying if so.

R113 No one is excited about Ben Barnes anymore. This is now an anti-fan thread to talk shit about what a lame, straight, C-list loser he is. Because he's such a crashing disappointment it's fun to trash him, that's why!

R115 Even better, it's to talk shit about what a lame, straight, C-list loser he is despite and because he seemingly acts, makes choices and believes that he's some sort of much better than he actually is A-list star that's unquestioningly above reproach by little people everywhere that are clearly beneath him. I personally take pleasure in proving that belief profoundly wrong. Because I can only listen to him tell us he's already good enough so everyone should love him anyway so many times before I want to strangle him. Bitching here is at least less violent. *rolls eyes*

Awww Aubrey’s sent Ben a pic of her pussy.

R117 she is a stunted woman. Anyone see how empty the Boston show was from those tagged posts? The humbling of Mr barnes has to be this entire tour. It’s obvious how little star power he has.

Aubrey played all those games, her besties was literally blocking people for what? No one is watching her episode on that Max show or even talking about that show in general and her version of that song with Ben was the worst on the tour. Her follower count did not move, she got nothing and honestly gave nothing. Wonder if she will be at the NY show or any europe shows. I don’t believe they are together.

Dying to know the thing that coral is sworn to secrecy over? A woman scorned? Could it be Aubrey starting drama, she did it here. I think all those normies on the last thread were just her, so then she could be the winner. Look she got the guy. That is why this thread was started with their concert video. Although she didn’t really get the attention she thought she would now did she? Anyone braver than coral with this info? I think we deserve to know that thing. Especially if he is playing woman still at his old age.

Are we sure he isn’t gay? He acknowledged the man he sang with last night but he would not acknowledge his girlfriend on socials at all when she sang the same song with him.

The NY show seems so popular why? Ben seemed nervous/rambling in some clips and then at other times giddy way more than the other shows. Could just be it’s the last one before europe, I think there is more there. One clip he sang three new hearts which is clearly about JH and his speech before it sounded like he was apologizing. We are here now and this is the past kind of thing. Aubrey is still in trad wife silence, Bianca Censori level of controlled at this point, and always boring. Her bf is clearly very happy without her. Anyone who was there see any of the JH friends he was so desperate to have. I know Tyler the gay bestie of JH lives in NY. Maybe Ben will fuck Aubrey is more places JH has been in Europe. Loving out loud!

Tyler was there in NY he posted a picture of him and Ben on his Instagram. Jules looks like she might be with a vogue Mexico cover star, BRITISH actor turned wellness guru. We know she is trying to start a cult. This man has zero hair, so Benny boy at least has that on him. They look like they could be Mexico together.

Well well well, will you look at that. It would seem that Skeletor now mutual follows Roger. You know, one of Ben's best friends of 25 years that's been hawking merch at every show and traveling with the band this whole time.

Is it strange though that she didn't choose to follow a single one of the bandmates, even after performing with them in Portland? But she did choose to follow Ben's bestie of 25 years. Just so, so strange! Kinda like it was so so strange that she never liked any of Ben's posts (other than the night they landed) when he was in London, and she hasn't liked yesterday's yet either? She's been liking all the rest lately. Just so strange!

It happened. It finally happened. He said it with his own clearly exhausted mouth. His first big heartbreak was in his late thirties, and it's what inspired him to write and share these songs with the world.

His entire mid-life crisis music career is about The Ho, and he finally admitted it "live on TV." She was the love of his life and she fucking broke him. And now everyone gets nothing but the pining leftovers. Mark the fucking day, he admitted it, and we were right.

We were always right!

Even when in 2022 people magazine printed they are just longtime friends, we knew. I do think there was someone before the Ho who he could be referring to. We never knew about her because she didn’t have social media. I think 11:11 was about a prior person and not the Ho. If she ever appears I have evidence of that.

Clearly his album which he mainly wrote in 2022 is all about the affair with the Ho and her rejection of him. I can imagine he has done the same and used many woman and trashed them when he was bored with them. He got a taste of his own medicine.

Jules has come out and said she has never been in love ever and she had a rotation of men happening from 2020 through 2022. Charlie the model, to the surfer investor guy, to the doctor on Valentine’s Day, Ben on the side as her toy. She just loves when people love her which is narcissistic.

How pathetic of him he never experienced love or heartbreak before his late thirties. I understand why Aubrey is now in the picture. How stunted these people are. I think Aubrey following his bff and his bff following her just recently meant something, just not sure what. The NY show has significance, just waiting to see why. His manager only posted about the SF show and the NY show, not even Aubrey’s show. Tyler went to get info for jules, that’s why you send your gay bff to your ex’s show. See if there is fresh meat there. Aubrey if that is your man, he should claim you after 4 months of you being known to the public. You should tell him to respect you in that regards. He can mention the Ho more than you, which makes you following people and liking stuff look really sad. He is posting a video for valentines with someone else and never highlighted your performance with him ever. That’s sad girl.

Anyone watch the faces of the band during the duet with Skeletor? No wonder she doesn’t follow them, they all look like they don’t like her. That performance was the worst on the entire tour. Benny boy loves the band and loves the photographer and loves the sound mixer and loves his bff merch seller, loves everyone but can’t say the same about the girl he took home to meet his parents and to soho house london to take a bath in the same tub Julianne, his first heartbreak, was naked in.

[quote]His life savings have been poured into the music and the shows, but then this is all about dream making. He says: "It's definitely not a money making venture for me, if can break even that would be an amazing thing."

Should we find it worrying that the man literally hadn't had a job in over two years (which is undeniably worrying unless you're a sycophant determined to stick your head in the sand), and the first thing he apparently does once he FINALLY gets a job is pour all the money he finally made into a money LOSING vanity project because he's having a mid-life crisis.

He constantly *claims* that he wants to get married and have a family, which is the most expensive thing most anyone else would ever do, and yet this is what he "spends his life savings on" immediately after finally making money again. Man, having an ego as embarrassingly massive as his really does have proportionally massive drawbacks to it now doesn't it.

He did say that he didn't want to do Golddigger because the character was far too close to who he was in real life. And now perhaps we have one more clue as to how.

[quote] Golddigger because the character was far too close to who he was in real life.

A fraud?

R128 he did have an affair with the biggest grifter of them all and then wrote a whole album about it. Birds of a feather. Glad he is not making money off people with his lies anymore, even though his one true heartbreak will put her name on anything and sell it. Including telling the world her and her siblings were molested and Derek was abused and hung upside down all to sell her book. I doubt work will pick up for him after this tour.

Hilarious!! Mzzzz Aubrey has done a (much smaller) photo drop from Notting Hill. This time Attention-Seeking Mama is in tow.

Benny hasn’t even taken to the stage in Dublin yet and she’s totally ruined the buzz once more. Nice one, darling!

(You’re losing control, Benny! LMAO)

R130 But what could possibly be wrong with posting pictures implying you and your parents are in London right now, when Ben has been there this past week too, *and* you're quoting Ben's song where he stole the line from one of his self-described favorite movies of all time, Notting Hill, *AND* Ben has a concert right there at the end of the week, on VALENTINE'S DAY where he originally marked the tour poster with a heart? Oh wait, alllllllllmost forgot, *ANNNNNDDD* she also mutual followed Ben's best friend of 25 years a couple days ago, didn't she? What was that said yesterday about sycophants sticking their head in the sand?

But, gotta give her one thing, she is now fully embracing her given name of Skeletor, cause she has officially become The Villain in Benny's life. She will destroy him with her utterly selfish, uncaring antics, and Benny's such a weak willed, PATHETIC people pleasing pussy that he's going to let her do it. Coral did ask what kind of good Christian she was, and we have our answer. The vindictive kind that wants to hurt other people with righteous revenge. Benny must be so proud of his "beautiful human" LOL!!!!

To share old pics from December, why? If she was in Dublin with him and sharing that, that makes sense. Did Benny drop her after her horrible performance in Portland and now she is trying to stay relevant? Give the appearance she is still around when Ben could care less about her. Her attention seeking is so sad.

The content is boring Aubrey! we are all more interested in how Ben and his entire fan base have ignored you this entire time. We are laughing at you. Simping over past memories with your thirsty mom, it’s so cringe. It’s embarrassing and your friends should help you, stop.

If all of them, both parents, are at the london show then wow Ben has Peter Pan syndrome completely. A woman 12 years younger, Jesus freak/trad wife, who is living off daddy and mommy. I thought he would have picked someone who at least seemed intelligent and accomplished, then again his ego could never. Aubrey seems like a child. That is pathetic for both of them. Let it burn. His career is done anyway. If a second performance happens with her, i can’t wait for the fan base to ignore her once again.

Hope Benny boy enjoys people being remotely interested in him for the next month. Considering him and his gf are both failed unemployed actors and musicians, after these we know the three people here will go. That silence for him will be very loud, especially because he is just breaking even with this vanity project of his. He can’t even sit on his money from all of this.

[quote]It’s embarrassing and your friends should help you, stop.

R132 You were likely talking about Aubrey here, but also, does Ben not have anyone that cares about him? Does he have absolutely no one that's genuinely looking out for him that can help him do better? Literally no one in Ben's life would be willing to, just for instance of course, tell Roger to do Ben a solid and NOT allow the IG follow from Skeletor??? Because either absolutely no one cares about Ben, or he is literally the least intelligent person I've ever heard of who isn't intelligent enough to realize that demanding his way or the highway isn't in fact the right way, and that's why he's the king of self sabotage. Misters Dunning and Kruger would have an absolute field day with this fucking moron.

R135 that is a great point. You would think after his entire fan base telling him they didn’t like the Ho and wouldn’t support him, he still did all he did with the secret vacations and the emojis and the covers and then songs for her and blocking POC fans when they said they felt uncomfortable. His career tanked so hard WME dropped him and he is at a lesser agency now. He just told us he isn’t making money off the music or the tour. He just keeps self sabotaging. We would not know anything about Aubrey and him being together if she did not post stories, we would all speculate oh they are friends with the concert video and she would have been left alone. Peyton never got hate because we all thought oh that is his friend. Peyton was doing the exact same things with him like trips all over and events. Aubrey feeds this, just like he created all the hate within his fans and feeds it.

I think this needs to be said on a gay man’s forum that Aubrey and Renee who has in her bio to trust forever and always in god, is the exact brand of Jesus cult that is a direct threat to most people in America right now. This trad wife thing that Ben is now promoting as beautiful, is harmful to woman. Although Aubrey has pics of her in her underwear with a basketball on the Internet, very onlyfans not trad wide. Ben really knows how to pick the girlies who are out here just hurting minorities and the rest.

R133 The fans’ silence speaks volumes to me. She’s just so blahhhhnd she doesn’t inspire ANY kind of reaction from them. How sad for her!

She will be gone soon, one way or another.

Mr Barnes will either no longer have any further use for her (most likely) or she’ll finally realise she’s getting zero attention, job offers or anything at all basically from hooking up with him, and move right on along.

I think it’s hilarious the thing she is begging for being attention and praise and his fan base is just like nah. They will love the merch guy being his bff more than her, his true love. The music is all about love. That is all Ben’s doing imo. He disregards her, so of course they are going to as well. Sad at 43 he is still doing this.

R139 “his fan base is just like nah”

You said it baby 😆

Aubrey did this same thing with the Portland show. A week before she claimed she was getting hate and made private her Pinterest, she manufactured that we see you. Then her bff started blocking people and posted the friendship bracelets which we made fun of. Juvenile. Same bullshit, yet no one will care this time Aubrey. They didn’t the first time you pulled this. Play stupid games, you win stupid prizes. Apparently that prize is the dumb man who probably likes men and tells everyone else Jr you he loves them out loud.

All the troll posts are still in his grid. He probably thinks they’re nice little fan collages lol

R142 Just adding, quite a lot of his fangirls saw her photo dump. So don’t think they haven’t, Benny!

R142 Ah those tags are gone. Guess he spotted them after all. On another note, wonder if he realises little madam dropped those photos *just* before his concert started. Provocative!

She picked the best time, we were able to share it with more of his fan base and they can get a glimpse into how much he lies to get their money. He looked ragged and a little drunk last night. The sit comment, cringe. He looks like he is going through it, right before Valentines with his stage five clinger. Going back to the six posts after the gig. NY was the only show I saw a ton of engagement from fans and the band.

R145 Speaking of picking the best time! Skeletor managed to like Benny's Dublin post this morning just before 7am PST. Just because I saw some idiot Frau Fangirls claim that she isn't really in London, she's just pretending and secretly posting old Christmas pictures. That's some mighty big dedication to be up that early for absolutely NO other reason than to troll his fangirls. Truly, my hat's off to her and her wanton viciousness!

Nothing says freak out and insecurity more than let me post five times a day to distract from what my secret girlfriend did yesterday.

Benny the damage is done mate. It’s sorted, the fans don’t give a shit about your new music/break up Valentine’s Day song and will definitely care less if Aubrey sings it with you. Really weird choice by the way to hard launch your new relationship and have her connected to all the songs about breaking up and ending a relationship.

Still begging for people to buy tickets, it’s pathetic. Why are you highlighting your failures?

From what we have seen from her I would not be surprised if she was up early to like a post to make it seem a way. She doesn’t have a job!

R149 Yeah…. watching replays of her bit part and stroking her pussy 🐈‍⬛

Sorry R148

R147 Not only a desperate attempt to distract, but he's posting AGAIN about the video dropping on Friday. He just did that three days ago! Don't want to wait until maybe Thursday or something to say "tomorrow's the big day pre-save now!" No? Just have to re-remind everyone it's *eventually* coming again TODAY for some reason?

BTW, did I see somewhere that he's actually performing for Kelly Clarkson TODAY? You think maybe he might want to let people know when and where to watch TODAY?? Well maybe if he wasn't acting out of desperation he'd know that? Just a thought.

He posted a story for the Kelly Clarkson performance he filmed in Ny that comes out today this morning. His manager also did a story for it as well. I have no idea why he did a post with the beer and then another post for the new song when those didn’t need to happen today. The new song could wait until later in the week. Why are those living on the grid? To distract.

Did Aubrey forget she was a black woman? Is going to London with her bf made her confused? She has a platform and never uses it to say my people doing great things in a time where a racist is president in the country she lives in. Even Ben promotes black woman, granted they do work for him, but still. Aubrey we get you white passing, but step up. This woman, she is not interesting, she is not intelligent, she is not accomplished, she is not stunning (looks 16), and she stands for nothing but vanity. I will never understand.

R152 He posted that story yesterday, but it just says he's going to be on. Is that show online? Is it on tv? Is there a time slot of some kind to watch out for? Where do we go to watch? Just the little details like that that are sometimes important when you're promoting your bullshit. At least for professionals, but then, this is Ben we're talking about, so we likely won't even get the bare minimum.

Well the kelly Clarkson show in socials isn’t highlighting he is on the show at all! On their stories and posts they only post the two other guests. Absolutely no mention of Ben or even a clip of his music. Maybe that is why there is nothing from him, besides his name being in the list for the week because there is nothing else from her show promoting him. I’m sure it will be on YouTube. Yikes! Sad

Did they cut Benny boy from the show? It aired on both coasts by now and there is nothing about our main man. So embarrassing. Aubrey really does bring negative karma.

Benny’s fans in the comments of the Kelly Clarkson instagram said they watched it and he was cut entirely and they are confused. Did he piss kelly off? Crazy they couldn’t tell him that before he promoted it.

R156 R157 What the fuck is going on? Obviously it was going to be pre-taped cause he's in England performing today, but what the fuck is this bullshit??? No wonder he didn't have anything to say about watching it live. Cause it was bullshit!

One they just posted that story 2 hours ago. Benny’s team must have been big mad after we said it here. They had all day to post that story. Two that is his NY show for the beer ad they did. So he didn’t even go to her studio and perform or meet Kelly, he recorded it the day of the NY show and sent them a tape. Which is pathetic.

No one is going to watch the little music video he made of his concert. This man lives in the past. Can’t wait to see ben and Aubrey scream sing at each other at the end of the week!

So surely, this obviously isn't actually possible, because Ben Barnes is undeniably the biggest and most pathetic fucking pussy on earth and could never, but Skeletor hasn't liked the last TWO posts Ben made yet?!? Did he give her a proper TradWife beat down over her unbelievably childish and immature antics on Sunday? Did Daddy take off his belt? Did he yell and put his foot up her ass? Because she certainly seems to now be dutifully and silently obeying him again, exactly as she did the last time she was in London. Guess his little dog's got a new muzzle on lest she forget her obedience again. How delicious..

Nothing says desperation and insecurity like a million posts and the look at me, look at me. This week Ben has posted and changed so much on socials, a tactic to not look at his juvenile gf imo, he knows we are getting to the end of his vanity tour before he fades away into no one caring about him at all. Him begging to be in Harry Potter is so pathetic, it’s not going to happen he is old no matter how stunted he is.

If Ms Nonentity is skulking about again now he’s back in London, will she taunt the fangirls with more photos? And go against the gag order imposed on her?

R163 Well she did like one of the plethora of posts yesterday, so maybe the petulant child is indeed rebelling against daddy? I do wonder though, why did she pick that one to like? It's just a couple of pics from the photographer he hired to follow him around Europe.

Of course, it's not like Ben has ever ever ever included secret hello messages in his posts before, right? He never takes silly selfies or videos that originally get texted to "friends" that he winds up posting later, right? Nope, that's never ever happened before.

Was she there?

R165 Yes, considering she and her family have been in London for a week now, of course she was there, along with her family. And if that surprises you, Then. You. Have. Not. Been. Paying. Attention. Or you were desperately lying to yourself as you tried not to see it in a fit of extreme denial. And my how easy that is!

Both sets of parents were seated together, but apparently Ben's dad was having none of it when they could be seen. And if my earlier question regarding Jack not allowing Skeletor to follow him is now followed by the dad ignoring her family and all the implications that follow, then both Jack and Tom are my spirit animals and thank God at least those two have a brain. Too bad intelligence COMPLETELY skipped right over poor Benjamin.

As for Skeletor, you know it's coming! She sat apart from the families with all Ben's actually famous friends. And. She. Had. A. GIANT. RED. BOW. In. Her. Hair. Which you can see in her stories, but I will warn you.. for a girl that's so desperately ***STRUGGLING*** to be an actress/model, she probably shouldn't be posting such horrifyingly BAD pictures of herself online. But then again, it did match the ugly selfie Ben likely took for her that he included in the ONE and only post that she's liked since he AGAIN told her to stop outting them.

Ben started the night by saying Happy Valentine's Day to everyone, likely trying to make the night all about love and making everyone feel beloved. But then Skeletor ruined it for everyone who noticed as she first soaked up alllllllll the attention as the audience constantly turned to look up at her "celebrity section," and then she put the troll cherry on top when she just couldn't resist posting that she was there to the whole world despite Ben's wishes. Skeletor ended the night by making it all about *HER*, just like the "beautiful human" Ben desperately claims she is. But then, he does lack ALL intelligence doesn't he.

Welp what a disappointment Benny boy is. This is his gf officially, even though you will never catch him saying that. She will just have to tell everyone because heaven forbid Ben claim her in anyway. He could obviously do better, we gravitate towards what is comfortable don’t we. A stunted and submissive child who strokes his ego and follows him around is his dream woman. Really pathetic to think at one point we all thought he was a greater man than this.

R166 R167 Yes - a complete disappointment who is scratching an itch with some complete nonentity, who in turn is just vying for attention. Any attention. From anyone. Anywhere. Epic fail.

That awful AC selfie - guessing that was an attempt to respond to the Hough Like/emoji on his recent post. And a middle finger to his fandom.

Another epic fail. Nobody gives a flying f**k about her, lol.

What's hilarious to me, is for the FIRST time since he released Beloved last October, his followers went up yesterday. The count increased by less than 100, but it was still in the positive direction. For. The. First. Time. In. MONTHS. Because London was a well attended concert and A LOT of people were posting about it yesterday. But then, Benny's obedient TradWife WHORE for attention just couldn't help herself and decided to make the night all about her and the drunken giant bow in her hair. And afterwards, the paltry increase in followers that he did legitimately find turned around again and his numbers started falling. And they're still falling now.

Because Skeletor *IS* a villain. Because she truly is a curse on his life. Because she always has and always will bring him down for this world. Every single time she rears her ugly, UGLY presence in Ben's life, whatever success he may be having starts vanishing. Every. Single. Time. She is a curse, and he's never going to make it with her in tow.

There is some karma there as we can see, but also he invited her to London in December and took her to that concert with his mom and he brought her on stage in Portland to sing badly with him with her pastor and friends present and posting and he invited her and her parents, which alludes to this being a very serious relationship on the level on engagement and marriage, to his show with his family in VIP in London. He is active in his downfall. He will do all these things, while also calling her local talent and never posting about her personally and hiding her to his fans who give him the attention he is also craving and more importantly their money. This is why the hate for him started years ago because he is lying to his fan base and wearing a mask constantly while expecting investment and praise from them. That is wrong.

You are unhinged. Ben will never fuck you; please get over it.

Whoopsie! The above comment was directed at R169's OTT vitriol.

[quote]his fans who give him the attention he is also craving and more importantly their money. This is why the hate for him started years ago because he is lying to his fan base and wearing a mask constantly while expecting investment and praise from them. That is wrong.

R170 Well remember that interview linked above that alluded to the fact that Ben may have dug deep into his *Life* *Savings* to throw himself a two month long international party because he's obviously having a mid-life crisis, and he's NOT expecting to break even. He's had exactly ONE job in over two years, and he's already signed on to do TWO fan cons this past week. He. Needs. Their. Money. He NEEDS the life savings of his fans, because he's obviously not getting money from anywhere else. And so he puts on a good show. He waxes poetic about how they should feel (be)loved *to* *their* *faces* and the Frau Fangirls fall for his ACT Every. Single. Time. He's LYING to their faces with every single word, but they want it to be true. They desperately want HIM to be true, but he's been all LIES and hiding who he really is and what he really does for YEARS now. This is just the latest example in a long line. He has been exploiting his fan's desperation and wantonly USING them for money For. Years. He pumps up the charm and flashes that thousand watt smile as he LIES and *abuses* them, and they fall for it and wind up hurt and disappointed in him Every. Single. Time.

Because Ben Barnes is NOT a good person. He is not beautiful. And if his desperate fans would only look at the real portrait he desperately tries to keep hidden from them, they'd finally see just how ugly he is on the inside. *JUST* *LIKE* his villain of a girlfriend. And maybe that's why he continues to hide her. If they see how ugly she really is, then will they also see how ugly he is and leave him faster? And will he then finally find his way into the disgusting shitbin of history where he belongs?

But then, Skeletor obviously does have a trust fund coming her way, and maybe Golddigger Ben is just waiting until he secures access to that before he openly tells his fans to go fuck themselves cause he won't need them for their money anymore. Or will he continue to abuse them and string them along cause he'll never have enough of their money? I can not *wait* to find out.

He did love jules for her lifestyle. The snowy secret lovers vacation with Nina and Shaun full of dog sledding, fancy restaurants, and horse back riding. He also loved staying at her $8,000 a month townhouse in NY and the celebrity filled opening night Broadway show she got tickets for. Benny boy the gold digger. If Aubrey baby traps him, that is 18 years. She got you for 18 years. He’ll be 61 at that kids graduation, on the brink of death.

Correction the townhouse was $18,000 a month according to the post. Forgive me, as anything less than $200,000 a year when she lived there for three years just screams poor.

I do have to say I see him more as a liar the more this tour goes on. In his interviews he is always changing the meanings of the songs and forgets what the new lie is from week to week. I wonder if roger and Aubrey being very religious allows him to manipulate them more. Using people to placate his ego is what he has been doing for years. Also someone said Aubrey is a mean girl and I can see it. She could have been discreet about all of this and she advertises it every moment she can. They all give me the ick the more we see of them.

Well Aubrey has made her whole personality her boyfriend so not surprised Benny loves that

[quote]Also someone said Aubrey is a mean girl and I can see it. She could have been discreet about all of this and she advertises it every moment she can. They all give me the ick the more we see of them.

R176 Well well, was I right again? Yes, she absolutely is a Mean Girl and he absolutely is a liar. Because just look! Now Skeletor has gone 'back in time' and liked most of the posts Benny made while she was in London. Originally she only liked the one with the ugly selfie he sent her, cause Benny obviously told her to stop showing off *before* his concert. But now, their trap has been successfully set and sprung, she posted her own ugly selfie demonstrating her cruelty and blowing the fans a fuck you kiss afterwards, and now her mask is all the way off and she's showing off in every way she can. Just like she did at the concert Friday night. Peacocking and making a scene from her balcony to the point that the audience kept on feeling the need to look up at her instead of the performance they paid to see and enjoy. But then again, Ben was distracted all night as well, and kept looking up at her as he sang instead of performing for the audience that paid for the experience from him that they *SHOULD* have gotten just like every other city got. It was as *unprofessional* as he could get and he shouldn't have invited her at all if he couldn't handle her being the unrepentant distraction that she was and still do HIS JOB.

And you can make fun of his fans for even having expectations of him and the night's experience if you want, but realize that he encourages and wants it from them (along with their money). Hell, Ben even *literally*, specifically said in his IG live that if they came to his London concert he would be their date for Valentine's Day. But instead, they went to a concert that they had been looking forward to for maybe months and got a distracted "performer" too busy paying attention to his over-reacting girlfriend, and they left their concert disappointed and probably sad instead of elated from what should have been a very happy, memorable experience. It will be memorable for them, but for all the wrong reasons. Because Ben's girlfriend just COULDN'T keep it in her pants and loudly made the night all about her instead of allowing everyone their space and time. Because she is indeed a mean, ugly, horrible person, and she's apparently officially putting it on full display.

I just rewatched tangled and noticed the imagery of the sun and had a thought did Ben base his music on this fucking movie because the characters look like him and JH. Her dog is named sunny. Did they really base their whole relationship on Disney?! His music is full of references to Disney things. Juvenile theory I know, but these are the waters we are swimming in.

R178 Ironic that his album is called “Where the Light Gets In” and kintsugi features in the cover art.

The cracks are showing in her ‘sugary sweet butter wouldn’t melt’ projected personality. I mean - no one was fooled by that from the get-go, what with that sneaky-posted tennis photo. And no one her age is as childlike as she likes to portray herself as. All her blatant ‘look at me’ tactics last night managed to do was unsettle both Barnes, his family and his friends, never mind the fans.

She is certainly •not• a lil sweet baby, she’s a relentless attention seeker who’s trying to shuffle her ass as far into the spotlight as she can. She’d KILL to have JHo’s pap contacts. Lucky for Benny that she doesn’t otherwise it would’ve been just like old times!

Oh and talking of - Benny circled back and liked JHo’s lil ❤️ on his post! AC however did •not• like the Monica music vid.

The two of them are not being at all honest with who they really are. He’s got his rockstar persona on, she’s got her ‘baby doll’ persona on, the result being that neither of them truly know each other.

The outcome for AC is - and as it has been throughout this whole sorry saga - that she’s totally unforgettable. Despite all her best efforts, no one’s taken any notice of her!

Meanwhile

R180 *FORGETTABLE*

Typo lol

R180 And was gonna add… meanwhile has AC cut up Benny’s tour wardrobe. Wtf is he wearing tonight?!

[quote]AC however did •not• like the Monica music vid.

R180 Oh, did poor bitch baby not like the video where Ben's on full display getting all touchy feely with another woman where they were smiling, laughing, dancing and singing together the whole time? Is baby jealous that literally the only music video Ben's made where he *didn't* display some sort of heavy intimacy with the woman was hers??? This was his break up song, but the video is very happy and intimate. The video with his actual girlfriend, no intimacy and they break up. Because Ben's absolutely fucked in the head and he's taking it out on her. And it's wonderful to see.

But did you notice the other post she didn't like? The Kelly Clarkson show post. You know, the woman that Skeletor admitted in her interview was her idol and role model whose success Skeletor desperately wanted, which is why she was coming back to American Idol even after already being rejected twice before. Spoiler Alert: Skeletor was rejected a THIRD time after that interview. But apparently Ben was good enough to garner some of Kelly Clarkson's shine. And apparently Skeletor can't fucking handle it. Jealousy on full display today!

He looked like shit last night. The outfit looked like he just got up and that is saying something considering how boring all the others have been. From clips he was giving nothing. The jump showing his entire torso was not hot. He should be beaming now him and his gf can love out loud, slow it down, baby names and all.

Saw a clip of him singing the in between and he is literally crying. Something happened.

Can it be more obvious that Ben or his manager are reading these threads, oh and Aubrey as well with that red bow she wore after we all clowned on her for her pajamas post and being so severely stunted.

R185 Since I didn't personally see that song from either concert, let me check.. was this from the London show (white shirt) or the Cologne show (oversized black/blue shirt) from last night?

Last night black wrinkled shirt

R187 why the fuck do we care what you have personally fucking seen? Aubrey if that is you, take your fucking ugly red bow and your bullshit and go.

R188 There may be an explanation, and you can see the beginning of it here. Just after this moment when he's trying to stop himself crying is when he does Ordinary Day immediately followed by The Inbetween. And since the OP linked here also has Inbetween captured, you can see they did the rainbow lights again for that song too, and it's after that that he starts crying and jokingly telling them to stop with the lights cause he can't get through it. So yes, something did happen, but it's not what you may have been implying. Just the audience getting to Ben.

R190 However just for debate's sake, I'll add on to say that you also may not be wrong in a larger sense. Back in the beginning of the tour the first time the crowd held up the Beloved hearts, Ben *repeatedly* got very emotional about it and kept coming back to it throughout the night. And back then, the LA fires were still burning and God (The Devil actually..) only fucking knows what was going on with Skeletor at that point, but her Portland duet was the next show, etc. Point there is, he was obviously an emotional wreck that night (week??) and it showed up multiple times on stage. He claimed Toronto was the first time the (larger) crowd did the lights for Rise Up, and he was visibly touched by it that night, but I don't remember it being anything near this much. I don't remember him needing to steady himself like he did in SF etc., I remember him only appreciating how pretty it was (of course if anyone has a video that shows otherwise please share). In that context, this reaction to the lights being made different colors does rank as over the top, even for Ben. I'm not saying I have an explanation, or even possible ones, but upon further reflection, yes I agree with you. His reaction to colors was definitely very over the top and there may be a larger context cause.

R190 god does no one know how to look anything up. Fee878 on Insta has the full performance of in between from last night where he is clearly emotional the entire song and then cries at the fucking end of it. It is EXACTLY what I think it is, cunt. He is emotional about the break up song and you can see in Charles expression that he knows why Ben is emotional. The lights from the audience were in response to his emotion in the fucking song. I’m going to need clips to all these things you claim because no one knows what you are talking about. AC and her gang have come in here and lied and misdirected before so I don’t trust any of that. I say you watch the clip I’m talking about and use your fucking brain.

Also first week his house almost burned down and hunters house did burn down and his friends were grieving having lost everything they owned, so yeah he was emotional because of that. Your analysis is just wrong. Thank you for agreeing with me because I’m fucking right.

I’ve watched multiple clips from that show and he seemed emotional the entire show. He could be tired, hung over, or idk the gf is ruining his life, who knows. Maybe he just misses his family and knows he will be unemployed in a couple weeks. They do the lights thing at every show, yeah they are not colored, but just like he says the same speeches every time like it’s not crazy new. The point is he is clearly more emotional which is different from his put together acting he does.

R192 R193 Honey, take a breath now. Firstly, Fee878 was the account I linked and I literally said they also had the Inbetween vid. I said the colored lights were the immediate spark that caused the tears, they weren't out of nowhere. And then secondly, I thought about it some more and considered broader context and I agreed with you that he was inexplicably overly emotional over colors and described previous similar moments I observed as context that compared and backed that observation up. So how exactly can my overall analysis be wrong when it's literally the same as yours? Maybe that will help you read *all* my comments again with clearer context.

Benny at Cologne… relieved that the attention-seeking gf is no longer with them. The sorta shit she pulled in London gives him palpitations. You know it.

And consider this. He’s an actor. He’s always been good at all the ‘emotional eyes filling up’ stuff. He knows what the ladies like. That’s all.

I thought Ben was family

R195 no

The slow it down speech at the London show we all thought was about Aubrey was clearly more about him wanting the tour to not end. He said that clearly in the podcast that just came out which was done before the Ny show. This girl has been trying to make it all about her, JH also had that habit, when it isn’t. I saw him trying to act like he is not a mess as more of an indicator of his acting skills, typical British man covering up his feelings when it is obvious, just like I said.

Oh holy shit.. A friend privately sent me a video and I don't know the OP, so I can't link it, so I have to say sorry for dangling the carrot without providing the goods. BUT!

HOLY FUCKING SHIT SKELETOR LOOKED DRUNK OFF HER ASS FOR THE LONDON CONCERT!!! Like she looked absolutely sloshed out of her fucking mind!!! There's also apparently another couple sitting directly behind her (and Anna Popplewell) where the guy keeps staring at her and pointing and then whispering to his lady friend in what is very very clearly an act of talking about her literally behind her back. So when all the upset fans that went were claiming that she was making a scene up on her balcony perched above everyone else I absolutely believe them. I've now seen it and she looked wasted out of her fucking mind.

And just for good measure, two days later Benny starts literally crying on stage over colored lights and then soothes himself with a sip of his beer and says, "alcohol will fix it. Except no, it reallllllly doesn't. . . ." What makes you say that Benny??

Beautiful human my fucking ass. Yet this absolute clown of a cruel little girl is what Benny goes for?!? Mid. Life. Crisis. Call. For. Help.

I love that! Can we leak the video on socials? This little girl needs to come down off her high horse. She has been bragging about this relationship all over socials, can you imagine his parents reaction to that?! Her parents were there!!! How embarrassing, I think everyone needs to see it. Who runs those daisy accounts? This needs to be on it.

Coral brunette man in white on tumblr needs to post this video for the fans and to chronicle this in time.

Coral, I simply cannot get over that pic of Aubrey at the London show and fucking Renee looking straight at the camera! That woman is a nut job. You can see it! His parents are psychologists, how are they surrounded by these people? Aubrey and her brother don’t even have real jobs, they just work for daddy. It’s pathetic.

This month alone Ben has done so many posts and every time Aubrey is brought up he posts so many stories. How embarrassing for her, he works so hard so that no one will ever acknowledge her at all. The fact he spent the entire Valentine’s Day show singing to Aubrey in the balcony while she was just sloshed is hilarious.

R203 One hundred percent fucking ON POINT! But how embarrassing for HIM that he feels the need to manically try to distract all the attention back to him cause he *STILL* doesn't want anyone to know?!?!? After her LOUD ass "Everybody look at me, I'm the REAL show you want to pay attention to" display all night? Out. In. Public. On. FULL. Display.

But also hilarious to me, over Christmas, she and Rob were permitted to follow each other when they met, but no one else. Because there wasn't supposed to be public evidence that she was meeting his other friends??? But Friday, again, she was on FULL DISPLAY at Ben's concert. If you've ever heard of her, you KNOW she was there. She absofuckinglutely made sure of that. Everyone knows. And yet, Owain still doesn't mutual follow even after their now second meeting where he sat next to and minded her all night long? Still not permitted? Or. . . . And I don't know if Anna, Ben's literal best friend who also sat next to and minded Skeletor all night long, has a private IG, but IF she does, it doesn't show up anywhere recent in Skeletor's IG. Nope, the ONLY engagement she's gotten since her little stunt Friday night is from more of Ben's fangirls. NOTHIING from Ben's real, actual Fam. But then, maybe that's what she really wants at the end of the day anyway.

[quote] Didn't wanna post this on my socials, so you can have it and post anon. Here's a photo I took of Aubrey talking to Joe Freeman at Ben's valentines show. Her parents are sat in the front row. Her dad is the white haired guy and you can see the top of her mums head next to him (she was sat next to Ben's mum). When I was taking photos, Freddie Carter noticed and turned away, which is absolutely fair. However in contrast, when Aubrey noticed me, she ran her hands through her hair, had a little smirk and then moved away from the group to the position this photo was taken, where she was much more visible.

From the lovely Coral's blog. And yes, they included a picture from the night. And yes, that's a big ol' drink in that skeleton hand of hers.

What an absolute fucking EMBARRASSMENT she is. And this is what Ben has publicly attached himself to now. This astonishingly immature little girl whose entire personality is 'Look-at-me-Mean-Girl that's utterly desperate to be popular'. I will repeat for the girlies in the back.

Benny's Mid. Life. Crisis. Cry. For. Help.

Well only six more shows and then him and his unemployed gf will have to try really hard to get attention from people considering they will be completely irrelevant. He has nothing coming up, no one is going to watch the institute where he is the old man in a show centered around children. For her, she literally does nothing but read these threads apparently and to say she has any type of career is laughable. The fact her job for daddy’s company touts her social media expertise when she is hardly active except when making a man her entire brand and personality. I hope they get engaged and pregnant so Ben can really just ruin his life. She is already playing weird games, her family is a joke and scary strange, and I hope her weird version of jesus helps him because the mid life crisis is hitting hard. She did bring the pastor and the whole church gang to the Portland show, so cringe.

Anyone see the blind item on Deuxmoi about the B list actor who plays a villain in a fantasy tv series in talks to be the lead actor for a spy franchise. Could that be our boy? Word on the street Harris Dickinson will be the next bond. I thought Benny was C or D list at this point. Aubrey are you sending blinds out? We all know Deuxmoi doesn’t fact check.

Someday speech at the show with the boring beige sweater and brown pants, not sure if it’s recent, Benny boy got a little fired up talking about people standing in the way of loving the person you want to love and judging you for it, then went into random things to distract from what we all knew he was really talking about. The fight is coming out of the old man. So glad the three people here are getting to him so much, also Benny your gf sucks.

Might I add having an AFFAIR with a married woman while her husband is in another state alone makes you not a great person. That is how you choose to spend your precious time on earth, all the while you are thinking you were in a relationship with her and went through a breakup with her and jules is telling people magazine you are just close pals. Unless there is another secret person in that roster of woman he has. I doubt jules ever thought you two were actually together and was openly fucking other people by the way.

Crying and then aggressive speeches about doing what you want, he doesn’t seem like a man in love. I really thought Aubrey might be at the paris show since she spent so much time with family for the London one.

So I've got some years on me. And you can take my thoughts here with a grain of salt, or you can consider that there may be some accumulated wisdom behind them. I welcome your thoughts regardless because I actually am a fully grown adult with all the earned confidence that brings. Fire away.

The lady doth protest too much methinks. Because if Ben was actually genuinely in love, if he was in any way genuinely confident about his relationship, he wouldn't pay criticism or concerns any mind. Think about your own real life reactions. When you hear something you're confident is absolutely false, do you take it to heart, or do you immediately dismiss it as crazy and forget about it. But if you're not confident about something, and you hear something negative, do you immediately dismiss it? Or does it immediately pique your interest because your subconscious *fears* it might be true. And so Doubt takes hold. But doubt can only drop seed in fertile ground. Where confidence is absent. And confidence is absent because your subconscious *KNOWS* that something is very wrong, even if you're not ready or willing to consciously admit it to yourself yet. And just like back when he cast Skeletor as the break up girl in his Nevermind video, now months later he still *knows* that something is very wrong. But, in his mid-life crisis, he's "tired of spending time on (his) own" and so he'll get up on stage and make speeches where he tries to convince *himself* not to let anything stand in his way. He feels the need to publicly defend himself from apparent judgement, but if he was in any way secure in his choices, that need would never enter his confident mind. Yet it does, because he knows it's all wrong. He's said *multiple* times recently that he doesn't want the tour to end. Because it's an escapist fantasy for him. He gets to be someone else and put on a performance every night. And when the tour ends, he has to go back to her. He has to go back to reality. And he doesn't want to, because he knows it's wrong. And with good reason. (con't)

R210 (part 2) Because then there's Skeletor. Have you noticed that since the London concert, she's returned to *immediately* liking his posts again? She successfully sprung her trap, LOUDLY made her presence known and utterly distracted Ben's performance all night, and then lorded her "victory" over everyone with her very late night "blowing a smug kiss" ugly selfie. Because if it was only a Valentine's kiss for Ben, she could have just texted it to him. But it wasn't. She posted that hours after he left for his bus as a trolling fuck you to his fans. Because she is a cruel, Mean Girl ugly person at heart. And if you need more evidence, I've now seen multiple reports from London attendees, that during the show, a fan managed to hand Ben two roses, presumably for Valentine's, but it doesn't actually matter. A fan paid money to be able to gift her celebrity crush something to make them both smile. But according to these reports, these people looked over to Skeletor, and She. Was. Pissed. staring absolute daggers at this poor girl! Why?!? Did she think Ben was going to stop the show and bring this girl on stage to fuck her in front of everyone? Skeletor obviously chose to date a celebrity for the exposure, power and prestige that comes along with it, and yet she ALREADY utterly can't handle the every day occurrences with fans that come with the territory of dating a celebrity?!? *ALREADY*?!? Is she going to pull a Mike Pence and insist that Ben is never accompanied by other women while she isn't present to guard him and beat the fans off? Will he also have to call her Mother?!? Because he's already signed up for two fan conventions so far, and you know what those girls ask him to do with them at those conventions! And I can already hear the excuse, that she was drunk off her fucking ass that night, so staring daggers at a random fan was a typical overreaction. But hopefully at some point we'll all learn, that being drunk does ***NOT*** change who you are, it only removes your societally conditioned inhibitions to *reveal* who you really are. The Skeletor EVERYONE saw on display Valentine's night is who she really is. A mean, cruel, ugly, attention whore of an obnoxious, embarrassingly immature little girl DESPERATE to lord her newfound position over everyone else. No wonder Ben knows it's wrong, and no wonder he doesn't want to go home.

I think when he gets back to LA with its swirling pool of cookie-cutter women making themselves available via Raya or otherwise, he will dispense with her services as they are no longer required. He wanted some on tap during his tour as he couldn’t exactly date while living the rock god dream, now could he? Also, rock stars need groupies so Cleland pretended to be one for him. In fact she might pre-empt him & disappear first - either before or perhaps after the Wiltern gig. One last try. But she surely must have noticed by now that she’s gained •zero• clout through being associated with him. First Glen, now Ben… epic fails. What’s a girl to do? Sighs.

Totally agree with you and your wisdom i think is spot on.

Him coming out the show right after London looking like he just got up, with a beer in his hand and crying during his set, clearly the man was going through it. It wasn’t just about fucking lights.

I will never understand and think it’s crazy how the hand full of people on this forum and on tumblr can affect the choices of grown adults. Like Aubrey needs serious therapy if she is taking what is said here to heart and feeling any sort of way about that. That is an unstable person and if Ben is getting mad because she is upset over people talking shit on the internet, then there are serious mental health issues happening there. We know she is taking these comments in because she wore that red bow to his concert.

I think with the fans ignoring her in Portland, then no one has anything good to say coming out of the London show (not one fan who wants the best for Ben has said oh she seems amazing for him and she is great), and that speaks for itself. The fans can sense who she is.

At this point it has been month, maybe even over a year, so if they are together I’m sure the LA show they will be all over each other and it will be a safe space full of his friends in LA, you know the ones that kiss his ass and live in delusion. If she is at the LA show we all can see that will be the nail in the coffin.

Seeing the clip of him saying he has been in LA far too long and calling himself a twat made me really think he does read these things, we have said that exact thing here.

Those little speeches he makes feel like confessions, even though he roughly says the same thing over and over. Somebody needs to make a montage of those please, i would like to see how they differ each show.

If Aubrey and him and not serious and she has made them look like they are this entire time and possibly screwed things up for him then that is low. To ruin someone’s dream like that for attention is really gross.

R213 Sadly that’s exactly what she’s after and it just hasn’t worked. I think they’ve both used each other - a perfect example of LA life and how it works.

These threads may only have a handful of people contributing now, but they definitely contain nuggets of truth. I also know that a certain percentage of his fandom does read this thread and also the tumblr page. They may not be saying it publicly but they don’t want him to settle for her. She’s an empty vessel.

“It could all end tomorrow this song is called someday”, this man isn’t even trying. What hurt him? The ugly black shirt again and camo pants in Berlin, is he going to war? Or has he just fully given up? Something happened after the London show, this man is changed and not for the better. He is broken

Oh shit how did I miss this! How the fuck did I miss this?!? The bow-laden little girl obedient TradWife strikes again?!? Skeletor tried her bony hand at being a Super Christian Influencer of some sort who wants to lead everyone down the path of Jesus?!?!?!?!?

BWWAAAAAAHHHHHH HHHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!! BENNNNNNNYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!

Yeah this is exactly what we have been talking about when we say her and her family are not only cringe but also scary. These types of people are usually the most judgmental and evil people, the opposite of what they preach. That’s why we were worried Benny boy might be on the Jesus train. If they are not together romantically and her manipulation into the London show and surrounding it is on another level and that cannot be ignored considering under this Christian institution trapping a man is the way. JH never went that far. I’m worried for Benny if she is going to be in LA with her family again, we know Renee loves this attention, it all feels gross.

R217 Well you gotta figure, it's one of two choices, right? Either she's that desperate for Jesus that she goes down the path of proselytizing to the poor masses of YouTube. Or she's *THAT* desperate for attention she can't get anywhere else that she turns to attempting Super Christian Influencer on social media for her latest fix.

I mean, is either option good?!? lol!!!

I’m surprised how little he is posting considering there are two shows left. We went from five posts a day, a ton of stories, it felt manic and he is never that active on socials. Now one story and one post. I’ve also wondered why hammy only posted about the SF show and the NY show. Not even London or Portland as a nod to Aubrey. I wish we knew what was happening behind the scenes because it is so obvious something is.

Their tour promo has been weird. Or make that also zero. Interviews or song performances suddenly popping up on or after a show has happened. Sometimes the post bombing felt like deflection. Or maybe just belated concerns about the sales levels on some venue.

R220 *almost* zero

Was last night the first show Ben didn’t have a drink (alcohol) with him on stage? Anyone know? He referenced alcohol every show basically.

Men who date woman who are more than ten years younger are doing so because it absolves themselves of the responsibility that they will be called to by woman of their own age, it’s a way of getting away with easier relationships. So Aubrey Ben sees you as easy and considering you have just been following him around that is obvious. Going into the LA show know that is how we see you as well, you are easy and therefore unremarkable. Ben knows that. Considering you are in your 30’s there aren’t any excuses, you should know better.

R223 Easier to control. Or so they think. When the girls are no longer obedient, they’re done.

Funny jules liked Benny boys valentines pos when she was with bald British man in Miami not that long ago. Again this is the second time they have been photographed together and he is Vanessa Hutchins best friend. Also he posted at sunset Blvd in NY on Feb 9th and jules posted with Nicole on the 10th. He was with her in NY valentines week. Jules we see you. Benny your replacement who she is trying to keep secret but tagged all over Instagram with so not really isn’t trying to be a rockstar, I would say more a cult leader wellness influencer. Dodged a bullet I think benny boy.

Aubrey commenting ❤️‍🔥 on Bennys post from five days ago, which is her telling us she will be at the LA show. Ben liked her comment.

He does get down on one knee during the song someday and they are clearly making a video of that song during the tour, so proposal anyone?

We can just forget her bestie was 34 dating a 19 year old, all the weird Jesus stuff, and Renee being super creepy and attention seeking, and Ben’s dad not really liking her family at the London show, the fact she has no real job and is a horrible singer, how Benny clearly was having an emotional breakdown for like a week after the London show (still want to know why he was literally crying) and finally got it his shit together for the last few. We’ll just pretend right, they are all real good at that in delulu land.

God I really hope Aubrey becomes the new Kevin and is just replaced by others and fades away and is never mentioned again. The more we find out about this chick and the people she surrounds herself with, it just get worse and worse.

Aubrey isn't so innocent as she wants people to think. There are some XXX pics of her all over the internet since at least 2014 according to one site. It appears she took them herself. The little girl Christian persona she puts on is total bullcrap! This girl is who Ben loves so much that he brought her home to meet his parents. Really, Ben!?! This is who you chose to love out loud with? Pathetic.

Wait did Aubrey fail at trying to be an OF model as well? The American idol rejections were not enough? Shocking, no wonder the band will not acknowledge her. I bet Roger is hoping Ben will share her when he is done, which should be any day now.

Well now, this is an interesting situation isn't it. According to the internet, she claims that she was hacked and that these pictures were leaked. And *if* that's true, then that is a condemnable act. And if there was no further context in the life of Skeletor, then I could believe that that was true. But unfortunately, there is other context. And while I make no accusations, and do not actively believe that anyone is lying, I also absolutely do not automatically believe she is telling the truth either. I'm too old to be that naive.

Just to get it out of the way and address the elephant in the room, never underestimate a pageant mom. Do not ever, EVER underestimate a pageant mom. But anyway. This appears to have occurred a year or so after her (by her own admission) third failed attempt at American Idol fame. (Cause her idol was Kelly Clarkson, and she wanted to be just like her!) Skeletor was still (ever?) that big a celebrity back then that someone sought her out to hack her? Maybe. Or had any fame she had garnered from Idol begun to fade too far into distant memory. Well, too far for someone who craves attention that is. I mean it's definitely probably just a coincidence that shortly after this incident her acting "career" starts up on IMDb. Definitely. Well, at least we can say that she apparently did get enough attention in Hollywood to be cast in something just after this happened, and at least the pics didn't hurt her chances, so that's good. Go Hollywood!

But it was never all that much attention, unfortunately for Skeletor. Nothing ever more than bit parts and walk on roles. Even though it was her dream to live in LA! And even though she posted nearly nothing but scantily clad bikini shots on her Insta for like a decade straight! Clearly she just wasn't doing enough to get the attention she so desperately wanted. Hey, does Glenn Powell have any room in his coterie of desperate young starlets? Why not check. Well, that doesn't *seem* to have panned out in any meaningful way, but it's still okay! Because now she has Ben. And he's casting her in his music video! Well, at least, he cast her *back* in his music video, but that's still something! He's got 2 million followers!! That will get her some attention!! And it did, cause how many of her newer followers all have Ben as their profile pic. And it's definitely a coincidence that Ben's producer friend Lena Roklin follows her. And it was such a sweet gesture that Ben brought her to opening night on Broadway to the musical that his friend directed. What a treat! And even better, Ben got them VIP tickets to a Paul McCartney concert and OMG OMG OMG her VIP face was in lights on the BIIIGGGGGGGG screen and she was fucking *elated*. Ben was deer-in-headlights *horrified* to see it, but Skeletor was in seventh heaven.

R230 (con't) But then, another big debut. . . Ben brought his Local Talent up on stage to "sing" with him on his tour while her agent was in the audience posting on socials about it! Ben was an absolute fidgety wreck for that song that night, but Skeletor was Lit. Up. On. Stage. Of course their duet got barely any replay on socials and literally ALL the other guest singers Ben brought on for that duet blew her out of the fucking water, but don't worry, she's not done getting attention just yet. Because there's *always* going to be Valentine's Day. By his own admission, Ben was a nervous wreck that night, but that didn't matter, cause Skeletor got allllllll the attention she fucking *craves* with the absolute fucking spectacle she made of herself up on that balcony that night. Culminating in the cruel very late night fuck you kiss to the fan girls that's *still* got people talking about her. Because that girl has claws, and she's going to do whatever she has to do to get the fame and attention and power that she deserves. No mercy, no grace.

I have absolutely no idea whether those pics were actually hacked and leaked. But I do know there is definitely another possibility. And if you or the rest of the Frau Fangirls haven't yet considered the distinct possibility that she is just wantonly *using* Ben for her own fame seeking needs, then you're a fucking moron. Just like Ben.

I have absolutely no idea why the Gods randomly sought fit to think that I needed to know that this Portland plastic surgery center that specializes in breast augmentation follows Skeletor many months ago. And I have absolutely no idea why the Gods sought fit to remind me of that fact today. But here we are none the less.

This girlie is turning out to be as problematic as Hough. Didn’t Benny have time to Google her before Xmas in the rush to get ready for the tour? Hopefully he (or Mama Barnes) might do so now. Absolutely •not• the Little Miss Innocent she’s trying to portray herself as. He’d better watch his back.

It has been maybe a year since they have known each other and maybe dating for over six months if we have our timelines correct so Benny knows who this girl is. Crazy to me how the more you find out about her and her friends the darker it all gets.

I just can’t tell if he is problematic, as he lies so much and changes his stories so often idk what is the truth anymore, or if he is innocent and good and just attracts these toxic woman. He clearly has some wounds from the childhood bullying and self esteem issues.

If he is good then he is easy prey as hollywood is full of Aubrey’s and the Ho OR he is exactly the company he keeps. He is a better actor than we give him credit for because there is a part of me that believes him when he says he is a good guy.

Wonder if JH has invited Aubrey and Ben to any Oscar parties? JH does have a new man no one cares about after all. Or maybe she is still hunting after embarrassing herself with the head of Netflix. Aubrey I’m sure will sleep with whoever she needs to for a job., we all know that by now.

R234 Think it’s been since maybe July/Aug. She was still hanging out with Glen at this point. No luck so moved on along.

R236 Meant to add… and hardly any time spent together it would seem out of those few months.

I’m sick of this man lying. He said in his story the performance would be live and it is not live it was recorded in Germany the night he was crying on stage in that awful outfit. Is slow it down the tribute to Aubrey song? Have we concluded that. Aubrey we still hate you, we know you read these, get an actual job and personality.

Awww Benny highlighting the bracelets his gf and her friends made for his shows. The immaturity is insane! TS it makes sense because she purposely is branded for young girls, Ben is a 43 year old man singing about a woman who played him. Those bracelets are juvenile and if that post could reflect his Peter Pan syndrome anymore succulently. Surprised Aubrey didn’t make the LA show about herself for once!! Is she finally accepting her ploy for fame never worked?

I think she took that video in his post. It is clearly a woman laughing, she did the close up thing that was also present in the museum video from London in December when they were together.

No it was the photographer lady, also love how he has surrounded himself with mostly lesbians this tour. Aubrey may be done and dusted. She posted no videos, we’ll see if anyone saw her. Finally we can be rid of this child.

Jules didn’t make an appearance I hope considering she embarrassed herself so badly at the Oscars. Was dropping timothee’s name all night to just have him see right through her and treat her accordingly, it was lovely to watch.

Aubrey was by Kevin in all black, Ben pointed at her in kevins clip on his stories and you can see her in other peoples stories.

Anyone notice the manager deleted all his posts from the tour and took out manager for ben barnes from his bio. Ben talked about how much he loved him throughout the tour. They seemed close. The day after the tour ends did Benny drop him? What did ben do? He really loves to just use them and then drop them the minute they aren’t useful anymore.

R243 Well tbf I guess the tour is over and Mr Hammy is, after all a jobbing musician, so will be looking for a new gig.

(Sorry for the strange linkage, DL didn't like the picture alone for some reason)

A friend sent me this updated chart yesterday (I should check messages this good sooner!). For context, yesterday's IG bracelet post where he mentions that his musical tour is finally over was far and away Ben's best performing post in months by a factor of about a hundred (yikes!). And yet, his followers plummeted yesterday. And I asked, and yes, they plummeted again today as well by the same amount. He's currently only a couple hundred followers above his number just before S&B Season 2 (YIKES!!!). But how and why could that be?!?! When he had his best performing post the exact same day? I mean, did anything at all happen at the concert on Wednesday? Anything at all? Something like, I don't know, secret VIP guests Yet. Again.

And I only ask because check that chart again. Look at how many followers he loses each day before the London concert on the 14th, and then how very many MORE followers he loses each day after the 14th. But obviously, that's just a coincidence, right? Just like his currently plummeting numbers. Just a coincidence Every. Single. Time. It. Happens.

I can see hammy now moving on to other projects but you usually wouldn’t delete all evidence that you were involved with someone when you just finished a project that you are proud of. Especially if you are close to that person and that person is saying how much they love you. Obviously there is bad blood there. Glad Benny is loosing followers he played so many games with Jules to get that 2 million mark. I can only assume Aubrey is the cab light theory, there and constantly available.

Just to continue on with the at this point apparent fact that Benny is absolutely a cursed man and the universe is absolutely trying to get him to change course. How is it possible that it keeps happening over and over and over? How does he keep getting caught? Twitter outed him bringing Peyton on a date to a british museum, which is obviously his thing when he brings the girls home to mama. There was the secret Covid Quarantine Rendezvous with The Ho in the back of a Montana restaurant pic that outed him as being a dyed in the wool liar and hypocrite (along with Nina of course!). He wound up getting caught in a video of Darren Criss when he went on his date with Allie. The most beautiful video I've ever seen in my life was seeing Ben's horrified reaction to getting caught at a Paul McCartney concert that SOMEHOW made its way to his fans. Massive wildfires were a mile from his house and destroyed the beginning of his Life's Dream Music Tour. An earthquake rattled Boston when he got there. A DC plane crash killed everyone on board when he got there. And now this innocent pic, that outed Skeletor's family sitting up in the VIP section with Cal at Benny's final show in LA. Considering Skeletor (along with all the rest of Benny's friends who attended but apparently couldn't be bothered to make a post supporting him???) was obviously forbidden from making a drunken embarrassment of herself AGAIN at this show, they were obviously supposed to remain hidden this time. And yet, the universe found a way. Again.

And so I wish a happy International Woman's Day to all the strong, capable, GOOD, beautiful, *real* women out there. I do not wish obedient TradWives like Skeletor a good day, cause it's girls like her that can't get by without attaching herself to an all too willing man (***JUST*** like Ben!) because she can't make anything respectable of herself on her own, that set good women back many many decades, and prove that we *still* need to have an International Women's Day at all. Fuck Skeletor and all her ilk.

R247 Man, DL really does not like links to pictures lately does it. Le siiiiigh..

(And btw, apparently the given nickname for this family is now The Creeplands. Perfection.)

So are you like the same three guys obsessed with that little round Danish nurse who is obsessed with those two fat Scottish singers? Or are you entirely NEW people obsessed with some other random narcissist? What makes someone so fixated on a bottom rung celebrity that they give their ex-girlfriends nicknames?

I want to keep reading but I had to peace out after seeing that it REALLY is the Prince Caspian dude pretending to be a musician. This is the worst timeline.

How creepy is this family. They flew all the way to London for her to see his show and now they go again? Are they expecting him to propose at the show? Ben can’t even admit he is with someone. It gives me the ick these people.

R250 Couldn’t agree more. Seems like these Remoras come as a package. Weirdos.

Tom Hiddleston is around Bennys age, married with two kids now. Andre Garfield, his “friend”, quietly dating that one actress and not afraid to let people know and Andrew will sleep with anyone at this point.

Yet Benny boy is here with a gf of seven/eight months, she flew to London twice to be with him, both their parents have met, her parents are even extra supportive ending his tour which is weird, Benny cannot even say yes this is my person. He is really letting strangers on the Internet dictate how he lives his life. Which is really pathetic considering how not famous he actually is,

Maybe the new music thing they were filming throughout the tour because I’m sure people really want a Taylor Swift style tour movie, he could barely sell tickets to begin with. I hope for her sake he does something, to let a man say nothing while you get hate and there is speculation about your life and your family that is not someone who loves you. That is someone who is using you.

R250 Firstly, London was obviously a very coordinated event designed for Skeletor to be able to show herself off for all his fans and see herself up on that balcony. Drunk off her ass. Where all of his friends except for her sober babysitters ignored her allllll night. Because that's what Benny goes for I guess.

But also, I've gotten the distinct impression that LA was a relatively poorly attended show. Ben did more press/advertising in the days before for the LA show specifically, than he did for the entire tour previously. Then a quick google search tells you that the GA capacity of that venue is 2300 people (I'm not sure if that includes the seated balcony, but it really doesn't matter). In the fan footage from that night, Ben says that there's about 1000 people there that night. Which means he didn't even reach HALF full. Then you look and see that there was relatively BARELY any fan footage that came out of that night. Put it all together and it says LA was a very bad showing. Ben would have known that going in and may have been literally desperate for attendees. He may literally have begged his girlfriend's family to fly into town to show support. Begged. What a delicious thought.. *grin*

However, did he actually CHARGE THEM for their seats because Heineken sponsored that night. So not only did Ben promise a portion of the proceeds for fire relief charities, but it was his only remaining sponsor's money, and they very clearly didn't get a return on their investment. Fuck Benny! LOL!!

Yes london was 100% that. She wasn’t hiding in the La show either. She was right center, that first balcony in the middle. She was making herself very visible, the only thing is no one cares because it’s LA and Ben isn’t as big as he thinks he is. She is literally no one. His LA show looked bleak, which I guess is a great reminder of how his career will be moving forward. Even these threads are dying. If he settles down with Skeletor, it won’t be good. Hopefully he can wake up from his avoidant, mid life crisis.

I think it needs to be studied how much Ben was just cosplaying Hozier for this tour. From the way he poses in pictures, to his outfits, it is all what Hozier does. Except Hozier is actually talented and is actually famous. Coral we need more from the secretive DMs about his excessive drinking on tour and the woman scorned.

Kenzielisabeth clip in his tags where he talks about his dad yelling at someone at the Paul McCarthy concert, funny he only mentions going with his parents and never mentioned his gf was also there. Video evidence above that started this thread. Can he lie anymore? Can the fans literally not see this? We have evidence of how he manipulates stories and fucking straight up lies to you to take your money. Also the new t mobile ads no one is taking about, his career really has tanked. This man is not this great guy like he wants your to believe, he is just another old man in Hollywood doing whatever it takes to grift.

Friend pointed this out in his tags. Just want to remind the class, Ben sang this same song *with* *his* *girlfriend*. Live on stage where she brought everyone she knew. But * this* is how Ben behaves when he's partnered with someone who's genuinely talented, instead of merely "locally" talented.

Swing and a miss Skeletor.

What's this? Whispers of a nameless fear..

Rumors are swirling. That Ben now has a pet cat. A Siamese cat. Skeletor's pet Siamese cat, living with him. Ben swore them to secrecy, because he doesn't want anyone to know he asked Skeletor to move in with him after his midlife crisis tour ended.

Well rumors are *swirling*

R258 Well if that is true (and not one of Barnes’ little recreational lies that he likes to pepper about here and there - don’t forget the cat has been featured right here on our pages), then Cleland’s muzzle is now firmly in place. Good girl!

R259 Well the shadow laden whispers as I've heard them, is that little Benny swore a group of paying fans at the convention to secrecy, before "wisely" revealing to them that he now has a pet Siamese cat. That is, that's what he said before his demeanor changed and he likely started lying to them about it. Because apparently that's how stupid he thinks his fans are. Or how good an actor he mistakenly believes himself to be.

But also if true, then yes, he has successfully forbidden Skeletor from living out loud like she always used to, while he alone can let the literal cat out of the bag to random fangirls. Skeletor, in a profound feat of self respect befitting a little girl in Trump's America of 2025, MUST remain silent at all times, but Ben can freely peacock around strangers all he pleases. Skeletor must be silent, obedient, barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen, the perfect little TradWife that Ben Misogynist Barnes desires.

Truly, progress is *winning* in 2025.

When the snark dies does the career die with it?

Cal with a porn star Julia rose, Kevin with a sex coach, and Benny boy with a trad wife that he will never claim like she doesn’t even exist.

R261 It’s like a ridiculous sitcom

Lmfao Kevin’s gf didn’t get the BB No Photos Memo. She shared a story with him and his ‘plus one’ in the background at KB’s birthday party..He dutifully reshared it and now all the fangirls have seen it. He tried to be inconspicuous behind the door frame but failed. She is not hiding at all (of course).

I cannot believe for a second they did not know someone was filming this moment. I think no one talking about his bad cell phone ads and the music has died, so just like him mentioning her cat, Benny boy gave permission to Kevin to post this. That is why his fans are loosing respect and the haters are still here, it is that exact behavior from him. It’s pathetic for him to be so old begging for work at cons and acting like this on socials.

I don’t understand why Ben is still hiding the Aubrey girl. It’s bizarre. The fangirls he’s still got left just seem to want lil Benny to be happy, after the Long & Horrible JHo Era. After all, enough is enough… an EP and an album were spawned by it. Everyone’s over it.

He says he’s happy.

He says he’s got a cat.

But he won’t say he’s got a girlfriend.

Cal & Kevin are now being pictured engulfed in gf embraces. But none of Benny,

Just don’t understand why… everyone knows about her!

R265 Benny boy is just so so famous and gets hate from three whole people that of course he has to protect her.

This is his narcissism. He loves control. Aubrey doesn’t post about her life or accomplishments, she has made her life him for what a year now. Followed him around the world for his job and his vanity project with her family and friends as well. He loves that control. She is already conditioned because of her religious background to be subservient to men. It’s gross of Benny to manipulate in that way. Also he is almost a decade older than all these people he hangs out with including his gf.

Sophia’s show is on the 24th wonder if Ben and Aubrey will show up. Sophia’s music video has hardly any traction so his fan base didn’t really support the band. That’s why his band did his world tour so his fan base would support their solo gigs, which we now see isn’t there. Benny sold them some bullshit. Every time Aubrey pops up his fans become less and less interested.

R266 Let’s be real … Ms Cleland has no accomplishments to post about.

And no life before Benny hired her in August to jog through some boring NY backdrops. Only then did the photo dumps begin.

R267 Sophia’s music is good, but she comes across as one of those people who are really unpredictable and so full of nervous energy they unsettle everyone in the room. Whether that’s just a persona or not, who knows.

Ben made a big deal of his duets on tour with Sophia; not sure how magnanimous Aubrey will be feeling about that. But I’m guessing Mr Barnes will want to go along to support his little friend.

R269 well her show is in NY so they would have to travel which may explain why he is stealing content from fan pages that was posted a week ago. Hide he is on a plane. I don’t get why his posts are melancholy, the whole send this to someone you miss at the beginning of the month, when we have him all loved up at a birthday party clearly happy and in love with his new roommate.

[quote] Benny boy is just so so famous and gets hate from three whole people

The three regular posters on this thread?

Well it looks like I missed out on all the festivities yesterday as I celebrated the zombie god with family, c'est la vie! But let's see if I've been properly brought up to speed.

Kevin's girlfriend chose to film everyone singing happy birthday to him NOT from an angle where you could see *him*, but oh so conspicuously from an angle where he was hidden behind the piano player, but instead you could very clearly see little Benny and Skeletor there at his party. But I must correct myself! Because actually, seemingly everyone EXCEPT Benny and Skeletor sang to Kevin. Those two, of course, were too busy focused on each other instead of the birthday boy. Skeletor quite literally making bedroom eyes at little Benny, who replied with full blown childish puppy love eyes as he went for a peck on her cheek. As everyone else in the room was clapping and Kevin was thanking them. Because CLEARLY, little Benny was there to celebrate his "brother's" big birthday. Completely focused for the big moment, just like the very good friend that he constantly claims he is! And Kevin obviously wanted to thank him for it, cause he posted the video, and evvvvvvverybody got to see Benny and Skeletor's antics.

Actually, that reminds me. . . was there another time that Skeletor just COULDN'T help but make herself the center of attention even though it SHOULD have been elsewhere?!? Please, jog my memory just in case old patterns are repeating themselves, because people do NOT actually ever change despite acting on their best manipulative behavior at first.

And BLESS my friend for being quick enough to catch and share this, since I was so far behind today!! Little Benny posted earlier, originally showcasing the terrific YOUNG designer he knows and has previously hired for his tour. Well that's a sweet thing to do for this kid! The only thing is, the quickest of searches will show you, she's actually older than Skeletor. She's older than Ben's real life girlfriend, and yet, the first description Ben instinctually gave to her was *young*. Do tell me, does he also introduce Skeletor to people as his YOUNG girlfriend? Because it's just and even more accurate a descriptor as for this designer! Little Benny must have realized his error though, because he eventually changed the caption to read "terrific up and coming". Obviously better, as that description could NEVER be applied to Skeletor's talentless, jobless, worthless ass, other than she's the only thing that can still get little mid-life crisis Benny up and cumming. Literally the only thing she's good for.

And Ben knows it. He knows how very young she is. He literally proved that *again* today, as well as before. The "girl" he started dating, now infamous for wearing big bows in her hair. And it's just how he likes it. Seek only the young, coquettish, arm candy worthy, desperately obedient TradWife girls that will temporarily fill the yawning void inside his desperately damaged, misogynistic ego.

But then, what does Skeletor care? Her perennially jobless ass has obviously been living off men her whole life. First her rich daddy, and now she's moved on to securing Ben. Have you seen her nudes online? She knows what she's doing.

The Young TradWife and The Misogynist, power couple of Trump's America 2025. Can't wait to see your return at the next Women's March, Benny.

R273 That ‘young’ originally caught my eye immediately, so the later caption edit is hilarious. I don’t think Aubrey has liked his post as yet?… so maybe she didn’t like the praise he was heaping on the other girlie. She’s done that before (the MV with Monica Martin for example).

I mean, the reality is that Barnes and Cleland are just a couple of fakers. I watched them at that birthday party. I think someone said they were aware of being filmed and yes, they probably were.

There is Benny, pulling the standard OTT moves that he makes mainly on co-stars at fancons.

There is Aubrey, playing the wide-eyed big-bow-wearing Little Miss Obedient.

That is not who •either• of them really are.

I’m looking forward to seeing how this little romcom is going to play out.

R271 oh yeah we hate her over here. We can see a manipulative, social climber right away. JH was the same way. So we can conclude that is why Benny never leaves LA, that is who he is. You are the company you keep.

R274 the rom com will continue for as long as his fan base continues to give him money even though he lies to them and grifts. Until they wake up and stop giving him money, he might grow. He is old af so who knows.

Only a stunted man surrounds himself with people 13 years younger than him. Kevin posted the piano video so it will live on for all the fan girlies who think we aren’t telling the truth over here.

Sarahkiiely posted about the tour and the band 2 days ago and Ben isn’t tagged in those pics. The rest of the band is tagged. Why? Did he turn off his tags just like Aubrey? These people are the worst at being famous. These are from his vanity project. I still want to know why hammy deleted all the pics on his account from the tour. Did Aubrey demand that as well? There is tea there.

Nevermind he is tagged, just had a glitch moment. Carry on

MGM must really think this show is going to suck. Where is the promo? Can’t wait to listen to Ben talk about how he is such a good guy and gets to play a good guy after all the bad guys and has to remind everyone of what a great guy he is because great men need to tell everyone how honest and good they are.

OP Why don't you 2 fraus team up with the 2 Nicholas Galitzineophiles and form a quartet?

I'm feeing cheeky, so let's have some fun with Numbers: Ben Barnes Addition, shall we?

One of Benny's favorite movies of all time, whose poster hangs pride of place in his home, is The Princess Bride. A foundational memory/love for him. That movie came out in 1987 when Benny was 6 years old. I don't know whether he saw it at 6 years old or a bit later, but I do know that Skeletor wouldn't even be born for another 6 years, much less have been able to experience such a favorite memory with him whenever he first watched it.

When Harry Met Sally, Benny's other nostalgic fave, came out in 1989. Surely Benny's parents did not allow him to watch the most famous fake orgasm in history at the tender age of eight, he would have had to wait some years. But that's obviously fine, because he'd again still have to wait some years for his current girlfriend to even be born. And hopefully Skeletor wasn't asking to have what she's having at 3 years old or so when Benny was starting to prepare for his A-levels and just maybe sneaking in that classic movie on the down low????

We can't ever forget about Notting Hill, which came out in 1999 when Benny was heading off to University to study drama. What an exciting, formative time for him, so easily an instant romantic classic! Also a formative time for 6 year old Skeletor, who was probably still playing with Barbies and didn't know what a Julia Roberts was. But maybe legal adult Benny, just could have stood in front of his girl, Skeletor, and asked her to name one of her Barbies Julia instead.

And of course there's 2003's Love Actually, a Christmas FAVORITE of university graduate Benny's! I don't know if Benny could have brought 10 year old Skeletor to the cinema as his date though. Is it legal to be both the date and legal guardian of a young girl in Britain watching pornos be filmed on screen?

Finally, lest we forget "Friends", one of Benny's favorite TV programmes of all time! Its seminally popular run ended in 2004, when a 23 year old Benny cheered as he watched Rachel get off the plane, having already undoubtedly gone through a few relationships of his own where his girl. . . *didn't* do as much for him. Not sure if pre-pubescent Skeletor could have shared in his joy with him though, as she may have still rightly believed that boys had cooties at the time. Maybe Benny could have convinced his 11 year old girl to just follow along and get The Rachel Haircut along with all the other women of the western world instead? No who am I kidding, he'd never have wanted her to remove the big bow from her hair back then. He still gets off on her wearing it to this day! Silly me!

Forever Daddy's Little Girl. Just now, with a new Daddy.

Benny boy can’t promote his friends show? To his millions of followers? If it’s not about him then who cares, he can post about his fan account of course. User, he is user. If any is going tonight and you spot Skeletor in the limelight with Benny boy hiding behind a door, which I doubt it, let us know.

R282 Well many of those paying attention over the past few months have noticed, Skeletor never seems to like Benny's IG posts that featured his bandmates, or his fans. You know, all the people he ALWAYS Loves Out Loud. Unlike Skeletor, who he demands silence from and assiduously hides. (Cause you KNOW you'd be JUST as embarrassed by how much you're settling for if you had her severely unaccomplished ass at your side too!) But is that why none of his band friends follow her even though they followed Ben's other guest performers and London friends? Maybe, just like everyone else, they're just not that into her. And maybe, Skeletor's infinite jealousy makes the feeling mutual.

Because he's just sooooooooo happy now that he's returned alone to his home with her that he should feel completely free to continue praising and promoting his bandmates and their successes, riiiiiiiight??? No issues whatsoever with the misses, riiiiiiiight??? Especially his amazing Sophia of *actual* American Idol fame. Or maybe we can just remind ourselves of R257 and laugh instead.

I did forget Sophia did upstage Skeletor when it came to that duet with him. Is Roger the only one from the tour that follows Aubrey and that Aubrey follows back? I just thought since Ben is such a good guy and actor when it comes to making sure his image is exactly how he wants it he would publicly show up for someone who went on a world tour with him. Aubrey already telling him what to do? Already got his balls in her pocket.

Sophia is a class act. She commented on Ben’s post go Ben go which he liked and supported his career highs and his wins even after he did absolutely nothing for her show yesterday. It looks like just Aubrey clearly having a problem and not letting Ben support his fucking friend because i can’t think of any other reason when he is active on socials why he didn’t. Kevin was on Jimmy Fallon and Ben couldn’t repost his support for that. He is such a shit friend. He has millions of followers, a repost takes zero effort, that is why you have a platform.

A timeline of jules and Ben which you can look up because it’s documented as she was calling the paparazzi and planting stories in the press.

April 2020 jules is still married to brooks but living separately for the first pap walk. She went back to Brooks in October and then split for good. Montana trip at the end of the year with Ben, Nina and Shaun which started the hate because of Covid protocol and then ice cream walk jan 2021.

Charlie Wilson announced as Jules bf Nov 2021, probably dating for a few months before going public, let’s say late summer or fall.

Break up with Charlie announced august 2022 and within days we get NY pap walk with Benny. Julianne calling Ben a long time friend according to People Magazine. Rumored her and Charlie broke up when she moved to NY in March 2022.

Feb 2023 she is photographed with a doctor doing a Valentine’s Day pap walk in NY.

So each time Ben and her were together in a serious relationship it would last six months? That sounds like a fuck buddy, but Benny is calling her his ex girlfriend? Then he wrote a whole album for his “ex girlfriend” while I’m sure Jules was just thinking he was a distraction until she found someone she actually wanted to commit to. That’s why her team called him a friend in every article because it was her camp that set those up. He claims she betrayed him? Like could he not read the writing on the wall?

Just needed to get that on the record that Ben is very stunted which may explain the younger friends and partner. We know he changes reality a lot. At first it was Cal who was going through a break up which was his inspo and now that has changed. This is not a stable man.

Oh wait… has a certain someone painted a little pic and brought it home for Daddy to put on his wall? And he’s done just that!… relegating Donny Hathaway & Gene Wilder to gosh knows where. Oh how are the mighty fallen.

Zoom in on that infantile nausea-inducing little daub and have a really good look at it - let’s just say it’s not exactly Benny’s usual choice of wall decoration 🤣

Plus, I hope the yellow pollen stems were removed from the jug of purple Calla Lilies on the kitchen counter. Otherwise, let the pollen stains and Barnes allergies commence!

That painting represents her perfectly. Unremarkable, unoriginal, palatable and can go in any room because it is so basic. Did he tell her Peyton List, the other woman he strung along for years and took to Vegas for a birthday trip and that brand trip to Miami and the second season of Punisher premiere picked out that paint color for him.

R288 Clearly, he couldn't even be bothered to frame it, just hung it up to placate her. Because it most closely resembles either 1. A parent temporarily hanging their child's "artwork" up on the refrigerator. Or 2. The paper printing that comes standard inside a cheap frame from Home Goods. You know, the place holder until you find something better. Because what's inside is 100% substance free and meaningless, but you just like looking at the outer frame for now, and you'll find something worthy later.

And while the dining room has been that color for a while now, Benny's kitchen cabinets weren't always painted Peyton's chosen blue color. That's a more recent change. So did Benny not let his little wanna be interior designer girlfriend pick the color scheme for the kitchen, but instead INSISTED on continuing to use his beloved ex-girlfriend's desired paint color? Or is little Skeletor completely ignorant of that color's origins because Benny lies to her just as much as he lies to everyone else? Or maybe she does know, which is why Benny's Pinterest was no longer linked to Peyton's as of a couple months ago. The memories already affixed to that wall and now cabinetry are already enough strong competition for Skeletor's thoroughly unimpressive and unaccomplished actual presence in the house. Who's surprised?

Who remembers all the photos and videos from Benny's time on his tour? The pictures where he looked so ridiculously happy and joy filled, and the jazzed, energetic videos because he obviously LOVED being out there so much it was palpable through the screen. The tour that he said over and over again that he never wanted to end. The tour after which he immediately let slip that he was working on a sequel.

But it was the tour ending that finally brought him back to his little girlfriend, so how could that make sense? But maybe it does, because since he's gotten home, when he doesn't have something to SELL to his fans, we've gotten sparse content that all basically resembles this new video. Tired, low-energy, very depressed, eyes utterly bereft of life and sparkle. Apparently just him alone in his little "love"nest with nothing but Skeletor to occupy his time. And clearly, his little TradWife wannabe is obviously enough for him..

Why did he age so much in the month we haven’t seen him. The forced smile at the end and the dead eyes. There is no joy from this man in that video. It’s like someone is holding him hostage and making him do that video. He had her move in so he should be radiating love, the kind of love you cannot fake. He was more in love with his band mates.

What do you think the next Latino/Hispanic role Ben will play?

It’s just pathetic that he puts that tat on his wall. And what’s with those funereal lilies? Not good feng shui. She needs to head back to Portland pronto, she’s going to majorly ruin his chill 😂

Well well well, looks like little Skeletor has returned to her true form. Back to her London balcony. Showing off to all Ben's fans that she gets to post selfies from inside his car. Because she could have posted this pic from Chase's salon. Or with her good friend. Or from outside it. Or from literally anywhere else. But no. Once again, she just haaaaaaddd to peacock and show off her elevated position and specifically post from what is easily identified as Ben's car. Because this little girl is a professional troll. No wonder Ben demands her silence the rest of the time. Why he demanded that she not post from the LA show as she did London, even though she was there. She is not a beautiful human being. She is not a good person. She does not have any known good qualities at all. She is a jealous, vindictive, spiteful, immature little girl who purposely tries to hurt people with her choices to make herself feel better. And that's what reflects onto Benny, who chose this wanton travesty as his. She reveals Benny to be the disgusting little bitch we've been saying he is for years. It's only a matter of time before the rest of his FanFraus see it too.

But speaking of Benny.. did he just HAVE to drive his little girl to her haircut appointment? Did he just sit in the waiting room reading one of the magazines like all the other parents? Was it some sort of Daddy/Daughter bonding experience then? Skeletor's not old enough yet to drive herself anywhere? Or does he know that he has to chaperone his vicious little monster, lest she make a fool of him.

Oops. Too late.

Wouldn’t it be hilarious if Ben broke up with her and that’s why he looks like shit and she is using an old photo in his car as bait since she knows it will never get out they broke up. She will be as irrelevant as she has always been. Her hair looks not healthy, like she has an ED. I’m sure the cat pic in front of that ugly painting will be next. We know she read this. Where is the picture of Ben with the cat and his girl? He has never claimed her still. Aubrey make that happen and I might respect your hustle and your game.

R296 Yeah that hair is really not looking good… especially when she’s allegedly just out of the salon. Everything about that photo is messy. She’s starting to harass him about posting on sm again imo. Hilarious that that’s the pic she got allowed to post.

He can post about a medical drama, but not post about the HBO medical drama your gf is on? After she posted about her new haircut. I’m sorry but does he even like her?

R298 But tbf… she was only visible through a tiny window in a door for about 15 seconds. He probably blinked and missed it. She’s Ms Eternal Bit Part 😂

R299 I have not watched her episode but I didn’t realize it was so inconsequential that Benny boy posting it might be embarrassing for him. No wonder her stories were just little clips that made no sense because apparently she was hardly in the scene at all. No wonder glen Powell would rather be with a normie than her.

R300 I laugh when I see her posing in her ‘Black Widow’ costume on her Insta. When I first saw that post I thought for a hot second that she was the actual lead character. Then I find out that there is an army of Black Widows, and her name is at the •very bottom• of the cast list. Says it all lmfao!

The truth hurts so I lie to you, break up song? We know how much Benny loves a cryptic message.