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Shawn Mendes finally comes out

Is he teasing us at this point?

by Anonymousreply 438April 12, 2025 1:25 AM

Ugh, how do I post twitter posts?? It a post on pop crave from 10/25/2024

by Anonymousreply 1October 26, 2024 3:46 PM

Repaste your link under Web Site Link and change x.com to twitter.com

by Anonymousreply 2October 26, 2024 4:05 PM

Or don't...

by Anonymousreply 3October 26, 2024 4:05 PM

Take a picture - it’ll last longer!!!

by Anonymousreply 4October 26, 2024 4:10 PM

This does seem studied. Surely he knows how faggy he looks in that crop top?

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by Anonymousreply 5October 26, 2024 4:13 PM

r3 sorry, can't edit posts. look above

by Anonymousreply 6October 27, 2024 3:50 AM

David Beckham is currently getting a restraining order.

by Anonymousreply 7October 27, 2024 4:05 PM

centimetering out of the closet. (since he is Canadian inching didn't really fit lol).

by Anonymousreply 8October 27, 2024 4:09 PM

OP Jesus Christ .Get a hobby Russie.

1. Shawn Mendes finally comes out Is he teasing us at this point? (10/26/2024)

2.Shawn Mendes shows us screenshots while wearing a girls tshirt

What is he wearing? (10/25/2024)

3.Shawn Mendes Addresses Sexuality in Unreleased Song "The Mountain" "You can say I'm too young." (10/25/2024)

4.New video of Shawn Mendes running in wet black underwear: Thoughts? (10/24/2024)

5.Shawn Mendes pays tribute to Liam Payne whilst promoting his future flop album Suddenly, Liam's death is desperate publicity grab. (10/19/2024)

6.Shawn Mendes is relying on thirst traps now for attention Shirtless in grey sweatpants with no underwear on? (10/17/2024)

7.Shawn “I have nothing to offer but my tits” Mendes Poses on the cover of Interview (10/14/2024)

8.New Shawn Mendes video, "Nobody Knows" Nobody knows WHAT, Shawn? (10/05/2024)

9.Shawn Mendes talks about depression and canceling his tour Closet kills. (09/30/2024)

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by Anonymousreply 9October 27, 2024 4:40 PM

r9 I am the OP and I didn't post any other thread on mendes. Those are other posters.

by Anonymousreply 10October 27, 2024 8:54 PM

Shawn is finally creeping out of the closet. Took his ass long enough.

"The real truth about my life and sexuality is that, man I’m just figuring it out like everyone. I don’t really know sometimes and I know other times. It feels really scary because we live in a society that has a lot to say about that”

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by Anonymousreply 11October 29, 2024 6:04 AM

He’s a faguette

by Anonymousreply 12October 29, 2024 6:26 AM

Shawna, you don't have to explicitly tell us that you crave being bred, that you take it up the poop chute, that you're a flaming fudgepacker etc. Just say you like boys, and move on. You're too long in the tooth to keep stunting like this.

by Anonymousreply 13October 29, 2024 6:34 AM

DL is so hard on this guy. He’s young, rich, adorable and figuring things out. Anyone else remember being scared to come out in their mid-twenties?

by Anonymousreply 14October 29, 2024 6:46 AM

Yes, r14. But we didn't have the luxury of doing it in 2024, with millions in our bank account. He basically had everyone telling him we know you're gay so no use pretending, yet he kept on with the madness. Now, he pulled a Harry Styles. The world didn't end and the sun will rise tomorrow. See, easy.

by Anonymousreply 15October 29, 2024 7:05 AM

Here is what Shawn said tonight:

[bold]I started working and traveling a lot and it was the most beautiful thing, but the truth is that I didn’t get to do a lot of the things that a 15-year-old does and discover parts of myself that you discover at 15. Since I was very young there’s always been this thing about my sexuality and people have been talking about it for a long time. I think it’s kind of silly because sexuality is such a beautifully complex thing and it’s so hard to just put it in boxes. So I always thought of it as an invasion, into something that’s so personal to me. Something that I was still discovering about myself, that I still had to discover, that I still have to figure out. I think I’m only speaking freely now because I want to be able to feel close to everyone and my truth. The real truth about my whole life and about my sexuality is that, I’m just figuring it out, just like everyone else. Sometimes I really don’t know, and sometimes I do. And it's really scary because we live in a society that has so much to say about this, and I'm trying to be really brave and just allow myself to be human, and feel things... I think that's all I have to say about it today.[/bold]

by Anonymousreply 16October 29, 2024 7:13 AM

YouTube link to Shawn discussing his sexuality:

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by Anonymousreply 17October 29, 2024 7:39 AM

Whoops. Here is the correct link:

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by Anonymousreply 18October 29, 2024 7:40 AM

Damn. That link is screwed up.

by Anonymousreply 19October 29, 2024 7:41 AM

He's so brave. I'm going to send him my emotional support fly. On the face of things, he needs it more than I do.

by Anonymousreply 20October 29, 2024 9:06 AM

I’m sending him a toaster.

by Anonymousreply 21October 29, 2024 9:09 AM

He knows what his sexuality is, he is just uncomfortable saying it

by Anonymousreply 22October 29, 2024 9:13 AM

R9 likes to accuse other people of being obsessed with a topic, searches for all the threads under that topic and says that the poster wrote all of them

Do yourself a favor, block R9, go look for any thread about Nicholas Galitzine and then go look at “Ignored”

by Anonymousreply 23October 29, 2024 9:16 AM

He’ll never actually “come out”. He’ll just stop denying it, and then one day he’ll just randomly say “oh yeah I thought everyone knew.”

by Anonymousreply 24October 29, 2024 10:07 AM

what a mess this thread is.

by Anonymousreply 25October 29, 2024 10:14 AM

Well, he never sucked *my* dick.

by Anonymousreply 26October 29, 2024 10:30 AM

It's tentative bisexuality for this album, "I kissed a boy and I liked it" for the next one, and so on and so on. He'll be singing about fisting twenty years from now.

by Anonymousreply 27October 29, 2024 11:03 AM

Shawn likes a thick finger.👉🏼

by Anonymousreply 28October 29, 2024 11:10 AM

If it exists, Shawn’s gonna commoditize it

by Anonymousreply 29October 29, 2024 11:14 AM

R23 You’re embarrassed like a child. How odd. “Oh, yeh, go look at him!?”

by Anonymousreply 30October 29, 2024 11:17 AM

[quote] "Just figuring it out"

Pretty sure everyone including you had it figured out about 2 decades ago Shawn

by Anonymousreply 31October 29, 2024 11:30 AM

The moment you do come out, Shawn, you will be constantly mocked on DL. But then, you don't have time for those with no lives.

by Anonymousreply 32October 29, 2024 9:40 PM

Finally! It's about damn time. We been knew hunty.

by Anonymousreply 33October 29, 2024 9:54 PM

R32 = Camila Cabello's pussy, untouched by Shawn.

by Anonymousreply 34October 29, 2024 10:00 PM

He addresses sexuality like a fella on the cusp of following the priesthood.

by Anonymousreply 35October 29, 2024 10:17 PM

He should be looking at how Archuleta’s career has skyrocketed (relatively speaking, to where it was) after Archuleta came out. Mendes could use the boost. It’s the ambiguity that is holding him back right now with the public.

by Anonymousreply 36October 29, 2024 10:23 PM

New thread for his new statement today.

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by Anonymousreply 37October 29, 2024 10:25 PM

He is inching out. I'm not shocked because he's been hiding in plain sight for a while. First the twinks and now the tiny shirt. We been knew.

[Quote]The real truth about my life and sexuality is that, man I’m just figuring it out like everyone. I don’t really know sometimes and I know other times. It feels really scary because we live in a society that has a lot to say about that.

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by Anonymousreply 38October 29, 2024 10:27 PM

Is the tiny shirt the official coming out?

by Anonymousreply 39October 29, 2024 10:55 PM

R38 No, this is.

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by Anonymousreply 40October 29, 2024 10:56 PM

How does this work, does his agent give him the green light at some point when his career needs a boost?

by Anonymousreply 41October 29, 2024 10:59 PM

He's 26 not 16. He knows by now he's a cocksucker. Trying to hold on to his ever shrinking fan base. He'll eventually play the "I've discovered I'm sexually fluid" card. Of course his femcel stans will lap it up because that leaves the delusional door open he may still fuck them.

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by Anonymousreply 42October 29, 2024 11:10 PM

2 weeks until the new album comes out. He'll probably do a couple of magazine interviews, talk shows, etc.

I'm interested to see how they address or avoid this.

by Anonymousreply 43October 29, 2024 11:10 PM

As long as the horsey fag dosen't OUT ME.

by Anonymousreply 44October 29, 2024 11:12 PM

Oy! If Shauna comes out won't that be outing by proxy? Asking for a very close friend.

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by Anonymousreply 45October 29, 2024 11:16 PM

Everybody knows he's a fruit who takes it up the ass.

by Anonymousreply 46October 29, 2024 11:16 PM

Shawn may have questions by I've figured it out.

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by Anonymousreply 47October 29, 2024 11:29 PM

Out of interest, and because if anywhere keeps track of it its DL. Who was the last celeb that unambiguously proudly came out as gay-GAY. Last one I genuinely recall was Noah Schnapp a few years ago.

by Anonymousreply 48October 30, 2024 1:05 AM

[italic]Shawn[/italic], out November 15th

by Anonymousreply 49October 30, 2024 1:12 AM

I was always 99% sure he was gay, and when he started "dating" that little Dudley Moore looking Latino troll, he all but confirmed it. This statement is just the icing on top.

by Anonymousreply 50October 30, 2024 1:35 AM

[quote] He'll be singing about fisting twenty years from now.

Won't we all be?

by Anonymousreply 51October 30, 2024 2:03 AM

Just because we've figured it out doesn't mean he has. Please leave this guy alone and let him live his life. No one here is interested in his music and as soon as he comes out he is a gay footnote.

by Anonymousreply 52October 30, 2024 2:09 AM

Well color me impressed. We all knew he was gay when he was like 15 but this is brave of him even if it’s halfassed. It’s pretty much a coming out statement. Now go whore it up! Like someone mentioned above, Shawn is indirectly outing Austin Kevitch and Nicholas Galitzine.

by Anonymousreply 53October 30, 2024 2:14 AM

Recall seeing an Insta post of KJ Apa, Shawn Mendes, and Nick Galitzine sitting on a sofa together strumming their guitars. Camilla Cabello and Austin Kevitch were sitting together on a seperate sofa. Tres incestous.

by Anonymousreply 54October 30, 2024 2:26 AM

If you think about it, his development was probably arrested at 16 or 17 or however old he was when he became famous. If he hadn’t figured it out at that point (and many of us hadn’t) then I could see it being put on the back burner. Not to mention dealing with the general inherent incompatibility between being non-straight and the kind of pop star he aimed to be. He might just be finally getting to the point where all the people in his ear and the voice in his own head have receded enough for him to see a different way.

by Anonymousreply 55October 30, 2024 2:27 AM

Our bums both smell like Kevitch

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by Anonymousreply 56October 30, 2024 2:30 AM

Or he’s reached hormonal peak at the age of 25 and don’t want to hide is sexual frustration anymore. He must be boy hungry.

by Anonymousreply 57October 30, 2024 2:30 AM

R55 writer for Hallmark Channel 1994

by Anonymousreply 58October 30, 2024 2:32 AM

“Sexuality is complicated”

“Not really”

by Anonymousreply 59October 30, 2024 2:34 AM

He was raised in a super religious family so I'll cut him some slack. Gay boys raised in conservative religious families have all kinds of issues and it can take a while for them to come to terms with their sexuality.

by Anonymousreply 60October 30, 2024 2:37 AM

R60 tru dat

by Anonymousreply 61October 30, 2024 2:42 AM

WTF! I came out as STRAIGHT ! Still couldn't get booked on a cereal box.

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by Anonymousreply 62October 30, 2024 2:50 AM

I’m surprised he didn’t say this barefoot. He’s ALWAYS trying to cocktease the foot freaks.

by Anonymousreply 63October 30, 2024 3:05 AM

Shawn Mendes is still figuring out things.

No sexuality decision yet.

Stay tuned.

by Anonymousreply 64October 30, 2024 3:18 AM

The awkward moment for us all when he shares he was actually coming out as asexual 😳

by Anonymousreply 65October 30, 2024 3:18 AM

R65 Have you seen the twinks he hangs out with? There's no way he's asexual. He might say that because of his faith though.

by Anonymousreply 66October 30, 2024 3:21 AM

He's stealing my slow rollout!

by Anonymousreply 67October 30, 2024 3:31 AM

We all knew he is gay. I can't judge him but good on him for this.

He's doing a lot more than most in his situation.

Good for him.

Thank you Shawn. Love and support you.

by Anonymousreply 68October 30, 2024 3:38 AM

R42, see R55 and R60. Some people just figure it out late. It happens. Also, it is possible he was always gay but is just now inching out due to his career flopping. I don't think this queerbaiting as I think Shawn is actually bi or gay. However, I'm not naive. The timing is curious. He is not selling his music anymore, so he needs to create buzz to get people talking. Doesn't he have an album out in a few days? This is no coincidence imo.

by Anonymousreply 69October 30, 2024 3:49 AM

Some of these posts are laughably in their stan gurl doltish naivete. Everything Mendes does is calculated. Not only by him but by his well paid management team. They need to evolve and change his brand as his base ages out. Every pop twink from Bieber to Stiles has done this. Nothing to see here.

by Anonymousreply 70October 30, 2024 4:21 AM

Now he's come out, Dataloungers will completely lose interest in him.

by Anonymousreply 71October 30, 2024 4:21 AM

Five years ago Harry Styles released his single Lights Up with an accompanying press release saying it had deliberately been released on National Coming Out Day. In the music video for the song he was grinding on men and women, bare chested.

His career went stratospheric after that. His album Fine Line debuted two months later with 478k, 200k more than his previous album.

Shawn is probably hoping for a similar renaissance.

by Anonymousreply 72October 30, 2024 4:26 AM

I'm waiting to hear from the fraus who used to haunt the Shawn Mendes threads and scold us for "accusing" him of being gay, saying that we were engaging in our usual wishful thinking and that Shawn was clearly straight as an arrow.

by Anonymousreply 73October 30, 2024 4:30 AM

Sometimes in the future, Shawn will announce he's bisexual, pansexual or nondescript nonbinary.

He will never say he's gay.

by Anonymousreply 74October 30, 2024 4:43 AM

R73 Have you not seen Twitter? They are STILL denying him being gay/bi. I've seen so many tweets from delusional fangirls saying this doesn't mean anything. They are incapable of reading between the lines. The delusional fraus will be delusional until he finally comes out as bi or gay. This is a half-assed coming out, enough to get praise from the gay community, but also enough to not alienate his fangirls. Like R70 said: everything he does is calculated.

by Anonymousreply 75October 30, 2024 4:45 AM

[quote] Now he's come out, Dataloungers will completely lose interest in him.

Who?

by Anonymousreply 76October 30, 2024 5:17 AM

All that sex with Camila Cabelo would turn any man gay.

by Anonymousreply 77October 30, 2024 5:28 AM

Remember this photo a few years ago with Shawn and his twinky videographer, Connor?

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by Anonymousreply 78October 30, 2024 6:24 AM

[quote]Now he's come out, Dataloungers will completely lose interest in him.

What do you mean by that?

by Anonymousreply 79October 30, 2024 6:50 AM

New pics from Shawn's photo shoot:

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by Anonymousreply 80October 30, 2024 7:06 AM
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by Anonymousreply 81October 30, 2024 7:07 AM
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by Anonymousreply 82October 30, 2024 7:07 AM

Repeating myself from another thread. Do you really think a guy his age in 2024 who is good looking and has traveled around the world isn't fully aware what he is into and has tasted his share? This "Aw shucks, I'm just exploring myself" nonsense is not worthy of any praise.

by Anonymousreply 83October 30, 2024 9:00 AM

There's probably a song on his new album that basically reveals all and this is part of the marketing.

by Anonymousreply 84October 30, 2024 9:14 AM

Good Lawd, R80, what the hell were they even going for here? The Office, Portugal? Swarthy and lacklustre.

by Anonymousreply 85October 30, 2024 9:55 AM

[Quote]Five years ago Harry Styles released his single Lights Up...grinding on men. His career went stratospheric after that. Shawn is probably hoping for a similar renaissance.

Can confirm that strategy doesn't work for everyone.

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by Anonymousreply 86October 30, 2024 10:09 AM

His stans must be very young if they're bothered by this. When Harry Styles 'came out' aged 26, his fans went wild with joy, especially the demented Larries.

by Anonymousreply 87October 30, 2024 10:23 AM

R87 They wouldn't be bothered. I think music managers are still in living in the past - ie when all teenage girl fans wanted to date their favourite popstar and hence, if they came out, the management feared those teeny girls would lose interest.

Whereas I think the opposite is true. Teenage girls seem love to love gay men - I guess because they seem them as less threatening and 'cute' after shows like Heartstopper.

So Shawn coming out would be good for sales, not the opposite.

by Anonymousreply 88October 30, 2024 11:06 AM

I think that's true for TV and movie stars (like the Heartstopper kids), not singers. How many teenage girl fans does Troye Sivan have? Or Olly Alexander? They need to feel like they have a shot with him and that he would do them backstage if they came to his concert, and possibly even marry them.

The mind of a teenage girl is a sick and boring one.

by Anonymousreply 89October 30, 2024 11:35 AM

Elton John was saying he was bi in the 70s as a way of inching out of the closet. Sad that in half a century we haven't gotten any farther.

by Anonymousreply 90October 30, 2024 12:09 PM

This important news just got featured on Good Morning America (second hour). Hard to put this genie back in the bottle. Go for it Shawn!

by Anonymousreply 91October 30, 2024 12:25 PM

Oh please r55. He was giving Cameron Dallas blow jobs back in their Vine era. He knew what he wanted and what he likes. He just wanted to cash out as a pre-teen's heartthrob. Cameron is now recovering from a coke and sex addiction. But, he and Mendes were hooking up back in the day. Please, stop playing around.

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by Anonymousreply 92October 30, 2024 12:41 PM

r60, he hadn't been at home being raised since he was 15. He was on the road and famous for the past decade.

by Anonymousreply 93October 30, 2024 12:42 PM

So we were right all along.

DL, triumphant yet again!

by Anonymousreply 94October 30, 2024 1:10 PM

This is a commercial gambit not a civil rights milestone. No cause for celebration or congratulations. Just eyerolls.

by Anonymousreply 95October 30, 2024 1:30 PM

[Quote]So we were right all along. DL, triumphant yet again!

Ain't no hiding at the DataLounge!

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by Anonymousreply 96October 30, 2024 1:34 PM

R92 Yeah I know this isn't politically correct, but when men come out as gay/bi in their mid 20s or later, I roll my eyes when they say things like "I just wasn't sure, I needed to explore it".

My experience won't be shared by all, but I knew I was gay in my early teens. I can understand not accepting it till maybe your mid or even late teens, but not well into adulthood. At that point it's just a story you tell to justify why you hid it for so long, when you'd just get more respect for telling the truth. Which is, "I was scared to come out because there's still too much homophobia about".

by Anonymousreply 97October 30, 2024 1:35 PM

Regular gays will just come out as gay. Celebrity gays take the bi-bridge before they’re irrelevant enough to come out as gay. Elton John, Tom Daley, etc did the same shit years ago.

by Anonymousreply 98October 30, 2024 1:46 PM

r88 Yeah. In a weird way a lot of teenage girl prefer the boys/men be gay as it means no jealousy of the other women. The women/girls top male celebs date have gotten death threats. Super creepy. A lot of them actually prefer gay male celebs for this reason. In their minds they don't have a chance so they are not triggered by jealousy.

by Anonymousreply 99October 30, 2024 2:10 PM

[quote]There's probably a song on his new album that basically reveals all and this is part of the marketing.

The first song on the album is called “Who I Am”.

by Anonymousreply 100October 30, 2024 2:19 PM

I want to know if John Mayer ever tapped that?

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by Anonymousreply 101October 30, 2024 2:21 PM

Well, his body is a wonderland.

by Anonymousreply 102October 30, 2024 2:27 PM

His flat ass is a disappointment.

by Anonymousreply 103October 30, 2024 2:29 PM

R101 I was there first!

by Anonymousreply 104October 30, 2024 2:32 PM

If he'd hung out with me, he'd be a much bigger star today. And loose as a goose down there.

by Anonymousreply 105October 30, 2024 2:32 PM

[quote] —The ghost of Colto Haynes

Colto is only dead on Datalounge. If baiting a gay celebrity to come out and then cruelly dumping them in the pop cultural trashbin was a crime Datalounge would be Menendez-ing with no chance of parole.

by Anonymousreply 106October 30, 2024 3:19 PM

I think he meant the ghost of Colton’s career.

by Anonymousreply 107October 30, 2024 3:24 PM

he must've been judged and criticized a lot when he was a kid. he seems like he's doing ok now. he'll be so hot in his 30s. 😍

by Anonymousreply 108October 30, 2024 3:37 PM

I'll admit I'm in my early 40s and from the UK, but I've never heard of this man outside of DL. I'm not sure he's as famous and important as DL likes to think he is.

by Anonymousreply 109October 30, 2024 3:46 PM

Saying “I’m still confused and don’t know” at age 26 is ridiculous.

by Anonymousreply 110October 30, 2024 4:21 PM

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by Anonymousreply 111October 30, 2024 4:45 PM

LPSG is having a field day. This clip sent me...

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by Anonymousreply 112October 30, 2024 5:25 PM

Is Shawn considered A-list singer tho?

by Anonymousreply 113October 30, 2024 5:44 PM

I mean, give the popularity of social media stars and the fact that everyone under 40 knows who he is, I could call him A-list. Not sure who else it could be besides Harry Styles.

by Anonymousreply 114October 30, 2024 5:59 PM

NO, he is b list for pop rock singers

by Anonymousreply 115October 30, 2024 6:00 PM

Simple math:

Shawn Mendes + Austin Kevitch + Nicholas Galitzine - Camila Cabello = last call at The Manhole.

by Anonymousreply 116October 30, 2024 6:01 PM

actually Cabello has the only MAN hole amongst that lot

by Anonymousreply 117October 30, 2024 6:03 PM

r111 holy shit is Daily Mail unusable.

by Anonymousreply 118October 30, 2024 6:07 PM

[quote] Elton John was saying he was bi in the 70s as a way of inching out of the closet. Sad that in half a century we haven't gotten any farther.

If this kid hadn't been pilloried and vilified since he was a teenager over a sexuality that had not even manifested maybe he could have arrived at his truth sooner. That makes me sad -- that gays can generate so much toxic energy toward other (possibly) gays that they want nothing to do with us.

by Anonymousreply 119October 30, 2024 6:09 PM

Not just his religious family - I'm sure ALL of his team - agent, manager, publicist - has been warning him forever to never come out. That his appeal is to young women and keep his mouth shut.

A young person trying to make it will listen to older adults - you really just don't have enough life experience or even a career to stand up to them.

I feel for him. His career has screeched to a halt. He needs to make pop. It seems like so many pop artists want to change the recipe and do something more grown up or completely different. That's NOT what made you popular!

by Anonymousreply 120October 30, 2024 6:10 PM

[quote] f this kid hadn't been pilloried and vilified since he was a teenager over a sexuality that had not even manifested maybe he could have arrived at his truth sooner. That makes me sad -- that gays can generate so much toxic energy toward other (possibly) gays that they want nothing to do with us.

Oh, bullshit. Nobody was vilifying him over his sexuality. We vilified him for being a LIAR.

Arrive at his truth? I assure you he’s been swallowing his truth all along.

by Anonymousreply 121October 30, 2024 6:12 PM

Were we ever this hard on Ricky Martin for denying his truth until he was 40? At least Shawn did it at the peak of his youth.

by Anonymousreply 122October 30, 2024 6:17 PM

R122 - Ricky said he was bi at age 27 or 28. Also - that was much more brave 20+ years ago. And it was before social media.

by Anonymousreply 123October 30, 2024 6:21 PM

R108 the last Claymate

by Anonymousreply 124October 30, 2024 6:41 PM

r120, this is why Bieber went from a joke to a legit respected artists by male listeners in the teens to 30s demographic. He stuck out pop. Didn't create alternative albums. Sought good producers and enjoyed using time and solid hits to win over fans.

Shawns and others going into these side-quest album genres are delusional. This is why that Canadian queen is flopping hard.

by Anonymousreply 125October 30, 2024 6:59 PM

[quote] [R122] - Ricky said he was bi at age 27 or 28. Also - that was much more brave 20+ years ago. And it was before social media.

He did not.

by Anonymousreply 126October 30, 2024 7:07 PM

[quote]Simple math: Shawn Mendes + Austin Kevitch + Nicholas Galitzine - Camila Cabello = last call at The Manhole.

Outing by proxy :)

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by Anonymousreply 127October 30, 2024 8:13 PM

[quote]Swarthy

You must have powder-puff skin.

by Anonymousreply 128October 30, 2024 9:26 PM

R127 Cabello is the C-list Taylor Swift.😄

by Anonymousreply 129October 30, 2024 11:06 PM

TL:Dr

I get these two mixed up, so Shawn Mendes ≠ Harry Styles, are not the same?

by Anonymousreply 130October 30, 2024 11:14 PM

[quote] maybe he could have arrived at his truth sooner

Mary!

by Anonymousreply 131October 31, 2024 12:58 AM

[QUOTE] I get these two mixed up, so Shawn Mendes ≠ Harry Styles, are not the same?

Harry is way more successful than Shawny boy. His album Harry's House won Album of the Year at the Grammys in 2023 and its lead single As It Was is the fourth most streamed song of all time on Spotify. It was at number 1 on the Billboard Hot 100 for 15 weeks.

by Anonymousreply 132October 31, 2024 1:40 AM

Shawn - 26 year old Canadian singer

Harry - 30 year old English singer who was in the mega successful boyband One Direction from 2010-2015

Harry - no mental health issues. Loves huge world tours and had the highest grossing tour of 2022-23 after Elton John and Coldplay

Shawn - myriad mental health issues. Cancels tours.

Harry - Dated Olivia Wilde for two years but never claimed her publicly so his fans could stay in denial and pretend the relationship was a PR stunt

Shawn: Dated Camila Cabello for four years and still won't shut up about her. Plastered videos of them kissing all over his Instagram and lost half his fanbase

Harry: managed by Irving Azoff and very protected and well advised

Shawn: loose cannon

Harry: bisexual but only hints at it

Shawn: bisexual

by Anonymousreply 133October 31, 2024 1:48 AM

I think his bussy is tight, pink and clean

by Anonymousreply 134October 31, 2024 2:09 AM

[quote] Harry - no mental health issues. Loves huge world tours and had the highest grossing tour of 2022-23 after Elton John and Coldplay

Gurl...all them damn tattoos and you think he has "no mental issues"?

by Anonymousreply 135October 31, 2024 2:47 AM

He got all the nasty tatts when he was a teenager. Since he turned 21 he only got a couple.

by Anonymousreply 136October 31, 2024 3:21 AM

He got all the nasty tatts when he was a teenager. Since he turned 21 he only got a couple.

by Anonymousreply 137October 31, 2024 3:21 AM

Camila dumped the hyper masculine Miss Mendes for the uber alpha male raging testosterone of Mrs Austin Galitzine -Kevitch? Poor Shawn just couldn't compete with this..

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by Anonymousreply 138October 31, 2024 3:35 AM

"This does seem studied. Surely he knows how faggy he looks in that crop top?"

Shawn Mendes would look faggy in an ice hockey goalie uniform.

by Anonymousreply 139October 31, 2024 3:48 AM

I think he’s queerbaiting because that’s where his audience is and his album is shaping up to be a flop.

I think he’s just following Harry Styles and Bad Bunny who are “queer” but only dare and bang women.

by Anonymousreply 140October 31, 2024 4:05 AM

R140 Sure Jan.

by Anonymousreply 141October 31, 2024 4:08 AM

[quote]He got all the nasty tatts when he was a teenager. Since he turned 21 he only got a couple.

Because he's run out of space?

by Anonymousreply 142October 31, 2024 4:11 AM

Shawn - call me.

by Anonymousreply 143October 31, 2024 4:17 AM

R143 Maybe.

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by Anonymousreply 145October 31, 2024 6:12 AM

R145 He is so hot. Win for the gays.

by Anonymousreply 146October 31, 2024 7:09 AM

[quote]Harry: bisexual but only hints at it

Fuck off Larry

by Anonymousreply 147October 31, 2024 9:43 AM

R147 I think he's straight. He prefers older women. He is only "edgy", aka he thinks being straight is too mainstream, so he flirts with his fans about being bi, but he is straight.

by Anonymousreply 148October 31, 2024 9:57 AM

I was talking about Harry Styles btw, NOT Shawn, lol. We all know Shawn is gay.

by Anonymousreply 149October 31, 2024 9:58 AM

r148 Exactly. He saw how much attention he got from the Larry thing and kept it going. And, according to Popbitch, he has a kink for pregnant women.

by Anonymousreply 150October 31, 2024 11:30 AM

Styles is a fug straight whose career is queerbaiting but at least compared to Shauna he has some talent.

by Anonymousreply 151October 31, 2024 1:48 PM

I do not believe Shawn is bisexual.

by Anonymousreply 152October 31, 2024 1:57 PM

I am a Larry shipper; a Larry believer, if you will. But Harry is straight.

It was innocent puppy love.

by Anonymousreply 153October 31, 2024 1:58 PM

He is not bisexual and he has never was confused. Like give it a rest. No one should be kicked out of the closet, but this lie they are confused is so dishonest.

by Anonymousreply 154October 31, 2024 2:12 PM

Bisexual?????

by Anonymousreply 155October 31, 2024 2:16 PM

What’s this penis doing in my mouth? How did it get here, and why? It’s all so confusing.

by Anonymousreply 156October 31, 2024 2:42 PM

He’s going to need another two-year mental health break after this.

by Anonymousreply 157October 31, 2024 2:45 PM

Show this young man some grace.

by Anonymousreply 158October 31, 2024 2:54 PM

Yeah. Online gossip is just where to look for grace.

by Anonymousreply 159October 31, 2024 2:59 PM

I’m sure it’s difficult to balance self-respect, honesty and the demands of being a teenage heart-throb. He has my sympathy for being caught in that maelstrom as a gayling. But I think it’s rather cynical to play the coming out card just as your career seems to be over, and I don’t like blaming the delay on confusion.

When I was growing up gays were all but invisible, and being gay was seen as shameful secret . In that environment, a certain amount of confusion and struggle was quite normal. Today, I don’t believe that anyone has trouble knowing what it means to be attracted to your own sex.

I can’t really speak to the degree to which his religion created conflicts for him that he needed to sort out. But if that is the case what you are facing is confusion about your religion, not confusion about your sexuality.

by Anonymousreply 160October 31, 2024 3:19 PM

R160, I don't think you understand the world Mendes inhabits. He has been a commodity since he was a child, he is the livelihood of many people. Every adult or authority figure he loves or trusts has said "you cannot be gay, it will DESTROY your career, your family and everyone who has invested in your success." That is ruinous of his self-esteem and well-being. He is not like the rest of us who live anonymously and don't carry the burden of feeling that being gay will make the sky fall on you and others.

by Anonymousreply 161October 31, 2024 3:29 PM

Again—he has my sympathy for his career pressures. But the conflicts that creates are not confusion about his sexuality. It doesn’t justify covering up your truth with a lie.

by Anonymousreply 162October 31, 2024 3:33 PM

He was in a trap that was perhaps not entirely of his own making (though it was largely of his own making as an adult). The trap was he was lying to his fans pretending to be someone he is not. Part of that lie was what appears to have been a bearding relationship with someone who may not want to tell the truth about it. That’s messy.

I don’t blame him for wanting out, but rather than say “I was afraid to tell you the truth because I thought you’d stop being my fans” he claims “confusion.” Maybe he has no choice if he doesn’t want to out what’s her name, but expedience only goes so far to justify another lie.

by Anonymousreply 163October 31, 2024 3:41 PM

Some of us had sexual relationships with women as young men to try to be straight. It didn't work but maybe we didn't figure it out until we were 26 years old. No one jumps out of the womb proudly proclaiming membership in the 10% of society that can be rejected or reviled by their own family.

by Anonymousreply 164October 31, 2024 4:06 PM

[quote]Some of us had sexual relationships with women as young men to try to be straight.

There’s no way he had sex with her. She was a friend who became his hag. The “relationship” was arranged by his management.

by Anonymousreply 165October 31, 2024 4:28 PM

From LSA:

[Quote]I know a girl who once told me she knew a guy who knew a guy that had sëx with him lol. I do think he's only coming out now because he's losing relevancy.

by Anonymousreply 166October 31, 2024 4:46 PM

R166, are you the girl or the guy?

by Anonymousreply 167October 31, 2024 5:58 PM

[quote] Some of us had sexual relationships with women as young men to try to be straight. It didn't work but maybe we didn't figure it out until we were 26 years old.

You knew.

You can lie to yourself, but don’t lie to Datalounge.

by Anonymousreply 168October 31, 2024 7:13 PM

R112 What does "gutless bottom" mean???

Is his friend saying Shawnie is a cowardly lioness.... or is he a double-fisting bottom? :O

by Anonymousreply 169October 31, 2024 7:20 PM

Trick or treat my ass!

by Anonymousreply 170October 31, 2024 7:21 PM

R161 so true! He's...

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by Anonymousreply 171October 31, 2024 7:25 PM

R167 Neither.

by Anonymousreply 172October 31, 2024 7:48 PM

"Gutless bottom" sounds like the kind of thing a virgin would think people who have sex say. And given the lack of attractiveness of who was telling the story, that may well be the case.

by Anonymousreply 173October 31, 2024 7:50 PM

gutless bottom - a guy with no balls, no nerve, to assume and be chill and honest about his sexual orientation. Plus a bottom.

by Anonymousreply 174October 31, 2024 7:53 PM

A gutless bottom is one with no enthusiasm. Just lies there and takes it. Minimal interaction and limited responsiveness. Nonverbal.

by Anonymousreply 175October 31, 2024 8:12 PM

A gutless bottom doesn’t require douching-they’re always fresh as a daisy and ready for their man

by Anonymousreply 176October 31, 2024 8:26 PM

r164 I don't know how old you are. But Shawn Mendes was born in the 90s and in Canada. He never slept with any girl or was "confused." He is just saying that to hide the embarrassment of staying in the closet. He has had multiple boyfriends out of the spotlight at this point.

by Anonymousreply 177October 31, 2024 8:54 PM

Having no digestive tract would be a real time saver. But one would still need to clean out from time to time, I’d imagine.

by Anonymousreply 178October 31, 2024 8:55 PM

He could have been confused for a number of years. But 16-26 seems a stretch.

by Anonymousreply 179October 31, 2024 9:11 PM

R179 The only thing stretching from 16-26 is his asshole.

by Anonymousreply 180October 31, 2024 9:29 PM

Is this who Shawn’s fucking? He could do better.

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by Anonymousreply 181October 31, 2024 9:46 PM

Gifted

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by Anonymousreply 182October 31, 2024 10:11 PM

My heart goes out to every single gay person who was raised by parents who were Bible-thumping assholes. I've known so many and it's total misery.

by Anonymousreply 183October 31, 2024 10:26 PM

I wonder what happened between now and 2021 when he said ‘it’s offensive to my friends who struggled to come out to say I’m gay or anything like it because I’m not’?

by Anonymousreply 184October 31, 2024 10:34 PM

The NYT article linked at R182 is exhausting.

Other than being a closet case, what is this kid's big problem?

He needs a good Cher face slapping while being told tp "snap out of it."

by Anonymousreply 185October 31, 2024 10:41 PM

Yum! I love my meatless promotional articles stuffed with classic platitudes & lightly toasted on the side.

by Anonymousreply 186October 31, 2024 10:44 PM

Unless I missed it (I just scanned) that article says nothing about his “coming out.”

by Anonymousreply 187October 31, 2024 10:45 PM

What did he come out of?

by Anonymousreply 188October 31, 2024 10:47 PM

[quote]I wonder what happened between now and 2021 when he said ‘it’s offensive to my friends who struggled to come out to say I’m gay or anything like it because I’m not’?

3 years ago, Sam Heughan also had a meltdown and said that 'he was 'not a closeted homosexual but a normal guy' 🙄

by Anonymousreply 189October 31, 2024 10:57 PM

R189 But his stance hasn’t changed right!

by Anonymousreply 190October 31, 2024 11:42 PM

Is he going to go official with his photographer/assistant/travel partner Connor?

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by Anonymousreply 191November 1, 2024 12:02 AM

Did John Mayer bust some daddy nut into young Shawn?

by Anonymousreply 192November 1, 2024 12:08 AM

He needs to make some of those hideous tattoos go away.

by Anonymousreply 193November 1, 2024 12:12 AM

LEAVE SHAUNA ALONE!

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by Anonymousreply 194November 1, 2024 1:43 AM

R191 Connor will probably MeToo him.

by Anonymousreply 195November 1, 2024 1:45 AM

Remember this from a few years ago?

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by Anonymousreply 196November 1, 2024 6:15 AM

If this is true then he's bi, not gay.

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by Anonymousreply 197November 1, 2024 6:35 AM

R197, I don't have a membership on that site. Could you tell us what it says or post it here?

by Anonymousreply 198November 1, 2024 6:39 AM

R198: On the porch-stomping "Why Why Why," there's also an unusually vulnerable reference to a pregnancy scare: "Thought I was about to be a father / Shook me to the core, I'm still a kid / Sometimes I still cry out for my mother."

by Anonymousreply 199November 1, 2024 6:50 AM

R199, oh yeah, I think that's a line in one of his new songs.

I suppose it's possible that Shawn had sex with a couple of girls when he was younger when he was trying to be straight.

by Anonymousreply 200November 1, 2024 6:53 AM

Or he could be a femme bisexual man. They do exist, ya know.

by Anonymousreply 201November 1, 2024 2:53 PM

r201 He wouldn't have to beard if he was just bisexual. He is gay.

by Anonymousreply 202November 1, 2024 3:01 PM

This is a perfect summary of Shawn from a reddit post:

[quote]: Just read the NYT feature on Shawn Mendes and I had some thoughts to share…I felt the article was extremely duplicitous. It paints a narrative that Shawn Mendes bravely quit music and left the industry in 2022 while at the pinnacle (their exact words) of his career. And yet… it’s hard to overlook that 2022 wasn’t exactly the pinnacle of Mendes’ career. His 2020 album was the 165th best selling album of the year. His 2018 album was the 55th of its year and his 2016 album was the 22nd best selling album of 2017. And he didn’t quit? He’s been here for the last two years, regularly posting on social media and releasing music.

[quote]: It got me thinking that Shawn Mendes’ biggest problem is just how atrociously confused his brand is... I feel like so much of his career was just him trying to have it both ways… playing both sides. He wants to be gay enough for his gay fans, but straight enough for his straight female fanbase. As a result, he will queerbait… but will shut down any speculation of his sexuality — even when he himself questions his sexuality publicly. He wants to be wholesome because he’s better than Justin Bieber, but doesn’t want you to forget that he can also be a bad boy like Justin Bieber. He tells us he doesn’t care nor need validation anymore, but has kept pumping out new singles in the hopes of landing a hit before the new album is released. He’s even doing an interview with the NYT in an effort to paint a narrative of some great hero’s return. Even the choice of the NYT stands out? Does his target audience even read the New York Times? I suppose we’ll have to wait until next week to find out what interviews he does next. You never know… we might see him do back to back interviews with the Financial Times, National Geographic Kids, and Playboy Magazine. It’s just sad and it doesn’t work because it doesn’t fool anyone and even puts off genuine fans who begin doubting who you really are as a person.

by Anonymousreply 203November 1, 2024 3:11 PM

R203 Truth. I also thought that he quit his tour due to the arenas not selling out, yet blamed it on his mental health.

by Anonymousreply 204November 1, 2024 4:29 PM

[quote]You can lie to yourself, but don’t lie to Datalounge

I'm gonna replace that "pointless bitchery" bullshit with this.

by Anonymousreply 205November 1, 2024 4:38 PM

You honor me, Ma’am.

by Anonymousreply 206November 1, 2024 4:44 PM

R204, it's the go-to excuse these days. Nobody watching your movie? Nobody streaming your song? Nobody wants to see you in concert? Take a "mental health" break.

by Anonymousreply 207November 1, 2024 4:49 PM

I love how the Times is painting his decision to cancel his arena tour and come back to years later to play small venues as an artistic choice.

by Anonymousreply 208November 1, 2024 4:53 PM

I'm sure the insurance companies would be interested to hear it being called an artistic choice.

by Anonymousreply 209November 1, 2024 5:19 PM

He's clearly bisexual. You guys are going to be disappointed.

by Anonymousreply 210November 1, 2024 8:41 PM

R97 Great, another gold stat gay bullshit

by Anonymousreply 211November 1, 2024 9:54 PM

R210 Nah. He experimented but didn’t like pussy. He likes the cock.

by Anonymousreply 212November 1, 2024 9:55 PM

Where’s that fucking troll who used to always post here about “Shawn is drunk on Camila’s pussy juice!” ???

by Anonymousreply 213November 1, 2024 11:37 PM

R196 Amateur

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by Anonymousreply 214November 2, 2024 2:38 AM

[quote]He's clearly bisexual. You guys are going to be disappointed.

Hi, "everyone is bisexual" troll!

by Anonymousreply 215November 2, 2024 8:56 AM

R203, one thing I’ll agree on with Mendes is that he’s clearly suffering from some mental issues. You’d think he was a Darfur orphan, the way he’s always on and on about how tough his life is.

by Anonymousreply 216November 2, 2024 12:52 PM

It’s time for him to date Pete Davidson 🔥

by Anonymousreply 217November 2, 2024 4:11 PM

Harry Styles made it clear on SNL that he finds Shawn hot. Maybe they could date.

by Anonymousreply 218November 2, 2024 4:53 PM

Little David Archuleta is allegedly a top. Maybe he can climb Mt. Mendes?

by Anonymousreply 219November 2, 2024 5:05 PM

Mt. Mendes? With that flat ass?

by Anonymousreply 220November 2, 2024 5:07 PM

It’s more like a plateau, tall and flat

by Anonymousreply 221November 2, 2024 5:10 PM

I agree that he needs Pete Davidson. Pete has a huge cock and he knows how to use it!

by Anonymousreply 222November 2, 2024 6:00 PM

Aren't Shawn Menses And Harry Spoils the same person?

by Anonymousreply 223November 2, 2024 6:05 PM

Shawn likes brunette that are hard in the face, so he a Styles would be a perfect match.

by Anonymousreply 224November 2, 2024 6:07 PM

[quote]I agree that he needs Pete Davidson. Pete has a huge cock and he knows how to use it!

Unfortunately that huge cock is attached to a repulsive junkie.

by Anonymousreply 225November 2, 2024 7:04 PM

R218 Please, my cock would kill him.

by Anonymousreply 226November 2, 2024 7:20 PM

R222 Pete's dick might get stuck in him.

by Anonymousreply 227November 2, 2024 7:39 PM

I think he and Antoni Porowski would make a very hot couple. Both smoking hot and ultra sensitive Canadians.

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by Anonymousreply 228November 2, 2024 9:58 PM

[QUOTE] Aren't Shawn Menses And Harry Spoils the same person?

Only to people over 70, gramps.

by Anonymousreply 229November 2, 2024 10:21 PM

Saturday Night Live had a bitchy comment about Shawn tonight when doing a skit with an 'undecided voter':

"Call me Shawn Mendes because I'm still figuring it out!"

by Anonymousreply 230November 3, 2024 6:55 AM

R15 But Harry Styles isn't gay

by Anonymousreply 231November 3, 2024 7:03 AM

Oh, please. Shawn knew he was gay back when John Mayer was plowing his 17-year-old ass.

by Anonymousreply 232November 3, 2024 7:46 AM

That would be a hint, r232.

by Anonymousreply 233November 3, 2024 7:57 AM

R232 He was way too uptight - nothing was getting in that ass.

by Anonymousreply 234November 3, 2024 10:45 AM

Bossy bottom

by Anonymousreply 235November 3, 2024 11:27 AM

So Shawn Mendes is a man who likes putting his mouth on another man’s penis. What’s the big deal?

by Anonymousreply 236November 4, 2024 7:09 PM

Shawn Mendes has the brain of an undecided voter.

by Anonymousreply 237November 4, 2024 7:18 PM

R237 Misread that as "undecided otter", but either works.

by Anonymousreply 238November 4, 2024 10:16 PM

R238, good one! But I'd say "undecided twink" instead of otter.

by Anonymousreply 239November 4, 2024 11:08 PM

[quote] Misread that as "undecided otter",

Otters and wolves. They’s my favorites.

by Anonymousreply 240November 5, 2024 1:35 AM

I honestly think the Trump win will force Shawn back into the closet :(

by Anonymousreply 241November 6, 2024 9:44 AM

[QUOTE] But I'd say "undecided twink" instead of otter.

He's not a twink, he's too tall and broad. You must be a frau.

by Anonymousreply 242November 6, 2024 7:23 PM

Trump will have Shawn deported back to Canada!

by Anonymousreply 243November 6, 2024 7:47 PM

Send Bieber too.

by Anonymousreply 244November 6, 2024 7:50 PM

[quote]Trump will have Shawn deported back to Canada!

I wonder if Shawn will try to get U.S. citizenship soon? He already owns a home in West Hollywood and spends a large part of the year in the U.S.

by Anonymousreply 245November 7, 2024 6:37 AM

R241 Barron will take Shawn's virginity rather clumsily - there shall be much crying into the pillow.

by Anonymousreply 246November 8, 2024 1:50 AM

Shawn posted a new photo today from Manchester, United Kingdom -- shirtless, with his pants undone:

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by Anonymousreply 247November 11, 2024 7:03 AM

He looks old.

by Anonymousreply 248November 11, 2024 7:46 AM

Her Bieberazation has begun.

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by Anonymousreply 249November 11, 2024 9:56 AM

I agree r248, he looks like he could be Jake Gyllenhaal’s peer.

by Anonymousreply 250November 11, 2024 12:40 PM

Damn you R127 I was going to troll everyone of Cammie’s beardings!

But he’s still going to “date in Europe” with Matt Damon, right?

by Anonymousreply 251November 11, 2024 12:57 PM

[quote]shirtless, with his pants undone

Does he take any other type of photo anymore? I imagine his next posed pap photos will have his pants undone too, which should at least be funny

by Anonymousreply 252November 11, 2024 1:19 PM

[quote] Does he take any other type of photo anymore?

What's wrong with that?

by Anonymousreply 253November 11, 2024 3:52 PM

I’d suck him off!

by Anonymousreply 254November 11, 2024 7:07 PM

One of the hottest wins for the community EVER

by Anonymousreply 255November 12, 2024 12:54 AM

New photo of Shawn practicing his deep throating skills:

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by Anonymousreply 256November 13, 2024 7:42 AM

New rear view of Shawn:

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by Anonymousreply 257November 13, 2024 7:42 AM

He has a phlat azz but I'd still fuck him.

by Anonymousreply 258November 13, 2024 10:34 AM

The cheese is no longer fresh - discard.

by Anonymousreply 259November 13, 2024 10:41 AM

I don't get DL's obsession with this guy. There are tons of gay men who look way better than him.

by Anonymousreply 260November 13, 2024 12:03 PM

Sorry OP I had to FF you

1) he did not come out

2) you failed to post a link properly

See you in 24z

by Anonymousreply 261November 13, 2024 12:06 PM

I could believe there's a period in his life he actually thought he's straight. He's either deluding himself or suppressing those feelings. But us queens know better.

by Anonymousreply 262November 13, 2024 12:13 PM

Sorry OP I had to FF you

1) he did not come out

2) you failed to post a link properly

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Fuck you, ugly fat whore

by Anonymousreply 263November 13, 2024 12:21 PM

[QUOTE] New photo of Shawn practicing his deep throating skills:

Massive screaming queen in the background of that photo.

by Anonymousreply 264November 13, 2024 12:22 PM

R261, not OP, but Shawn came out in a pussyfooted way. Which makes sense because...it's Shawn Mendes. Of course, Gen Z will act like this is "stunning and brave".

[quote] “The real truth about my life and my sexuality is that, man, I’m just figuring it out like everyone,” he said. “I don’t really know sometimes and I know other times. And it feels really scary because we live in a society that has a lot to say about that.”

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by Anonymousreply 265November 13, 2024 12:55 PM

The Hollywood rubric for coming out requires a celebrity to say they are gay/queer or to publicly acknowledge a same-sex partner.

I don’t make the rules.

by Anonymousreply 266November 13, 2024 12:58 PM

But you like to think you do, r266.

by Anonymousreply 267November 13, 2024 1:03 PM

R260

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by Anonymousreply 268November 13, 2024 2:49 PM

[quote]Sorry OP I had to FF you

I hope you greased your hands

by Anonymousreply 269November 13, 2024 3:17 PM

Aging and useless - discard.

by Anonymousreply 270November 13, 2024 10:52 PM

[quote]man, I’m just figuring it out like everyone

gurl is nearing 30

it ain't quantum physics

by Anonymousreply 271November 14, 2024 10:42 AM

Is Miss Thing a Gen Z or a Millennial??

by Anonymousreply 272November 14, 2024 7:28 PM

[quote] Is Miss Thing a Gen Z or a Millennial??

Man, I'm just figuring it out like everyone. Cause, like, everyone is confused about it, ya know?

by Anonymousreply 273November 14, 2024 7:41 PM

Long interview with Zane Lowe, lord of word salad. Skates around a question about his sexuality so nothing new there. He looks so pretty though

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by Anonymousreply 274November 14, 2024 9:09 PM

That hair hanging down over his forehead does him no favors.

by Anonymousreply 275November 14, 2024 9:33 PM

He does look good at R274. Fortunately his tattoos are not visible. He also doesn’t look as swarthy.

by Anonymousreply 276November 14, 2024 9:33 PM

Can anyone find the interview that gave us the now iconic GIF of Shawn biting his lips as he glances down at the interviewer's pendulous microphone, trying in vain not to picture him naked?

by Anonymousreply 277November 14, 2024 9:43 PM

R277, do you mean this one?

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by Anonymousreply 278November 15, 2024 6:21 AM

Shawn is clearly bi. I know DLers will be in a hissy fit because I say this, but it's most likely true.

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by Anonymousreply 279November 15, 2024 6:32 AM

[quote]Shawn is clearly bi. I know DLers will be in a hissy fit because I say this, but it's most likely true.

DL-ers couldn't care less about your delusional opinions.

by Anonymousreply 280November 15, 2024 7:27 AM

R278 Thank you!

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by Anonymousreply 281November 15, 2024 7:35 AM

[QUOTE] Shawn is clearly bi. I know DLers will be in a hissy fit because I say this, but it's most likely true.

Agreed. Bisexuality doesn't exist on DL. You're either openly gay, or gay, closeted and bearding.

by Anonymousreply 282November 15, 2024 7:37 AM

R280 How is it delusional? He was in a relationship with a woman, and it wasn't a PR relationship like the one with Camila. If he is in relationships with women who aren't even famous, then most likely he is bisexual. He clearly likes both women and men.

by Anonymousreply 283November 15, 2024 9:43 AM

[quote]Bisexuality doesn't exist on DL. You're either openly gay, or gay, closeted and bearding.

you forgot 'repressed homosexual'

by Anonymousreply 284November 15, 2024 10:39 AM

R278 He wants to suck cock so much right then.

by Anonymousreply 285November 15, 2024 8:44 PM

R278 He was a very fresh 17 in that - desperate for the next year so that he could take cock legally.

by Anonymousreply 286November 15, 2024 8:46 PM

That pit sniffing clip was incredibly erotic.

by Anonymousreply 287November 15, 2024 9:57 PM

r287, where is the pit sniffing clip? Thanks.

by Anonymousreply 288November 15, 2024 10:51 PM

you forgot 'self-loathing'

by Anonymousreply 289November 16, 2024 8:09 PM

He's been closeted all this time because of his young girl fan base.

Now, in order not to lose them, his next album should be titled "Girl's Gay Best Friend"

by Anonymousreply 290November 16, 2024 8:11 PM

His next album will be titled "I Still Don't Know"

by Anonymousreply 291November 16, 2024 8:16 PM

"My Second Pregnancy Scare: Guys, Sex Is So Scary, Seriously"

by Anonymousreply 292November 16, 2024 8:26 PM

^^^^

gurl needs to get herself an IUD

by Anonymousreply 293November 16, 2024 9:12 PM

That "honeeeeeyyy" video on youtube never gets old. Here it is!

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by Anonymousreply 294November 16, 2024 9:25 PM

There's also the video of him being a total bitch. And then being totally humiliated when he was proven wrong.

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by Anonymousreply 295November 16, 2024 9:35 PM

The way he bites his finger here = confirmed gay, bossy bottom.

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by Anonymousreply 296November 17, 2024 2:13 AM

He really does lack imagination when it comes to album titles. Shawn Mendes for one and Shawn for another?

This new album isn't getting good reviews. Average 64 on Metacritic. Lots of 3* and even 2* reviews.

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by Anonymousreply 297November 17, 2024 5:10 AM

If he were white he’d get more attention on the DL.

by Anonymousreply 298November 17, 2024 10:13 AM

R298, I hope you are joking. There are countless threads on this person.

by Anonymousreply 299November 17, 2024 2:30 PM

Time to start up the only fans Shawn x

by Anonymousreply 300November 17, 2024 7:04 PM

Does he have “an” Onlyfans?

by Anonymousreply 301November 18, 2024 2:33 AM

But is he out out?

by Anonymousreply 302November 18, 2024 3:23 AM

I would rape rape him.

by Anonymousreply 303November 19, 2024 1:33 AM

Too old, discard.

by Anonymousreply 304November 19, 2024 3:57 AM

[quote] How many teenage girl fans does Troye Sivan have?

R89 Plenty. Look at the audience for his shows. Tons of teen girls and young women. They often make up the bulk of successful out actors/singers fanbases, as the gay audience often isn't enough to do it alone.

by Anonymousreply 305December 5, 2024 2:57 PM

R305 Fewer than Ross Lynch does, I would guess.

by Anonymousreply 306December 9, 2024 10:47 AM

Ross is sure giving Shawn a run for his money in the category of moderate talent but lots of thirst traps.

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by Anonymousreply 307December 9, 2024 2:43 PM

Ross knows what his audience likes, as do his brothers.

by Anonymousreply 308December 9, 2024 10:50 PM

The pic at r307 is fake/AI.

by Anonymousreply 309December 9, 2024 11:15 PM

Shawn, go pick up your dream man Luigi from Jail.

by Anonymousreply 310December 9, 2024 11:16 PM

R309 OMG, say it ain't so!

by Anonymousreply 311December 9, 2024 11:18 PM

Being anywhere near this midget potato will turn any man gay.

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by Anonymousreply 312December 10, 2024 6:59 AM

New photos of Shawn shirtless while recycling his boxes:

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by Anonymousreply 313December 10, 2024 7:06 AM
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by Anonymousreply 315December 10, 2024 7:07 AM

Shawn gets so excited when he's papped. Famewhore.

by Anonymousreply 316December 10, 2024 8:05 AM

So sad when the cute ages out.

by Anonymousreply 317December 10, 2024 8:42 AM

Gurl has liberated hurseff and burned all hur shirts!

by Anonymousreply 318December 10, 2024 10:32 AM

All these shirtless pictures of Shawn Mendes must be worth pennies to news agencies at this point there's so many of them. It reminds me of when Daniel Radcliffe to ruin paps lives when he was doing Equus just decided to always where the same clothes to and from the theatre so they couldn't sell them.

by Anonymousreply 319December 10, 2024 10:44 AM

It's embarrassing that he calls the paps before he puts out his recycling.

by Anonymousreply 320December 10, 2024 12:43 PM

Wait 'til you see what I have planned for after Christmas when I dump my tree.

by Anonymousreply 321December 10, 2024 2:15 PM

Fuck this aging, mentally ill, gay-baiting, maybe-maybe not fag. We’ve moved on to Luigi.

by Anonymousreply 322December 10, 2024 2:36 PM

Is that a euphemism for Camilla Cabello and Sabrina Carpenter r313?

by Anonymousreply 323December 10, 2024 3:25 PM

He needs to wear sunscreen. So much sun damage. He will look like crap in a couple of years.

by Anonymousreply 324December 10, 2024 3:39 PM

[quote]He needs to wear sunscreen. So much sun damage. He will look like crap in a couple of years.

Plus the smoking and the ugly tattoos.

by Anonymousreply 325December 10, 2024 3:47 PM

New photo of Shawn on vacation in Puerto Rico:

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by Anonymousreply 326December 11, 2024 7:35 AM

I hope he's been saving his money.

by Anonymousreply 327December 11, 2024 8:09 AM

R326 Vacation from what?!

by Anonymousreply 328December 11, 2024 10:33 AM

^^^^ from having to call the paparazzi every time she leaves the house

it's hard to remember and exhausting

by Anonymousreply 329December 11, 2024 10:36 AM

Shawn is aiming to have a Lance Bass type of career, where he doesn’t actually have any commitments or have to do anything. But he’s still famous and gets papped and can show up on TV or red carpets.

by Anonymousreply 330December 11, 2024 10:49 AM

Luigi the assassin is the same age and is way hotter and better looking than Shawn.

by Anonymousreply 331December 11, 2024 10:57 AM

Shame Luigi the assassin is incontinent due to a spinal injury! Shawn doesn't have that problem.

by Anonymousreply 332December 11, 2024 11:36 AM

[quote]Luigi the assassin is the same age and is way hotter and better looking than Shawn.

But an even less promising future.

by Anonymousreply 333December 11, 2024 12:15 PM

R332 Shawn doesn’t seem like a clean bottom

by Anonymousreply 334December 11, 2024 12:26 PM

Shawn is incontinent ever since John Mayer wrecked his hole.

by Anonymousreply 335December 11, 2024 12:33 PM

Luigi is incontinent and impotent! Everyone's dream.

by Anonymousreply 336December 11, 2024 3:41 PM

Shawn makes his life unnecessarily difficult for himself with all his word salad and depressive and anxious episodes. It’s not rocket science Shawn, embrace your love to cock and life will be infinitely better for you.

by Anonymousreply 337December 11, 2024 10:37 PM

Maybe he'll move into a more upbeat, Jason Mrazy space when this current album's collapse is complete.

by Anonymousreply 338December 12, 2024 4:15 AM

R338 Does that mean we'll see Shawn on the next season of Dancing With the Stars?

by Anonymousreply 339December 12, 2024 1:44 PM

show us that bussy, Shawn!

by Anonymousreply 340December 12, 2024 2:04 PM

Photos of Shawn for his interview with John Mayer this week:

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by Anonymousreply 341December 13, 2024 8:16 AM
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by Anonymousreply 342December 13, 2024 8:16 AM

R342 She looks like a young suburban mother who just got a bad Supercuts 'do in that picture.

by Anonymousreply 343December 13, 2024 10:01 AM

Mom jeans.

by Anonymousreply 344December 13, 2024 10:03 AM

New photo of Shawn and a guy in Puerto Rico:

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by Anonymousreply 345December 14, 2024 7:52 AM

It's just getting harder and harder to clean him up at all.

by Anonymousreply 346December 14, 2024 10:06 AM

Funny how his jawbone grew and he just got really ugly. His latest album debuted with just 24k. Compare that to Styles whose last album hit 521k in its first week.

by Anonymousreply 347December 14, 2024 10:20 AM

wow, Shauna is 26 but looks gay 40 in that photo.

by Anonymousreply 348December 14, 2024 10:32 AM

People would actually care if I came out.

by Anonymousreply 349December 14, 2024 10:36 AM

R349 Me too - I think people are kind of out there, hoping!

by Anonymousreply 350December 14, 2024 2:13 PM

Yikes! She debuted in the mid 20s on the charts in US and Canada

by Anonymousreply 351December 14, 2024 3:38 PM

And his album completely fell out of the Top 200 in its 2nd week. It was a complete failure.

by Anonymousreply 352December 14, 2024 3:41 PM

What’s next OF? He can collab with Austin Mahone

by Anonymousreply 353December 14, 2024 3:45 PM

Like I've been saying for YEARS now, he just needs a hot rapper boyfriend to collaborate with to revive interest in his career. Cause at this point what else is he going to do. Is Drake busy?

by Anonymousreply 354December 14, 2024 8:59 PM

[quote] Is Drake busy?

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by Anonymousreply 355December 14, 2024 9:02 PM

Mayer needs to plow him cross-eyed and release the tape.

by Anonymousreply 356December 14, 2024 9:55 PM

R354 Katy Perry tried that with a solid female rapper on her lead single, it still flopped. Substance and authenticity is in right now. The people resonating with audiences have a narrative that translates to their music. Shawn is hollow. He comes off as inauthentic and lazy. He should already be dating a hot young starlet before this album release. Instead, he spent all his time damaging his Canadian skin at the beach, smoking weed, and barely eating.

Shawn is a damn mess.

by Anonymousreply 357December 17, 2024 4:41 AM

[quote] Substance and authenticity is in right now.

No. It's not.

[quote] Shawn is hollow. He comes off as inauthentic and lazy.

Now that is true.

by Anonymousreply 358December 20, 2024 7:50 PM

New photo of Shawn in Toronto this week with a group of guys:

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by Anonymousreply 359December 22, 2024 7:59 AM

[quote]New photo of Shawn in Toronto this week with a group of guys:

Known as a sports team to English speakers.

by Anonymousreply 360December 22, 2024 8:45 AM

Sports

by Anonymousreply 361December 22, 2024 11:22 AM

Sports ball.

by Anonymousreply 362December 22, 2024 11:22 AM

Alas, not one of the guys was willing to take Shawn's cherry. He just can't win, the poor guy.

by Anonymousreply 363December 22, 2024 7:45 PM

Is he pregnant yet?

by Anonymousreply 364December 22, 2024 7:53 PM

I hope Shawn got gang banged on the field.

by Anonymousreply 365December 23, 2024 7:59 AM

So does he

by Anonymousreply 366December 23, 2024 8:08 AM

[quote] Funny how his jawbone grew and he just got really ugly.

I hear the closet ages people

by Anonymousreply 367December 23, 2024 1:04 PM

Want him to get a boyfriend in 2025 , it’s about time

by Anonymousreply 368January 1, 2025 11:38 AM

I heard that he is dating Harry Styles.

by Anonymousreply 369January 2, 2025 2:48 AM

Agree he needs a BF...SM is still at the top of so many fantasy fuck lists

by Anonymousreply 370January 2, 2025 2:54 AM

R369 and then you woke up from your dream lol

by Anonymousreply 371January 2, 2025 2:55 AM

Mendes is way too swishy for me!

by Anonymousreply 372January 2, 2025 9:13 AM

New pic:

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by Anonymousreply 373January 3, 2025 8:07 AM

Is he starting his gay pimp phase at R373?

by Anonymousreply 374January 3, 2025 11:21 AM

Look at meeeee!

by Anonymousreply 375January 3, 2025 1:50 PM

R373, he looks like the stereotype of a gross European dude who hasn't showered in 5 days and smokes endlessly.

by Anonymousreply 376January 3, 2025 1:59 PM

Am I cool yet?

by Anonymousreply 377January 3, 2025 2:02 PM

[quote] he looks like the stereotype of a gross European dude who hasn't showered in 5 days and smokes endlessly.

Swarthy?

by Anonymousreply 378January 3, 2025 2:47 PM

R378, tbh, yes. But we all know he's a big pussy on the inside so that makes the image laughable.

by Anonymousreply 379January 3, 2025 2:56 PM

Shawn, fast-forward to your black boyfriend phase!

by Anonymousreply 380January 3, 2025 7:48 PM

Shawn with a fan in Puerto Rico.

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by Anonymousreply 381January 3, 2025 7:58 PM

His preference is probably Latino

by Anonymousreply 382January 3, 2025 9:28 PM

Dame la pinga!

by Anonymousreply 383January 3, 2025 9:34 PM

[quote] His preference is probably Latino

Like attracts like.

by Anonymousreply 384January 3, 2025 10:14 PM

His father is of Portuguese heritage. So he's not really Latino.

One thing I learned a long time ago - if you value your life, you don't call Spaniards, Portuguese or Argentinians "Latino." They hate it. HATE it. Like it drives them batshit they hate it so much.

by Anonymousreply 385January 3, 2025 10:17 PM

R381, maybe Shawn likes Puerto Rican cock.

by Anonymousreply 386January 4, 2025 6:28 AM

8 yrs ago Shawn stated his boundaries. 😆 I bet he is such a closet white.

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by Anonymousreply 387January 4, 2025 7:09 AM

Whore* not white. Smfh Apple autotype.

by Anonymousreply 388January 4, 2025 7:55 AM

R387/R388, well, Shawn has now said that he is questioning his sexuality, so we will see what 2025 holds for Miss Shawn. 🍆

by Anonymousreply 389January 4, 2025 8:02 AM

"Questioning"..... 😂

These celebs are always "questioning", and Gen Z eats it up.

by Anonymousreply 390January 5, 2025 3:34 AM

[quote] These celebs are always "questioning", and Gen Z eats it up.

You have no right to question him! His sexuality is his and his alone! You're bi shaming!!!

by Anonymousreply 391January 5, 2025 4:46 AM

What about US? Does no one care how WE are doing?

by Anonymousreply 392January 5, 2025 10:30 AM

Everything happens eventually.

by Anonymousreply 393January 5, 2025 11:33 AM

This fame whore releases so many photos of himself topless. Compare to Harry Styles who also has a great physique but keeps it covered outside tour dates except for some photos at a pond over a year ago. Shawn comes across as desperate for attention.

by Anonymousreply 394January 5, 2025 1:26 PM

Harry Styles is getting millions of streams and filling up arenas. Shirtless photos are all Shawn has.

by Anonymousreply 395January 5, 2025 2:10 PM

This is NOT the way I wanted to see Shawn’a s queer 2025 start off 😤

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by Anonymousreply 396January 5, 2025 7:37 PM

[quote]Shawn comes across as desperate for attention.

Shawn is advertising the goods

by Anonymousreply 397January 5, 2025 11:35 PM

R395 Styles is often drenched by those streams.

by Anonymousreply 398January 7, 2025 11:19 PM

New photos of Shawn in South America:

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by Anonymousreply 399January 9, 2025 6:56 AM
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by Anonymousreply 400January 9, 2025 6:56 AM
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by Anonymousreply 401January 9, 2025 6:56 AM
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by Anonymousreply 402January 9, 2025 7:01 AM

Poor guy is trying way too hard.

by Anonymousreply 403January 9, 2025 7:57 AM

I’d suck him off.

by Anonymousreply 404January 9, 2025 8:04 AM

Cute and fuckable at R399. Is he low IQ? He seems rudderless. But at least he has millions if he hasn't squandered it.

by Anonymousreply 405January 9, 2025 8:26 AM

I like his purse.

by Anonymousreply 406January 9, 2025 11:28 AM

[quote]Is he low IQ?

I don’t know if he’s dumb, but he’s definitely not well educated.

by Anonymousreply 407January 9, 2025 11:30 AM

Those pics scream "I'm an instagram influencer!!".

by Anonymousreply 408January 9, 2025 12:44 PM

Wet ducks me at R401

by Anonymousreply 409January 9, 2025 12:45 PM

^ I meant to write “very fuckable”

by Anonymousreply 410January 9, 2025 12:45 PM

He does have sexy arms.

by Anonymousreply 411January 9, 2025 12:47 PM

Such a flat ass.

by Anonymousreply 412January 9, 2025 12:54 PM

[quote] He does have sexy arms.

Meh, if you go for that skinny, no muscle tone look.

by Anonymousreply 413January 9, 2025 2:25 PM

Schauna is thin but always looks fit and toned to me.

by Anonymousreply 414January 9, 2025 4:43 PM

And swarthy.

by Anonymousreply 415January 9, 2025 4:46 PM

R413 = 300 lbs

by Anonymousreply 416January 9, 2025 8:37 PM

[quote] 300 lbs

300 lbs OF MUSCLE

by Anonymousreply 417January 9, 2025 9:36 PM

He has a girlfriend. This means he's either bi, or he lied about "exploring his sexuality". There are too many stories about him hooking up with guys, in addition to pics of him hanging out with twinks. My guess is he's actually bi. Possibly a straight leaning bi guy.

by Anonymousreply 418January 10, 2025 7:34 AM

[quote]There are too many stories about him hooking up with guys

What stories? Nifty doesn't count.

by Anonymousreply 419January 10, 2025 8:25 PM

I was just thinking he'd shown a lot of restraint by making it ten days in the year and not having a shirtless pap walk. Him being in Peru solves that mystery.

by Anonymousreply 420January 10, 2025 8:37 PM

Who is his girlfriend?

by Anonymousreply 421January 10, 2025 9:58 PM

Who is his girlfriend?

by Anonymousreply 422January 10, 2025 9:58 PM

^^^^ here

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by Anonymousreply 423January 10, 2025 10:04 PM

It's this girl. 22 year old human rights activist Helena Gualingo

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by Anonymousreply 424January 13, 2025 1:15 AM

Pic from a few days ago of Helena and Ms Mendes cuddling up together.

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by Anonymousreply 425January 13, 2025 1:17 AM

Glad he’s getting more snatch!

by Anonymousreply 426January 13, 2025 3:51 AM

Who knows what is really going on.

by Anonymousreply 427January 13, 2025 6:43 AM

R419 A lot of stories online. Might not be true, but I tend to believe them. Like for example someone said a friend hooked up with him and he was male.

by Anonymousreply 428January 13, 2025 6:50 AM

[quote]Pic from a few days ago of Helena and Ms Mendes cuddling up together.

Retreating back into the closet because he regrets sorta almost coming out.

by Anonymousreply 429January 13, 2025 7:02 AM

A few years ago, Shawn seemed to have a bit of a crush on Justin Trudeau:

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by Anonymousreply 430January 13, 2025 7:07 AM

Anyone got a bridge to sell r428?

by Anonymousreply 431January 13, 2025 7:14 AM

Shawn is bisexual not gay although you queens will never accept that. He likes fat little Latino girls.

by Anonymousreply 432January 13, 2025 10:18 AM

Like Gabriel Iglesias, R432?

by Anonymousreply 433January 13, 2025 10:26 AM

R432 Exactly. He is obviously bi. I just don't get if he's a straight leaning bisexual, or if he's just afraid to accept his sexuality.

by Anonymousreply 434January 13, 2025 10:45 AM

Sorry Shawn, no shot in the career arm for you.

by Anonymousreply 435January 13, 2025 10:49 AM

[quote]Shawn is bisexual not gay although you queens will never accept that. He likes fat little Latino girls.

And why should we listen to someone as ignorant-sounding as you, bisexual troll?

by Anonymousreply 436January 13, 2025 9:30 PM

I saw pics on social media of Shawn Mendes in romantic embraces with that hot little Mexican boxing dude.

Was that real or was it just AI?

I can't tell what is real anymore.

by Anonymousreply 437April 5, 2025 10:23 AM

Who cares what that aging self-hater says or does? Plenty of fresher meat out there.

by Anonymousreply 438April 12, 2025 1:25 AM
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