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Friend of King Charles found dead with "legs in the air"

One of the King and Queen’s closest friends died after becoming trapped between his bed and a wall when drunk, an inquest has heard.

His daughter told the coroner: “He would drink a litre of gin and a couple of bottles of wine in a day.”

His close friend Andrew Parker Bowles said he was "wild as a hawk in his youth and always great fun!"

Salisbury Coroner’s Court heard Mr Farquhar’s blood alcohol level was 4.5 times over the drink-drive limit when he died.

Known to his friends as “the captain”, he was close to both the King and Queen as well as the Princess Royal.

He was a regular visitor to the King’s Highgrove estate in Gloucestershire, where he previously rented a farmhouse.

Ian Farquhar, 78, an Old Etonian and prominent huntsman, was found with his legs up in the air above his bedside table.

The retired Army captain, a former equerry to Queen Elizabeth, the Queen Mother, had developed a drinking problem in his later years, his daughter Victoria revealed.

On March 6, care worker Beth Gillingham arrived at his home near Chippenham, Wiltshire, for her daily visit and went upstairs when he did not respond to her calls.

She did not see the former huntsman until she peered down the side of the bed and saw him trapped against the wall.

The carer checked for a pulse but when she could not find one she called the police. Officers attended the scene and pronounced Mr Farquhar dead just after 1pm.

An empty bottle of Gordon’s gin, two empty wine bottles and a half-empty bottle of whisky were found at the property.

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by Anonymousreply 118October 25, 2024 11:16 AM

He died as he lived: an utter buffoon

by Anonymousreply 1October 24, 2024 2:58 AM

[INSERT INEVITABLE MARKLE HATRED HERE]

by Anonymousreply 2October 24, 2024 2:59 AM

Is it really possible to drink a litre of gin a day?

by Anonymousreply 3October 24, 2024 3:00 AM

Legs in the air? Was the friend Lindsey Graham?

by Anonymousreply 4October 24, 2024 3:01 AM

That is fucking awesome!! You gotta love the Drunken English gentlemen!!

by Anonymousreply 5October 24, 2024 3:01 AM

Was he raped to death like Tra-la-la in Last Exit to Brooklyn?

by Anonymousreply 6October 24, 2024 3:02 AM

R4, he was wedged between the bed and the wall. I assume his legs were up against the wall. Stuck in that position, if he vomited he would drown.

by Anonymousreply 7October 24, 2024 3:02 AM

[quote] Is it really possible to drink a litre of gin a day?

Perhaps not. He died.

by Anonymousreply 8October 24, 2024 3:03 AM

This is why it's interesting to see the new show "Rivals," because it's about this set of wealthy privileged people in Gloucestershire who drank too much and fucked each other too much.

by Anonymousreply 9October 24, 2024 3:05 AM

"He developed a drinking problem in his later years" - uh - no. He's been that way for most of his adult life.

If he enjoyed it - who cares? Better to go that way at 78 then to wither away in a nursing home praying to die.

by Anonymousreply 10October 24, 2024 3:06 AM

The carer didn’t see his legs stuck up in the air the minute she entered the room?

by Anonymousreply 11October 24, 2024 3:06 AM

[quote]This is why it's interesting to see the new show "Rivals," because it's about this set of wealthy privileged people in Gloucestershire who drank too much and fucked each other too much.

As opposed to, say, Norfolk.

by Anonymousreply 12October 24, 2024 3:08 AM

DIBS ON THE WHISKEY

by Anonymousreply 13October 24, 2024 3:11 AM

Only in England can a man make a career of Master of The Hunt and not much else.

by Anonymousreply 14October 24, 2024 3:12 AM

[quote] The carer didn’t see his legs stuck up in the air the minute she entered the room?

He was a midget.

by Anonymousreply 15October 24, 2024 3:12 AM

[quote]As opposed to, say, Norfolk.

Gloucestershire is quite recognizably the "Rutshire" of the Jilly Cooper novels. That's where the rich horsey set that Cooper writes about lives.

The King's home, Highgrove, is there--so was Camilla and Andrew Parker-Bowles's former home--so is Princess Anne's home, Gatcombe Park.

by Anonymousreply 16October 24, 2024 3:23 AM

[quote] Friend of King Charles found dead with "legs in the air"

I somehow always pictured that was how Camilla would be found.

by Anonymousreply 17October 24, 2024 3:53 AM

Wot a legend.

by Anonymousreply 18October 24, 2024 4:02 AM

[quote] "He developed a drinking problem in his later years" - uh - no. He's been that way for most of his adult life

Yeah, that part was suspect. I'm guessing he was drinking for a long time.

I think you can drink an entire liter of gin in a day. He probably started drinking from the time he woke up and then drank throughout the day and night.

Gordon's gin is a moderately-priced brand, IIRC.

by Anonymousreply 19October 24, 2024 4:23 AM

Most people would annihilate their liver if they drank a liter of gin a day.

by Anonymousreply 20October 24, 2024 4:30 AM

R3, R20 I had a cousin who drank a litre of gin a day for the last 30 years of his life...totally picked in every way. Shitty way to go.

by Anonymousreply 21October 24, 2024 4:35 AM

How mortifying to be caught dead with a Gordon's gin bottle---now if it had been Bombay Sapphire, not so much.

by Anonymousreply 22October 24, 2024 4:38 AM

His daughter who dated William.

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by Anonymousreply 23October 24, 2024 4:42 AM

**Totally pickled R21

by Anonymousreply 24October 24, 2024 4:44 AM

For the love of God, Montresor!

by Anonymousreply 25October 24, 2024 4:46 AM

[quote]His daughter told the coroner: “He would drink a litre of gin and a couple of bottles of wine in a day.”

How in the FUCK did he even make it to 78???

by Anonymousreply 26October 24, 2024 4:53 AM

Gin and no regrets?

by Anonymousreply 27October 24, 2024 4:59 AM

r26 Didn't work a day in his life, that's how.

by Anonymousreply 28October 24, 2024 5:38 AM

r3 By his own admission Graham Chapman of Monty Python fame drank three pub size bottles of gin a day, enough to preserve a cadaver.

by Anonymousreply 29October 24, 2024 5:38 AM

God speed ya filthy cunt

by Anonymousreply 30October 24, 2024 5:54 AM

[quote] Legs in the air? Was the friend Lindsey Graham?

Wicked, rational, and hilarious! 🍾

by Anonymousreply 31October 24, 2024 6:00 AM

legs in the air is a weird detail to release to the news.

by Anonymousreply 32October 24, 2024 6:50 AM

Was he rimmed to death?

by Anonymousreply 33October 24, 2024 7:01 AM

Bottoms up, old lad 🥂

by Anonymousreply 34October 24, 2024 7:05 AM

It just shows, that in the end, you really only need a little hole in the wall

by Anonymousreply 35October 24, 2024 7:42 AM

[quote]His daughter told the coroner: “He would drink a litre of gin and a couple of bottles of wine in a day.”

FFS. He was lucky to make it to 78.

by Anonymousreply 36October 24, 2024 7:49 AM

I'm no rabid 12-stepper, but this whole "being a drunk is aristocratically cute" bullshit has got to go.

by Anonymousreply 37October 24, 2024 7:56 AM

No, R22, Gordon’s is exactly the sort of gin he would drink. The same applies to old-money types in the US. Flashy brands of liquor, especially clear liquor, are for people who want to show off. People who are socially secure in the upper class and just like to drink buy mid-priced gin and vodka because they don’t taste much different from the top-shelf stuff.

by Anonymousreply 38October 24, 2024 9:07 AM

His eyes!! Those are the eyes of a raging alcoholic. I’m surprised he didn’t fall off that horse years ago. Probably an alcoholic for so long that he was constantly in a moderately sloshed state.

by Anonymousreply 39October 24, 2024 9:52 AM

If he was Equerry to The Queen Mother he doubtless was more than glad to keep her company when gin and Dubonnet needed pouring and enjoying. Serious alcoholism as described though would have impacted his Court function fatally. It probably got worse as age and loss of important activity hit him hard.

by Anonymousreply 40October 24, 2024 10:21 AM

I, for one, find one's internal organs turning into ammonia so charming! What a lovely tradition!

by Anonymousreply 41October 24, 2024 10:24 AM

He was reaching for a tuppence on the floor. He wanted to feed the birds.

by Anonymousreply 42October 24, 2024 11:09 AM

R3 yes you need to be a royal or an 80s' rock musician though.

by Anonymousreply 43October 24, 2024 11:21 AM

A profligate who lived and died a profligate.

I love his last name, so plummy, Fah-kwah.

Init?

by Anonymousreply 44October 24, 2024 11:24 AM

I think he sounds fabulous! That's the way I want to go - drunk as a skunk. Better that than wither away in a nursing home while eating pudding and pissing your pants.

by Anonymousreply 45October 24, 2024 11:25 AM

R45, he probably did plenty of that too.

by Anonymousreply 46October 24, 2024 11:36 AM

No matter what, his was a sad way to go. R.I.P.

Beyond the paywall:

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by Anonymousreply 47October 24, 2024 11:50 AM

The crazy thing is at that speed he probably would have died if he STOPPED drinking.

by Anonymousreply 48October 24, 2024 1:19 PM

R38 is correct about the gin.

The horrific detail of thissozzled wreck dying upside down should be a warning to drunks everywhere. Do not push your bed near the wall. I've always hated that anyway and now there's a health and safety reason.

I read that in the last few years the old lush needed help just to get out of a chair.

by Anonymousreply 49October 24, 2024 1:51 PM

We don't know him.

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by Anonymousreply 50October 24, 2024 1:59 PM

This is just brilliant. So messy. So quintessentially British.

by Anonymousreply 51October 24, 2024 2:04 PM

But real good fun, good fun, no?

by Anonymousreply 52October 24, 2024 2:06 PM

Amateur.

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by Anonymousreply 53October 24, 2024 2:06 PM

R47 from one dotty gin soaked queen to another.

by Anonymousreply 54October 24, 2024 2:09 PM

" People who are socially secure upper class drunks"

fixed for R38

by Anonymousreply 55October 24, 2024 2:12 PM

[quote] Ian Singleton, the Area Coroner for Wiltshire, recorded a verdict of death by misadventure, stating that Mr Farquhar had probably moved off the bed in a “deliberate act” that “unintentionally led to his death”.

[quote] He added: “I pass on to the family my sincere condolences for their loss.”

His local off-license must be suicidal.

by Anonymousreply 56October 24, 2024 2:14 PM

Death By Misadventure

What jolly fun !

by Anonymousreply 57October 24, 2024 2:17 PM

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by Anonymousreply 58October 24, 2024 2:21 PM

R53 Rotty’s all piss & vinegar but we do lovey 💕 her a bit, no?

by Anonymousreply 59October 24, 2024 2:22 PM

Quite.

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by Anonymousreply 60October 24, 2024 2:23 PM

Ian shared his "perfect weekend" tips with The Telegraph

"A good breakfast is vital. That for me might include field mushrooms, tomato, eggs, bacon, sausages, and plenty of pepper and salt, which I am told is terribly bad for you. These days, I normally cook it myself."

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by Anonymousreply 61October 24, 2024 2:25 PM

A good breakfast is vital. That for me might include field mushrooms, tomato, eggs, bacon, sausages, and plenty of pepper and salt, litre of gin, two bottles of wine and a stable boy.

by Anonymousreply 62October 24, 2024 2:30 PM

[quote] Seesaw swingin' with the boys in the school And your feet flyin' up in the air

by Anonymousreply 63October 24, 2024 2:39 PM

[quote]That's the way I want to go - drunk as a skunk. Better that than wither away in a nursing home while eating pudding and pissing your pants.

My partner used to visit a group of nursing homes in the course of doing some consulting for the company who owned the group. He told me about a woman at one of the facilities decades younger than the other residents. My partner spoke with her briefly but she was unable to follow a simple conversation. She had Wernicke-Korsakoff syndrome caused by alcohol abuse and was so cognitively impaired that she could no longer look after herself.

by Anonymousreply 64October 24, 2024 2:45 PM

[quote]That's the way I want to go - drunk as a skunk. Better that than wither away in a nursing home while eating pudding and pissing your pants.

If you don't think elderly alcoholics piss and shit their pants you're a dreamer.

by Anonymousreply 65October 24, 2024 2:49 PM

The weekend has to include hunting, says Captain Ian Farquhar.

"He was not a good shot" sighed an acquaintance, Viscount Fluffybottom. "No matter how early it was, Mr Farquhar seemed confused and smelled of gin. The beaters were terrified of him since he would start firing even before any pheasants were flushed from the bush. We would often ply him with even more alcohol so he would pass out. Pity though, he was a good sport."

by Anonymousreply 66October 24, 2024 2:51 PM

[quote]INSERT INEVITABLE MARKLE HATRED HERE

I just realized that I haven't noticed any "i hate meghan markle and harry" threads lately. I've either successfully blocked the old cunts posting them or Muriel zapped them?

by Anonymousreply 67October 24, 2024 2:56 PM

I blocked 2 pro Trump loons. Not only did every political thread become saner but I haven't seen any Markle gibes and quoted posts full of homophobia and sexism are not visible either. I bet you've blocked the same loons. I suggest everyone do the same.

by Anonymousreply 68October 24, 2024 3:01 PM

Rivals was a hoot and it was the first thing I thought of when I read this.

by Anonymousreply 69October 24, 2024 3:06 PM

I'm not really understanding the "legs in the air on bedside table" and trapped between the bed thing. Why was he trapped behind the bed and the wall? Did he fall weird and couldn't get up?

by Anonymousreply 70October 24, 2024 3:11 PM

I can't believe they ever had an empire.

by Anonymousreply 71October 24, 2024 3:14 PM

r71 What are you talking about? Blind drunkenness was key to its development. There's a reason the quote is "Rum the lash and sodomy"

by Anonymousreply 72October 24, 2024 3:19 PM

R67 another one of her betters dies "mysteriously". This has Meg's homocidal fingerprints all over it. ARREST THE WOG NOW!

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by Anonymousreply 73October 24, 2024 3:21 PM

Why am I not surprised that the markle hating loons are pro-trump homphobes?

by Anonymousreply 74October 24, 2024 3:22 PM

^^^homophobes

by Anonymousreply 75October 24, 2024 3:23 PM

They didn't mention the eggplant-sized dildo..

by Anonymousreply 76October 24, 2024 3:29 PM

R58 the most British storyline evah! Was he head over heels for the good Lady Townsend or her possible spectacular dowry?

by Anonymousreply 77October 24, 2024 3:36 PM

So how did he actually die?

Heart attack? Stroke? Asphyxiation? "Choked on his own vomit? Choked on someone else's vomit (this is where Meg starts looking suspicious)?

Died of upside-down cake syndrome? Waved a leg into a ceiling socket? Massacred by the Thing Under the Bed?

Old age from waiting for the nurse or maid or whatever the fuck she was to finish her ciggie and come to wipe his ass?

by Anonymousreply 78October 24, 2024 3:37 PM

R77 he was head over heels for SOMETHING, evidently.

by Anonymousreply 79October 24, 2024 3:38 PM

The Captain will have fallen on his head between the wall and the bed, attempted to unglue himself by raising his legs to create leverage - probably tried to push the bed away from the wall using his feet against the wall, to create width for escape. Then had a heart attack from the strain, most likely

by Anonymousreply 80October 24, 2024 3:41 PM

r78 He was old as shit fell out of bed in a position he couldn't get out of and wasn't found until the day after. Other than the litre of gin a day its not an uncommon way for the elderly to go.

by Anonymousreply 81October 24, 2024 3:43 PM

never try to suck your own penis.

by Anonymousreply 82October 24, 2024 3:46 PM

[quote] Was he head over heels for the good Lady Townsend

Obviously, at his age and BAC all you'll get is heels over head.

by Anonymousreply 83October 24, 2024 4:01 PM

"Wild as a hawk in his youth and always great fun!"

Sounds like his landing did not stick.

by Anonymousreply 84October 24, 2024 4:05 PM

I had 4 uncles (on my Mom's side) who drank like fish. 3 of them lived to their mid nineties, none the worse for wear. The other one had non-drinking health problems, and he still lived to his early eighties.

by Anonymousreply 85October 24, 2024 4:10 PM

OP, no "Go Go's song Head over Heels"

by Anonymousreply 86October 24, 2024 4:10 PM

R82 But pray love, must it always end in tragic misadventure?

by Anonymousreply 87October 24, 2024 4:11 PM

Yeah, I’m head over heels for her too & what’s cookin’ good lookin’?

by Anonymousreply 88October 24, 2024 4:20 PM

She owns bloody 1/2 of Yorkshire and she thinks he only wants her bleedin’ puddin’ ?

by Anonymousreply 89October 24, 2024 4:32 PM

R8 😂 😂. I fucking loveeeee you.

by Anonymousreply 90October 24, 2024 4:38 PM

Queen Elizabeth also drank Gordon's gin.

Who remembers Zam Zam's in the Haight? Bruno, the bartender (no such thing as vodka martini, don't ask for one). IIRC, he used Gordon's, as well.

I was into B&B (Benedictine and brandy) at the time, so that's what I ordered at Zam Zam's. Anyway, I was used to the pre-mixed bottle of B&B. Bruno mixed it up for me from separate bottles.

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by Anonymousreply 91October 24, 2024 4:45 PM

I'd like to hear more about Zam Zams cocktail menu - and Bruno!

by Anonymousreply 92October 24, 2024 4:54 PM

[quote]How in the FUCK did he even make it to 78???

R26 (and R36) thats what I find surprising, that he made it to 78 drinking a litre of gin AND two bottles of wine a day. Would have thought he'd have died a lot earlier

by Anonymousreply 93October 24, 2024 4:58 PM

When presenting hole goes wrong.

by Anonymousreply 94October 24, 2024 5:20 PM

Ian was an author, he chronicled his life in the book 'The Way it Was', described as:

'A nostalgic book in the best possible way.Ian pulls no punches and spins out a tale of success and failure that is hard to stop reading. The story brings to light virtually all of his fabled career with glory and blemishes equally exposed. He is quite a character to say the very least! … It is a panegyric on a man who has devoted his life to the sport of foxhunting during an age of serious change. It is a must read for all those lovers of country sport written by a man who has lived it as it was happening.”

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by Anonymousreply 95October 24, 2024 5:28 PM

[quote] I'd like to hear more about Zam Zams cocktail menu - and Bruno!

Really? It was in the Haight. Bruno was like the soup Nazi. It was a small, quiet little bar. Just a few tables. If you were too loud, Bruno would kick you out. Like I said, he was against vodka martinis. I was there with my cousin, who is both loud and drinks vodka martinis. I really thought we were going to get kicked out. But he actually made her (my cousin) that vodka martini.

No food was served, that I could recall.

I could be mis-remembering, but the inside of the bar was a bit like the inside of the genie bottle on I Dream of Jeanie.

I think Bruno was OK with serving martinis on the rocks (rather than "up").

I don't remember there being a cocktail menu. If you tried to order a blended piña colada, he probably would have told you to GTFO.

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by Anonymousreply 96October 24, 2024 5:34 PM

[quote]the inside of the bar was a bit like the inside of the genie bottle on I Dream of Jeanie.

That sounds so much fun

by Anonymousreply 97October 24, 2024 5:42 PM

[quote]drinking a litre of gin AND two bottles of wine a day.

Holy shit. It would take me an entire month to drink that much alcohol.

by Anonymousreply 98October 24, 2024 7:19 PM

🎶 Throw your legs in the air like you just don't care.

Way to go Ian Farquhar. RIP

by Anonymousreply 99October 24, 2024 7:42 PM

What a ghetto way to die!

by Anonymousreply 100October 24, 2024 7:53 PM

[quote]legs in the air is a weird detail to release to the news.

Yes, it's pretty tactless. I'm sure I'll go the same way, and you bitches will mock me ruthlessly.

by Anonymousreply 101October 24, 2024 8:44 PM

R80 get back to us when you've completed your AI simulation.

by Anonymousreply 102October 24, 2024 11:18 PM

Ain't he got a vase?

by Anonymousreply 103October 24, 2024 11:32 PM

R91: The Zam Zam is still there and open as I type this. I haven’t been in years, but, yes, it does look faintly like Jeannie’s bottle inside. Have a hookah! (Sorry, don’t mean to derail the thread. Back to sozzled aristos!)

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by Anonymousreply 104October 25, 2024 1:06 AM

[quote]drinking a litre of gin AND two bottles of wine a day.

A shoothing repashte on a winter'sh night!

by Anonymousreply 105October 25, 2024 1:58 AM

Legs in the air? Like a cockroach? 😂

by Anonymousreply 106October 25, 2024 2:15 AM

R38. Yes, we drink Gordon's for gin and tonics, for example. (Better tonic, to be sure, Schweppes or Fever Few.) No reason to use better. And for most things, Tanqueray is perfectly fine (but use better dry vermouth, say Dolan's for martinis.)

by Anonymousreply 107October 25, 2024 2:23 AM

How did he die from that? I would have thought he would have just slept/passed out

by Anonymousreply 108October 25, 2024 2:29 AM

R108, death from positional asphyxia can occur whenever someone is immobilized in such a way that their breathing is suppressed. You may recall an incident several years ago involving a teenage boy who died inside a Honda minivan when the third-row seat collapsed on top of him and he suffocated. A woman died from suffocation after being wedged behind a bookcase; see link.

This guy was elderly and probably intoxicated. He must have become trapped between the wall and the bed in a weird position which made it difficult for him to breathe.

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by Anonymousreply 109October 25, 2024 3:38 AM

[quote] probably intoxicated.

Probably.

by Anonymousreply 110October 25, 2024 3:45 AM

R104, thanks. Bruno, the bartender, has died. I read that the new owner is a tenant who had lived upstairs. Bruno used to close whenever he felt like it, apparently. The new owner has more regular hours.

I'm glad I got to experience the bar when Bruno was there.

by Anonymousreply 111October 25, 2024 3:48 AM

🎵 put your legs up in the air, put your legs up in the air

by Anonymousreply 112October 25, 2024 4:10 AM

R109, I remember the terrible story about the boy - he texted his mom that he loved her before he lost consciousness. IIRC he had tried to get emergency help and they wouldn't believe him.

by Anonymousreply 113October 25, 2024 5:10 AM

[quote]Friend of King Charles found dead with "legs in the air"

I always imagined that Princess Margaret must have died this way.

by Anonymousreply 114October 25, 2024 6:12 AM

I'm with R40. To be equerry to the Queen Mother yet not develop a drinking problem till "late in life" would be a sign of developmental delay.

by Anonymousreply 115October 25, 2024 7:03 AM

A shining example of the type of upper class, fox hunting twit who still thinks he has more rights than others simply because of his background. Odious.

by Anonymousreply 116October 25, 2024 7:15 AM

The unspeakable in full pursuit of the uneatable, R116.

by Anonymousreply 117October 25, 2024 9:31 AM

"The story brings to light virtually all of the fabled career of this entitled lush."

fixed for R95

by Anonymousreply 118October 25, 2024 11:16 AM
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