I'm not complaining as I like the scruff.
What do you think?
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I'm not complaining as I like the scruff.
What do you think?
by Anonymous | reply 103 | December 2, 2024 11:37 PM |
I think too many guys have facial hair today.
I think men look better clean shaven.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | October 22, 2024 9:23 AM |
Beards have always been here to stay OP. From clean shaven to beards and everything in between. And this has been the way of men's facial hair for thousands of years.
by Anonymous | reply 2 | October 22, 2024 9:24 AM |
I don't mind beards, it's the recent trend of pornstaches that gets me.
I can't work out whether guys who have them think they look good, or if they do it to be "funny".
by Anonymous | reply 3 | October 22, 2024 9:33 AM |
Going all the way back to Washington's time and the French Revolution, Western men were clean-shaven in the 1700s until the mid 1800s.
Then bushy beards were in vogue until the early 1900s.
Then clean-shaven was in until the 1960s.
Facial hair made a comeback in the late '60s through the '80s.
Then clean-shaven was in again in the 90s and 2000s.
Remember when Joaquin Phoenix showed up on Letterman looking like this in 2009 and everyone thought he looked homeless and probably was on drugs!
Turned out it was for a mockumentary, but it's funny how just a few years later (in the early 2010s), bushy beards were back in style.
Even Letterman, who makes fun of his appearance here, now sports a worse bushy beard than this.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | October 22, 2024 9:41 AM |
Beards are here to stay as long as Hollywood actors feel pressure to stay closeted.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | October 22, 2024 9:44 AM |
While the outcome can be highly individual, I'm all for the broad trend of beards, facial hair, and mustaches and hope it lasts for many years.
It doesn't hurt either that it's a nice antidote to the immature male faces that look like cookies taken too soon from the oven.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | October 22, 2024 10:05 AM |
Who is that at OP? He's hot
by Anonymous | reply 7 | October 22, 2024 10:14 AM |
Anyone who dislikes beards is not required to grow one.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | October 22, 2024 10:18 AM |
Fashion now changes at a glacial pace nowadays. When American Graffiti came out in 1973 it was a look back at completely different time...eleven years earlier! Imagine a movie coming out today taking place in 2013. What would be different?
by Anonymous | reply 9 | October 22, 2024 10:20 AM |
R9 no broccoli haircut on young men in 2013.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | October 22, 2024 10:29 AM |
I’m keeping mine.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | October 22, 2024 10:43 AM |
James Beard died in 1985.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | October 22, 2024 10:45 AM |
I’ve been on a beard journey the last year growing out my facial hair for the first time in my 50s now that it doesn’t matter so much for my work. The beard influencers were very useful for me to learn the ins and outs. That’s said, some of the online communities are weirdly obsessive and fetishize facial hair. Go to subreddits for beards, moustaches or bald, and you’ll see. They tell guys with perfect jawlines to cover it up. The only one that gives objective answers about what looks good is r/malegrooming where they’ll give the hard truth about a patchy beard or pervy pornstache.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | October 22, 2024 10:45 AM |
[quote][R9] no broccoli haircut on young men in 2013.
I remember in the late 2000s/early 2010s, it was the Tintin hairdo.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | October 22, 2024 10:47 AM |
[quote]I’ve been on a beard journey the last year growing out my facial hair for the first time in my 50s now that it doesn’t matter so much for my work.
Did you switch jobs?
by Anonymous | reply 15 | October 22, 2024 10:48 AM |
R3, I love, love, love a good porn stache. Porn's Beau Butler grows one that's just amazing.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | October 22, 2024 11:02 AM |
A simple mustache is to automatically a "porn stash."
Porn stashes must have hairs growing downward on both sides surrounding the mouth.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | October 22, 2024 11:09 AM |
No, r17.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | October 22, 2024 12:11 PM |
No, r18
by Anonymous | reply 19 | October 22, 2024 12:16 PM |
No r17
A pornstache is a mustache that makes the wearer look sleazy, predatory, or cheaply groomed. It can appear in many different forms and styles.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | October 22, 2024 12:22 PM |
No, R17.
Yes, R20
by Anonymous | reply 21 | October 22, 2024 12:22 PM |
[quote]Porn stashes must have hairs growing downward on both sides surrounding the mouth.
That's a Fu Manchu
by Anonymous | reply 22 | October 22, 2024 12:24 PM |
I LOVE facial on a guy. Hair can someone go from meh to hot.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | October 22, 2024 4:01 PM |
You call it corn, we call it maize.
by Anonymous | reply 24 | October 22, 2024 5:21 PM |
[quote]I don't mind beards, it's the recent trend of pornstaches that gets me.
Same, and I DO NOT get it. I also don't get that it's somehow STILL a thing. A lot of the guys who wear them are boyish, and more than a few gay ones speak via cascading Prada purses, so is it simply viewed as somehow a way to look more "butch"?
by Anonymous | reply 25 | October 22, 2024 5:25 PM |
I don't mind neat, trim beards. But the long, bushy "my beard looks just like my pubic hair" look is a bit off putting.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | October 22, 2024 5:29 PM |
I like bushy beards and pornstaches.
I also love a thick thatch of pubic hair.
For me, I think these are linked.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | October 22, 2024 5:34 PM |
I hope so. I love 'em.
by Anonymous | reply 28 | October 22, 2024 5:35 PM |
I can't stand no pussy-faced man.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | October 22, 2024 5:39 PM |
I recall the latest beard trend starting in 2008 with the outset of the Great Financial Crisis. I assumed it would be relatively short lived (e.g like the Man Bun) but it seems it’s here to stay.
by Anonymous | reply 30 | October 22, 2024 5:46 PM |
"Beards are here to stay, aren't they?"
As long as Proctor and Gamble keeps jacking up the price of Gillette razors, yes, beards are here to stay.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | October 22, 2024 5:57 PM |
You guys should be watching MLB. Now is the time for those guys to be growing out their beards.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | October 22, 2024 5:59 PM |
I have a very pale baby face. I do indeed look like a cookie taken out of the oven too soon R6. Took a flight last weekend and the TSA agent asked me if I was traveling alone. I'm 38. A beard stops those comments but the beard is now full of grey so I look like a drama kid in a bad prop. So, I have to dye the beard which is a pain in the ass and I probably do look like a young queen butching it up but at least I'm never mistaken for a child.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | October 22, 2024 6:33 PM |
R33, count your blessings!
by Anonymous | reply 34 | October 22, 2024 6:36 PM |
Everybody looks dirty lately.
by Anonymous | reply 35 | October 22, 2024 6:46 PM |
Growing a beard in my late twenties made me feel much more confident in my appearance. My chin is my weakest feature -- it's short and throws off the proportions of an otherwise balanced face -- and growing a beard corrected that. I would never want to go back, unless I got a chin implant.
This guy is also a prime example of someone whose face might read as too soft/young without facial hair, but the beard helps him cross over into being a good looking adult man.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | October 22, 2024 6:49 PM |
Just about every man looks good with scruff, and there are some men, like R36, whose facial features are flattered by a beard. But my personal preference is clean shaven. I love men's faces and I like to see as much of the real estate as I can.
The only types of facial hair I find truly objectionable are the Yosemite Sam beards going down to the clavicle (hideous on everyone) and the handlebar (pure affectation).
by Anonymous | reply 37 | October 22, 2024 6:57 PM |
I'm clean shaven. My facial hair is sparse. There but not dense. It looks like my beard is having chemo. I would love a beard but it does not flatter me. I also realized the other day my jaw is bigger than my head. I got a buzz cut that's way too close to the bone and I look like an upside down skull.
Being pretty is sooooooo difficult.
by Anonymous | reply 38 | October 22, 2024 7:00 PM |
It's a played-out trend.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | October 22, 2024 11:14 PM |
David Letterman's beard is over the top. I don't like it.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | October 22, 2024 11:17 PM |
A beard never goes out of style.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | October 22, 2024 11:58 PM |
I've had a beard since I was 28 and am 45 now and can't imagine not having one.
by Anonymous | reply 42 | October 23, 2024 12:00 AM |
I always assume they're hiding something. Laziness, ugliness and/or herpes.
by Anonymous | reply 44 | October 23, 2024 12:36 AM |
R33 I dyed my beard for the longest--10 years--and nobody really noticed because I'm a Black, and it's hard to tell unless you know what to look for (e.g. it’s scarily, unnaturally dark and there’s a grayish tint under light). When COVID hit and everything shut down, I said “Fuck it” and took a break from it because I wasn’t going anywhere. I eventually got used to it. I tried to dye it recently and it just seemed…laborious, and it even looked odd to me. Sure, I look older but as a friend told me, “Don’t be embarrassed. You’ve earned it.”
Of course, he’s straight, so he would say some shit like that.
by Anonymous | reply 45 | October 23, 2024 12:41 PM |
R44 Whenever I shave, I get razor bumps that inevitably turn into cysts. That's why I keep a beard.
by Anonymous | reply 46 | October 23, 2024 12:43 PM |
Yes, beards are a mainstay in Hollywood. Many careers hinge on sustaining that illusion.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | October 23, 2024 12:53 PM |
I like a nice beard. What I don't like are those ones that look like the guy is trying to audition for ZZ Top or become a rabbi. Extra busy and I don't like it.
by Anonymous | reply 48 | October 23, 2024 12:53 PM |
Some guys look their best with a beard. Maybe a 7, 8, or 9.
Clean shaven = 3 or 4.
by Anonymous | reply 49 | October 23, 2024 12:58 PM |
Yeah, R40, that Gabby Hayes look flatters no one.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | October 23, 2024 4:29 PM |
I hate facial hair.
by Anonymous | reply 51 | October 23, 2024 7:32 PM |
Groomed and clean are very nice on many guys. Just back from Midwest and saw many sloppy fatsos with great big sloppy-looking BUSHES on their faces -- obviously too lazy/cheap to trim/groom them, or trying to cover up their fat jowls: it's the male equivalent of fat old women trying to cover their fatness up with drape-y tunic tops. It doesn't fool anyone.
by Anonymous | reply 52 | October 23, 2024 7:53 PM |
I LOVE facial hair
by Anonymous | reply 53 | October 23, 2024 8:09 PM |
Beards are here to stay, be it facial hair or gay beards.
by Anonymous | reply 54 | October 25, 2024 10:36 PM |
Now if only they'd learn to trim and connect.
by Anonymous | reply 55 | October 25, 2024 10:40 PM |
I’m more a goatee guy. I don’t like the look of bushy facial hair at all.
by Anonymous | reply 57 | October 25, 2024 11:37 PM |
Goatees are for sociopaths
by Anonymous | reply 58 | October 26, 2024 11:24 AM |
Beards are now security blankets for a lot of guys.
by Anonymous | reply 60 | November 15, 2024 6:11 PM |
I'm horrible at recognizing someone 'through ' the facial hair. Half the people I run into and know, I don't immediately recognize them as they all seem to wear the same lumberjack Grizzly Adamsesque heavy beard with a mustache and also sometimes going into chop territory- it's like the facial hair protection program.
Not a fan.
by Anonymous | reply 61 | November 15, 2024 6:35 PM |
Scruff yes, beards no.
by Anonymous | reply 63 | November 18, 2024 6:51 PM |
I'm happy for the fashion and it's staying power.
The sorts of men I like tend to look good with beards or facial hair. Not super styled and sculpted and cut with templates and laser precision, but hearty, natural looking beards. Nothing too ZZ Top or Alaska survivalist, just a nice full beard looked after but not unduly fussed over.
I had no fault with the Hipster years. They kindly brought facial hair back. Yes, the craze for hair products and mustache waxes and beard balms and oils and creams went a bit overboard - but more when they talked about it.
A close shaved face on a man with no discernable stubble creeps me out. Too Ken Doll, too fussy, too feminine/Baptist preacher. I know it's the best choice for some men, but it's not to my taste.
Viva la barba.
by Anonymous | reply 65 | November 18, 2024 9:44 PM |
It’s those try-hard mustaches….
by Anonymous | reply 66 | November 18, 2024 9:50 PM |
Nebuchadnezzar? Nevah.
by Anonymous | reply 67 | November 18, 2024 9:53 PM |
Scruff is the only thing that creates any send of a jawline on my aging saggy jowls and neck.
by Anonymous | reply 68 | November 18, 2024 10:01 PM |
Ryan Seacrest has a beard. Gets a new one every three years.
by Anonymous | reply 69 | November 18, 2024 10:04 PM |
IBM had policy on beards. Grow one, but not on company time, you'd look scruffy. Lots of guys did it over vacation.
by Anonymous | reply 70 | November 18, 2024 10:07 PM |
Love short beards.
by Anonymous | reply 71 | November 18, 2024 10:08 PM |
R68 I do much better on Scruff.
by Anonymous | reply 72 | November 18, 2024 10:39 PM |
Beards are the yoga pants of gay men. Just shave already.
by Anonymous | reply 73 | November 23, 2024 5:40 AM |
They look good on a lot of men. Lots of pudgy guys looks 100% better with one too. Some very handsome men look a lot better without one.
by Anonymous | reply 74 | November 23, 2024 6:36 AM |
Wait till they tell you that you'd be a good Santa.
by Anonymous | reply 75 | November 23, 2024 7:42 AM |
Nice beard (gay Pakistani-British guy who posts on X a lot).
by Anonymous | reply 78 | November 24, 2024 10:48 PM |
One person I don't like scruff on is gay CBS reporter Jonathan Vigliotti. To me, for some reason, it makes him look unwashed, bordering on homeless. He did a piece on CBS Sunday Morning today, and once again, he turned me off with that scruffy face, although the story was very good. Scruff works for some, but not Jonathan.
IMHO
by Anonymous | reply 79 | November 24, 2024 11:32 PM |
Had to look him up on Google, but I think Jonathan looks good with a beard (is this his boyfriend?).
by Anonymous | reply 80 | November 24, 2024 11:37 PM |
I went all my life shaving every day until about eight years ago. Then I wondered if I even could grow a beard, so I stopped shaving and grew one in about 10 days. I was going to shave it off, but everyone I knew told me they liked it, so I kept it.
Now I can't even imagine myself without one.
by Anonymous | reply 81 | November 25, 2024 1:14 AM |
I only started growing one 10 years ago because I left corporate life to retire early.
Plus I'm lazy, and the damn razor blades cost too damn much.
by Anonymous | reply 82 | November 25, 2024 1:17 AM |
Watching football I'm seeing more and more beards. Some teams are almost all beards, to look mean and nasty.
by Anonymous | reply 84 | November 25, 2024 9:04 PM |
Jesus, Mary and Joseph, 80+ posts before this gets typed? This thread is useless without pictures.
by Anonymous | reply 85 | November 26, 2024 12:39 AM |
A fit 30 year old with a beard and a big cock is the most beautiful thing in the world.
by Anonymous | reply 86 | November 26, 2024 12:54 AM |
the damn razor blades cost too damn much.
R82 never heard of an electric shaver.
by Anonymous | reply 88 | November 26, 2024 2:32 AM |
In my 60s I just eventually gravitated towards shaving off my years-long continuous goatee, trimmed up the sideburns and haircut shorter, and began shaving pretty much every other day or two. It just felt better. I think it looks cooler when a younger guy has the elaborate beard or multi-days scruff going on (exception: if it’s a dark beard and the scruff is manicured to within an inch of looking like a backyard lawn).
by Anonymous | reply 89 | November 26, 2024 2:40 AM |
by Anonymous | reply 90 | November 26, 2024 4:12 PM |
There was a guy who had a gym in I think Rhode Island and got in trouble during covid times for not shutting it down. He was in the news a lot, but I can't find him now on Google. Anyway, he had the greatest beard I've ever seen. I'd like to find a pic of him.
by Anonymous | reply 91 | November 28, 2024 3:57 AM |
No R92 - this guy had a super long beard.
by Anonymous | reply 93 | November 28, 2024 3:36 PM |
I was wrong, it wasn't Rhode Island, it was New Jersey. Here he is - his name is Ian Smith. Great beard!
by Anonymous | reply 94 | November 28, 2024 3:52 PM |
It's very clear, Our beards are here to stay. Not for a year, But ever and a day.
by Anonymous | reply 95 | November 28, 2024 8:45 PM |
How long does it take to grow a beard that long? Not that I want to.
by Anonymous | reply 97 | November 30, 2024 11:12 PM |
Ricki Hall. Now THIS is a hot man with a hot beard.
by Anonymous | reply 98 | December 1, 2024 11:19 AM |
R97 - it varies. Beard hair on average grows between 1/3 to 1/2 inch per month, but it also depends on genetics. Hair on different parts of the face can be in different cycles of growth and vary on speed of growth. There is also terminal or maximum possible length and that varies significantly by person. (from 12-36”)
In the beard groups, there the ‘three month rule’ which means let everything grow and see where you’re at before tidying up and deciding how to style. There’s also the concept of a ‘yeard’ which is a year’s growth. People will proudly show pics of their big bushy yeards which are usually a mess. It’s always hard to get objective advice from beard fanatics because the ‘more is better’ view is the loudest.
by Anonymous | reply 99 | December 1, 2024 11:52 AM |
I've had beards for about 30 years but have never gone the ZZ Top length. After a certain bushiness they are too itchy and I get beard dandruff.
by Anonymous | reply 102 | December 2, 2024 11:28 PM |
When I left corporate life I tried to grow a "Dumbledore" but my hair stopped growing at nipple length. Now it's a short, neat length that I trim with my Flowbee.
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