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What is your kink or fetish?

I love medical scenes and I love the doctor's office, even if nothing comes of it. A gloved finger sliding into my ass... you can't make sense of a kink or fetish, but, oh Lordy...

And you?

by Anonymousreply 100January 10, 2025 2:00 PM

I masturbate furiously to Mark Robinson's posts about having three-ways with his sister-in-law. I also like tio get off on the post about not having anyone come to your party, only to see it get no responses. Oh...wait....gotta go clean up!

by Anonymousreply 1September 28, 2024 9:53 PM

Niche, R1.

by Anonymousreply 2September 28, 2024 9:58 PM

Highly polished, shiny black leather dress shoes. Love 'em especially with a bespoke suit.

by Anonymousreply 3September 29, 2024 3:02 AM

Massage and spanking

by Anonymousreply 4September 29, 2024 3:10 AM

Eating ass. Licking it. Smelling it. Plunging my tongue into it. Getting it on my rim chair.

by Anonymousreply 5September 29, 2024 3:19 AM

Getting slugged in the gut .

by Anonymousreply 6September 29, 2024 3:19 AM

I get off on Teafake typing "mafuckin."

by Anonymousreply 7September 29, 2024 3:22 AM

This.

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by Anonymousreply 8September 29, 2024 3:28 AM

You could slap them?

by Anonymousreply 9September 29, 2024 12:39 PM

eating ass might be a kind but it's not a fetish.

by Anonymousreply 10September 29, 2024 1:20 PM

Maybe a kink

Fetish is a psychological crutch where the person can’t get off without it

by Anonymousreply 11September 29, 2024 2:40 PM

Really tall guys.

by Anonymousreply 12September 29, 2024 2:47 PM

The thing about kinks, if you don't share the kink you will just never understand the attraction they create, don't waste your time trying to figure it out, you just won't get it.

I have a bunch but none of them are obsessive, just likes. Number one is Cowboy Boots, I watched a lot of westerns growing up and had the hots for a lot of TV Cowboys, James West, Marshal Dillion, Heath from The Big Valley, Chuck Connor in the Rifleman, so many I can't name them all but something about a guy in cowboy boots makes him twice as hot as without them. I rarely anyone in real life wearing Cowboy boots so it is mostly pictures on the internet or the occasional video.

by Anonymousreply 13September 29, 2024 10:32 PM

A fetish is sexual desire and sexual satisfaction that is strongly linked to an object or activity or a part of the body other than the sexual organs. For most gay men, the ass is a sexual organ so in general there is no such thing as an ass fetish.

by Anonymousreply 14September 29, 2024 10:36 PM

What r13 describes is a fetish. And a kink, if you consider it so. Cowboy boots are objects, not human. It's very simple.

by Anonymousreply 15September 29, 2024 10:38 PM

Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar

by Anonymousreply 16September 30, 2024 12:09 AM

Feet; they must clean and well groomed.

by Anonymousreply 17September 30, 2024 12:19 AM

Bald bearded dudes.

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by Anonymousreply 18September 30, 2024 12:20 AM

A freshly showered man, wrapped in a white towel, drives me wild!

by Anonymousreply 19September 30, 2024 12:21 AM

r14 strictly speaking, you're referring to partialism rather than a fetish.

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by Anonymousreply 20September 30, 2024 12:21 AM

Jockstraps.

by Anonymousreply 21September 30, 2024 12:31 AM

I like partial jockstraps

by Anonymousreply 22September 30, 2024 12:32 AM

Silver daddies.

by Anonymousreply 23September 30, 2024 12:34 AM

Apparently pedantry is a kink and/or fetish for many of you.

by Anonymousreply 24September 30, 2024 1:08 AM

R20, unless they’re sticking their dick in it in which case there is a focus on their own sexual organs.

by Anonymousreply 25September 30, 2024 3:41 AM

R20 I was quite precise. The ass is a gay male sexual organ. Not a fetish, not partialism. Increasingly the ass is a sexual organ for all sexes and orientations. So I would not consider it partialism. In 2024,

by Anonymousreply 26September 30, 2024 9:50 AM

Piss play, frotting, rimming, incest (brothers in particular).

by Anonymousreply 27September 30, 2024 4:39 PM

Armpits, brotherly incest especially twins (no other kind of incest), and seeing a hot guy eat pussy, bonus points if he's bi/gay. Don't want to do it myself, but seeing it is hot.

by Anonymousreply 28September 30, 2024 4:48 PM

I don't understand the difference between paraphilia and a fetish.

by Anonymousreply 29September 30, 2024 7:09 PM

BNWO

by Anonymousreply 30September 30, 2024 7:22 PM

R29 if ONLY there was a gadget to find such information quickly:

Fetishism is a form of paraphilia, but most people who have fetishism do not meet the clinical criteria for a paraphilic disorder, which require that the person's behavior, fantasies, or intense urges result in clinically significant distress or functional impairment.

by Anonymousreply 31September 30, 2024 7:28 PM

rubber

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by Anonymousreply 32September 30, 2024 7:33 PM

I think we need to clarify the distinctions between "turn-on" and "kink" and "fetish".

by Anonymousreply 33September 30, 2024 7:40 PM

I always wish I had a thing for shoes or feet. So much stimulation, readily available.

by Anonymousreply 34September 30, 2024 7:52 PM

Diving into a pool fully clothed, the more nicely dressed the better. I am shocked a good number of other people online enjoy this, too.

by Anonymousreply 35September 30, 2024 7:57 PM

Hairy, masculine, straight acting porn actors, regardless of the actors actually identifying as gay, bi, or straight, just caving in to their feral desires; kissing deeply, sniffing each others pits and ass, and rimming each other deeply. Important that they both literally inhale musky manly hairy shithole, and each one hungrily plunging their tongues into each other, swapping top/bottom rimming roles repeatedly, sloppily kissing each other throughout.

I do none of this in real life, its just my fav j/o material. Its so elusive though. Also if they do a rimming 69, well at that point I'm basically falling off the chair and shouting in appreciation.

by Anonymousreply 36September 30, 2024 8:16 PM

Hillary Clinton

by Anonymousreply 37September 30, 2024 9:24 PM

Piss play, older men/daddies, being fucked in public or being watched while it's happening.

by Anonymousreply 38September 30, 2024 9:30 PM

Also huge feet, very tall men, married men (I know, but it imprinted on me as a young whippersnapper).

by Anonymousreply 39September 30, 2024 10:13 PM

Nice longish & well trimmed sideburns on a handsome dark haired man. They drive me mad.

by Anonymousreply 40September 30, 2024 10:22 PM

I like to have my pinkies tied together and have oak tag hoisted up a flag pole.

by Anonymousreply 41September 30, 2024 10:27 PM

40-60yo fit guys who own impressive early 20th century modern villas built between the world wars on the Mediterranean Sea.

by Anonymousreply 42September 30, 2024 10:32 PM

BBC, with or without BNWO narrative

by Anonymousreply 43September 30, 2024 11:12 PM

I have certain moods where I really crave some foot worshipping. But only if they're reasonably young, fit guys that take care of themselves and their feet.

by Anonymousreply 44October 20, 2024 12:31 AM

Rimming. Deep and for about 30 minutes.

by Anonymousreply 45October 20, 2024 12:33 AM

Cops

by Anonymousreply 46October 20, 2024 12:35 AM

You mean like goats?

by Anonymousreply 47October 20, 2024 12:43 AM

Cream myself over tasseled loafers.

by Anonymousreply 48October 20, 2024 1:09 AM

Popsicles

by Anonymousreply 49October 20, 2024 1:15 AM

Have I mentioned I like very long and bent boners? It's not a fetish because cocks are part of sexual reproduction and sexual pleasure. I but I find them uncannily exciting. Bent up, down or sideways. There are so many varieties of significantly bent boners.

by Anonymousreply 50October 20, 2024 12:27 PM

R50 They are hot, as long as we're not talking Peyronie's.

by Anonymousreply 51October 20, 2024 7:47 PM

Men in uniform. Dress uniforms not camo. I love the white gloves and shiny shoes.

by Anonymousreply 52October 23, 2024 11:48 PM

You can never have too many white gloves or shiny shoes.

(I do love dress whites.)

by Anonymousreply 53October 24, 2024 12:44 AM

R48 a friend/fuckbud of mine got into a whole fetish with that. He loved certain kinds of dress shoes and black dress socks. Sometimes he'd wait at my door when I got home from work, loosen my tie, and then work on my tasseled loafers or penny loafers, socks and feet. It was hot....for a while, until it became kinda repetitive.

But yes, I get it.

by Anonymousreply 54December 20, 2024 3:00 PM

I love uncut cock porn where the guys play with their foreskins.

by Anonymousreply 55December 20, 2024 3:02 PM

[QUOTE] Eating ass. Licking it. Smelling it. Plunging my tongue into it. Getting it on my rim chair.

Eww!

by Anonymousreply 56December 20, 2024 3:11 PM

Cops, being called the n word while bottoming

Lately rougher sex than usual while topping.

by Anonymousreply 57December 20, 2024 3:16 PM

CNC, consensual non consent, rape and kidnapping fantasies

by Anonymousreply 58December 20, 2024 3:17 PM

I love listening to Sheena Easton

by Anonymousreply 59December 20, 2024 3:28 PM

Bondage...role play. I like tying men up and men tying me up. And, of course, I love gagging men and getting gagged by a man.

It's all about control...trusting a man completely that I'm safe with him or a man trusting me completely that he'll always be safe with me.

I learned many years ago to be honest about what I like and dislike in terms of sex and kink.

As for particular body parts...I do not care about the size of a man's cock...just get it hard. Butts on the other hand drive me crazy. The sight of a man's firm, high, and tight arse...My God! I've died and gone to heaven!

by Anonymousreply 60December 20, 2024 3:34 PM

My gay kryptonite is cute bottoms with Cro Magnon-ish features. Think early-2000s Matthew Lawrence or late-80s Josh Brolin. They almost always have great asses.

by Anonymousreply 61December 20, 2024 4:28 PM

Low effort is my core kink. I love natural bodies and peripheral kinks like gaining, feeding, WS and gooning which all celebrate raw masculinity, unfiltered, unmodified, and unmoderated. I like men’s bodies completely, the smells, the processes, the excretions. And low effort is attractive because I dislike competition and putting forth effort. My greatest sexual desire would be a universe of completely free pleasure where humans share physical affection freely.

by Anonymousreply 62December 20, 2024 4:31 PM

R55 yum!

by Anonymousreply 63December 20, 2024 4:48 PM

R33 = Retired Proofreader

by Anonymousreply 64December 20, 2024 4:49 PM

Water sports and incest (brothers).

by Anonymousreply 65December 29, 2024 3:21 PM

Ann Romano.

by Anonymousreply 66December 29, 2024 3:23 PM

R14 if the ass is an actual sex organ then so are fingers, ears, eyes, arms toes, hair, fist, etc.

We can all have our own truths

by Anonymousreply 67December 29, 2024 3:30 PM

Guys who smoke cigarettes

by Anonymousreply 68December 29, 2024 4:03 PM

Handsome dudes with receding hairlines or full MPB, especially the horseshoe shape. Mustaches and beards. Fit but *slightly* on the plump side.

by Anonymousreply 69December 29, 2024 4:36 PM

r65 let's be friends!

by Anonymousreply 70December 29, 2024 8:58 PM

I like fucking fat guys.

by Anonymousreply 71December 29, 2024 10:04 PM

I love to be whispered in my ear. I get chills and don't want him to stop. I guess that's a kink?

by Anonymousreply 72December 29, 2024 10:39 PM

Hearing other people have sex (not seeing).

Doggy style choke sex.

by Anonymousreply 73December 29, 2024 10:51 PM

FinDom

by Anonymousreply 74December 29, 2024 11:07 PM

Exhibitionism, voyeurism. Bulges, VPL. I love the exact moment a mundane everyday situation becomes sexually charged, but there is nothing you can do about it.

I used to take the E train in NYC to work. I’d get on at 23rd st. and grab a seat. The next stop was 34th street where all the business guys from Long Island and NJ would crowd on. Inevitably you’d get a nice suited bulge right in your face. In flat from khakis. The cock outlines would be so noticeable. Sometimes you knew the guy knew what he was doing. And just by starting at it and him being tuned on by the attention, you’d see his dick twitch up a bit, grow during the ride.

I find a partially exposed body hotter than a naked body.

by Anonymousreply 75December 29, 2024 11:57 PM

R71 Are you thin/muscular?

by Anonymousreply 76December 30, 2024 3:59 PM

This. Oh baby.

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by Anonymousreply 77January 7, 2025 8:36 PM

R3 I was with my boyfriend for almost a year before I figured out he was into dress shoes - especially shiny shoes - and thin nylon socks. He could never confess this to me, and I allowed him this one private area of his life that he could never share. It's definitely not something I'm into.

We're married now and have been together for many years. While I love him, and he's my best friend, I've always known that our sex life has suffered because his masturbatory life with his collection of shoes and socks is so strong. I know he also exchanges pics with other guys who are into this. Nothing X-rated, just pics of their favorite shows and socks. It is sad in a way, but life and relationships are always a compromise.

by Anonymousreply 78January 7, 2025 8:51 PM

CNC I had a buddy who had a house in Jersey. He was also a Dom top. One of us would arrange for a sub to meet us at corner on the far west side of Manhattan. We’d blindfold him and put him in the car to Jersey. He’d service both of us for the rest of the night using both his holes to get us off. After we were done we drop him off in the city, filled with our cum. Sometimes we’d have two subs or another top. My friend moved to Fl but those were of the hottest experiences I ever had.

by Anonymousreply 79January 7, 2025 9:01 PM

R78, don’t feel sad. It might be more common than you think. I think the best relationships end up being between two best friends who haven’t exhausted themselves through sex. It sounds odd, but your situation is mine as well. My husband has a big foot fetish and more violent sub/dom fantasies. He’s into ball busting, stomping, barefeet, etc.. I am not into it at all. I don’t even want to see what he watches. It’s his.

We’ve been together 27 years. He’s my best friend.

by Anonymousreply 80January 7, 2025 9:11 PM

Watching my fat dick sliding into a a round fuzzy butt.

by Anonymousreply 81January 7, 2025 9:34 PM

Starting ESTs on DL.

by Anonymousreply 82January 7, 2025 9:40 PM

Cum. Seeing it shoot. Seeing a guy take it in his body -in his ass or in his mouth. His own, or another man's. I love to see a bit spill out the side of his mouth when his partner has shot so much that he can't contain it all. A cum-soaked foreskin...

by Anonymousreply 83January 7, 2025 10:28 PM

R83 say more!

by Anonymousreply 84January 8, 2025 2:55 PM

I like it when the really fat woman and the skinny woman come to me while I am tied..….

Sorry wrong forum

by Anonymousreply 85January 8, 2025 3:04 PM

Men's hands and wrists.

by Anonymousreply 86January 8, 2025 3:27 PM

Gingers.

by Anonymousreply 87January 8, 2025 3:27 PM

Creating playlists in Apple Music

by Anonymousreply 88January 8, 2025 3:32 PM

I'm so vanilla. A little piss, a little feet/socks.

A little dirty talk and teasing.

by Anonymousreply 89January 8, 2025 3:48 PM

Throwing up

by Anonymousreply 90January 8, 2025 4:06 PM

slam me in the pooper

by Anonymousreply 91January 8, 2025 4:34 PM

Public farting denial

by Anonymousreply 92January 8, 2025 5:04 PM

.....

by Anonymousreply 93January 8, 2025 5:06 PM

Pits.

by Anonymousreply 94January 8, 2025 6:55 PM

Getting underneath alpha men’s desks

by Anonymousreply 95January 8, 2025 7:51 PM

Nipples to the day!

by Anonymousreply 96January 9, 2025 1:33 PM

STDs

by Anonymousreply 97January 9, 2025 7:18 PM

Cumdump gangbangs.

by Anonymousreply 98January 9, 2025 7:48 PM

Dildo Play

by Anonymousreply 99January 9, 2025 8:41 PM

My favorite fetishes were discovered watching the English Teacher on FX - No loads refused cum dump and Reverse Gloryhole.

by Anonymousreply 100January 10, 2025 2:00 PM
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