Sucking

You sound terrible in bed.

I kinda like sucking dick more than fucking. Fucking is only fun if the guy is extremely hot when I top or really knows how to fuck when I bottom. A lot of guys have no rhythm.

I will put on kid gloves and gingerly ask WTF is up with you, OP?

Are you a gay incel?

Are you on the autism spectrum?

Are you mentally handicapped?

ESL?

Are you a troll?

What?

I really don’t care for anal, top or bottom. I am, however, a devoted, swallowing cocksucker. I’m definitely an outlier among gay men, but plenty of guys like me do exist.

In the bedroom, you'll find yourself drawn to the activities you enjoy.

You sound like you're not able to access sexual desire that much. It's OK I guess, there are other ways to be happy in life.

I'm a top and way way back when I was a twink and was new to all of this, I struck out fucking-wise with the first four guys I had sex with. One after the other. Began to think it was a myth propagated by porn, that gay men enjoy getting fucked up the butt, or that they know how to enjoy it at all.

Then I met guy #5. OHH YEAH!

The art of fellatio is something I am particularly adept at. I have driven men to fits of passion resulting in thunderous orgasms in my time. When you can find a man who has never had his prostate milked while receiving expert head you have never seen such wild animalistic lust in a man. It's a beautiful thing.

Im one of those guys that is not really into fucking or kissing, not even into being naked in bed together. All I want is my guy to spread his legs for me and let me suck

The last guy I dated was without a doubt the greatest cocksucker in the world. He lived for swallowing cock, and would keep me on edge for an hour or more before finally taking me over the edge and sucking out my cum as if it were liquid gold. I've been with more men than I care to enumerate, and he was truly god's gift to fellatio.

In all ways I am a lousy cocksucker.

I don't like it and I'm bad at it. I am thrilled so many guys are so into it because a great blowjob is the best thing in the world!

Sucking cock is like a sacrament to me. The textures, the aromas, the tastes, the moans, the balls slapping your chin, the power imbalance when they occasionally hold the back of your head and skull fuck you, the aroma of his musky balls and the occasional saltiness from sweat, the ever building urgency, the precum, and then the salty sweet jets of cum onto your tongue throat when he nuts, the spongy glans in your mouth and the twitching of the shaft as he slowly softens again. Yup, I was born to suck cock.

I like getting rimmed. So great. I would never rim people myself though.

God bless you, r11.

Oral sex is the best. I hate anal giving and receiving.

There's nothing better than sucking the proverbial chrome off the bumper of a man. It's better than getting fucked (at least these day). Though I love that too.

The guy I am seeing is a top, but he's not really into fucking all that much. And I'm mid 40s so no one wants my eldergay ass, anyway. But my mouth is still rearing to go.

So I just blow him. Every chance I get. When we wake up, if he wants it. When he gets home from work, if he wants it. In the shower, if he wants it. Whenever he asks, I'm ready.

I can come in two seconds sucking him off. He seems to love that. I know I do. His dick is perfection too. Big and thick.

We're both very happy with our sex life.

Quit projecting your illiterate limitations on us and seek professional help, Otis.

I love receiving BJs, hate giving them. Too much fucking effort for too little payoff.

I love to suck a big cock and I love to get mine sucked, too. It is also hard for me to contain my ejaculation when he starts to lick and suck my balls with his tongue and mouth.

"We wouldn't be caught dead with men. Rough, hairy beasts! Eight hands. And they...they all just want one thing from a girl."

Daphne, and half of DL

I’ve always been a devoted oralist. I received more than I provided as a youth. As an eldergay, I provide much more than I receive. There are more of us than the community at large realizes. Not everyone is into anal, maybe not even the majority of gay/bi men.

Boo! Boo!

Never a fan of anal, have never bottomed and topped once — not a thrill for either of us. My spouse does an amazing job and I’m on the smaller side so he can handle it nicely. He has a big one that I enjoy the feeling of but he doesn’t get off on being sucked. His biggest thrill is a hand job which can be fun if you’re inventive!

I love to do it. Frankly, I wish I were better at it, but I have an aggressive gag reflex.

I hooked up with this guy once, bit of a sub, I went to his, stripped down, I’m 6’2”, all muscle in a speedo and he was on his knees slurping and sucking on my cock for about two hours, licking my scrotum. I know he wanted me to fuck him so bad but I told him he wasn’t worthy, needed to do more squats. Eventually I came all over his face. No reciprocation at all.

There are some guys, and I’ve met a few of them, who just love sucking and choking on your cock. They’re kind of amazing.

OP, are you able to spell?

My boyfriend is a top. He doesn’t suck. He doesn’t bottom. He fucks MY ass and I suck him off. He doesn’t really care if I organ am at all. I get him off and enjoy his orgasam as if it were my own.

OP, there really is nothing left to be said - R1 nailed it. I'm guessing you don't get many second or third dates.

Ugh, op. No wonder younger generations are having less sex. You sound positively dreadful

Frankly OP, I draw the line at getting blown by someone who doesn't know the difference between "cos" and "because".

"Cos" is a lettuce.

My cat’s name is Coz

If I know we’re going to fuck later then the cock sucking I do is just a part of the foreplay.

Occasionally, with a guy that only wants oral, I can get into the cock sucker mindset and go for an hour or more, but it’s seldom I want to do that .

I could never date a guy that didn’t want to fuck ever. That is, as my grandmother would say, driving a car and never going in reverse.

[quote]If I know we’re going to fuck later then the cock sucking I do is just a part of the foreplay.

Does it skeeve anyone else out that it's fairly common in pron to suck on a cuck that is still slimy from having fucked someone?

I mean, I like sucking cock, but I'd barf if I smelled dirty ass.

Ass-to-mouth is an instant boner killer. 🤮

Giving head has always been my favorite. I think it’s because I was a premature ejaculator well into my 40s. A few second after a guy put his mouth on my dick, I shot. It was embarrassing. I became a gifted cocksucker. If that was the entree, I timed my ejaculation to just after he came in my mouth. Win-win. For most of my life, I was a proto-top — I sucked and I fucked. I avoided getting head.

In the past five years or so, I’ve learned to control my ejaculation when getting blown. So much so that I rarely cum from it. Really the only time I do is when we 69, especially if he gives me a long lead time to orgasm. Then I can shoot just before he does. Sadly, I’m very tall and finding guys who can 69 with me is rare.

But, yeah, I’m one of those guys who absolutely loves sucking dick. (Provided he has showered, washed his ass, and doesn’t spoil it with demands to lick his nuts.)

Most men suck and very well.

If he was referring to you, R29, maybe he meant “cooze”.

I wouldn’t do ass to mouth.

I love eating ass.

[quote]I love kissing and pits and I have great sensitive nipples.

So you don’t like sucking or fucking or dick in general it seems but you like armpits.

Do you know in general what gay and bi men who only sucked cock and who never did anal and who lived during the 70s 80s and beyond might likely be called today?

Eldergays

The only thing I don't quite understand is bottom whores who just like to suck and don't care that much about getting off themselves. One friend will just jerk off later to porn most of the time. Not even with the guy he's hooking up with. And he's out doing this constantly. I confess I always feel a bit awkward if the bottom doesn't cum somehow during our playtime.

Sucking is a bit of foreplay. It's not the destination, just s bit of something that happens along the way. I like sucking and getting sucked, but if that's all there is to the sex, I would have to be very hard up to consider crossing the street for a blowjob.

I'm in the "I love sucking cock camp" of posters here. Seeing a stiff dick standing up at attention? Yea, I'm down on my kees and will start by dragging tongue up the shaft. I want the head in my mouth, slide down, see if I can get down to his bush. When I stop doing that, I'm gonna lick your hairy balls... you should fuck my face too, holding the back of my head, make me gag. Love it.

Oh, and this is mutual... that man better get on his kness and work my meat.

I don’t travel as much as I once did but IME you don’t see glory holes in public places in the great numbers you once saw them. At one time they flourished in great numbers.

In the 60s and 70s when out working, shopping, just walking, etc you were normally never more than a few minutes from a GH where you would find a cock sucker waiting to relieve your days pressures and stress.

A generation of men spent hours a week , some hours a day , sitting on the other side of those holes ready to suck one and all providing a public service to everyone with a penis.

A more innocent time

My experience has been the opposite. I like sucking a dick more than anything and it seems to me most gay guys feel the same and don't love being sucked off. (I am one who it doesn't do much for.)

When I was young in the late 90s and met guys on the burgeoning Internet, many of the guys considered themselves to be straight men and more than a few were married.

I felt guilty about that to an extent, but hormones controlled me in my late teens and early 20s, and I reasoned that a guy simply getting sucked off wasn't a terrible violation of marital trust—possibly not even as bad as making out with another person.

And nothing has ever really turned me on more than a guy lying or sitting back with his hands behind his head and feeding me his dick.

R45 rest easy friend. For most of those straight married guys getting a blow job in the park or at a Macy’s Glory Hole is not much different than jacking off. It’s just an easy way to come and a mouth that feels good. You need not over think this or feel guilty.

R45 My goodness! Surely polite society was never so depraved!

OP here. Your answers are quite eye opening and I think we need to talk more about sex that isnt seen as the norm. So many young gays just seem to advertise that they want to Suck or be fucked, and thats it. Someone said above that I probably dont get 2nd or 3rd dates and thats true. But its not likr I try and get turned down either. I guess I kind 9f want what might be called the bofriend experience. Making out watching tv...slowly moving to the bedroom and undressing the guy, kissing him all over; holding up hos arms and diving into his pits. When hes someone who wants to just fuck or suck me off my mind has actually wandered at times...thinking of chores ive to do. I guess I like equality in sex; that back and forth passionate play. But I love your feedback, thank you. Its great to see many who dislike rimming etc.

R48

“…more about sex that is not seen as the norm”

On DL that amounts to the “ have you ever fucked a female” threads

I haven’t done anal since the 90s, when I had a very bad scare when a condom broke. Waiting for the test results was a horrific experience. I had lost some good friends, and dozens of acquaintances had died. I was petrified.

I haven’t been inclined to start doing anal again (I’d need three weeks’ notice and a crowbar), so oral is my preferred activity now. I’m rather good at it.

R50, you were raised right.

I like to do it but I don't think I'm good at it. One guy told me to open my mouth wide...I always thought you have to suck it like a vacuum cleaner

I'm not into anal that much (and when I do it, I'm a bottom) but I love to rim and give oral to another guy - provided he's very masculine and in shape / somewhat muscled.

Usually, I let them sit back fully clothed (especially my friends if they profess to be straight), with me nude on my knees in front of them. I slowly unzip them and reveal their flaccid dick (best when they're flaccid). It turns me on when I feel them getting hard in my mouth - then I pull away and start rubbing with one hand while I start removing his pants with the other - incredibly erotic. Meanwhile, I look at his handsome face which always has a smile on it and his eyes are closed. I go back to sucking for another minute or so, then I stop to remove his shirt for him. Now we're both fully naked, and here I am on my knees admiring this beautiful muscled guy in front of me. I go back to sucking and use my hands to rub all of his chest and arms. Best part is seeing him so relaxed and comfortable, with his head thrown back and he's moaning in pleasure.

Within 30 minutes or so, I tell him to move over to the bed where he can lay on his stomach so I can rim him (provided he cleaned himself thoroughly before we met up).. Watching this fine physique get up from the chair (or sofa) and walk to the bed with his cock pointing to the celling is a sight to behold. While rimming him, I usually come myself. There are times when I try to hold back so we can come together. After about 15 minutes of rimming I ask him to flip back over on his back - and continue on the cock. Within minutes he's ready to shoot his load, but I don't want it in my mouth so I pull it out and let him shoot all over my face / chest while I'm kneeling over him. If I still need to come, I shoot all over him. It's a beautiful experience.

Then we head to the shower and 99% of the time - especially when I'm with a straight friend - he will let me know I'm much better than his girlfriend / wife. No kidding ? They can't get their girlfriends to 'go down' on them, and if they do - it's for five minutes or so. Forget rimming their fine ass - women won't do it. It's fun showering with him, as well - soaping up his muscles.

The only thing that straight men won't do (and a number of gay men) is kiss. I love to kiss at the very end, and they won't - if they do, it's closed mouth kiss on the lips, or a peck on the cheek. (Though more straight guys are getting into kissing on my neck - but nor further).

I'm PETRIFIED of LIPODYSTROPHY and AIDS!!! My holes slammed shut 4 decades ago so I'm still alive!!!

DL lemon party.

[quote] or trys

Oh, dear.

[quote] to manouvre

Oh, dear!

It sounds like you have a healthy diet, R50.

I miss sucking, a lot. It's been a decade since I last did it. I have a wonderful partner and this just isn't in the mix for us, we do other things that we like and he likes. And in any case, my preferred methods of finding willing dicks to be drained have all gone by the wayside; I have no patience for 1,467, 836 messages to negotiate a simple slurp session with some neurotic Gen Z'er. Paradoxically - it seemed more easy to access when it was all underground or not splashed all over every app.

I loved it. It really did feel natural and instinctive to me, from the very first time. The taste of a man's cock, feeling it get hard in my mouth, feeling it pulsate when he shot his load, hearing his deep voice and bearing witness to the sounds he made as he filled my mouth and my senses......just really beautiful. I had the usual shame about it - both general shame of the era, and the fact that I often met men in casual ways like cruising a restroom or the like - but as I get older all of that has dropped away, and I just remember now how really beautiful it was to experience that on a regular basis with some truly beautiful men.

Many of the men I met when I was younger were married - or publicly identified as straight - and they always seemed to be appreciative and full of praise for my technique. Early on I remember a guy telling me that too many cocksuckers focus on the head and ignore the underside of a man's cock, so I really try to work my tongue on the underside of the shaft. I've had several guys tell me how great that was, and how I was the first person who sucked them off *and* made them cum. I'm sure my steady diet of married men and more mature men left a "daddy" imprint on me that's stuck with me. Eh, it is what it is.

Yes, of course we don't all get the jackpot perfect experience every time. I've had my shared of guys that I had to apologize and nope out of playing around with - mostly hygiene issues, but once in a while too drunk or too fucked up to perform. But looking back - it amazes me how often I was able to experience beautiful moments with a guy.

[quote]Ok, ive never been one to willingly go down on a guy; I do it if he wants it or trys to manouvre me there, but I always thought it was something you did the least you could get away with.

Oh, so YOU'RE the guy I've been picking up for the last 20 years!

[quote]I would have to be very hard up to consider crossing the street for a blowjob.

I would cross the 405 freeway for a blowjob.

R57,

Practice makes perfect. I should have said that I love being sucked too, but so many guys are hopelessly bad at it. The number of times my cock has been shredded by sharp teeth…

Someone should open an academy so young or newly out gay men can learn some basics. It’s a gap in the market!

[quote] Someone should open an academy so young or newly out gay men can learn some basics.

They have. It’s called NYU.

[quote]My boyfriend is a top. He doesn’t suck.

He could never be my boyfriend. A top who sucks cock (and every other part of my body), that's the only kind of top worth having.

My bf doesn’t like dick. He’s a top.

[quote]My bf doesn’t like dick. He’s a complete and total failure as a homosexual.

Fixed.

My bf isn’t gay.

[quote]But my mouth is still rearing to go.

I’ll bet your mouth is raring to go, too.

You can talk until you’re blue. I hate micro meat.

I got to suck/swallow some nice cock this afternoon and I got to shoot a week's worth of cum down the man's throat... nice way to close a Sunday afternoon.

Have a blessed filthy cocksucker's day, R69.

How to get teeth out of the way?

Do you like hands or no hands

[quote]Do you like hands or no hands

If you can't deep throat, the hand is essential. And even if you can, hands provide extra pleasure.

Yup you all suck here

I love to pleasure my man

You must be a boring lay.

[quote]How to get teeth out of the way?

Meth.

sucked any good cock lately? how do you rate yourself as a cocksucker? are you good or bad? how do you know you are bad?

I'm the lousiest gay, I hate sucking.

r11 = Miss Lindz

There's a lot of lead in the water on this thread.

OP sounds like a frustrated, confused, Baptist housewife somewhere in the American South. She’s finally reaching out, bless me.

This thread is making me want to go out and suck a dick.

R83, you should!

Tell me, how do you like yours sucked? do you like hands or no hands?

I suppose no hands, r84. I also want the guy to look at me while he's doing it.

There’s a gay site / app called the blowers that’s geared towards oral encounters. Worth checking out. It’s also review based (they call them testimonials) so it’s like yelp for head 😂

Ah Jesus, OP, you agitated the wrong crowd. DL is filled with threads about posters who love sucking but nothing more, who think anyone who doesn't go apeshit for a blowjob (and nothing else) is quite insane,

I'm okay with giving and getting blowjobs, but 99 times out of 100 I probably wouldn't walk across the street to swap blowjobs with even the handsomest of men (by my own standards.) It's just a bit of foreplay for me.

Who keeps bumping all these old, stupid threads - and why?

Sucking dick is one of life's most satisfying pleasures.

Sucking is so much better than fucking.

I'm gay. I love sucking cock. I love everything about it... I'll work the head of a stiff dick, use my tongue on his piss slit. I want to swallow the whole head/shaft, get down to this pubes. When I come up for air, I'm gonna lick his hairy nuts. I'll drag my tongue up his shaft and start all over.

I love it when I stop working his meat and seeing it covered. glistening in spit.

If you want to fuck my face, please do. Hold the back of my head na pump away.

And yea, I want my cock worked the same way... and you better look up at me when on your knees.

Oh and shoot your fuckin load. Leave it on my chest I'll give you a facial or shoot my spunk down your throat.

R88: “ Who keeps bumping all these old, stupid threads - and why?”

If you are interested in a topic and start a new thread, then some asshole like you will come along and post 4 other active threads from the last 15 years on the same topic. If they were fewer cunts like you on DL, then maybe this wouldn’t happen as much. But you have out-cunted yourself.

Cunt

I was very prudish with what I'd do as a teen, but the impulse to get on my knees in front of a hot guy was definitely there before the time I was 14. I just didn't act on it until I was older.

Thanks for bumping! I could talk about cocksucking all day, every day. Same as actually sucking cock, all day, every day. Fewer opportunities, unfortunately. Not everyone appreciates a skilled mouth.

r92 Calm down and suck my dick.

Please?

That's a good tip, eye contact....I will try that, usually I'm concentrating on the cock

I LOVED sucking cock back in the day.