Did you ever have sex with a woman?

Fuck no! No fuck!

Nope

I'm jealous of guys who stayed away from pussy. I did it a few times in my early years and it was like swallowing food I didn't like just because I was hungry.

It was terrible, all warm and moist. I still have nightmares about it.

I came close, but ultimately it didn't happen. I was in a three-way with a husband and wife. I sucked him, he sucked me. I kissed and played with her tits, played with her pussy, but no penetration. I wanted to, but the husband didn't want me to go through with it.

I was married for 25 years to a woman. Had two kids. Used to get her rocks off by licking her clit. During period time the blood would flow down my chin onto the bed. Never cheated.

On year 26, I figured out I was gay. I switched partners and been married to a guy for 30 years. Much happier now.

Dated a woman for two years, and yes we had tons of sex. It was great. She would usually have many orgasms and we would last a long time. Often she would squirt heavily, probably more than I’ve seen in most porn videos. It’s all a distant memory now.

NEVER

Going off R6 there was period sex as well.

I was fingering my girlfriend in the 7th grade and feeling all studly …. Until it was brought to my attention that I was fingering her belly button. I gave up on the poon right then and there.

Is this the sex where the softer man go up into the woman and then later go to the bathroom at the mall?

Nope.

The bisexual men I know and have been with all have said the same thing - sex with a guy is so much better.

R11 Yes that’s exactly how it works. If you don’t cheat with a woman you can’t get her pregnant so it’s a win-win.

[quote] The bisexual men I know and have been with all have said the same thing - sex with a guy is so much better.

They’re lying.

I only had sex with 4 or 5 women and hundreds if not thousands of men. I had to fluff myself before sex with women because I just wasn't feeling anything. During that time, I was married for several years and didn't have to fluff myself with her after the first time. We had plenty of sex but I never really experienced romantic sex until I was with a man. Sex with a woman was hot but not emotional. I wish I had never felt the pressure to be with a woman but I did.

Never.

The very idea makes me nauseous.

Still have my gold star.

Dr. Eve, I am trying to participate in my own recovery.

I thought I replied to this but 🤷

I have once, it wasn't for me and didn't stick. Her husband enjoyed the situation though.

PLATINUM star gay here! Beat that!

What's platinum?

Born by C-section

I guess we're at the Olympics now.

R10 You made me laugh out loud.

this thread especially R6 is making me physically nauseous. Cunt blood flowing down your chin? 🤮🤮🤮

I think I'd be one of those straight guys who just pumps away, oblivious to her except as a hand rest. Then cums and jumps up looking for his shorts.

Eeeew

R6 How ...VIVID.

When I was in my early twenties, I was raped by my best friend's wife. She was drunk at the time and came to my apartment. My roommate let her in, and she went directly to my bedroom (I was asleep). When I realized what was happening, I tried to push her off, but I quickly realized that I would be forced to hurt her really badly in order to stop the assault, so I just let it happen. When she finished, she just got up and left.

I don't know how her husband found out, but I suspect she told him. He never spoke with me again. To this day, I remain guilt-ridden that I should have done more. I lost a wonderful friend.

And for those who say that this kind of rape can't happen, I'm living proof that it can!

R29 it sucks you had your cherry popped by a woman.

One of my fantasies when I was younger was to be raped orally by a man.

R29 how did you stay hard?

#29, did you curl-up in a fetal position and go to your 'happy place'?

I’d like to hear more, r6. I, for one, got my red wings when I was only 14.

Once.

Ghastly.

Yup, a lot in my teens, it set me back fro coming out

Only once in high school did I make out with a woman, including a little over the sweater. At the end of it she asked if I was gay.

Yes. I’m in my fifties. Started experimenting 4 years ago. I think I get harder fucking pussy.

I’m good at giving them orgasms.

One time . Once was enough ,sorry Jacqueline Suzanne. ( No offense to my DL womyn and lesbians)

I'm a gold star. But, I'm curious. If, some other attractive guy was with me I think I could perform

Eww. No way! But, seriously I doubt I ever could. Never even fantasized about it. I've had a few pretty women come on to me. There is nothing about a woman and the way she looks as a turn on to me. So .. I guess that makes me a gold star heterosexual woman? Strictly dickly for this gal.

She was pissing on you R7 not “squirting”

She lost control of something, clearly.

Between unrelenting heteronormativity and sexual fluidity being everywhere in gay porn, it's a miracle that sex with a woman isn't something that the government requires every gay man to perform.

Personally, I'm glad that I've escaped the pussy parade. I'm sure the orifice does the job admirably, but the drama attached to it is not worth it.

Have I!

R37, so are you officially converted, as in Exgay? You're really no longer gay anymore?

Not surprised to see how many gay men are revolted by the idea of a pussy.

It is revolting, why the fuck would I be gay and pro-pussy. Get it the fuck away from me. Stop trying to fucking convert me

This whole thread is very Project 2025/Trumpist.

No. I've never been sexually attracted to women and I was very quiet in my teen years which gave me a cover not to date girls back then.

I would have made an exception for Nigella Lawson, but that was a very safe choice since I knew it was never going to happen.

I’ve had vaginal intercourse with about 5 female massage therapists where one thing led to another.

R51, so you're not gay then?

Gold star gay. And no, even if the guy was hot AF, I wouldn't do a three way with a woman. I'd honestly just excuse myself to the bathroom and jack off.

A few times. I actually didn't mind it. I was young, so a strong breeze got me hard. I still feel like a pussy feels better then a bussy.

R29, same thing happened to me! I went to Atlanta with a good friend and stayed at his friend’s house.

I slept on the sofa sleeper and woke to the Atlanta friend riding my cock. It was surreal. Except we went out after that. And it’s easy to get a guy in his 20s hard in his sleep.

Hell, 50s here and I still wake up hard.

Funny how you never hear of women getting charged with rape..

R54, that so homophobic, are you even gay?

I have yodeled in the gully, it was not my best time, and no you homo gays it doesn't smell like fish, it smells like raw ground beef! You know, when you split that package open and get that first wif... That's it.

You motherfuckers think you are so much better with your internalized homophobia, that you are so much better than truly gay men. Well fuck you asswipes, you all deserve a fucking a punch in the face, like you fucking advertising for vagina is such a cure for the gays. I truly despise each and everyone of you Project 2025 assholes. FUCK YOU, go back to fucking bitches and lead the straight life you crave so much. This thread was either started by 1) A FRAU 2) A GAY 2 STRAIGHT conversion therapy fetishist, like those twitter accounts that promote the exgay life. Why the fuck would I want to come to Datalounge and read about sex with a fucking woman? Are you serious?

R58, what the fuck is a "homo" gay? You're either gay or not.

Nope, never had the slightest desire. But strangely enough I love watching hetero porn (as long as the guys are hot).

R59 You have serious rage issues. You're def one to avoid at all costs.

R58 thank you, it is worse than I thought then, now I’m going to have nightmares

Nope, no, nada. I made out with chicks a bit in high school, but it did nothing for me. I sucked my first dick in junior year, and never looked back.

If it’s good enough for Rock Hudson it’s good enough for me!

“What’s a woman?”

I love women! I absolutely adore vagina!

A few of these posts are terrific fiction and belong in Penthouse forum or the like.

I did. I was completely idiotic about my sexuality.

It was mortifying. I had an erection going in but lost it during sex. But I thought intensely about a guy and kept my eyes closed and had an orgasm although flaccid. She was very upset.

This was in the early 80s. There was no internet and no social media. I wonder if younger people know what it was like before you could look everything up, and make instant connections with other like-minded people.

Yes. She was so wet that it was like fucking a glass of warm water.

I have to say the wetness and the fit wasn’t at all unpleasant. How do I explain this?

It’s like going to a great theater with comfortable seats and amazing food, but then the movie starts and it’s a horror movie and you don’t like horror movies, you like comedies, so you pretend to enjoy the movie because the seats are comfortable and your personal pizza is tasty — but the whole time you’re looking away from the movie.

I'm GAGGING!

Gary talked r5 out of it.

Like R20, I'm a platinum gay and harbor no regrets or curiosity.

No. Never.

Yes, and similar stories to others. Everything about it felt wrong. I struggled to stay hard. I felt like I was going to hurt my partners. I didn’t know what to do with any of the parts. It was the best possible confirmation that I am gay. Gay sex was mostly easy from my first time on.

r62, you're just a damn homophobe, you can fuck off!!

[quote] I love women! I absolutely adore vagina!

Of course you do, you're a lezzer.

It’s fine if people were confused and fucked some pussy. And it’s also fine if some people weren’t “born this way” and changed teams later. It’s not a contest!

I might try a FTM just to see what the big deal is.

R80: that lucky boy/girl!

This topic always seems to bring out the unhinged. I'm looking at you R59.

I have. Straight sex feels remarkably like gay sex.

No, it doesn’t.

I dunno, am I the only guy who feels complete indifference rather than disgust? I appreciate the aesthetics of a beautiful female body, but feel zero sexual interest or lust.

R37, fucking has little to do with a woman’s orgasm. I’m guessing you’re never had sex with a female.

R83 = Nick Fuentes

r86 They get stimulated by the man's pubic bone pressing against the clit. I've heard women complain about men staying too far away. There's also g-spot stimulation similar to the prostate. It's like when I'm riding a top I can get off by rubbing my frenulum against his stomach.

Please, R88. Unless you’re very tiny and am able to vibrate like a machine, no one is getting clit stimulation from your or anyone’s pubic bone. Don’t count on the alleged g-spot either.

The vagina was made for dick. It self lubricates and its muscles milk the penis. Of course people love fucking it. You can fuck ass all you want but it isn’t made for dick. Saying that ass feels better than pussy is ridiculous.

R90 has never heard about the hotdog/hallway phenomenon.

Vaginas just because they are meant to be penetrated for direct copulation and insemination does not mean that they can induce a feeling of pleasure. Mouths are far more pleasant than any saggy slimy uterus can ever be.

This thread has somehow turned unscientific.

Humans are animals and evolved to procreate. The vagina is the perfect receptacle for the penis.

We gays are a rounding error, biologically. But it doesn’t mean that ass ain’t gold.

R80, because you're fakegay?

R93 humans have the structure and the cognitive faculties to choose either direct or indirect insemination . Humans arms can reach our genitalia unlike any other living creature on earth. Humans are evolutionarily close similar to octopus species where they can inseminate via direct copulation or far way from the females .

We have the structure, the faculty and the intelligence to use our hand to extract the insemination fluid from whithin our bodies and distribute it among many females as we want, even shipping it by mail, and even using it after we are dead to become father.

Therefore, the idea that human males in order to copulate have to insert their penis on an vigina is a dumb philosophical concept peddled by moralist and religious nuts.

r59 you're overdue for your meds.

[quote]This thread has somehow turned unscientific.

Ya think?

R96, and you're a fakegay piece of shit.

R90 here we go another homophobe.

R79, shut the fuck up homophobe.

And god forbid you forget to put down a towel, somebody sleeps in the wet spot, it's that copious with slick pussy juice, forget smegma, it's Niagara Falls instead.

Why not screw both?

Probably because not everyone is bisexual like you, R102? I don't have any issue with bisexual people beyond the fact that I don't want to have anything to do with them, but the "it's normal for gay men to actively seek to have both sex and relationships with women" brigade is becoming EXTREMELY tiresome. The fact that you have a preference for men or feel more at ease among the gay community, doesn't make you gay if well, you are not. This obsession with foisting your sexuality upon the rest of us and demanding that we alter our very composition to accommodate your own needs, is downright homophobic and VERY disrespectful.

If you want to create spaces for bisexual people go out and fight to develop them, but don't hide behind the gay rights movement and then, demand that we change to suit your needs. Moreover, the word gay refers to men who are exclusively attracted to other men. If that isn't the case with you, you don't have a right to dictate what homosexuality and its ancillary gay identity are, or how they ought to be expressed. These terms and experiences do not belong to you and you don't fully share them with the rest of us, so look for your own spaces and stop trying to subvert what we are and our reality to fit your own regressive, unhealthy and restrictive views.

With that said, I will get off my soapbox and let the entertaining fight continue.

Gold Star Gay, baby!

r103 needs a good dicking.

Absolutely not!

I am a lady, not a lesbian.

'Humans arms can reach our genitalia unlike any other living creature on earth."

R95 needs to go back to school. He's never heard of monkeys and apes?

No, gold star gay at 64..but, as earlier poster mentioned, I sometimes love to watch straight porn of the guys are really hot.

R108 I've done that too....I mean, I liked looking at Hustler as a teenager but it wasn't for the vag. I always had a few str8 porn DVDs around in my single days.....always helpful if a str8 drunk friend stopped by, but also hot to jerk to, too.

R92 I’m disturbed that you think straight men fuck the uterus.

R87, and what do you know about giving women orgasms?I've fucked 25 of women and should know better than you.

R103, thank you for doing the lord's work and explaining to these pathetic fools, why this is a sore subject. How many of the fakegay pornstars have made a fortune being gay in porn and now all of a sudden their bisexual? AFTER they establish themselves as performers, get notoriety and money. Then it's "Oh guys I discovered how much I love women now."

No, but I spooned with a hunchback. Somehow, it was easier.

Yep. With my girlfriend at 15 (first time and I was awful), then seduced by a straight couple at 20 and ended up dating the wife who left her husband for me (not my choice, finally told her I was gay) and did 69 with a beautiful lady in an orgy on ludes when I was in my 20s. I felt nothing each time but tried to be good for their sake. Even as an out gay I was a lousy lay (or at least thought I was). I had no interest in dick but loved to fuck. Still, I knew I was gay from a young age.

Thanks for sharing R114. You're a vivid example of the complexity of sexual orientation and sexual behavior.

To R50, I had the same reaction to Nigella Lawson when I met her in 2010 in London.

BTW, great cook too.

Phillywhore, you were actually going to FUCK Nigella Lawson?? So you're not gay?

[quote]Phillywhore, you were actually going to FUCK Nigella Lawson?? So you're not gay?

If you've been attracted to thousands of men and one or two women and could never have a relationship with a woman, can you even consider yourself bisexual? Remember that straight people get to have same-sex crushes too and still consider themselves straight. Many people have one or two "exceptions."

Given the choice of having sex with Harvey Weinstein or Charlize Theron, I'm not sure who I'd choose (fortunately, that scenario will never materialize).

Never had sex with a woman and had no desire. Can appreciate a beautiful woman the way one would enjoy a fine old master painting.

I'm really into older guys 55 and up and the hottest guys of that age range do straight porn, so I enjoy that by looking at those men. With their natural "dadbods" often they are much hotter to me than the older buff guys in gay porn. And all of them are hotter than 97% of the guys on Older4Me, who are total trolls with missing teeth...many of those guys do straight porn as well.

One studio that specializes in young girls with older men has an older dad who looks like Tim Walz (seriously) with a furry grey chest and nips of death - Natural, dark meaty gumdrops. In one of his films the girl started playing with them while sucking his dick and I shot super hard. I soooo wish he made a video fucking a twink, but I've never seen one.

R93 = INCEL

R118, how the fuck would you even be gay? A relationship has nothing to do with it. Straight men look to bang out a woman all the time with no thoughts of a relationship. You physically desire a woman's body and banging away to orgasm, it's not as if you're not feeling anything, it 's a sexual encounter you the man want or wanted, it's not man lust, it's woman/female lust with her FEMININE secondary sex characteristics. You're balls deep, taking pleasure in pussy, taking pleasure in breasts, kissing the woman right? You're bringing all the pleasure and fulfillment and passion a straight guy would in your "exception." But you're fucking gay? Of course you would be bisexual. What are you thinking?

R121: you're too hung up on labels and categories. The only thing that matters at the end of your life is who your long-term relationships have been with. My strongest emotional loyalties have always lied, and will always lie, with men. If I can name two women in the entire world whom I wouldn't kick out of bed and that makes me "only" 95% gay, so be it. I don't know why the idea of bisexual tendencies bring out such anger and aggression in you.

Re-read your own post (from upthread) and wonder whether it's really worth getting this worked up about:

[quote]You motherfuckers think you are so much better with your internalized homophobia, that you are so much better than truly gay men. Well fuck you asswipes, you all deserve a fucking a punch in the face, like you fucking advertising for vagina is such a cure for the gays. I truly despise each and everyone of you Project 2025 assholes. FUCK YOU, go back to fucking bitches and lead the straight life you crave so much. This thread was either started by 1) A FRAU 2) A GAY 2 STRAIGHT conversion therapy fetishist, like those twitter accounts that promote the exgay life. Why the fuck would I want to come to Datalounge and read about sex with a fucking woman? Are you serious?

Kinda, sorta. I hosted a boys night when I was 14. Four guy friends came to our house, we swam late, ordered pizzas, and set up sleeping bags on the enclosed front porch. We had a few bottles of cherry vodka (!!) and late night talk about sex, around 3AM. Out of nowhere, a 16 year old girl with a reputation as being easy appeared. One friend invited her in and we ended up lying around with hard-ons and her offering her "services." I knew full well I was gay and had already had oral sex with a few boys, but I wasn't going to spoil the mood. She was kissing one of the guys and she knelt over my face. I stuck my tongue in her pussy and was actually getting into it, since one of the guys started jerking me off.

I must have hit a good spot when she suddenly shifted and my tongue ended up in her poop chute. I pushed her off me, probably three feet into the air, and ran to puke. She screamed, and a minute later Dad turned on the porch light. The guys "cherry vodka will do that to you."

That was my brush with sex with a female.

*The guys scattered into their sleeping bags and Dad shook his head and said "cherry vodka will do that to you."

R121's rage might subside a bit if he figures out why he's so invested in being a (somewhat rare--extremes are statistically rare) Kinsey 6 and gets extremely upset when others--complete strangers--whose sexual needs don't align 100% with his own claim the same label/identity. I have empathy for anyone who had to struggle and made a lot of sacrifices to come out (due to family, culture, or whatever) and whose view of the world and other people has been affected as a result, but this is supposed to be a lighthearted board. The idea of having sex with a female is little more than a thought experiment for many posters here anyway.

r6 you nasty

95% gay is still bisexual. I hope you know this. Why is so fucking hard to find a homo guy? This community is constantly bringing up heterosexuality,pussy this, fuck that shit, wasn't there actually a time when gay men where actually GAY, as a homo? If you don't understand how someone DOES NOT WANT A FUCKING WOMAN IN ANY WAY SHAPE FORM TIME, etc then who is? If you have some raging sexual encounter with a female, you are BISEXUAL. You are lusting after a woman at some point in time, you're not fucking GAY. How the hell are you presenting an argument that you're in a relationship with a man and physically fucking a female behing your husband's back. But you wanna tell me you're gay. While your balls deep in a woman, GTFOH. When you turn down a female that approaches you, OK I'll buy it. There's too much bisexual pretending in this so-called "gay" community.

R127: you're raging against a quirk of nature, something people have no control over. Fact: the majority of people are not 100% one way or the other. Straight people will talk and laugh about their "boy crushes" and "girl crushes" and erotically tinged (though rarely consummated) friendships. Do you feel the same hatred towards them for having their cake and eating it too? You can congratulate yourself on being a perfect, platinum-star-with-a-ribbon gay man; just accept that that's not everybody's experience, and that's fine. You and I will never meet and will never date, but I would certainly never lie to you about my sexual past. You, though, seem positively seething with anger.

R128 I think that what he is saying is that you should not identify as gay but as a bisexual man. The problem is that you think in terms of like or dislike/ love or not etc, all emotions that you feel and try to describe, but they are just that, emotions. What he means is arousal. Gays do not feel arousal with body parts that are not the same as their own. It is not a matter of when and if, it is point blank, zero arousal at all. Those “gays” who have had experiences with women and that have been able to get aroused, even though they would rather prefer a male for the occasion, are in for a dose of reality about themselves, that they are not the full fledged gays they thought they were. They are bisexuals. And 95% of real gays , do not, and can not get arousal with any limb, appendages, scent and flavors from a woman. This is something that I have found that boggles the mind of many so called bisexuals who claim that sexuality is fluid. In gays, it is 100% not.

Congratufuckinglations, gold star ideologues. You are pure AND boring.

College. Senior year.

The next night I went out drinking with a bunch of guys and was lauded as some kind of hero.

A guy I looked up to, a real big brother type, but this one I had ZERO sexual attraction to, championed me as "the one amongst us who most recently got laid" and I lifted my arms up in victory.

It was like I was outside of myself watching the thing; years later, I wondered how many guys just keep up that facade their whole lives.

[quote] 95% gay is still bisexual.

Hey rager, as someone else said you're definitely hung up on labels and percentages. That's just idiotic. And for someone who's so sick of "straight" talk on the DL, you sure didn't pull back on participating in this thread.

. He's never heard of monkeys and apes?

My dog can do number on his own butthole and dick, so there's that.

R129 you write 95% of real gays don’t experience any attraction to the opposite sex. I thought the figure would be 100% using your logic. You’re saying that that 5% of real gays experience attraction to the opposite sex.

[quote]Did you ever have sex with a woman?

Fuck no. I once kissed at girl at a school dance when I was 14 and it was disgusting. Like kissing my sister. That's the last time I ever touched a female in a sexual sense.

r132, that's because labels have fucking meanings idiot, 95% gay IS still bisexual. You haven't proven anything to contrary, so zip itl.

This conversation is now 100% boring.

I'm a gold star gay. Not platinum because no C-section delivery, but my mother giving birth is the closest and single time I ever touched a pussy.

R134, the other 5% are the transexual gays. Transexuality is also an attraction and arousal to the opposite sex, just gender oriented not necessarily sexual. The same happens with heterosexual men that experience transgenderism. A real gay 95% of them have zero arousal with females, no gender or sexual attraction at all, they give a shit about female bodies and take zero interest on them. However, they are a small number of males with no sexual arousal at all, but they do have gender arousal/ attraction instead.

Never with a woman… but my friend, a top, dated a buff scruffy transman (FTM) last year and said fucking him was fantastic.. I got kind of curious/jealous. I watch FTM porn once in a while now.

R140, FTM equals fakegay, you pussylovers/pussyfuckers are EXGAY fuckers, how is so easy for you suckers to be turned out by vagina?

This. Never. Happened.

When I was young I had several women who were determined to have me, and I didn’t go there. They couldn’t understand why a guy would turn down the offer of sex. Some of them were confused and upset. A couple were furious.

r122, for one thing if you have the tendencies, you're not fucking gay. You and whoever else are not honest about NOT being gay. And it's gayerasing and homophobic for you to constantly promote and insist on injecting female sexuality in a homosexual space. Are you even fucking gay? If you been fucking one two or three females than you are not. So why are you insisting that you are gay? How many straight guys never have a serious relationship with a woman? Just a need for pussy? SEX does count. And a lot of you seem to support the idea being gay is a choice.

And why are you so bamboozled about trans men? It's still the SAME FREAKING VAGINA!!

R141- I consider myself gay but I can get very turned on by viewing a trans guy’s pussy - does that mean I’m bi?

Depends on your politics, R145.

R47 I bet the number of people that tried to "convert you" is zero.

rR145, of course you're bi. How else would that would that work? t's the same fucking vagina a straight teeneager would be jacking off too. Or any straight or bi man. You're sexually excited by pussy, so why would that compute as homosexual in your world. A vagina is a women's sex organ.

You are gynosexual, so no you're not gay.

R147, fuck you bitch. You don't know me bisexual cunt.

The whole fucking gay community is. All of LGBT, the entire fucking Matrix is trying to convert me and everyone else who is homosexual. The fucking thread is an attempt to convert. Who made this fucking thread in the first place and why? Why is this thread even here?

FUCK

NO

FUCK

MEN

R136 has never had a happy day in his entire miserable life.

R148- The vagina is on not a man but someone who's body resembles a man because I don't think I would be turned onto a vagina on a woman's body- Even the though the vagina is on a man's appearing body that still makes me bi?

Well, at the risk of being called anything other than gay... (and if you knew me personally, you'd laugh at the idea I could be anything other than gay!):

My childhood-into-young-adulthood fuckbuddy introduced me to a girl he'd known all his life (their mothers were best friends) in the Summer between our junior and senior years in high school. She and I hit it off and started dating, and the sex was good. Now, I've always had an extremely active sex life; the fuckbuddy I mentioned and I had been gettin' it on since we were way too young an age to mention here without this thread descending into [italic]one of those[/italic] threads, and my relationship with her was no different. We probably had sex at least twice a week for the 5 years (with a 6-month break in the middle) we dated; there were periods in which we would go at it twice or three times per day.

One of the first things she said to me was that she felt as though she were a gay man trapped in a woman's body. She loved sex. She was good at it, too. Her favorite way to come was (my) oral stimulation (of her clit). The first time I went down on her, she came, she went down on me, I came, and we rolled over and went to sleep only to wake up, wander into the bathroom and scream in terror as I was covered in blood. It was a real education. I sincerely developed a literal distaste for blood as a result. Fun gross fact: she liked to get fucked in the shower when she was on her period so that it didn't stain the sheets and result in copious laundry.

We weren't exclusive by any stretch of the imagination. I was fucking my buddy and more; she was fucking guys in her theater (shocking!) group. We "broke up" for 6 months in the middle of our relationship when she got serious about a guy who proposed to her. I put quotes around the "broke up" because we continued fucking, just less often. Eventually she decided he wasn't right for her and they ended their relationship. It didn't help that he knew we were still getting together, and the more he came to know her the more he realized she wasn't what he was looking for (a monogamous girlfriend/wife). In what I would come to find out is more a gay thing, she said to me that his dick was bigger than mine, but I knew how to use mine. Apparently she had to give him a lot of instruction. I ended up feeling badly for this guy.

We continued dating & fucking until my senior year of college. It was a lot of fun, but I had grown into my homosexuality. In the interim, we had multiple three-ways, one in which me and the other guy really got into each other and inadvertently made her feel like a third wheel. I ended up dating him for a while, but he was a straight-leaning bisexual who couldn't keep his mouth shut (to me or anyone else; I got tired of hearing about the latest hot chick he had or nearly banged; the girlfriend said she'd told him if she wanted to hear about having sex with me, she would prefer to talk to me rather than hearing about it from him).

The last time we had sex, we laid there exhausted and she said to me, "We should stop seeing each other. Nobody we're interested in is interested in a poly thing." I agreed but for a different reason: "I'm gay and don't want to put you through figuring out it isn't going to work". We at least parted as friends. Three months later, I graduated and moved across the country. She called me once when she was passing through where I lived then but was coming nowhere close to where I was working and I couldn't get away. The last I heard, she was married with a daughter... who would now be in her late 20s/early 30s.

R153, it's still a woman's body and sex organ, you are bi, would it hurt you to just deal with a biological man with a dick. Pussylovers are not gay unless they are gay women. It's the same pussy all women are born with.

r152, just go live the bisexual or straight life you're so desperate to do, prick.

[quote]I stuck my tongue in her pussy and was actually getting into it

Certainly don't know your way around there, do you?

R130, fuck you you think you're above everybody because you're bi, you can eat shit motherfucker.

R123, that is gross, you're both vomit inducing and FAKEGAY.

I'm 99% gay and I'm totally gay.

I am starting to sense a connection between men going down on menstruating women and being (or turning) gay.

Yes, and it’s fucking weird.

Glenn and I did smell the nappy pussy...

R160, what s the other 1 percent, asexual?

The rage-a-holic on this thread insisting that any gay man whose dick has moved when he's been within 50 feet of a woman needs to be medicated. He's about to stroke out.

*any gay man whose dick has moved is bisexual, I mean.

Many times. I think I'm 25% into women and 75% into men. I dared to start having sex with men just when AIDS hit hard, early 80s, and by 85 I was out of college and it seemed easier to do only men because women weren't exactly warm to openly bisexual guys at that time. In my 50s I had some female friends with benefits. I stopped fucking anyone during covid and having gone back.

and have not gone back.

R154, I appreciated your share; thanks.

I want to go out and fuck a pussy just to make unhinged R59, etc. have a coronary and put the rest of us out of our misery.

I had a girlfriend for the last 2 years of high school. We fucked a-lot and I honestly liked it. She was pretty aggressive in bed and so I always had a good time. When we both went to different universities I met a guy and fell in love. I never realized what I was missing until i had sex with a man. We have been together for 15 years now and haven’t fucked a woman since.

Pretty fragile sense of identity if other people's sexual procilivities/behaviors can enrage you to that degree

Gate keeping

Pussy is kind of weird. It looks like Cthulhu, has an off-putting odor, and feels like fucking an oil slick that's trying to snap your dick off. The female body in general is just not appealing. It's soft and squishy with fat deposits in odd places.

I tried it when I was young because I thought that's just what you're supposed to. I always had trouble getting and staying hard and was grossed out by kissing and putting my face or mouth near any part of her body. Orgasms released sexual tension but I felt super gross after and wanted to get away from her asap.

When I finally figured out I didn't have to do it and could have sex with men instead, that was the end of it. Touching a woman in any way or even being physically close to one now feels kind of traumatizing. All I can think about is how gross it all felt and my penis retreats inside my body.

Yes. Twice.

This thread is quite interesting to me.

I'm a gold-star gay who never even came close to having sex with a woman. (I do watch straight porn with hot guys occasionally, though.) Although I like my female friends and family members very much, I find women in general a bit tiresome and complicated. I also find femininity quite off-putting, but think some twinky femboys are hot at the same time. I sometimes wonder whether I'm a closeted bisexual, albeit 90% homo-leaning. From time to time, I'm curious how a pussy would feel, but even just thinking about how I would have to deal with the woman attached to it is such a big turn-off to me.

R154, if you're not a writer, you could be!

Never...would not be able to get it up.

Honestly, you don't have to be that hard to fuck a pussy. Most times, I was barely half-hard.

This thread is disgusting and shouldn't be here, some G to S fetishist, prob Jobman started it.

R166, you have a problem with people admitting bisexuality which is sad.

It is sad that homophobia and conversion therapy is so widely supported in this forum.

And yes 99 percent gay is still fucking bisexuality.

Why hasn't the OP revealed why he started this fucked up thread?

This thread is brought to you by Alfred Kinsey Awareness Foundation

R180, wtf are you talking about? No one has mentioned conversion therapy. You need an antipsychotic. Try Seroquel.

So now it's about curing heterosexuality. R182, why was this thread created?

Some have very firm boundaries, others a bit more flexible….

I have no idea why it was created. I imagine OP just wanted to know. Why does anyone create a thread about anything?

No one said this thread was about "curing" anything.

WHY does anyone want to create the umpteenth thread about this subject on a gay website???

R186. WHY do you use three question marks?!

No, but I can see hitting up an FTM boy.

R188, pussyfuckers are not gay.

I don’t believe in having sex with females. I was away from my boyfriend for 5 days! Just got home and I couldn’t wait to eat his ass. I missed it so damned bad. Pussy is disgusting and vile. Sloppy Loose meat isn’t my style.

No hetero!

Zero Vag

Different strokes, etc.

Nope. Just like 7-Up -- never had it, never will.

… for different folks. Some dudes just imagine a buffet but leave out everything but an occasional polite date with a man. Sexuality is never boring, even if one has traits many consider prude. No two wirings are 100% the same.

I was happily married for 12years to ex-wife& had 6 great children. It was a great marriage and divorce.

Yes, DL I was GAY the entire time I was married.

Pussy is vile

Phillywhore how were you gay and not bi? Are you working off a different definition of gay, because you obviously weren't homosexual. You seem to queer/pansexual/bi not gay. You do know that pussyfuckers and pussylovers are not gay, right?

This thread is a whackier read than I thought it would be.

SOMETIMES YOU FEEL LIKE A NUT SOMETIMES YOU DON’T!

- Bi Guy Theme Song

Those of you who believe having sex with a female makes you bi; do you also believe that little boys who wear pink tutus and lipstick are female?

Did you think about that analogy before typing that? Just wondering what sort of brain comes up with that.

I was molested.

R202. Oh schut up!

So the purists here seem to be making the “one drop” argument: if you touch pussy once you have lost the right to call yourself gay at any point in the future. One drop of vaginal secretion means you are at best bi. If you never touch a woman again, you are still a non-gay forever. Is that right?

R204 no it just means that you have a faculty that 95 % or more of gays do not have, which is to get a hardon while being inside a woman.so that alone, makes you bi. You did it once, you bet you can do it again honey.

I think it’s tiresome to make it a contest.

Yes, I have sex with women. Did you no see my photos from - how you say ? - lesbean photo shoot ? Me touching woman titties ? Woman touching my pussy ? Yes lesbean sex with woman.

Gay for pay verst letty

I once had sex with a woman. To remain interested I had to fantasize about a cute boy fucking the woman I was trying to fuck.

R204, people understand that in closeted situations there is an expectation to satisfy the woman or one can try to have sex with women in college and high school as an attempt as again closeting, going along with the expectations of society. What is frustrating is that openly identified and uncloseted OUT gay men are proclaiming this love of female and FTM pussy fucking and pussy eating as something they say they desire and are aroused by. And still maintaining that they are gay not bi, or just discovered they are bi and now exgay. And then you have the Gay to Straight fetishists who are active on X and have an entire discord server of fiction, social media posts, G2S artwork, essays, who love to post and repost gay porn stars lusting after pussy. Some of these fetishists are legit conversion therapists who think all gay men need to "see the light" and start finding women to fuck. Some of these fetishists like to post threads such as this one to troll and "advertise" pussy to gay men. We've had fetishists and homophobic women post these threads on various sites. including Datalouonge, every other day during the pandemic we had poster solicting opinions on vagina, fucking a woman, how to satisfy a woman, what body parts turn you on the most about a woman, like fucking Lword! There is a history of trolling, homophobia and conversion therapy that has consistently been attached to these types of posts. People are going way beyond the "one drop" rule and pushing this idea of how bad it is to be a HOMOSEXUAL only into biological men, so yes you do get necessary pushback of being exgay and fakegay, when you are indistinguishable from a bisexual man.

Sounds like a bunch of porn addicts doing porn addict stuff? Us plain old ex closet cases don’t like being lumped in with them.

R196, so was the vagina loose after the babies?

OP-Did You Ever Have Sex With A Man?

What was it like?

How was it?

Was he HOT 🥵?

Did you have any difficulty performing?

Did you have difficulty performing?

After 2 sets of twins (2 boys& girl and a boy, plus another girl), I'm pretty sure it was stretched out.

I did my job well and was very well paid in the divorce settlement, the SHOCK was the 2 sets of twins (didn't know the ran in my family). My ex-wife got everything and tightened down there b4 the marriage ended, then she walked into Lesbian world a new woman.

Sorry- I didn’t mean to type the last sentence twice. After I typed it- it didn’t appear in my comment so I typed it again and now it appears twice.

I had a dream where I fucked a young pussy and old pussy to find out if there was a difference

[Quote]Those of you who believe having sex with a female makes you bi

I think it's just one unhinged lunatic - the one who keeps ranting and calling people "pussyfuckers."

Gay right-wing douche Dave Rubin claims that if he were ever to cheat on his husband, it would be with Megyn Kelly. And the kicker? So would his husband. How absurd (and how unlikely to ever happen). Does her mannish alpha energy turn him on? I doubt it.

R217, having sex with a female WOULD make you bi, what's not clicking for you. And yes you would indeed be a pussyfucker. What is your argument to the contrary?

Maybe it just means you are QUEER?

Why is this so desperately important to you, R219? People are self-defined regardless of their behavior in numbers of whatsis 25 years ago or last week.

yes, I know someone like that too, they are clearly bi but they insist they are straight, fucks 60% women and 40% men.

Because it demeans all gays and bastardizes the term "gay" - because bisexual is not fucking gay, it should be important to you R222! It's idiots like you that want to NOW argue that being gay is a choice. If you want to and desire to and do fuck/eat pussy 40% or 20% or WHATEVER percent you're not fucking GAY! Rachel Dolezal self-defined as black! So she is a role model for gays now?

^ Lunatic R217 was referring to

I don't see the controversy R224

R219, my argument is against the psychotic nature of your screeds and apparent obsession with this topic. And if you truly don't see how referring to people as "pussyfuckers" is childishly deranged, then I don't know what to tell you.

[Quote]Because it demeans all gays and bastardizes the term "gay"

It doesn't seem that anyone besides you feels that way. If that's your opinion, then so be it, but flying off the handle when others don't agree with you isn't healthy.

[Quote]It's idiots like you that want to NOW argue that being gay is a choice.

No one here is arguing that. You're tilting at windmills. Based on your comments on this topic, you seem deeply insecure and controlling. I don't know if you need therapy, medication, or what, but you clearly have some issues that need to be addressed.

I've never even fucked a man.

R227, you're just gaslighting like the typical narcissist in the Datalounge Gas Chamber, you have no points to argue that are either for or against bisexuality or homosexuality, just be quiet.

I don't think you know what gaslighting means. Like most people who use the word.

I don’t care for pussy. I don’t care for bisexuals.

I don’t go spewing vitriol about either. Simple.

OP, is a man still gay if he has sex with a man who has had sex with a woman, or is he a pussyfucker by proxy?

I have another question for OP. What if a gay man tries to fuck a woman but fails. Is he still gay? What if he gets hard for a man but later discovers the man is a FTM?

What if you're on the subway and some gash pushes past you and her camel toe brushes across your face (EWW!!)? Is your gay purity maintained or is it hopelessly sullied?

What if you DREAM about fucking women?

Sorry, I didn't mean to address OP. I was asking the pussyfucker troll.

230, we know exactly what gaslighting means, it happens on social media 24/7. Like this thread.

R233, if said man is gay why is trying to fuck a woman?

correction: why is he trying to fuck a woman?

Yes. Many times when I was in my teens and early 20s. I was in a LTR from high school into college. I had no trouble doing it, don’t find vaginas repulsive but do consider myself gay. I was a teen in Texas in the 70s and 80s, so being gay was a lot harder.

[Quote]why is he trying to fuck a woman?

Who knows? Maybe he's trying to be straight. Maybe he's just curious. There could be a lot of reasons.

I received a hand job from two girls I hung around with with in jr high.

R241. Did the whores know how to do it properly?

Well, now that it has come to the attention of the Committee, we regret to inform you that you are actually bisexual, R241. Gay card revoked, PUSSYFUCKER.

Of course not, R242. Women hate dicks and only tolerate them when necessary. .

Years ago, I had a "sexually ambiguous" co-worker who claimed that while nominally straight men will start getting touchy-feely with other guys when they've had a few drinks and their inhibitions are down, gay men with even the slightest hint of latent heterosexual desires will start groping women when in the same situation. I've never seen evidence of this myself.

Yes, in college, it felt forced and unnatural. In contrast, the first time I kissed a guy, I was shaking, and it was incredible.