Why Jennifer Lopez Finally Filed for Divorce from Ben Affleck: 'She Was Done Waiting' (Exclusive Sources)

She likes getting married. She does not enjoy being married.

Coming soon to Prime Video: "This Is Me...Next."

In her own words, Jennifer Lopez recounts every private detail of her marriage breakup and divorce from Ben Affleck and the quest to continue her search to find true love.

Ben likes going to Dunkin Donuts and smoking. Not her thing.

In other words, they realized this shit was fucked and it might help her ego if she was the one who got to file. He probably doesn't give a shit by this point, so if she wants to be the one, great.

Ben, find a nice woman who doesn't care about fame.

She was done waiting? Waiting for what? Waiting for him to walk the red carpet with her? To write a movie for her? To throw her some dick?

What is that stupid bitch waiting for?

To give up the drink.

She'll be waiting a LONG time...

Waiting for him to come crawling back to her.

[quote](Exclusive Sources)

Let me guess, the name of this source was Jenny Beaverhausen. 🙄

People with Narcissistic Personality Disorder hate being dumped almost as much as being alone.

There is no doubt she sees herself as the “winner.”

Four marriages. Four failures.

Lather. Rinse. Repeat.

[quote] Jennifer [Lopez] stopped by to congratulate him

For what, being born?

Celebrities are so fucking stupid.

And JLo has as much sense as talent.

[quote] Jennifer Lopez Wants Judge To Deny Ben Affleck Spousal Support In Shock Divorce Filing

After months of speculation, Jennifer Lopez has finally pulled the trigger on her marriage with Ben Affleck.

The actress has reportedly filed for divorce from the actor, and she did so on a significant day for her and her estranged husband.

August 20, 2022, is the day Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck had their elaborate Georgia wedding after eloping in Las Vegas a month earlier.

According to court documents obtained by TMZ, Lopez is requesting a termination of her two-year marriage to Affleck and has waived her right to request spousal support.

The "Monster-in-Law" star, reportedly worth $400 million, has also asked a judge to deny her husband spousal support in the case that he asks for one in his response to her lawsuit.

Lopez filed for divorce from Affleck at the L.A. County Superior Court on Tuesday, reportedly in person without the assistance of an attorney.

The singer notably did not specify if she and Affleck, who is said to be worth $150 million, have a prenup, which means that the money made by both stars during their marriage is up for grabs.

Lopez, for instance, worked on the films "Shotgun Wedding," "This Is Me ... Now," "The Mother," and "Atlas" while they were married. Affleck, on the other hand, starred in films such as "Air" and "Hypnotic" and produced "The Instigators."

The couple also does not have a settlement agreement in place. Since Lopez and Affleck did not have any kids together, they would not have to fight over child support during their divorce.

In her court filing, Lopez revealed that the precise date she separated from Affleck was April 26, 2024. This date matches the period during which the couple's marriage started being plagued by split rumors, as they were no longer seen together in public.

Fucking pathetic. Can you imagine? You get a second chance with the Love Of Your Life twenty years later. You blend your fucking families together. You are aging. Not getting any younger. Why in the HELL would you push your luck and rock that boat?!? She's a broken. That's the only explanation. This is an avoidable tragedy. She has four hundred fucking MILLION dollars and she can't just chill and be a wifey for five seconds? Has to fucking turn their marriage into a PRODUCT of COMMERCE? Has to embarrass her husband in front of the world and drain all of the romance and intimacy from the union? And in record time.

Wow. She SUCKS.

[quote] Since Lopez and Affleck did not have any kids together, they would not have to fight over child support during their divorce.

She’s a post-menopausal hag. Of course there were no kids!

JLO's getting Granny Arms in the photo @ OP.

I do wonder if some shit is about to hit the fan about Ben and some broad on a movie set a la his brother Casey. They are both so fkin hot.

^ Hi, Teacake!

[quote]"The kids are a top priority, as they always have been.”

But not THE top priority, as they should be, or she wouldn't keep switching out father figures on them.

R14 sums it up. Why go against the survival instinct at that stage of life?

She looks haggard and mean as a snake in OP's pic.

What is up with her armpit in OP's pic?

Why do we actually about these two not terribly bright, totally self-involved people?

JFC you cunts are harsh. Have *none* of you ever rekindled an old flame? I certainly have. It ended up not working for the same basic reasons as the first one, and I'm guessing that's what Ben & JLo were hoping: that after a 20+ year interval they could get past the general immaturity and lack of knowledge how the world works and have a successful marriage this time.

Alas, they did not, and btw being narcissistic describes nearly every actor in Hollywood. NPD isn't at all the same thing, nor have either of them ever displayed any indicators of mental health problems (aside from Ben's drinking, drugging and gambling, but those aren't indicators of NPD or BPD).

R23? WTF? You're seriously asking why people are interested in two of the most famous celebrities on the planet? Are you new here? (Meaning to the internet.) FAR lesser celeb couples are discussed on here.

She has enough money to move on when she's not happy. Because she's so needy, she becomes unhappy (in a relationship) easily.

Ben is really break-up avoidant. That divorce with Church Lady lasted for years. He just does things that he knows will irk a woman and then waits for her to dump him. Except Church Lady hung on for a long, long, long time.

It’s tough to be a relationship with an alcoholic who keeps relapsing. It is also tough to be with a control freak. They need some time away from the limelight. I wish Ben the best in his recovery.

She filed for divorce before he could get a chance to embarrass her with a stripper or some such.

I’m glad “some such” is finding life

She filed the divorce on their anniversary.

Tacky, tacky.

R24 Rekindling an old flame is one thing, but bringing FIVE CHILDREN the your rekindling experiment is unconscionable. They didn't have to get married so fucking fast. They could have just been a couple until the kids were all grown up. There was zero rush. Her kids are both 16, and his are 12, 15 and 18. Why did they have to blend their families and rush everything only for it to implode? I remember being a kid and my mom getting married and divorced 4 times. It was a total drag, and it was traumatic, to keep gaining and losing dads and families. These two are insufferable.

Yeah, tell me THAT ^^ wasn't on purpose (filing on their anniversary).

[quote] She likes getting married. She does not enjoy being married.

More like, she knows getting married and divorced will keep her relevant, so she does it a lot.

I think he moving Tookus in the back door at this minute

He likes that he can’t really tell if it’s her or Matt from behind

She is just as much an addict as he is. Her drug of choice is attention.

R35 There are big celebrities so it kinda comes with the territory. However she is a bit of a control feel. HOWEVER alcoholism is completely destructive, makes you temperamental and ruins your liver.

Selenaaaa!!

[quote] NPD isn't at all the same thing, nor have either of them ever displayed any indicators of mental health problems

🤣

Honey, you obviously have no idea what NPD is. She exhibits nearly every symptom listed in the DSM-5. And her mother was an abusive, narcissistic bitch, the first step in creating one.

She’s a Cluster B menace.

[quote]Lopez filed for divorce from Affleck at the L.A. County Superior Court on Tuesday, reportedly in person without the assistance of an attorney.

For fuck’s sake, she’s been divorced so many times she knows the courthouse staff personally. No attorney needed.

The "We-have-the-Deepest-Wuv-Ever-Known-to-Mankind" movie was the straw that broke the camel's back for him. You see, Ben considers himself an "artiste" who makes profound statements with his work, and to be the subject of something so "basic" and frau-ish was unforgivable.

Jennifer Lopez's ex-fiancé Alex Rodriguez shared a cryptic quote shortly after she filed for divorce from Ben Affleck.

A-Rod, 49, posted a quote from himself to his Instagram Stories late on Tuesday, August 20, which read, "You either go one way or the other, you might as well be the one deciding the direction.”

It was Jennifer, 55, who pulled the plug on her marriage to Ben, 52, filing paperwork with the Los Angeles Superior Court earlier in the day to end their union. She did it on the two-year anniversary of the estranged couple's lavish wedding at the Air star's Georgia estate.

J. Lo and A-Rod were together for more than four years. They began dating in February 2017 and got engaged in the Bahamas in March 2019.

Wasn't there some pic floating around of A-Rod taking a shit in his bathroom in a NYC highrise? Or was that someone else?

R41 I wonder if A-Rod wants her back?

Isn't her pussy tired?

[quote] Isn't her pussy tired?

Is yours, WHORE??

Sucks for the kids because they seem to have bonded. I think Ben is still in love with Garner but she's too smart to ever take him back.

And I'm in the camp that Ben was NEVER in love with Jen Garner and felt compelled to marry her when she got pregnant with the first child. Because as someone upthread called her, she is a Church Lady. I do not think Ben would have EVER married Jen Garner had it not been necessitated by the unplanned pregnancy. Think about it -- why was Ben so miserable in his marriage that he took to drinking a fifth of whiskey every night and sleeping on the couch? Why did he feel, in his words, so "trapped," if Jen Garner was the love of his life?

Having said that, I bet he now realizes that JEn is a good woman, as good a woman as any. That there is more to life than lust and "freedom" - the freedom to fuck up your life as much as you want. That he was actually not as trapped or as miserable as he thought he was, and that his sweet family brings him more joy and stability than whatever he was restlessly seeking when he ended his marriage. He didn't end up anywhere better than he already was. And he is still co-parenting with her. I think hindsight might have shown him that the grass wasn't greener.

I think Ben is still in love with Jen Garner too. The body language expert says she is refuge for him. Maybe he wasn't in love love, with Jen G at first, but I bet you he is now.

Ben looks a million times better now that he has stopped trying to die his hair and beard. He looks like a silver fox! The beard die was awful. I wonder if that was JLo's idea or what, it was hideous..

Because the grass is ALWAYS greener on the other side for him, R48. J-Lo gave him all the passion in the world, but she wouldn't mommy him, so now he wants his mommy back.

I do sympathize with the poster above whose mother was married and divorced 4 times.

That’s a lot of random men in the house.

And if I were Garner's boyfriend, I would lay down the law: Tell Man Baby that from now on, you will only have communications about the kids through your "people". Nothing else.

[quote] Jennifer Garner felt like a 'PAWN' in Jennifer Lopez's bid to fix her broken marriage to Ben Affleck - as insiders claim she was 'forced to play mediator' in her ex-husband's divorce

Jennifer Garner has been left feeling like she was used as a 'pawn' during the breakdown of Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's marriage, according to sources who claim her friends believe she was unnecessarily 'put in the middle' in recent months.

The superstar singer, 55, officially filed for divorce from the Gone Girl actor, 52, on Tuesday night following months of speculation - and just hours before what would have been the couple's second wedding anniversary.

Prior to the filing, Affleck had been pictured spending a significant amount time with ex-wife Garner - who previously adopted the role of 'marriage counsellor' to the struggling couple.

But those close to Garner, 52, feel she was forced to 'play mediator' to help the pair work through their issues in a way that would not impact Affleck's sobriety.

'Jen feels slightly used as a pawn in JLo's bid to repair her marriage,' a source told DailyMail.com exclusively. 'She doesn't believe it was intentional.'

'But when Jen realized her ex-husband's marriage was past the point of salvation, her only concern was Ben's well-being and sobriety.'

The source explained that the actress' close friends were extremely unimpressed with the way Lopez leaned on Affleck's ex-wife despite how complicated matters were for the trio.

'She was put in the middle and her friends think - no matter how you look at it - a man's ex-wife should never have to play mediator in a divorce from his new wife,' the insider said.

'Especially when said wife was a big love who Jen was compared to throughout their 13-year marriage. She is happy that Ben is now happy.'

Earlier this summer, DailyMail revealed that Garner had made a conscious decision to step back from the 'circus' surrounding Affleck and Lopez because the situation had unearthed 'painful' memories for the actress.

Now the star is primarily focused on co-parenting with Affleck – who has battled alcoholism and a gambling addiction for decades – as he navigates life after his most recent marriage, but will remain friendly with Lopez.

The source explained: 'In the end Jen Garner always has Ben's back and although she does consider JLo a friend now, no one sees this blossoming further.

'They will likely not be hanging out and going on bike rides together in the Hamptons.'

Affleck and Garner - who are parents to Violet, 18, Finn, 15 (formerly known as Seraphina), and Samuel, 12 - were previously married from 2005 until their divorce was finalized in 2018.

Garner has since moved on with rumored fiancé, businessman John Miller, 46, who was reportedly left frustrated by how involved Garner was in trying to ‘fix’ Affleck’s marriage.

'John wants nothing more than for Ben to be okay, but it isn’t his girlfriend’s responsibility to play babysitter to him,' an insider told DailyMail.com in June. ‘That is for Ben to figure out on his own and for his wife to handle. It isn’t Jen’s responsibility, and he has told her this.’

As all parties move forward, it has been revealed that Lopez's own friends have suggested the star needs to 'look inside herself' after ending her fourth marriage as they are growing tired of her chaotic life.

Thank you, doll at R51!! That is so lovely of you. It was very destabilizing. Plus there were all the boyfriends in between the marriages!

My mom hasn't been alone for one second in probably 55 years. Her partner of the last 20 years just had a massive stroke and they took him away to the vet hospital. And she's like "I'm never visiting him, it's over, I am over it, he's crazy now." My mom is 74 and this will be WILD to see if she can handle living alone. I worry she is going to start flirting with a friend's husband or something and end up in an "entanglement." We shall see.

I’m relieved to hear this wasn’t Jennifer Lopez’s fault AT ALL.

R47 I agree with what you said. I also believe he was trying to save his career. Benifer in the early aughts had pimped themselves out to such a degree and his movies where flopping left and right. Ben isn’t a natural on screen; he is barely competent as an actor in my opinion but he is fine as fuck. He was trying to appeal to flyover fraus and middle America and save his career.

The hell with Doormat Jen Garner. Nobody forced her to be a mediator. Affleck was her Moby Dick and he got away.

[quote]And I'm in the camp that Ben was NEVER in love with Jen Garner and felt compelled to marry her when she got pregnant with the first child. Because as someone upthread called her, she is a Church Lady.

Can't be that much of a Church Lady if she got pregnant before marriage.

[quote]Lopez's own friends have suggested the star needs to 'look inside herself' after ending her fourth marriage as they are growing tired of her chaotic life.

Who exactly ARE Lopez's friends??

Waiting for what?

Waiting for Tonight.

waiting for her delusion that they would get back to together to come true

[quote] Jennifer Lopez is taking control.

Not exactly

4th Marriage / Divorce. She considers herself a Catholic, despite dabbling in other religions over the years. 4 marriages / divorces don't fit into the teachings of the Church. Why doesn't the Church publicly criticize Lopez over this, and even go as far as excommunicating her ?

What is that oozing hole in her armpit??

skin and some adipose tissue r64

Does anyone still care?

nope biee

Liz wore white in her marriage to Larry Fortensky, her final husband (who she later divorced).

R64 We don’t excommunicate big money.

R64, I know a few Catholics with multiple divorces behind them who just get the failed marriages annulled so they can marry again - in a church. Annulments are a nice little earner for the RCC.

Why doesn’t she just get some therapy already?

I drink Dunkin coffee. It's a New England thing that becomes addictive.

she probably doesn't even believe she needs therapy. look at all "Jenny from the block" has ACHIEVED!

I don't know why she feels the need to display her tits to the public most of the time.

I suspect that this was an agreement between the two of them. Ben probably let Jennifer file first so that she could look like the aggrieved party.

Yes, agreed r75. Almost every outfit she wears she has her tits out.

Lopez is friends with Leah Remini.

Narcissists can't love anyone more than themselves. It's as simple and sad as that. Hence four divorces.,

She was also done watching him get on his back and throw his legs in the air and getting his SCRAWNY ass fucked by a endless number of well hung tops.

Has Mariah Carey commented yet?

R69, You post a photo with both white and beige, and yet you nonetheless claim the latter is white.

No.

R81 My thoughts are with Ben, what’s her face, and their families at this most difficult time.

R78 “friends”. Uh huh 🤔 😍

Ben seems like a miserable prick

[quote]Almost every outfit she wears she has her tits out.

It draws attention away from her thick midsection.

[quote]Why doesn't the Church publicly criticize Lopez over this, and even go as far as excommunicating her ?

Pope Francis has tried to soften the Church’s stance on divorced people.

Ben dumped her old narcissist fat ass. Sure, he allowed her to file her divorce papers to save her crumbling, sagging face. Anything to be rid of this cunting attention whore. And now he sings.

Pope Francis has wanted to make a lot of changes to the Catholic Church, and has become one of the most unpopular Popes with traditional Catholics (and there are millions out there). The Church thought it was a good idea to crown him as Pope with his progressive agenda - hoping to attract young generations back to the Church. They thought older Catholics would progress with him (starting with divorce in the Church). Boy, did this mis-fire. I think if they could do it all over again, The Vatican would've chosen someone else. I doubt they will be making this mistake again.

(As for me, I like him as a Pope and I'm glad he's progressive on so many issues. But even in my Parish in a liberal city, I'm in the minority - and I'm 60 years old).

Ew who cares about the pope.

Lopez just filed and Mindy Kaling gives Ben a shout out at the DNC. They're already lining up. Not that Ben would ever hook up with Mindy...

Skank.

[quote]Ew who cares about the pope.

17 % of the world's population, which equals 1.39 Billion people (from the latest stats taken in 2022). Any other questions ?

[quote] Skank

R92, looking in a mirror as he wipes the cum from his mouth

[quote] Jennifer Lopez Drops Ben Affleck’s Last Name, Cites Reason Behind Their Divorce in Court Documents

Jennifer Lopez filed to drop Ben Affleck’s last name in their impending divorce as well as citing the reason for their split as “irreconcilable differences,” according to documents obtained by In Touch.

The “Let’s Get Loud” singer also requested that neither she nor Ben, 52, receive spousal support. J. Lo, 55, filed the documents on Tuesday, August 20, two years after their wedding ceremony in Georgia.

Many people didn’t realize that the Hustlers star legally changed her name to Jennifer Lynn Affleck as she continued to go by Jennifer Lopez in the public eye. However, J. Lo once gushed about the importance of changing her last name to match Ben’s.

“People are still going to call me Jennifer Lopez. But my legal name will be Mrs. Affleck because we’re joined together,” Jennifer told Vogue in an interview published in November 2022. “We’re husband and wife. I’m proud of that. I don’t think that’s a problem.”

The Maid in Manhattan actress also revealed that she and Ben never considered changing his last name to Lopez.

[quote] If Ben Affleck Moves On After Jennifer Lopez, Singer’s ‘Gloves Will Come Off’: ‘She’ll Snap’

After Jennifer Lopez confirmed her split from estranged husband Ben Affleck by filing for divorce on Tuesday, August 20, a source exclusively tells In Touch that J. Lo is worried about her soon-to-be ex moving on too fast.

“Even before they separated, Ben complained about the state of their intimacy, so there’s no doubt he’s raring to get back out there and date,” says the source. “But J. Lo has put Ben on notice that if he reactivates his Raya profile or goes too far down the path of chasing tail, the gloves will come off.”

No wonder: Jennifer, 55, who reunited with the 52-year-old 20 years after their original romance, revealed that their 2004 split was her biggest heartbreak, saying, “It sent me on a spiral for the next 18 years where I just couldn’t get it right.” Now that the duo is facing another high-profile breakup, says the source, “Jen feels like Ben messed with her head. If he pushes her too far, she’ll snap.”

Did she only take Ben’s last name or did she take her other husbands as well? If Ben’s only, then she really did think he was her fairytale ending.

I wonder what their intimacy issues were. Not enough? To constrained? No stripper moves? I mean Jlo can grind and be sexy as hell as she showed in Hustlers. Maybe in real life she just wanted perfunctory sex.

OMG ! the "source" is People magazine PEOPLE !

Holy shit that's a bad wig she's wearing in the pic at R97.

[quote] The Maid in Manhattan actress also revealed that she and Ben never considered changing his last name to Lopez.

So shady! Ben Lopez or BLo.

r101 i think that's her real hair.

"The gloves will come off"?? What exactly does she plan to do, boil his bunny?

Once you divorce somebody, you no longer get any input into their dating life.

R99 Her first husband who wrote a book (that JLow's lawyers successfully blocked) said that she never liked to experiment in bed and they always had sex in the missionary position.

That's probably why she's been engaged and divorced so many times. Ben looks like he needs a good blow job.

Seriously; "gloves will come off" if he dates - after she's filed for DIVORCE???

What, does she expect him to become a monk or a eunuch because he's decided to move on with his life and it will hurt her FEELINGS?

What an immature moron, no wonder he wanted to leave her ass (both times).

They, quite literally, bring out the worst in each other

As long as he stays off Raya he'll be OK. I think he should stick with strippers and starlets.

Why do these people use annoying snippets from songs in their videos? it makes it practically unwatchable (I muted it until I realized Ben was saying something).

At least they don’t have children: this coulda been a Dateline

R109 here's a better video from Daily Mail.

[quote] Ben looks like he needs a good blow job.

Maybe a finger up his ass every now and then, too.

Oh yeah, and she has to be cool with receiving anal.

Remember when getting back with your ex seems like a good idea because you're older and things have changed?

Yeah - no it isn't and no they haven't.

She's worth 400 million, he's worth 150 mil and she wants half of his.

Actually i don't think she asked for any of his money...where did you see that? She asked that he not receive any support, nor was she asking for any either.

I forget where I read it but she states she spent more during the marriage and wants payback. Tough shit, that's not how relationships work.

This is going to be another dragged-out court battle like Brangelina. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

Ben was doing drugs on their honeymoon in Italy.

Drugs in Italy link

OMG R119.

That's some TEA!

Jennifer Garner needs to pray for him... lol.

I just can't get over the armpit flesh flap in OP's pic. Wizened biddy-hood is finally here!

Is Jennifer Jason Leigh still single? Ben needs a Jen stat.

that comes from wearing age-inappropriate clothing....which we're bound to see for a few years at least while JLow continues to deny that age marches on and some things are best left for YOUNGER women to execute.

I think Jennifer Aniston wants him, but her face is jacked from bad fillers. He seemed happiest with Ana de Armas.

Outside of his flat ass, he's still hot and can get 20 year olds. I wonder who JLow is going to get? She needs someone famous.

Any word on Spider Woman?

[quote]On March 20, 2024, Lopez announced that production on the film had begun, with the intention to have a fast turnaround time so she can launch her This Is Me... Live tour on June 26, which was later cancelled on May 31.[6] Principal photography began on March 21, 2024 in New Jersey.[7][8] On May 10, 2024, Lopez confirmed on Live with Kelly and Mark that she completed filming on her scenes and that she lost weight for the role of Aurora, describing the shoot as "equal parts exhilarating and exhausting."[9] Production wrapped on June 16, 2024

[quote] JFC you cunts are harsh. Have *none* of you ever rekindled an old flame? I certainly have.

I did, but I did not expect a large fancy-colored diamond ring as part of the bargain when I already had three diamond rings from previous engagements.

Nor did I perform songs to the world trumpeting that I had at last discovered eternal love, nor did I make films and launch concerts celebrating that unsupportable claim.

And I certainly did not do any of that in my mid-fifties. that's behavior I would have expected of someone in their teenage years.

Jennifer will be a 4 time divorced woman. Sounds like the problem is not Ben, but Jennifer.

This is the moment fans think Ben Affleck realized he didn’t want to be married to Jennifer Lopez.

Ben always looks fucking miserable.

I think he hates being a husband and a father.

Ben wishes he could be 25 forever.

Also, is Seraphina a boy or a girl?

Come home, Ben. I’m waiting for you to put your log back into my fire pit…fuck Carmen Miranda and her old ass full of cellulite.

I like them both.

I think Ben is a fine actor; IMO he was excellent in "The Accountant," for example. And "Air" (though Matt is the lead).

JLo is a talented entertainer, whether or not her recordings are really her.

But as the cliche goes, two can love without necessarily being compatible, let alone good for each other (See: Burton, Taylor and).

One thing's for relatively certain: Marc Anthony won't be her next. He robbed the cradle for his current wife.

Done waiting for what? She'll have her legs open and a new man mounted atop her in short order, if she hasn't already. She's basically just trash from The Bronx.

R116, the money she spent on her flop vanity projects exploiting their relationship?

He looks like shit at r95 and r97's links.

I know this is going to come off awkwardly, however, I want to point out that this relationship, whether a fabricated PR set up or authentic, truly highlights the importance of identifying & working on resolving/healing attachment disorders for both men & women, whether gay, bisexual, trans, or straight.

Unresolved attachment issues can literally ruin one’s ability to flourish in a healthy manner, all the way from cradle to grave. It’s a bigger deal than many people recognize or even stop to consider.

[quote]This is going to be another dragged-out court battle like Brangelina. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

She’s not going to drag this out. She wants this over ASAP, she didn’t even hire an attorney. She just wants to sign the papers and be done with him so she can get engaged again.

[quote]Is Jennifer Jason Leigh still single? Ben needs a Jen stat.

I do think Jennifer Aniston would be a good match for him. She’s chill and not a control freak, no kids, and she likes to smoke weed and drink margaritas. She’s got her own friends and wouldn’t care if he wants to party solo with strippers in Vegas every now and then.

What’s going on with their faces @ R13?

Their lower cheeks are nearly concave. Is this the Ozempic face people talk about?

I ask, because I’ve never seen a couple look like this at exactly the same time.

That’s a tacky comment, R80. No need to put that shit on here or elsewhere, for reasons specifically well known to you.

R138 I tell ya, if 500 million can’t bring a smile to your face …

[quote] I know this is going to come off awkwardly, however, I want to point out that this relationship, whether a fabricated PR set up or authentic, truly highlights the importance of identifying & working on resolving/healing attachment disorders for both men & women, whether gay, bisexual, trans, or straight.

Yes, that was awkward.

This isn't awkward: Two assholes got married and now they're getting divorced,

Shes so mannish looking. Her facial bones are bigger than his.

Mainly it was the cocksucking.

Now Ben is seen with Kick Kennedy, RFk Jr.'s daughter.

This guy seriously needs to take a break from dating.

He has enough stress in his life right now.

[quote]This is the moment fans think Ben Affleck realized he didn’t want to be married to Jennifer Lopez.

Damn. He slammed that door with ELOQUENCE.

Haha R145.

For EMPHASIS!

It's like he did it just for the paparazzi to see, how sick he was of her shit.

R146 That video is about a year old.

No shit, Sherlock R147 Teacake.

What's your point?

R148 no point my dear. You feeling ok? The caption in the video stated that she and Ben were getting a divorce the day this video dropped.

Looks like ex friend Leah Remini has filed for divorce too...

JLo and Leah should become lesbians and marry each other.

I'll bet that would be the longest relationship JLo ever has.

They’re both dirtbag cuntrags.

I've said this elsewhere but she is the typical Latin woman. She wants a man to dominate her in bed and pay her bills. A figurehead for normality in a Latin household. Repuditly, he speaks Spanish better than she does, so he always has been into that culture. Since she can't control him due to addiction, she parades her relationship to keep him, as in I'm doing everything for us BS. My parents and Latin and Leos just like J & B. Being a child in a tug-of-war marriage sucked. They take sides, then they get back together…exhausting.

Excellent post r153.

R149 doesn’t understand the assignment.

The irony? She made a living off her type of womanhood (sexism 50’s pinup gurl bullshit), only to have the same people fell her career now. I was battling on who came out looking worse…..it was her for sure in the beginning, hard to say where it will land as the divorce plays out. They are both IDIOTS. Very Trumpy in their own way. Can’t be told no, surrounded by yes-men, in love with their own celebrity, blahblahblah.

Ben is a dumbass for marrying her. She's a dumbass for turning their marriage into a public production. Don't know if they would have stayed married if she would have been more private, or if the album/video/doc/tour was a smashing success.

He’s a drunk piece of shit. Who leads women on promising to change but he never does.

He's a Leo, too? Even people who know fuck all about astrology know that won't work.

He's a Leo, she's a Cancer R157.

She's also a Leo. Cancer ends July 22, JLow's birthday is July 24th.

I could suck Ben Affleck's dick for days. He is so sexy to me.

Both her and Ben are Leo Suns with Moon in Scorpio - ay yi yi! Sexy combination for sure but also hot tempered and egotistical.

R156 - why is it that men always need to change to be with a woman? Maybe her constant demands drove him to drink more?

I'm slightly joking but she's a confirmed bitch to be around - everyone has been saying so for 3 decades.

She is SOOOO desperate to seem happy. She's like a middle schooler. And the pictures are photoshopped to within an inch of their lives.

How old is she? She’s acting like she’s in high school!

For real R164. "I spent 60 million of my own money trying to convince the world of our love, 6 months later my husband has left and is dating someone 20 years younger than me. But I'M SOOOOO HAPPY!!!!!!!!"

Jennifer Lopez makes first public appearance since filing for divorce from Ben Affleck:

She looks very manly and stocky.

For tonight?

The dress in r166 looks like ass.

[quote]Jennifer Lopez sends Ben Affleck a message via T-shirt

A Low Jenny

They’re both useless garbage human beings.

She's too fucking old to be dressing like that at R166.

She realized there was nothing more she could get financially out of the marriage. That's the reason she filed for divorce.

He's a terrible partner. He cheated on her the first time with various people, including a stripper, who he ate out in front of other people (including Christian Slater & his former wife).

She's a terrible partner too. She knew he's had a drinking problem for over 2 decades and she continued to drink in front of him. There were photos before this latest marriage of her and Ben at a restaurant and her drinking a big glass of wine. Then she came out with a range of alcohol mixers and continued drinking in front of him.

They're both awful people. They're SCUM. They used their kids for publicity during all of this. Ben's ALWAYS used his kids for publicity. But Jlo didn't use to. But she sure does now. Neither of them will ever be in a honest relationship. They'll never be happy.

She can go find her next victim and he can go back to having inappropriate sexual relationships (with strippers, babysitters, married women etc) and ignoring his kids. At least until he has another project coming out or has a project that's up for an award

R173 is right; they’re both butt slime.

[quote] a stripper, who he ate out in front of other people

I've never understood this sort of public sexual display. How is he getting off by eat her out in front of others?

The stripper said he wasn't even good at eating pussy.

He must have been too busy showing off.

R173 You always hear "she doesn't drink alcohol" about her, yet she just posted a pic of her chugging from a bottle of something alcoholic. And there have been numerous pictures of her drinking wine. Why the bullshit?

She wants you to think her face like looks wrinkle-free due to her healthy lifestyle, and not due to Botox.

Stunt marriage. Not of this shit is real anymore. Clicks and views is the goal. Showbiz is the trashiest, darkest most soulless way to make a living. They are all mentally unwell. Grosses me out. The children are the ones who suffer with these perpetual peacock parents.

What’s with her flabby armpit?

She was calling the paparazzi to catch this kissing. The woman is a sociopath.

R160 = Matt Damon.

Where did her neck go?

Is she related to the Trollsen Twins?

[quote]Why Jennifer Lopez Finally Filed for Divorce from Ben Affleck: 'She Was Done Waiting'

Really? Not only did he move out over a month or two before, he bought a new house. And was already shacking up with someone else.

Gurl, he ain't coming home. He couldn't even be bothered to file for divorce. He just started his new life over, WITHOUT her