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I want to move to LA

There's so much to do there!

Where do nice, botox-free, non-fake people live?

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by Anonymousreply 160January 27, 2024 10:08 PM

Texas. K thanks.

by Anonymousreply 1January 16, 2024 4:18 AM

[quote] Where do nice, botox-free, non-fake people live?

NYC.

by Anonymousreply 2January 16, 2024 4:25 AM

San Fernando Valley is LA but more down to earth.

by Anonymousreply 3January 16, 2024 4:35 AM

Go see for yourself and have fun. If you're young even better. Sure things there aren't perfect but find our for yourself. My advice is to spend a few month living out of Airbnbs in different areas while you scope out apartments and before signing a long lease. Never underestimate how bad traffic is. Make that your #1 consideration if you don't wfh. Daily commuting in SoCal almost made me come unglued. Enjoy the sunshine.

by Anonymousreply 4January 16, 2024 4:42 AM

[quote] Where do nice, botox-free, non-fake people live?

Lancaster

by Anonymousreply 5January 16, 2024 5:47 AM

Are you certain ?

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by Anonymousreply 6January 16, 2024 6:32 AM

Second St area Long Beach

by Anonymousreply 7January 16, 2024 7:45 AM

OP where do you live currently?

by Anonymousreply 8January 16, 2024 8:38 AM

Writers with pride don't live in L.A.

by Anonymousreply 9January 16, 2024 9:00 AM

@r3, "San Fernando Valley is LA but more down to earth. "

Yeah, right... šŸ™„

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by Anonymousreply 10January 16, 2024 9:13 AM

Every person I ever worked with in LA who moved there from outside of California had only one thought in their minds, to get out of California as soon as they possibly could.

OP if you're a loner and have no interest in having any friends you might survive there. People will only act kindly toward you if they think you have something of worth to offer them.

by Anonymousreply 11January 16, 2024 9:21 AM

OP, DL is not LA friendly. It's a fun city to hate. I get that. And it's cool. The best thing about LA is that we don't really care what other places think about it. And we can certainly laugh at ourselves.

Oh, I have lived in LA most of my life. Most people in LA don't have botox. And aren't fake. If that is what you're hoping to avoid? It'll be no problem wherever you choose to live in the city.

by Anonymousreply 12January 16, 2024 9:28 AM

LA is a lot better than you'd think, but you have to carve out your own version of it to make it work. It doesn't owe you anything and has a way of letting you know that when you think it does.

by Anonymousreply 13January 16, 2024 9:36 AM

LA is great if you're very rich

by Anonymousreply 14January 16, 2024 9:40 AM

SFV is a large area with diverse neighborhoods. Where do you live, R10?

by Anonymousreply 15January 16, 2024 2:42 PM

R13 - fantastic response, and I agree. Everyone makes their heaven or hell wherever they choose to live. That's why it's called "choosing."

by Anonymousreply 16January 16, 2024 2:47 PM

LA offers many great benefits, especially the food and the climate -- but there's no getting around the fact that the people are the worst -- all the cliches about Angelinos being shallow, superficial, empty are basically true. Sure, there are some great people here, after all, it's an enormous place. But you have to really, really work to find decent people.

by Anonymousreply 17January 16, 2024 2:50 PM

South Bay (Redondo Beach, etc.) is far from the action, but there are friendly people, there. My brother lived there (rented), but got priced out.

by Anonymousreply 18January 16, 2024 2:53 PM

R13 How is this different from any other place or life?

by Anonymousreply 19January 16, 2024 2:57 PM

There lights are much brighter there. You can forget all your troubles, forget all your cares. But not your cars! But if you can make it there you can make it anywhere. You will wake up in the city that doesn't sleep, if there's not an earthquake and you're buried under a ton of rubble. But don't leave your heart. You'll need it. Think that's it.

by Anonymousreply 20January 16, 2024 2:59 PM

LA is an international city, and "people are so shallow" means absolutely nothing in the face of that diversity. More Mexicans that any city outside of Mexico City. More Koreans than any city outside of Seoul. More Armenians than anyplace outside of Armenia. More Salvadorans than any city outside of San Salvador. More Samoans than anyplace outside of Samoa. More Filipinos than anyplace outside of the Philippines. White evangelicals in Glendora. Rich Persians in Beverley Hills. Chinese in Temple City. Hipsters in Silverlake. Young professionals with kids in Mt Washington. Gangs and drugs and TV stars in "the Valley"...

So, LA is many, many things.

I'd look at Echo Park or Highland Park if you want "urban" but nice yards and hills. I'd do Long Beach 2nd st if I wanted old time beach town. I'd do Venice if I wanted to prepare for my month in rehab. So many ways to be human...

by Anonymousreply 21January 16, 2024 3:07 PM

Was OP’s article translated from another language? Did anyone edit it?

by Anonymousreply 22January 16, 2024 3:21 PM

[quote] LA is an international city, and "people are so shallow" means absolutely nothing in the face of that diversity.

I think they mean ā€œrich people are so shallow.ā€

by Anonymousreply 23January 16, 2024 3:23 PM

I like rich people.

I like the way they live.

I like the way I live when I'm with them.

by Anonymousreply 24January 16, 2024 3:34 PM

OP, what is your socio-economic status? It is impossible to find a reasonably-priced home in Los Angeles and the rents are insanity. The cost of living has exploded in the last 10 years. Fake botoxed people will be the least of your concerns unless you have $$$$$...or are exceptionally beautiful.

by Anonymousreply 25January 16, 2024 5:11 PM

Why has no one mentioned the traffic yet?

by Anonymousreply 26January 16, 2024 5:21 PM

If you're young and have a big trust fund it's Nirvana. For everyone else not so much.

by Anonymousreply 27January 16, 2024 5:25 PM

R26, I had an Uber driver shopping on Amazon - while driving down the Hollywood Freeway! I know there was traffic, but WTF? Also, rude Armenian guard at Warner Bros (You guard the Harry Potter displays, get the fuck over yourself). Anyway, very nice to visit, but would not want to live there. I prefer NYC.

by Anonymousreply 28January 16, 2024 5:30 PM

Homeless tenements along the freeway. That's new and sad.

by Anonymousreply 29January 16, 2024 5:32 PM

As are most places, R14.

by Anonymousreply 30January 16, 2024 6:06 PM

Barstow

by Anonymousreply 31January 16, 2024 6:15 PM

R18 that's the area I live in, and definitely recommend it. But it's expensive. Our house is paid for; we could not afford to buy it in today's market.

by Anonymousreply 32January 16, 2024 6:22 PM

[quote] Why has no one mentioned the traffic yet?

Compared to other major cities, LA traffic is no longer a thing.

by Anonymousreply 33January 16, 2024 7:51 PM

[quote] Also, rude Armenian guard at Warner Bros

That is hilarious and such an authentic LA experience

by Anonymousreply 34January 16, 2024 7:56 PM

Great mountains of cocaine greatly improve the LA area experience.

by Anonymousreply 35January 16, 2024 8:14 PM

R33 I'll have to disagree with you on that one

[quote]I-405, heavily traveled by both commuters and freight haulers along its entire length, is the busiest and most congested freeway in the United States.

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by Anonymousreply 36January 16, 2024 8:30 PM

Just remember: wherever you go, there you are.

by Anonymousreply 37January 16, 2024 8:48 PM

So much to do, like sit in traffic.

by Anonymousreply 38January 16, 2024 9:02 PM

It's interesting how LA people frequently will recommend outlying areas that are not part of LA. I guess there is more of "It's all LA vibe" with Socal.

With NYC there is more judgement if someone lives in Jersey, Westchester county or Long Island that they are not a real NYer.

by Anonymousreply 39January 16, 2024 9:06 PM

R39 Not sure that's true. Are you an LA native? In my post I recommended Silverlake, Echol Park, Highland Park, the Valley, and Venice, all part of LA. I also mentioned Temple City and Glendora, both of which are closer to downtown LA than Venice or parts of the Valley. The LA metro area is huge, the "city" of LA extended from the interior Valley to the port of LA (between San Pedro and Long Beach). So "not part of LA" is pretty fuzzy... do you mean the city limits, proximity to downtown, or what?

by Anonymousreply 40January 16, 2024 10:25 PM

Places like Long Beach that has come up in this thread is a good 25 miles from downtown LA and is not actually part of the city of Los Angeles r40.

by Anonymousreply 41January 16, 2024 10:39 PM

San Pedro, port of Los Angeles, is next to Long Beach, and is the city of Los Angeles. The point is when someone challenges "that's not LA" it needs a definition. You are defining LA as "downtown", ok than. El Monte is much, much closer to downtown than West LA or the San Fernando Valley, both part of the city of LA. Very few Angelenos would say that downtown LA is the "only" definition of LA.

by Anonymousreply 42January 16, 2024 10:47 PM

[quote] San Fernando Valley is LA but more down to earth.

You really don't want to move to the Valley where that slut Brooke Logan is from.

You'd never be able to live that down. NEVER!

by Anonymousreply 43January 16, 2024 10:59 PM

R37 Yes, there's absolutely no difference in any place that you travel. There is no difference between say a concentration camp and a 5 star hotel. You just need to think positive and create your own reality.

by Anonymousreply 44January 16, 2024 11:00 PM

This might need some updating, but it's still fairly accurate (imo).

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by Anonymousreply 45January 16, 2024 11:05 PM

R45; Agreed, It's fairly accurate.

by Anonymousreply 46January 16, 2024 11:31 PM

Born and bred New Yorkers will hate El Lay. You have to own a car. In The Big Apple you could walk everywhere.

by Anonymousreply 47January 16, 2024 11:40 PM

Today on television, Jason Priestly said the family couldn't get the hell out of LA fast enough. Now happy in Nashville.

by Anonymousreply 48January 16, 2024 11:47 PM

Rednecks? In LA?

by Anonymousreply 49January 17, 2024 12:02 AM

Who would think Nashville is so great?

He barely mentioned it at 24:00. Is he MAGA?

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by Anonymousreply 50January 17, 2024 12:07 AM

It's a large collection of suburbs.

by Anonymousreply 51January 17, 2024 12:19 AM

Calabasas is not the valley. Burbank, Studio City, Van Nuys, Northridge. When I first moved here I lived in Van Nuys because it was cheaper than WeHo. Once I could, I moved to WeHo just up the street from Mickey's. Then the straight people came and drove us out. Overpaying for real estate and driving up prices. I sold my home for about 4 times what I paid for it and moved to the Fairfax/Melrose area. Close enough but far enough away. If you want to move here, do your research. Check out rents. Any hope of buying a house is going to be a pipe dream now unless you are a Powerball winner. Even shitholes are going for 750K. Yes there is lots to do, but all of it is expensive and requires a car. Car insurance here is very high as well.

by Anonymousreply 52January 17, 2024 12:20 AM

Yes, the map at r45 is fairly accurate.

I live in the Ripe for Future Gentrification Area

by Anonymousreply 53January 17, 2024 12:23 AM

Are there alot of uninsured motorists?

by Anonymousreply 54January 17, 2024 12:24 AM

How is Glendale?

by Anonymousreply 55January 17, 2024 1:28 AM

R55, a great place to try Armenian dick

by Anonymousreply 56January 17, 2024 3:01 AM

I live in Gays. Been here since '93, so I'm going to die in my rent controlled apartment.

by Anonymousreply 57January 17, 2024 3:17 AM

I know a family from Tennessee who did quite well for themselves in LA...

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by Anonymousreply 58January 17, 2024 3:57 AM

LA is like Detroit. Everything is second-rate, and especially at the high end.

by Anonymousreply 59January 17, 2024 4:51 AM

Living in LA is like being in America, but not really.

by Anonymousreply 60January 17, 2024 4:52 AM

After much research LA seems like a dump except for Santa Monica.

by Anonymousreply 61January 17, 2024 5:06 AM

[quote] How is Glendale?

Heavily Armenian to the point where it feels like a cultural enclave, like Chinatown.

by Anonymousreply 62January 17, 2024 5:44 AM

R61 The homeless have figured that out as well. Like everyone else they love the climate.

by Anonymousreply 63January 17, 2024 6:10 AM

Here's the deal, the area most people think of "LA" is actual a very small section of the city. It's mainly Hollywood, West Hollywood, Beverly Hills. That's were all the plastic surgery, shallow behavior, wanabes, clebs, social climbers live. Not surprisingly, most of the people there are from somewhere other than California. A lot of Brits lately. They all came to Hollywood to make their fame and fortune and most of them were a-holes before they arrived. You would be hard pressed to meet an actual person born in LA who lives there.

Lots of actors, models, working as waiters, young gays in those areas make it appear that most of the population is young, good looking, healthy but that's a myth. It's a fun place to hang out if you are young and like clubs, people, restaurants, entertainment but with that comes that attitude. Lots of industry types like writers, producers all congregate there because it's close to the work.

If you step out of that tiny section of LA, it's nothing like that. Pasadena, Long Beach, Culver City, Torrance, Palos Verdes parts of the valley like Studio City are nothing like that. Very suburban one story houses, quiet neighborhoods. The vast majority of people in LA HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH HOLLYWOOD. Just like any other large city, there are millions of people living millions of different lives with different types of jobs in hundreds of different industries.

by Anonymousreply 64January 17, 2024 7:05 AM

Long Beach is very low key, beach town with a huge gay population if that matters to you. They have their own Pride separate from West Hollywood with over 100,000 attendees each year. It's more racially diverse than other parts of LA. Lower rents and cost of living compared to places like WeHo. People are a lot more friendly. Just stay by the water like Downtown, Belmont Shore, Naples or 2nd street. Steer clear of North LB, it is cheap but ghetto.

by Anonymousreply 65January 17, 2024 7:23 AM

[quote] The vast majority of people in LA HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH HOLLYWOOD.

Exactly. It's like thinking everybody in NY is involved in Broadway musicals.

by Anonymousreply 66January 17, 2024 7:27 AM

[quote]Born and bred New Yorkers will hate El Lay.

Yet I meet so many New Yorkers who just moved to LA. The common trait is to complain endlessly to everyone how it's not like NY or NJ Yet they never leave. 5 years later they have the balls to call themselves "Cali Natives" to their friends back east.

by Anonymousreply 67January 17, 2024 7:29 AM

So glad i left Hell-Lay after living there for four years. 30 minute commute to go 5 miles sucked ass.

I then moved to San Fransisco, not much better but way more picturesque.

I decided that city living was not for me. Moved to Sonoma County. One of the most expensive places to live. So that part isn't great.

But being in a Mediterranean clime is great for gardening. The fire risk sucks though. I don't think i can find a place now that doesn't have a risk of whatever, anymore.

by Anonymousreply 68January 17, 2024 7:34 AM

[quote]Places like Long Beach that has come up in this thread is a good 25 miles from downtown LA and is not actually part of the city of Los Angeles

Neither is WeHo. It's technically a separate city with it's own mayor and city council.

I drive from Long Beach to Beverly Hills for work, not that bad of a drive. 45 minutes unless it's during rush hour.

by Anonymousreply 69January 17, 2024 7:34 AM

R1 Oh buttercup, they are just less worldly and less liberal. Same shit different day.

by Anonymousreply 70January 17, 2024 7:47 AM

R68 With your positive attitude I am sure you'll find happiness.

by Anonymousreply 71January 17, 2024 2:31 PM

Some people just hate LA and that's okay. Not everything is for everyone

by Anonymousreply 72January 17, 2024 10:46 PM

I love both LA and NYC....there...

by Anonymousreply 73January 17, 2024 11:05 PM

The problem with LA is it is a place built for cars. You have to drive everywhere and deal with horrendous traffic and parking trouble.

It's why a lot of NYers judge it, it's supposed to be the rival to NY but it doesn't even feel like a "real city". Thus the joke that LA is just a collection of suburbs.

But great weather, for some people the weather means everything.

by Anonymousreply 74January 17, 2024 11:51 PM

R74 - that's the problem I always have in LA. You have to drive everywhere and then there's no parking. The mental calculations of how long it's going to take wherever you want to go out, the cost and the time back - convinced me I would talk myself OUT of enjoying a lot that LA has to offer.

And LA does have an AMAZING amount of things to offer - virtually every comedian, music act, or entertainer of any kind will have gigs there. It's endless. Yes, many are trying out new material for a tour, but it's just overwhelming the names that you see each week and who and what's available to see.

For me, it's the LA vibe that depresses me. A lot of crushed dreams, desperation combined with soo much attitude and looks-obsessed people.

Also, LA fashion is WILD. The clothes that some people wear is so over the top - it borderlines on costumey and very staged and attention seeking. It's frequently laughable. Very different than NYC chic.

It's a great place to visit though.

by Anonymousreply 75January 18, 2024 12:51 AM

What about the SoCal vibe? Is it gone?

by Anonymousreply 76January 18, 2024 2:00 AM

[quote]What about the SoCal vibe? Is it gone?

Not for me.

by Anonymousreply 77January 18, 2024 2:03 AM

[quote] The problem with LA is it is a place built for cars. You have to drive everywhere and deal with horrendous traffic and parking trouble.

This wouldn't be so bad if there weren't horrendous traffic on the freeways, etc.

by Anonymousreply 78January 18, 2024 2:14 AM

It Prety much sums up LA. You need a car to go everywhere but everywhere has no parking.

by Anonymousreply 79January 18, 2024 2:24 AM

Manhattan Beach has the best of everything SoCal. Avoid it like the plague.

by Anonymousreply 80January 18, 2024 2:30 AM

R75 is spot on. I've lived in So Cal my whole life and there are times during the summer when I think, "I should go to the beach." But then you realize it will take you and hour and a half to drive the 30 miles to the beach and you will spend another hour or two trying to find parking. This happens every time I've tried it so I stopped going about 20 years ago.

The freeways have gotten much worse in the past 20 years too. We used to have "rush hour" which was usually the time between 7:30am and 10pm where the freeways were just packed. Then it would ease off a bit in the afternoon only to start up again around 4:30pm. Those days are over. There is traffic on the freeways 24/7 now and it just sucks.

That being said, the weather is usually pretty nice. Last year all the rain was horrible because we simply aren't prepared for that kind of deluge. But it doesn't happen often. Normally, you can sleep with your windows open during the summers (if you live on the second floor or in a safe neighborhood). I like the Fall here best though. It gets breezy and chilly and it's just so nice.

by Anonymousreply 81January 18, 2024 2:33 AM

LA was not built for cars. It was built for streetcars.

by Anonymousreply 82January 18, 2024 2:38 AM

Well, now we got trains.

by Anonymousreply 83January 18, 2024 2:41 AM

R82 Ahem. I am old enough to remember we could take the Red Car from downtown to the beach.

by Anonymousreply 84January 18, 2024 2:48 AM

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by Anonymousreply 85January 18, 2024 2:53 AM

Now you can take the E (Gold) Line to the beach. But you still can't get to the airport.

by Anonymousreply 86January 18, 2024 2:53 AM

[quote]that's the problem I always have in LA. You have to drive everywhere and then there's no parking. The mental calculations of how long it's going to take wherever you want to go out, the cost and the time back.

I have the same problem with NYC. So many confusing subways, taxi, Uber, Lift, different color lines, narrow over crowded streets, navigating a central hub, crime, dirty seats, dirty hand polls, the mental calculation one has to go through to get in and out of that city is exhausting. And make no mistake, most people except the rich actually live in NYC and can just walk out their door to a restaurant. Most middle-class spend hours commuting on dirty over crowded public transportation just to get to work.

by Anonymousreply 87January 18, 2024 4:08 AM

All these NY queens getting their panties in a wad about needing a car in LA. News Flash, almost all cities in the US except for NYC are car centric and have horrible traffic. Ever been to Texas? How about Nevada? Same issues just smaller cities with smaller traffic jams. But you STILL NEED A CAR to get everywhere.

Living in LA for over 30 years now I love my car, the personal freedom it gives me. I can go to the beach or the mountains within 2 hours of each. Not everyone is stuck on a freeway, driving up or down the coast on PCH to work is quite enjoyable with a view of the ocean 90% of the way. I love that I can go from a quite street in Culver to the beach for lunch, downtown for a play and over to Hollywood for the club scene all in the same day. All in the privacy and comfort of my own car, with my own stuff, at whatever time of day I feel like it. That's why everyone buys nice cars if they can afford it. It's not just transpiration, it's part of the experience which can be quite enjoyable.

by Anonymousreply 88January 18, 2024 4:30 AM

^ Actually there are still people in Chicago who go their whole lives without owning a car or at least only use them on weekends and you can go from downtown to the airport on a train

by Anonymousreply 89January 18, 2024 8:52 AM

Eureka.

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by Anonymousreply 90January 18, 2024 9:34 AM

Looks very Portlandy r90

by Anonymousreply 91January 18, 2024 10:39 AM

No Cal seems refreshing

by Anonymousreply 92January 18, 2024 10:41 AM

[quote]All these NY queens getting their panties in a wad about needing a car in LA. . Ever been to Texas? How about Nevada

Therein lies the rub r88. NYers don't compare NY to freaking Nevada, they are comparing it other major global cities like London, Paris, Madrid, Tokyo, Shanghai, etc.

LA is the second major city of America. You would think it would be more like a city. What makes a city is the energy in the streets, seeing all the people walking around going about their day, hopping on trains. When everyone needs to drive that is a completely different suburban type vibe. And you have the problem LA has, as you grow bigger if everyone needs their own car to get around it becomes unsustainable.

by Anonymousreply 93January 18, 2024 12:28 PM

There’s so much to do there –Like being in a

FLASH MOB

by Anonymousreply 94January 18, 2024 1:27 PM

R88- WRONG šŸ˜‘

Boston is not car centric

Philadelphia is not car centric

by Anonymousreply 95January 18, 2024 1:50 PM

What r93 is saying is that, whereas other cities are predictable clones of each other ("people walking around going about their day." Big wow.), L.A. is unique. That's true.

by Anonymousreply 96January 18, 2024 1:50 PM

LA has been gradually urbanizing over the last fifty years. It's interesting in that respect.

by Anonymousreply 97January 18, 2024 1:55 PM

Many cities (like Chicago) have tried to intensify their downtown, but few have been able to gradually increase density everywhere as LA has.

by Anonymousreply 98January 18, 2024 1:56 PM

I"m guessing this was because intensified downtown LA from the 80s was a huge failure.

by Anonymousreply 99January 18, 2024 1:57 PM

I’m in East Hampton. An East coast gay

by Anonymousreply 100January 18, 2024 2:09 PM

I’m in NYC and I love visiting LA. I love the driving around, love the beach, the food, the museums, the hiking, etc.

Couldn’t live there for a bunch of boring reasons, but it’s a great place to spend a week or two in. There is such a variety of things to do. And the driving feels like a luxury because I never drive in NY. Listening to my music and driving in a car is a treat šŸ˜‚

No LA judgment from this NY queen.

Most cities have great and not so great aspects. Nothing is perfect. I love hearing about places from the people who live there, but I’ll never understand the DL nastiness about different cities (NY included).

by Anonymousreply 101January 18, 2024 2:49 PM

For R75 & R81

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by Anonymousreply 102January 18, 2024 3:07 PM

Public transportation use rises significantly in LA over the last decade (except the COVID years). Although 2023 data isn't in yet, there were almost 240 million rides in public transportation in 2022. Take the bus or Metro from East Hollywood to downtown LA - guess what? It's full of people, only not the white middle class of DL.

NYC is the standard? Mmmm. OK. NYC subways are much more problematic than the Paris Metro or the London Tube, does that make NYC less important, desirable, or interesting than those cities?

What LA has, because of its history, is "urban villages"... nodes of living and working and shopping that is distributed, not centralized in one place. Urban planners for decades have been trying to develop this model.

by Anonymousreply 103January 18, 2024 3:13 PM

Eureka is MANY hours from any major (or even minor) city. And the sun rarely comes out.

by Anonymousreply 104January 18, 2024 3:23 PM

@r103, "What LA has, because of its history, is "urban villages"."

So, like neighborhoods? Wow, LA is just is on the edge of everything, huh?...Little Italy, Germantown, Chinatown, Jewtown, Polishtown, Boys town and many others would like a word šŸ˜

by Anonymousreply 105January 18, 2024 3:35 PM

What about...Azusa?

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by Anonymousreply 106January 18, 2024 3:37 PM

R103 - this, exactly. I have a friends who live in LA who almost never use their cars unless it's for a specific planned outing. They live in busy, walkable hub areas convenient to grocery markets, hardware stores, restaurants, retail, bars, etc. Also, the subway goes to a lot more places than I initially thought, which is pleasantly surprising. A couple of my friends don't even own a car - they rent one for a couple of days if they have out-of-neighborhood needs or mini-trips planned. A few of my friends who live in NYC and SF, drive pretty much everywhere, touting the freedom it gives them. These same people are always bitching about traffic and parking. In San Francisco, they're always looking for garage spaces to rent, which can add an additional $350/mo to their already exorbitant rent. In my opinion, if you're clever and adaptable, you can finesse where you live to your advantage, no matter where you call home.

by Anonymousreply 107January 18, 2024 6:04 PM

r97 so true. I remember when I first moved here, Thousand Oaks was too far to go for a hook up. Now people will go to riverside for a Handy!

by Anonymousreply 108January 18, 2024 8:40 PM

Move, OP.

by Anonymousreply 109January 19, 2024 12:56 AM

Traffic has gone WAY down post Covid. It's very, very noticeable.

by Anonymousreply 110January 19, 2024 1:27 AM

Yep, traffic is nothing like it was before Covid. A lot of people who can work remotely have stated remote. LA is more laid back that way. Unlike the entitled CEO's from NYC and SF whining on Linkdin that they are all slackers and need come back to the office so they can micro manage them while working on a computer. It's not how good of a job you do, it's how long you stay in the office that matters to them.

by Anonymousreply 111January 19, 2024 3:20 AM

R107 - but that sounds like the issue most people are talking about. You stay just in your area for the most part because it's so difficult to travel around.

I will say that West Hollywood is actually a really livable, walkable and interesting neighborhood. It's an outlier.

But, Silver Lake - there's no 'there' there and it's not walkable. Los Feliz? A couple of intersections, but not a 'neighborhood'.

by Anonymousreply 112January 20, 2024 2:13 AM

Step out of your bubble R112. WeHo is the only livable walkable neighborhood? You are talking about a 2 block section of Santa Monica Blvd. Most other neighborhoods have that if not more. Pasadena has a much bigger neighborhood where you can walk around shops and restaurants, as does Westwood, Santa Monica, Venice, Studio City, Long Beach, and Culver city just to mention a few. All much larger than the 1.9 square mile city of West Hollywood.

by Anonymousreply 113January 20, 2024 10:25 AM

LA pro and con, this guy has a few videos about it as a former NYC boy.

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by Anonymousreply 114January 20, 2024 11:01 AM

R113 Exactly... and you could add a bunch of neighborhoods - South Pasadena, San Pedro, Ocean Park, Long Beach... there's a whole neighborhood around La Brea that literally is designed for orthodox Jews to walk ONLY on the sabbath... etc.

I think one part of the cliched critique of "people in LA can never walk" is misunderstanding the geography - it's over 50 miles from Granada Hills to San Pedro; it's 30 miles from the Bronx to Staten Island.

by Anonymousreply 115January 20, 2024 2:39 PM

I lived in Valley Village within walking distance of the Transit Center. Would catch the subway form NoHo to beach in Santa Monica be there in about 30 minutes. same with going "over the hill" to Hollywood. The subway is quite workable and they are expanding it regularly.

by Anonymousreply 116January 20, 2024 11:49 PM

Valley Village to Santa Monica in 30 mins is a fucking dream versus trying to go over laurel canyon.

by Anonymousreply 117January 21, 2024 1:39 AM

Laguna Beach used to be a little piece of paradise for gay men, but too many orange county conservatives moved in.

by Anonymousreply 118January 21, 2024 1:50 AM

Orange County cunts ruin everything.

by Anonymousreply 119January 21, 2024 1:52 AM

Pasadena was cultured, but I don't think you could really say it is now. It still has the institutions, but....

by Anonymousreply 120January 21, 2024 2:19 AM

[quote]Laguna Beach used to be a little piece of paradise for gay men, but too many orange county conservatives moved in.

Yep, Orange County (unlike LA county) became really conservative and Republican. When I first moved to LA I live by Disneyland. There were about 3 or 4 gay bars within a 5 mile radius. Garden Grove Blvd was basically like a little WeHo with more than a dozen gay bars of every type. Dance, drag, country, leather, under 21 etc. Now it's all gone, I think maybe one left. They pushed all the gays out and that's not even a wealthy area. I think that's part of the reason Long Beach which is in LA county is so gay now. It's close enough to OC if you have to go there but has the protection of LA's more progressive stance on protecting LGBT rights. LB had one of the countries first openly gay mayors who is now a Congressman.

by Anonymousreply 121January 21, 2024 2:48 AM

North Hollywood, Studio City, and Pomona have had a gay rep too.

by Anonymousreply 122January 21, 2024 3:29 AM

I suppose Los Feliz is where most of the class gays live.

by Anonymousreply 123January 21, 2024 3:29 AM

You can't have high rise apartments like you do in NYC because it's on a fucking San Andreas fault line and earthquakes happen all the time.

by Anonymousreply 124January 21, 2024 4:01 AM

You’re absolutely right r123. That’s why I live in Los Feliz.

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by Anonymousreply 125January 21, 2024 4:06 AM

Except they do have them on Wlshire

by Anonymousreply 126January 21, 2024 9:39 AM

[quote]You can't have high rise apartments like you do in NYC because it's on a fucking San Andreas fault line and earthquakes happen all the time.

Are you really that clueless? That's news to all the structural engineers and architects who have been building high-rises in LA for the past 90 years.

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by Anonymousreply 127January 21, 2024 9:43 AM

R122, Pomona had a gay reputation?

by Anonymousreply 128January 21, 2024 9:48 AM

[quote] When I first moved to LA I live by Disneyland. There were about 3 or 4 gay bars within a 5 mile radius. Garden Grove Blvd was basically like a little WeHo with more than a dozen gay bars of every type. Dance, drag, country, leather, under 21 etc.

R121, what years were those?

by Anonymousreply 129January 21, 2024 9:52 AM

I want to leave LA. OP. Let's meet at the airport where we can exchange house keys and cars and then get on with our new lives.

ps - hope you're wealthy with a great car and home...

by Anonymousreply 130January 21, 2024 12:09 PM

You can be a star in LA and in New York . I sing about it in my 1977 hit, luckily with these butch dancers as back up.

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by Anonymousreply 131January 21, 2024 12:56 PM

" More Armenians than anyplace outside of Armenia. More Salvadorans than any city outside of San Salvador. "

Gee, you should be in marketing. Not.

by Anonymousreply 132January 21, 2024 1:32 PM

I’ll agree with the posters re traffic post covid, it is quieter everywhere. WFH really is more environmentally sustainable. On that point I’d say that it’s good to live close to where you work if possible. My commute is 15 mins in the morning and 25 on the way home (3 days a week). I rarely encounter frustrating meaningful traffic ever anymore, and on the occasions I do it’s like PTSD to pre covid times when I used to live further from work and have to deal with real traffic.

Secondly, R113 I’m with R112, I agree Weho is imho the most walkable neighborhood in LA. Pasadena is……an outdoor mall filled with furniture stores, it’s not locals going around their day, whereas Weho is. Pasadena also has a whole secondary street system entirely of parking garages to support the strip, which tells you exactly how ā€œwalkableā€ it is. In Weho, a lot of the people you see walking around haven’t driven in a car to get there. And I would say Weho is walkable on Santa Monica and the streets off it from Robertson all the way to La Brea and that’s a lot more than 2 blocks.

None of the areas that you mentioned are really what I would consider to be LA (in a zone 1 sort of way).

by Anonymousreply 133January 21, 2024 2:06 PM

Don't forget the swath between Sunset and 3rd, so many stores and restaurants.

by Anonymousreply 134January 21, 2024 2:37 PM

WeHo is really the only place you can live that feels like a pleasant, walkable neighborhood in LA with the possible exception of a few places like Santa Monica if you live near Montana or the beach, or Silverlake etc if you happen to live near a commercial street.

LA has so much going for it except one thing: people. Nobody bright or interesting in other parts of the country thinks, gee, I want to move to LA (unless they're in the entertainment industry). The rest move to NYC, Chicago, Boston, DC, Philly, even Austin or Atlanta. LA has the dullest, least interesting people in urban America.

Neil Simon once said: "When it's 100 in New York, it's 72 in Los Angeles. When it's 20 in New York, it's 72 in Los Angeles. However, there are six million interesting people in New York - and 72 in Los Angeles."

So come to LA, enjoy the weather and food, and forget about meeting anyone.

by Anonymousreply 135January 21, 2024 2:51 PM

R116, Google Maps says it's 1hr 42min from Valley Village to Santa Monica via public transit...

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by Anonymousreply 136January 21, 2024 3:21 PM

R129, it was 1984. When the Olympics came to town. I was only 19.

by Anonymousreply 137January 22, 2024 2:15 AM

[quote] Weho is imho the most walkable neighborhood in LA. Pasadena is……an outdoor mall filled with furniture stores, it’s not locals going around their day, whereas Weho is. Pasadena also has a whole secondary street system entirely of parking garages to support the strip, which tells you exactly how ā€œwalkableā€ it is. In Weho, a lot of the people you see walking around haven’t driven in a car to get there. And I would say Weho is walkable on Santa Monica and the streets off it from Robertson all the way to La Brea and that’s a lot more than 2 blocks.

West Hollywood surges from a population of about 34,000 in the day to about 65,000 at night. I guarantee most people do drive there. It's filled with furniture stores that no one can afford and other than the PDC there is NO PARKING. That should tell you how congested and difficult it is. No one walks to La Brea from where the bars are, give me a break. It's not any different than Pasadena, or any of the other walkable parts of town mentioned. The only good thing is WeHo is very, very gay.

by Anonymousreply 138January 22, 2024 2:53 AM

[quote]None of the areas that you mentioned are really what I would consider to be LA (in a zone 1 sort of way).

Neither is West Hollywood dude, it's not part of LA, it's a separate city with it's own government, similar to Long Beach. You cant even vote for who the Mayor of LA would be because you are not a resident of LA. You sound just like the stereotype that lives there, the world does not exist outside WeHo. Or to put it your way, all the cities mentions are not what YOU would consider LA even though I can assure you the millions that live in those other areas are laughing at your pretentious statement.

by Anonymousreply 139January 22, 2024 3:04 AM

LA used to have lots of interesting people.

by Anonymousreply 140January 22, 2024 4:04 AM

[quote] West Hollywood surges from a population of about 34,000 in the day to about 65,000 at night. I guarantee most people do drive there. It's filled with furniture stores that no one can afford and other than the PDC there is NO PARKING. That should tell you how congested and difficult it is. No one walks to La Brea from where the bars are, give me a break. It's not any different than Pasadena, or any of the other walkable parts of town mentioned. The only good thing is WeHo is very, very gay.

I’m guessing that 65k figure is weekends, when it’s a nightlife destination? I’m talking about daytime.

The furniture stores (which are mostly on Beverly anyway) don’t attract heavy footfall it’s mostly interior designers and appointment based (I work in the design field so I know). The PDC has been a graveyard the last few times I’ve been, but the stores are still doing business. I wasn’t saying people walk directly from the bars to La Brea, what I meant was all along that stretch there are consistent shops and restaurants uninterrupted so there is a constant pedestrian traffic. With actually functioning pedestrian crossings. It’s much different to Pasadena.

[quote] Neither is West Hollywood dude, it's not part of LA, it's a separate city with it's own government, similar to Long Beach. You cant even vote for who the Mayor of LA would be because you are not a resident of LA. You sound just like the stereotype that lives there, the world does not exist outside WeHo. Or to put it your way, all the cities mentions are not what YOU would consider LA even though I can assure you the millions that live in those other areas are laughing at your pretentious statement.

Yes I know it’s its own city, but its locus is more central to the kind of nebulous ā€˜centre’ of LA whatever that means, physically and culturally. I don’t live there btw. The other areas he mentioned are on the fringe of where anyone that lives in LA would consider LA. No need to get upset over it lol.

by Anonymousreply 141January 22, 2024 12:29 PM

West Hollywood is built on parking tickets.

by Anonymousreply 142January 22, 2024 5:22 PM

There is a huge stretch on Melrose pretty much from Highland to Doheny that is walkable with stores/restarurants/cafes that is popular with the social media kids. Similar with Beverly and 3rd Street as well.

by Anonymousreply 143January 23, 2024 11:55 AM

Op we are fine. We send our regards. You don’t need to come here.

by Anonymousreply 144January 23, 2024 7:22 PM

[quote]There is a huge stretch on Melrose pretty much from Highland to Doheny that is walkable with stores/restarurants/cafes that is popular with the social media kids. Similar with Beverly and 3rd Street as well.

Yep, that's what I am trying to say to the WeHo is the center of the world queen. He just does not get it. WeHo is not the center of LA. Pasadena a fringe? Beverly Hills is not what people thing of LA? WeHo is the cultural center of LA? Um it's all upper class white folk shopping for 4,000 coffee tables, the average house is 2-3 million and it's not even Beverly Hills.

by Anonymousreply 145January 24, 2024 11:32 AM

[quote]Where do nice, botox-free, non-fake people live?

Try the suburbs like Torrance.

by Anonymousreply 146January 24, 2024 11:36 AM

Does anyone here live in LA and not work in entertainment? How have you experienced LA?

by Anonymousreply 147January 24, 2024 12:14 PM

[quote] Yep, that's what I am trying to say to the WeHo is the center of the world queen. He just does not get it. WeHo is not the center of LA. Pasadena a fringe? Beverly Hills is not what people thing of LA? WeHo is the cultural center of LA? Um it's all upper class white folk shopping for 4,000 coffee tables, the average house is 2-3 million and it's not even Beverly Hills.

I never said Weho was the center. And I already said I don’t live there. You’re twisting my words. This is also the first time you mentioned Beverly Hills. Keep track of your own comments and you’d be more credible. I was just saying that Weho is a very walkable neighbourhood, more than any of the ones you mentioned, which it is. It’s the only one of those major strips (Melrose / sunset / Beverly / 3rd) that has crosswalks not at vehicle traffic lights to make pedestrian crossing much easier, and the density of commercial businesses along it is more consistent than the others too. You probably consider Pasadena to be ā€œcentral LAā€ because you live in some shithole like Pacoima lol. It’s not that serious.

[quote] Does anyone here live in LA and not work in entertainment? How have you experienced LA?

Yes R147 I work in the design end of the construction industry, LA is great, you can have a very enjoyable life especially if you like the outdoors, and although it does take a while to make good friends (because people are flakey and do move around a lot) it can be a very fulfilling place to live. It definitely misses a few points culturally compared to European cities if that’s what you’re used to, but you can find what you want if you put in the effort.

by Anonymousreply 148January 24, 2024 2:03 PM

[quote]Op we are fine. We send our regards. You don’t need to come here.

Translated into DL-Speak: We have sufficient.

by Anonymousreply 149January 24, 2024 8:30 PM

Then move to LA, fool.

by Anonymousreply 150January 24, 2024 9:00 PM

[quote]You probably consider Pasadena to be ā€œcentral LAā€ because you live in some shithole like Pacoima lol. It’s not that serious.

Wrong and wrong. I never said Pasadena was central, what I said is WeHo is not central as you suggest. Pacoima? Them is fighting words. I actually live a lot closer to WeHo than you want to know. And by the way I am also in the design business, probably longer than you were born. When I moved to LA the PDC consisted of one building and it was NOT open to the republic in any shape or form. It's always been a like dystopian mall of furniture.

So back to my point, while I did hang out in West Hollywood through the years and still do some work there every few months, it's never been that great of a walkable town. I have clients in other parts of LA so I can assure you to them it's just some area where the gays live and party. Santa Monica is brutal to cross, it's 4 lanes of traffic just to cross the street. And very loud and very busy. Venice is more walkable, Abbott Kenny is more walkable, and Beverly Hills is more walkable by comparison. None of those have 4 lanes of traffic to cross.

by Anonymousreply 151January 25, 2024 4:13 AM

[quote]Abbott Kenny

Oh, dear.

by Anonymousreply 152January 25, 2024 4:14 AM

r151, I've lived in West Hollywood since 1993, and never had problems crossing 4 lanes of traffic. I do it all the time from the John Reed gym to Trader Joe's, or to CVS, or to Whole Foods, or to Koonz Hardware.

by Anonymousreply 153January 25, 2024 1:02 PM

[quote] what I said is WeHo is not central as you suggest

wtf are you even talking about. I said it was more central to whatever the ā€˜center’ of LA would mean than the places you mentioned (Westwood, studio city and Pasadena) and sorry babe nobody on the planet is going to disagree with me on that.

[quote] I actually live a lot closer to WeHo than you want to know.

I don’t care where you live. Nobody does.

[quote] And by the way I am also in the design business, probably longer than you were born.

Huh? And so what?

[quote] I have clients in other parts of LA so I can assure you to them it's just some area where the gays live and party.

Again, so what? Why would I care what your clients think? Why do you care what your clients think? What does it being a place that gay people live that would affect its walkability? Were you drunk when you posted this comment bc it’s a whole mess.

[quote] Santa Monica is brutal to cross, it's 4 lanes of traffic just to cross the street.

All of the main commercial thoroughfares in LA are 4 lanes, what’s your point?

[quote] it's (Weho) never been that great of a walkable town.

Let’s look at some data shall we.

[quote] To keep things simple, we’ve restricted the ranking to neighborhoods within Los Angeles city limits. That’s why you won’t see pedestrian-friendly areas like Downtown Long Beach or Downtown Santa Monica here (which score 93 and 91 out of 100, respectively). Nor will you find the entire city of West Hollywood, which managed an impressive score of 91.

Score of 91. That would place it joint 4th on this list of LA’s top 10 walkable neighbourhoods. Can you just drop your weird vendetta now?

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by Anonymousreply 154January 25, 2024 2:35 PM

R154 is officially TRIGGERED. I guess the truth really got his panties in a wad. The truth is you can see from his vapid posts how most WeHo gays act.

by Anonymousreply 155January 27, 2024 12:01 PM

R154 is trapped in the past, that list is from 2017. Things have changed Dear.

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by Anonymousreply 156January 27, 2024 12:04 PM

After living in LA for 35 years you find it is really a series of small towns. Once you settle into you own town you rarely stray. As I got older only on a special occasions or if had friends visiting would I "go over the hill" and leave cozy Valley Village.

by Anonymousreply 157January 27, 2024 3:30 PM

R155 Fuck off. I don’t know if the hoe was you but r154 owned that hoe. Point by point. He read the filthy cunt to filth.

by Anonymousreply 158January 27, 2024 8:42 PM

[quote]Where do nice, botox-free, non-fake people live?

Montana.

by Anonymousreply 159January 27, 2024 9:59 PM

Botox-free non-fake people? Dont look to R154 for that answers, guarantee he's had work done. Oh but she does not consider Botox actual "work". I probably triggered her again. She sounds like a vapid WeHo aged out wannabe. Probably 40+ still going out to the clubs thinking she still hot even though most of the guys there are half her age.

by Anonymousreply 160January 27, 2024 10:08 PM
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