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"I'm Not Gay But I Cheat On My Wife With Men"

Other People's Lives podcast speaks with a man who identifies as straight, but has had sex with thousands of men behind his wife's back.

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by Anonymousreply 72January 2, 2024 12:29 AM

I'm not gay, I just enjoy sleeping with lots of male prostitutes

I'ma straight dude

by Anonymousreply 1December 14, 2023 6:12 PM

The podcast host on the right, Joe Santagato, is a hottie.

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by Anonymousreply 2December 14, 2023 6:14 PM

And then you ask why bisexuals suffer lots of discrimination...

by Anonymousreply 3December 14, 2023 6:15 PM

Op, this podcast sounds fun. I just checked out the titles on Spotify. Have some listening options for my flight tonight.

by Anonymousreply 4December 14, 2023 6:22 PM

[quote] There are many answer to that question. One is biphobia. I know only a hanful of bi guys who are out to their girlfriends/wives and they're accepted for who they are.

IT’S HOMOPHOBIA. It’s the gay shit that their wives don’t like. Jesus. Just the gay part.

by Anonymousreply 5December 14, 2023 7:19 PM

His wife doesn't know he sometimes hooks up with randoms 5 times a day if he's "really needy"? Sure, Jan.

by Anonymousreply 6December 14, 2023 7:24 PM

That Greg Dybec is a cutie.

by Anonymousreply 7December 14, 2023 7:30 PM

There has to be something really fucked up on a woman's mind, heart, soul and self-steem to accept being on a marriage with guys like this or the ones who marry gay4pay sluts.

by Anonymousreply 8December 14, 2023 7:31 PM

I'd like to know why this so called man is ok with possibly exposing his wife to all kinds of STDs. Assuming they're still sleeping together.

by Anonymousreply 9December 14, 2023 7:43 PM

He's bisexual at least. That he personally identifies as straight is just delusional.

by Anonymousreply 10December 14, 2023 7:47 PM

I'm straight. I've just been experimenting with homosexuality for the past 69 years.

by Anonymousreply 11December 14, 2023 7:50 PM

Sure Jan

by Anonymousreply 12December 14, 2023 8:03 PM

What's that about denial being river in Egypt?

by Anonymousreply 13December 14, 2023 8:09 PM

Sounds like he had at least 10 times as many hook-ups with men over the course of my lifetime, and I'm gay.

by Anonymousreply 14December 14, 2023 8:17 PM

is the caller using one of those voice disguising machines?

by Anonymousreply 15December 14, 2023 8:42 PM

He sounds like Peter Frampton when he used that talk box.

by Anonymousreply 16December 14, 2023 8:45 PM

He has a few regulars he sees 2 or 3 times a week?

by Anonymousreply 17December 14, 2023 8:46 PM

We're not gay either

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by Anonymousreply 18December 14, 2023 8:46 PM

Bisexual or gays and closeted. In any case he’s fucked up.

by Anonymousreply 19December 14, 2023 8:47 PM

We're not gay either.

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by Anonymousreply 20December 14, 2023 8:49 PM

A classic

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by Anonymousreply 21December 14, 2023 8:51 PM

r15 yes, he's actually Tyler Perry.

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by Anonymousreply 22December 14, 2023 8:59 PM

Thats a lot of straight gay men, commuter trains full of them.

by Anonymousreply 23December 14, 2023 9:01 PM

“he has grandchildren…”?!?

Way to bury the lede you whore!

by Anonymousreply 24December 14, 2023 9:03 PM

This delusional closet case is exhausting. He’s focused on such shallow, materialistic things… and only on the periphery at that!

He lies too. Besides lying to himself… “I’d never seen anything like these posts on Craigslist before.” But then he experimented in high school and was the bottom bitch for his college football team.

Seriously, he is just exhausting and does not deserve any sympathy or further energy.

by Anonymousreply 25December 14, 2023 9:19 PM

Hugh Jackman is appearing on podcasts now?

by Anonymousreply 26December 14, 2023 10:15 PM

His wife is a beard and he's gay.

by Anonymousreply 27December 14, 2023 10:18 PM

I really don’t care about this dude’s downlow exploits.

by Anonymousreply 28December 14, 2023 10:19 PM

The Onion really nailed this type of guy:

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by Anonymousreply 29December 14, 2023 10:22 PM

I'm not gay but my boyfriend is.

by Anonymousreply 30December 14, 2023 10:23 PM

No Homo

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by Anonymousreply 31December 14, 2023 10:27 PM

Ah, naturally written by a gay man, just as a fantasy - makes sense.

by Anonymousreply 32December 14, 2023 10:30 PM

Not gay, just love giving bro jobs to my homies

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by Anonymousreply 33December 14, 2023 10:53 PM

I remember seeing r20's clip years ago as part of a longer series with those two guys.

It was mildly entertaining.

by Anonymousreply 34December 14, 2023 11:01 PM

If he is hosting up to 5 men a day for 3 hour sessions each he has a serious sex addiction. How does he get any work done? Unless he is an escort too.

by Anonymousreply 35December 15, 2023 1:07 AM

I think I’m starting to realize that bisexual men aren’t really bisexual or gay but rather sex addicts who turn to men to indulge in their addiction.

They simply can’t get enough sex from women only, there aren’t enough slutty women. Enter gay men and a whole new world opens up.

by Anonymousreply 36December 15, 2023 1:40 AM

Are the show's hosts gay? They seem VERY interested in the topic.

by Anonymousreply 37December 15, 2023 1:47 AM

BTW, who the fuck would make that public?

Unless he’s writing a book.

by Anonymousreply 38December 15, 2023 2:04 AM

At the end the caller does confirm that his voice has been altered to protect his identity.

by Anonymousreply 39December 15, 2023 2:27 AM

Of course he thinks that a gay man can't be masculine and only married men are masculine. Both ridiculous cliches.

by Anonymousreply 40December 15, 2023 2:32 AM

[quote]Enter gay men and a whole new world opens up.

Not to mention a whole new HOLE.

by Anonymousreply 41December 15, 2023 1:38 PM

Then they wonder why they get aids and stuff.

by Anonymousreply 42December 15, 2023 2:07 PM

He’s just festive!

by Anonymousreply 43December 15, 2023 2:11 PM

I can tell you what he is .... a PROSTITUTION WHORE!!!!

by Anonymousreply 44December 15, 2023 2:36 PM

If a lot of these customers are dropping in from work I would be demanding a Silkwood scrub before I touched them. And his idea that a man who has spent HOURS at the gym should not shower for him - yuck!

by Anonymousreply 45December 16, 2023 1:46 AM

Dr Joe Kort maintains these men are indeed straight. They attracted to the sex act not the man. Does that even make sense?

by Anonymousreply 46December 16, 2023 2:08 AM

There is gay gossip about Denzel and Lenny Kravitz.

by Anonymousreply 47December 16, 2023 2:12 AM

Is Joe gay?

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by Anonymousreply 48December 16, 2023 2:13 AM

r45 when he started talking about enjoying the smelly musk of another man he lost me on the straight thing.

by Anonymousreply 49December 16, 2023 5:39 AM

r29 Yes, they've covered the topic well.

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by Anonymousreply 50December 16, 2023 5:44 AM

I once met a guy in New York who didn't't think he was cheating on his wife if it was with a guy. He was actually really nice and cute and seemed sane. But I told him that was a weird to look at that.

by Anonymousreply 51December 16, 2023 6:00 AM

I bet that used to happen more, especially in red states. People that don’t leave their hometown especially. Regardless they tend to be judgmental angry retaliatory sometimes hyper religious asses with no loyalty

by Anonymousreply 52December 16, 2023 6:23 AM

R48) Dr Joe "identifies" as gay but says he lately has had an "erotic attraction" to women or at least at times so who really knows. He says erotic attractions can be different from sexual orientation.

by Anonymousreply 53December 16, 2023 12:40 PM

I just listened to this mess. He's an EST, right? It got very trollish towards the end there.

by Anonymousreply 54December 17, 2023 7:29 AM

R53. A desperate attempt to be relevant.

by Anonymousreply 55December 17, 2023 9:27 PM

This is a setup to sell an onlyfans or something later to gay dudes who are delusional enough to believe straight guys are like this and all it takes is a couple beers.

by Anonymousreply 56December 17, 2023 9:47 PM

R56. Actually I’ve found that to be accurate, but these guys must have had a little sugar in their tanks.

by Anonymousreply 57December 17, 2023 9:50 PM

It seems he is not too concerned over looks so he CANNOT be gay. Gay men want pics upfront before even considering a meeting.

by Anonymousreply 58December 17, 2023 10:03 PM

Um, listen more closely, R58. He is obsessed with all things shallow: occupations, where they vacation, his partners’ ability to pass as straight. He may not say he’s concerned with looks, but he definitely is concerned with appearances.

by Anonymousreply 59December 20, 2023 3:30 AM

[quote] he definitely is concerned with appearances

What type of telephone does he use?

by Anonymousreply 60December 20, 2023 8:37 AM

I do remember him saying he liked a man to be well built and well maintained.

by Anonymousreply 61December 20, 2023 8:54 AM

R46

Absolutely it makes sense, They are sex addicts and it’s the hunt, the exciting easy sex almost any time they want it from other men, He will be into woman as his main desire but will have lots of sex with men for the joy of having sex. His porn will be straight porn. ,

Woman are a lot of work, They take effort and time and often dinner. And sex would be considered cheating with a woman, with a man you can just hit an app or go to the local pickle park for a quick b j or the local truck stop . You will find men doing what men do,

300+ different men for sex in a year plus his Mrs——not uncommon at all. It’s a sex addiction.

by Anonymousreply 62December 20, 2023 9:06 AM

[quote] he definitely is concerned with appearances [quote] What type of telephone does he use?

APPEARANCES Rose! Appearances! He’s not looking to fuck someone over the edge of his Whirlpool washer!

by Anonymousreply 63December 20, 2023 9:59 PM

A guy on Brooklyn's Promenade cruised me. Said only had sex with guys when "the wife" was pregnant. Then told me they had six kids, all close in ages.

by Anonymousreply 64December 20, 2023 10:21 PM

R64 Nice to know he has standards.

by Anonymousreply 65December 20, 2023 10:34 PM

^^^

Nice to know he only has the one wife!

Then again, you said you were on the promenade, not a Home Depot parking lot getting propositioned by a gang of Salvadorans.

by Anonymousreply 66December 21, 2023 5:02 AM

well, he's not gay gay!

by Anonymousreply 67December 21, 2023 5:14 AM

He wants men more than I do, and that’s what I exclusively date.

by Anonymousreply 68December 21, 2023 5:29 AM

He's not gay if he's married to a woman, he's just....curious and adventurous! He gets a thrill out of doing something taboo! He's such a naughty boy!

by Anonymousreply 69December 21, 2023 5:46 AM

The two guys in OP's photo still have slept with thousands of men?

by Anonymousreply 70December 21, 2023 5:48 AM

So do they do the butt sex? Where the man goes up into the man? Or only oral?

by Anonymousreply 71December 21, 2023 1:53 PM

I was watching one of those predator stings on Youtube and a guy showed up for a meeting with a kid. During questioning, the dude says he has a fiancee and that he's not gay - he just likes getting blowjobs from men once in a while.

It was not brought up if he gives a blowjob in return, so it's a mystery whether he reciprocates. Who wants to bet that his mindset is that as long as he doesn't blow anyone, then he isn't gay. Of course he's not 😉

by Anonymousreply 72January 2, 2024 12:29 AM
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