I’m leaving town unexpectantly for the Christmas holiday and have an elderly dog who can’t travel with me. A good friend has agreed to stay at my house and take care of my dog while I’m away. What is a fair rate to pay my friend for his service?
How much do you pay a friend for house sitting/pet sitting per day/night?
by Anonymous | reply 37 | December 15, 2023 5:18 PM |
Whatever it would cost to board the dog per day.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | December 13, 2023 1:27 AM |
Hide your adult toys OP
by Anonymous | reply 2 | December 13, 2023 1:29 AM |
Depending on where you live, $75-150 a day plus a refrigerator well stocked with food and beverages. More if the dog requires any special care.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | December 13, 2023 1:33 AM |
Minimum of $75 a day in most urban areas. If pet has special needs, should be higher.
If you're in a rural area, you might get away with $50 or $60 a day.
Definitely stock up the fridge. Ask the pet sitter what his/her favorites are and buy that.
Remember, this is someone you may need to hire again in the future. So definitely cultivate a good relationship with him/her.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | December 13, 2023 2:26 AM |
Pay that ho their worth 😂
by Anonymous | reply 5 | December 13, 2023 2:36 AM |
If you're leaving unexpectantly, OP, I wouldn't bother going.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | December 13, 2023 1:00 PM |
How much for someone who is just coming by to feed the cat and play with it briefly on a daily basis?
by Anonymous | reply 7 | December 13, 2023 1:04 PM |
Take a look on Wag, Task Rabbit or Rover to see what they're charging in your area.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | December 13, 2023 6:20 PM |
$50/day at min.
by Anonymous | reply 9 | December 13, 2023 6:51 PM |
A friend in Denver had a sitter in her house over Thanksgiving to look after her dachshund. No special needs, just walked the dog twice a day and fed her.
$100 a day.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | December 13, 2023 7:06 PM |
R9 is correct, even if they stock the fridge, etc.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | December 13, 2023 7:07 PM |
What "friend" would accept money for a favor? I can see stocking the fridge for someone housesitting, but why does it have to be transactional?
by Anonymous | reply 12 | December 13, 2023 7:29 PM |
R12 because they are providing a valuable service and taking responsibility for the life and well being of your pets while you are away, something a professional is paid to do. And more, at that.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | December 13, 2023 7:33 PM |
Give him his choice of your dick or your hole when you return.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | December 13, 2023 7:44 PM |
[R12], it is an inconvenience for most people to take the responsibility of someone else’s home, mail, trash, pet, etc.
People are busy and overwhelmed with their own houses, pets, jobs, medical needs, loved ones, etc and to be tied down to someone else’s home/pet is asking a lot. Just commenting between 2 homes is a lot.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | December 13, 2023 11:35 PM |
A burlap bag and some stones are a lot cheaper. Plus you can start fresh with kitties and puppies when you get home. 🌊
by Anonymous | reply 16 | December 13, 2023 11:43 PM |
Plug in your cameras! Seriously, is your friend volunteering or wanting payment? I would not discuss payment and then surprise them with payment. I have done this for a very generous friend just wanting to help me. He was floored and graciously accepted the money, including it was not necessary.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | December 14, 2023 12:03 AM |
I've watched over many friends' dogs and cats, and never been paid. The whole concept is foreign to me. It's certainly nice to offer to pay, though.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | December 14, 2023 12:08 AM |
R16 lol
by Anonymous | reply 19 | December 14, 2023 12:52 AM |
R5, yes, give that man his flowers.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | December 14, 2023 1:55 PM |
I have cats, I give my friend a gift after I return as thanks
my friends never lodge at my house
by Anonymous | reply 21 | December 14, 2023 2:49 PM |
[quote] I've watched over many friends' dogs and cats, and never been paid. The whole concept is foreign to me. It's certainly nice to offer to pay, though.
You should get paid. Your friends are taking advantage.
by Anonymous | reply 22 | December 14, 2023 3:04 PM |
R18 do you stay in their home or do they bring their pets to your home?
I pay friends/family $100 per day to stay in my house. I let them use my car. I am sure in most cases they would do it for free but I would never ask anyone without intending to pay them. That’s just rude and disrespectful.
When I can’t get someone I know to stay, I board my dog and have a cat sitter who comes 2x a day for $40. I don’t like to do this for more than 1 or 2 nights though.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | December 14, 2023 3:07 PM |
I dog- and house-sat for my cousin. I lived in the city (small apartment with pool) and she lived in a suburb (house, no pool). I preferred my apartment in the city, but did this as a favor. She didn't pay me and she talked about it later, like it was a great vacation for me, just because her house was bigger than my apartment.
What I do remember was that the bed (guest room) that I slept on didn't have fresh sheets. There was dog fur on it. She didn't re-make the bed in advance of me coming over.
She didn't have great foods in her fridge.
She works in PR and always convinces herself that all situations are a win-win, when it's only beneficial to her.
by Anonymous | reply 24 | December 14, 2023 3:08 PM |
R24 that’s just wrong and you should call your cousin out on that shit.
My pet sitters also live in NYC and can work remotely. It is a win-win because my house is very private, I have a pool and hot tub, multiple outdoor seating areas, grill, indoor and outdoor fireplaces. I set the house up for them like it’s an AirBnB with a freshly made bed, luxury bath products, fully stocked fridge and freezer, and use of a car.
I don’t think I would want anyone I don’t know and my pets don’t know to stay in my house though.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | December 14, 2023 3:26 PM |
Footnote to my story at R24. My cousin had two dogs, a basenji and a terrier. I took them both out for walks. The terrier took a crap regularly. The basenji never did take a crap, as far as I could tell.
The basenji actually escaped into the neighborhood. When I opened the gate, he made a break for it. The terrier was behind the basenji during the escape. I told the terrier Stop! and the terrier did stop.
Anyway, my cousin's husband told me that, when they (he & my cousin) returned home, the basenji took a crap on their king-sized bed. It was a demonstration of anger, I guess. He was mad at them for leaving.
Aside from the escape, nothing weird happened. I fed them lots of snacks.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | December 15, 2023 2:24 AM |
[quote]I preferred my apartment in the city, but did this as a favor. She didn't pay me and she talked about it later, like it was a great vacation for me, just because her house was bigger than my apartment.
I've known women like your cousin, R24. Typically they don't come right out and ask for a favor, they paint a rosy picture of doing some sweet favor for you. "Wouldn't it be fun if you..." (translated as: save me $100 bucks or so a day, money that I will enjoy more on my vacation than you would not being on vacation -- except that staying in my big dumb suburban house is really a vacation for you, right? We have the big TV and the backyard!) They always describe their grift as having done you a great favor - because you love the dogs, especially that shit-packed basenji. It will be fun!)
The first time after your dog sitting stay that she brought it up, I'd bring up the dirty sheets and shame her.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | December 15, 2023 2:46 AM |
R27, this same cousin roped another cousin into dog-sitting. Our other cousin told me the same thing about the bed (he called it a "dog bed"). He was actually prissier about it than I was due to having allergies.
by Anonymous | reply 28 | December 15, 2023 3:33 AM |
You can ask a friend to pet sit but don't expect much.
If you pay a friend or professional to pet sit, expect them to feed, provide medication (if needed), scoop litter, take out the trash, bring in the mail, do a light clean before the end of their stay, and provide a detailed update during each visit with pictures.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | December 15, 2023 3:44 AM |
[quote] do a light clean before the end of their stay
I don't think so. That's a whole different service.
by Anonymous | reply 30 | December 15, 2023 3:50 AM |
I’ve dog sat for friends before—spent a couple of nights at their house and administered medication to their dog too. It never occurred to me to ask for payment. They are great friends and he was a great dog.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | December 15, 2023 3:59 AM |
Pets are messy, R30.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | December 15, 2023 4:01 AM |
R37, it may have never occurred to you to ask to be paid, but they never should have asked you without offering to pay you.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | December 15, 2023 4:01 AM |
$50 a day. Period. I don't care if they're friends. Pay them.
by Anonymous | reply 34 | December 15, 2023 4:05 AM |
[quote] Pets are messy, [R30].
Just my opinion: that's for the owners to deal with when they get back from their trip. If they want a housekeeper, they should hire one.
by Anonymous | reply 35 | December 15, 2023 4:13 AM |
Just my opinion: If I'm caring for anybody's animal and getting paid, I'm gonna run a vacuum for 5 minutes to get the pet hair and litter box particles.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | December 15, 2023 5:15 PM |
[quote] If I'm caring for anybody's animal and getting paid, I'm gonna run a vacuum for 5 minutes to get the pet hair and litter box particles.
I'm sure the people you're pet sitting for would welcome that.
by Anonymous | reply 37 | December 15, 2023 5:18 PM |