Tips for finding a rich older man

How old are YOU? Pics?

Oh, learn how to work a mean Kalamatiano on the dancefloor!

In my dreams I have a plan

If I got me a wealthy man

I wouldn't have to work at all, I'd fool around and have a ball

Before retirement I worked in the Trust Department at JPMorgan Chase. The majority of the clients at this branch were from the immediate area and there were 3 or 4 customers (older, male, unmarried) I would see - alone, usually on a Sunday evening - at the neighborhood gay bar. From looking at them you would never guess the kind of wealth each of these guys had. The lesson here OP is be nice to all the older guys you see in a bar. You never know.

An older guy suggesting such an arrangement is considered a lecherous pervert whereas a younger man suggesting it is "entrepreneurial". So to answer your question, yes be upfront with what you're looking for. Maybe not the first time you meet, but certainly bring it up by the second or third time. Coy seldom works with older successful types.

How small is your city? It's impossible to say without knowing that information.

First, OP, you’ll need to learn the difference between who’s and whose.

A small midwestern city? Why you’ll have your pick of the litter when it comes to wealthy gay men!

What exactly does the rich older man get out of the arrangement you seek, OP?

Fly out to LA to visit David Geffen or Barry Diller

Go to Palm Springs. Present hole, and wait for interested geezers with money.

As a rich older man I can definitely say that you better be absolute top-drawer, educated, perfect manners and a good conversationalist besides being the best dicksucker ever. I’m generous but not on trash.

R8, let me respond to your question.

If the older gentleman is like me, he isn't interested in a full-time relationship. (Been there, done that. No thanks.) He gets an occasional companion - when it's convenient for both parties. He has someone to dine with, take to the theater, travel to Mexico or Europe with for a couple weeks, an occasional romp in the sack, etc. He gets to share some knowledge and mentor someone. He gets to spend some money on someone other than himself. He's gets to feel appreciated, if only briefly. And he gets to send his friend home when he's "had sufficient".

Here's a few tips.

Be 21, hot, hung, and a bottom.

Apply to be Kevin Spacey's latest "personal assistant"

Place a classified ad:

Rich, Dying and Alone?

Position wanted: Heir.

Verificatia available upon request.

Another few tips:

Be hot, hung, 31 and a top.

What you propose @ 12 OP sounds like a one-sided, raw deal to me.

You ain't special enough ... .

How are you financially supporting yourself now?

#1 for seven weeks in 1981!

I let men come after me. I don’t even try.

Some small place in the flyoverland?

If you want to find rich gays, you need to be in a place rich gays live. In NYC you can just hang out at Townhouse.

And it's not hard, be hot. If you are attractive, gay men will want to approach you. You let them flirt and wine and dine you.

Just be nice to the gentlemen, Fancy. They’ll be nice to you.

WTF, R12? This rich older man wants a hot ass and a suckable cock -preferably on a hot latin guy whose biggest dilemma is which end wants my load more. I can get dinner companions any night of the week.

OP,Give it up. If you do find a rich man , he will hold it over your head forever, think he is better than you and the list goes on. Why do you think he is single ! ?

Find a Texas oil billionaire who is over 90 and at death's door