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Drain me dry: the erotic world of Financial Domination

How do I get a gig like this?

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by Anonymousreply 20October 10, 2023 9:37 AM

[quote]How do I get a gig like this?

You have to start by getting lips like that

by Anonymousreply 1October 9, 2023 8:00 AM

I suspect you have to have a dominatrix style. It's very hard work if you're not a natural at it though.

by Anonymousreply 2October 9, 2023 8:08 AM

What is IT?

by Anonymousreply 3October 9, 2023 9:29 AM

It's just a different type of escort presumably.

Standard escorts will have sex with their clients in return for payment, "fin doms" will humiliate their clients in return for payment.

by Anonymousreply 4October 9, 2023 9:32 AM

I’ve seen a lot of the really muscle ho’s put this in their Twitter profile lately. Especially BBC profiles

by Anonymousreply 5October 9, 2023 9:39 AM

Fin Doms has got to be the biggest ripoff fetish ever invented. They dont even have sex with their clients. There are a lot of "straight" fin doms posting on gay sites too.

What an easy gig. You just tell total strangers what a piece of shit they are and they send cash or buy you stuff off of your Amazon wish list.

by Anonymousreply 6October 9, 2023 9:40 AM

R6 Presumably it's only the very wealthy who partake in that, though. If you're earning tens of thousands a month, giving a few hundred to a fin dom won't break the bank.

I wouldn't do it myself, as they're creepy guys.

by Anonymousreply 7October 9, 2023 9:43 AM

You presume wrong. It's a fetish, has no tie to financial stability. It's not particularly a rich persons fetish. I am betting 99% are not rich. It's about control, not money. The Dom controls you by taking everything you have, your power away. That's how those guys get off.

However, I am not convinced there are all that many guys that want to do that, probably 3 times as many Fin Doms as there are clients. Because it's an easy grift. You can be straight, gay, you don't have sex, you don't even have to meet them in person. Great job for a con artists.

by Anonymousreply 8October 9, 2023 9:55 AM

It's a scam performed by the mentally ill on the mentally ill.

by Anonymousreply 9October 9, 2023 1:54 PM

sociopaths exploiting unwell people

by Anonymousreply 10October 9, 2023 2:07 PM

A lot of the findoms show the soles of their feet.. to show that they're alpha? Maybe betas, gammas, deltas, etc., don't have feet. I'm not sure what's behind it. It is the only fetish that makes me legitimately angry though because these unemployable dirtbags are in no position to demand anything. I used to have a burner twitter account where I'd comment on findom posts calling them unfuckable losers, baby dicks, used tampons, basement-dwelling cumstains, and other terms of disparagement, but it got old.

by Anonymousreply 11October 9, 2023 2:11 PM

Mateo Blanco always has a new gimmick. Apparently is trans / female now. Or advertises in some markets as such. This means her clients have a double fetish - for findom and trans.

Okay, then.

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by Anonymousreply 12October 9, 2023 2:24 PM

The feet thing is symbolic, like you are so low that you are under my foot. Again, I am not sure if it's the Doms that think this is working or the clients who want it. Sort of an extreme domination fantasy I guess.

I still say Fin Dom is not a fetish, it's a grift.

by Anonymousreply 13October 9, 2023 11:11 PM

Why are effeminate south Asian queens so dangerously bizarre? What makes them all such freaks? It can’t all be cultural, can it?

by Anonymousreply 14October 10, 2023 12:51 AM

“I want to look like Lisa Rinna, but even poufier!” 👄

by Anonymousreply 15October 10, 2023 1:02 AM

When the straight men in Asia act more like fem guys in the US and you sprinkle some gay fairy dust on them, that's what you get r14. Hyper freaky effeminate queens.

by Anonymousreply 16October 10, 2023 1:08 AM

Asians seem almost unisex. That's what you get without sexual competition: you just marry the guy nextdoor.

by Anonymousreply 17October 10, 2023 1:22 AM

What happens to people after all their money is taken away?

by Anonymousreply 18October 10, 2023 1:54 AM

It looks absolutely disgusting. I mean that face.

by Anonymousreply 19October 10, 2023 2:07 AM

The interviewer keeps telling this sociopath prostitute what a highly sensitive, vulnerable, caring/sharing, humanitarian empath he is- and he just stares coldly, like 'Uh-huh'.

by Anonymousreply 20October 10, 2023 9:37 AM
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