Bethenny Frankel and NeNe Leakes are getting real about where their friendship stands with Andy Cohen.
During a lengthy discussion on Tuesday's episode of Just B with Bethenny Frankel, the two former Housewives discussed the fallout they've each had with the show's executive producer in the wake of their respective crusades for fair treatment.
Both women have a long history with Cohen, with all rising to fame at the same time — Frankel as an original star of The Real Housewives of New York City, Leakes as an OG cast member of The Real Housewives of Atlanta and Cohen as a Bravo development executive, EP and emerging on-air host.
And while they each noted how they appeared to be "Andy's Favorite" in the public's eye, often sitting next to him at the reunions and making regular appearances on Watch What Happens Live, the women said on this week's podcast that their closeness with Cohen, 55, wasn't indicative of a strong bond.
"I don't feel like we were good friends," said Leakes, 55. "My good friends, I go to their house or I visit their home at some point, so I never visited his home. ... [We were] probably a little more than [colleagues] because I could call him on his cell. I have gone out with him, out on the town, and I’ve gone drinking with him and I’ve partied with him. ... [But] I did not know where it stood. I thought we had a good relationship."
She went on to refer to a friendship with Cohen as "a real game" every Housewife has to play. "He's at the top and he is moving everybody around on the board," said Leakes.
Frankel agreed, explaining how she thinks the game works. "There's always questions, 'Who texts you the most? Who do you text the most?' And the thing is, we're all in the game," said the Skinnygirl founder, 52. "I remember one year, I was off the Housewives and I went to his house for his Christmas party and there were all these famous people there and I felt special. And then, you know, I'm sitting next to him at this reunion and now I feel special. And it reminds me of you with your parents ... we all want his approval, we all want to be the favorite. We want to be able to say, 'I've been on that show the most.' It's like a calling card."
"There's a psychology that goes on with this group and this show," Frankel said. "He used to be an executive and he's a producer so there's this power play. ... It's tricky."
In July, Frankel made headlines by launching a "reality reckoning," a call to arms charge to revolutionize unscripted TV. She's currently working with lawyers to not only expose some of the injustices she claims reality stars have experienced at the hands of the networks, but also to unionize those personalities in the fight for fair conditions and residual-like payments.
Her campaign, which has been supported by SAG-AFTRA, has seemingly made an impact. Earlier this month, Deadline obtained an internal memo that said Bravo's parent company NBC/Universal would be implementing stronger protocols around alcohol consumption and mental health support, as well as updating their anti-discrimination and harassment policies and putting new procedures in place to report concerns and violations.
On her podcast Thursday, Frankel said that she felt compelled to speak out when she realized her silence was in place, in part, to protect Cohen.
"I thought this whole time that Andy and I were kind of really friends 'cause we text back and forth, but we don’t really — I’ve been to his house once for a Christmas party 10 years ago," Frankel said. "Every time we’re together, we’re only talking about the Housewives. Am I coming on, am I going off? Is that person getting fired, is that person coming on? We’re not really — you know what your real friends are like."