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Singers or bands you really wanted to like but could never get into...

For me it's Goldfrapp.

I purchased several of their albums and really wanted to like them but their music just did nothing for me.

You?

by Anonymousreply 136September 24, 2023 10:35 PM

Tori Amos - I remember my weird little group in middle school was all into her and I never really enjoyed her music.

by Anonymousreply 1September 21, 2023 10:11 AM

Kate Bush: I like a few of her songs but don’t consider myself a fan by any means. I have a good friend who worships her, and I wanted to relate to him more about it, so I tried to get I to her music again but just couldn’t. It just doesn’t click with me.

by Anonymousreply 2September 21, 2023 10:24 AM

Jim Neighbors

by Anonymousreply 3September 21, 2023 10:42 AM

Why did you purchase several if you don't like them? I could possibly see a 2nd hopeful if dumb purchase. But to carry on after that?

by Anonymousreply 4September 21, 2023 10:43 AM

The Rolling Stones. I tried for years to get what the big deal was and I still don't get it.

by Anonymousreply 5September 21, 2023 12:02 PM

R5 TOTALLY. I was scrolling down to post the same. Any Stones fans out there, what am I missing?

by Anonymousreply 6September 21, 2023 12:09 PM

Nirvana, iconic grunge, just couldn't get into it.

by Anonymousreply 7September 21, 2023 12:12 PM

R6, thank you, I just don't get their appeal! If I wanted to listen to blues rock, there are many other bands I'd rather listen to, ones with actual singers.

by Anonymousreply 8September 21, 2023 12:15 PM

Sinatra. I thought he was just okay, but nothing special.

by Anonymousreply 9September 21, 2023 12:21 PM

Flaming lips

by Anonymousreply 10September 21, 2023 12:30 PM

The Beatles.

I do enjoy some of their tunes, but their straw-clutching lyrics leave a lot to be desired.

It's like a genius wrote the music, but a regular child wrote the inane, nonsensical lyrics.

For me, the lyrics more often than not make the song, so I never warmed up to them.

by Anonymousreply 11September 21, 2023 12:31 PM

R9, I will take Nat King Cole over Sinatra any day.

by Anonymousreply 12September 21, 2023 12:35 PM

Joni Mitchell

by Anonymousreply 13September 21, 2023 12:59 PM

Definitely, R12.

by Anonymousreply 14September 21, 2023 1:01 PM

Bob Dylan

by Anonymousreply 15September 21, 2023 1:24 PM

The Beatles....I like a few of their songs but if we're talking Top 20 favorite Musical acts, I'm not even sure they'd make it on the list....at most they'd scratch by to #20.

by Anonymousreply 16September 21, 2023 1:30 PM

R16 here, oddly enough I do LOVE the Stones R6...now THEY would be in my top 3. Idk what you're missing...The Rolling Stones are very bluesy rock, if you don't like that genre, they might not be your taste. Gimme Shelter is the greatest anti war song ever written.

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by Anonymousreply 17September 21, 2023 1:36 PM

Stones: blues with pop hooks - what isn’t to like? Agreed with Tori Amos. Friends enjoyed Tori through the years & i found her to be a bag of cats. A few years ago I Tried Tori once more. A friend zipped a few of her recent things & left me cold. Otherwise - U2 for me. Saw them as a teenager in the 80’s & the show was great. The show also satisfied me for U2 for a lifetime

by Anonymousreply 18September 21, 2023 1:37 PM

Not R16 here but I like bluesy rock and the electric blues but I just think Mick Jagger is a boring singer.

by Anonymousreply 19September 21, 2023 1:38 PM

1960s: Bob Dylan

1970s: Tie between Joni Mitchell & Led Zeppelin

1980s: Michael Jackson & Eurythmics

1990s: Pearl Jam & Mariah Carey

2000s: Beyoncé & Linkin Park

by Anonymousreply 20September 21, 2023 1:44 PM

Seconding (or thirding) Kate Bush.

The Pixies

They Might Be Giants -- most of my close friends love them, but WHY?

by Anonymousreply 21September 21, 2023 1:51 PM

Fleetwood Mac for me. Don’t get it.

by Anonymousreply 22September 21, 2023 2:00 PM

R22, tbh, the fact that so many younger people today love Rumors is kind of surprising to me. I understand why Thriller, Nevermind, Appetite for Destruction do, but Rumors? It seems kind of random.

by Anonymousreply 23September 21, 2023 2:10 PM

Most popular music, I will be so bold to say, is more liked by its contemporaries in its social context than by those of later generations.

Classic example: The Beatles. If you didn't have to be there, it certainly helped/helps. But even we Boomers who went nuts after "Ed Sullivan" and couldn't get enough of them, the entire British Invasion, Carnaby Street, mini-skirts, "Shindig," etc., etc., don't play their music still, I'll bet. Or at least not in the same way when we were hungry for every new song.

As for the Stones: Oh, man, if "Brown Sugar," "Sympathy for the Devil," "Tumbling Dice," "Under My Thumb," "Start Me Up," and "Gimme Shelter" make no impact on you, I don't know what to say.

by Anonymousreply 24September 21, 2023 2:15 PM

Gaga. I like Bad Romance, and I enjoy the ABBA-esque bvs in Scheiße, but other than that I just don't care for her. I never really saw the Madonna comparisons, either. A lot of her antics, the egg, the meat dress, the "these horns are real and come out when I'm inspired" all seemed aesthetically more of a commercialized Danielle Dax than Madonna.

by Anonymousreply 25September 21, 2023 2:16 PM

Radiohead.

I've tried again and again but I just don't get it. I quite enjoyed The Bends, but the rest of it leaves me cold.

OK Computer is meant to be some great pinnacle of rock music, but it does nothing for me.

by Anonymousreply 26September 21, 2023 2:21 PM

I can easily name at least one or two songs I like from every artist listed here even if I'm not generally a fan of them.

For something I can never get into I'd have to name something truly horrendous like Flo-Rida or Ice Spice or something like that.

by Anonymousreply 27September 21, 2023 2:23 PM

r26 Radiohead is an acquired taste for sure.

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by Anonymousreply 28September 21, 2023 2:26 PM

[quote] For something I can never get into I'd have to name something truly horrendous like Flo-Rida or Ice Spice or something like that.

I think the key part of OP's post is "you really WANTED to like...". Nobody really wants to like Flo-Rida or Ice Spice.

by Anonymousreply 29September 21, 2023 2:28 PM

I thought radiohead was a nirvana rip off. Then a bjork knock off. Then - who cares? Fuck radiohead.

by Anonymousreply 30September 21, 2023 2:31 PM

R24, I think that goes more for pop music (dance/electronic pop, adult contemporary ballads, etc.) than rock music. Many of the classic rock bands of the 60s and 70s still have big appeal to millennials. Compare that to Madonna, Celine and countless other pop stars who are barely listened to (by comparison).

by Anonymousreply 31September 21, 2023 2:31 PM

Nick Cave, The Pixies, Yo la Tengo. Not that they're bad, they just don't resonate with me.

by Anonymousreply 32September 21, 2023 2:43 PM

Dave Matthew's Band. Can't say I'd like to have been into their music, his voice just annoys the piss put of me.

by Anonymousreply 33September 21, 2023 3:06 PM

Buffy Sainte-Marie

For years I tried. Happy Ending: I big Buffy fan and LSD fan introduced the combination to me and then I finally got it.

by Anonymousreply 34September 21, 2023 3:10 PM

Monique Andrée Serf, known as Barbara

by Anonymousreply 35September 21, 2023 3:11 PM

Brigitte Fontaine. The cool factor is off the charts. And I like weird singers with "bottom-less" flat voices - Nico, Nick Cave, Troye Sivan (😱). And I like Fontaine but just not that into her.

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by Anonymousreply 36September 21, 2023 3:22 PM

I agree with Goldfrapp, the Stones, Radiohead,and Nick Cave. On paper I "should" love David Bowie, who influenced so many other artists I like. I respect his legacy, and I like a few songs, of course, but more of them leave me cold.

by Anonymousreply 37September 21, 2023 3:35 PM

Enzo Stuarti.....View the Ed Sullivan clip.....so compelling, I choke up everytime I hear this rendition. Makes me proud to be an Italian American

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by Anonymousreply 38September 21, 2023 3:43 PM

Bjork. I love her earlier solo work, from Homogenic through Volta there was usually a song or two that grabbed me right away, while the others took longer to sink in, and I grew to appreciate and love hem. Since then, however, she has become more and more experimental, and challenging to appreciate as enjoyable music.

I admire her restless creativity, and her commitment to her creative vision, but most of her later music doesn't really click with me as something I enjoy listening to. I keep trying, though.

by Anonymousreply 39September 21, 2023 3:45 PM

R38 Reread the assignment.

by Anonymousreply 40September 21, 2023 3:46 PM

R39 her pretension combined with her ex husband Barney's extremely pretentious contemporary artiness obliterated the enjoyable and coherent mass market side of Bjork. Pity.

by Anonymousreply 41September 21, 2023 3:54 PM

Destiny's Child/Beyonce, any boy bands - 90s and now; Aaliyah, Foo Fighters, Muse, U2 after Achtung Baby.

by Anonymousreply 42September 21, 2023 4:02 PM

I tried really hard to like them R4. I hoped I would like the second better.

by Anonymousreply 43September 21, 2023 4:03 PM

I don't quite get the question because music either resonates with me or it doesn't. I never "wanted" to like someone and yet couldn't.

There are some artists I respect and understand why others like them, but they've never rung my bell. Springsteen's at the top of that list.

Some artists that I love, I didn't follow them as their output changed or evolved. Bjork is one, PJ Harvey another. I still love a lot of their work but some of their tangent were.....well, I appreciated them but didn't love them.

I never really went deep into grunge when it came out. I do like some of Nirvana's music now, but never cared for Pearl Jam, Bush or most other grunge bands. Same with Britpop - I liked a few key bands but never submerged myself in the whole "scene." I never got into Oasis, no matter how much others raved about them.

by Anonymousreply 44September 21, 2023 4:12 PM

The Beatles and 1960s sub-Supremes Motown. I cringe when I hear these. I don't know why. Especially as I much prefer Wings and the 1970s did something magical to R&B.

by Anonymousreply 45September 21, 2023 4:30 PM

You are just splitting hairs, R44. "There are some artists I respect and understand why others like them, but they've never rung my bell. Springsteen's at the top of that list." You do "get" the question, and you just refined it a bit.

by Anonymousreply 46September 21, 2023 4:30 PM

Not songs, bands nor albums but genre: Rap. It seems like a lack of any musical ability to me. Yet it's been with us for just over 50 years. Have been waiting for this joke/scam to be over.

by Anonymousreply 47September 21, 2023 4:31 PM

Flame me, but I never warmed up to Bruce Springsteen. I can listen to a song or two every now and then, but I would never buy any of his discs.

Agree with the poster above about Dave Matthews Band.

The Beach Boys - never liked the whole "beach music" genre, mostly because it was douchebag frat bros who tended to play it.

Allman Brothers Band - whatever album has "Ramblin Man" on it was played incessantly my freshman year of college, and I really got sick of them. And that goes double for the right wing Lynyrd Skynyrd, also played to death.

by Anonymousreply 48September 21, 2023 4:41 PM

Beyonce is ok. Works hard. Great Show. Musically has had all of maybe three or four songs I really liked, and only one came from her group. And I fucking love girl groups. It pains me greatly how many records Destiny's Child sold, almost as much as the Spice Girls.

U2. Always thought they were pretentious crap, but liked Achtung Baby as an album and thought it had their strongest singles.

REM. Loved Radio Free Europe and it stopped there for a while. ALL my friends fucking loved them - hugely, grossly, passionately - and I was inundated with them for about a decade. Then I bought and actually didn't mind Monster, which I was labeled for liking by their disciples. Then I stopped again.

Stones - Blues with pop hooks IS a great way of describing their shtick. I love the '60s Brian Jones era stones most, the wildest and most unpredictable rock gems, 70s ballad Mick and Disco Mick, and Exile On Main Street is just a perfect album. If you can't pick 12 Stones songs that you absolutely love you didn't look hard enough.

The Beatles changed everything. Not one bad single or album, and more turf covered in seven years than any band before or since. Again, if you can't find 12 masterpieces, we obviously don't look for the same things musically.

and you CAN learn to like things over time. (looking at you Led Zeppelin and Skynrd).

by Anonymousreply 49September 21, 2023 4:45 PM

R46 sounds like the person splitting hairs is you, hon.

by Anonymousreply 50September 21, 2023 4:46 PM

The Strokes

by Anonymousreply 51September 21, 2023 4:50 PM

Well, I do happen to love Bowie, he is my favorite solo music artist by far however Bowie worshipped The Pixies, he always went on and on about them and, as a good Bowie fan, I tried to get into them, but nada. Left me cold, it all sounded the same. Bowie did turn me on to plenty of other musicians, but the band he basically considered the greatest contemporary one just did nothing for me.

by Anonymousreply 52September 21, 2023 5:22 PM

Queen, Annie Lennox/Eurythmics

by Anonymousreply 53September 21, 2023 5:46 PM

R35, same. I’m fascinated by her, the person, but just can’t get into her music. I’ve also really tried to love Sylvie Vartan but apart from a few songs, I just don’t find her material that good.

by Anonymousreply 54September 21, 2023 5:47 PM

Kate Bush, Steve Winwood, The Eagles, Elvis Presly, Eminem, Elton John, Sarah McLauchlan, Traci Chapman & all of the rappers like S. Dogg.

by Anonymousreply 55September 21, 2023 6:01 PM

Wow surprised to see so many mentions of the Pixies. Found them easy to get into and now one of my favorite bands.

If I had to think of anything it would maybe be My Bloody Valentine's Loveless. I like Only Shallow and Sometimes but the rest of the album was a slog to me.

by Anonymousreply 56September 21, 2023 6:15 PM

I like the Pixies and the Breeders but sorta only on the intro level. I never became a very dedicated fan of theirs.

For me it was specific albums - Doolittle and Last Splash, respectively.

by Anonymousreply 57September 21, 2023 6:23 PM

Drugs, R56. You need to do the right drugs. Then Loveless is an otherworldly masterpiece of epic, all-consuming, shimmering wonder and delight.

by Anonymousreply 58September 21, 2023 6:34 PM

I loved disco and old house, but I just don't get most dance music songs from 1995 to present. They all sound like they were cut from the same cloth, so to speak. I wish I liked them more.

by Anonymousreply 59September 21, 2023 6:37 PM

Dinosaur Jr. I tried and I tried to crack the code. I kind of get it on a cognitive level, but for me, there are so many other bands that rock out just as hard but also have songs that I remember and like. I can't remember a single Dino song no matter how many times I've heard them, save for their cover of The Cure's "Just Like Heaven," which is an abomination against nature.

And if you're wondering why I try and try, it's because I live down the street from J Mascis, and everyone in Western Mass is obsessed with them or with knowing one of them. So I've been to many shows because I get put on the list regularly due to being a musician and knowing people.

Funny, I saw My Bloody Valentine opening up for Dinosaur Jr 30 years ago in college. MBV had me enthralled and I still come back to Loveless thirty years later. I fell asleep during the Dino set.

If someone can tell me what makes Dino stand out I am willing to listen. It truly is the one band that I would like to like but don't.

by Anonymousreply 60September 21, 2023 6:42 PM

Someone beat me to Bjork and The Strokes, so I'll add The White Stripes. I felt like I should have been into that circa-2000 rock revival stuff, but I just didn't care for those bands.

by Anonymousreply 61September 21, 2023 7:11 PM

Deanna Durbin.

by Anonymousreply 62September 21, 2023 7:15 PM

Sonic Youth. There's no "there" there. It's ugly and rather generic sounding to me. And yet, there I was, in college, buying Goo, hoping it made me cool.

It's not tuneful music. I love hard guitar music, I like it loud. But give me a hook.

by Anonymousreply 63September 21, 2023 7:28 PM

The Modern Lovers. I really liked Roadrunner so I ran out and got o couple of their albums..they sucked

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by Anonymousreply 64September 21, 2023 7:31 PM

It took me a few decades to crack the code with the Velvet Underground and Bob Dylan. And then, lo and behold, one day a few years ago, it finally clicked. I would never normally put that much time or effort into trying to connect with a band that doesn't speak to me on first (or second, or third) blush. But Lou Reed and Dylan are both considered seminal artists, and I felt like, "What the hell is wrong with me that I don't feel anything when I listen to this stuff?"

Turns out, I had to get into my 40s, and then a lot of stuff I wrote off in my youth started to make sense.

by Anonymousreply 65September 21, 2023 7:36 PM

Often when we talk about "I really WANTED to like such-and-such band, but I just couldn't get into them," we are talking about having a best friend or a friend group or a boyfriend or partner that is just crazy about a particular band. So we want to be able to participate in their enthusiasm and share that with them. So we try. But if it doesn't hit, it doesn't hit.

I tried to get into Phish when I was dating a Phish-head. Boy did I try. It just isn't for me. Neither was the guy. He was also a Grateful Dead fan. In fact, loving The Dead unironically is now an instant red flag for me when dating. I wish no ill-will to those of you who get off on The Dead. I just can't date you. We will not work out, the cultural divide is simply too great. It cannot be bridged.

by Anonymousreply 66September 21, 2023 7:42 PM

Coldplay. Their music is just bland, shallow and generic.

by Anonymousreply 67September 21, 2023 7:45 PM

Lana Del Rey....a friend raved about her music and I just could not see what all the fuss was about. Cold and snoozy and lacks charisma.

by Anonymousreply 68September 21, 2023 7:51 PM

r66 What is it about Deadheads that you find them undateable?

by Anonymousreply 69September 21, 2023 8:29 PM

I never understood why people say they "wanted to like" something like a singer or a band. What does that mean? Why did you want to like them? Either you like something or you don't, right?

by Anonymousreply 70September 21, 2023 8:39 PM

I really wanted to like the new ABBA album, but it just fell flat for me

by Anonymousreply 71September 21, 2023 8:41 PM

You didn't read R66, did you, R70?

by Anonymousreply 72September 21, 2023 8:41 PM

I never really think about my thoughts, let alone my preferences. I like some stuff and don't like other stuff. Who cares why? Do you? I never self-reflect. And I only know that because people have observed that I've got the intellect of a gnat.

by Anonymousreply 73September 21, 2023 8:45 PM

R72 Guilty. I didn't.

But speaking only for myself, I never wanted to like something if a friend liked it. It seems pointless.

by Anonymousreply 74September 21, 2023 8:48 PM

We’re all different. We all have differing tastes. Do not question ‘why’ that is, like it’s some sort of defect, be happy you have your own likes and dislikes. I do not try and force myself to like something that the pop culture media or pop culture critics tell me to like, when I do not. It’s called being an individual. Maturity. Your own tastes in music.

by Anonymousreply 75September 21, 2023 8:51 PM

Kay Starr.

by Anonymousreply 76September 21, 2023 8:54 PM

Wire, The Fall, Throbbing Gristle, Coil. I didn’t get it then and I don't get it now.

by Anonymousreply 77September 21, 2023 8:56 PM

Duran Duran

by Anonymousreply 78September 21, 2023 8:58 PM

Bjork. Just a couple songs out of 100s. I like offbeat artists who experiment and take chances. But she just seems to get off on her own quirkiness. She needs an outside producer who can tell her 'okay, but let's add a refrain, some hooks and a beat'.

by Anonymousreply 79September 21, 2023 8:59 PM

"I never understood why people say they "wanted to like" something like a singer or a band."

Because they had promise- a certain something- but could never maintain it. Or maybe just once or twice again. Then they waltzed off into inscrutability and never found their way back.

by Anonymousreply 80September 21, 2023 9:07 PM

R69, Perhaps it's because I find the idea of spending a huge portion of my life high, or tripping on acid or mushrooms, and following a band around -- rather than being sober, productive and self-directed -- just isn't my thang.

It feels like a sheeple mentality to me. I love the idea of community, but this isn't the community that I feel any kind of kinship with. I can own that. That's just how the chips fell.

I often find that the people who are the most into the Dead scene tend to be really flaky and escapist in life. But I also realize I am generalizing, because I know in real life, nothing is purely binary.

I don't like the actual music. I don't like the jingle jangle guitar tones or the off-key singing of Jerry. I did finally get to the point where I could appreciate the homegrown honeyed warmth of the aesthetic in small doses. But I don't care about all of the bootlegs and the fifty different performances of the same song, and the listening to it all day every day as the literal soundtrack of life

My personal observations are that there are two primary types of Dead Heads:

1. You are obsessed with the Dead and your Dead Head friends. You are concretized as THAT, the Dead has become a primary part of your personality. You are not very attuned to me as your partner, or open to exploring my likes or new shared discoveries, because you are Dead Head Guy. You are also up your own ass, waking and baking, living in a haze, living in an alternate reality. You think those of us who don't live and breathe the Dead "just don't fucking get it." You can't understand why someone wouldn't want to obsess about the Dead. You look down on those who don't enjoy the music or the scene.

2. You are older, or your dad finally convinced you to get a real job. You have sobered up, or you save your weed and shrooming for Saturday night only. You are more focused on working your job and being responsible. Maybe you have kids now. But you are constantly taking about "the good ole days" and telling the same stories about when you USED to follow the Dead and how amazing it was. How hard you used to trip. How many times you saw them. How that one version of Truckin' from the 1980 Phoenix show was for sure the best version out of all 17,000 times they've played Truckin'. You still have 200 cassettes and CD-R bootlegs in your closet, in the back with your old tie dye t shirts with the dancing gummy bears on them. And you fantasize constantly about quitting your job and leaving your wife and kids to go follow Dead and Friends in an RV.

Now having said ALL OF THAT, I love that people love what they love. There's no harm in everyone liking differing kinds of music and co-existing on the planet together. Music is joy, and that is a great thing.

by Anonymousreply 81September 21, 2023 9:08 PM

Micheal Jackson.

I never got why he was such a big deal. King of Pop, bla, bla, bla. Whatever. That was his own self made title. So he can sing high pitch, spin on one foot and fake walk backwards. Yawn.

by Anonymousreply 82September 21, 2023 9:12 PM

[quote] But I don't care about all of the bootlegs and the fifty different performances of the same song, and the listening to it all day every day as the literal soundtrack of life

I've never been so much of a fan of ANY act that I was a completist at that level. I know people that are, though. I have 20K digital songs and close to 1K vinyl albums, but with maybe two or three exceptions, none of them are different versions of the same song. I'm not even a fan of many live recordings - only a few that are really exceptional or iconic.

Joni Mitchell's label is doing a very elaborate reissue campaign of her work but a lot of is is old live recordings/bootlegs/etc and so much of it, except for the first record where it was "Joan Anderson" recordin - is just 17 different versions of one of her songs. I'm a huge fan of her work but ugh, no, I don't need that. Glad it's there for anyone who might, though.

by Anonymousreply 83September 21, 2023 9:15 PM

Primus.

My cousin was really into them and I tried to get into them because he got us tickets to see them live. I will say, the live show was totally great. But I have never been able to listen to an album, I get bored after about five seconds.

Les Claypool is more of a performance artist than a musician, and it's best in a live setting.

Same with Gwar, x1000. Great live, horrible to have to sit and listen to an album.

by Anonymousreply 84September 21, 2023 9:24 PM

I don't understand obsession, stans, etc. at all. Through the years I've met guys who were enthralled with Rocky Horror, Buffy The Vampire Slayer, Game Of Thrones, Dolly Parton... it makes me think less of people.

by Anonymousreply 85September 21, 2023 9:33 PM

I could never get into Pink Floyd. I hate Roger Water’s voice. The lyrics are all so corny, they seem like they are written by an angry adolescent trying too hard to be “deep”.

I also never got into Radiohead for similar reasons. I actually like their first album (the one that die-hard Radiohead fans hate) but I thought the music was catchy. Everything after Pablo Honey was too experimental for me.

This is one of the few good Radiohead songs, IMO:

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by Anonymousreply 86September 21, 2023 9:35 PM

Cocteau Twins. I used to think I liked them but listened recently and they just give me a headache. Same with Stereolab. I do love the Liz Frazer /Massive Attack song.

by Anonymousreply 87September 21, 2023 9:40 PM

If we’re talking about contemporary acts…I never understood the hype around Lana Del Rey. She doesn’t really sing, she just sort of mumbles her way through songs. Her plastic face also gives me uncanny valley vibes.

by Anonymousreply 88September 21, 2023 9:43 PM

Agree about Pink Floyd

by Anonymousreply 89September 21, 2023 9:45 PM

I was in college when the Dead released “Touch of Grey” and some hacky sack douche down the hall played it over and over for what seemed like hours. That was enough.

by Anonymousreply 90September 21, 2023 11:23 PM

You had sufficient, R90.

by Anonymousreply 91September 21, 2023 11:29 PM

R90 I’m sorry you had to endure that shitty song for that long of a time 35+ yrs ago.

by Anonymousreply 92September 21, 2023 11:29 PM

“Hackeysack douche” is the perfect descriptor, r90.

by Anonymousreply 93September 21, 2023 11:45 PM

I had friends who were very much into that mid/late 80s indie/new wave vibe which included Siouxsie and the Banshees, the Cure, the Smiths, and so on (I liked them all).

They also loved Dead or Alive but I could never understand the music. You Spin Me Round was obviously catchy but after hearing it a million times that was quite enough for me.

I also was not very enamored of the Pet Shop Boys in their earlier times. As with DOA my friends raved about it and while I liked a few catchy hits, I was not a fanatic. I came to appreciate them later - "Very" was my way in, so to speak, and then I really liked Actually and "Being Boring" and started to appreciate them more as a whole, once I heard more than just the radio hits.

by Anonymousreply 94September 21, 2023 11:48 PM

The Beatles

by Anonymousreply 95September 22, 2023 12:37 AM

R86, I feel similary about Radiohead but I love The Bends, one of my favorite 90s rock albums.

by Anonymousreply 96September 22, 2023 1:16 AM

Radiohead⁹

by Anonymousreply 97September 22, 2023 1:57 AM

Same here R71. I was a huge fan of ABBA from my childhood and was thrilled they were releasing something new. But ultimately - it just didn't work in this day and age. The hit track I Still Have Faith In You was ok but very bland. I purchased the new CD but only played it a couple of times and then totally forgot about it until your post in this thread. Maybe I'll go and hunt it down and give it another go.

by Anonymousreply 98September 22, 2023 2:41 AM

Grateful Dead

by Anonymousreply 99September 22, 2023 4:13 AM

Jackson Browne. I like(d) some of his songs, I thought he was really cute, but I guess it’s his voice. It grates on me. Went to one of his concerts with some friends in the 70s.

David Bowie. I just didn’t relate to Bowie, his singing, his music, his look. Found him likable but never cold listen to him.

Bette Midler. basically the same thing.

by Anonymousreply 100September 22, 2023 11:23 PM

*could

by Anonymousreply 101September 22, 2023 11:25 PM

I've written here about travels to Europe my late husband and his passing away from dementia, and other people posted of similar.

But I'll bet this one is unique on DL, to wit: In his last decade, my spouse---who when I met him in 1971 was a Rock and Roller and before that a serious fan of Jazz---became a veritable STAN of English hymns and Anglican chants! CD after CD, with choirs from many cathedrals, but especially King's College, Cambridge.

God love him, but I never could "get into" that particular musical taste!

by Anonymousreply 102September 23, 2023 3:10 PM

The Cure - which, if you were an 80's alt/new-wave person, is considered blasphemy. Mumbling lyrics and he swings from being silly to over-the-top melancholy drama.

His whole look was stolen from Siouxsie when he was in her band - he just messed it up a bit with the lipstick and such and nobody acknowledges that at all. Siouxsie has a unique voice, style, wide range of music, and good lyrics. Robert Smith owns none of that.

Also DRAKE! For the life of me, I have no understanding why everyone thinks he's some sort of God. Never heard a song of his that I thought was fresh or even entertaining.

by Anonymousreply 103September 23, 2023 3:22 PM

R90 did he have dreads, smell like weed, and let his hairy heavy junk swing free in his bizarrely-cut esoteric ethnic drawstring trousers? I had a fuckbuddy like that. Northfield Mount Hermon grad no less. He happened to be a gorgeous bisexual hacky sack douche with 8 veiny uncut inches and a colossal trust fund.

by Anonymousreply 104September 23, 2023 3:35 PM

I’m an old millennial hipster-type, I guess… A bunch of my friends have always loved the National. I think they’re BORING.

Same for current Sirius XMU darling Phoebe Bridgers and her zzzzzzzzz side band Boygenius.

by Anonymousreply 105September 23, 2023 3:50 PM

Blink-182. I love pop punk and a lot of pop punk bands, so do some of my friends, most of them love Blink-182. I could never get into them, their sound or their songs at all. I’ve seen them live because I went with friends who are younger than me. They played with Fall Out Boy, who I do like.

by Anonymousreply 106September 23, 2023 3:57 PM

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by Anonymousreply 107September 23, 2023 4:02 PM

To this day, I will never understand how Garth Brooks had such a strangle-hold on so much of America in the 90's.

The absolute definition of 'mid'.

I'm convinced there was some shilling with some bands in the 90's by music companies. I recall seeing 30 minute advertorials on VH1 for Hootie & The Blowfish in the early 90's and I was like - who the fuck is this and why are they getting so much attention that VH1 would dedicate 30 minute special to a band with no hits yet?

by Anonymousreply 108September 23, 2023 4:12 PM

R108, re: "Mid" Garth Brooks.

See: Curve, Bell.

by Anonymousreply 109September 23, 2023 4:38 PM

I sort of like B52s songs until that nasal sounding guy starts singtalking offkey.

by Anonymousreply 110September 23, 2023 4:57 PM

This old advertisement expresses my thoughts.

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by Anonymousreply 111September 23, 2023 5:06 PM

Björk ought to tick all the boxes but…just not a fan of the half-speaking/half-singing style and what I can’t help view as pretentiousness.

by Anonymousreply 112September 23, 2023 5:26 PM

Britney Spears, what is the point really?

by Anonymousreply 113September 23, 2023 5:33 PM

Currently, YouTube and every music service I use recommends Jungle (the current band by that name, not the 90's music genre) to me.

There was even a Jungle thread here.

I cannot stand them.

by Anonymousreply 114September 23, 2023 5:48 PM

[quote] Britney Spears, what is the point really?

R113, you don't like vegetables?

by Anonymousreply 115September 24, 2023 4:07 PM

I could never get into Beyoncé or Lady Gaga, except for one or two songs each. Gay blasphemy I know.

by Anonymousreply 116September 24, 2023 4:10 PM

I like many male singers today but can't think of a single female singer (who’s young, or younger than, say 50) who I like. I like many female singers of the past. Big difference in vocal style and voices themselves, I guess.

by Anonymousreply 117September 24, 2023 5:33 PM

[quote] Britney Spears, what is the point really?

She's just a blank canvas that her fans seem to dump all their hopes/fantasies onto. You want a gay icon (who does the bare minimum for gays)? You got it. You want an exceptional dancer (whose dance moves all come from elsehwere)? Done. You want soemone with a good voice (who sounds like she's a little girl mixed with Baby Bop)? All yours!

by Anonymousreply 118September 24, 2023 7:38 PM

I was a teen in the 90s and indie music was everything to me. But there were some bands I just couldn't like. Even if Cobain told me to!

The Melvins

Butthole Surfers

The Jesus and Mary Chain (I really tried with this one. And I do like a few songs.)

Depeche Mode

by Anonymousreply 119September 24, 2023 7:42 PM

David Bowie

Annie Lennox

The Rolling Stones

by Anonymousreply 120September 24, 2023 7:58 PM

R118 If she’s an exceptional dancer with a good voice, I guess that would be the point.

by Anonymousreply 121September 24, 2023 8:00 PM

R121, no, you missed the point of what I'm saying. They BELIEVE she is all those things. But reality tells a different story.

by Anonymousreply 122September 24, 2023 8:05 PM

122 Oh, sorry - okay.

by Anonymousreply 123September 24, 2023 8:07 PM

R122^

by Anonymousreply 124September 24, 2023 8:07 PM

I can't get into any band or singer.

Their security won't let me within 10 feet of them.

by Anonymousreply 125September 24, 2023 8:08 PM

My distaste for Tori Amos knows no bounds. It's nothing personal of course, but I truly hate every piece of music of hers that I've ever heard.

by Anonymousreply 126September 24, 2023 8:15 PM

Don’t like Adele. My boss loved her and played her big album from a few years ago all the time in her office. Not my speed.

And yeah I don’t get Drake at all, in spite of liking a lot of rap/hip hop.

Michael Jackson - had a boyfriend who loved him. Never could do it. Only liked him as a young guy with the Jackson 5, as a singer. Liked their sound as a group, I guess.

Those pub-sounding bands back in the early aughts. Alternative folk or whatever. Mumford and Sons. The Lumineers.

by Anonymousreply 127September 24, 2023 8:23 PM

(Or rather, mid-aughts)

by Anonymousreply 128September 24, 2023 8:24 PM

Most of the Britpop groups were boring to me, apart from Suede. I only enjoyed a few random songs from Blur, Elastica, etc. I hated Oasis and still do.

by Anonymousreply 129September 24, 2023 8:29 PM

R126, I'm sorry that you feel that way. But I understand!

by Anonymousreply 130September 24, 2023 8:50 PM

Elton John. Sure, he's talented, but his music does nothing for me.

by Anonymousreply 131September 24, 2023 8:58 PM

Another vote for the Grateful Dead and Drake. Not so much that I wanted to like them, but that I thought for a while I must be missing something that would explain their large fanbases. I’m sure there is, but it’s lost on me.

by Anonymousreply 132September 24, 2023 9:23 PM

Drake. He sounds bored with his own music.

by Anonymousreply 133September 24, 2023 9:35 PM

My ex tried to get me into Tori Amos. I can’t stand her now simply because she reminds me of him.

by Anonymousreply 134September 24, 2023 10:26 PM

Boston and Journey. I grew up with my parents blaring this shit endlessly, which probably didn't do any favors. I find them loud and boring. Steve Perry is a yelling Dago, his voice is literally nails on a chalkboard to me. He's like if Eric Carmen sang while swallowing knives. I HATE Steve Perry's shitty voice. I'm not a huge Nirvana fan but I even find Kurt Cobain more pleasing to my ear.

Boston is redundant sounding, with the same lame 70s post-glitter corporate rock track after track. "Amanda" is a lovely song but otherwise the rest of it could be shitcanned.

My mother is a huge The Cars fan. I can bear them, but honestly, I find limited appeal in a band that sounds and feels like it was led by Napoleon Dynamite.

Pink Floyd is training wheels for actually decent rock groups out there. They're a very surface-level music choice. I call DSOTM "fake jazz."

by Anonymousreply 135September 24, 2023 10:26 PM

R135 Dago?

by Anonymousreply 136September 24, 2023 10:35 PM
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