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Why Being Ugly Is A Blessing

The title should be- Why Being An Albino Is A Blessing.

I don't know that he's ugly- average looking certainly.

What do datalounge people think.

He seems like a nice guy. I do kinda feel sorry for him. Is it worse to be ugly male and straight or ugly male and gay?

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by Anonymousreply 59September 12, 2023 5:42 PM

He's not ugly, he is unattractive. There is a difference.

by Anonymousreply 1September 11, 2023 12:15 PM

How many beautiful women have you seen with ugly men?

How many beautiful gay men have you seen with ugly gay men?

by Anonymousreply 2September 11, 2023 12:16 PM

Money, Money, Money, Money, Money, Money, Money, Money, transcends looks. If this guy was a billionaire, he would be celebrated with his unique "look" all over the internet and what's left of magazines. Woman would be throwing themselves at him.

by Anonymousreply 3September 11, 2023 12:27 PM

R2, it’s money, lots and lots of money.

by Anonymousreply 4September 11, 2023 12:27 PM

Huh? That fucking dude is totally hot

by Anonymousreply 5September 11, 2023 12:35 PM

He literally looks like someone you would see on the cover of Italian or British Vogue

by Anonymousreply 6September 11, 2023 12:36 PM

When I was a little kid growing up in Texas in the 70s we would see albino African Americans all the time. I always thought they looked other-worldly and exotic. I never saw them as “ugly” (and Texas has more than its share of ugly!)

by Anonymousreply 7September 11, 2023 12:40 PM

It doesn't matter the reason, R4, there could be many.

But the bottom line is that a beautiful gay man is less likely to partner with an ugly gay man than a beautiful woman is likely to partner with an ugly straight man, for WHATEVER reason.

Charitably - or arguably - when looking for a partner, a woman is more likely to look at the totality of a man, rather than just the visual. When looking for a partner, a gay man is more likely to look at the visual of another gay man, rather than the totality.

by Anonymousreply 8September 11, 2023 12:41 PM

Too much, “god, god, god.”

by Anonymousreply 9September 11, 2023 1:00 PM

Definitely worse to be ugly male and gay than ugly male and straight. Ugly straight men can usually make up for it with money, personality, confidence, body language, bigger dicks or sex appeal- sometimes that's not enough when you're gay (except for the money part, however if you're interested in a guy who has his own, that won't help)

by Anonymousreply 10September 11, 2023 1:47 PM

He is not ugly!

by Anonymousreply 11September 11, 2023 1:51 PM

If he’s over 6 feet tall many women will still fuck him.

by Anonymousreply 12September 11, 2023 2:08 PM

size matters

by Anonymousreply 13September 11, 2023 2:13 PM

Rich gay men, usually, choose young men mostly for their extraordinary looks. They conveniently ignore their very negative character traits. They end up used and exploited, then bitch about it. (“He doesn’t love me, he only wants my money.”)

Afterwards, the same rich gay men, repeat the pattern.

by Anonymousreply 14September 11, 2023 2:18 PM

He just needs a little mascara and brow color.

by Anonymousreply 15September 11, 2023 2:22 PM

If he’s straight women would still be interested. You wouldnt believe the beasts some of them feel quite lucky to have.

by Anonymousreply 16September 11, 2023 2:24 PM

Yep, if he dyed his eyebrows it would do wonders for him.

by Anonymousreply 17September 11, 2023 2:35 PM

I'm sorry but he's butt ugly. No shame in that necessarily but call a spade a spade.

If he's straight he still has a chance at love. He should thank his lucky stars he isn't a straight woman.

by Anonymousreply 18September 11, 2023 2:42 PM

I like men who are homely-masculine, like him. I'm like 110% gay so I find all kinds of men sexy.

by Anonymousreply 19September 11, 2023 2:48 PM

5MM per flick.

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by Anonymousreply 20September 11, 2023 3:00 PM

Agree. Many straight ladies dig ugly guys, even the fat and poor ugly guys. They say they're attracted to their eyes, or their voice, or their hands and marry them for that one thing even though they look like a caveman's unwashed asshole.

If this guy is straight or bi, he's getting laid.

by Anonymousreply 21September 11, 2023 3:06 PM

An ugly BDF is hot as hell.

by Anonymousreply 22September 11, 2023 3:17 PM

He looks fit and masculine. His commentary is poorly structured and and imprecise, so your interest may trail off midway through the video.

An adult should abstain from saying “like…uhm”. If you don’t, your listeners may listen only for the next “like…uhm” and stop processing your message, even if it is heartfelt and deeply personal.

by Anonymousreply 23September 11, 2023 3:26 PM

He's not ugly, plus he looks fit and tall many women would find him attractive. He might be putting forth this chip on his shoulder, and that attitude, along with the holier than thou, can be a real turn off.

by Anonymousreply 24September 11, 2023 3:30 PM

He just needs some Clinique for men no streak bronzer

by Anonymousreply 25September 11, 2023 3:40 PM

Major BDF

by Anonymousreply 26September 11, 2023 4:02 PM

This guy is hot! As someone pointed out above he seems like he could model in high fashion with that exotic look.

This is all such a troll.

by Anonymousreply 27September 11, 2023 4:03 PM

I tried watching the video but had to turn it off after two minutes because he sounded like a moron.

Which actually made him… even hotter.

by Anonymousreply 28September 11, 2023 4:04 PM

The hairstyle is a DISASTER. He should grow his hair, then get a flattering haircut. He might have great hair.

by Anonymousreply 29September 11, 2023 4:07 PM

I have a friend who is 23 and he looks for unattractive men because he says that they are better fucks- more voracious and eager to please.

by Anonymousreply 30September 11, 2023 4:16 PM

Proof that buff albinos can be hot!!

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by Anonymousreply 31September 11, 2023 4:20 PM

Like the saying, “It doesn’t matter what’s the outside but what’s on the inside”. It’s just something ugly people say.

by Anonymousreply 32September 11, 2023 4:29 PM

If a man wants inner beauty, he’ll take x-rays.

by Anonymousreply 33September 11, 2023 5:00 PM

That man has BDF. I demand size meat verificatia.

by Anonymousreply 34September 11, 2023 5:04 PM

That nose! I love big noses. HOT!!

by Anonymousreply 35September 11, 2023 5:14 PM

R30 Is your friend considered attractive? He's a top isn't he, or versatile?

by Anonymousreply 36September 11, 2023 5:28 PM

Albinism is tough. I cannot determine if he is culturally white or Black but I do know it is rough for Black albinos. The discrimination is not overt but there is an old perception -- maybe superstition -- of genetic deficiency that discourages procreation with an Albino.

But it's not as bad as they are treated in other parts of the world.

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by Anonymousreply 37September 11, 2023 5:33 PM

[quote][R30] Is your friend considered attractive? He's a top isn't he, or versatile?

He's attractive, but fit fat. He's vers, but mostly tops.

by Anonymousreply 38September 11, 2023 5:55 PM

Great find R31 - I’d fuck him every way thru Sunday.

by Anonymousreply 39September 11, 2023 5:56 PM

The OP's guy isn't ugly. He's the whole package.

by Anonymousreply 40September 11, 2023 5:56 PM

R37 his black ethnicity is visible from outer space, hun.

by Anonymousreply 41September 11, 2023 5:59 PM

R37 said “culturally” R41 - my nieces are half Asian but culturally Italian-American.

by Anonymousreply 42September 11, 2023 6:02 PM

Oh brother. OK princess sparkles.

by Anonymousreply 43September 11, 2023 6:17 PM

He identifies as black - is black - and takes issue with all those that insist to him that he isn't or couldn't be black. He talks about it in another video.

by Anonymousreply 44September 11, 2023 7:22 PM

But is he culturally black?

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by Anonymousreply 45September 11, 2023 7:26 PM

When I get through with him, he'll be so wore out he's gonna wish I thought he was ugly!

by Anonymousreply 46September 11, 2023 7:30 PM

Pretty is as pretty does.

by Anonymousreply 47September 11, 2023 7:33 PM

Do albinos ever spray tan?

by Anonymousreply 48September 11, 2023 7:44 PM

Men in general are more visually oriented than women and when you add in (sub)cultural factors to that, it means that being an ugly, gay male is the worst permutation of all.

by Anonymousreply 49September 11, 2023 8:10 PM

If he dyed all his hair medium brown, he would look so much better. Definitely less ugly.

by Anonymousreply 50September 11, 2023 8:42 PM

R49- There are many threads here on the datalounge where guys lament the fact that they were not good looking or not considered good looking by other guys- gay guys and could not get arrested. They never had anyone flirt with them or ever express any interest in them at gay venues such as bars , clubs, bathhouse or even on grindr and scruff and any overtures they made to someone else were always rebuffed.

by Anonymousreply 51September 12, 2023 12:04 AM

Who says he’s not ugly? He’s hideous. You fat whores are blind.

by Anonymousreply 52September 12, 2023 4:53 AM

Feeling like we're not all up to your standards, R52?

by Anonymousreply 53September 12, 2023 11:31 AM

Ugly guys have the most beautiful dicks. Seriously, just scroll into unattractive men on Reddit and you’ll see what I mean.

by Anonymousreply 54September 12, 2023 3:25 PM

If he has a big dick and threw a mean fuck, he'd be hot with the lights out so it all works out.

by Anonymousreply 55September 12, 2023 4:04 PM

I’m a traditionally “handsome” guy (that’s the word I most often get from Grindr and Scruff) even though I honestly don’t see that myself when I look in the mirror (like most, I instantly zero in on my flaws). However, I prefer more average guys and even supposedly “overweight” men for sex partners. The best lover I have right now would be considered obese but he is incredible in bed and I crave his dick. He is so fucking good in bed. If he would fuck me every day for the rest of my life, I would be happy.

Pretty boys or whatever just aren’t as good in bed. They don’t think they have to try as hard; they just want to be worshipped.

by Anonymousreply 56September 12, 2023 4:40 PM

This guy is not ugly.

Eric Trump is someone I'd say is ugly.

by Anonymousreply 57September 12, 2023 4:57 PM

I would hook up with this guy. I don’t find him “ugly” at all and it looks like he has a nice body.

by Anonymousreply 58September 12, 2023 5:00 PM

I would serve his 9" BPC

by Anonymousreply 59September 12, 2023 5:42 PM
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