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Colton Haynes reposts infamous teen modeling pic to reclaim it and says he's no longer ashamed

you know the one but in case you've been living under a rock check the link

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by Anonymousreply 126June 27, 2023 9:36 PM

Didn't he already do that?

by Anonymousreply 1June 22, 2023 11:39 AM

Has he apologized to the people he had his agent accuse of pedophilia in an attempt to get it taken down?

by Anonymousreply 2June 22, 2023 11:41 AM

Well, about damned time

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by Anonymousreply 3June 22, 2023 11:53 AM

"Has he apologized to the people he had his agent accuse of pedophilia in an attempt to get it taken down?"

OMG! AND HE HASN'T APOLOGIZED TO THE PEOPLE WHO DROWNED WHEN THE TITANIC WENT DOWN!!!!

by Anonymousreply 4June 22, 2023 12:02 PM

I never realized how similar Jerreth looks to Tyler.

by Anonymousreply 5June 22, 2023 12:41 PM

Where's the troll to claim Colton is really bisexual?

by Anonymousreply 6June 22, 2023 12:43 PM

R5: OMG you’re right

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by Anonymousreply 7June 22, 2023 12:58 PM

who?

by Anonymousreply 8June 22, 2023 1:05 PM

R7 with the porn stache.

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by Anonymousreply 9June 22, 2023 1:25 PM

R6 Colton is too masculine and sexy to be gay. He probably enjoy pussy aa well.

by Anonymousreply 10June 22, 2023 1:27 PM

r10 hello Colton, welcome...

by Anonymousreply 11June 22, 2023 1:29 PM

As I don’t follow Tyler, can someone please enlighten me: Mr Hoechlin is straight, right?

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by Anonymousreply 12June 22, 2023 1:31 PM

I had to unfollow Colton on Instagram, he was just too boring and not really sexy looking anymore.

by Anonymousreply 13June 22, 2023 1:33 PM

Anything for attention...

That said, XY Magazine was a nice thing for gay teens to see a normalized image of themselves. Colton should be proud he helped improve the self-image of gay adolescents. He seems full of himself though

by Anonymousreply 14June 22, 2023 1:36 PM

I read his book and was actually pretty shocked at the stuff that he divulged, definitely a very 'warts and all' account and pretty rare to see.

by Anonymousreply 15June 22, 2023 1:36 PM

A lot of goodlooking men who have been attractive their whole lives tend to be very boring and full of themselves. That's why aging is horrific for them and falling into irrelevance is a nightmare. They'll do anything for attention. Handsome men who were ugly as kids are more down to earth and likable.

Colton cannot stop talking about himself and his struggles. You're rich and are in a better state than where you were as a kid. So be grateful

by Anonymousreply 16June 22, 2023 1:43 PM

R12 yes he is. Although some bitter "fans" are convinced he bent over for Jeff Davis and Greg Berlanti.

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by Anonymousreply 17June 22, 2023 2:20 PM

She's still here?

by Anonymousreply 18June 22, 2023 2:24 PM

R17: thanks for the confirmation. Yeah He just exudes gay-friendly straight dude vibe

by Anonymousreply 19June 22, 2023 3:13 PM

Tyler was also on the conservative Christian propaganda show 7th Heaven which had no gay characters whatsoever (despite Buffy, Dawson's Creek, Grosse Pointe and others having gays). That's where he got his big start.

by Anonymousreply 20June 22, 2023 3:17 PM

It was with his boyfriend at the time. It wasn't porn. The "scandal" was he was what 17yo?. But since it was not hardcore there was no scandal. Colty did it then the same reason he's digging ancient history up now....

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by Anonymousreply 21June 22, 2023 3:22 PM

R21 The pics aren't racy at all. XY had more questionable photoshoots for sure but the pics with Colton and his then-bf are no more provocative than if it was a boy and girl in some Seventeen photoshoot. Also, nobody knew who he was and what his age was. He looked a bit older too, so people could have assumed early 20s. The controversy was the fact, he was in a popular teen show Teen Wolf and then moved onto Arrow. He would get the pics removed from the web, whenever they resurfaced and tried to pretend they never happened. People were angry that he was denying being gay despite all the evidence being out there and people knowing him when he was openly gay. It's nothing like Britney Spears or Brooke Shields or that recent Cruz Beckham photoshoot where they played up the jailbait shit. Colton is full of it.

by Anonymousreply 22June 22, 2023 3:27 PM

Recall when he was "Our Colto" the darling of DL. Then the minute he came out..

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by Anonymousreply 23June 22, 2023 3:27 PM

You kweens wonder why actors stay closeted? Because we eat our young here.

by Anonymousreply 24June 22, 2023 3:28 PM

Colton solidly earned the derision and later disinterest he received on DL.

by Anonymousreply 25June 22, 2023 3:45 PM

He went to great lengths to conceal his homosexuality, so his response to the Tumblr post is hypocritical. Colton seems to be seeking praise for being "one of the first out and proud actors," which he never was.

by Anonymousreply 26June 22, 2023 3:48 PM

R20 well Tyler didn't write the show. I don't think they would know what to do with a gay character.

R22 wasn't Colton's OTT reaction due to Podwall's influence?

by Anonymousreply 27June 22, 2023 3:51 PM

True, the thing that Colton is best known for is his infamous attempts to de-gay. I don’t think he’s ever going to do anything else in his life that he will be better known for than that.

by Anonymousreply 28June 22, 2023 3:53 PM

[quote] You kweens wonder why actors stay closeted? Because we eat our young here.

People like Colton would get the Colton treatment. People like David Archuleta and others would not. It definitely depends on the person and what they have done.

by Anonymousreply 29June 22, 2023 3:55 PM

When Matt Bomer came out, he never whined or complained or made up excuses after the fact. He acknowledged he hid his sexuality to get roles when he was younger and that was that. We knew the deal anyway but he was never a full-blown closet case who would act funny whenever people who did know brought up his sexualty. He's out now his his husband and kids and seems happy and content. Matt Bomer did the whole bearding thing and tried to present as straight (which was likely Disney's doing) but stopped after his TV show ended and dated Jonathan Bennett and later got married to his husband. He never whined or complained and is grateful for the opportunities he had.

Colton on the other hand just comes across as resentful that his career never went that far and he's always making himself a victim. No Colto, you were a hot young white guy who coasted off your looks, even if straight, you would never be a Hollywood star. Your sexuality may not have helped but it also didn't upend on this. His whole "activist" thing just seems phony now that he is irrelevant.

by Anonymousreply 30June 22, 2023 3:58 PM

*Matt Dallas

by Anonymousreply 31June 22, 2023 3:58 PM

He’s desperate for attention. Has he gotten a real job yet?

by Anonymousreply 32June 22, 2023 4:07 PM

Did Bomer ever do the whole lie after he came out that his "relationships" with women "were real, but I am a proud gay man" like so many do?

by Anonymousreply 33June 22, 2023 4:19 PM

I don't remember Bomer ever making public announcements denying anything. There were pics of him with Simon too. People figured it out but he was never homophobic in his public persona (unlike Colton and Shawn Mendes) so he had more grace given to him. There's a difference in not broadcasting your sexuality (it's nobody's business anyway) and publicly denying it and trying to hard to seem straight. Even gay celebs who beard are forgiven if they aren't obnoxious about it. Nobody is mad at Lance Bass taking Topanga to prom but people were annoyed by Shawn Mendes and his forced tonguing with Camila.

by Anonymousreply 34June 22, 2023 4:45 PM

AND his various interviews where he gets angry about being assumed to be gay!

by Anonymousreply 35June 22, 2023 4:47 PM

I enjoyed Colton’s memoir. He was a little tart.

by Anonymousreply 36June 22, 2023 4:49 PM

Is this the one who was married to the florist?

by Anonymousreply 37June 22, 2023 4:54 PM

I told this in another thread, but I stole the copies of this spread from Books-A-Million in middle school or maybe it was freshman year of high school. Tore the pages out, and put them in my pocket. I couldn't help myself because I though Colton was on of the most beautiful men I'd ever seen. Stuck in the Midwest, closeted, and alone, I would look at those two and imagines, read the accompanying story, and dream about a life after high school, when I could find my beautiful boyfriend.

Those photos helped one lonely Midwest kid get through the challenges of youth. I'm proud that he could come out and appreciate this spread. Rooting for ya, Colton!

I'm now in my early-30s. I never found that pretty boyfriend (cause, life is harsh) but I still smile when I see these photos. I have the originals in a book on my bookshelf.

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by Anonymousreply 38June 22, 2023 4:54 PM

Oops: *I would look at those two, read their story, and dream about a life after high school, when I could fine my beautiful boyfriend.

by Anonymousreply 39June 22, 2023 4:55 PM

He posted that pic 2 years ago. Did Colto start this thread because he is bored?

by Anonymousreply 40June 22, 2023 4:57 PM

Who knows, but the real story about Colton is who is the former well known child star, that had to do a nude scene with him for a creepy acting class. All of it filmed.

I'll need to find my copy of his book to get the direct quotes.

by Anonymousreply 41June 22, 2023 5:00 PM

I had no idea that there were voice and movement coaches to straighten up gays. But I'm happy for Colto. Loved him then and love him now.

by Anonymousreply 42June 22, 2023 5:00 PM

Does he still act?

IS he just an "influencer" now?

by Anonymousreply 43June 22, 2023 5:02 PM

R42 Definitely. Tom Cruise saw one.

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by Anonymousreply 44June 22, 2023 5:03 PM

R41, now that was an anecdote.

by Anonymousreply 45June 22, 2023 5:11 PM

[quote]we eat our young here

Pics please.

by Anonymousreply 46June 22, 2023 5:15 PM

[quote]we eat our young here

Colton is 34.

by Anonymousreply 47June 22, 2023 5:20 PM

[quote] People like Colton would get the Colton treatment. People like David Archuleta and others would not. It definitely depends on the person and what they have done.

Archuleta always got sympathy because he grew up in a religious cult known as Mormonism. Anyone who knows Mormons understands how deeply brainwashed and codependent they are. Mormons arrange marriages for their young members and obvious gays like Archie are paired up early to prevent acting on homosexual desires. It's a miracle Archie managed to get out alive and even distanced himself from his family (many ex-Mormons can't do that easily). He's making up for lost time by advocating for gay youth.

by Anonymousreply 48June 22, 2023 5:34 PM

[quote]AND his various interviews where he gets angry about being assumed to be gay!

He gets a total pass from me. He had people in his ear telling him that he could not be out and have a career. And the truth is they were probably right. Are there any out gay actors with A list careers? But for someone like Colton, staying in the closet was destroying him.

by Anonymousreply 49June 22, 2023 5:42 PM

He could have ignored all of it and played coy. Keanu Reeves did that with the Geffen rumors and trolled interviewers. He also said he didn't care if people thought he was gay because there wasn't anything wrong with that.

I think the act of being offended by gay rumors came across as self loathing to people. Tom Cruise allegedly sued publications for defamation by insinuating he was gay.

All this does is create a Streisand Effect.

by Anonymousreply 50June 22, 2023 5:54 PM

[quote]Tom Cruise allegedly sued publications for defamation by insinuating he was gay.

Not allegedly!

And remember Richard Gere who bought a full page of a newspaper to announce his heterosexuality?

by Anonymousreply 51June 22, 2023 6:01 PM

[quote] Did Bomer ever do the whole lie after he came out that his "relationships" with women "were real, but I am a proud gay man" like so many do?

I don't recall Bomer ever having a beard. As far as I know, the first thing the public ever heard about his personal life was when those pics of him making out with an ex at a party hit the internet back when he was starring in [italic]White Collar[/italic].

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by Anonymousreply 52June 22, 2023 6:06 PM

I don't like when gay celebs try to act like victims. I'm tired of it. You chose to be closeted and deny being gay to further your career, hoping to become a Hollywood star. Nobody forced you to do it. Your agents didn't force you, they advised you to and you listened because you wanted the fame. He could have stuck with modeling or stayed on MTV/CW where sexuality doesn't matter. If he had talent, he could have done Broadway where most actors are openly gay but he doesn't have natural talent. Stop trying to have people feel sorry for you. You made your choices and regret them but that's life.

by Anonymousreply 53June 22, 2023 6:12 PM

R49, the denying interviews referred to Shawn Mendes.

by Anonymousreply 54June 22, 2023 6:14 PM

Most people knew Bomer was gay, the pics of him kissing a guy were out there. He never spoke about it at the time but never denied anything. He never bearded either. Pics of him with Simon were out there too. He stayed quiet about his marriage to Simon until he decided to publicly come out at an award ceremony. But most people knew he was gay and it was accepted. Only maybe delusional fraus denied it.

by Anonymousreply 55June 22, 2023 7:33 PM

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by Anonymousreply 56June 22, 2023 7:39 PM

When Bomer was being seriously considered as Superman, he didn't beard up then? You sure?

by Anonymousreply 57June 22, 2023 9:05 PM

Bomer was considered for a Superman role in 2002 when it was a different director, J.J. Abrams. Bomer was an unknown still doing soap operas or b-movies. So he may have bearded back then as he was still young and that would have been a big opportunity. As for Man of Steel, apparently was selected to audition for it but he was already married to Simon at that time and I really doubt he would have bearded.

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by Anonymousreply 58June 22, 2023 9:15 PM

Noice!!! Never saw this pick before.

by Anonymousreply 59June 22, 2023 9:38 PM

I used to like Bomer, but I think he took some shortcuts to his C list career.

by Anonymousreply 60June 22, 2023 9:40 PM

[Quote] I enjoyed Colton’s memoir. He was a little tart.

Reminds me of that one user on ONTD who would say Colton's a slut and up for anything.

by Anonymousreply 61June 22, 2023 10:01 PM

I hated how Colton bragged to Howard Stern that he chose to fuck girls for the first time AFTER he came out of the closet.

by Anonymousreply 62June 22, 2023 10:07 PM

[quote] I used to like Bomer, but I think he took some shortcuts to his C list career.

I AM A GOLDEN GLOBE WINNER, BITCH!!!!

by Anonymousreply 63June 23, 2023 12:33 AM

Oh STFU Matt Bomer stans @ r30 and various other posts. You all just give Matt B a pass because you'd rather have sex with him than Colton in 2023, it's just that simple. In 2013 when Colton was a smoking hot 25 year old you bitches had a totally different tone (I know because I was posting here 10 years ago). And this article at OP is old news.

They both stayed in the closet for a time to advance their acting careers, who gives a shit. Colton never bearded either. Neither one is a big enough star for it to matter culturally anyway.

by Anonymousreply 64June 23, 2023 1:09 AM

OP Get back to us when:

Colton Haynes reposts infamous peen modeling pic to reclaim it and says he's no longer ashamed!

by Anonymousreply 65June 23, 2023 1:17 AM

I'm surprised nothing leaked when his laptop was stolen all those years ago. But i guess Ryan, Cody and Posey's videos made up for it.

by Anonymousreply 66June 23, 2023 1:55 AM

[quote] I enjoyed Colton’s memoir. He was a little tart.

Tell us more.

by Anonymousreply 67June 23, 2023 2:37 AM

[quote]Tyler was also on the conservative Christian propaganda show 7th Heaven which had no gay characters whatsoever

Ironic considering that 7th Heaven star Stephen Collins was later exposed as a pedophile.

by Anonymousreply 68June 23, 2023 7:34 AM

[Quote] Ironic considering that 7th Heaven star Stephen Collins was later exposed as a pedophile.

Makes certain scenes with the kids that much weirder.

by Anonymousreply 69June 23, 2023 8:43 AM

[quote]Colton never bearded either.

Bomer was out in his personal life and refused to talk about it publicly. He didn't beard. He was also still running around with his husband and kids. He just didn't talk about it.

Colton was out in his personal life but was rumored to date quite a few women, including Lauren Conrad. He later admitted that his management set up fake relationships to make him appear straight in an Andy Cohen interview. He said he was forced to do it but he went along with it.

[quote]I used to like Bomer, but I think he took some shortcuts to his C list career.

Bomer's "shortcut" was passing for straight with audiences and being traditionally handsome. He was C-List for most of his career and got lucky with White Collar. I'd say he's a B-List star if only because he's constantly working. His acting is never stellar but he is a CMU grad and he always stays in shape. People also seem to like working with him which makes a huge difference.

Colton had a shitty team that help cost him his role on Teen Wolf by playing hardball and losing. People don't forget that. He admitted they caused trouble with Teen Wolf's team. He chose to leave Arrow because of mental health problems. He had drug abuse problems. He had weight issues relating to it. He also had a rep for being a bit crazy which makes sense with what he was dealing with. I'd wager Colton would have had a better career if he didn't have such a chaotic childhood. It's obvious that stuff haunted him and damaged it.

by Anonymousreply 70June 26, 2023 5:24 AM

[quote] It was with his boyfriend at the time. It wasn't porn. The "scandal" was he was what 17yo?

He said he was FIFTEEN at the time, which actually makes me feel a little bit sleeved out. Do 15 year olds. Have sex? Of course. Do we routinely photograph them shirtless and put them in magazines? Nope.

I always thought he was 17 in the photos as well, but finding out he was only 15 actually bothers me a little.

by Anonymousreply 71June 26, 2023 5:40 AM

Oh, ok, ill be ashamed for him.

by Anonymousreply 72June 26, 2023 6:24 AM

R72 I should say that was a joke. I’m actually quite impressed with his verbiage and his willingness to call at Hollywood. As we as DL’ers know there is nothing wrong with being gay. There is freedom in truth.

by Anonymousreply 73June 26, 2023 6:27 AM

[quote]I always thought he was 17 in the photos as well,

Because the magazine wouldn't let him be in it unless he was 17 and his parent signed a release saying that he was, according to the founder.

by Anonymousreply 74June 26, 2023 6:35 AM

R74 Hi Colton! 😉

by Anonymousreply 75June 26, 2023 6:37 AM

This thread just popped up and I thought gee he's a good looking bloke in the OP's linked pic. He'd be a deliciously hot fuck.

by Anonymousreply 76June 26, 2023 6:47 AM

Collins - I missed the scandal that he was a pedo. What a pity. When I was a boy I thought he was sexy.

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by Anonymousreply 77June 26, 2023 7:24 AM

R76 Hi Colton’s boyfriend. I bet it did just pop up ⬆️! Lmao.

by Anonymousreply 78June 26, 2023 7:51 AM

OP I would not call him infamous half of my gay friends do not even know who he is…

by Anonymousreply 79June 26, 2023 7:59 AM

Never understood this guy. Mediocre actor. And he looks WAY past 34. He is going to be a rough 50. His last acting gig was the shitabulous Teen Wolf movie.

by Anonymousreply 80June 26, 2023 8:32 AM

R80 the sad thing is he wanted more money they said no so he quit. He probably wished he would not have been so greedy. He is probably hurting for money and posted this post to start conversation about him. Most people do not know who he is…

by Anonymousreply 81June 26, 2023 8:37 AM

LOVE to see what you look like R80...

by Anonymousreply 82June 26, 2023 8:44 AM

The only time I can remember Colton getting any publicity in recent years is when he & Gus Kenworthy got themselves photographed with DL fave Shawn Mendes:

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by Anonymousreply 83June 26, 2023 8:51 AM

r83 Colto is looking pretty rough there, no question.

by Anonymousreply 84June 26, 2023 9:03 AM

There was a Teen Wolf movie?

by Anonymousreply 85June 26, 2023 9:25 AM

R83 Colton was the OLD one who thinks he is still a "star". I wonder what he does for money? I know he was married to the flower queen but it wasn't long enough to walk away with big money. Probably renting one of those generic hovels in WeHo. I know he says he is 34 but this guy looks closer to 40 than anything. I have to see a birth certificate.

by Anonymousreply 86June 26, 2023 9:26 AM

WTF did he do to his face? Now he looks like Liberace.

by Anonymousreply 87June 26, 2023 9:26 AM

R84 he looks plastic.

by Anonymousreply 88June 26, 2023 9:26 AM

ugh. I just looked at his IG...He is one of "those" gays. He celebrates his past (only) successes by reposting the good old days. Everyday is Throwback Thursday. How he hasn't coughed up a Lab Brat by now is a testament to how expensive Lab Brats are.

by Anonymousreply 89June 26, 2023 10:20 AM

r50 if you read his book Colton was basically on a self-destruction kick. He had no solid foundation. people without a solid foundation don't make rash decisions. See, those in cycles of poverty and from broken homes as examples. We need to be nurtures and supported while young.

Colton, was molested by a family member, get dicked down weekly by a local cop before he was even 15. Stripping in a hole in the wall bar, and turning tricks, before 17. Then off to NYC for a summer for more mental games from adults via an attempt at modeling. Then off to Hollywood for more games and hoops before landing Teen Wolf. Even that didn't pay well, so he wasn't on stable ground.

His beauty made it possible for him to overcome these issues to become a DL household name. But he's been a target of abuse for a large part of his life. I'm shocked at his honesty, in his book, and really really root for the guy, because a lot of adults failed him.

by Anonymousreply 90June 26, 2023 10:25 AM

nurtured*

by Anonymousreply 91June 26, 2023 10:25 AM

[quote]He had no solid foundation.

I'll have you know I wear TONS of foundation.

And it's solid as a rock.

by Anonymousreply 92June 26, 2023 10:27 AM

Stop it r53. Most of us were closeted in our youth. Why? Because we felt shame and pressure to hide ourselves. I'm sure its exponentially harder when you are a celeb and the longer you keep up the charade, the more lies you tell, the more you feel compelled to double down. Most of us had to have debates with ourselves about staying in the closet or not. Celebs have agents, managers, and others in their ear tipping the scales towards the closet.

by Anonymousreply 93June 26, 2023 10:30 AM

R90 Hi Colton. Still not buying your book.

by Anonymousreply 94June 26, 2023 10:37 AM

Boo hoo. Some of us were too ugly to get teen boyfriends, be dicked down by local cops, strip in bars, or run off to NYC to be "exploited" for our beauty.

Some of that attention or affection would have been nice.

Boo fucking hoo. Poor you.

by Anonymousreply 95June 26, 2023 10:38 AM

He's not at all crying over his lost youth/looks.

by Anonymousreply 96June 26, 2023 10:58 AM

I'm not buying it. Oklahoma was one of the most violently homophobic places in the nation when Colton was growing up, but Hollywood taught him shame and fear? The boy in that photo very definitely had been taught to hate everything about himself years before that photo. I"d say he is very definitely crying over his lost youth and looks.

by Anonymousreply 97June 26, 2023 11:19 AM

He looks horrible at r83. Like a victim of bad plastic surgery.

by Anonymousreply 98June 26, 2023 11:30 AM

His ass was sweet and tight, but he was always a bit of a whiner. Since he got the show, I'm guessing he finally learned how to suck a dick.

by Anonymousreply 99June 26, 2023 12:03 PM

He should have used the money from modeling and acting to go to college and get a degree and a job. I can't imagine living with someone like him 24/7, he'd be so annoying with his histrionics and constantly talking about his past. Can't he sell real estate or something?

by Anonymousreply 100June 26, 2023 12:33 PM

He's a dumb queen.

by Anonymousreply 101June 26, 2023 12:37 PM

Colto will always have my heart for signing my action figure of him with "❤️ Datalounge"

by Anonymousreply 102June 26, 2023 12:55 PM

I guess having beauty in his youth was some compensation for being born on the wrong side of the tracks. But sometimes beauty + average IQ, no money, and shit family, means you turn to your beauty, and that can be a recipe for disaster as much as success. Given that you aren't clever, aren't academic, and have a shit family.

by Anonymousreply 103June 26, 2023 1:02 PM

Very true, R103. And if you're gay, then there's no childhood sweetheart or babymama holding you back, and maybe there's a shitting family pushing you away, so you're far more likely to go off to the big city.

by Anonymousreply 104June 26, 2023 1:06 PM

If he had been a gorgeous straight boy he might have turned to sports for balance. I don't know about being gay and turning to sports, but nowadays seems possible. Still I think you need a stable home to excel at these activities.

by Anonymousreply 105June 26, 2023 1:08 PM

[quote]Colto will always have my heart for signing my action figure of him with "❤️ Datalounge"

Datalounge? Why not your name?

by Anonymousreply 106June 26, 2023 1:09 PM

LOL, I meant "shitty" family at R104 - though a shitting family would be an even greater push factor, of course.

by Anonymousreply 107June 26, 2023 1:10 PM

Q: Why don't more young actors don't come out?

A: The last 107 posts on this thread.

by Anonymousreply 108June 26, 2023 1:30 PM

Yeah, I'm sure DL is the reason why closeted actors don't come out. Not.

by Anonymousreply 109June 26, 2023 1:33 PM

Do people still use "not" that way?

by Anonymousreply 110June 26, 2023 1:40 PM

Colty is quite intelligent; he scored a 34 composite on his ACT college entrance exam (which is very high).

by Anonymousreply 111June 26, 2023 1:56 PM

[quote]Most of us were closeted in our youth. Why? Because we felt shame and pressure to hide ourselves.

I thank the goddesses that I kissed a boy when I was 18 and still not 100% sure that I was gay and immediately went back to college and told EVERYONE I was gay.

If I was in the closet it was the 20 minute cab ride between making out with a guy and getting back to the dorm and telling everyone.

Because NO ONE has ever been able to make me feel ashamed or degraded about it. Also glad I didn’t ever want to be a celebrity where I’d be told I couldn’t work if I was openly gay, because I probably wouldn’t have worked. I wanted to be out. (Plus I don’t sing, dance, act, or play an instrument, and was always better at math and science, so that worked out just fine)

by Anonymousreply 112June 26, 2023 2:19 PM

R108

Q: why do actors have to start their own threads?

A: Because they are no longer remembered or relevant and thrive on attention.

by Anonymousreply 113June 26, 2023 3:25 PM

[quote]Most of us were closeted in our youth. Why? Because we felt shame and pressure to hide ourselves.

Excuse me! I came out when I was 6!

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by Anonymousreply 114June 26, 2023 3:28 PM

Anything Billy Eichner touches....eww.

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by Anonymousreply 115June 26, 2023 4:10 PM

R113

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by Anonymousreply 116June 26, 2023 9:43 PM

R116 I just had to. I know I am not to respond to trolls.

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by Anonymousreply 117June 26, 2023 10:24 PM

R116 I R117 forgot to add, Hi Colton! 😉

by Anonymousreply 118June 26, 2023 10:25 PM

Better a has-been than a never was R118.

by Anonymousreply 119June 26, 2023 10:50 PM

R119 it would be even more depressing to know you could have made it but now you’re a has been. I would always choose a never was over being ridiculed and taunted by people waiting for you to fail. I cannot even begin to imagine the emotional turmoil to keep trying and failing. I would never seek out the public life because it’s a cruel world and people are waiting for others to fail. We all are free to shoot someone down with the anonymity of the web. It would not be a fun life to experience. However, certain personalities crave the adoration and attention and soon realize it is a dog eat dog world.

I hope you can find a new acting gig and be successful. You got this in you to succeed. Just please stop with the plastic surgery.

by Anonymousreply 120June 26, 2023 11:30 PM

R120 Just please stop with the drumstick hon.

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by Anonymousreply 121June 27, 2023 12:18 AM

" I would always choose a never was"

You've reached your goal R120

by Anonymousreply 122June 27, 2023 12:20 AM

[quote] it would be even more depressing to know you could have made it but now you’re a has been.

But wouldn't that be better than finally being forced to accept that you are just terrible at acting, like Colton?

by Anonymousreply 123June 27, 2023 1:19 AM

R98, yeah, in the photo of Colton with Shawn and Gus, it looks like he had too much plastic surgery. He should have left his face alone. He was a pretty twink.

by Anonymousreply 124June 27, 2023 7:41 AM

Let’s remember the good times!

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by Anonymousreply 125June 27, 2023 7:53 AM

I told him to save his money.

by Anonymousreply 126June 27, 2023 9:36 PM
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