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Attorney accused in Boston rapes,

arrested with help of genetic genealogy

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by Anonymousreply 97June 30, 2023 2:51 AM

From their own pocket people pay private companies to take their DNA so it can be used against them and their families in court. It's fascinating to think about.

by Anonymousreply 1June 1, 2023 2:47 AM

What a fuckin sleaze who chose an appropriate profession

by Anonymousreply 2June 1, 2023 2:48 AM

Yes, I was reading that in the original thread posted before this one.

by Anonymousreply 3June 1, 2023 2:51 AM

He's got the smile of someone who knows he can be charming and get away with something.

But - he doesn't look capable of lifting a cup of coffee, let alone physically overtaking someone.

by Anonymousreply 4June 1, 2023 2:51 AM

This is not a he said/she said scenario like Danny Masterson. Investigators got this guys seminal sample from a rape kit one of his victims provided. One of his victims........ he is a serial rapist with more than one victim. The sample was compared to the existing data on a website his relatives uploaded.

by Anonymousreply 5June 1, 2023 2:55 AM

Every straight male is capable of rape.

by Anonymousreply 6June 1, 2023 4:23 AM

Mein Fuhrer.

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by Anonymousreply 7June 1, 2023 5:06 AM

After the hearing, Nilo's lawyer, Jeff Garrigan, told reporters that Nilo is "looking forward to be taken back up to Massachusetts" where he will plead not guilty.

"He's looking forward to fighting these charges and showing that he's innocent," Garrigan added.

The four alleged attacks that resulted in Nilo's arrest took place in an industrial part of Boston's Charlestown neighborhood between Aug. 18, 2007, and Dec. 23, 2008, police have said.

Nilo was identified as a suspect through forensic genetic genealogy, officials said.

He lived in Boston's North End, as well as in Wisconsin, California and New York, officials have said. Investigators have urged anyone who thinks they could have been a victim or who has information on any case involving Nilo, to contact Boston Police or the FBI.

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by Anonymousreply 8June 2, 2023 2:31 AM

[quote] The four alleged attacks that resulted in Nilo's arrest took place in an industrial part of Boston's Charlestown neighborhood between Aug. 18, 2007, and Dec. 23, 2008, police have said.

The attacks aren't alleged.

by Anonymousreply 9June 2, 2023 2:32 AM

He was cute enough to get non-rape pussy.

by Anonymousreply 10June 2, 2023 3:01 AM

Not about pussy, it's about control.

by Anonymousreply 11June 2, 2023 3:05 AM

He had a glow up since high school. He's a lot hotter now.

by Anonymousreply 12June 2, 2023 3:07 AM

R11, that's what radical feminists keep spouting. It's always about the thrill of sex.

by Anonymousreply 13June 2, 2023 3:10 AM

Datalounge has a magat infestation, it's irritating

by Anonymousreply 14June 2, 2023 3:14 AM

[quote] Not about pussy, it's about control.

Can’t it ge about both?

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by Anonymousreply 15June 2, 2023 3:36 AM

Ge = be

by Anonymousreply 16June 2, 2023 3:38 AM

He's so cute, I guess you just never can tell, can you.

by Anonymousreply 17June 2, 2023 4:01 AM

In the coming days we can likely expect sordid stories from his ex girlfriends about his napoleonic rage issues and inability to perform in bed.

by Anonymousreply 18June 2, 2023 4:01 AM

Has a fiancé

by Anonymousreply 19June 2, 2023 4:10 AM

[quote]Has a fiancé

Maybe she'll leave him and he'll be back on the market.

by Anonymousreply 20June 2, 2023 4:28 AM

I saw this on the news earlier. The reporter really had to tell us he lives in a “posh apartment in Weehawken overlooking the Hudson”. Sounded a little jealous.

by Anonymousreply 21June 2, 2023 4:31 AM

R7, why are you posting a link to a thread about the Texas Attorney General and his part in stealing votes for Trump?

by Anonymousreply 22June 2, 2023 4:34 AM

Do you think his relatives regret using the DNA websites

by Anonymousreply 23June 2, 2023 4:49 AM

Whoops

by Anonymousreply 24June 2, 2023 5:23 AM

Fiance went to court with him

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by Anonymousreply 25June 2, 2023 5:32 AM

The girlfriend is ugly. That cheap looking bleached hair. The black roots and super dark eyebrows.

by Anonymousreply 26June 2, 2023 5:40 AM

[QUOTE]Not about pussy, it's about control.

And seething, white hot hatred. Never forget the hate.

by Anonymousreply 27June 2, 2023 8:07 AM

[QUOTE]Nilo was employed as a cyber claims lawyer with the Cowbell insurance firm when he was arrested.

Actually, jailhouse lawyering sounds more promising 😒.

by Anonymousreply 28June 2, 2023 8:13 AM

[quote]The attacks aren't alleged.

You've pinpointed a grammatical bugbear of mine. Rape is a bit of an iffy one because of the tendency of courts to rule "it didn't happen", but the locution you mention is used in relation to murders, car crashes, arson and every other kind of palpable crime.

Clearly if there's a body hanging out of the car, or lying in a basement with its head bashed in, the crash or the murder is very much actual. It is only the nature of the accused's participation that is "alleged". There seems to be no news organisation left on the planet that can make this distinction.

by Anonymousreply 29June 2, 2023 11:12 AM

R4 he is not tiny, at all.

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by Anonymousreply 30June 2, 2023 11:20 AM

[quote] Nilo was employed as a cyber claims lawyer with the Cowbell insurance firm when he was arrested.

Needs more cowbell.

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by Anonymousreply 31June 2, 2023 1:10 PM

Any casting picks for the inevitable Lifetime movie?

by Anonymousreply 32June 2, 2023 1:38 PM

R1 I’d be happy to stop a serial rapist family member in that way I guess?

by Anonymousreply 33June 2, 2023 3:01 PM

I wonder if serial rapists go through periods where they stop and then resume their activities later on or they just completely stop at some point.

I've been following this case for a while. Genetic genealogy sites were also involved. Law enforcement believes the guy has other victims.

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by Anonymousreply 34June 2, 2023 7:33 PM

Curious why the fiancé is doing the Tammy Wynette thing

by Anonymousreply 35June 2, 2023 10:33 PM

Hot attorney appears in court.

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by Anonymousreply 36June 7, 2023 6:45 AM

He looks completely freaked out at R36.

Like he wants to run, or cry, or scream, or kill himself.

Really unstable.

by Anonymousreply 37June 7, 2023 6:46 AM

Ben Shapiro vibes.

by Anonymousreply 38June 7, 2023 6:54 AM

He looks a bit shell shocked. The video shows him to have a fairly mean/intense gaze too so I can see how he can be a rapist compared to the photo.

DNA is awesome - means more crimes can be cleared, deters people, and fewer false convictions too. I don't buy the 'having family loyalty' thing - it should be fair because it could happen to your family too. Just stop serious offenders from wherever they come even if it's from your own family.

[quote]that's what radical feminists keep spouting. It's always about the thrill of sex.

I don't buy that it's only about control or power too - I think a lot of it is about sex - but I think that some people have a sexual fetish for overpowering/raping someone so there can be a link. Same thing with serial killers - I think most of them have a sexual fetish for killing or having sex with dead bodies.

by Anonymousreply 39June 7, 2023 7:05 AM

R37 - Imagine so many years of thinking you got away with it into very a cushy life, only to get caught by genetic evidence. Would love to have been in the room when the realization came crashing down.

by Anonymousreply 40June 7, 2023 7:05 AM

One of the most famous murders in the UK was solved by a family member's DNA sample.

A teenage prostitute was stabbed to death in Cardiff in 1988 and 5 black men were charged with murder, despite them all having alibis and despite witnesses saying they saw a white man leaving the property at the time of the murder. 2 were found not guilty at trial, 3 were released from prison on appeal.

In the early 00s when DNA testing had improved forensic examiners went back to the flat Lynette White was murdered in and found a spec of blood that wasn't the victim's. The hypothesis was that the murderer had cut himself on the knife when stabbing the victim. There was a DNA match with a teenager who had committed a petty crime, but was born after the murder. The police looked at the family and the kid had an uncle who looked exactly like the man the witnesses had described leaving the flat.

20 years in prison and counting.

by Anonymousreply 41June 7, 2023 7:09 AM

Very eerie and comforting at the same time, r41.

by Anonymousreply 42June 7, 2023 7:22 AM

It is shocking how often cops have latched onto convicting a vulnerable person just to get a crime off their books. Often a low intelligence person they know they can browbeat into making a false confession or a Black person. A lot of that was because of how hard it is to solve crimes so DNA helps a lot with that.

by Anonymousreply 43June 7, 2023 7:26 AM

The fiancée sat in the front row in court, fingering rosary beads.

by Anonymousreply 44June 7, 2023 7:30 AM

Doesn't Catholicism wash away your sins every time you make a confession?

by Anonymousreply 45June 7, 2023 7:35 AM

This reminds me of that other case in New Jersey or Boston, where the guy was meeting women in hotel rooms and raping/killing them. I think his name was Phillip something. He ended up killing himself, but his piece of shit girlfriend stood by him. That cunt even posted bad things about the murder victims online.

I wonder if this guy's ugly girlfriend will be the same way? I wonder if this guy will kill himself? His life is over. He'll never be an attorney.

by Anonymousreply 46June 7, 2023 7:56 AM

[quote]The fiancée sat in the front row in court, fingering rosary beads.

Dumb bitch

by Anonymousreply 47June 7, 2023 7:57 AM

Some women find it difficult to admit the truth about the men they are with.

by Anonymousreply 48June 7, 2023 8:40 AM

These reporters are awful, brainless and lazy.

[quote] Kurt Alan Rillema, 51, a businessman from West Bloomfield Township, was charged with first-degree and second-degree criminal sexual conduct charges Tuesday

What type of business? The rapes he committed 2 decades ago are described in vivid detail in the news articles.

by Anonymousreply 49June 7, 2023 10:06 AM

[quote] Some women find it difficult to admit the truth about the men they are with.

I'm sure she thought she hit the boyfriend jackpot.

Young, handsome, with a good job.

The perfect future husband.

And then this.

Her world just came crashing down around her, and on top of everything else, it turns out he's a serial rapist.

She's still clinging to a dream of a perfect life that will never come.

by Anonymousreply 50June 7, 2023 10:17 AM

R49 the business of business is business. Don’t you know that by now?

by Anonymousreply 51June 7, 2023 10:20 AM

His fiancee was clutching large rosary beads during trial and while running away from reporters

by Anonymousreply 52June 7, 2023 10:38 AM

The fiancee is still there cause he lays pipe well and he has money.

It's STILL somewhat shocking when I see a reasonably attractive man accused of rape. I KNOW that it's more than just sex, but l guess I'm still conditioned to equate rape with not being able to get laid. I mean...where does that come from? Probably from 80s movies where the rapists look like degenerates.

by Anonymousreply 53June 7, 2023 10:45 AM

R44, According to reports, they became engaged just recently.

by Anonymousreply 54June 7, 2023 10:48 AM

51. Who told you that you are cute.

by Anonymousreply 55June 7, 2023 10:52 AM

R53 To be fair, a lot of women especially attractive ones won't necessarily put out and have casual sex, they'll make a straight man date them, work for it. That's why attractive straight men still use escorts if they just want sex and to sleep around. It's a different culture to gay male culture.

by Anonymousreply 56June 7, 2023 11:17 AM

Coincidentally, there is currently an ongoing rape trial here in Boston where the defendant is an attorney who is quite hot.

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by Anonymousreply 57June 7, 2023 12:53 PM

O2116 rape? Or rape rape?

by Anonymousreply 58June 7, 2023 12:56 PM

Where did anyone get the idea that this guy is tiny and Napoleonic?

by Anonymousreply 59June 7, 2023 1:00 PM

"I wish he would rape me but he wouldn't want to."

by Anonymousreply 60June 7, 2023 1:41 PM

[quote]These reporters are awful, brainless and lazy.

[quote]Kurt Alan Rillema, 51, a businessman from West Bloomfield Township, was charged with first-degree and second-degree criminal sexual conduct charges Tuesday [quote] What type of business? The rapes he committed 2 decades ago are described in vivid detail in the news articles.

Rillema co-owns a contracting business called Eagle Contracting Services. His name hasn't been scrubbed from their site. There's this thread on Reddit where one poster says that he or she worked with Rillema at a company several years back. He was the CEO and was fired a year later due to rumors of an inappropriate relationship with an intern. Another poster replied with "He was a terrible person when I knew him". Rillema is quite fugly. Fox News has an article on him stating several sources said he was a secret investor in strip clubs. Daily Mail has an article on him with pics of him with his family. The kids faces are blurred out. Rillema's wife isn't a beauty queen. She has an ugly gummy smile and in a more recent she looks a bit neatherdralish. Rillema and his wife looked awkward in one of the pics of them dressed up. They are the perfect example of unattractive upper middle class couple trying to act like their shit doesn't stink. There were a couple of pics of them at Michigan State University football game. Rillema was wearing an alum sweatshirt. I wouldn't be surprised if he had victims at MSU, but they may have been scared college girls who didn't report.

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by Anonymousreply 61June 7, 2023 4:29 PM

More info . . .

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by Anonymousreply 62June 8, 2023 4:33 AM

What does the suspect being a business owner have to do with this reporting? And why the graphic description of the assaults?

by Anonymousreply 63June 8, 2023 9:07 AM

R63 To show that he's not some jobless, crackhead and that ANYONE could be a rapist?

by Anonymousreply 64June 8, 2023 10:56 AM

There is no way his sexual assaults are limited to the Boston area. I'm sure more reports will come up from other areas he has lived in. His fiance's rosary beads clutching is a nice touch.

by Anonymousreply 65June 9, 2023 6:46 PM

Why can't I get a guy like him.

He's so fucking hot.

I wish someone who looked like him would hook up with me.

by Anonymousreply 66June 9, 2023 6:49 PM

"He's so fucking hot."

Nah. He's got that plastic, too-perfect, Jared Kushner thing going on.

by Anonymousreply 67June 9, 2023 7:19 PM

R59, someone said he’s tiny? I thought he looked like he’s on the tall side.

by Anonymousreply 68June 9, 2023 7:51 PM

Nilo's fiancee reminds me a bit of Tiffany from the Chucky movies.

by Anonymousreply 69June 9, 2023 8:11 PM

[quote] arrested with help of genetic genealogy

As opposed to Levi genealogy?

by Anonymousreply 70June 9, 2023 9:58 PM

[quote]r53 It's STILL somewhat shocking when I see a reasonably attractive man accused of rape. I KNOW that it's more than just sex, but l guess I'm still conditioned to equate rape with not being able to get laid.

That would mean that every downtrodden, unattractive person in the world would be a rapist. And of course they’re not.

A conventional date where both parties have boundaries and make individual choices wouldn’t fulfill a rapist’s needs. They want to violate.

by Anonymousreply 71June 10, 2023 3:04 AM

R57, Attorney Gary Zerola was found not guilty on Friday.

by Anonymousreply 72June 10, 2023 7:00 AM

R72 . . .

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by Anonymousreply 73June 10, 2023 7:02 AM

Maybe the genealogy website led them in his direction, but I read a report that his DNA was taken directly from a glass he drank from at a professional event.

by Anonymousreply 74June 12, 2023 3:02 PM

R71, it's like all those powerful Hollywood people who have more money than they know what to do with; why they don't just call an escort agency and hire someone to do some role-playing and fantasy is beyond me.

Why they risk it all by molesting people they think they can control is career suicide. Now, at least.

by Anonymousreply 75June 12, 2023 3:10 PM

I was thinking the same r74. Has he been raping women around the NJ/NY area. They should be looking at potential cases.

by Anonymousreply 76June 12, 2023 3:21 PM

He's out on bail.

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by Anonymousreply 77June 17, 2023 6:51 PM

What a catch 🙄

by Anonymousreply 78June 17, 2023 6:59 PM

Did they say in the charging docs whether he has a big dick or not?

by Anonymousreply 79June 17, 2023 7:46 PM

R77, Where did his fiancée come up with $500,000.00?

by Anonymousreply 80June 17, 2023 8:08 PM

R41 he is up for day release. This is a man who stabbed a young hooker down to her bones, held her neck while he cut her throat....How can a criminal like that possibly qualify for day release?!

by Anonymousreply 81June 17, 2023 8:15 PM

R80 I'm wondering about that too. Maybe, a trust fund/family money.

by Anonymousreply 82June 17, 2023 9:10 PM

[quote] He's out on bail.

Call me, Matthew!

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by Anonymousreply 83June 17, 2023 10:07 PM

1. Partying in College

2. Fiancee.

3. Extradition

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by Anonymousreply 84June 17, 2023 10:08 PM

R82, She must have really missed his cock.

by Anonymousreply 85June 17, 2023 10:22 PM

Good for Boston for testing the rape kits. Atlanta throws them away when they get moldy with age. Eryka Badu donated the proceeds of one of her concerts to get a bunch tested.

by Anonymousreply 86June 17, 2023 10:32 PM

I have respect for Badu.

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by Anonymousreply 87June 18, 2023 1:24 AM

[quote] He was the CEO and was fired a year later due to rumors of an inappropriate relationship with an intern. Another poster replied with "He was a terrible person when I knew him". Rillema is quite fugly. Fox News has an article on him stating several sources said he was a secret investor in strip clubs.

Did he watch porn on a plane, too?

by Anonymousreply 88June 18, 2023 1:40 AM

What I wouldn't give to be raped by him! Some girls have all the luck!

by Anonymousreply 89June 18, 2023 7:24 AM

[quote]What I wouldn't give to be raped by him! Some girls have all the luck!

It wouldn't be rape then.

by Anonymousreply 90June 18, 2023 11:23 AM

R80 if bail was $500,000 then a bond could be had by putting up 10%.

by Anonymousreply 91June 18, 2023 4:46 PM

R91, His bail amount was set at $5,000,000.00 and she put up $500,000.00.

Meanwhile, he’s now being charged with five additional sexual assaults.

Thank God for DNA. They should revoke his bail.

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by Anonymousreply 92June 28, 2023 5:48 AM

[quote]Curious why the fiancé is doing the Tammy Wynette thing

Show me a guy with a professional degree (even an extremely mediocre one) and I’ll show you a trailer park skank looking to swoop in.

by Anonymousreply 93June 28, 2023 6:04 AM

The douche face guy Kurt Rillema accused in golf course rapes is being sued by the woman in the Pennsylvania case. Former congressman Conor Lamb is representing her in the lawsuit.

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by Anonymousreply 94June 29, 2023 3:57 AM

[quote] What does the suspect being a business owner have to do with this reporting? And why the graphic description of the assaults?

I think a lot of people in journalism and the media have became desensitized. They probably don't have issues writing/publishing articles that contain graphic details of rapes and other crimes.

by Anonymousreply 95June 29, 2023 5:54 AM

Sicko

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by Anonymousreply 96June 30, 2023 12:54 AM

I am not particularly sensitive but I was disturbed by the details the reporters and the editor chose to leave in the article, salacious and cruel.

They forgot to describe the type of business the perp owned because they added all the colorful details of the assaults.

by Anonymousreply 97June 30, 2023 2:51 AM
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