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On average are straight men more attractive than gay men?

I’ve noticed the most attractive men I’ve seen have been straight. The men on straight dating apps are better looking to me than the men on gay apps. Are they really more attractive or is it the heterosexual element that psychologically makes them more handsome?

by Anonymousreply 26June 14, 2023 5:33 AM

There are way, way more straight men. So of course there are more hot ones. But on *average* I would say gay men tend to take care of themselves better. Gay guys at a high school/college reunion tend to be in better shape than most of their straight counterparts. Haven't settled down with kids and still want to look fuckable.

by Anonymousreply 1May 10, 2023 5:26 PM

We're conditioned to think a rugged, mannnish man is more desirable than someone who shapes his eyebrows. Maybe we think they'll be more aggressive/fun in bed. Or we will flourish in the shadow of his masculinity.

by Anonymousreply 2May 10, 2023 5:29 PM

Hey OP. FUCK OFF then kill yourself. We don't need your self hatred. here!

by Anonymousreply 3May 10, 2023 5:40 PM

The men on Chaturbate who use the hashtag #straight are on average quite ugly. Occasionally however you will catch a beaut. Of those the best are the ones who talk a lot and are obviously douches. Apparently I’m drawn to the beautiful straight douche.

by Anonymousreply 4May 10, 2023 5:44 PM

Yes they are.

by Anonymousreply 5May 10, 2023 5:50 PM

It's our one big advantage.

by Anonymousreply 6May 10, 2023 5:51 PM

why are straight me so dumb?

by Anonymousreply 7May 10, 2023 5:51 PM

Proud gay guy here. I'm so gay that I'm smoking pole and getting DP'd as I type this. The one thing that bothers me about the looks of SOME gay men is the way they pluck and preen. Too much styling. Too much product. often it is just too much.

While not all straight men, straight guys do this effortless thing. They'll roll out of bed with bed head and throw on a tshirt and shorts and just be hot. I remember in college the ones who would roll up into class with wet hair from the shower. There is just something very sexy about throwing yourself together and it just landing.

by Anonymousreply 8May 10, 2023 5:56 PM

Yes, and it helps if they are dumb as a box of rocks. ^

by Anonymousreply 9May 10, 2023 5:58 PM

So what are you doing on "straight dating apps", OP? Catfishing?

by Anonymousreply 10May 10, 2023 6:10 PM

OP goes to the ST8 apps to be an extra pathetic loser.

by Anonymousreply 11May 10, 2023 6:14 PM

Certainly not. However, all the men that make mama's mussy moistest always turn out to be straight.

by Anonymousreply 12May 10, 2023 6:16 PM

it's not "or" , OP. Like most things in life it's "and". as in " Woody is a lying perv' AND Mia is crayzé". So : they really more attractive AND the heterosexual element psychologically makes them more handsome. Also, I've done a lot of them in my time, and the fuck is off the charts. Gay men can't handle a guy

by Anonymousreply 13May 10, 2023 6:21 PM

Good-looking gay men make the most of their looks with grooming, fitness and clothes, whereas only a fraction of good-looking straight men do. So as a percentage of their population, there are more good-looking gays than good-looking straights.

by Anonymousreply 14May 10, 2023 6:24 PM

[quote] there are more good-looking gays than good-looking straights.

I don't find that is true. Most gay men are out of shape and ugly in the face on top of having repulsive personalities. Whereas an enormous amount of straight guys are attractive. You must live in California or the east coast

by Anonymousreply 15May 10, 2023 6:33 PM

[quote]Are they really more attractive or is it the heterosexual element that psychologically makes them more handsome?

The latter, except the psychological element is on your end, namely in the form of self-loathing – either for being gay or being femme. You hate yourself, even if you're oblivious to it on a conscious level, and as such are more drawn to men who don't "act gay."

Physical attractiveness has no correlation to sexual orientation – at least on a genetic level. (Yes, obviously gay men tend to focus more on their appearance than straight guys, particularly in terms of working out, but genetics are genetics. Some luck out, others don't.) And since I'm already bursting silly-gay bubbles, there's also no correlation between large hands / feet / lips and dick size or cocksucking abilities. (Also, no one under the age of 35 is a "strict top" or "strict bottom." Zoomers thankfully understand the pointlessness in attempting to assign heteronormative standards to queer relationships, e.g. the bottom is "the wife.")

by Anonymousreply 16May 10, 2023 7:53 PM

Not when they're face down. Great man have cleaner asses, as a rule.

by Anonymousreply 17May 10, 2023 8:06 PM

Gay, not great. Damn autocorrect

by Anonymousreply 18May 10, 2023 8:09 PM

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by Anonymousreply 19May 10, 2023 11:01 PM

Darkgeminilord, face it, straight men and even Bi men, are way more attractive and more desirable than gay men. Gay men are at the bottom of the sex foodchain, just above MTF. Let's not pretend otherwise

by Anonymousreply 20May 11, 2023 2:14 PM

Of course there is some psychological stuff attached to it, but many gay men over do it in a way that makes them look plastic instead of natural.

by Anonymousreply 21May 11, 2023 2:29 PM

it goes like this from the top to the base : straight white men , bi white men, straight black/latino men , other coloured straight men ,bi black/latino men , gay white total tops, all the rest , white trannies , other trannies, filippinos and other yellow beings

by Anonymousreply 22May 11, 2023 5:03 PM

I am attracted to natural masculinity without the bitchy attitude. So , yes straight guys are much more desirable

by Anonymousreply 23June 14, 2023 2:07 AM

You can just hear the siss from the flaming losers

by Anonymousreply 24June 14, 2023 2:10 AM

LOL

There are tons of gay guys out there that you think are straight, OP. They just don't want people like you hanging off of them.

by Anonymousreply 25June 14, 2023 3:05 AM

We take better are of ourselves. And most straight men are just fat and gross.

However, they have an advantage over us in that not preening and obsessing over your appearance, like most gay men do, gives one a more natural appeal.

Sometimes gay men are just too polished.

by Anonymousreply 26June 14, 2023 5:33 AM
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