I waved at my bullies today, smiled and showed them the middle finger.
Basically, there's a group of young people who mock me. I'd say they're all between 16-22. I don't know what their problem is but whenever they see me, they yell and insult me, they cackle and sneer. Other times they just giggle and stare. I don't know what country they're from, but they switch between screaming in English and then some other language.
I have no idea why they pick on me. I'm much older and don't have any social connection to them---we're strangers. We live in the same part of town, but that's it. Whenever they start yelling, I always look away, ignore and keep my head down. I'm not a confrontational person, so don't haven't asked them what there problem is yet.
However, today I was walking to the store and as I turned the corner, they were there in the field playing with a frisbee. The second the saw me, they stopped and stood still, staring. I kept walking, but then the loud laughter and hollering started again. The most annoying one walked along me waving. I grew increasingly uncomfortable, so in a fit of rage, I spun around and waved back and grinned as widely as I could. She just smirked and they all laughed and started saying stuff in a foreign language. They look like Roma Gyspies but wear ordinary clothes.
I walked off and they were still making noise and screaming, so I spun around again before leaving the field and waved in a really aggressive way for like a full minute. Then I showed them my middle finger and walked off.
I'm glad I did it because I'm sick of being a pushover, but now I'll feel extra awkward the next time I see them.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | May 9, 2023 4:09 AM
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Sounds like gypsy behavior
by Anonymous | reply 1 | May 1, 2023 1:43 AM
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R1 Why do they act like that? I'm sick it. It creeps me out how deranged this group I'm deal with is.
by Anonymous | reply 2 | May 1, 2023 1:48 AM
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I did it because they expected me to be a meek pushover, to just walk by with my head down. They didn't expect my reaction. I'm glad I did it.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | May 1, 2023 2:08 AM
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You’re giving me Georgette vibes.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 6 | May 1, 2023 2:15 AM
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R5 I knew it. Be well Op. and take comfort that had you responded as so in America you would have likely been shot to death.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | May 1, 2023 2:17 AM
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Aww, Frankie, they just jealous bro. Ignore them, bby.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | May 1, 2023 2:21 AM
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R6 What do you mean? I've never seen that movie so don't know the character.
by Anonymous | reply 9 | May 1, 2023 2:21 AM
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They sound retarded and probably do it to most people walking on their own. Bet they don't do it to other groups of people. Borrow someone's big dog and head towards them. They'll soon scatter.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | May 1, 2023 2:40 AM
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You can pepper spray someone for approaching you, OP. Do it once, and they'll leave you alone.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | May 1, 2023 2:43 AM
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You can’t do that in my country (Canada), R11; I doubt it’s legal in the UK, either, and they probably have knives.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | May 1, 2023 3:09 AM
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Just the thought of you maniacally waving for >60 seconds, grinning like a loon, and then giving them the bird has me laughing my ass off, OP. I hope those little pricks think you're some deranged deadbeat who is having a psychotic break after that performance! If they aren't scared of you, they're on drugs.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | May 1, 2023 3:17 AM
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OP, there are assholes everywhere. Ignore them.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | May 1, 2023 3:24 AM
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Raised by monkeys act like monkeys.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | May 1, 2023 3:26 AM
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[quote]I'm much older
How much older? I'm trying to gauge how pissed I should be that an adult is getting bullied. If it's elderly territory, I'm super pissed at these individuals. Between 55 and 60, I'm gravely disappointed in them. 30 -45, fucking a grow a pair and learn how to defend yourself. We grew up on Nu Metal and Gangsta Rap, FFS.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | May 1, 2023 3:36 AM
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Sounds like a soft gay bashing to me, I have a strong suspicion they only do this to you and other homosexuals because you're light in your loafers and they intuitively perceive you as weaker.
Definitely don't start any beef with them because their parents might come after you and your chickens, and maybe even place a generational curse on you. Just find another route to the store and scan the area for these kids beforehand. Avoid them as if your life depended on it because honey, it might.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | May 1, 2023 3:51 AM
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I think you should have Mother call the constabulary, OP. This simply isn't right. Those louts need a stern word from a respectable policeman. At the very least, they should write you an apology letter. Having them come pull weeds out of your patch wouldn't be a bad lesson for them either.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | May 1, 2023 4:02 AM
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I do t know why kids feel okay bullying some adults it happens to a friend of mine too. Little assholes
by Anonymous | reply 19 | May 1, 2023 4:31 AM
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Perhaps it's your taste of caftans? Caftans are to be flowing and not skintight. And don't forget that there are right and wrong times to wear different styles of earrings throughout the day. We want you to look your very best, dear!
by Anonymous | reply 20 | May 1, 2023 9:59 AM
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How big is the community where you live?
by Anonymous | reply 23 | May 1, 2023 11:39 AM
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Bitches, caftans are OVAH! It's all about the batsuit now!
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 24 | May 1, 2023 11:41 AM
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There’s a lot of free-floating interpersonal aggression about.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | May 1, 2023 11:48 AM
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They're not laughing at you, silly! They're starstruck! They all saw The Whale on a school cinema trip, and they think you're Brendan Fraser. Just play along! Go say hi, scrawl an illegible signature for them and be on your way.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | May 1, 2023 11:52 AM
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OP is tedious, very tedious.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | May 1, 2023 1:35 PM
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It certainly SOUNDS like something gypsies would do. There is one loud bunch of them in Denton, Texas and they’re pretty obnoxious when they’re not busy begging/ pretending to play the violin in store parking lots.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | May 1, 2023 2:30 PM
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In the US we simply shoot people for minor social aggressions & assorted faux pas.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | May 2, 2023 2:09 AM
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One of them will have to be shanked, OP. It's the only way to assert your dominance.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | May 2, 2023 2:31 AM
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No, wank the biggest one! That's what those gypsies really want.
by Anonymous | reply 35 | May 2, 2023 5:03 AM
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It could be worse, OP. Be grateful that the tramps and thieves don’t harass you as well.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | May 6, 2023 11:46 PM
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Hit them with your purse......viciously.
by Anonymous | reply 37 | May 7, 2023 2:09 AM
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I’m shocked kids have the audacity to pick on an adult. It’s just something that never would have crossed my mind growing up
by Anonymous | reply 38 | May 7, 2023 2:12 AM
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[quote]I'm shocked kids have the audacity to pick on an adult. It’s just something that never would have crossed my mind growing up
When my partner lived in the UK he was routinely cussed out and/or mocked by young children-- not disaffected adolescents, but little kids. I guess parents no longer inflict ass-whippings over there because I would not have been able to sit down for a week if my mother ever caught me doing such a thing.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | May 7, 2023 3:42 AM
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I was talking to a retired high school teacher at a party last night. He noted that after 2000 or so, kids got really arrogant and would threaten to report him if he didn't let them do exactly as they wanted. The school was in an area where a lot of kids came from upper middle class homes.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | May 7, 2023 3:46 AM
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Someone should conduct a welfare check on OP
by Anonymous | reply 41 | May 8, 2023 3:28 AM
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Next time they do that just say , i am calling immigration, and watch them scurry away never to be seen again. Or i am calling the police and watch them scurry away.
by Anonymous | reply 42 | May 8, 2023 4:35 AM
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Not buying the story or the comments that take it seriously. Nope.
by Anonymous | reply 43 | May 8, 2023 4:42 AM
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Purse your lips at them and silently mouth the words “You want some of this?” while sensually caressing your abs.
by Anonymous | reply 44 | May 8, 2023 5:07 AM
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I don’t blame the so called gypsies. I’d probably join in with them since you are obviously a big ass freak.
by Anonymous | reply 45 | May 8, 2023 9:48 PM
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[quote] Be well Op. and take comfort that had you responded as so in America you would have likely been shot to death.
Sure, Jan. 🙄
by Anonymous | reply 46 | May 8, 2023 9:56 PM
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The term gypsy is racist in the UK. You can be brought up on charges.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | May 8, 2023 9:58 PM
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R47 What about all the British reality shows that have "gypsy" in the title?
by Anonymous | reply 48 | May 8, 2023 11:16 PM
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Did the gypsies get you op?
by Anonymous | reply 49 | May 9, 2023 12:24 AM
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OP, you were very brave. You stood your ground, even with the cops doing nothing.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 50 | May 9, 2023 4:09 AM
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