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I waved at my bullies today, smiled and showed them the middle finger.

Basically, there's a group of young people who mock me. I'd say they're all between 16-22. I don't know what their problem is but whenever they see me, they yell and insult me, they cackle and sneer. Other times they just giggle and stare. I don't know what country they're from, but they switch between screaming in English and then some other language.

I have no idea why they pick on me. I'm much older and don't have any social connection to them---we're strangers. We live in the same part of town, but that's it. Whenever they start yelling, I always look away, ignore and keep my head down. I'm not a confrontational person, so don't haven't asked them what there problem is yet.

However, today I was walking to the store and as I turned the corner, they were there in the field playing with a frisbee. The second the saw me, they stopped and stood still, staring. I kept walking, but then the loud laughter and hollering started again. The most annoying one walked along me waving. I grew increasingly uncomfortable, so in a fit of rage, I spun around and waved back and grinned as widely as I could. She just smirked and they all laughed and started saying stuff in a foreign language. They look like Roma Gyspies but wear ordinary clothes.

I walked off and they were still making noise and screaming, so I spun around again before leaving the field and waved in a really aggressive way for like a full minute. Then I showed them my middle finger and walked off.

I'm glad I did it because I'm sick of being a pushover, but now I'll feel extra awkward the next time I see them.

by Anonymousreply 50May 9, 2023 4:09 AM

Sounds like gypsy behavior

by Anonymousreply 1May 1, 2023 1:43 AM

R1 Why do they act like that? I'm sick it. It creeps me out how deranged this group I'm deal with is.

by Anonymousreply 2May 1, 2023 1:48 AM

I did it because they expected me to be a meek pushover, to just walk by with my head down. They didn't expect my reaction. I'm glad I did it.

by Anonymousreply 3May 1, 2023 2:08 AM

R3 OP where do you live?

by Anonymousreply 4May 1, 2023 2:13 AM

R3 UK

by Anonymousreply 5May 1, 2023 2:14 AM

You’re giving me Georgette vibes.

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by Anonymousreply 6May 1, 2023 2:15 AM

R5 I knew it. Be well Op. and take comfort that had you responded as so in America you would have likely been shot to death.

by Anonymousreply 7May 1, 2023 2:17 AM

Aww, Frankie, they just jealous bro. Ignore them, bby.

by Anonymousreply 8May 1, 2023 2:21 AM

R6 What do you mean? I've never seen that movie so don't know the character.

by Anonymousreply 9May 1, 2023 2:21 AM

They sound retarded and probably do it to most people walking on their own. Bet they don't do it to other groups of people. Borrow someone's big dog and head towards them. They'll soon scatter.

by Anonymousreply 10May 1, 2023 2:40 AM

You can pepper spray someone for approaching you, OP. Do it once, and they'll leave you alone.

by Anonymousreply 11May 1, 2023 2:43 AM

You can’t do that in my country (Canada), R11; I doubt it’s legal in the UK, either, and they probably have knives.

by Anonymousreply 12May 1, 2023 3:09 AM

Just the thought of you maniacally waving for >60 seconds, grinning like a loon, and then giving them the bird has me laughing my ass off, OP. I hope those little pricks think you're some deranged deadbeat who is having a psychotic break after that performance! If they aren't scared of you, they're on drugs.

by Anonymousreply 13May 1, 2023 3:17 AM

OP, there are assholes everywhere. Ignore them.

by Anonymousreply 14May 1, 2023 3:24 AM

Raised by monkeys act like monkeys.

by Anonymousreply 15May 1, 2023 3:26 AM

[quote]I'm much older

How much older? I'm trying to gauge how pissed I should be that an adult is getting bullied. If it's elderly territory, I'm super pissed at these individuals. Between 55 and 60, I'm gravely disappointed in them. 30 -45, fucking a grow a pair and learn how to defend yourself. We grew up on Nu Metal and Gangsta Rap, FFS.

by Anonymousreply 16May 1, 2023 3:36 AM

Sounds like a soft gay bashing to me, I have a strong suspicion they only do this to you and other homosexuals because you're light in your loafers and they intuitively perceive you as weaker.

Definitely don't start any beef with them because their parents might come after you and your chickens, and maybe even place a generational curse on you. Just find another route to the store and scan the area for these kids beforehand. Avoid them as if your life depended on it because honey, it might.

by Anonymousreply 17May 1, 2023 3:51 AM

I think you should have Mother call the constabulary, OP. This simply isn't right. Those louts need a stern word from a respectable policeman. At the very least, they should write you an apology letter. Having them come pull weeds out of your patch wouldn't be a bad lesson for them either.

by Anonymousreply 18May 1, 2023 4:02 AM

I do t know why kids feel okay bullying some adults it happens to a friend of mine too. Little assholes

by Anonymousreply 19May 1, 2023 4:31 AM

Perhaps it's your taste of caftans? Caftans are to be flowing and not skintight. And don't forget that there are right and wrong times to wear different styles of earrings throughout the day. We want you to look your very best, dear!

by Anonymousreply 20May 1, 2023 9:59 AM

What year was this?

by Anonymousreply 21May 1, 2023 10:05 AM

R21 Yesterday.

by Anonymousreply 22May 1, 2023 11:33 AM

How big is the community where you live?

by Anonymousreply 23May 1, 2023 11:39 AM

Bitches, caftans are OVAH! It's all about the batsuit now!

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by Anonymousreply 24May 1, 2023 11:41 AM

There’s a lot of free-floating interpersonal aggression about.

by Anonymousreply 25May 1, 2023 11:48 AM

They're not laughing at you, silly! They're starstruck! They all saw The Whale on a school cinema trip, and they think you're Brendan Fraser. Just play along! Go say hi, scrawl an illegible signature for them and be on your way.

by Anonymousreply 26May 1, 2023 11:52 AM

OP is tedious, very tedious.

by Anonymousreply 27May 1, 2023 1:35 PM

Stupid EST.

by Anonymousreply 28May 1, 2023 1:38 PM

[quote]Stupid EST

Is there any other kind?

by Anonymousreply 29May 1, 2023 1:43 PM

This Never Happened.

by Anonymousreply 30May 1, 2023 1:55 PM

It certainly SOUNDS like something gypsies would do. There is one loud bunch of them in Denton, Texas and they’re pretty obnoxious when they’re not busy begging/ pretending to play the violin in store parking lots.

by Anonymousreply 31May 1, 2023 2:30 PM

In the US we simply shoot people for minor social aggressions & assorted faux pas.

by Anonymousreply 32May 2, 2023 2:09 AM

One of them will have to be shanked, OP. It's the only way to assert your dominance.

by Anonymousreply 33May 2, 2023 2:31 AM

Shank the biggest one

by Anonymousreply 34May 2, 2023 4:11 AM

No, wank the biggest one! That's what those gypsies really want.

by Anonymousreply 35May 2, 2023 5:03 AM

It could be worse, OP. Be grateful that the tramps and thieves don’t harass you as well.

by Anonymousreply 36May 6, 2023 11:46 PM

Hit them with your purse......viciously.

by Anonymousreply 37May 7, 2023 2:09 AM

I’m shocked kids have the audacity to pick on an adult. It’s just something that never would have crossed my mind growing up

by Anonymousreply 38May 7, 2023 2:12 AM

[quote]I'm shocked kids have the audacity to pick on an adult. It’s just something that never would have crossed my mind growing up

When my partner lived in the UK he was routinely cussed out and/or mocked by young children-- not disaffected adolescents, but little kids. I guess parents no longer inflict ass-whippings over there because I would not have been able to sit down for a week if my mother ever caught me doing such a thing.

by Anonymousreply 39May 7, 2023 3:42 AM

I was talking to a retired high school teacher at a party last night. He noted that after 2000 or so, kids got really arrogant and would threaten to report him if he didn't let them do exactly as they wanted. The school was in an area where a lot of kids came from upper middle class homes.

by Anonymousreply 40May 7, 2023 3:46 AM

Someone should conduct a welfare check on OP

by Anonymousreply 41May 8, 2023 3:28 AM

Next time they do that just say , i am calling immigration, and watch them scurry away never to be seen again. Or i am calling the police and watch them scurry away.

by Anonymousreply 42May 8, 2023 4:35 AM

Not buying the story or the comments that take it seriously. Nope.

by Anonymousreply 43May 8, 2023 4:42 AM

Purse your lips at them and silently mouth the words “You want some of this?” while sensually caressing your abs.

by Anonymousreply 44May 8, 2023 5:07 AM

I don’t blame the so called gypsies. I’d probably join in with them since you are obviously a big ass freak.

by Anonymousreply 45May 8, 2023 9:48 PM

[quote] Be well Op. and take comfort that had you responded as so in America you would have likely been shot to death.

Sure, Jan. 🙄

by Anonymousreply 46May 8, 2023 9:56 PM

The term gypsy is racist in the UK. You can be brought up on charges.

by Anonymousreply 47May 8, 2023 9:58 PM

R47 What about all the British reality shows that have "gypsy" in the title?

by Anonymousreply 48May 8, 2023 11:16 PM

Did the gypsies get you op?

by Anonymousreply 49May 9, 2023 12:24 AM

OP, you were very brave. You stood your ground, even with the cops doing nothing.

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