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California lacrosse coach accused of sex acts with teen boy

A Simi Valley High School student who was sexually assaulted by a coach at the school in 2019 is suing the Simi Valley Unified School District, claiming it didn’t protect him from someone district and school officials should have known was a threat to children.

Bijan Nickroo, Simi Valley High’s head lacrosse coach and an assistant football coach from 2012 to 2019, is serving three years in state prison for more than 30 sex crimes committed against children, including oral copulation with a minor under 16 and possession of child pornography. He pleaded no contest and was sentenced in January to five years, but given credit for two years spent in Ventura County jail while the trial was pending.

For years, Nickroo “catfished” teen boys, including many Simi High students, by using fake profiles on social media and dating apps and asking the boys for nude photos and videos. During their criminal investigation, police identified 28 such victims.

His behavior only came to light after the parents of a 14-year-old boy told police that Nickroo had engaged in sexual acts with their son in his classroom after contacting him on an app and soliciting nude photos and videos. That boy, now 17 and a senior at Simi Valley High, filed a lawsuit last week against both Nickroo and the district.

The boy is identified as "John Doe" in the lawsuit, and The Star does not name underage or adult victims of sexual abuse unless they choose to be publicly identified. He is seeking unspecified damages as well as attorneys' fees from both Nickroo and the school district.

Jake Finch, a spokesperson for Simi Valley Unified, said the district has not been served with the lawsuit and can't comment on pending litigation. The district also can't comment on matters related to student or staff privacy, she said.

The student's attorney, Neil Gehlawat of Los Angeles law firm Taylor & Ring, said that in a case like this, "the perpetrators rarely, if ever, contribute to a settlement."

Gehlawat said the lawsuit is less about whether Nickroo abused the boy — since he pleaded no contest and is serving a prison sentence — but whether the school district should have done more to protect the student. If the case ends up before a jury and the student wins, the jury will decide what portion of the responsibility will be born by Nickroo and how much by the school district, Gehlawat said.

Nickroo worked at a Boys & Girls Club before he was hired at Simi Valley High, and then was a coach and yard supervisor at the school for seven years before he was arrested. Gehlawat said that should have been more than enough time for the district to discover that he was targeting students.

"What I can tell you from handling other cases like this is, there are almost always red flags along the way," Gehlawat said. "Someone who has a proclivity to do this to so many students is going to leave tracks along the way."

Nickroo messaged Gehlawat's client on the dating app Grindr in the fall of 2019, when Nickroo was 32 and the boy was 14.

The student told Nickroo his age, according to the lawsuit, and Nickroo replied, "I know. Don't remind me." They began to talk regularly and "engage in wildly inappropriate and sexually explicit conversations," the lawsuit states.

Nickroo then arranged to meet the student on campus, outside of school hours, while the boy was preparing with the cheer team for an upcoming football game. According to his lawsuit, the boy left the cheer team to go to Nickroo's classroom, where the coach sexually assaulted him, gave him candy and send him back to the gym. The cheer coach was in the gym when the boy left, the lawsuit claims, and "knew or should have known" that he was missing.

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by Anonymousreply 53April 22, 2023 7:31 AM

Northern California is famous for bears looking for snacks.

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by Anonymousreply 1April 20, 2023 2:28 AM

I'll bet she's a power bottom.

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by Anonymousreply 2April 20, 2023 2:28 AM

I have relatives who went to that school. They HATED it.

by Anonymousreply 3April 20, 2023 2:30 AM

I'd like to see his body before I judge him.

by Anonymousreply 4April 20, 2023 2:35 AM

Thank god I didn't let him rape ME

by Anonymousreply 5April 20, 2023 2:36 AM

[quote] Nickroo messaged Gehlawat's client on the dating app Grindr in the fall of 2019, when Nickroo was 32 and the boy was 14.

What in the fuck was a 14 year old doing on Grindr?

by Anonymousreply 6April 20, 2023 2:37 AM

I’m sorry…the 14 year had a Grindr profile? How long until the company behind Grindr is dragged into court?

by Anonymousreply 7April 20, 2023 2:37 AM

What in the fuck was a grown man doing hitting on a boy he knew was 14?

by Anonymousreply 8April 20, 2023 2:38 AM

[quote]Bijan Nickroo, Simi Valley High’s head lacrosse coach and an assistant football coach from 2012 to 2019, is serving three years in state prison for more than 30 sex crimes committed against children, including oral copulation with a minor under 16 and possession of child pornography. He pleaded no contest and was sentenced in January to five years, but given credit for two years spent in Ventura County jail while the trial was pending.

5 years in prison for more than 30 sex crimes against CHILDREN?!?!? 30???? His prison sentence should have been 30 years at least.

Nickroo should be locked up and the key thrown away. There is no hope for rehabilitation. Paedophiles like this can't be allowed to walk the streets and endanger more children.

by Anonymousreply 9April 20, 2023 2:41 AM

He is a paedophile R8.

by Anonymousreply 10April 20, 2023 2:41 AM

That man swallowed a lot of teen jizz.

by Anonymousreply 11April 20, 2023 2:44 AM

'Assault' sounds like he jumped Junior in a dark alley and sodomized him. But of course that's not what happened.

by Anonymousreply 12April 20, 2023 2:50 AM

For R12:

"According to his lawsuit, the 14 yo boy left the cheer team to go to Nickroo's classroom, where the coach sexually assaulted him, gave him candy and send him back to the gym".

by Anonymousreply 13April 20, 2023 2:55 AM

What kind of candy?

by Anonymousreply 14April 20, 2023 2:57 AM

From his giant head, do we presume he's built like a linebacker or just plain obese?

by Anonymousreply 15April 20, 2023 3:11 AM

Okay the guy is a pedo and should be in jail but what leg does the 14 years have to stand on? He was on Grindr which is a gay hook-up app, he messaged sexually explicit stuff to the dude, left his cheer practice to meet up in his classroom, and then claims he was sexually assaulted. I mean I know NO means NO but come on Mary, you went there to get fucked or suck a dick.

by Anonymousreply 16April 20, 2023 3:21 AM

OMG, R1!

That is the BEST comment!

Funny AF! 😂😂😂

by Anonymousreply 17April 20, 2023 3:25 AM

What’s with these teachers? Don’t they comprehend they’re going to get caught and ruin their lives like the idiots in 1000 news stories before? I guess some people can’t keep their hands out of the cookie jar when it comes to the temptation of a precocious 14 year old boy cheerleader with a Grindr profile.

by Anonymousreply 18April 20, 2023 3:35 AM

[quote] According to his lawsuit, the 14 yo boy left the cheer team to go to Nickroo's classroom

I don't know which part the boy should be more embarrassed to admit.

That he had sex with this gross man, or that he's on the cheer team.

by Anonymousreply 19April 20, 2023 4:09 AM

[quote]For years, Nickroo “catfished” teen boys, including many Simi High students, by using fake profiles on social media and dating apps and asking the boys for nude photos and videos. During their criminal investigation, police identified 28 such victims.

28 (!) teen boys who all think it's appropriate to send nude photos and videos to someone pretending to be their age (not sure what gender). This is kind of disturbing, too.

by Anonymousreply 20April 20, 2023 4:14 AM

Are you male R20?

by Anonymousreply 21April 20, 2023 4:29 AM

Did the cheer team all make sucking sounds as he walked away?

by Anonymousreply 22April 20, 2023 4:33 AM

Rofl R22.

That would be so bitchy and hilarious.

by Anonymousreply 23April 20, 2023 4:56 AM

R21 If they were 14 like the other kid that's a little disturbing to me, but I'm old. Didn't show my dick to strangers online in 8th grade. Or 12th grade. Just with people I was going out with. Bizarre, eh?

by Anonymousreply 24April 20, 2023 5:23 AM

Were there sauna challenges with trophies?

by Anonymousreply 25April 20, 2023 5:31 AM

Yes Gym. Big ones.

by Anonymousreply 26April 20, 2023 5:33 AM

R14 you KILLED me you asshole!

by Anonymousreply 27April 20, 2023 5:56 AM

Simi Valley is where the white trash live. It's kind of all by itself from LA. Lots of cops live there because they cant afford to really live "the dream" in LA county unless it's at the far edges of the universe. To no one's surprise, it's heavily populated with Trumpeters and chunky Karens in tube tops.

by Anonymousreply 28April 20, 2023 6:11 AM

[quote]I'd like to see his body before I judge him.

I do NOT want to see that body, the face is bad enough! I can judge him without pics actually

by Anonymousreply 29April 20, 2023 8:30 AM

When I was 14 I didn't even have pubic hair yet.

by Anonymousreply 30April 20, 2023 8:52 AM

There’s culpability on both sides, the kid using a Grinder account of his own volition, going to to see him on his own, etc.

I hate saying “Witch Hunt”, but that’s what they will do with every new coach from here on out, relentlessly“looking for red flags” if the kid wins, Any new rules would be a violation of personal rights becuase he used his personal accounts and phones, not school platform to reach out to the kid. This constant reviewing of behavior will deter regular, prospective coaches as well, ESPECIALLY gay ones.

by Anonymousreply 31April 20, 2023 8:57 AM

The schools are run by absolute morons in the redneck parts of Ventura county. Simi and Camarillo (Pleasant Valley School District) immediately come to mind as being run by trash and criminals. I’m surprised they aren’t sued weekly.

by Anonymousreply 32April 20, 2023 9:04 AM

The upper part of his head looks like it should belong on a thinner face.

by Anonymousreply 33April 20, 2023 9:05 AM

R1 Simi Valley is not anywhere near Northern California. It is just across the Ventura Co. line from LA.

by Anonymousreply 34April 20, 2023 10:25 AM

Dear GAWD he's unfortunate-looking.

by Anonymousreply 35April 20, 2023 10:44 AM

R19

Why would a boy being on a cheer team be embarrassing?

You’re a backwards asshole.

by Anonymousreply 36April 20, 2023 10:52 AM

R35, yeah unfortunate looking is a tactful way to put it

We have a saying here for these situations - "face like a slapped arse"

by Anonymousreply 37April 20, 2023 10:58 AM

[quote]Okay the guy is a pedo and should be in jail but what leg does the 14 years have to stand on? He was on Grindr which is a gay hook-up app, he messaged sexually explicit stuff to the dude, left his cheer practice to meet up in his classroom, and then claims he was sexually assaulted.

Tell us you know nothing about the American legal system without telling us.

by Anonymousreply 38April 20, 2023 12:03 PM

R17- No. R17 is the best comment.

by Anonymousreply 39April 20, 2023 12:20 PM

I meant to say R18 is the best comment

by Anonymousreply 40April 20, 2023 12:22 PM

Seamy Valley

by Anonymousreply 41April 20, 2023 12:44 PM

Christian Walker is about to get paid!

by Anonymousreply 42April 20, 2023 12:45 PM

As part of my job, I’ve interacted with a few of the less desirable school districts in Ventura county.

They are all MAGA, first of all. And the first rule of MAGA is doubling down on bad behavior rather than fixing it.

I’m sure there were rafts of complaints about this guy and the district was all “WE SUPPORT OUR TEACHERS! SIMI STRONG! WE ARE ONE BIG FAMILY!”

The Superintendent of Simi District was just bragging in the local press about how they’ve made a huge effort to increase enrollment via better marketing, basically. Not making actual improvements— just better marketing.

If they were just harried, overworked and underpaid you’d forgive them for being so bad at their jobs. But the district employees and the teachers are all well-paid but grossly undereducated and deeply lazy and entitled.

They have a very “no one tells us what to do!” attitude. Basically the last people you’d want educating your children. It’s terrifying.

by Anonymousreply 43April 20, 2023 4:06 PM

r38 - uhh any defense attorney worth his salt will put the kid on the stand. "You were on grindr correct? You sent nude photos and engaged in sexually explicit conversation correct? You went to the classroom of your own free will correct?" The guy si guilty as fuck, a pedo but this kid is going to get rung through it.

by Anonymousreply 44April 21, 2023 1:32 AM

Lol R44.

The only thing you're missing is calling the kid a filthy and whore.

by Anonymousreply 45April 21, 2023 1:54 AM

This is a beary disturbing story.

by Anonymousreply 46April 21, 2023 4:24 AM

"Okay the guy is a pedo and should be in jail but what leg does the 14 years have to stand on?"

The leg of being 14 years old. Even if he willing wanted to do it, it doesn't matter. "The 14 year old wanted to fuck and suck" isn't a great defense even if it's true.

by Anonymousreply 47April 21, 2023 4:28 AM

They're looking for a father figure.

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by Anonymousreply 48April 21, 2023 5:36 AM

He looks like the type whose ass crack and inner thighs are six shades darker than the rest of him.

by Anonymousreply 49April 21, 2023 6:02 AM

As a side note, sometimes when I am feeling very analogue and horny, I still call this free phone sex line that has been around for decades. I am absolutely shocked by how many messages there are from men into family fun, young stuff. Any message that starts "I'm a dad.." you know exactly where it's going. Men who talk about actively molesting their young stepdaughters, or actual daughters or looking for moms who pimp out their daughters. It's so gross. Not all of them are like that but enough to be very disturbing. One is enough to be very disturbing. The messages are so explicit you would swear they are FBI plants. If they are not, the FBI should really be trolling these lines because it seems like it would be like shooting fish in a barrel. One guy messaged me once about what he was doing to his daughter. He gave me his number and everything. I recorded it and called his local police station. There was nothing they could do it about. It's sad.

by Anonymousreply 50April 21, 2023 6:12 AM

R50 is a tattle tale little bitch!

by Anonymousreply 51April 22, 2023 1:58 AM

None of that ever happened R50.

by Anonymousreply 52April 22, 2023 2:00 AM

R52, it actually did. Type in The Free Chatline into google and the number comes up. I went on the women's side to listen to men's message. Listen to how many men talk about wanting to sleep with someone's young daughter or family fun. It's gross. I think I still have it on an iPad somwhere, the recording.

by Anonymousreply 53April 22, 2023 7:31 AM
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