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Emily Ratajkowski's husband being accused of grooming young women

In early 2016, producer Sebastian Bear-McClard reached out to a 17-year-old girl on Instagram — an overture that led to an informal meeting at a Soho loft. Not long after, he let the Safdie brothers know that he had found the perfect person to play a small role in their upcoming film, “Good Time.” The girl, who came from an impoverished background in New York, was excited to meet the film’s star, Robert Pattinson, a then-favorite of teen girls worldwide thanks to the “Twilight” franchise. On the day of filming, she waited all day on the New York set for her scene to be called, unaware of what it entailed. By the time she made her way to a cramped room, she was naked, standing in front of nearly a dozen male cast and crew members including Josh and Benny Safdie. Instead of performing in a scene with Pattinson, she was paired with an actor who had recently been released from prison before being hired for the film.

According to a statement made by the young woman and obtained by Variety, she “was utterly stunned and felt terrified. My distress only worsened when out of nowhere, [an actor] whispered in my ear if ‘he could stick it in’ while the cameras rolled. I said ‘no.’” The statement from the woman, now 24, was made in connection with a legal dispute involving Bear-McClard. The producer is currently involved in a contentious divorce and custody battle with actor and model Emily Ratajkowski as well as private mediation with the Safdie brothers, who fired him from their shared production company, Elara Pictures, last summer. The statement was one of three made by women in the aftermath of Bear-McClard and Ratajkowski’s well-publicized split last summer and depict the producer as a predator who often preyed on young women on set. (The “Gone Girl” actor filed for divorce from Bear-McClard in Manhattan Supreme Court, citing an irretrievable breakdown of the marriage.)

Variety also spoke to more than a dozen sources familiar with Bear-McClard’s behavior, including two who were in the room when the 17-year-old girl shot the disturbing “Good Time” scene. Not long after production ended, she began having sex with Bear-McClard, despite still being 17. They continued to have a consensual romantic relationship for more than two years. (The age of consent in New York is 17.)

The statements — which were made in August — also cover Bear-McClard’s behavior on the set of the Adam Sandler drama “Uncut Gems.” A woman, who was 18 at the time, says she met a then-married Bear-McClard during production and that he began “grooming” her on Instagram citing his position in the film industry to make her major career promises. In her statement, also obtained by Variety, she described an incident that took place at the apartment Bear-McClard shared with Ratajkowski. “Sebastian and I started kissing. Things escalated and then, without asking for my consent, Sebastian inserted himself inside me without using a condom.”

The woman described other disturbing behavior including that Bear-McClard called her derogatory words like “retarded” and a “kike,” though he pushed back and framed that language as a joke. According to her statement, she says that he also began tracking her through an app on her phone. The woman also claims that Bear-McClard began sending messages on Instagram to a 15-year-old girl who was not part of the production but had visited the set. When confronted, “Sebastian appeared pleased with himself and laughed at my comment. He did not deny my accusations,” the woman said in the statement. Multiple sources tell Variety that Bear-McClard’s contact with the 15-year-old as well as his romantic involvement with yet another young woman on the “Uncut Gems” set — an assistant who has film industry ties — led to the Safdies firing him. (The Safdies also directed “Uncut Gems.”)

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by Anonymousreply 19March 31, 2023 5:57 PM

The actor who asked, "Can I stick it in", is Buddy Duress. No wonder the girl answered 'no'.

by Anonymousreply 1March 30, 2023 2:25 AM

Jfc this dude is fugly.

by Anonymousreply 2March 30, 2023 4:30 AM

You can’t groom an 18 year-old adult. Grooming is when you prepare a minor for a sexual relationship when they turn 18.

He’s no doubt a predator.

But if women can be groomed at 17 and 18, we need to push the female age of consent to 25 until the brain is fully developed. Because women can not take responsibility or accountability as 18 years old.

By female standards, I’ve been raped and sexually assaulted and groomed.

Older men as a teenager, drunk sex, regrettable sex. I did all the above. But I take accountability for it I was fucking young and dumb. But I’m male so I guess that’s difference which is why female age of legal should be 22 or 25.

by Anonymousreply 3March 30, 2023 4:38 AM

[quote] But if women can be groomed at 17 and 18, we need to push the female age of consent to 25 until the brain is fully developed. Because women can not take responsibility or accountability as 18 years old.

Enough with this brain development twitter bullshit.

by Anonymousreply 4March 30, 2023 4:44 AM

R3 just likes the sound of his voice too much. Two of the 3 girls mentioned in the article were under 18. One was under 16, below the age of consent in any American state. But r3 babbles on and on, undeterred.

by Anonymousreply 5March 30, 2023 10:19 AM

Jewish males are curious creatures.

by Anonymousreply 6March 30, 2023 11:08 AM

Does he not look like Harvey’s mini-me??

by Anonymousreply 7March 30, 2023 11:15 AM

There were a lot of articles about Buddy Duress at the time that were full of praise, and even some articles afterwards that were basically "he's such a great cool awesome guy but he just can't stay out of trouble, the scamp." Such a cretin.

by Anonymousreply 8March 30, 2023 11:23 AM

[quote]Grooming is when you prepare a minor for a sexual relationship when they turn 18.

No, it isn't. Grooming is any behavior used to gain access to a potential victim and coerce them into doing things they don't want to do, regardless of age. Vulnerable adults like those who are mentally ill, stuck in poverty, addicted, elderly, etc. can be groomed. I know you don't think high school-aged kids can be groomed, but they can.

by Anonymousreply 9March 30, 2023 11:26 AM

He used to live with Cat Marnell and the group they ran with all kinds of rape, druggy trouble. Just sociopathic, but they thought it was funny. And r6, do go fuck yourself

by Anonymousreply 10March 30, 2023 11:39 AM

[quote] Grooming is any behavior used to gain access to a potential victim and coerce them into doing things they don't want to do, regardless of age.

That’s the new social Justice warrior, everyone is a victim, bullshit. Grooming always had to do with minors until recently.

by Anonymousreply 11March 30, 2023 11:49 AM

Very unfortunate lip situation, thoughts and prayers.

by Anonymousreply 12March 30, 2023 12:47 PM

I must say: he’s a real hunk of a man.

by Anonymousreply 13March 30, 2023 12:49 PM

R5 I was referring to the adults. I already stated he was a predator. The ones under 18 were being groomed.

R9 That’s the new definition. A 30 year old cannot be groomed, they can be manipulated. The whole concept of grooming is based treading the line of statutory rape.

by Anonymousreply 14March 30, 2023 6:08 PM

R11 Everyone isn’t a victim, only women. That’s why Sam Taylor Wood can still work.

by Anonymousreply 15March 30, 2023 6:09 PM

Sam Taylor Wood is disgusting.

by Anonymousreply 16March 31, 2023 5:37 PM

This guy's repulsive history adds some context to Ratajkowski's comments about attracting shitty men.

by Anonymousreply 17March 31, 2023 5:42 PM

Consequences of living in a pornsick world.

by Anonymousreply 18March 31, 2023 5:49 PM

Momma must be so proud !

by Anonymousreply 19March 31, 2023 5:57 PM
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