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Gay drama! Social media influencer Ecstatic Self calls out a porn actor for

so this guy named Kaelan aka Ecstatic Self is a self-proclaimed spiritual/sexual/sexuality coach/guru. He can also be found on instagram and nude on twitter. He's known for having a huge dick. He's married

He says he's had several porn actors reach out to him saying they love his work etc At 1:47 in the video he doesn't name the guy but shows a body shot of the offending porn actor. I checked the comments and someone identified him as Josh Moore. I looked at pics and the tattoos check out so it likely is him.

Kaelan says the porn actor contacted him saying he was in therapy but wanted to do more work. Kaelan says he loves everybody he works with. He says he ignored red flags. The porn actor told him he had mental instability issues and kept kicking people out of his life.

They ended up having "a sexual experience" virtually so he decided not to take him on as a client. Then the porn actor broke up with his bf, stopped texting Kaelan. A couple months later they ran into each other on a beach. The porn actor only interacted him briefly before dismissing him by saying "oh we're going to go suck some dicks on the rocks over there goodbye" Kaelan's feelings were hurt as he thought they'd built up a relationship since the porn actor had confided some things to him. Kaelan is triggered by feeling dismissed. They are in some of the same whatsapp threads so he keeps seeing him. Then he realized the guy already told him he does this to everyone in his life so why should he get upset? but he still is

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by Anonymousreply 51January 23, 2024 12:45 AM

If I’m going to pay Kaelan to have some kind of “session,” there better be full-on sex involved.

by Anonymousreply 1March 21, 2023 2:35 AM

Thank you for the Monarch Notes version of this very important story. (And now I’ll look for kaelan’s dick on Twitter.)

by Anonymousreply 2March 21, 2023 2:39 AM

He quoted Taylor Swift at less than a minute in. I had to turn it off.

by Anonymousreply 3March 21, 2023 2:45 AM

I subscribed to this guys OnlyFans out of curiosity and because he’s so damn good looking. He had some kind of penis enlargement surgery during the course of my subscription. His dick was already quite large, lengthy and nice to look at, so I was kind of baffled his choice to have that kind of surgery on it which makes it look unnaturally bloated. You can see before and after if you scroll through his Twitter. To each his own I guess.

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by Anonymousreply 4March 21, 2023 2:58 AM

Yep it's that grubby English guy Josh Moore's photo he shows.

by Anonymousreply 5March 21, 2023 3:04 AM

R5 what do you know about Moore?

by Anonymousreply 6March 21, 2023 3:06 AM

So a raging narcissist with body dysmorphia is giving people life advice? Makes perfect sense.

Josh Moore got fucked by that straight Brit Hard Valentine recently and it was a pretty hot scene (his first anal scene with a guy). Josh is just a whore though, he'll never get proper mental help as long as he looks like that and centers so much of his life around sex addiction. Maybe twenty or thirty years from now when the endless parade of guys coming and going into his life stops.

by Anonymousreply 7March 21, 2023 3:27 AM

Thread is pointless without the vid.

by Anonymousreply 8March 21, 2023 3:28 AM

Didn’t this guy break his dick recently? Post surgery? Some sort of sex accident.

by Anonymousreply 9March 21, 2023 3:32 AM

Um... Okay.

by Anonymousreply 10March 21, 2023 3:46 AM

R9 what? lol

by Anonymousreply 11March 21, 2023 10:37 PM

R11 enjoy!

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by Anonymousreply 12March 22, 2023 2:36 AM

This is why they hate us.

by Anonymousreply 13March 22, 2023 2:47 AM

Porn stars are damaged.

by Anonymousreply 14March 22, 2023 3:06 AM

He sounds damaged too, R14.

by Anonymousreply 15March 22, 2023 5:57 PM

And Kaelan converting from gay to pansexual, willing to fuck all genders, prob didn't help matters.

by Anonymousreply 16March 22, 2023 8:09 PM

[quote]The porn actor only interacted him briefly before dismissing him by saying "oh we're going to go suck some dicks on the rocks over there goodbye" Kaelan's feelings were hurt as he thought they'd built up a relationship since the porn actor had confided some things to him.

🚨MARY!!!!!🚨🚨MARY!!!!!🚨🚨MARY!!!!!🚨

Is this guy an actual therapist? God bless

by Anonymousreply 17March 22, 2023 8:17 PM

This guy makes Paul Mescal seem attractive.

by Anonymousreply 18March 22, 2023 8:26 PM

Sorry, I’m not taking advice from anyone who shaves their pubes.

by Anonymousreply 19March 22, 2023 8:26 PM

[quote] Kaelan says he loves everybody he works with. He says he ignored red flags. The porn actor told him he had mental instability issues and kept kicking people out of his life.

You can love people from a professional distance, where you try to help clients and don't get emotionally involved or attached.

What I have noticed in recent years is that professional distance is called toxic, because you don't provide actual emotional support to the suffering, apparently. Any advice from a detached point of view is insensitive, because it doesn't come from the same depressed state of mind. Encouraging a suffering person to rather focus on a resolution instead of the state of suffering is considered offensive these days.

by Anonymousreply 20March 22, 2023 8:27 PM

Falling in love with a porn star is the first mistake already. Most of them (specially the G4P ones) don't even love themselves.

by Anonymousreply 21March 22, 2023 8:30 PM

They are both gross. I think I'd rather fuck Josh Moore. Ecstatic Self is anything but enlightened. He's a fraud and a fetishist who destroyed his big dick pumping it full of god knows what.

by Anonymousreply 22March 22, 2023 8:32 PM

I am sorry, but I can't take anyone serious, or find anyone hot, who has those blown up duck lips. Moore is a boner killer for me.

by Anonymousreply 23March 22, 2023 8:38 PM

Did you ever see Moore's neon sign on his wall that spells Moore?

by Anonymousreply 24March 22, 2023 8:50 PM

Is he an actual therapist, or some kind of lifestyle guru?

by Anonymousreply 25March 22, 2023 11:33 PM

Is there some fetish for porn actor romance? Really, people who follow every detail of these guys' lives like it's, "Gays Of Our Lives".

by Anonymousreply 26March 22, 2023 11:39 PM

I knew the dick surgery was a bad idea. To be fair I think the shaving was for the surgery/recovery. He had a big black bush in Twitter just prior to going under the knife.

I doubt he’s a licensed therapist. He seems pretty affluent but I imagine that’s down to his husband who is some sort of professional. Not sure Ecstatic has a day job, or if he’s making much from therapy sessions and OnlyFans.

by Anonymousreply 27March 22, 2023 11:41 PM

Any nudes to share?

by Anonymousreply 28December 4, 2023 3:01 PM

There’s a lot of crazy attached to that dick.

by Anonymousreply 29December 4, 2023 3:20 PM

What's the porn analogue to Moore's Law?

Is it the number of anal warts doubling every 6 months?

by Anonymousreply 30December 4, 2023 3:47 PM

Here he is in a video posted about Plane Jane, contestant Season 16, RuPaul's Drag Race

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by Anonymousreply 31January 14, 2024 7:44 AM

I don’t think he’s in any position be telling anyone that they are terrible or what’s wrong with the culture. He’s clearly a can or two short of a six pack.

by Anonymousreply 32January 14, 2024 7:51 AM

Big cock problems...

by Anonymousreply 33January 14, 2024 8:11 AM

Why are you so invested in this, OP?

by Anonymousreply 34January 14, 2024 8:13 AM

Here's his post operation exam video.

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by Anonymousreply 35January 14, 2024 8:33 AM

r35 Enlargement of an already big cock and he's still using that shaving trick that makes your dick appear longer. Clear body dysmorphia, he'll never be satisfied. Hope he enjoys his hard dick always pointing to the ground from now on.

by Anonymousreply 36January 14, 2024 11:39 AM

R31 = Bump Bitch.

by Anonymousreply 37January 14, 2024 1:29 PM

DL fav, notable starfish and self-esteem fixer Matthew J. Dempsey is suddenly looking a lot better.

by Anonymousreply 38January 14, 2024 2:26 PM

At least with recent death and abdication it's good to know there's still one queen among us.

by Anonymousreply 39January 14, 2024 2:41 PM

R4, clearly his self-worth is tied up in his cock size.

It's not actually unusual in men. Big dicked guys think it makes them worth more, and small-dicked guys think it makes them worth less.

It's sad really.

by Anonymousreply 40January 14, 2024 2:48 PM

These guys are so immature.

by Anonymousreply 41January 14, 2024 2:49 PM

I thought Josh Moore was hot as hell when he first came on the scene and I first noticed him.

He's not hot at all to me now, for some reason. He seems kinda sad and pathetic to me now.

by Anonymousreply 42January 14, 2024 2:52 PM

I read the OP twice and I still don't get what the drama is.

When I clicked the link I do recognize the guy, I remember it going around when he got his penis enlargement surgery. Anyone who that desperately needs to make their dick bigger is not right in the head.

by Anonymousreply 43January 14, 2024 2:53 PM

I Fell In Love With A Serial Killer And Got Murdered!

I Fell In Love With A Cannibal And Got Eaten!

by Anonymousreply 44January 14, 2024 3:07 PM

This sounds so mindblowinlgy idiotic. People who deify porn stars are no different from people who deify reality tv stars. Sure, porn and reality tv are entertaining, but let's not pretend these people are anything more than what they are.

by Anonymousreply 45January 14, 2024 3:29 PM

He was going to be Mrs Tony Goodfellow. Heartbreaking

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by Anonymousreply 46January 14, 2024 3:45 PM

He is a yoga teacher that discovered he loves pussy so he is #EXGAY #FAKEGAY, although he was creeping on SCRUFF last summer looking for dick.

by Anonymousreply 47January 14, 2024 3:54 PM

I agree r43, he seems to be the one creating living out some little drama in his head. "He says he ignored red flags." His oversensitive nonsense seems to be the only red flag here.

by Anonymousreply 48January 14, 2024 3:56 PM

oops, drop creating* from that first sentence.

by Anonymousreply 49January 14, 2024 3:57 PM

Whew, that scary God nonsense spew from Tony Goodfellow. Probably par for the course in the hick Missouri town he comes from. Americans have no idea how CRAZY they seem to the rest of the world.

by Anonymousreply 50January 14, 2024 4:21 PM

It was when I saw this scene that I lost all desire to fap to Josh Moore. I dunno, he was a total turnon when it was sort of a hot top. But this total pig-bottom cum-slut version of him is not hot to me at all, and I just can't even get it up for him anymore...

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by Anonymousreply 51January 23, 2024 12:45 AM
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