Lesbian here and I will answer any questions

Is 'lesbian bed death' real?

Are you single?

Asking for a friend.

Do periods actually synch up when women spend lots of time in close proximity?

Have you ever tried cilantro as an adult?

Is the U-Haul move a required component of the 2nd date, or are other more frothy social options allowed prior to cohabitation?

Do you carry a cane, and if not, do you intend to one day?

Do you identify as lipstick or dyke?

Did you ever go to any gay bars in the 70s in NY?

If Lizbeth Scott were still alive, would you want to date her?

Bow tie or bolo tie?

Is it true there are five holes down there??

R1 ive heard it is true from others but thank the Jesus not for me! R2 you type hot! R3 yes, it's a natural thing R4 love it and had some today R5 that's not my style but see it often and cringe R6 not yet but I see it in my future and mine will also serve as a flask and maybe a hidden sword... R7 I present as femme but once you get to know me you realize looks are deceiving

Do you think Cate Blanchett is hot?

Do you think Roxane Gay is hot?

R8 no, I was a baby then

R9 I would have a one night stand but her resting bitch face would make her hard to love R10 I like both but not my thing R11 if u want to be technical there are 3 R13 I find her so sensual so place her in the hot pile R14 no but she could give me a titty beating any day!

Does everyone you know have diagnosis for either IBS/TMJ and Fibromyalgia?

Are you ever attracted to Trans Women?

I've been curious. Do lesbians have a favorite music they listen to?

How old are you ?

R17 I met a lesbian couple once and one told me the other had IBS and I was wondering why she told me. R18 nope R19 I like everything and have certain playlists for driving, workouts and sexy time

How was Michfest?

How was Lilith Fair?

Do only the bottoms squirt?

R22 & r23 I never made it

Not lesbian specific, but are queefs really a thing, and if so, do they make a noise?

R24 possibly, it's the one having a giant orgasm

Do you have a motorcycle?

What celebrity women put dew on your lily, OP?

And is it true that lesbians will sometimes be turned on by gay porn? (I would have never thought so on my own but they showed it in the Kids Are All Right.)

Did you ever sleep with your phys-ed teacher?

How often is tofu scramble prepared?

What are your thoughts on a pierced labia? Are you a proponent of other forms of vaginal jewelry?

U-haul or Enterprise?

“Her name is Marla, I’m seeing a woman…”

Its a mystery to most all gay men if the lesbian parties and dances scheduled on the big pride weekends are well attended. Are they glum occasions? Are they essentially the 'Bermuda Triangle' of pride weekends?

R26 yes. I knew a girl that could suck in air and push it out on command. It's disgusting and sounds like scary wet farts but funny at a lesbian pool party. R28 I sure do R29 that's a tuff one. The stars of today just aren't all there there. I do watch gay porn. Lesbian porn is so unrealistic and gay porn looks pretty real. R30 no I do not but there was a scandal at my school that involved a softball dykie coach that slept with a sophomore...the girl went back years later after she got a law degree and sued the administration but the school settled out of court in order to avoid a public scandal R31 never but I order fried tofu along with beef on my pad Thai noodles R32 one time at a nascar campsite... a hot young chick showed my gf and I her pierced clit. I got creeped out. I would be afraid to lick a girl with one because i could chip a tooth and that's not a risk I am willing to take even for hot young pussy

R20 I'm 50 but look younger R33 U-Haul for the good times and enterprise when it's time to go! R35 lately the younger lesbians make it fun and are just friendly and sweet. The clone lesbians are as you say or there's a bunch of lone wolfs staring and not smiling

How many tatts do you have?

Do men hit on you even when they know you want pussy?

Do you use strap-ons during sex and if so, how often and do you prefer being a “top” or “bottom”?

Do you like getting your titties sucked?

In the woman's steamroom at the Y and other gyms, is it basically boobsapalooza with bare breasts everywhere? Is it like the men's steamroom where you cop a feel when the coast is clear?

Are you a lesbian because of an emotionally absent mother? A domineering father? Were you exposed to drag-king story time as a young girl, is that what made you lesbian?

Do you tell family members uncomfortable truths because you feel someone has to be the truth-teller in your family?

Do you prefer cuddling over sex?

Aye, some of these questions coming from, what are assumed to be, gay men are getting kinda sus.

Just saying.

Do you get moist thinking about Captain Janeway?

On datalounge, there is no such thing as a straight man, but simply craven cockhounds willing to spend a lifetime living a lie in order to reap the benefits of heterosexual privilege, even to the point of procreating repeatedly.

Is the same true for all women? Are they in essence all lesbian?

R43 You forgot “chemicals in the water?”

R38 not one of u can believe it. I have been thinking about getting a camel on my toe. That would give me a good giggle everyday R39 yes, yuck! so stupid. Here's one the boys will like a friend's husband after lots of drinks tells me he would get a bj from a guy but don't tell his wife-wtf...does that mean his wife is fair game for me??? Hmmmm R40 I usually have reciprocal sex except during a drought then I may have an anonymous hook up and I just let her please me and then I leave. I'm honest about what I want and there are women that are willing to why not. When I first came out I wanted to try every toy and did but they really add nothing. Wearing and watching a strap on go in and out the puss is sexy but you don't cum from wearing a strap on so what's the point of that? My best and current relationship happened when I topped a top, I think that's why I do not suffer the bed death

R41 I prefer licks R42 I wish! At my gym most keep their towel wrapped around them in the steam room. Sometimes in the changing room I'll look around at all the naked ladies and it puts a smile on my face R43 baby, I was born this way. R44 sometimes, I guess I prefer to know the truth myself. Knowing the facts helps make good decisions R45 cuddling is the appetiser and dessert but sex is the main course R46 comes with the territory R47 not my cup of tea R48 I wonder sometimes. When I look back on my life there were many times I had interactions with other girls that are now all married to the right guys are moms and seem happy but give me lusty vibes. I haven't acted on any of those vibes because I really don't want to be "first" I prefer a lady with skills R49 good call! But I grew up on bottled water

Good night for now dataloungers, your sister in homosexuality

Which actresses or celebrities do you think will come out this year?

What do you think of these bisexual gals? Do you wish there were lesbian bars where it's really just for women.

Does your gaydar ping at all for Kaitlan Collins?

Why are landscaping tools and machinery considered foreplay?

How many lesbian bed deaths have you been through?

Are those explosive arguments in front of friends genuine or is it for show?

How did you know you were gay? When?

What's lesbian sex like? Have you had sex with a man? If you were suddenly zapped into a man's body would that change anything? Margaret Cho said lez dead bed occurs because women are more sensitive to the other not wanting sex. So if you're super aggro I guess it's less likely to die. Have you dated bi? Are most people bi.

Are you a cat lezzie or a dog lezzie?

And how many?

Why and where did a young chick showed you and your gf, her pierced clit?

😜How do you keep your carpet clean? Do you use a Dyson with a special attachment?

What is your favorite word or phrase to describe female anatomy?

Pussy?

Puss?

Twat?

Cunt?

Vadge?

Vajayjay?

Bearded Clam?

Beef Curtains?

Fish Taco?

Definitely sus R46

R52 I don't know but I wish Charlize would r53 the bi girls don't bug me but the poly ones give me the creeps. As for lesbian bars, they are good spaces if the owners get involved in the community and actually do good. My first experience at a lesbian bar was terrible. Not one smile from another girl. When I ordered my drink the bartender said someone bought it but wouldn't tell me who. Then a nice guy started talking to me and I assumed he was gay because he was kinda femme. He walked me out to my car and turned out to be some straightish fetishist beast. He asked if he could jerk off to my feet in the parking lot...I was so shocked and honestly crushed that my big night out to the lesbian bar turned into the weirdest disappointment. I've been to lesbian bars all over the world and it's really all about the staff, they make it and if the owner is a lesbian too I'm thrilled to spend my money at her bar. R54 oh I'm thinking pinga pinga pinga! R55 we mock what we don't understand R56 none, thank the jesus! I'm very fortunate and have a high sex drive R57 there's a special drama called lesbian drama and watch out when it shows! I was on a flight and there was a lesbian couple near me. one was quiet and ignored her gf and the gf just struck up a pleasant conversation with a lady sitting next to her. When we were getting off the plane the one not speaking lost her shit on her gf in front of everyone. I actually told her to shut her mouth and looked at the cuter one and told her to find another. Stupid jealousy, no thanks.

R58 good questions! I was raised with a plan. I would go to school have an amazing career and sometime in my 30s I would find a guy to settle down with and start a family. I dated guys and was treated well but none were good enough. I guess a pussy was missing! The first time I kissed a girl there were fireworks, the second and third too, basically every time I kiss a girl it's the most exciting thing. It was never like that with guys. I had a boyfriend that was an excellent lover. I liked him because his peen was too wide for my mouth so I thought this guy is perfect-he's a pleaser and I never have to suck his cock! He was a liar tho so that didn't last ...I actually masterbate daily and I would never have a partner that wasn't sexual. That's called a friend. when I was a little girl and had no clue I was gay I would imagine being a boy and dating my girlfriends. I would think if I was her boyfriend I would be the best boyfriend ever to her. So funny how are minds work.

Who's the hottest woman you ever saw?

Do you have bad knees? Do you carry a canvas tote bag? Do you like bread pudding? Do you use a cane? Do you have the lesbian affect where you talk like Jodie Foster or Holly Hunter> Are you obese? Are you bossy? Are you a stage manager on broadway? Do you have a dyke-a-doo? Do you wear makeup? Do you use the word "pal"? Do you pull out money or credit cards out of your front pants pocket and insist on paying "yeah i got this one" when out with friends? Did you move in with your partner after the second date? What kind of dykemobile do you drive? Do you have a pitbull? Are you cranky?

Hmmm i can go on and on but those will do. Thanks in advance!

[quote] I had a boyfriend that was an excellent lover. I liked him because his peen was too wide for my mouth so I thought this guy is perfect-he's a pleaser and I never have to suck his cock!

I, too, have a question. And this is actually being asked in good faith so please don't take it the wrong way.

How is it possible to consider oneself a lesbian after having had, admittedly, enjoyable sexual experiences with men in the past? You are not the only lesbian that I have heard this from, personally, and I've always thought that it was confusing why they would call themselves lesbians instead of bisexuals.

I'm not saying this in a judgemental way, obviously, because I'm not a gold star either, but I hated the sexual experiences I had with men. Immensely. It was also extremely unpleasant. There was zero arousal or pleasure whatsoever. For clarity: If I was a guy, I would've been doughboy soft. It also kinda hurt. Which made the experience [bold]so[/bold] much worse.

Am I wrong in thinking that if you have enjoyed sex with the opposite sex in any capacity, that is, technically, bisexual?

I hope to God this doesn't devolve into yet another DL war over bisexuals. I am actually trying to be serious about this topic for once.

R59 I have both and they are the sweetest loves R60 it was at a nascar race weekend. Have you ever been? People party like there's no tomorrow. We spent 3 days in a friend's RV at the races. Patron shots for breakfast and all day long boozin'. Some campers bring booze for others and share and others do pop up bars. We were at a pop up bar and just started talking to this young straight couple. She was skinny, giant boobs and platinum blonde wavy hair. She was showing us her tattoos and we asked about piercings.. that's all it took, booze and a piercing question, for her to offer to show us her clit piercing. An offer, we absolutely, could not refuse. R61 the Dyson air wrap is all any girl needs. R62 there's something about cunt that I just love. Maybe because as a kid it was the worst word in the world and now I find them to be beautiful as well as a delicious meal. R66 I saw Kim Basinger in the bathroom and I said hi and she was shy but gave me that gorgeous smile. She was teeny tiny I could've picked her up like a baby. She was with Alec sitting behind us at a movie theater. We were watching that Demi Moore movie where she prostitutes herself for 1 million dollars. My friends and I were laughing at Demi playing a concubine and Kim heard us and was laughing and Alec sushed her- he really is a kunt. It was just the 2 of them and they were in town shooting a movie back in the late 80s or early 90s. I've also seen a couple Victoria Secret models in person and my god they are frickin tall. I imagined climbing them but never had the opportunity.

Did you and your loved ones survive the Beirut Harbor explosion?

R68 good questions and no offense taken. I am a lesbian. I didn't have sex with men while with women. When I thought men were my only option I did what was expected but honestly it never felt the way it feels with girls. I don't consider myself bisexual because I have zero interest in being with men romantically. Once I had lesbian sex I was done being straight. I had no longing for sex with a man. So for me if I said I was bi, it would mean I'm open to dating a man and I'm not so I am a lesbian. I feel society expects us to be "straight" and here I am having lesbian thoughts my whole life. I haven't been in a romantic relationship with a man in over 25 years. And I only had those relationships because that's what you do. I can remember having a crush on my babysitter at age 3. She was gorgeous and so sweet! Does my explanation make sense? I'm not a gold star but I'm 25 years clean!!!

What do you think of Shane from the L Word?

She looks like a cute twink I had a crush on.

Admit it, an actual penis feels a lot better than a dildo, doesn't it?

Also, why do lesbians use dildos when they look exactly like male penises?

R73 be nice. Men don't eat the pussy like a lesbian and lesbians prefer the softness of women.

That's like saying admit it pussy feels better than ass.

Do you think Dolly Parton is gay? How about Oprah? Taylor Swift?

You said you were femme Do you date butches or other femmes? Or both?

Have you ever laughed or smiled?

r71 First, you equating straight sex to being "substance abuse-free" genuinely gave me a much-needed giggle. So, thank you. Who do I consult for my "[x] years clean" chip?

And I suppose I have always just viewed bisexuality in its rawest and simplest form; being able to enjoy sex with males and females, even if one prefers to only romantically be with one sex. If there is ever, or ever has been, sexual attraction and/or desire for both sexes, to me that's bisexual. Like you, I only dated men because that's what I thought I was "supposed to do." But I never had any sexual attraction or desire for guys, even the ones I dated.

Technically, I'm not a very sexual person anyway so there is no "sexual pull" toward men or women when I first meet them and never has been. But if I'm in a committed relationship with a woman, I can at least enjoy sex for my partner. With men, there was zero enjoyment and I, legit, felt like a sex slave (did it out of a sense of obligation).

So, to me, if there is any enjoyment of sex with both, regardless of the desire to date or be romantically involved with both, that's still bisexual. It's the same as someone who just prefers to have sex with people and enjoys it but isn't interested in romantic relationships with the people with whom they have sex. Obviously, people are welcome to label themselves however they choose, but using the Kinsey scale, it seems like a lot of people calling themselves "straight" are actually 1.5s and 2s and a lot of people calling themselves "gay" are actually 4.5s and 5s.

Then again, I'm probably just biased because my vagina is broken or something, and is incapable of receiving pleasure from anything phallic, even dildos (which I avoid). That could very well be the case. -_-

when was the last time you went to Ruth's Chris?

Is scissoring real? It seems so complicated. Do you use toys?

Every time I've been to a lez bar, a fight usually breaks out. Does that happen alot?

How do some lezzies grow mustaches?

Scissoring in lesbian porn is one of the most boring things I've ever seen. When they pull out those clear dildos it's hilarious. Strap ons are also hilarious. But porn in general is fake. Guys beating off trying to stay hard, women fake moaning. All of it for a paycheck.

[quote]Scissoring in lesbian porn is one of the most boring things I've ever seen.

r82 Has clearly never seen any of Sinn Sage's work.

R83 ok I looked at it? Is that what you do? It's like all the joy what makes sex really good is gone.

[quote]It's like all the joy what makes sex really good is gone.

r84 Well, as a lesbian, I see it as everything that makes sex really miserable and unpleasant being gone (the penis). I prefer clit stimulation over vaginal. And scissoring (aka tribbing) offers that in spades. Penises, their owners (men), and like objects, do absolutely nothing for me.

None.

Silly question. What if a man looked like a woman but just happened to have a penis?

I suppose it would be like if a man had an ass vagina.

[quote]Silly question. What if a man looked like a woman but just happened to have a penis?

r87 I don't want to take over OP's thread, so I'm 100% just answering for myself here. But this doesn't matter. The moment he whips that thing out, I'm immediately put off and running for the hills. I specifically want nothing to do with a penis or "penis-like" objects. They are not sexually or physically pleasing to me whether they're attached to a male/masculine body or not.

I guess no rabbit for you

r89 Yeah. That's definitely a hell no. I'm the lesbian equivalent of a pure top. I do not, under any circumstances, get penetrated. Ever.

I've idly debated getting a tattoo of a "no entry" sign on my inner thigh with an arrow pointing toward my groin.

I hear you. Was an exit only person myself. Until I discovered the magic

r91 I've had an actual, live, penis in there before. Twas no magic found. Quite the opposite, in fact. I am what I am and like what I like. Penetration just isn't it for me. :shrug:

Some are more magical than others

[quote]Does that happen alot?

Oh, DEAR!

I have a (boring) question for the OP:

How are you? How are you doing?

R78 You scared the op away

What is your favorite (lesbian area) of what city? Or is there any? Do you read any gay lit? What? What do you think of the gay radical feminists? For my money they seem to be too angry but they are interesting at times to read.

Do you yell or snap at someone almost every day? Do you like every woman power post on Linkden that is available

R70 no clue what u speak of but I've met two hot lesbos from Lebanon R72 I watch the original lword from a recommendation from the DL ages ago. Shane is hot and I could be a pet/lover but would never commit to a girl like her R75 I believe Oprah and Gail are a couple. If that isn't true she must be non sexual. Taylor and Dolly are probably bi-open to either.

R76 it depends on the person. I'm attracted to confident women that have an inner joy. They are hard to find... R77 I've been told my laugh is infectious and my smile lights up a room so that myth is busted! R78 I've thought of myself falling between 4-5 on the Kinsey as well but if I told people I'm bi I would have men hitting on me more that they do already so I'm sticking to my lesbian identity. I don't care for penetration myself and will explain in my answer to the scissoring question, I hope you continue to follow. Penetration is painful for me and I've told my gyno as you should too. They will run a few extra tests to tell you penis in your pussy isn't good for you. R79 actually went there for Valentine's, I'm super romantic and kind to my bishes. It's not the best filet in town but the ambiance makes up for it.

R80 scissoring is real for me. It makes me cum so hard and it's the easiest act for lesbians to do together. I feel for 2 women to be able to achieve an orgasm from rubbing their parts together must mean we were meant to fuck. It's mind blowing. I can just begin a hookup with scissors or I like to 69 and cum a few times then go into scissoring. Once your lips are swollen from orgasms when you rub them together the orgasm is just elevated and mind blowing, be careful not to fall in love when your parts are happy from this exercise! R81 I pluck and shave every day. I prefer hairless lips myself but to each their own.. R82 real scissoring doesn't require a dildo. It's just a clit rubbing thing that feels amazing. R85 Cheers!

R86 you've clearly stated your boundaries. R87 not for me, if I had that "surprise" I would probably cut it off and save the person a lot of money. R95 thanks you for checking in on me. my boo is out of town and I'm a little lonely. R97 Amsterdam the city in the Netherlands has a great vibe. Not into gay lit and radical femmes don't scare me. I actually appreciate them. I understand where they are coming from. I may not be attracted to them but I can respect them. It isn't easy being human in this life and if they are willing to fight for females I can support many of their views.R98 no. I would never treat people that I employ that way. I'm happy at my core and its kinda infectious.

I wish i were happy at my core. My core is rotten. Well ....some of it is.

....but harmless rotten.

R100 Kinsey 4-5? Do you know that the scale goes up to 6? 4 isn't that gay, it's almost in the middle.

OP have you ever dated a butch lesbian?

What is 69ing like? Are there any times a vagina has turned you off and you didn't want to eat it? Have women gone down on you and it HASN'T been amazing?

OP never answered my question.

Is it true that most lezzies spend their entire days thinking about pussy/cunnilingus?

Are you a Belinda fan & if so do you like her new tune that was released today?

Nobody likes Belinda, troll.

R111 Is my stalker.

Are you waiting for The Gunman like Cher is?

Janbot has stopped pushing her fat WhisperCooing tramp on us and is now pushing lots of other garbage singers like Belinda and Chaka Kans.

R110 Lots of lesbians in the vid? Where??

R108 She never weighed in on Kaitlan Collins, and a few other questions.

R116 What was the Kaitlan Collins comment?

R117 I had asked OP if her gaydar pinged at all.

R118 You think she's gay? Isn't she with that Republican politician dude?

R119 I didn't say I believe her to be gay, however many lesbians I know think she is. I've read online that many people say it makes perfect sense why she'd be so homophobic during her younger years playing softball and volleyball. She could easily fit the bill of a closet lez based on those stereotypes..

Collins reminds me of Margaret McPoyle from "It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia". Even if this homophobe is str8 as an arrow, there certainly is a mannish quality to her.

R120 Manish quality? You are equalling lesbians with men?

And not all women that play softball and especially volleyball, are gay. Hello most of them are probably straight.

R121 Stop reading posts as an autist does. Don't be triggered if you're butch: own it! Absolutely nothing wrong with it. I'm NOT "equating lesbians with men"

Sometimes a butch, or woman with mannish qualities, or a very masculine energy is a lez, just as being a femme can also be a tell for gay men. It's simply the raw data our gaydar processes

Regardless of whether or not they are involved playing a sport, it's the same regardless. Stop being the policing authority here. I've coached women's rugby for two years, and still am in touch with a dozen of them. Take up your umbrage with my lesbian friends. I already said I don't she's one of us.

* don't think she's one of us

What's your opinion on The L Chat?

What actress is your idea of a beautiful woman?

Is there a lesbian equivalent to cruising? How does a woman know if a lesbian is interested in her? On the other hand, if I'm interested, is there a subtle signal I should use?

r126 Beats the hell outta me. Try a lesbian dating app.

Then again, I tried using the Her app for a more straightforward dating experience, and still mostly just got likes from dudes. So...yeah. There's that.

Do you wear work boots? Do you walk with a cane?

OP, you said you ride a bike. What kind?

I'm back, please accept my apologies for the delay and thank you for your questions!

Name 5 actresses you think are deeply closeted

r138 What city do you think has the best lesbian community and what do you think makes it the best?

Favorite lesbian events?

How do you deal with the different factions/cliques?

What stereotypical lesbian archetype/faction are you most comfortable with?

Did you firmly plug into the dyke community or the broader community, or even mostly str8?

Did you go through a cycle of them from when you were a wee babydyke to now?

Care to walk us through the highlight reel of your young adulthood and comparison to the scenes of now?

clubbing and drugs... did you partake?

Ever ride with Dykes on Bikes or join up with the Lesbian Avengers?

Is lesbian life like an episode of the L word?

R105 my bad, I thought it went to 5. R106 no, I haven't R107 69ing is the best! So far 2 vagines scared me and I made up an excuse to leave. 1st she was Asian and it smelled like Chinese food and I just couldn't do it. This was supposed to be my first time. I'm glad I didn't give up. The other, the outter lips were thin and just hanging there. I thought pussies should be plump and it made me nervous so I made up an excuse that I wasn't over my ex and left quickly. So far I have no complaints! R109 I don't know about that but I masterbate daily R110 I've loved her from her punk rock days! I'll listen I'm sure it's a good one. R118 I thought I did respond that yes, she pings big time

R124 I would go to l chat but it wasn't as fun as this hell hole;) R125 Kate Bekinsale is a long time favorite beauty of mine. R126 honestly, I never know! If I'm super attracted I talk and make dates. Touching doesn't always mean how it makes you feel. I had a girl lean over my lap with her elbow on my thigh and talk to another girl in a church pew. I was getting major feels but I'm sure there was no intention to please me there...

R133 I wish! That show did help women find their own style. For the longest time you'd go to a lesbian bar and all the women had the "Ellen" hair do...so silly

R78 you know you don't need anything phallic. Try rubbing the walls along your initial opening. That's the most sensitive area for me. Feel around and see if there's an area more sensitive like front vs back. A friend of mine bought a vibrator thing that is actually a hand held sucker that you place on your clit and it sucks and swirls....She loves it! Try these tips and report back to me, please!

What's vaginal lubrication made up of?

Why do you hate bisexuals so much?

You didn't answer what motorcycle you ride.

Did you ever date a psycho chick?

R139 I love all, I just wouldn't lick a girl that had dick earlier that day or even that month. That's poison for me. R140 too personal ask something else. R141 no, but my bff's from age 13-28 were. I know what to look out for and don't date cray crays

What dilo you look out for? What are lesbian's red flags?