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Irish fattie moves to Mallorca, Spain and loses 140 pounds!

Bryan O'Keeffe had struggled with his weight his whole life, trying every diet and workout regime under the sun but feeling like he was losing and gaining the same 40 pounds again and again.

So he decided to do something drastic.

O'Keeffe, 34, from Ireland, weighed 338 pounds when he moved to a small village in Spain, quit his job, and cut off all communication with his family and friends.

Seven months later he had lost 137 pounds, more than half his body weight, and went home to Ireland to surprise his loved ones, capturing their reactions in a TikTok video that has been viewed over 32 million times.

In the video, O'Keeffe said that after 15 years of trying fad diets and workouts, he decided to stop focusing on the scales and instead on being mentally resilient and building discipline.

Speaking to Insider, O'Keeffe said that losing the weight was incredibly hard, and he acknowledged that his methods were extreme.

New drugs such as semaglutide that have helped people lose weight after years of struggling reflect how being overweight isn't simply a problem of poor self-control and a lack of will power. And experts generally advise people to lose weight gradually by slowly building up healthy habits without too much restriction.

But a drastic, brief period of weight loss lasting one to three months can be beneficial for those who have a lot to lose and have lost belief in their ability to succeed, before transitioning to a more sustainable lifestyle, personal trainer and fat loss coach Jordan Syatt told Insider.

A healthy and sustainable rate of weight loss for most people is one pound per week on average, or 0.5% of your body weight, but obese and overweight people can safely lose weight faster due to having more to lose.

Personal trainer and dietitian Mike Matthews believes that people with more than 100 pounds to lose can safely lose up to four pounds of weight per week.

"I definitely wouldn't recommend it for everyone, but it was the perfect scenario for me," O'Keeffe said.

O'Keeffe was an overweight child, but going to boarding school as a teenager and playing lots of sport helped him to slim down, he said.

When he went to college, however, the typical student lifestyle of drinking and eating take-out, combined with an injury, resulted in O'Keeffe gaining weight "aggressively," he said.

Throughout his 20s, he tried all sorts of diets and workout styles — from keto to Crossfit — went to weight management clinics, and even had a balloon fitted in his stomach that was supposed to reduce hunger, which he later had removed. He'd lose some weight for a few months but would always regain it, usually coming back up to around 330 pounds, he said.

"Dieting and weight loss is seen as a huge stress on the body, and the body works to eliminate that stress by shutting down and resultingly, ensuring you climb back to your starting weight," Dr. Nick Fuller told Insider.

Dietitians warn that fad diets like keto are too restrictive to be sustainable, while research suggests banning foods can make you more likely to crave them and less likely to stick to a healthy diet.

In 2017, O'Keefe lost 70 pounds in five months after moving to London and getting into a good routine with his diet and exercise. But he said everything fell apart after he celebrated earning his master's degree. He put the weight back on in half the time it took to lose it after he started ordering large takeouts most nights.

"Weight loss was the thing I wanted the most, but I wasn't willing to put the sacrifices in to get it long term," O'Keeffe said.

At the end of 2020, aged 33, O'Keeffe moved to the Spanish city of Palma, on the island of Mallorca, where his brother, who was working as a doctor, encouraged him to join him and make a change. But the cycle of weight loss and gain continued.

Around October 2021, O'Keeffe once again pledged to break it.

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by Anonymousreply 56March 7, 2023 1:38 AM

He reasoned he was struggling because it was so easy to access indulgent foods, and his social life centered around food and drink. So he removed those aspects of his life by moving to a tiny Mallorcan fishing village "in the middle of nowhere" called Cala Figuera, which only had one shop open in winter.

O'Keefe's thinking reflects research on what are known as obesogenic environments, where easy access to and the advertisement of highly processed, calorie-dense foods encourages people to eat unhealthily and live sedentary lifestyles, contributing to rising obesity rates.

O'Keefe also cut off all contact with his family and friends, telling them he was going to "work on himself" and wouldn't speak to them for three months.

They were, at least to his face, mostly supportive, O'Keeffe said. But there was more pushback when he told them he was continuing at the end of the three months.

"I just felt like I'd tried everything, and maybe it was going take something as extreme as this to change," he said.

O'Keeffe began by walking his dog for an hour a day, before going to a dusty old local gym, as well as swimming, running, and stretching. Soon he was doing conscious movement for five hours a day.

O'Keeffe challenged himself by working out every day, even when injured, to build discipline and resilience, even though he knew he was overtraining, he said.

"I needed to push myself to the limit," O'Keeffe said.

"There's a vicious cycle with weight loss where you eat because you're unhappy about being overweight, so then you gain more weight and it makes you more unhappy," he said. O'Keeffe wanted to create the opposite — "a cycle of positivity and reinforcement" — and consistently feel he was achieving something to drive him onwards.

A month in, he quit his job to focus 100% on weight loss, living off his savings and saving money by cooking meals from scratch.

O'Keeffe tracked his food using the MyFitnessPal app and intermittent fasted to help him stick to his goal of 2,200 calories a day and 200 grams of protein, he said.

The International Society of Sports Nutrition recommends consuming between 1.4 to 2 grams of protein per kilogram of bodyweight. However, obese people are advised to aim for less (1.2–1.5 grams daily per kilogram of bodyweight) given their overall bodyweight is greater.

At one point, when he was about 56 pounds down, he craved McDonald's but decided it wasn't worth it when he realized the nearest one was an hour away.

O'Keeffe's plan was working and the weight kept coming off.

O'Keeffe never thought three months would be long enough to lose around 140 pounds but he thought saying so would make it easier for his friends and family.

The one person he did speak to was his father, who he would call twice a week when his mother was out. He has "fairly advanced" Alzheimer's, and O'Keefe said he knew he wouldn't remember the call.

After four months he also started speaking about training with an acquaintance who is a strength and conditioning coach — but didn't tell him what he was doing.

Around that time, O'Keeffe's younger sister texted him, "Are you happy?"

He replied: "Yes," even though that wasn't necessarily true, later realizing that he was "fulfilled." He was pushing himself incredibly hard, but was feeling good about his achievements.

"I was achieving something that I'd wanted more than anything for 15 years," O'Keeffe said.

As summer approached, O'Keeffe planned to go home and surprise his friends and family, only telling a couple of people about his plan so they could film their reactions but keeping the level of his weight loss a secret.

In July 2022, he showed up on doorsteps looking like a completely different person from seven months earlier.

"It was amazing," O'Keeffe said. "Everyone was just so shocked and so happy for me. I'll never forget it."

by Anonymousreply 1February 11, 2023 5:27 PM

It's the little things that have struck O'Keeffe most since losing the weight, like being able to sit in an airplane seat comfortably: "I used to be locked in, I'd leave with a seatbelt mark. And then when I sat for the first time in the airplane seat, I felt I was like swimming in it," he said.

O'Keeffe's sister signed him up to Bumble and he was amazed by how much attention he received. He now has a girlfriend who lives on the Spanish island of Tenerife, and has moved back to Palma.

Since the summer, O'Keeffe has eased up on exercise and started eating more to help build muscle, he said, but wants to pare back again after enjoying indulgences with his friends and family.

O'Keeffe didn't post on social media while losing weight, but now shares educational content and helps others with their own journeys, which also encourages him to stay on track, he said.

O'Keeffe is confident he'll keep the weight off this time not just because he lost more than ever before, but because — as he'd hoped — he's built resilience and a lifestyle he enjoys.

by Anonymousreply 2February 11, 2023 5:27 PM

Who are the hot guys with him in these photos?

Brothers, or brothers-in-law?

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by Anonymousreply 3February 11, 2023 5:29 PM

He’s going to gain it back.

by Anonymousreply 4February 11, 2023 5:32 PM

He will gain it all back.

by Anonymousreply 5February 11, 2023 5:37 PM

How do you like me now, bitches?

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by Anonymousreply 6February 11, 2023 5:39 PM

I'm just starting to pick up on something about him.

This guy must come from a LOT of money.

First off, he can just pick up and move to Mallorca, Spain and not have to work for months, while he focuses on his "fitness journey."

He talks about living off "savings," but I call bullshit.

The photo at R3 seems to show that his family dines at high end places in Dublin.

Then in this photo, here he is skiing at Three Valleys in France.

If only we all had the money to be able to spend all day working on weight loss, and not having to work.

Someone should call him out on this.

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by Anonymousreply 7February 11, 2023 5:48 PM

the stress relief from being surrounded by better looking sights and people did wonders..

by Anonymousreply 8February 11, 2023 5:51 PM

r7 when I look at all the fat fucks in the world, I think we really pay too much for welfare. If we were all poor, we could do nothing all day but eat

by Anonymousreply 9February 11, 2023 5:55 PM

The real story here is that family, friends, and work are huge stressors for some people

by Anonymousreply 10February 11, 2023 5:55 PM

R7 Some journalist is probably digging deeper in that stuff. I'm also betting there is family money in place.

by Anonymousreply 11February 11, 2023 5:58 PM

These articles always make me hungry. My journey is right to Popeye's.

by Anonymousreply 12February 11, 2023 6:09 PM

When he's back in normal life, he'll be surrounded by fast food, restaurants and big supermarkets again. I don't think he will be able to last long.

by Anonymousreply 13February 11, 2023 6:09 PM

Isn't Majorca for the wealthy who have vacation homes there? How nice to be able to just pick up and live there for months. Especially in your 30s!

by Anonymousreply 14February 11, 2023 6:11 PM

What about the rolls of skin now hanging off him?

by Anonymousreply 15February 11, 2023 6:13 PM

Good for him - fuck, that’s awesome.

Say what you what, but this guy made a measurable difference.

by Anonymousreply 16February 11, 2023 6:23 PM

You're the one who's pathetic being so happy for this guy and refusing to admit that few people have the resources that this man has to do it. Anyway it will be interesting to see when he returns home and goes bonkers with take out and home delivery how long it will take him to zoom over 300 again.

by Anonymousreply 17February 11, 2023 6:41 PM

Fat Him looks like 20 guys I know in Maryland.

by Anonymousreply 18February 11, 2023 6:49 PM

Welp r17 we know you are a 400 lbs hating ass bitch posting from your mom's basement, that's for sure! 🙃

by Anonymousreply 19February 11, 2023 6:55 PM

How very ‘Eat, Prey, Love’. Great if you’re rich otherwise it’s a bitch.

by Anonymousreply 20February 11, 2023 7:04 PM

^Pray

by Anonymousreply 21February 11, 2023 7:04 PM

People who are over 100lbs overweight tend to fit into the addict category. Some can keep the weight off (especially younger people because they can exercise and get results, more calorie burning and HGH) but it requires a lot of therapy and even something like overeaters anonymous for a period of time....There's a reason people have their stomachs removed and still end up gaining weight in the years following. Some people who have those surgeries die immediately after going home because they cant stop themselves from eating too much. Or they start drinking chocolate syrup.

by Anonymousreply 22February 11, 2023 7:08 PM

Yeah, people thought that bariatric surgery would be a great solution but it just doesn't seem to have worked out that way.

by Anonymousreply 23February 11, 2023 7:11 PM

R19 stop being a dickhead and open your eyes. This man is an addict with a fair amount of money. He's already had a balloon and that didn't help. And he's gone to a multimillionaires' enclave to drastically lose all that that weight. And now faster than a speeding bullet he's going to gain it all back waddling in and out of pubs eating lots of fried foods. No go back to stuffing your fat face with fried Twinkies while looking for the next inspirational story to cream over.

by Anonymousreply 24February 11, 2023 10:31 PM

Does he have a teeny peeny?

by Anonymousreply 25February 12, 2023 12:34 AM

r17 jabba, put the keyboard down and stretch a little.

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by Anonymousreply 26February 12, 2023 1:03 AM

Sure, you can remove the temptation and lose weight that way, but without proper mind training how to deal with triggers and stress, he will gain weight the moment temptation is back in play.

by Anonymousreply 27February 12, 2023 7:31 AM

R14 It’s not. However, this guy does comes from money. Private schools in Ireland are very rare let alone boarding schools so his family is in the 1%.

While there are villas etc, Mallorca is a package holiday destination too. Millions of working class people from Ireland, U.K. and Germany head there for their 2 weeks in the sun. The tourist areas are lined with pubs and bars and picture menus showing egg and chip and sausage and chip etc

This guy being so overweight is unusual for his social class so there are some psychological issues at play. It’s not just the east access to calories. He’ll pile it all back on if he doesn’t work on the root cause of the overeating.

by Anonymousreply 28February 12, 2023 9:49 AM

Exactly, r28. Your last paragraph hits the nail right on the head; this guy has underlying issues, and although there are plenty of fatties in Ireland and London, he would have stuck out among his "set" due to his overweight, which is why he has gone to so much trouble yo-yo-ing up and down with it.

This current weight loss regime is totally unsustainable, since it's far away from his normal life in every respect. He's going to gain every gram right back unles he addresses his underlying unhappiness and his unhealthy long-term lifestyle.

Given the fact that he's clearly upper middle class at least, the biggest surprise for me in this story is that he even went public with it. That sort of oversharing is typically frowned upon outside of chav DM-readers.

by Anonymousreply 29February 12, 2023 10:38 AM

[quote] Given the fact that he's clearly upper middle class at least, the biggest surprise for me in this story is that he even went public with it. That sort of oversharing is typically frowned upon outside of chav DM-readers.

He seems to be making a career of it, by stating that he's a fitness/life coach.

If nothing else, he seems to be seeking validation, more than anything else.

Probably teased by his high-brow peers, and this is his chance to tell them all "fuck you."

Just the typical "fat kid getting revenge" story.

by Anonymousreply 30February 12, 2023 10:43 AM

R30 my Egyptian BIL is the same way. He was a fat kid who lived for American fast food, but as an adult he’s a fit gym bunny and aspiring PT/bodybuilder/MMA fighter (don’t ask, he’s insane). Arguably he has dysmorphia and a lot of image anxiety, because his controlling narcissistic religious father has always pressured him (the eldest son) to be a figurehead and pillar of strength & control for the family. Whenever BIL comes to us for family Xmas, he either cleans us out of food or tries to refuse everything (breaking my mum’s heart), so he clearly has an issue still.

by Anonymousreply 31February 12, 2023 10:57 AM

“When I came and I saw people partying I thought to myself WHAT THE FUCK.”

by Anonymousreply 32February 12, 2023 11:03 AM

[quote]The one person he did speak to was his father, who he would call twice a week when his mother was out. He has "fairly advanced" Alzheimer's, and O'Keefe said he knew he wouldn't remember the call.

This seems like a dick move, calling his dad knowing he won't remember it and making sure his mom isn't there to know that he called. He's blaming his family for his weight, and like others have already said, he's going to gain it all back if he doesn't work on whatever the real problem is.

by Anonymousreply 33February 12, 2023 11:08 AM

If this guy were still obese, we’d all be saying, “Get off your fat ass and lose the weight!”

He got off his fat ass and lost the weight, and everyone is saying, “How dare he take action to improve his health and well-being!” and “Why did he even bother? He’s just going to gain it all back.”

by Anonymousreply 34February 12, 2023 11:51 AM

R34 Anyone who'd just say 'get off your fat ass and lose the weight' to someone who is carrying around a whole other person on their frame is clearly shit talking at worst and using the hammer approach at best. Sure going into a calories deficit will take the weight off (hammer) but why did the guy eat himself into this state. 140lbs is not too many takeaways and a sweet tooth, it's compulsive overeating. You don't do that because you really like the taste of chocolate and friend chicken. It's psychological, he's dealing with some trauma/issue via food instead of alcohol. What he's done is a start but he'll need even more work on his mental state.

by Anonymousreply 35February 12, 2023 12:06 PM

R34, it’s because he took the easier way out, physically removing himself from his temptations, rather than conquering them, which most people can’t afford to do. As people have pointed out, it’s a temporary solution for him, assuming he rejoins real life. This is not a feel-good story of a grotesque fattie acknowledging that it’s their own fault they are so fat and they have finally learned to make better decisions in life and they will stop engorging themselves with a gluttonous amount of overeating. He’s blaming something other than himself.

by Anonymousreply 36February 12, 2023 12:06 PM

Hamish: Ah, off the beaten track ... Andalusia, forgotten Catalania. My own secret Majorca.

Carmen: More like my own secret arsehole. It was a shitty bit of coastline ruined by patronizing English gits. 'Oh you must come over and share a rather fine local Rioja. Oh, piss of you sad twats!'

by Anonymousreply 37February 12, 2023 12:48 PM

He will gain ALL of the weight back because-

Once a FAT WHORE

ALWAYS a FAT WHORE

by Anonymousreply 38February 12, 2023 12:57 PM

This is going to end like that episode of ‘Hey, Arnold!’ where Harold went on the 2-month weightloss boot camp cruise but came back even fatter.

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by Anonymousreply 39February 13, 2023 12:57 PM

Good on this guy for losing all this weight, though the interactions with the friends & family are interesting as it makes it sound as if they kept him plumb, like a Thanksgiving turkey. The family I can see - the parents might be "food pushers", but cutting off friends seems counterproductive.

by Anonymousreply 40February 13, 2023 1:38 PM

He looks good.

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by Anonymousreply 41March 1, 2023 10:43 PM

Bryan answers all your questions.

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by Anonymousreply 42March 1, 2023 10:43 PM

[quote] How very ‘Eat, Prey, Love’.

That was the name of Jeffrey Dahmer's proposed memoir.

by Anonymousreply 43March 1, 2023 10:48 PM

Cutting off all contact and moving to an vacation island in the winter to lose weight, is not "mental stamina". Its weird and self indulgent. He did come out of it with an almost handsome face, though.

by Anonymousreply 44March 1, 2023 10:52 PM

Move from Iowa to California and wait a week.

by Anonymousreply 45March 1, 2023 11:01 PM

He was on Spain's version of O-O-O-Ozempic

Pronounced Othempic

by Anonymousreply 46March 1, 2023 11:15 PM

Aww, good for him!

by Anonymousreply 47March 1, 2023 11:19 PM

R17 Your life must be really, really sad and pathetic. Wow.

by Anonymousreply 48March 1, 2023 11:21 PM

So what if he has resources? His journey sounds good to me. His family looks healthy and prosperous, they are indeed fortunate.

Many people with resources have worked very hard to earn their rewards. Not that people who struggle have not, but it's better to be happy for good people than bitter. Make your own good things happen, even if it's just reading a good book, listening to music, or coffee with friends.

by Anonymousreply 49March 1, 2023 11:38 PM

Has he gained all the weight back yet?

by Anonymousreply 50March 2, 2023 12:06 AM

And now he's dragging 125 pounds of loose clotty flab-skin behind him when he waddles in.

by Anonymousreply 51March 2, 2023 12:39 AM

R48 don't be such a monstrous dickhead. The guy leads a very privileged life and can very easily afford to do what he does. The fact that you can't see that makes you as old and blind as a bat. Try doing it the way most people are forced to do it and that is an accomplishment.

Your insensitivity at what most people have to endure makes you an extremely stupid person.

by Anonymousreply 52March 7, 2023 12:23 AM

I've been a bit obsessed with this story lately. It's such an epic disaster of bad choices. Makes me feel a bit better about my own life. At least I didn't murder any family members or steal millions from victims.

by Anonymousreply 53March 7, 2023 12:28 AM

His dick is still going to be small and he's still going to smell funny down there.

by Anonymousreply 54March 7, 2023 12:47 AM

R4, r5 are such pessimistic bitches. Ughhh. Great story OP

by Anonymousreply 55March 7, 2023 12:57 AM

My my my R54, aren't you a winner!

by Anonymousreply 56March 7, 2023 1:38 AM
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