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Guys Who Are Proud Cum Dumps

Guys who take multiple loads from anonymous people week after week, what is wrong with them? Or am I being a prude? I know many gay guys personally who are like this. I love sex but the need to have orgies, blow guys in the woods, parks, or bathrooms, just seems like a cry for help. Can they not get off any other way? Again, am I just being uptight? This isn’t the 80s when people had to still meet in secret.

by Anonymousreply 168January 7, 2023 4:37 PM

It's the same temperament as alcoholics, gluttons, etc. Some people can't handle access to easy pleasures or comforts.

by Anonymousreply 1December 30, 2022 11:40 PM

I'm sure this thread will uncover some new and exciting aspect of this topic that the other 987,267,387,109 threads on this VERY topic have not!

by Anonymousreply 2December 30, 2022 11:44 PM

And no doubt keep to the high road, for which DL is justly famous.

by Anonymousreply 3December 30, 2022 11:48 PM

I don’t know if a quick bj somewhere is quite the same as an anonymous cumdump.

by Anonymousreply 4December 30, 2022 11:52 PM

"I know many gay guys personally who are like this."

No, you don't.

by Anonymousreply 5December 31, 2022 12:14 AM

At least with a blow job you can see the guy's face.

by Anonymousreply 6December 31, 2022 12:34 AM

They like sex. A lot of it. And they are bottoms. Who cares?

by Anonymousreply 7December 31, 2022 12:57 AM

Maybe they feel that they have nothing else, or better.

by Anonymousreply 8December 31, 2022 1:15 AM

OP- Sit down

We need to talk

These guys are WHORES DARLIN.

by Anonymousreply 9December 31, 2022 1:26 AM

Yes, it's a cry for help.

FOR HELP GETTING COVERED WITH CUM!!!!!!

by Anonymousreply 10December 31, 2022 1:28 AM

Troll OP, getting into threads like a roach:

Guys Who Are Proud Cum Dumps Guys who take multiple loads from anonymous people week after week, what is wrong with them? Or am I being a prude? I know many gay guys personally who are like this. I love sex but the need to have orgies, blow guys in the woods, parks, or bathrooms, just seems like a cry for help. Can they not get off any other way? Again, am I just being uptight? This isn’t the 80s when people had to still meet in secret.

Why do people hate democrats so much? That’s not all they want. They’re insufferable scolds. They’re just a tad better than Republicans. When you can’t even define a woman, you have a real problem.

Why do people hate democrats so much? The screaming for everyone to wear masks and stay indoors yet supported the BLM riots, told Americans everything they needed to know. The Defund the Police while cities and businesses went up in flames was also a boneheaded move. People don’t want lectures from politicians. Democrats win because they’re not Trump. Screaming believe the science when they don’t believe in basic biology is also crazy. They’re in a cult like the Republicans. Moderates are not allowed in either party. You have to be one extreme or the other. The majority of the US population is white. Whites don’t want to be given lectures and told how evil they are and blacks aren’t interested in people telling them that they’re victims and that they can’t apply themselves, so here’s a few extra points on test scores. Democrats overreach socially, just as Republicans. Democrats used to be cool. Now they’re your parents preaching morality. I still can’t believe they supported the likes of Mattress Girl and Jussie. Then again, I guess I’m not. This current crop is nuts.

by Anonymousreply 11December 31, 2022 1:32 AM

[quote]I know many gay guys personally who are like this

So you tend to associate with assholes, then.

by Anonymousreply 12December 31, 2022 2:52 AM

Each to their own OP. If consenting adults are having sexual fun and enjoying themselves then why is it any business of anybody else? Are they hurting or encroaching on your life somehow? Sounds like it.

by Anonymousreply 13December 31, 2022 2:55 AM

[quote] No, you don't.

I unfortunately do.

by Anonymousreply 14December 31, 2022 9:02 AM

[quote] I'm sure this thread will uncover some new and exciting aspect of this topic that the other 987,267,387,109 threads on this VERY topic have not!

Link to one of those threads.

by Anonymousreply 15December 31, 2022 9:02 AM

R13, I’m simply curious.

by Anonymousreply 16December 31, 2022 9:03 AM

It weirds me out and grossed me out when gays or girls are proud to be cum dumpsters.

I know this blonde chick from Virginia who now lives in NYC (for 5 years now) and she seems proud to be a slut. But if you were to call her a slut she would get offended despite the fact she is proud to sleep with so many men all the time. And she doesn’t build relationships with men. She just fucks them. And she will even go on dates and can tell the man can’t stand her or even sometimes she can’t stand the guy but she will still fuck him. It’s so weird.

She has this one guy who she admits can’t stand her but she lets him come over to fuck her. I’m like don’t you feel you’re giving him too much power when he obviously can’t stand anything about you other than the fact that you let him smash whenever he wants? Like girl. Have some self respect.

by Anonymousreply 17December 31, 2022 9:10 AM

Deep down inside, she’s in terrible pain, R17. Her escapades have very little to do with sexual pleasure, she’s neurotically looking for some type of affirmation.

Do you know what her relationship with her father was like?

by Anonymousreply 18December 31, 2022 9:54 AM

It's not a cry for help OP, it's a moan for cum.

by Anonymousreply 19December 31, 2022 9:58 AM

OP =

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by Anonymousreply 20December 31, 2022 11:30 AM

OP,

You are a prude.

by Anonymousreply 21December 31, 2022 11:36 AM

OP it's been a while since you've had some good dick, right?

by Anonymousreply 22December 31, 2022 12:06 PM

What R5 said. Do you even personally know one? Doubtful. But 'many?' - absolute lie.

You seem oddly envious. I hope things improve for you.

by Anonymousreply 23December 31, 2022 12:12 PM

good research

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by Anonymousreply 24December 31, 2022 12:14 PM

R6 There are some ugly guys out there.

by Anonymousreply 25December 31, 2022 12:40 PM

R2 still not getting invited to any orgies and still being ignored at the rest stops.

by Anonymousreply 26December 31, 2022 12:49 PM

To think there’s guys who could have my lifetime bareback body count exceeded in a single weekend. We’re talking 10 for a guy in his mid 30s.

by Anonymousreply 27December 31, 2022 12:52 PM

R27 Fascinating, thanks for sharing

by Anonymousreply 28December 31, 2022 1:58 PM

You're not a prude, OP. Taking multiple loads from anonymous people week after week is not mentally or physically healthy. The guy I know who does it is an HIV positive meth addict, with herpes, who was sexually abused in his youth.

That's a role model? It's a victim. If that's your role model, sex positive away.

by Anonymousreply 29December 31, 2022 2:50 PM

I have a good friend who is such a guy. He is constantly trolling for sex. He takes vacations where he goes from bathhouse to bathhouse. It’s a weird obsession but it doesn’t seem to affect his work or social life adversely.

He’s very sexually adventurous which I’m mildly jealous of—but to each his own. He’s a sweetheart of a man—just a sex pig.

by Anonymousreply 30December 31, 2022 3:20 PM

Sad abusive backgrounds. No one should treat themselves with that much hate.

by Anonymousreply 31December 31, 2022 3:26 PM

The Wrigleyville Cum Dump owns this thread

by Anonymousreply 32December 31, 2022 3:26 PM

I agree with posters who said it comes from abuse on chidhood. Isn't it known fact that very promiscuous women and prostitues have suffered sexual abuse in chidhood.

The same goes for guys who are treating themselves as cumdumps.

by Anonymousreply 33December 31, 2022 3:49 PM

I had a slutty stage but not a cum dump level sluttiness.

I did (mildly) envy how sexually free they are.

by Anonymousreply 34December 31, 2022 3:59 PM

How dare anyone criticize my life!

by Anonymousreply 35December 31, 2022 4:04 PM

That Buzzfeed article is... interesting.

by Anonymousreply 36December 31, 2022 4:09 PM

[quote] Isn't it known fact that very promiscuous women and prostitues have suffered sexual abuse in chidhood.

No? How exactly would you go around collecting data on “promiscuous women” anyway. You sound like you’re 2000 years old. Prostitution usually aligns with poverty dickhead.

by Anonymousreply 37December 31, 2022 4:10 PM

I was somewhat scared and uptight about sex until I met an eldergay who taught me the works (and I was willing).

He would take me out to bathhouses and invite man after man to fuck me.

I was young (26) and horny all the time. It was fun for about a year and then I had had my fill. I moved on because I began to dislike how impersonal and unemotional it was. I realized I wanted passion and love and not a quick fuck.

by Anonymousreply 38December 31, 2022 4:11 PM

Years ago, I knew a guy with a high pressure job (a Tv producer) who would take a weekend a year, fly to a different city and become a meth-fueled cum dump for two days. He’d then take the rest of the week to recover and go back to work refreshed.

by Anonymousreply 39December 31, 2022 4:18 PM

[quote] The guy I know who does it is an HIV positive meth addict, with herpes, who was sexually abused in his youth.

Gonna hazard a few guesses on R29’s guy.

He uses meth recreationally for sex and R29 changed it to “ADDICT!1!” for some colour.

He has the HPV virus, has had cold sores in the past. He does’t currently have an outbreak (how would R29 know?).

His HIV is medicated and he’s undetectable.

He told R29 about his private sex life, and about his past history of sexual abuse with the presumption that R29 wouldn’t repeat it online with added nasty details but here we are.

by Anonymousreply 40December 31, 2022 4:20 PM

I always wondered what the guys in bathhouses with their asses up, taking all, were thinking. Is it a self esteem issue? Is it truly pleasurable?

by Anonymousreply 41December 31, 2022 4:21 PM

If you go to a gay resort or stay in the hotel during that Chicago leather circuit party (MAL? IML?-cant recall the name), it’s like being at a bathhouse with guys going from room to room sampling.

I think it’s just a way to let off steam when you’re away from the pressures of work and life. Most people snap back to reality once that weekend is done.

by Anonymousreply 42December 31, 2022 4:25 PM

I want to know what they eat and when they eat it.

Or, rather, how long they go without eating food, and how long it takes to prepare for all those sequential fucks?

Ever the practical, I am.

by Anonymousreply 43December 31, 2022 4:28 PM

It pretty amazing the cumdumps Ive met as a top. They often have very respectable jobs (doctors, lawyers, even an ambassador once and an ex-Congressman) but get totally dirty when it comes to sex. The ex-congressman could take fists like a champ.

by Anonymousreply 44December 31, 2022 4:33 PM

R41 haha girl you are not judging other people in a bathhouse… while being in the bathhouse yourself are you? A big portion of society would say you have self esteem issues for just paying the entry. This is real subjective moralizing smh.

by Anonymousreply 45December 31, 2022 4:35 PM

R45, I’m not judging; I just said I was curious

by Anonymousreply 46December 31, 2022 4:36 PM

R45, why would going to a bathhouse mean you have poor self esteem?

by Anonymousreply 47December 31, 2022 4:37 PM

R40, you're not much a detective. Nothing I posted required embellishment. I won't speculate about your need to try to discredit it.

by Anonymousreply 48December 31, 2022 4:38 PM

R46 projecting a self esteem issue onto someone without knowing the reality is judgmental sorry.

R47 I don’t think it does, and I didn’t say that. I have no issue with bathhouses I go occasionally myself.

R48 sure Jan.

by Anonymousreply 49December 31, 2022 4:40 PM

R49, surer, Jan.

by Anonymousreply 50December 31, 2022 4:42 PM

Do we have an call on whether it's "cumdump" or "cum dump"?

Details do matter.

by Anonymousreply 51December 31, 2022 4:44 PM

R50 either way you’re using someone’s past history of sexual abuse as a mechanism to discredit them as being seen in an aspirational way. That says more about you being a shitty person than anything you said about your acquaintance.

Did he tell you that with the understanding that you would later use it against him? I mean with friends like these…

by Anonymousreply 52December 31, 2022 4:49 PM

[quote] “I’ve been doing this, like I said, since 2009, so 12, 13 years, [and] one time a guy stole a candle from my house,” @CumdumpBoston told me during our chat. “That’s the worst thing that’s happened.”

I wonder if it was Winter Candy Apple or Iced Gingerbread.

by Anonymousreply 53December 31, 2022 4:55 PM

[quote]Let the sluts be sluts, let the puritans be puritans. It's your hole, do whatever you want with it. -― Friedrich Nietzsche

by Anonymousreply 54December 31, 2022 5:08 PM

I've known a few through the years. Good guys, all. Responsible workers, kind to animals, etc. I just don't see why anyone should care what they do (other than those who are participating). What really bugs me, though, is the "blame the victim" mentality that pervades the discussion. Were some of them abused? I'm sure they were. Some of us were abused but didn't become cum dumps, so it's not necessarily causal. And I know one cum dump who says he was never abused, so it's not universal. I hate okra, but I feel no need to call out or otherwise shame those who love it. Let them eat it! Haters need to get over themselves! (I wonder if they were abused...?)

For R51, who shows great wisdom, I propose that "cum dump" be used as a noun, and "cumdump" be used as an adjective. No hyphen. For adverbial phrases, I recommend "cumdumpsterly." Pronouns are entirely up to the user's discretion.

by Anonymousreply 55December 31, 2022 5:27 PM

I don’t think it always has to do with abuse or self esteem—it’s about immersing oneself in pleasure.

If it becomes an addiction , that’s when you have to step back and wonder why

by Anonymousreply 56December 31, 2022 5:29 PM

It is 2000s nonsense that all choices are equal. They just aren't. Fair enough people should be who they want to be but it's nonsensical to suggest everybody has to think the same way about it.

by Anonymousreply 57December 31, 2022 5:38 PM

No one has suggested that everybody has to think the same way about anything. But having a thought does not mean you should express it publicly...

by Anonymousreply 58December 31, 2022 5:43 PM

Be a cum dump, don't be a cum dump. Who the fuck cares? Why is it anyone else's business? There are a lot worse things people do.

by Anonymousreply 59December 31, 2022 5:48 PM

Check R55: I hate okra, but I feel no need to call out or otherwise shame those who love it. Let them eat it! Haters need to get over themselves!

A contrary opinion, to the reasonable man, before Twitter, isn't hate.

R2 was right.

Happy new year.

by Anonymousreply 60December 31, 2022 5:48 PM

The Howard Stern show has a caller who goes by the name "Debbie the Cum Lady". This woman calls in periodically and tells of her love of semen. She says she love it and she needs it every day. She has a list of men that she will visit to get her supply. If she has to travel, she is not above putting ads online and seeking out random guys that she can blow if she can't get to one of her regulars. She will meet strangers in cars, hotel rooms, etc. She says she freezes cum as a snack.

Howard had her in the studio a couple of times because she fascinated him. He tried to get her to explain why how she got to this state but I don't think she could put it into words. Howard tried to psychoanalyze her, but she stayed strangely upbeat and excited talking about her love of cum. She denied having a weird homelife growing up, but who knows. The majority of Howards (male) callers were not disgusted, they wanted to become one of her steadies. I was half gagging in disgust and half sorry for the woman who was so damaged. Male or female, this practice is no bueno.

by Anonymousreply 61December 31, 2022 6:01 PM

[quote] Male or female, this practice is no bueno.

Why though? It’s not for you, fine. But why is it bad for someone else if they enjoy doing it?

by Anonymousreply 62December 31, 2022 6:04 PM

If someone has a huge sexual appetite and chooses to satisfy it, I have no problem with that. It's their life to live as they wish. Use it or lose it, I say.

by Anonymousreply 63December 31, 2022 6:04 PM

I can't understand why anyone wants to be a cum dump, but I don't care that they do, as long as it's consensual.

by Anonymousreply 64December 31, 2022 6:11 PM

[quote] A big portion of society would say you have self esteem issues for just paying the entry.

It's none of a big portion of society's business.

by Anonymousreply 65December 31, 2022 7:16 PM

R65 that was my point 🙄

by Anonymousreply 66December 31, 2022 7:55 PM

The OPs post is a free wheeling knock against gay men that he really has no personal evidence of (unless he hangs out in bathroom a lot) other than a vague idea that gay men are promiscuous. They sure can be- but really, why does he care? It’s called consensual sex. It’s really between those who do it and not the business of those who have nothing to do with it. Talk about clutching pearls and sitting in judgement!

by Anonymousreply 67December 31, 2022 8:38 PM

[quote]Guys Who Are Proud Cum Dumps

OP would prefer that only Ashamed Cum Dumps and Abused Cum Dumps exist.

Because she's all about the humanity, as she proclaims here (and maybe on other such "Official Troll" threads).

Sometimes I question the administrative detachment. Because it can't just be a social experiment or wonderfully generous service for the community.

by Anonymousreply 68December 31, 2022 8:47 PM

Nobody likes a thin skinned cum dump.

by Anonymousreply 69December 31, 2022 8:52 PM

Years ago, when I was in my mid- twenties, I was fascinated with the idea of getting gangbanged. One Friday night, I got very high and headed down to the local bathhouse. I lubed up and took my bottle of poppers to the orgy room where I headed to the large elevated mattress in the middle of the room. I went to the middle of the mattress and got down on all fours, presenting hole. One after the other they came onto the mattress and fucked me; all types and ages. If you were hard, I'd let you in. Six guys in all came in my ass. I could have taken more, but everybody else in the room just wanted to watch and jack off. I showered and walked around for a while. In all, I got fucked three more times that night before I went home. I have never felt more powerful, yet "abused." After that, I had satisfied my curiosity and never did it again. It was always a one on one or giving my ass to a couple, but I could see how some could get somewhat addicted to the practice. It does take a few days to recover.

by Anonymousreply 70December 31, 2022 9:09 PM

[quote]Some of us were abused but didn't become cum dumps, so it's not necessarily causal.

But it is necessarily casual.

by Anonymousreply 71December 31, 2022 9:13 PM

R70 your mum would be very proud if she knew

by Anonymousreply 72December 31, 2022 9:22 PM

Hot

by Anonymousreply 73December 31, 2022 9:28 PM

When my friend became HIV pos about 20 years ago, he had a period of sexual recklessness. He was both sexually freed and terrified. He would get gangbanged constantly. Released from fear that he might get HIV, he got a bit obsessed by bareback sex—he wanted it all and he wanted it now.

It took him about 6 months of that to calm down and try to get to a normal sex life. About that time, he met a great guy and they’ve been partners since.

by Anonymousreply 74December 31, 2022 9:35 PM

When I got fucked for the first time, I was in my mid-20’s. It was so intriguing, that afterwards, I headed to an orgy and let anyone who wanted to to fuck me. I just wanted to see what different kinds of guys and what kinds of cocks felt like.

Fun experiment!

by Anonymousreply 75December 31, 2022 9:39 PM

I've fantasized about it. The closest I ever got to it was bottoming for couples. It was fun.

There was a vid posted here a while ago (an amateur vid) of a daddy and his bottom, and the bottom was serving as a cum-dump for daddy and friend. HAF.

by Anonymousreply 76December 31, 2022 9:40 PM

R76, try to find that vid again! My fav porn scenario!

by Anonymousreply 77December 31, 2022 9:44 PM

[quote]R70 Six guys in all came in my ass. I could have taken more. I got fucked three more times that night before I went home. I have never felt more powerful, yet "abused." After that, I had satisfied my curiosity and never did it again.

Did you seroconvert?

by Anonymousreply 78December 31, 2022 9:46 PM

The thought of being a cum dumb might have been hot when I was younger. At this point as an eldergay, my first thought is Who has the energy for that?

by Anonymousreply 79December 31, 2022 9:52 PM

For everything there is a time,

a time to be cumdumps,

a time to watch Golden Girls

by Anonymousreply 80December 31, 2022 9:57 PM

When will they find the time to read Proust?

by Anonymousreply 81December 31, 2022 10:39 PM

Baron de Charlus was cum dump and everyone knew it.

by Anonymousreply 82December 31, 2022 10:42 PM

[quote]R69: ....thin skinned

Oh, dear.

Better acute than thick-headed.

by Anonymousreply 83December 31, 2022 11:31 PM

I enjoy collecting cum

by Anonymousreply 84December 31, 2022 11:33 PM

[quote] Why though? It’s not for you, fine. But why is it bad for someone else if they enjoy doing it?

It spreads disease.

by Anonymousreply 85December 31, 2022 11:38 PM

Go on Sniffies and you’ll see all the orgies going on in your area.

by Anonymousreply 86December 31, 2022 11:38 PM

I don’t get Sniffies at all. Any other good apps to find orgies?

by Anonymousreply 87December 31, 2022 11:41 PM

R85 You are very lonely

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by Anonymousreply 88December 31, 2022 11:45 PM

R32 The Proud Wrigleyville Cumpdump

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by Anonymousreply 89January 1, 2023 12:12 AM

[quote] It spreads disease.

Again this doesn’t really affect you R85? Let them manage their own health and you manage yours and stop being such a busybody idk.

Going on a metro ‘spreads disease’, meeting a friend for coffee ‘spreads disease’. There’s a trade off between existing as a human and ‘spreading disease’. You must be so joyless lol.

R87 what’s not to get? If you’re looking for an orgy it’s your best bet.

by Anonymousreply 90January 1, 2023 1:33 AM

Living spreads disease, folks. Someone upthread pointed out that many, many guys are on PREP, and that means regular STI testing -and treatment, if needed. These days you're safer with a, pardon the expression, slut than with some rando closet case. In other countries there's no shame in getting a sexual health checkup. Maybe that's why infection rates are so much higher in the US?

Less shame -more sex!

by Anonymousreply 91January 1, 2023 1:40 AM

YaY here I am girls. Any questions?

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by Anonymousreply 92January 1, 2023 1:47 AM

I love the Wrigleyville guy. So hungry

by Anonymousreply 93January 1, 2023 3:17 AM

^^^ I love a guy who loves what he's doing.

by Anonymousreply 94January 1, 2023 4:12 AM

Low self worth and usually drugs are involved, especially meth

by Anonymousreply 95January 1, 2023 4:40 AM

Most have HIV

by Anonymousreply 96January 1, 2023 4:40 AM

R96, not any more

by Anonymousreply 97January 1, 2023 1:14 PM

When I’m really high and horny, it’s a fantasy of mine.

by Anonymousreply 98January 1, 2023 3:27 PM

R97, why is that ? You really believe HIV no longer exists?

by Anonymousreply 99January 1, 2023 3:29 PM

R99, because everyone is on PrEP or have you been living in a cave for the last decade?

by Anonymousreply 100January 1, 2023 3:34 PM

☝🏼. Prep as prevention is a joke. We already know the virus has outsmarted it and developed resistance. We have NO IDEA how widespread the resistance is.

by Anonymousreply 101January 1, 2023 4:21 PM

[quote]Did you seroconvert?

It was just before AIDS. I'm old.

by Anonymousreply 102January 1, 2023 4:47 PM

Who hasn't fantasized about this? You know you have.

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by Anonymousreply 103January 1, 2023 4:50 PM

Yes, you have.

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by Anonymousreply 104January 1, 2023 4:52 PM

[Quote] Prep as prevention is a joke. We already know the virus has outsmarted it and developed resistance. We have NO IDEA how widespread the resistance is.

Um, no. If it were widespread, we’d hear about tons of people seroconverting on PrEP. We’re not

by Anonymousreply 105January 1, 2023 6:10 PM

It's amazing how desperately some people want others to suffer. Why are you rooting for the virus instead of us?

by Anonymousreply 106January 1, 2023 6:22 PM

[quote] because everyone is on PrEP or have you been living in a cave for the last decade?

In 2020, fewer than 25% of the 1.2 million Americans the CDC believes would benefit from PrEP received prescriptions.

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by Anonymousreply 107January 1, 2023 6:30 PM

^^Y"et even when people are prescribed PrEP, there’s no guarantee that they will fill it. From 2015 to 2019, nearly one in five people with a new PrEP prescription delayed or never filled it. About 75% of this group still had not picked up their PrEP a year after receiving it, and 6% were diagnosed with HIV."

by Anonymousreply 108January 1, 2023 6:31 PM

In some circles (like DL) there is still stigma attached to being on PrEP. There is an assumption that you are screwing everyone in sight and generally going wild. True for some, maybe, but many people just want an extra layer of protection.

by Anonymousreply 109January 1, 2023 6:41 PM

R108 so over 8 out of 10 people did start taking it? Those are great numbers :) and only 6% of under 20% contracted HIV? That’s undet 1% of the initial control group non? What a success.

by Anonymousreply 110January 1, 2023 8:03 PM

Some of you live in a very dark world. How can you turn something good like PrEP into a bad thing? That takes the work of a very twisted mind. It reminds me of those of you who were cheering on MonkeyPox last summer, because it was finally going to take care of all the sluts. Who hurt you as a child to cause some of you to be this way? Why does everything have to be so fucking bleak?

by Anonymousreply 111January 1, 2023 8:13 PM

My college roommate was a crazy cumdumpster. He always only got fucked if his top was bareback. He would squelch out the cum and save it in a jar. (not kidding). He would bake cookies and mix in the refrigerated cum just for fun. “This way it’s back inside me”. In case you’re wondering- he had his own mini-fridge. He was definitely a sex crazed guy that loved being fucked. He was cute too. We lost contact with each other but I always wonder what happened to him.

by Anonymousreply 112January 1, 2023 8:22 PM

[Quote] In 2020, fewer than 25% of the 1.2 million Americans the CDC believes would benefit from PrEP received prescriptions.

Since we have the answer to ending HIV, we need to focus on getting prescriptions to everyone who can benefit. Make it over the counter. Work to stop the stigma

by Anonymousreply 113January 1, 2023 8:34 PM

[Quote] In 2020, fewer than 25% of the 1.2 million Americans the CDC believes would benefit from PrEP received prescriptions.

But you think these very people are responsible enough to use condoms everytime??

by Anonymousreply 114January 1, 2023 8:35 PM

r111 is not familiar with the side effects.

by Anonymousreply 115January 1, 2023 8:52 PM

R115 you should talk to a doctor - side effects are extremely rare it’s great :)

by Anonymousreply 116January 1, 2023 8:59 PM

r116, I get laid so seldom - once every year or two, that it's really not a big deal to use condoms.

by Anonymousreply 117January 1, 2023 9:01 PM

Sexual compulsives think that everybody has the same desires they do, but other people don't have the bravery to fulfill their true desires.

by Anonymousreply 118January 1, 2023 9:17 PM

R117, well, goodie for you. Most 20 year olds won’t feel the same

by Anonymousreply 119January 1, 2023 9:18 PM

I expect that with the move towards gay marriage, crazy gay sex orgies and cumdumps will be fewer and fewer.

When we couldn’t marry, there wasn’t much more to look forward to than lots of sex. Now that marriage is the goal, we’ll move more towards dating in search of Mr right.

I see it manifesting already. Bathhouse culture is dying. Even apps are filled with older men rather than younger whores

by Anonymousreply 120January 1, 2023 9:21 PM

R120, they just have raunchy sex on the side. Marriage is a sham.

by Anonymousreply 121January 1, 2023 9:23 PM

John Barrowman.

by Anonymousreply 122January 1, 2023 9:25 PM

It’s a fantasy of mine but I’d never do it in reality.

by Anonymousreply 123January 1, 2023 9:51 PM

I’ve been told there are women like this too. A woman in her 40s who I used to work with said she knew a woman who was such a slut she eventually lost control of her vadge. I’m not sure what point could do that considering women can have babies and go back to normal. The woman who told me this wasn’t some spinster either. She had whored around a bit and was married with some kids.

by Anonymousreply 124January 1, 2023 9:54 PM

[Quote] they just have raunchy sex on the side. Marriage is a sham.

I think older gays might but don’t see a lot of that among younger married gays

by Anonymousreply 125January 1, 2023 9:56 PM

I remember a few years ago someone on so linked to the cam of some methed out guy who was just in a hotel all night having gentlemen callers come in and fuck him. I used to be a slug but I was shocked this guys didn’t need any alone time after fucking even one person.

by Anonymousreply 126January 1, 2023 10:00 PM

In college, I do know a few guys that would go to wild weekend orgies in the city. The hormones were raging and as cute young bottoms, they were in high demand.

by Anonymousreply 127January 1, 2023 10:07 PM

[Quote] I remember a few years ago someone on so linked to the cam of some methed out guy who was just in a hotel all night having gentlemen callers come in and fuck him. I used to be a slug but I was shocked this guys didn’t need any alone time after fucking even one person.

Meth makes you feel unsatiated sexually. You want more and more. Since one guy doesn’t satisfy, you need another and another. No one wants alone time. It’s only after you look at a clock and see how many hrs have gone by and that you need to clean up and get on with your life do you force yourself to stop

by Anonymousreply 128January 1, 2023 10:10 PM

The occasional meth and cum dump weekend. It's a release valve.

by Anonymousreply 129January 1, 2023 10:19 PM

"I think older gays might but don’t see a lot of that among younger married gays"

Oh, puh-lease. What is with all this virtue and chastity attributed to the young? It's the youngsters who fill the screens of Grindr. And 7/8 of the guys who hit me up are in their twenties. I'm sure they don't advertise their interest in older men because they fear being teased about it. So no surprise that they don't advertise being cum dumps either. Legal marriage has nothing to do with sex.

by Anonymousreply 130January 1, 2023 10:20 PM

R130, I don’t think being on Grindr makes you a cumdump. They’re horny and want to fuck. They don’t particularly need to be fucked by 10 guys at a time

by Anonymousreply 131January 1, 2023 10:22 PM

I didn't say being on Grindr makes you a cumdump, but I don't think you can be living on Grindr and at the same time claim chastity due to the sanctity of your marriage vows. This is in response to what R125 said about younger guys not "having raunchy sex on the side."

by Anonymousreply 132January 1, 2023 10:30 PM

There's a whole universe of gay men, young and old, not on Grindr.

by Anonymousreply 133January 1, 2023 10:32 PM

[Quote] I didn't say being on Grindr makes you a cumdump, but I don't think you can be living on Grindr and at the same time claim chastity due to the sanctity of your marriage vows. This is in response to what [R125] said about younger guys not "having raunchy sex on the side."

Grindr shows a small subset of gay men. In NYC, you might see a large percentage of young gay men. When I visited Tampa, it was nearly all daddies.

by Anonymousreply 134January 1, 2023 10:36 PM

Just because someone’s on Grindr doesn’t mean they like raunchy sex.

by Anonymousreply 135January 1, 2023 10:36 PM

Just because... just because...

C'mon guys. Be honest. You don't have reliable data anymore than I do. It's all anecdotal. Anyone who tries to make blanket statements and generalizations about any group of people is simply talking out of his ass...

by Anonymousreply 136January 1, 2023 10:42 PM

[quote] Again this doesn’t really affect you [R85]?

Yes, disease does affect me and the rest of the gay community.

by Anonymousreply 137January 1, 2023 10:46 PM

[quote] There's a whole universe of gay men, young and old, not on Grindr.

Right, they’re on Scruff. The majority of gay men ARE on hookup apps.

by Anonymousreply 138January 1, 2023 10:47 PM

What about that gay weatherman who broadcast himself being a cum dump, revealing his name and occupation and even his boss last year?

by Anonymousreply 139January 1, 2023 10:48 PM

You all Act like there is no threat from STDS. We can fuck with Complete care and abandon.

by Anonymousreply 140January 1, 2023 11:04 PM

And you Act like there is no treatment for STDS...

By the way, they have been called sexually transmitted infections (STIs) for more than two decades.

And why did we need to capitalize "Act?"

by Anonymousreply 141January 1, 2023 11:06 PM

[quote]r111 It reminds me of those of you who were cheering on MonkeyPox last summer, because it was finally going to take care of all the sluts. [bold]Who hurt you as a child [/bold]to cause some of you to be this way?

It was MonkeyPox, if you must know.

by Anonymousreply 142January 1, 2023 11:19 PM

I've fucked some very hot guys who are cumdumps (more of a top here). Don't knock people providing a service to the community, Their behaviour may seem extreme to others, but so too could other types of compulsive behaviour: gym addicts, workaholics..... There needn't be any long-lasting health consequences given proper PreP use and regular sexual health checkups.

If you go looking for pathology, you will find it. Lots of people have experienced trauma in their lives, there is no reason to assume a connection between that and this kind of sexual behaviour. Many gay/bi men have very high libidos. Some of my best sexual experiences are among the best experiences and memories of my life.

As for the attraction, it's very common sexually to enjoy being controlled, or used. Lots of bottom guys get off on being submissive or just a hole for other men's pleasure. Cumdumps take that and run with it. R70's description probably describes how most of them feel about it.

Social media and a somewhat more permissive society makes these marathon sessions much easier to arrange. Drug use probably plays a part (in some, not in all cases) in keeping everybody fuelled and ready for more.

by Anonymousreply 143January 2, 2023 8:34 AM

[quote]I don’t think being on Grindr makes you a cumdump. They’re horny and want to fuck. They don’t particularly need to be fucked by 10 guys at a time

Agree. It is silly to equate people who have healthy sex drive and are searching for sexual encounters on the apps, whether it is ONS or something more long term, with compulsive self destructing behavior like getting ass wrecked by tens of guys in a raw, like some victim of war gang rape.

by Anonymousreply 144January 2, 2023 9:00 AM

I witnessed cum dumps taking loads at a bath house. It grossed me out. Messed up on drugs and taking raw loads is not something I need to be a part of. So I won't. But you hos keep on doing your thing.

by Anonymousreply 145January 2, 2023 12:40 PM

^^^^

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by Anonymousreply 146January 2, 2023 1:16 PM

Why are cum dumps considered damaged but not tops who move from one cumdump to another?

by Anonymousreply 147January 2, 2023 1:23 PM

Are all cum dumps drugged up?

by Anonymousreply 148January 2, 2023 1:27 PM

Yes and no. Meth is so common in the gay community that even non-cum dumps are on it.

by Anonymousreply 149January 2, 2023 1:31 PM

A group of SF DLers play cum dump.

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by Anonymousreply 150January 2, 2023 3:02 PM

R147 I consider tops who get off on humiliation and domination and who participate in such orgies very damaged people. But a bottom, just as women is self destructive, masochistic and self hating. People who are receptive partners and get penetrated would normally be more restrained and have the urge to use precaution cause their health could be seriously damaged by such behavior.

by Anonymousreply 151January 2, 2023 3:03 PM

Should they also have a Red A tattooed on their chests R151? 🙄🤨

by Anonymousreply 152January 2, 2023 3:08 PM

R148, I was surprised to find that most cumdumps aren’t drugged up actually

by Anonymousreply 153January 2, 2023 3:09 PM

To each his own. Other people’s sex lives are nobody else’s business.

by Anonymousreply 154January 2, 2023 4:07 PM

R152 I am not judgemental and I don't despise nor blame these people, they are only hurting themselves, unlike assholes who are hurting others. On the contrary I feel for them and am empathetic.

And of course, their lives are not our business, but since we are discussing here I wanted to say that this behavior comes from trauma.

by Anonymousreply 155January 2, 2023 4:11 PM

R155 you know it’s funny I read once that being judgmental about others’ sex lives usually comes from trauma. What’s your damage?

by Anonymousreply 156January 2, 2023 5:19 PM

It's rooted in misogyny, pure and simple. Bottoms gets slut shamed for the same reason that sexually active women get slut shamed. It's Jesus, puritanical, moralistic bullshit. Dawson, who takes 50 loads in a weekend, is no better or worse, and no more damaged, than some guy who's only had one dick in his life.

by Anonymousreply 157January 2, 2023 5:23 PM

^^^ You tell 'em, sister!

by Anonymousreply 158January 2, 2023 7:13 PM

R115 Nor are you, obviously

by Anonymousreply 159January 2, 2023 7:16 PM

Dawson did that as an actor and it catapulted him to legendary status.

Sounds like it was a good move

by Anonymousreply 160January 2, 2023 7:19 PM

Is this supposed to be a provocative thread? Because honestly it’s boring as fuck

by Anonymousreply 161January 2, 2023 7:32 PM

[Quote] Is this supposed to be a provocative thread? Because honestly it’s boring as fuck

Like cumdumps actually

by Anonymousreply 162January 2, 2023 7:58 PM

grody to the max

by Anonymousreply 163January 2, 2023 9:14 PM

whatever lifts you skirt

by Anonymousreply 164January 2, 2023 9:17 PM

[quote] It's rooted in misogyny, pure and simple.

Sure, Jan. Go take another anon load.

by Anonymousreply 165January 2, 2023 9:31 PM

R161, get going then, toots!

by Anonymousreply 166January 2, 2023 9:31 PM

Taking raw loads, north (NSFW).

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by Anonymousreply 167January 7, 2023 4:00 PM

Hot!

by Anonymousreply 168January 7, 2023 4:37 PM
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