Why do some gay men refuse to kiss?

Thats because they know where your mouth has likely been. And you can't get rid of that taste of ass with Listerine, no matter what the adverts say

Some think it’s too intimate an act, unlike sticking their dick in your ass

Jackie Beat has the answer.

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Pele has died.

I once met a cute opera singer who refused to kiss. He said he didn’t want to catch a cold, which is understandable.

Although the sex was good, for me no kissing was the deal breaker

r6 but no doubt happy to be infected with a damn sight worse

Straight men kiss because they have to.

Maybe they are bicurious, not gay.

Didn't we have this exact fucking thread not 7 days ago?

If you just went down on me then no, sorry, no kissing. I know where your mouth has been.

Some try to kiss but do so terribly. How did they go through life kissing like that?

R11, What? A little cockbreath offends your delicate sensibilities? Not kissing a guy after rimming I could see, but what's wrong with a taste of your own cum? I bet you make him swallow.

R6 Are you in NYC? Was his name Jonathan and was he tall?

I've had one refuse to kiss after finding out I wouldn't be bottoming for him. I thought it was petulant, but his mouth worked well enough on other areas.

I love kissing and I wouldn't hook up with someone who doesn't like it.

No kiss, no carlosinsf.

Would anyone who values their health kiss a gay man on the lips?

r18 why would they suck their ass or cock if they valued it so much

Jeesh, even for DL this thread has a lot of homophobia.

r20 found the trannyfucker

R21 Found the Proud Boys troll. Or some deranged fundie. Or who knows or cares.

r22 it's just chowder

Those aren't out gay men. They are deeply repressed and/or bisexual/bi-curious.

Usually had their teeth implants done cheaply and worried they arent properly screwed in.

Because kissing men would make them homos (in their own thinking).

Kissing is more a sign of affection than a sexual act.

Gay men are known to do ATM.

They'll kiss you if you pay them, r28?

OP it's likely because of your breath - seriously. Brush your teeth a few times a day, and ALWAYS do mouth wash before leaving your parent's basement.

Well, after I've been rimmed for 45 minutes, maybe sometimes I'm okay about the no-kiss policy.

After all, I know where I've been.

Kissing is a rather intimate act. Some men don't want intimacy they just want to suck a cock or have a cock shoved in their ass. There's no real intimacy in that.

I used to enjoy kissing, and received compliments. Now it grosses me out, and I have no idea what flipped the switch off. I have yet to run into anyone who finds that to be a dealbreaker.

I agree that Straight men generally don't care about kissing - it's not even on their radar.

And straight men will endlessly discuss and analyze other elements of sex: penis size, endurance, oral skills, butt stuff....everything you can image except kissing.

Straight women have way bigger things to worry about than schooling their husbands on kissing...if they even do kiss.

R23 Nasty!

Refuse to kiss in what context? When hooking up? If you're talking about guys just hooking up to get their rocks off, I don't see the point of being all sociological and moralistic about their refusing to kiss.

Some people like kissing. I do' I think it's sexy as hell. But some people don't. I feel sorry for them. They're missing out.

R11 doesn't clean himself properly I guess.

R34, how would you know? How many straight guys have you kissed?

I'm not interested in having sex with someone who doesn't kiss. Kissing is one of the best parts of sex.

I'd say no thank you and find someone normal.

Because they’re uptight for a number of reasons- pretty much a big turn off

[quote] Are you in NYC? Was his name Jonathan and was he tall?

Yes, I'm in NYC. He was tall, but unfortunately I don't remember his name.

R42 Was he VERY tall, with brown hair and an obviously gay speaking voice?

I hooked up with a guy who said no kissing, and five minutes after meeting his tongue was down my throat. I laughed said, "I thought you didn't kiss." He said, "I say that incase the guy is ugly or has really shitty breath or teeth."

JC, if you anyone who doesn’t think kissing is sexual hasn’t been properly kissed. Not kissing would be a dealbreaker for me, but haven’t found anyone with this strange policy.

They like to pretend to be Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman.

[Quote] Was he VERY tall, with brown hair and an obviously gay speaking voice?

Yes!

I went to a guy’s place to get my cock sucked. He said he didn’t kiss but was so cute I didn’t care. Within a minute of sucking on my big cock, I could tell he was getting so turned on that he grabbed me and started French kissing me. It was so hot!

I only like to kiss if I am in a relationship.

Smears their lipstick.

R48 I want to suck on your big cock, too!

I've only been with one man who didn't want to kiss me (and I do mean French kiss). He was later implicated in a notorious gay murder.

r40 "no thnank you and find someone normal" it isn't a fucking cup of tea with the offer of a biscuit you stupid cunt

Why do some gay men refuse to FUCK?

r54 see g0ys

I just realised - OP answered his own question. Go look.