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I had the weirdest dream last night

I was having a gay threesome with my partner and then a 4th guy joined. The 4th guy turned out to be an FTM. He got on top of me in the 69 position and I ate his pussy, which smelled a little bit like garbage or fish. But I ate it anyway and my partner just looked at me with a disgusted look on his face.

What does this dream mean? I woke up feeling strange.

by Anonymousreply 30December 30, 2022 2:01 AM

OP what made you wake up, period?

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by Anonymousreply 1December 29, 2022 3:21 AM

Vomiting.

by Anonymousreply 2December 29, 2022 3:23 AM

It means you've been living a lie. You're just a frau at heart. desperate to pit one enemy against another, you blame for the first.

[quote] Radical feminist theorists have analysed the construction of male sexuality as resulting from ruling class status and the availability of a subordinate class of women on whom to act out. This form of sexuality is extremely dangerous to the interests of women, in asmuch as it leads to the rape and murder of women. This has not been a popular point of view amongst gay activists or sexual libertarian lesbians and feminists who have attacked those feminists who demand that men change, as ‘anti-sex’ or ‘essentialist’. The radical feminist critique has now been power fully taken up by many of those concerned to contain the global AIDS epidemic. The Panos Institute publication, AIDS and Men: Taking Risks or Taking Responsibility? (Foreman 1999), argues that AIDS is an epidemic which has a political cause in the form of masculine risk-taking and irresponsible behaviour originating in the inequality between men and women. AIDS, according to this analysis, can be seen as a disease of male supremacy.

[quote] Gay Male Pornography , as we have seen, is a major aspect of the definition of public sex offered by queer theorists and Sex Panic members. Pornography has achieved iconic status in queer theory, and its defence is central to the agenda of queer politics. Well-known queer art critics, legal theorists and queer theorists state that pornography is crucial to gay men’s survival, to their identities, and to their ability to do sex.

[quote] A number of gay male commentators have criticized the masculinity of gay male porn and the wider cult of masculinity in gay culture in recent decades as being antithetical to support for women’s liberation. They have pointed out that gay men cannot have their masculinity if women are to be free from oppression. These critiques have not been heeded by gay men who support pornography, most likely because their gay audiences have not known why they should bother about women. They have been concerned only for themselves. For this reason, critics of the values and practices of gay porn have sought to frame their arguments in ways that appeal to gay men’s sense of self-preservation

[quote] Gay men responded by getting lesbian and bisexual women, often with vested interests in the newly developing lesbian sex industry, to support them against the anti-pornography feminists. They sought to split the opposition, so that they could maintain their porn and their privileges

[quote] Pro-pornography lesbians say that they learnt to appreciate pornography by looking at gay male porn and subsequently incorporated ‘gay male sexual iconography into their fantasies, sex play and cultural representations’

[quote] The highest value absorbed through such incorporation is that masculinity is to be worshipped. In the 1980s this was reflected in a revaluing of lesbian ‘butchness’, and in the 1990s in the evolution of ‘transmen’, many of whom sought to become ‘gay men’ after surgery, despite, in most cases, the absence of any form of phalloplasty.

[quote] The pursuit of the penis and the masculine privilege derived from male dominance is a sad and hopeless quest for lesbians. Even surgery cannot supply such a holy grail, since transsexual operations cannot construct a functional phallus.

[quote] For feminists who understand pornography to be the ‘propaganda of woman hatred’ and wish to eradicate it, gay men’s defence of their own form of pornography is a significant obstacle.

[quote] If the interests of constituencies other than privileged American gay men are to be taken seriously, then this kind of sexuality needs to be transformed, rather than protected.

[quote] Gay men constitute an influential lobby group. By arguing, as many do, that gay porn is necessary for gay men’s survival, they protect pornography, in direct contradiction to feminist concerns that it is an active threat to the survival of women.

by Anonymousreply 3December 29, 2022 3:29 AM

I would have freaked out at identifying "his pussy", too.

by Anonymousreply 4December 29, 2022 3:39 AM

I had a dream I met a hot Irish guy while waiting in a line. He told me he wasn’t looking for a relationship but wanted to fuck me so we fucked. I’m hoping this was a premonition.

by Anonymousreply 5December 29, 2022 3:42 AM

perhaps your dream suggests that male homosexuality is just male socialization and the gaytriarchy is to blame for transies?

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by Anonymousreply 6December 29, 2022 3:48 AM

[quote] Men’s liberationists always bring up ‘confronting their own feelings about men’ by which they mean homosexuality. Male homosexuality is an extension of the reactionary club (meaning both group and weapon). The growth of gay liberation carries contempt for women to the ultimate: total segregation. The desire of men to ‘explore their homosexuality’ really means encouraging the possibility of homosexuality as a reaction against feminist demands. This is the reason the movement for “gay rights” received much more support only after women’s liberation became a mass movement ~ www carolhanisch org

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by Anonymousreply 7December 29, 2022 3:49 AM

All things considered, it could have been worse. The ftm could have had one of those tubes that's made from skin harvested from the leg and then shaped like a fruit roll-up and sewn onto the crotch.

I've actually seen ftms online who try to argue with gay men that those frankencocks are just like the real thing.

Sorry, but they're not penises. Sucking on a skin graft would be a true body horror nightmare.

by Anonymousreply 8December 29, 2022 3:51 AM
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by Anonymousreply 9December 29, 2022 3:52 AM
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by Anonymousreply 10December 29, 2022 4:00 AM

^ so, if you're going to come up with a scenario in attempt to attract gay men to your cause... perhaps do not present as a stereotypical rad fem perception of gay male sexuality, complete with the fishy hole motif.

Perhaps try addressing the concerns many gay men have with the anti-trans movement, such as it's secondary focus on targeting gay and lesbian issues, such as marriage equality, adoption, surrogacy, employment, education, or even those suggesting that non heterosexual sexuality as a whole is "a choice"

by Anonymousreply 11December 29, 2022 4:10 AM

The purpose of my post wasn’t to start a conversation on trans politics. I’m just telling you all about an odd dream that I had and wondering why I was dreaming about this.

by Anonymousreply 12December 29, 2022 4:15 AM

Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. But not in this case

by Anonymousreply 13December 29, 2022 4:24 AM

It sounds like a nightmare

by Anonymousreply 14December 29, 2022 4:25 AM

OP Don't eat lobster after 8pm and call...

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by Anonymousreply 15December 29, 2022 4:27 AM

"Dreams don't mean anything, Dolores.

That answer doesn't seem to satisfy you."

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by Anonymousreply 16December 29, 2022 4:35 AM

Were people throwing little pickles at you too?

by Anonymousreply 17December 29, 2022 4:38 AM

I thought I felt some tingling in my front hole!

by Anonymousreply 18December 29, 2022 4:40 AM

Chase Frontholio

by Anonymousreply 19December 29, 2022 4:42 AM

Honey, you are experiencing latent heterosexual desire...

sometimes I struggle with it myself...

by Anonymousreply 20December 29, 2022 4:56 AM

It wasn't a dream, OP.

by Anonymousreply 21December 29, 2022 4:57 AM

How long did it take you to come up with that, OP?

by Anonymousreply 22December 29, 2022 5:19 AM

Tell us about your mother, OP.

by Anonymousreply 23December 29, 2022 5:36 AM

r10 I should clarify how what 'she' said about the gay and lesbian task force conference was a blatant lie, not her first of such things, she's told similar stories of different gay and lesbians organization with the same premise. She just sprinkles enough truth around other issues, mostly cherrypicked citations to support her view that people take everything as factual. Often they wish say she's a nobody and yet she's a central figure , the founder of many organizations, attached to the main anti-trans movements from the right to the left, and readily redirects it to targeting laws concerning gays and lesbians. Her homophobic/lesbiophobic theories are also, ironically, the basis for much of trans politics, queer studies and feminist studies.. just sanitized and censored.

r12 If that's true, then the reality is you're attracted to masculinity... was this said person otherwise attractive, if they had been clothed? It's a common reaction, there are a few very attractive trans but ultimately, the dividing line for many comes to genitalia. So, admiration of clothed looks may be as far as you're willing to go with someone that is trans. And perhaps, there is a bit of fear that you might accidently hookup with someone that is... which is rectified by asking for a live cam show, a digital physical, before they come over.

by Anonymousreply 24December 29, 2022 6:44 AM

OP, I’d rather hear about the threesome before the unfortunate fourth joined the group.

by Anonymousreply 25December 29, 2022 7:06 AM

[quote]What does this dream mean?

It means I'm giving you 0 out of 10.

by Anonymousreply 26December 29, 2022 7:11 AM

This Never Happened.

by Anonymousreply 27December 29, 2022 8:06 AM

If you're wondering what brings out the worst in people on Datalounge, it's this pussification/female sexuality these stupid pos posters/posers like op post. It the fakegay/frau/bi/pan demonhorde that have made the place a shitshow.

by Anonymousreply 28December 29, 2022 9:43 AM

You messed up at "his pussy." Are you fucking serious?

by Anonymousreply 29December 29, 2022 9:44 AM

[quote]This Never Happened.

Because it was a dream, silly!

by Anonymousreply 30December 30, 2022 2:01 AM
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