The 50 best gay movies – the most essential LGBTQ+ films ever made.
With the help of leading directors, actors, writers and activists, we count down the best LGBTQ+ films of all time (March 2022).
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The 50 best gay movies – the most essential LGBTQ+ films ever made.
With the help of leading directors, actors, writers and activists, we count down the best LGBTQ+ films of all time (March 2022).
by Anonymous | reply 40 | December 3, 2022 8:20 AM |
If BROS isn't #1, this is homophobic hate.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | December 3, 2022 1:42 AM |
It isn't R1. What will you do now?
by Anonymous | reply 2 | December 3, 2022 1:45 AM |
No Mame?
by Anonymous | reply 3 | December 3, 2022 1:59 AM |
Oh cool! I'll have to check some of these out. I'm not as well versed in gay cinema as I should be, and lately have had the urge and started seeking things out
by Anonymous | reply 4 | December 3, 2022 2:01 AM |
Longtime Companion belongs in the top five.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | December 3, 2022 2:03 AM |
Worthless list since “Trick” isn’t on it. Also- what about LVC?
by Anonymous | reply 6 | December 3, 2022 2:04 AM |
And where is Y Tu Mamma Tambien?
by Anonymous | reply 7 | December 3, 2022 2:04 AM |
The Birdcage?
by Anonymous | reply 8 | December 3, 2022 2:05 AM |
Philadelphia? And The Band Played On?
by Anonymous | reply 9 | December 3, 2022 2:05 AM |
Just out of interest, am going to list those I have seen already:
- The Children's Hour
- Paris is Burning
- The Wizard of Oz
- Edward II (sort of, I can't really remember it. I was very young and it was on TV and I felt I shouldn't be watching it. I just remember Annie Lennox now)
- Pink Flamingos
- But I'm a Cheerleader
- Transamerica
- Pride
- (I've seen The Boys in the Band, but only the 2020 version)
- The Hours
- My Beautiful Laundrette (similar to Edward II, I remember nothing except getting very aroused by DDL)
- Orlando
- Beautiful Thing
- My Own Private Idaho (bits and pieces, yet again at a very young age and can't remember much of it)
- Brokeback Mountain
Funnily enough, for a gay guy I think I've watched much more lesbian stuff.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | December 3, 2022 2:06 AM |
Stonewall is overlooked too
by Anonymous | reply 11 | December 3, 2022 2:08 AM |
And Jeffrey
by Anonymous | reply 12 | December 3, 2022 2:08 AM |
Brokeback Mountain is worthy of the number one spot. Too bad it wasn't at the Oscars.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | December 3, 2022 2:09 AM |
Walk on Water (2004)
I love this film though it's not simply gay-themed.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | December 3, 2022 2:23 AM |
Horrible list....Excluded = "We were here"....."And the band played on"......Timmy on the list? Give me a break.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | December 3, 2022 2:29 AM |
[quote] The 50 best gay movies – the most essential LGBTQ+ films ever made
The headline of this article proves that people conflate "gay" with LGBTQ+ (which the trannies are denying over in another thread).
by Anonymous | reply 16 | December 3, 2022 2:33 AM |
Automatic garbage list if Maurice is only number 22. It's number one on my book but top three without question.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | December 3, 2022 2:36 AM |
My top five, not in any particular order:
CMBYN
Longtime Companion
The Boys in the Band (1970)
God’s Own Country
Parting Glances
by Anonymous | reply 18 | December 3, 2022 2:46 AM |
I'd like to ask: Which are your favourite gay movies with happy endings (as in the pleasant emotion you get when things go well, as opposed to the other type of happy ending, you pervs!)? As a kid, whenever I found a gay movie it was always really depressing. Think the first one I ever saw was Gregg Araki's Totally Fucked Up, ha! I'd love to watch some more feelgood gay movies that still manage to not be too cheesy.
I loved Pride, for example. But I always love that kind of British film full of known character actors. The Lady in the Van was also great.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | December 3, 2022 2:49 AM |
Happy ending:
1. God's Own Country
2. Longtime Companion's fantasy happy ending. How I ache when I see that scene. I've probably replayed it more than any scene from any gay movie.
3. Until Aciman came out with his sequel novel to CMBYN, I chose to think of CMBYN as having a happy ending sometime in the future, that Elio's tears as he stared into the fire would not be in vain. And then Aciman came out with that POS. If Luca ever films a sequel to the movie, I want Elio and Oliver to be together forever.
Those are the only ones I can think of, and they're not really very happy, are they?
by Anonymous | reply 20 | December 3, 2022 2:55 AM |
The one where Bugs gives that Monster a manicure has a sort of haaaaaaa-py ennnnnnnnnn-ding
by Anonymous | reply 21 | December 3, 2022 3:04 AM |
I would have eliminated some of them. (I mean, Shiva Baby?)
IMO the list should have included:
Man in an Orange Shirt
Law of Desire
And Then We Danced
Vito
Bedrooms and Hallways
Broken Hearts Club
The Living End
by Anonymous | reply 22 | December 3, 2022 3:23 AM |
Victim with Dirk Bogarde.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | December 3, 2022 3:24 AM |
Maurice has a happy ending.
by Anonymous | reply 24 | December 3, 2022 3:27 AM |
Another movie I should have added to R22 is the Guatemalan film Tremors.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | December 3, 2022 3:28 AM |
[quote]Which are your favourite gay movies with happy endings
My Beautiful Laundrette, Maurice, and Beautiful Thing are my Top 3 and they all have happy endings. Laundrette was the first gay film I saw as a teenager and I'll always have a huge fondness for it. I don't think Day-Lewis has ever been better than he was in that and A Room with a View.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | December 3, 2022 3:39 AM |
R21 It’s a crime that was left off the list!
by Anonymous | reply 27 | December 3, 2022 4:07 AM |
Where's Ben Hur?
Where's Top Gun?
by Anonymous | reply 28 | December 3, 2022 4:17 AM |
Taxi Zum Klo was my favorite.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | December 3, 2022 4:24 AM |
Talk about promoting agenda! 20% of the movies on that list have nothing to do with gay and everything to do with blokes in frocks. To say nothing of the fact that there is a wealth of excellent non-English gay films which were ignored. But that's what happens when agenda takes precedence over reality.
My list of GAY films worth a sticky:
Any film by Ferzan Ozpetek
Dear Ex (Taiwan)
Contracorriente (Peru)
Rialto (Ireland)
The Sum of Us (Australia)
Sorry Angel (France)
Tenue de soirée (France)
by Anonymous | reply 30 | December 3, 2022 4:42 AM |
The one about the two guys who were Mormons (I think). Can't remember the name of it. I think one of the actors was named Steve something or other. Anyway, that was a good one.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | December 3, 2022 4:54 AM |
My top 5:
Beautiful Thing
Being 17
The Skin I Live In
And Then We Danced
Free Fall
by Anonymous | reply 32 | December 3, 2022 5:01 AM |
British gay films are usually the best.
That was The Falls trilogy R31. There are 3 films in the series.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | December 3, 2022 5:07 AM |
Where is Jeanne Dielman when you need her?
by Anonymous | reply 34 | December 3, 2022 5:15 AM |
No offense, but they need separate categories for Lesbian movies and Gay (men) movies. No lesbian is going to find Brokeback Mountain entertaining. The same way I feel about Boys don't Cry.
by Anonymous | reply 35 | December 3, 2022 5:22 AM |
Besides the titles I knew were going to be here (My Own Private Idaho, Boys Don't Cry, Brokeback Mountain, Maurice, the original Boys in the Band), I'm glad to see Bad Education, All About My Mother, and The Terence Davies Trilogy. I would have replaced the last with The Long Day Closes if only one of TD's movies were to be included, but I see their reasoning. The character grows up in the Trilogy, so his homosexuality is more overtly presented.
Love and Death on Long Island (with John Hurt) is one I wish I had been included. I hated Trick, so I'm fine with that omission.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | December 3, 2022 5:23 AM |
The list isn't in any way cohesive, and yes there are too many "blokes in frocks" and trans subjects -- both formerly tagged #gayinterest when any crumb that fell from the table was deemed close enough
What would have been my first choice, Andrew Haigh's "Week-End" came in at #14, but the ordering, too, has a lot of randomness to it
by Anonymous | reply 37 | December 3, 2022 5:33 AM |
"The Mystery of Alexina" should be on the list. Directed by René Féret and centered upon the intersex memoirist Herculine Barbin, it's quite moving. The male/female Barbin is effectively played by Philippe Vuillemin, who later became an accomplished cartoonist. I think the movie i on YouTube. It's well worth a watch.
by Anonymous | reply 38 | December 3, 2022 5:43 AM |
I don't know if it would go on this list, but I always enjoyed My Summer of Love (with a young Emily Blunt. The atmosphere (an oppressive summer) is really well done, and the Goldfrapp soundtrack works really well. Yet again another lesbian film that this gay guy enjoyed a lot.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | December 3, 2022 7:04 AM |
My favourite was Shelter, but you know everyone is white, no guy where a dress, no-one wants to be in drag and we know that's not allowed, of course. Nothing can be viewed in any cultural context and has to be cancelled.
It also has a happy ending which is another no no for those gays where everything must be TRAGIC and everything must end in tragedy!
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