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PnP & Chemsex On the Rise with Gay Men 65+ In England

The number of STDs registered among those over 65 years of age increased from 2,280 in 2017 to 2,748 in 2019 – an increase of 20%. The largest increases were in gonorrhea and chlamydia.

“This has greatly affected the volume and complexity of the work that sexual health services deal with. Chemsex interactions have increased… This has directly led to increased attendance at sexual health clinics, particularly in towns/urban centres,” the LGA report said.

Why would men old enough to be a grandfather be involved in PnP & Chemsex

That makes no sense - does anyone on DL have any inside info about this?

by Anonymousreply 31November 18, 2022 6:06 AM

Slow down grandpa! Don’t you know your best days are behind you?

by Anonymousreply 1November 15, 2022 11:45 PM

Death Wish

by Anonymousreply 2November 15, 2022 11:49 PM

Gay marriage was always for lesbians. Gay men don't do commitment/long term relationships. Only casual sucking & fucking.

by Anonymousreply 3November 15, 2022 11:54 PM

You bunch of Marys. Of course, old men enjoy sex and seek it out. As for chemsex, so fuckin' what? You kids ....

by Anonymousreply 4November 15, 2022 11:56 PM

What's their chem of choice? Meth? Viagra of course is one.

by Anonymousreply 5November 15, 2022 11:56 PM

[quote] . Of course, old men enjoy sex and seek it out.

Shouldn't they be in their rocking chair at age 65?

by Anonymousreply 6November 15, 2022 11:59 PM

I mean to those who go to these Chem Sex / pnp parties

How often do you see men 65+ at these parties

by Anonymousreply 7November 16, 2022 12:00 AM

I just turned 60, I work out and I look good, but I really have virtually no desire ever to have sex again. The libido's just not there. I know that's not true for everyone, but if you're doing PnP and chemsex at age 65, it's because you're desperately bored and lonely and forcing yourself to have sex so you don't feel dead.

by Anonymousreply 8November 16, 2022 12:06 AM

What happens when you mix Viagra with these party drugs?

by Anonymousreply 9November 16, 2022 12:58 AM

R9, you get the entire pre-nup.

by Anonymousreply 10November 16, 2022 2:22 AM

Maybe it wasn’t that many men with the 2700 cases. Maybe it was 10 absolute whores with 270 cases each.

by Anonymousreply 11November 16, 2022 2:25 AM

Icky Bad!

by Anonymousreply 12November 16, 2022 4:00 AM

[quote]I just turned 60, I work out and I look good, but I really have virtually no desire ever to have sex again.

Twenty on the elliptical with some ankle weights isn't cutting it. Sounds like you have low testosterone, babe.

Look into some low-level HRT. Restoring some of that testosterone will get rid of foggy brain, zero libido, irritability, and you will have a greater sense of well being. Look into it.

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by Anonymousreply 13November 16, 2022 4:10 AM

R13 and along with the benefits of testosterone therapy comes a high risk of cancer !!!!

by Anonymousreply 14November 16, 2022 5:03 AM

[quote]Look into some low-level HRT. Restoring some of that testosterone will get rid of foggy brain, zero libido, irritability, and you will have a greater sense of well being.

What gave you the impression I was worried about my low libido? It's a huge relief not to deal with it. And I don't have foggy brain, irritability, etc., thanks.

by Anonymousreply 15November 16, 2022 5:32 AM

Being of a certain age and attending drug-fueled orgies doesn’t paint a pretty picture. Even worse since these are English men they’re talking about.

by Anonymousreply 16November 16, 2022 6:18 AM

The only way you are hot and sexy and desirable at 65 is thanks to your girlfriend Tina and Gina. Now pass the tourniquet.

by Anonymousreply 17November 16, 2022 6:22 AM

I find 65 year old men hot. Or I can.

Where do I find this druggie daddies?

by Anonymousreply 18November 16, 2022 7:08 AM

^^these not this^^^

by Anonymousreply 19November 16, 2022 7:08 AM

That's my pussycat, fun, fun, fun.

by Anonymousreply 20November 16, 2022 7:15 AM

Hold my beer.

by Anonymousreply 21November 16, 2022 7:22 AM

England's latest statistics on matters on infectious disease are from 3 years ago?

Why bother?

by Anonymousreply 22November 16, 2022 7:44 AM

Has it not occurred to some of you laddies that old men set up their own chemsex parties with men of their own age and men who appreciate daddy types?

by Anonymousreply 23November 16, 2022 2:53 PM

Stupidity and vanity can be fatal at any age.

by Anonymousreply 24November 16, 2022 4:13 PM

who are these men?

by Anonymousreply 25November 16, 2022 11:00 PM

The obituaries will tell you soon enough.

by Anonymousreply 26November 17, 2022 1:01 PM

Be careful OP! Be very careful. This may lead to a discussion about prep usage fueling the increase in STI diagnoses, which will really trigger the resident prep troll.

by Anonymousreply 27November 17, 2022 1:12 PM

[quote]Why would men old enough to be a grandfather be involved in PnP & Chemsex...That makes no sense - does anyone on DL have any inside info about this?

One explanation:

If you're 65 years old, you were born in the late 1950s. That means you were in your 30s at the height of the AIDS epidemic, but likely experienced the sexual freedom of the 1970s.

Now that Prep is more widely available and people have gotten over the initial reticence from PTSD-esque survival of the AIDS=death trauma, and as folks get older and have no Fs to give, they're likely wanting to experience the freedom of their youth.

Or, they're just a bunch of whores, darlin'.

by Anonymousreply 28November 17, 2022 1:20 PM

Let stupid be fatal the way nature intended.

by Anonymousreply 29November 18, 2022 5:32 AM

[quote]I find 65 year old men hot. Or I can.

Same here. My ex turns 65 next year and he's still very good looking. Still gets hit up a lot on Grindr when he bothers to open it.

Honestly, I hope they are being safe and taking care of themselves but other than that: awesome for them! Still being sexually active as you get older is a fantastic thing. I don't know why so many people act like the right thing to do is to stop fucking at, what, age 35-40 or something?

In real life people who wish to keep fucking no matter how old they get. And it's a wonderful thing.

The only thing, as I said above, is that I hope they're taking care. These chemsex parties could be potentially dangerous for them. But at the same time, their life, their choice.

I hope when I'm 65 I'm still getting laid.

by Anonymousreply 30November 18, 2022 5:53 AM

Should be a grandpa… for shame. No Christmas Specials for you!

by Anonymousreply 31November 18, 2022 6:06 AM
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