Dudes that aren’t into kissing or making out

You're a whore looking for other whores, darlin'. Whores don't kiss. Too personal.

You "literally ask," huh? I think you might be the problem, OP.

WHO, not that.

I always tell guys what I'm into including kissing before we meet. Some men don't like kissing because they just want to cum and not have any emotional intimacy. Kissing can cause feelings to catch.

I meet a lot of randoms. taking their dick in my mouth is quite enough, thank you, I don't need to have the tongue as well

Guys on the “DL” usually aren’t into kissing. They just want to fuck with no intimacy.

In all my years of being a whore, I've NEVER met a guy who didn't want to kiss. I've met guys who don't do anal unless it's with a romantic partner, but never not kissed. That's so... different. I would be disappointed. Kissing is one of my favourite things to do.

You have to pay extra for that OP

And I think r4 deserves a Mary! for suggesting kissing is emotional intimacy

Kissing is hot. I love doing it, and I love watching guys do it. But I totally understand hookups not kissing. Not that random sex partners can't kiss - many do. But if they don't want to and want to get on to the thick of it and/or think it's too intimate, I'm not going to be surprised or frustrated by it,

Look in the mirror, OP.

I'd rather have a no-kisser than a bad-kisser. The last couple hookups I had in the pre-COVID days were all terrible. One guy, who had boasted about being "a great kisser" kept his mouth open as wide as a bass and occasionally made a "gulping" motion with his lips, but used no tongue at all.

I'd say most guys are not into it.

Long as he lets me eat his ass I'm fine!

Kissing is the most important sexual activity. It takes the temperature in room. I have met lots of guys who didn’t want to kiss. I have stopped having sex because of a lack of kissing. If I meet a good kisser I could get off from the kissing alone. I hate when porn guys don’t kiss or kiss badly. It tells me so much about them, and it’s a turn-off. And just as an aside, every “straight “ guy I was with kissed. It was only the gay guys who sometimes refused.

R14 You sound "challenged."

[quote]If I meet a good kisser I could get off from the kissing alone.

Me too.

I once connected with a very hot guy out of my league who LOVED having his smooth, pink (super clean) hole licked and I was more than happy to oblige. However, every few seconds I would come up and very lightly brush his lips with mine. He would turn away at first, but the more I slurped on his bum, I insisted he gradually let me fully kiss him and eventually he couldn't get enough of passionately sucking hard on my tongue.

We both got what we really wanted.

A lot of closet cases seem to think if there's no kissing or any other form on intimacy between two males, it's not the homosex.

It sounds like it's just you, OP. Many people with bad breath don't realize it. You certainly have it.

I had a great fuck bud who would fuck me in a sling over our many encounters.

One time, when he was about to cum, he leaned down and kissed me.

It was terrible—his jaw was just too tight. That was the last time I saw him.

They should have this tattooed on their forehead.

Sex without kissing is like eating without tasting.

Kissing is foreplay! No foreplay anymore?

[quote]R11 One guy who had boasted about being "a great kisser" kept his mouth open as wide as a bass and occasionally made a "gulping" motion with his lips, but used no tongue at all.

This is haunting. Like a horror movie scene!

Those are those straight men who have sex with men. You are not a person to them as much as a masturbation device. Tell them to get a Fleshlight.

‘That’ is perfectly fine.

There are guys online who will rim, but they won’t kiss.

WTF?

R25, oh I’ve met some great kissers who are “straight”

[Quote] There are guys online who will rim, but they won’t kiss.

Um, you don’t want to kiss those guys

Like others have said, they are (probably drunk) straight guys who just need a hole to put their dick in. Not judging, because that has been some of the best fucks of my life.

Run like the wind from guys that aren't into kissing.

OP it’s your shit breath.

Kissing is gross.

I am very weary of any guy who thinks kissing is “weird”

I’m not sure in my experience there’s been a correlation btwn disinterest in kissing and being DL / “straight” / overly masc etc. As a few posters mentioned almost all of the masc DL guys I’ve been with were all excellent and enthusiastic kissers.

I will never understand this! My lips are wired to my dick, and all of my best hookups have been with guys who were also very turned on by kissing.

It funny until the early 90s, kissing was almost absent from gay porn.

I like kissing when I'm attracted to a guy and feeling a sense of intimacy. Sometimes when I'm horny and just looking for junk food sex and I pull someone off an app who is good enough for the moment, I don't feel like kissing.

I've kissed more straight-identified dudes than gay ones

I have a fat, not particularly handsome fuck buddy who curls my toes with his kissing. I could do that with him forever. Especially while he’s fucking me with his monster cock

R32 It’s amazing that such great rock ‘n’ roll could come out of that scrawny nerd.

R40 That is because you are a big fat tranny.

Somethin’ WRONG with trannies?

Bump

Hot

Could this be a collateral of COVID, in part?

How do you deal with halitosis?

Have never kissed (30), and don't think I want to, because by at least half of all accounts it's fucking gross and rarely good.

It's the face-licking that should be outlawed. I mean, just, WHY.

guys feel kissing should be saved for someone you really care about, it is that intimate

getting blow-job, you can get anytime. But kissing is more intimate

You'd think it would be the other way around!

I dunno, I love kissing and would kiss most guys, even if there was no intention to progress to sex. Though it's best when it does. It's a bit like hugging, I just love hugging men, irrespective of whether I want to sleep with them or not

R52=Jack Grealish

So many men have bad dental hygiene. I don’t want their white-coated tongues anywhere near my mouth.

I would rarely if ever kiss a trick and neither I nor the eldergay are into much kissing, on the other hand I just may suck a dick and and swallow, go figure.

Closetcases with major repressed issues re: being gay.

"What do you get when you kiss a guy?

You get enough germs to catch pneumonia.

After you do, he'll never phone ya."

It's Julia's fault...in Pretty Woman.

If they won't kiss me, I ain't puttin out.

R54 same. You just know you're getting sick from that a day or two later, and that will tarnish any nice memories of the sex or the makeout anyway.