Gaysians have it worse than all of you

Here we go... Another sad tale of woe and misery by some random Asian gay upset that white gay men won't give him the time of day.

As a white guy, I love Asian guys and not in a weird fetish way. I just love to rim their smooth tasty holes.

I've dated Asian men. Not every white guy looks past.

Rufus, why are you on Grindr to start with ? Is Blake not giving it to you often enough ? I thought you were the real deal. What would Mrs Funston say ?

Not in Honolulu. We love our gay brothers and lesbian sistahs.

Pics or you're trolling

OP, date other Asian guys. Listen to K-pop and watch Asian dramas to start decolonizing your tastes.

K-pop in particular worked for me and kind of saved my life. I'm only into Asian guys now.

Will in Hawaii is someone I'd love to bang

As with other minorities such as the coloureds, there is a finite subset of whites (European non-Hispanic or even Latino) who are interested in Asians. This goes across board for straights and gays. Majority of whites from either sexual preference tend to stick to their own kind.

African-American snow queens have been moaning for ages how they were discriminated by overall gay community (read whites). What many really meant was they couldn't pull a white/European gay much less find one interested in any sort of long term romantic relationship.

Sum Ting Wong?

Peruvian Asians are the BEST. I’ve also met gorgeous Cuban and Puerto Rican Asians that put any White guy to shame.

OP, sign up for Viki and start streaming their top shows. Change your taste.

More Gaysian and less Whinylittlebitch, okay OP?

But you're not attractive, OP. Not particularly sexy. Not very charismatic. Rather boring.

[quote]Why can't White Guys see past race and like us for who we are.

Why can't Gaysians see past race and like other Gaysians for who they are?

OP, I apologize for those assholes. There's no need for the racism.

They need that 'trophy'

As long as they have a job, car, their real hair, and don't love with their parents, I'm game.

I'll recommend some K-pop groups to try out. Seriously, it took me all of six months to switch to being into Asian guys only.

Group 1: Enhypen

Group 2: Exo

R8- Scene Queens are NOT hot.

Group 3: The Boyz

OP is Bowen Yang

I used to date a Chinese guy, hot body, sure he was not hung but to my surprise our first time together he wanted to top and he worked to get it. He was funny sweet and very masc. I dumped him because he was cheating, but man he was a great time..

Perhaps gay Asian men should stop idolizing white men and see the beauty in their own kind.

Group 4: TXT

Group 5: Treasure

Group 6: Stray Kids

Perhaps OP should entertain the possibility that there are factors other than race responsible for his lack of success. Having to [italic]tell[italic] people on Grindr that he's Asian suggests some possibilities...

Gay east Asians tend to reject anyone who is not white. Racism goes in all directions. Fact of life.

R28- These terms confuse me. What then is a WEST Asian?

dual (or more) minority gays often have the trouble when fighting racism within the larger gay community, they (or at least the media and sociopolitical organizations) often neglect the homophobia within their own.

They often get wrapped up in the microaggressions vs targeted hate.. far too often end up bigots themselves, with a singular targeted scapegoat. Which only serves to greater tribalism, tensions and resentments. It becomes the who not the what.

of course, flipside, to address any problems within your community, such as homophobia and other forms of bigotry, then you are targeted by the actual bigots than fan those flames and use this to incite hate towards your respective groups.

the conflicts between the opposing parties causes the rest of the people to tune out.

Personally, though, I say we go in with orgies and politically incorrect humour.

R29, Middle Eastern is " West Asian". There's also Central Asians, South Asians, Southeast Asians, along with East Asians.

R29, here. They failed to color West Asia (the Middle East) and Central Asia differently, but you get the gist.

If they are cute and have a nice ass, my dick does not discriminate.

R29 West Asia is in brown. The Middle East.

In a bid to promote harmony, I propose we form a multi-ethnic/cultural daisy chain across America.

OP complains on DL, the most anti-Asian racist gay forum out there.

Juyeon from The Boyz. He's lovely.

Get into it, OP. Skip the first minute.

To be fair, my ex and I (both white) bumped heads a lot because he wanted to be "the man" in the relationship. And he wanted me to be "the boy", yet I was only 10 months younger than him. He kept trying to tell me what to eat, when to wake up, when to go to bed, when we should meet up. It was exhausting, and he wasn't even that masculine, just bossy. Anyways he dumped me for a skinny Asian guy, and they seem to be happy. So I'm sure there are a lot of guys like my ex who target Gaysians and are looking for a specific power dynamic in their relationship,

I've always suspected this to be the case OP. You have my sympathies.

Honestly, there's someone for everyone, but yeah...it must be hard. I find white guys into Asian culture kind of weird, generally. They're either way too into Anime or kink. Honestly, I find Asian culture kind of weird too. The foods, the TV shows, the formality, the languages...it doesn't attract me. But I've met attractive Asian people so...who knows. I say keep an open mind.

Hang in there. You could be white and disregarded because you're too short or don't have a huge upper torso or enough of a beard (or, or, or, or, or....)

I love East Asian men, especially when they have a tan! Their skin turns that beautiful dark color with a redish tint to it!

Every Asian guy I have ever known, presents as so innocent and respectful, then you get to know them and they open up and they're wildly blunt, vulgur (in a fun way) uninhibited, etc.

I had one friend, who was always trying to get me to go to the Korean Spa with him him, but I told him I was too uncomfortable being completely naked with men I don't know. He thought I was silly, so as a joke, he would answer the door completely naked when he knew I was dropping by. He would also recruit his roommate to walk through the room naked whenever I was over! (Sometimes with erections!)

[quote] I dreamt about you last night

[quote] And I fell out of bed twice

[quote] You can pin and mount me like a butterfly

'Mr' Andy Ngo cannot be 'liked for who he is.'

The far right is unattractive regardless of ethnicity.

white guys and gaysians just to need to battle

no one else can do it for them, too many big booties in other groups

I’m white, my husband is Filipino (not FilAm), he’s older than me and has his own career - not some houseboy trope.

Maybe you’re just punching up on the apps above your weight, OP. Besides, apps suck in general so there’s that. Also if you’re young you’ll be treated as disposable anyway.

Asians fetishize white men a little too much, more so than any other race except Indians who are also Asian.

Funny seeing racist gaysians bitching about racist white guys.

I hang out with a few gay asian men, and the thing I found out is Asian men who exclusively date Asians are known as "sticky rice".

Carry on.

Poster spamming a bunch of k pop trash in this thread 🙄

“Decolonize and love your fellow Asians!” *proceeds to post the most bleached, femmy, white-looking try hard trope of Asians in all of Asia*

Asians understand each other better. Asians best stick with other Asians. Sticky rice rules.

Depends on where you live. I’m a Filipino and live in LA and hook up easily with others— whir, blacks, Latinos and fellow Asians. I’m actually a rice queen and prefer Asians especially other Filipinos

*whites

BLACKS?!

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If you're not OP, please ignore this. I'm actually trying to help him.

OP, this is going to be (very) harsh, but I'm Asian, I get it (I've been where you are), and I've overcome.

The problem is that you still believe in integration and the melting pot. You want to be Asian in the most superficial "boba" way (i.e., deracinated), and mix with others in your "immigrant nation" (i.e., former genocidal settler colony), right?

Stop it. Have some pride. 99% of the non-Asian guys you want don't see you as authentically human.

Have you been to East Asia? Visit and see: the future is already there. Most of ASEAN is looking pretty good, too. Asia has returned to the center of the world. Westerners are having a shit-fit about it and want to (and every day do) kill Asians because of it. Most Americans want to go to war with China (look at recent polling) and kill millions of mainland Chinese civilians (as many as possible), in truth, because they see East Asians, Chinese in particular, as "sneaky, thieving insects."

Yeah, that Yellow Peril stuff is still deeply ingrained, constantly reinforced, central to their worldview, and it's not going ever going away

Most of them don't see us as human, and most of them fucking hate us. Most of those who don't see us as human and hate us wish we were all dead, and most of those people would relish our dying as violently and painfully as possible.

Interracial dating is almost always ultimately a hollow experience: any commonalities among different races are actually pretty superficial, neoliberal integrationist rhetoric (e.g., every ad with a paired couple) notwithstanding. If you want a relationship of the greatest depth, 99% of the time you have to date someone of your respective race category (broadly: yellow, brown, white, red, and black). It's the same for people of all races. This isn't an insult: 99% it the time means you're not special; you won't find "I'd die for you" love in a white guy.

If you mainly just want to have physical intimacy and sex with non-Asian guys because you're brainwashed by Western media and presently have this seemingly immovable desire for them, just pay for it: see escorts weekly for a year—get it out of your system. Don't forget to use protection.

I really do empathize with and care about you, OP. This took me decades to understand and accept. Wake up ASAP, please, so you don't waste years in self-inflicted relative isolation and/or misery. Let me know if you need more advice about all this, and as a first step, take my advice above about consuming Asian media more.

R52, please put me on "ignore," and all the "K-pop trash" will disappear. I truly meant for those to be for OP, in my efforts to help him. They're not for third parties in this thread.

(The hair colors change for every new single, mini-album, and album: it's for novelty. Blue and pink hair is as common as every other dyejob.)

Please do put me on ignore, R52, and everyone else who's not OP.

Well intentioned gays are slightly more irritating than similar fraus. At some point you want to whack either with a cricket bat.

Another retard pretends to be Asian. OP I’m looking at you.

I like cut Asian cocks.

R58

What. The. Fuck. Are. You. Talking. About.

You obviously live in a Conspiracy Theory Echo Chamber.

Sweetie, this isn't the place for you. Move it along.

To those who posted maps of Asia: When people refer to 'Asians' they're referring to people of East and Southeast Asia. They're certainly not referring to people of the Middle East, Russia, or India. We may have to go back to using 'Oriental' to avoid confusion.

Why not just say "wog" and be done.

Wow, OP. I laughed but someone seriously asking "do you suk suk" is racist as fuck. I'm sorry you've experienced that.

I too find Asian men very sexy. I know it can feel like you're being fetishized, but trust me there are a lot of men out there who are attracted to you. Just go where you're celebrated, not tolerated.

R64, in the UK "Asians" almost always means South Asian.

Highly educated Americans commonly use the different regional labels now.

This lament AGAIN!?

At some point Asian gays need to learn a new tune other than "White Gays Bad".

How about white gays stop with shit like, " Sum Ting Wong," and " Me Love You Long Time"? We can start from there.

I agree that Gaysians have it worse. Much easier for lesbiasians.

Yes, r69, your ancient straw man arguments allow you to type this nonsense even though you're the only one smirking at it.

This was posted at the ‘Caged Cock’ thread

Seems rather emblematic

[quote]When I am on grinder the moment I tell a White Guy I am Asian

And the reason this information isn’t in your profile to begin with is because……?

If you think whitey racist towards asians the you should see how asians treated other asians.

Oh, fuck off, OP. Stop running after white men.

Decades ago, the Peruvian Asian straight guy crushing on me looked just like a young Keanu Reeves.

He had an earnest, friendly attitude and his friends called him endearingly “Chino” because of his eyes. He was a cutie and treated me like a wife, clearing my plate after eating and following me around the gym like a puppy. He had spiky, Vanta black hair and big baggy sweats and a cute butt. He was a manager at the local McDonald’s.

He broke up with his girlfriend, winking at me when he told me- but nothing ever happened between us.

Oh, my little Chino. I wonder what happened to you!

I didn’t realize John, the Program Major Book Troll (PMBT), was still starting threads here.

OP is 5'4" with 4-inch erect dong and zero personality and non-existent sense of humor, right?

Ugly Gaysian bottom or ugly black bottom, which is the bottom of the bottoms?

R9

"Coloureds"? What year do you think it is?

R79 : The bottom of the bottoms are the ones we expect to be tops.

Dating challenges aren’t exclusive to gay Asian men. Straight Asians have just as much difficulty, and often rank as the least desired (along with black women), as demonstrated by several well-publicized dating a studies.

Gay men are like women in that the top 10% of men are going to get the most attention. These men are largely (but not exclusively white), TOPS, under 40, and have good physiques.

Anyone else is going to get proportionally less interest, and in almost any gay setting there’s going to be a huge number of bottoms competing for a small number of tops.

So it’s not just you OP. Average-looking white bottoms aren’t exactly getting tons of interest either.

R9, black snow queens exist but certainly are nowhere near as prevalent as this board would suggest. The vast majority of blacks prefer blacks, both gay and straight.

Also, looks trump race every time. A good looking black or Asian guy will get more attention and hookups than an ugly or average white guy, especially in person. Unfortunately, most Asian men, and many black men in my opinion, just aren’t objectively good looking.

[quote]OP is 5'4" with 4-inch erect dong and zero personality and non-existent sense of humor, right?

R78 is a perfect example of the racism on DL.

[quote]Ugly Gaysian bottom or ugly black bottom, which is the bottom of the bottoms?

Probably you.

I'll take the Moo Goo Gai Pan with an extra egg roll please.

Keep up the Asian mockery. It's hysterical!

R83

It's so blatant. Do these racists think they're clever?

I am from Balkans and I have never known about this special brand of gay racism until I came to DL. Some comments about Asians are nasty and vile.

But I think it is probably an American thing. American, the liberal ones, which most gay men are, are so pressed to adore Blacks with this new woke ideology that they had to shift their contempt and bigotry on somebody else.

R88

Don't make excuses for racism among American, white gay men.

A tasteful albeit cringey wedding made in DL heaven.

[quote]Oh, fuck off, OP. Stop running after white men.

James Phoon, on the other hand, can run after all the white men he cares to, preferably starting with me!

That's the thing about dating, it works best if you go after guys who've indicated there is a mutual attraction!

This used to be a well-known fact before everyone got a fucking full-time job blaming strangers for having the nerve to not be attracted to them! That's the real world you weirdos! Grow up and quit chasing people who just aren't attracted to you, it is NOT THEIR FAULT, THEY'RE ALLOWED!

Among others that random Asian guy who is everywhere with Dr. Andrew Neighbors and his circle seems to have no issues finding white males. So I guess it's you OP that's got to be worried.

Have you ever seen shitty rich Asian kids eating? They fucking hate everything that could makes them big and tall. And they grow up being a midget and blame the society for their unattractiveness. You are what you eat, rice queen fugtards.

This is not RACISM, it's SCIENCE. Stop screaming RACISM when people are telling what is fucking wrong with you. Don't be so short and so thick.

As a consolation OP, I pity fuck gaysians all the time. Hmu

R79 Ugly, FAT black bottoms are at the bottom of the totem poll.

Asian tops are probably below Asian bottoms among non Asians because most rice queens want Asian bottoms.

Why date White guys then, OP? Do you fetishize Whites?

Why are people using lowecase on "white," but using uppercase on "Asian," "Black," "Hispanic" and "Latino?"

Notice how PoC always complain about Whites, but all want a White boyfriend/girlfriend lol? Billy Porter called for the eradication of White people on the red carpet while clutching his WHITE boyfriend's hand. Reverse the races and he would have been arrested.

Gaysians are racist and refuse to date other Asians and are rude and ignore darker skinned guys. At least many black and Latino gays will date their own. Gaysians are so desperate for white dick. Asians never get called out for their blatant self-hate and colorism. I have Asian friends and they tell me how their parents basically worship white people, make fun of dark-skinned Asians and other races and instill that into their kids.

Many gay men like many straight men have delusional thinking of their own attractiveness. As you can see on hookup apps where fat ugly bottoms send asshole pics to everyone and will demand a response immediately. They always assume others are the problem rather than themselves. Any man with a handsome face and six pack abs can get laid easily regardless of skin color. So it's not really racism and it's insulting to insinuate that when actual racism exists in the world. Nobody is obligated to fuck those they aren't attracted to. And these picky bottoms never fuck people of their own race or body type.

R92

That's too easy. Some people's sense of who is attractive derives from unexamined or internalized racism. They don't just "happen" to find entire races of people unappealing. Someone else in this thread said that in his "objective" opinion (newsflash: all opinions are subjective) that all Asians were ugly. It's classic racism to tell a member of a minority group that the problem isn't societal but results from his not being realistic about his own failings.

R98

It's a style convention that many publications have adopted in recent years.

r96 Nonsense! You will be surprise how majority of rice queen are actually vers/bottoms and sub. Even the sissiest Asian expected to top their limp-dicked middle age daddy.

Asians were sought after when they were scarce in western societies

Me love you long time...

Butterfly!

R102 that's true about some. But Asians tend to have very effeminate features (smooth hairless skin, full lips, small noses and short) and that's probably where the lack of attraction to Asian men comes from. Conversely, Asian women are considered quite pretty (while young, at least).

Another point to consider is how large the Asian population is, they are considered a dime a dozen so not unique looking either.

As a white guy, I love Asian guys and not in a weird fetish way. I just love to rim their smooth tasty holes.

r2 Uh, dude, you just described Asians in a "weird fetish way".

R58 Good advice, everyone please ignore this insane plea for racial purity and segregation.

R17 STOP spamming this thread with Korean plastic surgery monster with no discernible talents. Are you a 14-year-old girl or something?

Hey OP! Eat your heart out bitch!

R111, please block me, as I'm blocking you right now. TIA.

No one likes an officious Karen.

FOB and FOB! What is FOB?

fresh off the boat.

Grow a beard. Seriously. Way too many Asian guys think, "I can't grow facial hair", and have apparently never heard of Samurai, almost everyone associated with the Mongols, or half the Asian-American guys in California.

Hit the gym. You're no less-capable of getting buff than anyone else... and if you want to be gay & have a meaningful sex life after age 35, it's *essential* that you hit the gym (and if you're already over 35, get a prescription for testosterone. EVERYBODY's T level crashes mid-30s, regardless of ancestry).

Grow a beard, hit the gym, and in a year or two, you'll have guys constantly hitting you up on Scruff.

R110, you're not Asian, are you? Are you triggered because I hit a nerve, pointing out your deeply ingrained, tenuously sublimated hatred of Asians? You can't honestly tell me you're not champing at the bit for war with China.

Even if you are Asian, you have no idea about the experiences and other bases on which I developed my point of view. Calling it "segregation" means nothing: what matters is that my advice works for me, and may help other Asians like OP.

Racial and ethnic minority communities, and indigenous peoples, survive among majorities who want them dead thanks to what you call "segregation."

The nullification of minorites' racial and ethnic identities and traditions in the name of "integration" and "individual freedom" (i.e., neoliberalism) results in deracinated, atomized individuals distanced or even cut off from family, community, and inherited identity, who are as a result more vulnerable to violence and annihilation.

I'm blocking you now.

Smoking hot Asian guys:

It’s not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean

Me so horny

Japanese men can actually grow thick beards due to their Ainu DNA look at Hiroshi Abe and Toshiro Mifune. Korean men can get pretty damn tall and muscular due to higher Northern Mongol DNA like Rain and Rick Yune. Mongolians are extremely masculine and have a wrestling culture. Turkmen of Central Asia and parts of Turkey and Iran are definitely considered Asian.

Central and East Asians have a lot of genetic diversity in height, muscularity and skin tone just like Central Africans and African diaspora. So it is odd to sweep millions of people under a blanket.

Asian American men who are second or third generation tend to be more Americanized so get into bodybuilding and socializing with other groups rather than studying and being more insular like their parents.