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Why are Midwesterners considered "nice?"

Can we call bullshit on this idea that the Midwest is full of pure souls and kindheartedness? Bunch of Trump-loving, hateful white people. They can learn something from NY or California about kindness and tolerance.

by Anonymousreply 63October 25, 2022 1:18 PM

Who said they were nice? You seem like kind of a dick

by Anonymousreply 1October 23, 2022 4:53 AM

I’m a Canadian and have always found southerners and midwesterners to be the kindest Americans. They have good manners and I like them more than Canadians.

by Anonymousreply 2October 23, 2022 4:56 AM

R2, good manners? loool You should hear what they say behind closed doors.

by Anonymousreply 3October 23, 2022 4:59 AM

According to this survey, the rudest states are mostly on the east coast.

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by Anonymousreply 4October 23, 2022 4:59 AM

^ Also, of course Hawaii has the chillest/most polite people. [bold]They live in fucking Hawaii[/bold]. They're basically on a permanent vacation. -_-

by Anonymousreply 5October 23, 2022 5:01 AM

Um they aren’t?

I don’t think they are considered anymore nice than other areas Of The country

by Anonymousreply 6October 23, 2022 5:05 AM

Kiss my ass, OP.

by Anonymousreply 7October 23, 2022 5:07 AM

No matter what their geographic location, I believe that people (unless clinically deranged) will instinctively behave well towards others who exhibit politeness and kindness. It goes both ways.

by Anonymousreply 8October 23, 2022 5:08 AM

Being blunt or impatient like east coasters are far lesser evils than wanting a fanatically religious or Klan-modelled state government like middle America.

by Anonymousreply 9October 23, 2022 5:09 AM

Wasn't CA settled by Okies and Mexicans?

And NYC still has that Liberal Jew thang hanging on.

The Rust Belt blue collars used to be Democrats, but they want to be invited to the rich Republican boys' frat party now.

by Anonymousreply 10October 23, 2022 5:10 AM

They're not. Actually in Iowa they are actually really nice, but the upper Midwest is filled with passive aggressive losers from both parties.

by Anonymousreply 11October 23, 2022 5:15 AM

"Midwestern nice" specifically refers to politeness and surface-level helpfulness in public. It was never intended to mean that Midwesterners were nice behind closed doors.

by Anonymousreply 12October 23, 2022 5:20 AM

I've never heard the term "Midwestern nice". I have heard "Minnesota nice" though.

by Anonymousreply 13October 23, 2022 5:27 AM

I don't know if it's a term, I was just trying to discuss OP's topic. Maybe I should have put only "nice" in quotes and not "Midwestern" as well.

by Anonymousreply 14October 23, 2022 5:31 AM

Minnesota nice = passive aggressive. Minnesota has the WORST people.

by Anonymousreply 15October 23, 2022 5:33 AM

Nice isn't always nice. Nice to your face...stab you in the back when turned. It's phony and throws you off. I don't trust overly "nice" people.

by Anonymousreply 16October 23, 2022 5:37 AM

Op is a race bater. Sea...

by Anonymousreply 17October 23, 2022 5:41 AM

Op=race baiter

by Anonymousreply 18October 23, 2022 5:42 AM

Imagine full-on fake friend types, with the overly loud voices and simplistic language of 2nd Grade teachers, the kind who will pull a crazy car accident face the moment they look away from you toward the friends they really have had since elementary school.

"Hi! You must be John! I'm Sarah from the yellow Craftsman across the street! Oh, thank you! Yes, we love it! It's the best street in America! You're going to love it here! The neighbors are great! Really great!

"They told you about the block party, right - in summer? And the Christmas party? It starts at my house this year! The people are great!

"Anyway, I wanted to say hi, and I'm so glad I did because I can tell we're going to be best of friends and be back and forth all the time! It's going to be so much fun! You're going to love it here!

"Have you met Bob yet? Bob and his boyfriend Mack? You have to meet them! They're great!"

Sarah will repeat this elaborate charade every time she sees you. For the rest of the life of the first of you to depart this world. Ad nauseum, and with barely a world of variation. You will never be best friends or anything more than superficially cordial neighbors. She will never introduce you to Bob and Mack. They hate her guys and she doesn't really care for them like she doesn't really care for you. She's Midwestern Nice.

by Anonymousreply 19October 23, 2022 6:02 AM

Southerners are much friendlier.

by Anonymousreply 20October 23, 2022 6:06 AM

You can't be nice and elect hateful people like Ron Johnson and Josh Hawley

by Anonymousreply 21October 23, 2022 6:08 AM

Yes it’s bullshit! Can’t stand them.

by Anonymousreply 22October 23, 2022 6:08 AM

[quote]Op is a race bater.

Is Midwestern a race now?

by Anonymousreply 23October 23, 2022 6:11 AM

[quote]You can't be nice and elect hateful people like Ron Johnson and Josh Hawley

Not everyone in those states elected them, though. Fewer than half of the people in WI voted for Johnson, for example.

by Anonymousreply 24October 23, 2022 6:14 AM

R23 No. But it's a carbohydrate

by Anonymousreply 25October 23, 2022 6:15 AM

We are all carbohydrate

by Anonymousreply 26October 23, 2022 6:23 AM

I have a shitty job where I talk to assholes all day long and the worst people are Indian or Middle Eastern men and West Indian (Jamaica / Trinidad / Guyana) Men AND Women.

by Anonymousreply 27October 23, 2022 6:34 AM

Op lashing out on white people. Hmm. Not very mid western of him/her/(fill the blank),

by Anonymousreply 28October 23, 2022 6:39 AM

"lashing out"

by Anonymousreply 29October 23, 2022 6:41 AM

Master baiter.

by Anonymousreply 30October 23, 2022 6:44 AM

[quote]Is Midwestern a race now?

No but referring to white people this way is bigoted and an inaccurate representation of a whole race of people simply because of their race.....you know, like racism:

[quote]Bunch of Trump-loving, hateful white people

by Anonymousreply 31October 23, 2022 6:46 AM

Busted.

by Anonymousreply 32October 23, 2022 6:50 AM

Because they would never start a thread like this, eener. Talk about the kaween of generalizations.

by Anonymousreply 33October 23, 2022 6:53 AM

OP is a blatant racist. Denigrating or making hateful characterizations about someone because of the color of their skin is racist. There are no exceptions.

by Anonymousreply 34October 23, 2022 6:53 AM

Muriel would not let me use an alternative spelling for Edw**ner^

by Anonymousreply 35October 23, 2022 6:54 AM

A lot of the Midwest is purple rather than red. Yes they do have some far righters. I have found them to be much nicer people generally than people in say, D.C. or Boston. I may for the most part be more politically aligned with those cities but the constant rancid, sullen sourness does get tiring sometimes. As for the so-called fakeness, I'm aware that the cashier ringing up my bottled water is not my newest best friend just because they asked me how my day was. But it beats a pointlessly nasty attitude.

by Anonymousreply 36October 23, 2022 7:01 AM

Same with Canadians. The notion that they are so nice and polite is *so* far off the mark. They are also ignorant racists. I own an international travel-based company with a Canadian clientele, and I consider them among the worst.

by Anonymousreply 37October 23, 2022 8:09 AM

Trust me, they aren’t…

by Anonymousreply 38October 23, 2022 12:48 PM

At least on the east coast people are more direct and rude to your face which translates into knowing what they want/how they feel.

I think it’s more fake nice in the Midwest. Passive aggressiveness

by Anonymousreply 39October 23, 2022 1:03 PM

I’m Midwestern and I’m not nice

by Anonymousreply 40October 23, 2022 1:06 PM

Better than the Seattle Freeze and Bay Area Smug.

by Anonymousreply 41October 23, 2022 1:16 PM

Chicagoan here. For what it's worth, I think Chicagoans are overall more pleasant but less friendly than New Yorkers if that makes sense. I think Wisconsinites are much friendlier (but more rough around the edges) than Minnesotans. To be honest, the only flat-out humiliating state in the Midwest is Indiana. Truly America's nasty armpit. If Florida didn't have Miami and it was in the Midwest, it would be Indiana. I wouldn't wish that on anyone. It's the most blood-red state in the region and it's like walking into a time warp if you visit any of the towns/cities in the state.

by Anonymousreply 42October 23, 2022 3:44 PM

They're just nice. They're not good, they're not bad, they're just *nice*.

by Anonymousreply 43October 23, 2022 4:29 PM

My mom and I are 💯 Midwestern. We’re what you call nicty. Nice and nasty.

by Anonymousreply 44October 23, 2022 8:52 PM

Southerners are the nicest by far and Midwesterner’s are second. I know on the inside most people are assholes but I’d rather deal with a person who has manners. We don’t have to be friends but I don’t want to deal with someone going out of their way to be an asshole. Agree that Canadians are assholes especially people in Ontario and Quebec.

by Anonymousreply 45October 23, 2022 11:50 PM

Oh hun, don't you know that outside of L.A. and S.F. (S.D. is slowly turning purple), California is rife with racists? In 2020, it was number one with the most hate crimes, with Nebraska being #2.

by Anonymousreply 46October 24, 2022 12:05 AM

[quote]referring to white people this way is bigoted and an inaccurate representation of a whole race of people

Not all Midwesterners are white. You're the one giving "an inaccurate representation" here.

by Anonymousreply 47October 24, 2022 12:08 AM

I’m a bitch

by Anonymousreply 48October 24, 2022 12:10 AM

OP, does it occur to you that [bold]YOU'RE[/bold] even less nice?

by Anonymousreply 49October 24, 2022 12:11 AM

[quote]OP is a blatant racist. Denigrating or making hateful characterizations about someone because of the color of their skin is racist. There are no exceptions.

OP did not say which Midwesterners were being referred to. No one's skin color was mentioned by anyone but you, trying to imply that Midwesterners are only white.

by Anonymousreply 50October 24, 2022 12:11 AM

[quote]Oh hun, don't you know that outside of L.A. and S.F. (S.D. is slowly turning purple), California is rife with racists?

Oh, hun, don't you know that INSIDE of L.A. and S.F. California is still rife with racists?

by Anonymousreply 51October 24, 2022 12:13 AM

I’m as Midwest as they come. My next door neighbor is a total bitch and so am I. We are always fighting. She’s mental. She walks past my house several times a day saying shit about me deliberately because she knows it pisses me off. My video doorbell app is full of psycho bitch’s rants. I’m going to edit them all into one video and then I’m gonna post it to FB. I’m FB friends with several neighbors and the chief of police in my city. That’ll teach psycho-twat.

by Anonymousreply 52October 24, 2022 12:26 AM

People in Chicago are much friendlier than most people in Wisconsin. Wisconsin folks are much nicer than Minnesota folk, but they are indeed very rough around the edges.

by Anonymousreply 53October 24, 2022 4:00 AM

r2

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by Anonymousreply 54October 24, 2022 4:06 AM

Southerners are the worst. Ignorant, fat, trash cunts. 🤮💩

by Anonymousreply 55October 24, 2022 4:15 AM

Gosh op. It seems as though you are the one with a problem here, you hateful bitch...

by Anonymousreply 56October 24, 2022 4:44 AM

[quote]OP did not say which Midwesterners were being referred to. No one's skin color was mentioned by anyone but you, trying to imply that Midwesterners are only white.

Really R50? OP literally denigrated white people in her post. Here it is for convenience:

[quote]Can we call bullshit on this idea that the Midwest is full of pure souls and kindheartedness? Bunch of Trump-loving, hateful white people.

So yeah, OP mentioned skin color and made it all about race.

by Anonymousreply 57October 24, 2022 4:54 AM

Well I would not say all…but there’s good and bad people regardless of what region they live in. A Midwestern bigot may speak with a different accent than one from the South or Midatlantic, but they share the same mindset, don’t they?

by Anonymousreply 58October 24, 2022 1:36 PM

Illinois looks better compared to Inbrediana.

by Anonymousreply 59October 24, 2022 4:41 PM

Stupid OP, just because New Yorkers and Californians are pretending to be woke, doesn't make them less stuffy and fake douchebags. A real peasant is always nicer than the one pretending to be classy.

by Anonymousreply 60October 24, 2022 5:01 PM

R99 I’m in Illinois and have a hardcore Dan Abrams fetish.

by Anonymousreply 61October 24, 2022 9:52 PM

R60 You made the mistake of assuming that because you don't care about something then everyone else is just "pretending to be woke". If the majority of CA wasn't sincerely progressive then they wouldn't have Newsom as governor.

by Anonymousreply 62October 25, 2022 11:28 AM

Newsom yes please

by Anonymousreply 63October 25, 2022 1:18 PM
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