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A Lesbian Mom Is Stifling Her Daughter’s Queer Sexuality & Reddit Is Reading Her the Riot Act

so, nu? any there, there

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by Anonymousreply 8October 20, 2022 8:15 AM

mom should be honest with the daughter and see what the daughter says, let the daughter choose to hide it from the parents or not?

by Anonymousreply 1October 19, 2022 4:47 PM

The article is a bit too sanctimonious for my tastes. We get it, they think the mother is wrong. But I can see how she is worried about paying her daughter's tuition. She is a single mother on a limited budget. What if the parents stop paying and it turns out the girl is just " queer" anyway ( i.e. str8 girl who wants attention). Even if she is a genuine lesbian, resources matter. It might be better to keep it from the mothers parents until graduation. You can always tell which people grew up rich and coddled. They live in worlds of moral absolutes where money just doesn't matter.

by Anonymousreply 2October 19, 2022 4:59 PM

Just tell the kid, but nobody is going to think two 14 year old girls holding hands means they are lesbians.

by Anonymousreply 3October 19, 2022 5:05 PM

99% of what you read on these relationship advice subreddits is false.

by Anonymousreply 4October 19, 2022 5:15 PM

I am more shocked by the fact that her homophobic parents are still in touch with their sinful daughter, let alone financially supporting their grandchild.

by Anonymousreply 5October 19, 2022 5:21 PM

Apparently she's in the closet and has always been, at least that's what I got from it.

And yes, it's probably fake. The only real posts on AITA subs are the Not the Asshole people lying about happened because they want people to tell them they are right.

by Anonymousreply 6October 19, 2022 5:30 PM

R6 I was at the store buying my sick elderly aunt flowers and I held up the line for about a minute while I made a donation to a children's cancer charity. The cashier asks everyone but most people ( except me) say no. The other customers rolled their eyes at me! Am I The Asshole?

by Anonymousreply 7October 19, 2022 5:40 PM

Why is she assuming what her daughter's sexuality is?

by Anonymousreply 8October 20, 2022 8:15 AM
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