Actually, there are a few "professionals" on DL who HAVE weighed in on the issues so glaringly displayed by the players in this saga. And some of us actually KNOW some professionals who have weighed in on it.
And Diana was in counselling for some time. But it didn't help, any more than it seems to have helped her younger son, who, by this own public statements, has experienced either three or seven or five years of therapy depending on which year's admission he made.
Harry Windsor, who went on television and stated that now that his (25 years' dead) mother has "finished helping to set my brother up [sic] is now helping me", I think has given us all enough to go on regarding his maturity and mental health. He's fucking 38 years old, a married father of two, and he's still enmeshed in his obsession with his dead mother.
Diana's long-chronicled habit of historical rewrite, and her stalking of Oliver Hoare, are on the public record.
They aren't rumours. The "rewrite" is evident in how she looked back on her wedding when things went south and she described feeling like the "lamb to the slaughter" forgetting that the people around her getting her ready for the Big Day, described her driving a tricycle up and down the corridor tooting the horn and singing joyously, "I'm marrying the Prince of Wales tomorrow! I'm marrying the Prince of Wales tomorrow!" and exhibiting nothing but ecstatic triumphalism.
Oliver Hoare, who passed away in 2018 of cancer, was one of the world's leading art dealers in Islamic art. He had a brief affair with Diana whilst married (one of the several married men Diana indulged herself with). Here is an excerpt on the "nuisance phone calls" that you claim are nothing but rumours:
"It was January 13, 1994 and this was the log of calls made to the home of art dealer Oliver Hoare and his wife Diane de Waldner de Freundstein.
Starting the year before, the couple began receiving nuisance phone calls. Sometimes they were greeted with silence, while on another instance, de Waldner de Freundstein picked up the phone to hear someone screaming abuse at her.
" . . . So, by January 1994, she had had enough. According to reports, she called the police who placed a tracker on the phone. (Oliver was an Islamic art dealer and some have claimed that she feared that terrorist forces were behind this oral assault.)
The authorities soon realised the calls were coming from one of the most famous homes in the world — Kensington Palace. Their investigation also revealed that the 300-odd calls had also come from pay phones in Kensington and Notting Hill, the home of Lady Sarah McCorquodale and, most damningly, the mobile phone belonging to none other than Diana, Princess of Wales."
You might want to do some research before posting, because you absolutely cannot BEAR the thought that people you worship might actually have done some very nasty things that would shake your worldview.