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I am obsessed with a country singer

There is a country singer that I find to handsome for words. I constantly download pictures of him like a teenager girl. Oddly I can’t stand his singing career. He isn’t a bad singer -just a boring, emotionless one. And his music is crap- bro country that follows trends. I have even seen him in concert and thought he sucked- unmemorable. But I can’t take my eyes off him. I am adult most days but this guy just hits some deep desire in me. And of course I will never meet him because that’s not me but always from afar. I don’t know if he is gay or not. Don’t know if I care.

by Anonymousreply 41October 12, 2022 8:19 PM

Is it Willie Nelson?

by Anonymousreply 1September 19, 2022 8:37 PM

Kenny Rogers

by Anonymousreply 2September 19, 2022 8:39 PM

Glen Campbell ?

by Anonymousreply 3September 19, 2022 8:39 PM

Why on earth would you not give us a name? Jesus.

by Anonymousreply 4September 19, 2022 8:41 PM

Little Jimmy Dickens.

by Anonymousreply 5September 19, 2022 8:41 PM

Stringbean.

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by Anonymousreply 6September 19, 2022 8:47 PM

If he's a country singer he's probably a big homophobe, OP.

by Anonymousreply 7September 19, 2022 8:48 PM

I don't like Garth Brooks!

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by Anonymousreply 8September 19, 2022 8:51 PM
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by Anonymousreply 9September 19, 2022 8:52 PM

He is new country a cowboy hat

by Anonymousreply 10September 19, 2022 11:24 PM

I'm obsessed with Jimmy Dean breakfast nuggets.

by Anonymousreply 11September 19, 2022 11:31 PM

OP what is his name? I find many of the new country singers are average looking white guys so for you to say this one is that handsome I’m curious.

by Anonymousreply 12October 11, 2022 10:53 PM

Op’s never going to tell you his name. That was the point of his thread.

by Anonymousreply 13October 11, 2022 10:57 PM

Hootie

by Anonymousreply 14October 11, 2022 10:58 PM

I have a friend who’s a folksinger.

by Anonymousreply 15October 11, 2022 11:00 PM

It's Morgan Waller and he hates fags.

by Anonymousreply 16October 11, 2022 11:00 PM

I hate you OP, I hope you die in a grease fire.

by Anonymousreply 17October 11, 2022 11:00 PM

Obsessions are a way of of deflection. It’s a coping mechanism.

If you’re mentally OK, you get over it as soon as you’re ready to face your issues.

It’s not a big deal.

It only becomes a big deal if you become paralyzed by your obsession, or act on it in an inappropriate and/or unlawful way.

Otherwise, everyone moves on.

NBD.

by Anonymousreply 18October 11, 2022 11:03 PM

that was uncalled for r17

by Anonymousreply 19October 11, 2022 11:04 PM

Dustin Lynch

by Anonymousreply 20October 11, 2022 11:25 PM

Bloody well about time.

by Anonymousreply 21October 11, 2022 11:30 PM

Hank Williams III?

by Anonymousreply 22October 11, 2022 11:47 PM

You’re in luck, OP!

Dustin pings to high heaven, so you have a shot.

by Anonymousreply 23October 11, 2022 11:51 PM

Hmm. Yeah he is cute. Nice smile, nice arms. He does ping but I feel like his ass would be a bit better if he were actually gay. It's nice in a bro split/tight jeans kind of way. Not like he puts in work to get that thing perked up.

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by Anonymousreply 24October 12, 2022 12:27 AM

Sometimes he pings- other times he doesn’t. I am not sure. But his whole career feels contrived.

by Anonymousreply 25October 12, 2022 1:03 AM

R18 ooh psychoanalyze my celeb crush next! Tell me why am I hyperfixating?

Like OP I don't even admire his work or career that much, more just his general ethic and way of being and look. He isn't remotely the most handsome or incredible guy in his field (pro soccer), but I just look at him and think, "that's it, that's what I want...or want to be...or both. I just need him." His personal qualities of grit and determination appeal to me, as does his ability to show up for people and defend them, and be outspoken and productive on serious matters. So I get how OP feels, as pathetic as it sounds. And--this is a bit Woo, sorry, bear with me here--somehow it sort of feels like I know him on some metaphysical plane, or at least recognise something subatomic about him, like our souls have met before in a previous existence or something.

Would never stalk or do anything weird about it, of course, only pining from afar--I've never even been to one of his games in person (think it would be too weird and awkward). He's a married rich man with security, I'm not getting near him even if I wanted. And even if we ever did meet by chance IRL I know I'd just freeze up or run away, I'm highly avoidant and shy.

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by Anonymousreply 26October 12, 2022 1:24 AM

R26 I understand the feeling of connection with him. I feel like either I have connected or will connect with Lynch. Oddly I have been to a concert where he performed and was totally unimpressed. And yet still had the feeling of connection. Maybe what we feel is yet to be revealed, or maybe it’s all bullshit. But it’s there.

by Anonymousreply 27October 12, 2022 2:36 PM

I don’t think there’s anything unusual or harmful in your obsession, OP. While I don’t like country music and don’t find him my type, he’s a good looking guy. I understand perfectly why you’re obsessed. I’ve been attracted to people in the past and had absolutely no interest in their work or art and, in some cases, even objected to their work or art.

by Anonymousreply 28October 12, 2022 2:42 PM

It’s Sam Hunt!

by Anonymousreply 29October 12, 2022 3:28 PM

Well, I listened to "Small Town Boy" enough to learn the lyrics. Never heard anything else by him.

by Anonymousreply 30October 12, 2022 4:22 PM

[quote] that was uncalled for [R17]

R17 saved this thread from a F&F...literally. Now I am going to mark it to watch the savagery unfold.

by Anonymousreply 31October 12, 2022 4:44 PM

Hmm...Miss Gurl is selling "Cowboys" and "Angels" glassware at his official website. Shades of the gayest song ever by George Michael -- the queen of gay male pop stars.

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by Anonymousreply 32October 12, 2022 4:52 PM

Smelling cookies or counting extra chromosomes? YOU be the judge!

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by Anonymousreply 33October 12, 2022 5:43 PM

Is it Tyler Rich?

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by Anonymousreply 34October 12, 2022 6:08 PM

He is hot

by Anonymousreply 35October 12, 2022 6:10 PM

Get obsessed by Dierks Bentley instead.

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by Anonymousreply 36October 12, 2022 6:11 PM

I felt the same way about Kenny Price

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by Anonymousreply 37October 12, 2022 6:13 PM

I'm so glad someone thinks I'm a real country singer and not just a whore who will shill for anything!

Can I interest you in a pink thong?

by Anonymousreply 38October 12, 2022 6:14 PM

If you were smart you’d pick Orville Peck, he just might even fuck you and you can get off to his already extensively online nude pictures.

by Anonymousreply 39October 12, 2022 6:19 PM

OP, set your sights on Ty Herndon. You’d have better luck. He was partnered years ago, not sure about now.

by Anonymousreply 40October 12, 2022 7:34 PM

Dinks Binkley?

by Anonymousreply 41October 12, 2022 8:19 PM
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