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Straight women get valuable things from men; Gay bottoms don't

Straight women use their holes to get money, gifts, bills paid, houses, cars, vacations --everything, from their men. Gay bottoms don't get anything from their tops. How is that fair? Is there a significant enough difference between straight men and gay men that causes this discrepancy in treatment? How can we make the situation more equitable, so gay bottoms can experience an easier life that's similar to what straight women get?

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by Anonymousreply 71September 18, 2022 5:00 PM

I think gay bottoms are just easier.

by Anonymousreply 1September 17, 2022 7:06 PM

OP

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by Anonymousreply 2September 17, 2022 7:06 PM

Straight women are blessed

by Anonymousreply 3September 17, 2022 7:07 PM

I think op is out of touch and clueless.

by Anonymousreply 4September 17, 2022 7:08 PM

[quote]Straight women get valuable things from men; Gay bottoms don't

What do you think semen is? Chopped liver?

by Anonymousreply 5September 17, 2022 7:08 PM

DeFecto recycled quickly this time.

by Anonymousreply 6September 17, 2022 7:09 PM

OP is Venus Xtravaganza, back from the dead

by Anonymousreply 7September 17, 2022 7:10 PM

They can from certain partners. I know many gay men who have sugar daddy relationships where the older guy gets to have sex with a hot younger guy and the younger guy gets food, housing, gifts, etc. The same kinds of relationships can exist in the gay world.

by Anonymousreply 8September 17, 2022 7:11 PM

OP is a dumb bottom. I've been offered the world but prefer to do things for myself. I probably took your husband's cock OP if you're a woman.

by Anonymousreply 9September 17, 2022 7:13 PM

[quote]Straight women use their holes to get money, gifts, bills paid, houses, cars, vacations --everything, from their men.

So???

by Anonymousreply 10September 17, 2022 7:14 PM

OP is the ugliest thing. No rando is going to give you anything except more herpes.

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by Anonymousreply 11September 17, 2022 7:14 PM

[quote] OP is a dumb bottom. I've been offered the world but prefer to do things for myself.

Ooh, you've been to Nice and the Isle of Greece

When you sipped champagne on a yacht.

You moved like Harlow in Monte Carlo

And showed them what you've got.

You've been undressed by kings

And you've seen some things

That a woman ain't s'posed to see.

You've been to Paradise...

by Anonymousreply 12September 17, 2022 7:18 PM

That’s because gay bottoms give it away so easily and don’t make tops work for anything. Who is going to buy you gifts when you just give it away?

by Anonymousreply 13September 17, 2022 7:25 PM

You've never met any bottoms with sugar daddies? You need to get out more, seekingarrangement.com even has a men seeking men section

by Anonymousreply 14September 17, 2022 7:29 PM

Gay bottoms exist strictly for the pleasure of the top. If anyone was going to get a gift, it would be the top. Its your station in life, so get over it.

by Anonymousreply 15September 17, 2022 7:33 PM

Hey, When my top got out of the psychiatric ward he bought me a shirt that said Filthy stinking rich, two out of three ain't bad! And because it was around Christmas time he had it gift wrapped in beautiful paper from Yonkers.

by Anonymousreply 16September 17, 2022 7:34 PM

Because bottoms are a dime a dozen. No need to buy gifts. If the top has at least an average size dick, multiple bottoms will be throwing themselves at him.

by Anonymousreply 17September 17, 2022 7:44 PM

Honestly, if an anus could self-lubricate and feel the way a vagina does, tons of straight men would be into gay sex and would buy bottoms many gifts like straight women. At the end of the day, a bussy feels nothing like a wet, warm pussy. If it did, the male bisexual rate would skyrocket through the roof.

by Anonymousreply 18September 17, 2022 7:46 PM

I know a case of a very wealthy effeminate "fashion stylist" wearing extremely expensive female bags, having a luxurious penthouse etc. Nobody knows what fashion is he styling. But everybody knows that he used to style an older rich closet case (who wasn't even bad looking and seemed very masculine) who started as a politician in a conservative party and later became businessman. Since we live in a small country it was found out that the closet case had even left the wife and had moved in with "the stylist". They broke up eventualy, but the stylist got penthouse, very valuable shares of the businessman company, cash and God knows what. There were very few women in our poor country that were rewarded with such generosity as the "stylist". So, OP, there are bottoms who know how to make business.

by Anonymousreply 19September 17, 2022 7:52 PM

Then transition, OP.

by Anonymousreply 20September 17, 2022 7:57 PM

a great fuck, especially if preceded by rimming, is the greatest gift I want.

gay bottoms get pleasure

women endure the unpleasantness to get the trinkets.

by Anonymousreply 21September 17, 2022 8:10 PM

R18 you are talking nonsense. Men who like to be active partners in sex like to penetrate in the hole that is found on the person and the sex they are attracted to. No way straight men would become bi if men had vagina instead of the asshole. They don't like male body. You don't even see transmen being very saught after by straight men in spite of having vagina. Just like ugly and unattractive women can have perfect vagina, but they wouldn't be chased by hordes of men. You have vagina yet it didn't make you very popular, you are posting on gay site suterday evening.

by Anonymousreply 22September 17, 2022 8:11 PM

They get the gift that keeps on giving

by Anonymousreply 23September 17, 2022 8:15 PM

OP, straight women get preggers and have babies. Then, if the straight woman is a good one, she does a good job raising the children, keeps a decent home, and is fun to be around. As a gay man, I do not want to associated with your asinine point of view.

by Anonymousreply 24September 17, 2022 8:19 PM

Dylan Geick, Rainer Dawn and Evan Feeley would challenge this assertion, as would many other bottoms who have flown on Anthony Watson's private yet.

by Anonymousreply 25September 17, 2022 8:20 PM

Bottoms are more common than tops. Simple as that. In a gay relationship, the top has all the leave way. One time a bottom at a bar said I should buy him a drink if I wanted to fuck him. I told him that HE should buy ME the drink.

by Anonymousreply 26September 17, 2022 8:21 PM

[quote]They can from certain partners. I know many gay men who have sugar daddy relationships where the older guy gets to have sex with a hot younger guy and the younger guy gets food, housing, gifts, etc.

That's not the same, women do that too. Old CEO with young bimbo wife. You actually just pointed out a 2nd benefit to being a straight woman the OP was talking about.

by Anonymousreply 27September 17, 2022 8:23 PM

[quote]the top has all the leave way.

I despair.

by Anonymousreply 28September 17, 2022 8:25 PM

[quote]women endure the unpleasantness to get the trinkets.

Not the woman I know, it's not 1950 anymore Gramps. I currently have 2 single friends who are woman. One is 50 the other 65. They talk about wanting dick all the time. How beautiful the last guys penis was , not having a dick in their mouth in over a year etc. They enjoy sex with men, it's not a chore.

by Anonymousreply 29September 17, 2022 8:27 PM

Talk to all the boy toys who've gotten gifts from Geffen, Elton John, etc

by Anonymousreply 30September 17, 2022 8:27 PM

I don't need a top to provide for me. Mostly want to use them for one thing. Most of the time feel like kicking to the curb afterwards but don't because I might want to use them again for a late night booty call.

by Anonymousreply 31September 17, 2022 8:27 PM

Gay bottoms only get gifts when there is a significant age difference. Woman dont have that roadblock but it's also a game they play.

by Anonymousreply 32September 17, 2022 8:29 PM

Brad pitt got his start in Hollywood because he live rent free with a gay soap writer.

by Anonymousreply 33September 17, 2022 8:30 PM

Only if they're wealthy.

by Anonymousreply 34September 17, 2022 8:35 PM

R32 It is mostly the same with women, young pretty women get gift from older rich men.

It is not 19th century anymore, girlies, most women are working outside and inside if the house. Only a small number of women (mostly young snd beautiful) that catches the few percentage of rich guys are taking advantage of this relationships.

And women get more gifts cause there are more rich straight men then rich gay men. But older rich gay men are equally generous towards their toyboys.

by Anonymousreply 35September 17, 2022 8:40 PM

[quote]You don't even see transmen being very saught after by straight men in spite of having vagina.

It’s not a vagina. It’s a “front hole”.

by Anonymousreply 36September 17, 2022 8:42 PM

R18 If vaginas are so great to straight men, then why are they constantly pressuring women to do anal and why is anal one of the most searched things for straight porn?🧐

by Anonymousreply 37September 17, 2022 8:47 PM

Why dare straight men so crazy for anal sex (with women) these days?

by Anonymousreply 38September 17, 2022 8:48 PM

R38 That wasn’t the question. You said a vagina is so much better than a bussy, so I asked if it’s so great, then why are straight men constantly trying to make women do anal and constantly searching for anal porn?

by Anonymousreply 39September 17, 2022 8:51 PM

Because they know women don't like it and they're all kinda rapey.

by Anonymousreply 40September 17, 2022 8:51 PM

Woman cant get pregnant through anal. Every straight guy knows women often lie and get prego just to lock the guy into their life. Cant claim accident if it was anal.

by Anonymousreply 41September 17, 2022 8:52 PM

Giving gifts is a pleasure. It's great to see people you love happy. You should try it sometimes, OP, instead of holding out a tin cup.

by Anonymousreply 42September 17, 2022 8:55 PM

R41 you are so stupid and you know nothing about men. When it comes to sex men think with dicks and the pregnancy is one of the things "they will think of tomorrow". If they ask for ass it is the ass they want.

If they want pussy no possible disease, pregnancy etc will stop them.

by Anonymousreply 43September 17, 2022 8:56 PM

[quote]I currently have 2 single friends who are woman.

[quote]Woman dont have that roadblock

[quote]Woman cant get pregnant through anal.

🤔

by Anonymousreply 44September 17, 2022 8:58 PM

R39, this was my first post in this thread.

- r38

by Anonymousreply 45September 17, 2022 9:06 PM

R29, try telling that to all the incels who can't get laid or all the guys who went on Ashley Madison to find hot chicks looking for sex and found....no one

by Anonymousreply 46September 17, 2022 9:08 PM

I think some of yall forget on top of really liking pussy straight men actually like women, all of women. Straight guys will complain about women being bitchy, vindictive, spoiled but they the like feminine qualities women embody.

by Anonymousreply 47September 17, 2022 9:09 PM

[quote]In a gay relationship, the top has all the leave way.

Whew gurl! He was right, YOU should've bought him a drink r26

by Anonymousreply 48September 17, 2022 9:28 PM

Yes, men prefer the pussy so much more... which is why my married HTMC guy fucks his wife twice a year and me, every chance he gets.

by Anonymousreply 49September 17, 2022 9:28 PM

Its not about having a vagina, or how wet it is etc! Women trade pussy like currency, that is all. Women were possessions back in the day; they now reap the benefits because they can commodify their youth and vaginas.

Most gay men are too horny to think like that, so we just give bussy away for free to whoever wants some. But I think online sex work (Onlyfans) and the Kim Kardashian/whores are glorified culture is changing this though. Everyone wants to sell their body for a coin and wont do anything unless it's in exchange for something. CAPITALISM

by Anonymousreply 50September 17, 2022 9:38 PM

The cornerstone of straight relationships is vagina access. Men want it; women control if and when they get it. Thus the wooing and the gifts and what not.

There is no scarcity of bussy. It is plentiful and easy to obtain. No opportunity to barter for hole access with gay dudes.

by Anonymousreply 51September 17, 2022 9:46 PM

[quote]try telling that to all the incels who can't get laid or all the guys who went on Ashley Madison

Ashly Madison was a scam and most of the "women" on there were actually men and female prostitutes. They got outed in that whole hacking thing. It was also mainly a sight for cheating on your spouse. It wasn't just another straight hookup app.

by Anonymousreply 52September 17, 2022 9:51 PM

Poor OP has no idea how easy it is to find a willing bottom

by Anonymousreply 53September 17, 2022 10:09 PM

I'm praying this is satire.

by Anonymousreply 54September 17, 2022 10:11 PM

Gay bottoms to top ratio is like 10 to 1. Straight woman to straight men is 50/50 ish.

by Anonymousreply 55September 17, 2022 10:13 PM

I once had a wealthy landlord who gave his rentboys lots of tokens of his affection. .. Most common were all-expense paid vacations and pricey clothing, and yes, "rent." .. I know he also sent a few of them to see a dentist, and a couple of the more motivated guys, he helped with their college expenses.

by Anonymousreply 56September 17, 2022 10:31 PM

OP, it sounds like the only relationships you have ever known are transactional.

Straight women don't just "use their holes" as you so charmingly put it.

They get married feeling that they are in love and to create a life together. Stop being such an old cynic, OP.

by Anonymousreply 57September 17, 2022 10:45 PM

On the flip side, in many cultures, grooms receive(d) a dowry from the bride's family. I believe it's still more prevalent than the bride price.

by Anonymousreply 58September 17, 2022 11:09 PM

It's because vaginas feel that much better than assholes, Rose.

by Anonymousreply 59September 17, 2022 11:16 PM

Am I some kind of fucking JOKE to you, OP?

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by Anonymousreply 60September 17, 2022 11:20 PM

I think young tops get valuable things from old bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 61September 17, 2022 11:43 PM

[quote] I think young tops get valuable things from old bottoms.

STDs don't really have a monetary value.

by Anonymousreply 62September 18, 2022 12:21 AM

R52, that's because actual women didn't want to sign up and all hookup apps have way more men than women

by Anonymousreply 63September 18, 2022 12:23 AM

It's because women are willing to prostitute themselves to get a nice house home, car, security, etc.

by Anonymousreply 64September 18, 2022 12:27 AM

I was thinking like booze, drugs and places in which they can do the booze and drugs while the old bottom sips his drinky-poo waiting for one of them to become vulnerable.

by Anonymousreply 65September 18, 2022 12:38 AM

JESUS FOOK CAN THE MISOGYNY TROLL PLEASE TAKE A HIKE OFF LEARNEY'S CLIFF THANKS

by Anonymousreply 66September 18, 2022 1:29 AM

R54. LOL. These guys are making gay guys seem so pathetic.

by Anonymousreply 67September 18, 2022 2:09 AM

R64

You sound just like a bitter woman hooker. That's how they talk. Everything between a man and a woman is transactional and they're the only honest people because payment is explicit and up front.

by Anonymousreply 68September 18, 2022 2:58 AM

Does this include the straight women in abusive and controlling relationships, those (usually mothers) who were bullied out of their jobs and are kept in a state of financial destitution and straight women in third world hellscapes where women have no rights?

by Anonymousreply 69September 18, 2022 3:28 AM

Our stupid frau doesn't know that gay men like cock and male ass as much as straight guys like pussy. And I wouldn't agree with some posters who think that there is an abundance of bussy. I mean there is abundance of pussy too, women are struggling to find s decent partner and there are many women who are not that bad but who are alone.

The difference is the attitude towards sex. Women are not that much into casual sex and hook ups as men are. The straights are still playing the medieval game where male is chasing pussy and woman is trying to get some emotion from him before giving up. I was writing about a female friend in mid 30s who opened a Tinder profile and stated that she is into young guys. She showed me the messages from really pretty twinks whining, begging and pestering for pussy.

Gay bottoms want the same as gay tops, so they have harder time negotiating.

by Anonymousreply 70September 18, 2022 11:41 AM

Straight women are cherished and treasured; gay bottoms are disposable.

by Anonymousreply 71September 18, 2022 5:00 PM
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