Why do women get to be homophobic when it comes to dating, but homosexual men can’t be bi phobic?

Double obnoxious post, OP.

Straight-leaning bisexuals stay in the closet to avoid social exclusion by other men, not because women won't sleep with them.

I am not bi-phobic (but I will only date a bi man after he has gotten a vasectomy), however it is assumed that gays (have to) support certain things. Like LGBT as a whole, yes even the trans, that they must be leftwing and pro-sex-obsessed. So for many pro-gay/ people/liefties it is sinful to see a gay person being against "their own", a bi man. #sheep

Is OP Crazy Matt or Defuckto? Kind of hard to tell, based on the stupidity in the post.

When you are horny- you fuck. The rest is politics

I think the phobia for straight women is more about odds than about having dislike for the idea of a man sleeping with a man. It’s the perception of risk, which may not be the same as actual risk. You could have a mostly celibate bi man with no STIs whose last sexual encounter was 10 years ago, who is much lower risk than a sex addicted straight guy who hooks up with different call girls every weekend.

I became bee-phobic after seeing this.

R9 Imo, it gives the impression that women hold the power in this regard so everybody falls in line. Straight and bisexual men know to keep their desires to themselves. While bisexuals rub it in homosexuals’s faces. So it’s like homosexual get kicked down. I don’t care if it’s biphobic, I just want that type of power.

Because gay men are dead last on the social scale. Dead last.

Would you be biphobic towards him too?

Only on DL and a certain subset of old school militant gay men do I encounter gay men who wouldn’t kill at the chance to get with bi men. If anything, bi men are preferred over gay men on dating apps and on the streets amongst men seeking men. They are widely perceived as more masculine, more attractive, and less likely to have STIs and stereotypes associated with gay men.

Straight women who won’t date by men primarily reject bi men because they perceive these men as posing a disease risk to women. When women feel free to openly discuss this topic, STI risk almost always comes up. I think anyone who has sex with men should be concerned about the disease risk posed by their partner.

R10 Sorry, it sounds like he’s taken by his mother.