Guys who do gay things when they’re young

An older gay guy I know who went to the same school as I did, but many years earlier told me about how a group of boys there would get together (including him) and fuck in these abandoned properties near the school. The rest of those guys grew up and got married and then sent their kids to school with me, haha.

I've told this story before, but when I was about 9 or 10 it happened on a few occasions that various older boys guys would, separately, get me alone, get me to take my pants off, take their pants off too and then lie on top of me while they explained how to have sex with girls. All these boys have grown up to become straight now as far as I'm aware.

Sexuality is complicated. Kids experiment.

Bros acting gay as in loving their bros has always been a thing

R2 the sad part is I’ve found out about guys who were seriously homophobic doing lots of gay sex

even out gay guys become more "straight" or mainstream as they age

I sat in a gym class with a group of guys in middle who would talk about jerking off together in groups of 5 or more and having contests to see who could shoot the farthest. The seemed to have an encyclopedic knowledge of each other’s cock and load sizes.

Once a bottom, always a bottom.

I doubt they’re actually straight now. Probably still watch gay porn or hook up with dudes on the DL.

I'm a masculine bisexual guy, who was married to a woman and has two kids with her, in my early 40s and when I was about 12/13/14, me and my second cousin's, my Grandma 's sisters grandsons, who were brothers, used to all mess around with each other

The older one had been fucking the younger one for a couple of years and I just joined them, I still remember us all eating each other's asses after playing baseball one summer, and taking it from there

They're married and straight and with lots of kids now, and they still look good, the older one is a hot daddy type, they also had their own local grunge rock band when they were teens

I don’t get how people are so confident any of these men are straight. Just having a wife and kids doesn’t cut it for me. It’s the “straight” married men that have the most secrets and are freaky behind closed doors. The wife and kids are a front and help their public image.

R9, do you still see one another and acknowledge what you guys used to do?

I never thought circle jerks were real (amongst straight teenage boys, I don’t believe they’re all secretly gay). Unfortunately I was never invited to one.

R11 once I'm awhile but no, I'm friends with both on Facebook and the two brother, Richie and Chris, are still tight to, they were just commenting on each other's posts for back to school and their kids going back

They're both HOT, one is a hot daddy type, the other is just cute in a boy next door way

I still remember being in the pretzel position and eating Richie's ass on a dare

Thread should have been closed after R2.

R14 = Frau

R9

How old were the brothers at the time?

R16 I was 12, the oldest brother was 14, the younger one was 11

We couldn't keep our hands off of each other for awhile there, I even joined the older brothers baseball team

We were dirty horny boys

OP, R1 were the bottoms shitty? most boys have poor hygiene. who taught them how to boy-douche?

sorry, but straights guys never rim guys holes, never, ever, at no time in their lives even when young and full of hormones

R9, they’re still fucking around, even if you’re not included

Male expirimentation is more common than people think

Even studies show that a majority of men who have or had sexual relations with men don't identify as gay

The Heterosexual Elite who run society are terrified by this, lesbians are cool and girls expirementing is even encouraged , but men? The concept scares the hell out of them, even liberal women who hang with flamboyant gay men and go to PRIDE marches and shit, would probably throw a shit fit and even break up with the guy,of they found out their man has been with a guy at least once, even as a young boy

So there's very little actual REAL acceptance of male/male sexuality when you think about it

R19 well I stated I was bisexual and I love rimming ass and eating pussy, something about putting your mouth in those places and going crazy with your tongue....

The older brother always got rimmed, he never rimmed, it was his little brother or me

He would moon his little brother and fart in his face (again teen boys here) and dare him to lick his butt

Let me give this some thought, OP. It might ring a bell.

Ah, the Sweet carefree memories of adventurous youth...been there, done that. :-)

[quote]even liberal women who hang with flamboyant gay men and go to PRIDE marches and shit, would probably throw a shit fit and even break up with the guy,of they found out their man has been with a guy at least once, even as a young boy

Oh, come on. Have you ever peeked inside a fandom? Women will get shitty with anyone who cheats while with them; we know that. But if the kind of woman you're talking about found out her guy had experimented prior to knowing her it'd most likely turn her on, in the same way that two straight-looking women making out turns men on.

R25 nope not at all

Cosmopolitan, which skews liberal, did a poll a few years back and found that almost 70% of (mostly) liberal women, wouldn't date another guy whose been with the same gender even one time

That's why there's th downlow and other things

Women almost single-handedly keep homophobia going. They’re the gatekeepers.

R27 as a bisexual man who is R9, I would say yup

They're fine with gay men as long as they're obvious and flamboyant clowns but an average, attractive, masculine man who has messed around with and is open to messing around with other guys, enrages them

It makes them so angry, they can have lesbian expiremntations but men can't with other men

And mainstream gay men are too much of a pussy to call them out on it

R27

I don’t agree with that. Women are still far more likely to accept gay men. It’s why so many gay men have straight women friends and an attachment to their moms (who are most often the first family member to accept them)/women figures in their life and otherwise, and have “daddy issues”.

R29 they like flaming homos (who become hairdressers), when they’re accepting of the quarterback being gay, give us a call.

Maybe the point is that straight women aren't accepting of bisexual men, not gay men.

The majority of straight women don't want bisexual men as partners. An uncomfortable truth but a truth nonetheless.

R30

It’s not women (for the most part) attacking openly gay athletes.

Just looking at Carl Nassib’s top followers on Instagram, it’s mostly women and other gay/bi men.

R33 fawning over some Larry situation they’re fascinated by and real life acceptance are two different things.

R33 straight men are too scared to follow him because they know it’s a one-strike you’re out policy with straight women. They have to be masc at all times.

R9 You said you were married to a woman. Did your ex-wife know you were bisexual?

A lot of experimentation goes on in middle/high school, but I have my doubts that someone who was a pass around bottom turned straight. Married and cheating/repressed? sure.

R37 well I said married, I didn’t say faithful

My friend and I were a few months into thirteen when I spent the weekend at his house. We shared a bed and late at night while we were still talking, he asked," Do you have hair down there yet?" I said I did and he affirmed that he did also. Then he said," Let's see yours." So, we pulled down our pajamas and looked at each other's privates. Then he asked if I got hard. I said I did. We then pulled up our pajamas and put the covers back on. After we did that, I felt his hand going inside my pajamas and playing with my dick. I got hard instantly and put my hand down his to feel his hardon. We slept that way all night with our hands in each other's pants. When we woke up, we just jacked each other off. That evening, his parents were going to a party, so we told them we would make some popcorn and watch a movie. As soon as they left, we went downstairs, got naked, explored each other's bodies a little more. started playing with each other. I couldn't take it anymore and I sucked his dick, my very first time with sucking cock and taking a load in my mouth. We played more that night and the next morning. He ended up moving the next year and eventually marrying a young woman, then moving out of state. I haven't seen him since. I have sucked hundreds of dicks since then, but his was my first.

I'm super jealous of anyone who got to have fun with their buddies as tweens. Closest I ever got was an ass smack in gym class.

Another kidfucker D-E-F-A-C-T-O perv thread.

R41 = Frau whose only action before college was getting molested by her Dad

De-Fuckface and his lesions. What a combo.

R18, I have no idea, we didn't go anywhere near that part of our bodies. It was merely lying, missionary style, with no underwear on while the boys would talk to me about what I needed to do with girls when I got older.

Other than that it was things like using a torch to make penis shadow puppets on the wall. Just silly boys stuff.

r21 whether breeder cults or radical feminists, or even gay/queer theory which is largely built off of feminist and radical feminist theories, most don't believe in sexual attraction. . . and have a lot of hangups about sex in general. So, instead they focus on shit like the 5 loves or it's more updated version love languages. . . the egoism involved to separate themselves from the animal kingdom or just the need to police everything because of their overwhelming securities. But the politics frequently contradictions itself, so it inevitably leads to hedonistic rebellion.. which turn, causes a prudish backlash and we just swing from one extreme to the other. . .

all the while denying the differences between primary animalistic sexual attraction, wuv or emotional commitment and using other people as masturbatory toys.

Most of the time when a fag or dyke has consenting intercourse with the opposite sex, it's experimentation and while there may be an emotional component, they're still sorting out what they're attracted to and overall more akin to masturbation because for some, this isn't something they can figure out on their own. If they had access to a consenting same sex partner and a situation happened organically, it might be better.. but usually for them this kind of experimentation starts later when their previous same sex partners have 'grown out of it'

Just as with str8s often sexual experimentation is about availability and access... when they approach puberty they start instinctively sex sorting and often engage in sexual play. There may be an emotional component but rarely is there sexual attraction... it's more a means to an end. Girls tend to keep it above the waist and have make out sessions and are more open about having crushes, once boys discover they make their dicks move without their hands it becomes a social party trick to share with friends. . . and their households will always be missing a sock when they were sure they washed a pair.

str8s tend to grow out of same sex play though homoerotic aspects remain as their social groups remain largely homosocial -- what might bring a str8 person back is, again, a situation that denies safe access to the opposite sex.. so fulfilling physical or emotional needs when a proxy is available but often once there are greater options for compatibility, they revert to the natural inclinations.

gays/lesbians confirm their homosexuality, they may be able to recognize attractiveness in the opposite sex but it's not making their pants pound... their groups may be homosocial, particularly if they can find a community with other homosexuals or bisexuals, but they're more apt to hang with the opposite sex to avoid the tension and possible paranoia, gay panic. . . however, like str8s that may from time to time engage once again in homosexual activites.. there are some gays & lesbians that are closeted and will become involved in hetero relationships but it doesn't change their underlining sexual attractiosn. There are also some that engage in what some call sports fucking this is a complicated area which is often more a form of lashing out at society at large.

bisexuals find themselves in a harder spot if they're equally inclined, one foot in either world is being out of two for the most part. thus they tend to remain closeted, whether they lean more towards homosexuality or heterosexuality as many tend to. And retain a fair amount of distrust from str8 and gays/lesbians alike.

R45

R45, get a blog. Then proofread the fucking thing.

When we were kids my cousin and I used to cuddle each other on sleepovers. He’s married to a woman now.

I've never heard of such people. They do not exist.

Obligatory Brian Singer post

In all honesty, young guys are just tragically horny and would fuck anything. I think hormones surge and they just want their dick sucked by anybody. I don't even think they are consciously experimenting as much as just on hormone auto pilot.

R41 wtf? I like big macho guys and daddies. Not remotely into twinks, let alone kids.

Besides being borderline retarded, my haters suck at being gay. The whole art of reading someone is to hit them with the brutal truth. Not just making up non-sequitur insults.

We haven’t seen anything of that nature.

And yet, I hear sexual activity among today’s youth is way down

Maybe way down below the belt.

R54

It is down because a lot of young people today are socially anxious and are stuck at home along, eyes glued to their devices.

R56

*alone

r56 even in "progressive" schools, there are "puriteen" movements, like the issue of consent has been pushed so aggressively to such extremes... it's a common complaint of annoyance to people, mostly guys at that, that feel the need to ask permission before action. ("Is it okay if I touch you? Is it okay if I kiss you? Is it ok if I put my hand on your chest" "is it ok if I rub" "is it ok if I.....)

but this also pairs up with their reality that the majority of their sexual experiences are happening online... and not just porn, often it starts in large part from fandoms, to fan arts, to fanfiction, to roleplaying, to cyber sex and inevitably cams. Some theorize this is part and parcel in the increase of helicopter parents and the resistance against "free ranging"

they're socially and developmentally stunted as compared to previous generations because of this form of coddling, which continues onto universities that have regressed back towards paternalism. . . in fact, most of the students demand this paternalism and authoritarian control, guidance, to form a collective safe space.

gone are the numerous teen factions of the past as now they're lumped into a greater social collective that polices one another based on tiktok trends. They're conflict adverse... so, dealing with people outside of controlled environments are quite stressful for them.

r47 if you offer me a reasonable enough salary, I'll consider it but in the meantime, you can try petitioning the DL's owner to transform this into a limited character site to prevent offending your precious sensibilities and having a heart attack when people act outside of your control.

"Gay things"? Do you mean like discussing which celebrities might be gay?

r59

[quote]in fact, most of the students demand this paternalism and authoritarian control, guidance, to form a collective safe space.

I've started hearing more and more of the younger generation saying that legal adulthood shouldn't begin until 25. It's so weird. When I was a teen we we were desperate to get to adulthood.