Liking older men means you're a bottom?

[quote] Liking older men means you're a bottom?

Yes. 100%.

Young guys are not attracted to old bottoms.

Sorry!

Yea, I do.

I also automatically assume the shorter guy in a couple is the bottom.

And I assume the guy walking beside the shopping cart, rather than pushing, is the bottom.

It seems like the big muscle dudes are mostly bottoms these days

Not necessarily!

It means daddy issues.

Top = older, bigger body, more masculine, bigger dick

Bottom = smaller and younger

I'm 5'9 and by bf is 6'4 and I'm the top, so...

[QUOTE] I'm 5'9 and by bf is 6'4 and I'm the top, so...

This goes against nature.

My last three boyfriends were tops and I was taller in two cases but older in all three.

Unless you like to live dangerously and don’t mind ruining your sheets.

"A friend and I was having"

Oh, dear!

This is going to sound like an EST but it's 100% true. This happened yesterday.

We are starting to renovate our extra room and my partner contracted part of the job through Angi. Two very good-looking guys showed up and started working. Both were well-built but not crazy muscle. I'd say one was late 30s, the other I know was like 32. My partner read them as gay but I had only seen them for a moment so my 'dar didn't go off. I started chatting chatting with the older one and yes, they are married. Been together 10 years but play together. Turns out I knew the younger one when he was a bar back at a bar we used to go to. Anyway, they were both wearing shorts and at some point it became obvious the older one had a hardon. When our cocks came out, he had a huge one but it was clear he was a bottom. He sucked my cock some and I tried to put it in his ass but the it didn't happen. Turns out his partner was interested too and my partner was down with it. Unfortunately, it got late and they had to go but are coming back Wednesday.

The way this played out - I'd never have guessed. I was surprised as hell.

I'm 66 and my partner is 61. I'm the taller bigger top. My partner also tops with other men. I'm not going the "but we look younger" route, but one thing my partner and I got out of the genetic lottery is our hair is slow to gray. He has light brown hair and no gray. I have some gray mixed in but it's mostly dark brown. It is unusual for people our age. They knew I was on Medicare though.

It took a long time to get here but I agree with OP. Liking older men means you're a bottom.

r8, so you're jetpacking.

Simon Halls/Matt Bomer

Uh, no.

I would say yes, close to 100 percent of the time.

R1 isn't completely right - there are some daddy chasing younger tops - but they are few and far between.

More often than not, an old bottom means an old flouncing queen who has a closet full of caftans.

Nobody wants to fuck old ugly bottoms with stretched out holes. I feel bad for them because they are so desperate on gay apps and seem delusional.

When I was 25, I dated a 50-year old and I was the top. I loved daddy asses. And now that I’m closer to 50, I’ve discovered quite a few young men who love them, too.

Every man is a bottom at heart.

I don’t necessarily assume it, but I think it’s hotter that way. Yin and Yang baby!

I’m an older top who loves younger bottoms.

Always went for the older guys but then at 14 everyone was older than I. I liked bottoming. Then I grew up, found my inner stud, and married a man my own age. We were versatile (past tense since our sex life has dried up because of prostate cancer. Only the best bottoms get to the top.

R18- You just gave a perfect description of Richard Simmons.

It means you have a diaper fetish

I love the stereotype of the younger, shorter, prettier bottom who wants an older, taller and protective top daddy. That’s a MAJOR turn-on!

I assumed such a stereotype with a couple we met on a cruise. The big guy is Afrikaans, 6'4", weighs 270 or so, is 58 and he's always working out.

The little guy is Canadian, 5'5" and 36 and can't tip the Toledo at more than 125. And he's the top.

True for me. I've only dated older men - often much older. And I'm a bottom. There's nothing better than being with an older, masculine top. Wouldn't ever date someone younger than me. Honestly, I'm not even sure why. I guess the catch all "daddy issues". But it seems more I just like being the younger partner.

However, I am pretty tall (6'2") and am usually taller than my partner. But never by very much. There just aren't a ton of 6"3 guys who I happen to click with.