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Is there such a thing as too much masterbation?

I'm too embarrassed to tell my doctor that I jerk it Up to 4 times a day. I read somewhere that it's good for the prostate but I don't know if that's true? I can't ask my doctor she's a sweet old Jewish lady.

by Anonymousreply 43August 26, 2022 5:37 PM

Too much and you'll go blind. But you can do it until you need glasses.

by Anonymousreply 1August 25, 2022 4:31 PM

OP, it's only too much if you injure yourself. If you experience pain or notice chafing, you should probably give it a rest for a day or so. Otherwise, enjoy yourself and don't feel bad about it.

You should find a good gay male doctor that you feel comfortable talking to about sexual topics.

by Anonymousreply 2August 25, 2022 4:43 PM

Maybe get a male doctor?

by Anonymousreply 3August 25, 2022 4:46 PM

Have you started growing hair on your palms?

by Anonymousreply 4August 25, 2022 4:48 PM

How old are you, Op? According to the Gay Book of Initiation', it says you may 'masturbate up to five times until the age of 20, then one time less for every decade after until you hit zero'. Are you falling behind, Op?

by Anonymousreply 5August 25, 2022 4:48 PM

[quote]too much masterbation?

Oh, dear!

by Anonymousreply 6August 25, 2022 4:54 PM

Yes, that's too much, you're putting a strain on your prostate and your balls. The prostate is kept healthy if you ejaculate at least twice per week, so that can't be an argument for excessive masturbation.

Also, make sure you're taking a zinc supplement because that's the first thing that gets depleted if you're masturbating that often.

by Anonymousreply 7August 25, 2022 4:56 PM

Yeah, when it makes you misspell the subject of your post.

by Anonymousreply 8August 25, 2022 4:56 PM

Sounds excessive OP.

by Anonymousreply 9August 25, 2022 5:21 PM

[quote]Yes, that's too much, you're putting a strain on your prostate and your balls.

What are you basing this on? Do you have a link that describes what "too much" masturbation is, or how masturbation puts "a strain on your prostate and your balls?"

by Anonymousreply 10August 25, 2022 5:22 PM

If you spend all your free time masturbating, good for you. If you stop bathing or going to work or to your grandma's funeral because you have to masturbate, you have a problem.

by Anonymousreply 11August 25, 2022 5:37 PM

I prefer misterbation.

by Anonymousreply 12August 25, 2022 5:42 PM

[quote]too much masterbation?

I see brain damage has already struck FAT OP.

by Anonymousreply 13August 25, 2022 5:43 PM

[quote] I can't ask my doctor she's a sweet old Jewish lady.

Like this one?

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by Anonymousreply 14August 25, 2022 5:44 PM

1/10

by Anonymousreply 15August 25, 2022 5:47 PM

[quote]If you stop bathing or going to work or to your grandma's funeral because you have to masturbate, you have a problem.

What if it’s only Aunt Doris’s funeral?

by Anonymousreply 16August 25, 2022 5:47 PM

I can't do it four times a day, even twice makes my dick hurt. When I was young the most I ever did in one day was probably three times but it was only to see if I could, and I didn't really enjoy it. A few years back I had a time when I enjoyed creating sex scenarios while getting to sleep, and continued after waking up. It felt great and many times ended with a nice wank but now years later I've realized it was probably my depression which made me try to run from the reality. That said it felt awesome since I was constantly in this heightened stage of sensuality and sexuality. At that time I usually wanked at least once a day, sometimes two. Now I'm busy at work and barely manage to cum twice a week, which is a shame.

So OP, you can decide it yourself if wanking takes too much time from your life. I mean I spend like 5 hours in front of a tv each day and that's probably not nearly as fun as getting my rocks off. If your dick starts hurting do it less. You might want to take a look at the reasons why you need to spend so much time jerking off but then again maybe in the end it doesn't really matter. Just do what feels good for you.

by Anonymousreply 17August 25, 2022 5:49 PM

There is virtually nothing you can ask that will shock a doctor, especially one who is elderly, and even if they're someone's grandmother.

by Anonymousreply 18August 25, 2022 5:51 PM

It causes cognitive decline. Spelling is the first thing to go.

by Anonymousreply 19August 25, 2022 5:52 PM

I don't think there is even a thing called masterbation.

by Anonymousreply 20August 25, 2022 5:56 PM

58yo sgwm, I'm good for 3-4 times a week when the urge or free time occurs, but generally I prefer a good meal dining out with friends, or a good movie or the theater, anything social and intellectually stimulating. Upthread comments are basic and pertinent recommendations, but everything in moderation, You'll be fine... :-)

by Anonymousreply 21August 25, 2022 6:04 PM

Obviously that stuff about hairy palms, blindness etc is nonsense. But OP how is your sex life? If it isn’t ideal do you want more sex? Excessive masturbation (however defined) will impact desire and performance in the bedroom on some level. (Also some may not agree with me on this; but I definitely notice a difference in overall drive outside the bedroom, including at the gym, if I wank too much. Think there have been studies showing testosterone levels peak after a certain # days of abstaining). If you’re otherwise satisfied in those areas of your life then you’re probably ok.

by Anonymousreply 22August 25, 2022 6:52 PM

If Mother Nature didn't mean for you to have as many orgasms as you want to have she wouldn't have made it feel so damn good.

So no OP, there is not a thing as too much masturbation. If that's the only sexual outlet you have the jack that thing 'til it gets raw. But you need to look for some good horndogs to get nasty with too.

by Anonymousreply 23August 25, 2022 7:07 PM

I don't get the same intensity if I do it more than once a day. And if I hold off for a few days, it's blastoff.

by Anonymousreply 24August 25, 2022 7:14 PM

Miss OP’s real name is Master Batetor, Esq., Lord of the Castle.

by Anonymousreply 25August 25, 2022 7:22 PM

Ask that sweet old Jewish lady, Norman Bates.

You'll be surprised what she can stomach. D'ya think she doesn't know something about her young gay patients?

by Anonymousreply 26August 25, 2022 7:34 PM

✌ Yes, there is such a thing as too much mastubation.

by Anonymousreply 27August 25, 2022 7:39 PM

I'll be 70 in a few weeks, and I still do it three or four times a week.

by Anonymousreply 28August 25, 2022 9:00 PM

OP, are you a solosexual?

by Anonymousreply 29August 25, 2022 10:48 PM

I went to Harvard when Walter Jackson Bate was the shitty but distinguished professor of English Literature and a truly horrible human being. Closeted gay creep. But the fun fact was that, no matter how much he wanted it, he could never become a Master at any of the houses because they were all called Master and their last name. God knows what hell would have broken loose if they gave him that title.

by Anonymousreply 30August 25, 2022 10:53 PM

OP, are you the guy in the video linked at the below thread?

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by Anonymousreply 31August 25, 2022 11:10 PM

R30, I attended prep school in the '70s and we had to address all our professors as Master: Master Lewis, Master Anderson, Master Tyree, etc. Except for our French professor. He strode into the first class up to the blackboard and wrote in huge letters MISTER BATES. Turning to face us, he announced loudly "You will always address me as MISTER Bates."

by Anonymousreply 32August 25, 2022 11:23 PM

Oh, hell, OP. Go online and ask the generic question on some legitimate medical website. I'm doing it 3-4 times a week. Although I might go for weeks and do nothing. Then all of a sudden I get an urge. But then, I'm approaching Medicare age.

by Anonymousreply 33August 25, 2022 11:53 PM

Touche! R6, R8, R12, M-A-S-T-U-R-B-A-T-I-O-N. I didn't notice my mistake until after I posted and I hate that you can't go back and edit the OP so I'll "oh dear!" Myself haha. Actually I'm skinny as a rail R13 can I borrow some of your fat? I'm in a long distance relationship R22 but I have a really high sex drive so I find ways to stay occupied hehe. And to all the others with legitimate advice thanks a ton I appreciate it and am looking into changing doctors.

by Anonymousreply 34August 26, 2022 12:08 AM

OP was typing with one hand.

by Anonymousreply 35August 26, 2022 12:13 AM

R7 is full of shit. Ignore.

by Anonymousreply 36August 26, 2022 3:35 PM

Dr. Ruth Westheimer is a nice little old Jewish lady, OP!!!

by Anonymousreply 37August 26, 2022 3:38 PM

OP is a doll. I like him.

But I love R23. He seems like fun.

by Anonymousreply 38August 26, 2022 3:53 PM

r37, see r14.

by Anonymousreply 39August 26, 2022 4:24 PM

FOUR?? Amatuer.

by Anonymousreply 40August 26, 2022 4:43 PM

I had a new very handsome doctor for my regular check up last week. He told me I was going to have to stop masturbating.....I was a bit shocked and asked him why and he said:

"Because if you don't stop, I can't finish the examination."

by Anonymousreply 41August 26, 2022 4:58 PM

I laughed in spite of myself.

That’s cute.

by Anonymousreply 42August 26, 2022 5:25 PM

My proctologist was doing my exam and asked me how many times I had been fucked that week, I said four and he said no it's five. I said pretty sure it's four and he grunted and said not now, it's five.

by Anonymousreply 43August 26, 2022 5:37 PM
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